The 11-Year-Old Best Friends Transitioning Together | MY TRANS LIFE

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  • @saramohamed6405
    @saramohamed6405 4 года назад +4983

    0:58 her: I like the stars and color
    Me: just sees a blue shirt

    • @yogurtofthemultiverse2200
      @yogurtofthemultiverse2200 4 года назад +272

      I think there's little gold star patterns on it that are just hard to see. I have a similar shirt so

    • @Fortniteman2217
      @Fortniteman2217 4 года назад +74

      That’s weird but I saw just blue also.

    • @monk6874
      @monk6874 4 года назад +25

      Andrew Wagner look closely in full screen with highest graphics

    • @kramstephen2
      @kramstephen2 4 года назад +10

      It’s hard to see but there were stars

    • @moira_glynn6126
      @moira_glynn6126 4 года назад +1

      Same

  • @LauraLegends
    @LauraLegends 4 года назад +6753

    When I was 11 I was worried that Velma ran out of Scooby Snacks for Scooby Doo

  • @chelseae6226
    @chelseae6226 5 лет назад +5025

    anyone else remember being eleven and worrying ab whether hannah would choose jake or jessie

  • @hisroyalmajesty0844
    @hisroyalmajesty0844 2 года назад +232

    11 year old: I finally know who I am
    30 year old me: I still don't know what to do in life

  • @alcatandra
    @alcatandra 4 года назад +4577

    When I was 11 I sprayed perfume in my eye and believed my friend when she told me I was going to die because of it

    • @adeola_63
      @adeola_63 4 года назад +145

      Lol
      Sry I can't stop laughing that's hilarious

    • @laney3326
      @laney3326 4 года назад +61

      please my friend is 13 and she didn’t know I was joking when I said I drink rubbing alcohol so she tried drinking it

    • @sunshinealdc4676
      @sunshinealdc4676 4 года назад +22

      I'm 10 and I would 100% believe if my friend told me I would die from spraying perfume in my eye

    • @TheBirdGuy923
      @TheBirdGuy923 4 года назад +7

      Why did I do this the other day-

    • @faithfulcat1288
      @faithfulcat1288 4 года назад +5

      Why did this happen to me yesterday lmao

  • @destinyisstillhere7841
    @destinyisstillhere7841 4 года назад +4705

    11 year old: knows themself
    11 year old me: catfishing guys on MySpace for money in club penguin👀

  • @saraleguizamocifuentes3025
    @saraleguizamocifuentes3025 5 лет назад +2930

    "when Fiona was young" GIIIIIRRLL SHE IS ELEEEVEEEENNNNNN

    • @nickyannajones
      @nickyannajones 5 лет назад +138

      Hahahaha they are not mini adluts. They are children with under developed emotional, mental and discerning capabilities. That is not to say they arent unique individuals but they are developing unique individuals.

    • @chulokindia
      @chulokindia 5 лет назад +85

      I thought you were talking about the ogre for a good minute

    • @sparksfly6149
      @sparksfly6149 4 года назад +2

      er

    • @emilyadams9986
      @emilyadams9986 4 года назад +18

      Her name is actually Fiana. I think it might be a combination of Fiona and Tiana.

    • @dominicdouse7631
      @dominicdouse7631 4 года назад +18

      When I was 11 I had a mental age of 19 very few adults could understand why my vocabulary was better than theirs and several times if I joined a conversation before somone saw me they assumed I was much older and did I double take when they realised I was 11 by the age of 13 I was actually organising adults and advising politicians and helped run an election campaign that nearly got an mp in to parliament I can understand that people would consider 11 to be quite old

  • @juliannagraceee16
    @juliannagraceee16 Месяц назад +20

    stopp it actually makes me so sad that there are parents who would allow their kids to "transition" when their literally like 6. Boys can like girly things and still be boys

    • @aliasella488
      @aliasella488 Месяц назад

      Soon someone is gonna reply and say "oh there's no correlation"
      I'm so glad I was allowed to stay a tomboy

    • @Eight8Ball1208
      @Eight8Ball1208 11 дней назад

      Sybau

  • @Randomperson-fj9dt
    @Randomperson-fj9dt 5 лет назад +2128

    When I was 11 I thought I was pregnant because I hugged my best friend. I learnt a lot that year... haha

  • @thaizpark1105
    @thaizpark1105 4 года назад +2451

    When I was 11 years old, I used to turn the light off and running away afraid of satan lol

  • @anyyscuisine4000
    @anyyscuisine4000 3 года назад +923

    11 year old: I know who I am.
    11 year old me having a break down because I was told watermelon seeds would grow inside me.

    • @mihretshimels3176
      @mihretshimels3176 3 года назад +12

      i hated watermelon bc my cousins told me that

    • @anotherhetalian8499
      @anotherhetalian8499 3 года назад +6

      Same here, but with orange seeds

    • @angelinamackenzie7097
      @angelinamackenzie7097 3 года назад +18

      lol my grandpa used to say if I ate too much chicken I would turn into a actual chicken

    • @Keir_lain
      @Keir_lain 3 года назад +3

      @@angelinamackenzie7097 oml same but instead my family says it as a joke

    • @angelinamackenzie7097
      @angelinamackenzie7097 3 года назад +1

      @@Keir_lain same same

  • @weatheronthe8s895
    @weatheronthe8s895 3 года назад +440

    Given the fact that I was 11 when I first started to learn about me being a trans girl, but being too scared to accept it for myself in any true way until I was 18, it is very interesting to watch this. I desperately wish I could’ve grown up in an environment where I could be free to express myself. Sadly, I wasn’t though. Living as myself at this age would’ve been my dream. I did show signs as a younger child, but I was not really allowed to publicly show them.

    • @drhtldr1587
      @drhtldr1587 3 года назад +4

      Lol you're a dude

    • @weatheronthe8s895
      @weatheronthe8s895 3 года назад +24

      @@drhtldr1587 no I'm not

    • @drhtldr1587
      @drhtldr1587 3 года назад +10

      @@weatheronthe8s895 lol yes you are. denial doesn't alter reality.

    • @psychedeliccarrie5921
      @psychedeliccarrie5921 3 года назад +31

      This is how I was, I remember praying to God every night to give me the right parts. I never knew the terms or that hormones even existed but I knew that I was different. I am so grateful kids have this information now and can be who they truly are. Also, disregard the troll, these bigots cannot truly appreciate all of God's creation.

    • @brainfart747
      @brainfart747 3 года назад +25

      A lot of people don’t seem to understand that the symptoms of this condition can become apparent from as young as 3.
      Putting your child on Puberty Blockers before Puberty hits if they display symptoms of this condition is the right thing to do. It will lessen the chances of suicide and the development of severe G/SD [Gender/Sex Dysphoria], as well as lessening the chances of developing the common comorbidities, such as Depression and Anxiety Disorders.

  • @Catty-md5el
    @Catty-md5el 4 года назад +6341

    How lucky these kids are to have been born into such an understanding family

    • @coleworldvibes
      @coleworldvibes 4 года назад +255

      🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @wellthatsunfortunate9419
      @wellthatsunfortunate9419 4 года назад +151

      Yes, my family would slap me the whole way to Asia where I would be slapped back to my house. No but like actually they would tell me "your a girl and you'll LIKE it" lol

    • @itzjustasi4
      @itzjustasi4 4 года назад +84

      right my mom can barley adjust to me being bi 😐🌈

    • @pebbledrawssometimes8855
      @pebbledrawssometimes8855 4 года назад +14

      Eat With Juicee ok boomer

    • @axel_studio6393
      @axel_studio6393 4 года назад +13

      asia diane my mom doesn’t expect me being pan and trans

  • @enefj4173
    @enefj4173 5 лет назад +6143

    when i was 11 i was shaving all my barbies hair bald .

    • @charticiaAnderson
      @charticiaAnderson 5 лет назад +186

      Lol sounds about right i gave my dolls tattoos lol

    • @ruespeth2308
      @ruespeth2308 5 лет назад +31

      Enerico taukei abusive

    • @ruespeth2308
      @ruespeth2308 5 лет назад +20

      *sarcasm*

    • @urmom-om2qg
      @urmom-om2qg 5 лет назад +96

      same, i got in trouble for shaving my dolls head in the corner of my room at midnight.😂

    • @kebraarr
      @kebraarr 5 лет назад +33

      This is so relatable. Accept i did it by accident cuz i thought it would look nice.

  • @hoshitoshi
    @hoshitoshi 3 года назад +2136

    11 year old her: knows exactly who they are
    19 year old me: _WHO AM I_

    • @mellejobs7412
      @mellejobs7412 3 года назад +14

      Okay but did you know your gender?

    • @Kata_Rin
      @Kata_Rin 3 года назад +23

      @@mellejobs7412 I never really thought about it as a kid lol! I felt kinda confused at certain points in terms of masculinity and femininity but I think I know it now about 10 years later.

    • @Venus.Y
      @Venus.Y 3 года назад +6

      @@mellejobs7412 I didn't really care

    • @JustMe-hq7bl
      @JustMe-hq7bl 3 года назад +14

      That's my point. How or why would a parent let a CHILD do this when most adults can't settle on an occupation or what they want for dinner?!

    • @fatonyalmitchell3281
      @fatonyalmitchell3281 3 года назад +5

      😅😅😅 still searching ‼️

  • @tiffanyrose9026
    @tiffanyrose9026 2 года назад +50

    “I just want my kid to be happy “ 20 years later “mom why can’t I make children”

    • @hi78889
      @hi78889 7 месяцев назад +3

      You can't get hormones until you're 18, so they would definitely know the effects. This comment makes no sense.

    • @GangleGoneInsane
      @GangleGoneInsane 4 месяца назад

      ​@@hi78889some people have hormones before 18 because they're parents don't know. Watch documents about detransitioners who got hormones way too early and regret it.

  • @janiyahprice7093
    @janiyahprice7093 5 лет назад +774

    When I was a 11 I wanted to know what a cloud tasted like, that was only 2 years ago...... I still want to know.

  • @tiredpeaches
    @tiredpeaches 4 года назад +3303

    11 year old: I finally know who I am
    14 year old me: *having an existential identity crisis 4 times a day*
    Edit: 17 now: I’m a trans guy

  • @angelagladstone8863
    @angelagladstone8863 Год назад +233

    A girl brain and a girl heart. What does that even mean? Can a boy not also be sensitive and compassionate, grow their hair long and play with dolls? Can a girl not climb trees and play rough? We define gender tighter than when I grew up in the 70s.

    • @amesblitz339
      @amesblitz339 11 месяцев назад +24

      Yes they can do those things. But gender roles or stereotypes are not the same as gender identity.

    • @Susanmugen
      @Susanmugen 11 месяцев назад +6

      Girl brain is like thicker corpus collosum, thicker anterior collosum, size ratio of amygdala to hypothalamus consistent with female gender...
      "Girl heart" is just metaphorical and about subjective feelings

    • @anonymousalias8111
      @anonymousalias8111 10 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@Susanmugennot all of us, especially us with apd no, not "girl heart" what an insufferable term.

    • @zelda8207
      @zelda8207 6 месяцев назад +5

      Well, she also gets gender dysphoria. Did you research that? (just out of curiosity, as I learned quite a bit and was surprised by what I learned)

    • @robertomendez187
      @robertomendez187 6 месяцев назад

      A TRUTH BOMB:
      Westernized civilization, like America, is greedy enough to capitalize on the trans movement and tell you the lie that you’re born in the wrong body and that mother nature made a mistake but in reality, science and biology don’t make mistakes when you’re born a boy or a girl, and no matter how delusional and brainwashed someone gets, they are still what they were born as. If you’re a feminine man or a masculine woman so what… but we should all learn to love the body that we were born into because we’re all lucky to be alive, God dammit; people don’t have enough gratitude or appreciation for just how amazing their body is, and if you listen to the music and watch Disney movies in America, then you’re going to be given the red Kool-Aid that doesn’t lead to happiness, but instead a lie for others (doctors) to capitalize on.

  • @Ann
    @Ann 6 лет назад +3256

    I want to see her again at 18. Puberty has not even hit yet. Ive heard stories by guys who felt like this but then later on they were glad they didnt transition because they wanted to stay guys when they got older.

    • @-valkyrie-00
      @-valkyrie-00 6 лет назад +123

      ive heard stories!! it must be trueeeeee!!

    • @kakaphd3563
      @kakaphd3563 6 лет назад +127

      @@-valkyrie-00 I have a long tounge!!!! So I must be a lizard!!!!!

    • @Treemeadow
      @Treemeadow 6 лет назад +118

      Thats why hormone blockers are important. They don't give estrogen or testosterone until at least 14, usually later. Often not til 18

    • @lilgabbyangel
      @lilgabbyangel 6 лет назад +26

      I think the hormones they will take will actually block their puberty..

    • @danny347
      @danny347 6 лет назад +19

      It's no longer listed in the DSM.
      @babe brown

  • @soynuggets6176
    @soynuggets6176 5 лет назад +772

    When I was 11 I was begging my dad for a membership on club penguin

  • @zero-zt2sk
    @zero-zt2sk 5 лет назад +3594

    *when i was 11 i was 11*

  • @rayashleigh494
    @rayashleigh494 2 года назад +31

    I was a tomboy, loved short hair and “boy stuff” as a child and I’m SOO happy I’m a woman and didn’t transition.
    You are WAY too young to make those decisions . Kids minds change all the time
    God please protect these children.

    • @odessawales
      @odessawales 2 года назад +3

      Cool but female to males are not tomboys and they can be feminine with a feminine name so they're not a tomboy

    • @ashlisaltalmachia2887
      @ashlisaltalmachia2887 2 года назад +1

      Yep I was a tomboy also,big time..not ever did I once thought I wanted to be a boy..

    • @odessawales
      @odessawales 2 года назад +6

      @@ashlisaltalmachia2887 then you're not transgender. Congratulations. You don't face discrimination

    • @rayashleigh494
      @rayashleigh494 2 года назад

      @@odessawales ok but kids are WAY tooo young to make these decisions.
      Have you watched any de-transitioning videos?
      The people who regret transitioning because they were too young to make That decision.

    • @odessawales
      @odessawales 2 года назад +1

      @@rayashleigh494 yea. I'm a kid (14) and I know I'm trans tho

  • @garlicbread8906
    @garlicbread8906 4 года назад +4156

    Can we all just appreciate how her vocabulary is bigger than my future.

    • @peninsulaoutdoors854
      @peninsulaoutdoors854 4 года назад +19

      Same 🤣😂

    • @deeczx8962
      @deeczx8962 4 года назад +45

      @@regionalrange3052 Excuse me?

    • @themommabear7484
      @themommabear7484 4 года назад +34

      Hahaha
      y’all, Lily has her own mind and speaks her own truth. Unfortunately, some people don’t believe a child can be given the freedom to do so. Scary
      And what does being fat have to do with anything? I’m thin now and am still an awesome mom whose child is happy and loves to talk to me and spend time with me. If that’s weird to you, I’m sorry for your kids

    • @loaf5483
      @loaf5483 4 года назад +15

      @@themommabear7484 I know right? Just because she us young doesn't mean she can't think

    • @joshgreen7404
      @joshgreen7404 4 года назад +8

      *him

  • @megansmith2785
    @megansmith2785 5 лет назад +975

    "right before here 8th birthday she came out her room one morning and she said im lily all the time now, only use girl pronouns" I didnt even know whaat a pronoun was until I was probably 13

    • @zareena1197
      @zareena1197 5 лет назад +16

      Hahahaha omg right!? I was thinking that!

    • @thethethe7892
      @thethethe7892 5 лет назад +65

      This is what we get when we allow youtube to babysit and educate the children... I didn't know what they were until I was in my 20's...

    • @jessp4016
      @jessp4016 5 лет назад +25

      @@thethethe7892 you didn't know because no one said it but now we're connected and people are more aware of the existence of gender dysphoria. You could apply that to anything that wasn't in the news during your childhood. They teach the word pronoun in elementary school English though.
      And you have to view things you don't understand from the perspective that's actually involved. Kids and parents often know by age 3 or 4 that they're different. Ignoring the dysphoria wouldn't make sense.

    • @Go4Noctis
      @Go4Noctis 5 лет назад +15

      @@thethethe7892 Yes they are all being brainwashed even though they are constantly inundated with the cisnormative culture they decided otherwise. Just like the gays right?

    • @lauren-er2ki
      @lauren-er2ki 5 лет назад +32

      i learned pronouns in first grade 💀

  • @blackandbluebruises3667
    @blackandbluebruises3667 5 лет назад +1311

    okay, the dad(s) are low-key not having it lmao
    edit: omfg so many likes :o thanks!

    • @Face1essAsh
      @Face1essAsh 5 лет назад +11

      Relating to them so hard.

    • @Rezisorss
      @Rezisorss 5 лет назад +17

      Because he looks like soy boy, like seriously, he is more feminine than his wife

    • @meysahamed
      @meysahamed 5 лет назад +4

      BluePanic [Comen] I hate trans

    • @blackandbluebruises3667
      @blackandbluebruises3667 5 лет назад +17

      @@meysahamed I hate you uwu

    • @josiahmontgomery6303
      @josiahmontgomery6303 5 лет назад +4

      Those aren’t men. They’re shells of a man.

  • @kaimedina4815
    @kaimedina4815 2 года назад +153

    I am a trans male in a friend group of three! We all transitioned from female to male around the same time, and became close friends after realizing what we all had in common. I am so grateful to have gone through this experience not alone. Same story as these three but other way around!

    • @cuteduckdontlie4636
      @cuteduckdontlie4636 2 года назад +5

      Lots of love ❤️ to you all ❤️

    • @kayyy8733
      @kayyy8733 2 года назад +5

      Aw awesome!

    • @kayyy8733
      @kayyy8733 2 года назад +7

      @Lydian R your speaking the truth and nothing else less. Too much hate in the world in general and on the trans group and I'll shame anyone who tells them that they can't be that way.

    • @benjaminnewman7688
      @benjaminnewman7688 2 года назад +8

      You don’t need expensive surgeries or hormones. Being beautiful is being who u are without that stuff. You are a marginalized group with a dollar sign on your head

    • @benjaminnewman7688
      @benjaminnewman7688 2 года назад

      You cant change genders. You can only play make believe

  • @shakirashakira388
    @shakirashakira388 5 лет назад +5831

    I think when I was 11 I was selling mud food to my siblings for leaf money🤔
    btw I'm 20
    Edit- for the snowflakes replying😴 yes I support 🏳️‍🌈 and what does my comment have to do with this video? Uhm absolutely nothing so why get mad...let it be

    • @cjtooraw
      @cjtooraw 5 лет назад +89

      Shakira Coye right 😂😂 on god 😂😂😂

    • @kaylajane7865
      @kaylajane7865 5 лет назад +38

      Yep my childhood to a t

    • @melisamoyo3410
      @melisamoyo3410 5 лет назад +21

      Oooh no thats me 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @rayray5472
      @rayray5472 5 лет назад +38

      I remember those days as well... Good times... Great times in fact..

    • @okaythostfu_
      @okaythostfu_ 5 лет назад +11

      Shakira Coye Same 🙃🤣

  • @allisonmorgan6912
    @allisonmorgan6912 6 лет назад +1580

    I’m female and when I was a kid I loved to dress in boys clothing, play with action figures and toy swords, dress up as a knight, etc. Eventually grew out of it, and now I’m super girly. Parents should be careful allowing kids to make such important decisions that have permanent consequences based on what could have been a temporary phase.
    Edit: I understand being a tom boy and transgender are different. I’m just pointing out the changes we go through in life, so I’m saying be careful and take some time to really consider before making such drastically permanent decisions.

    • @Noa......
      @Noa...... 6 лет назад +72

      How is being a tomboy the same as being trans? You are conflating gender expression (masculinity and femininity) and gender identity (female, male and other). Being trans is more than how you behave and dress.

    • @dany_cast
      @dany_cast 6 лет назад +8

      Wait does this mean imma be super girly noooooooooo

    • @stacynewton34
      @stacynewton34 6 лет назад +14

      I agree .i was a tomboy and my mom was to growing up. Its the same thing they just take it to a next level

    • @stacynewton34
      @stacynewton34 6 лет назад +8

      M its actually the same in so many ways

    • @aslysimpe6201
      @aslysimpe6201 6 лет назад +18

      @@stacynewton34 no it's not, they might get depressed, anxiety and other things, being a tomboy or a girly girl/boy is differently to being trans

  • @yourfriendlyneighborhoodbl1520
    @yourfriendlyneighborhoodbl1520 4 года назад +782

    Her: my parents love me for who I am :)
    Me, in the closet: *that must be nice.*

    • @census467
      @census467 3 года назад +26

      aww i hope things work out

    • @Zackisnotdead
      @Zackisnotdead 3 года назад +31

      I tried to come out but I was shoved back in against my will-
      This is a hostage situation. Send help.

    • @Thanks4AllTheFunTimes1221
      @Thanks4AllTheFunTimes1221 3 года назад +2

      Same

    • @Thanks4AllTheFunTimes1221
      @Thanks4AllTheFunTimes1221 3 года назад +7

      @@Zackisnotdead We are gonna help with emotional support. YOU CAN DO IT AND YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND YOU ARE YOU!

    • @cupid1280
      @cupid1280 3 года назад +1

      I’m sorry :( that sucks.

  • @JDS040
    @JDS040 Месяц назад +6

    No one else finds it odd that so many kids are transitioning in the last few years seems like ever since it started being shown more in schools, tv shows,movies, social media ect more and more kids r becoming trans. I wonder what would happen if we weren’t so open about this would so many ppl / kids still become trans.

    • @lunachan682
      @lunachan682 16 дней назад

      They would still be trans girl

    • @V.CatCroissant
      @V.CatCroissant 15 дней назад

      ​@lunachan682"trans" is gender stereotypes which are to be rejected.

  • @thorisomolefe2276
    @thorisomolefe2276 5 лет назад +2033

    Wait, why does an 11 year old know about psychedelics?

    • @normani9244
      @normani9244 5 лет назад +169

      Thoriso Molefe I don’t even know what that means I’m 14😭😭😭 When she said that I was like wth does that mean

    • @thorisomolefe2276
      @thorisomolefe2276 5 лет назад +22

      @@normani9244 You and me both (when I was 14)🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @HarryPotterfan22222
      @HarryPotterfan22222 5 лет назад +12

      that's what i was thinking too

    • @BlazingUnicorn
      @BlazingUnicorn 5 лет назад +16

      I'm glad someone mentioned it

    • @heykerryann
      @heykerryann 5 лет назад +51

      Thoriso Molefe what got me was “foreshadowing”. I know a lot of kids and not one will tell me that a T-shirt is a sign of foreshadowing

  • @peytatoakapeyton450
    @peytatoakapeyton450 5 лет назад +454

    Is no one gonna talk about how pretty Lily’s eyes are?

  • @oleenkoo.t7804
    @oleenkoo.t7804 6 лет назад +1962

    I am a Christian 13 year old cis girl. I have absolutely no problem with this video. Let the kids be who they feel they truly are.

    • @sylviagoodwin7093
      @sylviagoodwin7093 6 лет назад +17

      Oleenkoo .T you speak the truth.

    • @sylviagoodwin7093
      @sylviagoodwin7093 6 лет назад +9

      You Numpty what were you going to say? something rude?

    • @silvers2211
      @silvers2211 6 лет назад +14

      Sylvia Goodwin Probably because that is the correct way to respond seeing these madness.

    • @lyricsandlemons1138
      @lyricsandlemons1138 6 лет назад +5

      I stan

    • @Vhicgi
      @Vhicgi 6 лет назад +1

      Oleenkoo .T same here

  • @tattedmamma_91
    @tattedmamma_91 2 года назад +112

    When I was 5-13 I mostly had male friends, wore boy clothing, played with boy toys and even had an alternative name I went by. But I grew out of it. Now that I am a grown adult I still have more male interests other than who I am attracted too. I also have 2 kids

    • @nebulonicc
      @nebulonicc Год назад +15

      Being trans isn't about interests and clothing

    • @Fangirlbleach
      @Fangirlbleach Год назад

      Tomboys are really common, and have nothing to do with being trans.

    • @mleszzor6866
      @mleszzor6866 10 месяцев назад +11

      @@nebulonicc Exactly. But even then, these parents mistook interests and clothing for being trans.

    • @mewho6199
      @mewho6199 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@nebulonicc That's usually what trans people point as the evidence they were "in the wrong body" all along. It's based on sexist stereotypes and not reality. The reality is there is no such thing as a trans child. Parents are doing this to their children.

    • @CriminailArts
      @CriminailArts 9 месяцев назад

      Same..

  • @littlefluffycloud6936
    @littlefluffycloud6936 6 лет назад +2330

    No hate but...
    I said no hate!!!!!! Why is there so much hate on this video ! Just be nice human beings!

    • @thephandmphamilywithalvefo3307
      @thephandmphamilywithalvefo3307 6 лет назад +31

      HappyCheese yass!!! Spread love and positivity :))

    • @littlefluffycloud6936
      @littlefluffycloud6936 6 лет назад +17

      the phandøm phamily with a løve for drama
      thanks for the support ! I just don’t get why people have to hate on everything . It’s her choice to be transgender not theirs.

    • @thephandmphamilywithalvefo3307
      @thephandmphamilywithalvefo3307 6 лет назад +7

      HappyCheese exactly! Honestly I just can’t wrap my head around it

    • @kitschycadet4689
      @kitschycadet4689 6 лет назад +10

      HappyCheese I really agree! The kids should be allowed to be themselves and experiment, so many people. Are just saying that because they're kids they aren't allowed to choose.

    • @maybematt3796
      @maybematt3796 6 лет назад +19

      @@littlefluffycloud6936 being trans isn't a choice.

  • @kenziekaelynn4606
    @kenziekaelynn4606 4 года назад +1787

    11 year old: Knowing who they finally are and what they identify as
    14 year old me: trying to figure out whether in straight, Bi, Or lesbian
    Edit:
    it's come to my attention that I used the word deciding. As in meaning I get to choose. I'm am sorry for the misunderstanding. my intentions were never that. I meant it as in Im figuring out if I'm bi Lesbian or straight.

    • @mackenziebarsano9737
      @mackenziebarsano9737 4 года назад +33

      That's my life

    • @bealis7
      @bealis7 4 года назад +14

      Mf faxs bruh 😌

    • @mimithedvamain311
      @mimithedvamain311 4 года назад +20

      Yh me but replace it with 16 and not knowing what I’m doing with my life lol

    • @isabelfayer244
      @isabelfayer244 4 года назад +7

      Mood

    • @justchez2742
      @justchez2742 4 года назад +6

      Dude I didn’t know anyone else was barley watching this now and you’ll figure yourself out eventually :)

  • @sywitz
    @sywitz 6 лет назад +602

    Presenting as the gender you identify with is perfectly fine. It was never implied that these girls were taking hormones. I agree that hormone therapy is a very important decision that should be waited on until a certain age, but there is nothing wrong with the narrative of the video.

    • @brooklynking9329
      @brooklynking9329 6 лет назад +20

      Finally a comment that has some sense to it in this flood of ignorance.

    • @noahbent8125
      @noahbent8125 6 лет назад +22

      They're probably just on hormone blockers so that the girls have tim to decide what they want before anything irreversible happens

    • @alexicobena3909
      @alexicobena3909 6 лет назад +4

      Kuba Marcin transgenders have always been a thing, even ever since 1952. do your research, buddy.

    • @freyjasvansdottir9904
      @freyjasvansdottir9904 6 лет назад +3

      Kuba Marcin There have always been transgender people through history, and sadly many of them just committed suicide because there was no option to be one self. Look at the current state of things a progress! www.cbc.ca/doczone/m/features/timeline-transgender-through-history

    • @hyperbabe2009
      @hyperbabe2009 4 года назад

      Noah Bent even that should not be allowed at their age.

  • @voidackerman2082
    @voidackerman2082 2 года назад +46

    I don’t get it. I played football with the boys and was into cars and other toys made for boys. I didn’t like shopping, makeup, or playing dress up and even wondered what it was like to be a boy. It was just a phase, though. I’m glad my parents weren’t crazy like this.

    • @sorgulayanyolcu2443
      @sorgulayanyolcu2443 8 месяцев назад

      So you were or/and are attracted to men? I wonder it

    • @voidackerman2082
      @voidackerman2082 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@sorgulayanyolcu2443 i am very attracted to men

    • @hi78889
      @hi78889 7 месяцев назад +2

      But did you belive you were a boy? Your completely avoiding that question. Being trans has nothing to do with interests.

    • @sorgulayanyolcu2443
      @sorgulayanyolcu2443 7 месяцев назад

      @@hi78889 i think your question is important, but far more important thing is; if she/this person felt herself as woman after the age of 16 and now, because i hear people who had confusion as a child and adolescence but then integrate good into their biological gender.

    • @voidackerman2082
      @voidackerman2082 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@hi78889 hell no but i wanted to be one. I didn’t think there was a possibility because my parents didn’t feed me a twisted mantra of being able to choose your gender. If they did I wonder if I could’ve bought into that as an immature little kid.

  • @sinalogqunu9232
    @sinalogqunu9232 4 года назад +1914

    I'd love to hear them reflect about their life 10 years from now, when they're older.

    • @cherrycardinal2318
      @cherrycardinal2318 4 года назад +36

      Same here

    • @-raecat-
      @-raecat- 4 года назад +198

      I bet they would be happy they transitioned so early.

    • @cherrycardinal2318
      @cherrycardinal2318 4 года назад +15

      @@-raecat- yeah

    • @fememoboy7601
      @fememoboy7601 4 года назад +83

      I feel so bad for them, it’s like watching a toddlers and tiaras episode 😭

    • @maribelcl88
      @maribelcl88 4 года назад +53

      Me too. I support trans people although I'm aware some homosexual people get a wrong idea about themeselves and think they are transgender. It's a very sensitive and prickly issue.

  • @linzihan
    @linzihan 6 лет назад +3812

    Lol when I was 11 all I wanted was my Hogwarts acceptance letter😂
    Edit: Aahhhhh my small comment got noticed!!
    Wingardium Leviooooooooosa!
    Edit 2: thank you so much for da likes💓
    POTTERHEADS rule ok
    edit 3: 1st sep 2020. wow, just came back to this comment. i’m definitely older and more mature, but even through character development i fully agree w my year ago self. stay safe everyone!

    • @jello3245
      @jello3245 6 лет назад +45

      ikr when I was 11 no one talked about that stuff because no one cared or new what trans even meant it's the newer generation rip

    • @laurenbracco4453
      @laurenbracco4453 6 лет назад +3

      Lin Zihan omg same

    • @linzihan
      @linzihan 6 лет назад +2

      @@jello3245 Ikr!

    • @linzihan
      @linzihan 6 лет назад +1

      @@laurenbracco4453 #HPrules

    • @AL-ks7yg
      @AL-ks7yg 6 лет назад +11

      I'm still waiting :")

  • @zxapgames1799
    @zxapgames1799 4 года назад +4598

    When i was 11 i didnt even know what transgender was.

    • @Zeekcurrent
      @Zeekcurrent 4 года назад +241

      @@randomcat7246 well, it's they're life back in 2013 when I was 11 I was told being LGBT is bad
      Now I think it's great and so do alot of kids

    • @khkayla6575
      @khkayla6575 4 года назад +401

      I feel like 11 year olds, no matter how mature they are, shouldn’t be making a big decision like that. It’s okay for them to ask to be referred to as a girl if they truly feel female but I don’t think they should alter their bodies yet (like hormones or surgery). There’s too many kids (and adults) who transition and regret it later in life. Sometimes it’s really hard for people detransition and it puts them in a horrible mental state
      I hope the girls in this video are truly happy with being female later in life. They seem like smart kids, I just really hope that don’t make an irreversible decision they’ll regret

    • @Zeekcurrent
      @Zeekcurrent 4 года назад +42

      @@khkayla6575 I respect ur opinion

    • @Njeri-
      @Njeri- 4 года назад +64

      @@khkayla6575 I agree with you, it's not okay

    • @Mke_Vicc
      @Mke_Vicc 4 года назад +5

      EXACTLY

  • @elixto2769
    @elixto2769 2 года назад +9

    Why is every comment (almost) like:
    When I was 11 I didn’t know my ABCs
    When I was 11 I drank water
    When I was 11 I didn’t know what breathing was

  • @rashannasmith3599
    @rashannasmith3599 5 лет назад +273

    When i was eleven i wanted 60 pounds of skittles😭

    • @gamingwithemmy3468
      @gamingwithemmy3468 5 лет назад +4

      I wanted to twist my tongue... Also skittles r so good

    • @teaj4218
      @teaj4218 5 лет назад

      ME TOOOOOO

    • @MohiniDabarwal
      @MohiniDabarwal 5 лет назад +1

      I am 30 and I would still take that!

    • @2025ishere
      @2025ishere 2 месяца назад

      Yas I wanted candy like any candy I liked all candy lol i ate way to much

    • @aisha_cookie217
      @aisha_cookie217 Месяц назад +1

      Skittles? EWWWWWWW M&M’s are better.

  • @juliegullberg9003
    @juliegullberg9003 4 года назад +260

    “...and i wanted to be her friend 😄”
    Awwww that literally melted my heart ❤️

    • @rockergirl666
      @rockergirl666 4 года назад

      Me too. I love this 🥰🥰🥰

  • @rinrin5849
    @rinrin5849 4 года назад +3909

    When I was 11, I didn’t even know what LGBTQ+ was-

  • @hrts4max
    @hrts4max Год назад +6

    as a 14 yr old trans male who's transitioning, this gave me sm hope

    • @AlexanderCoretha
      @AlexanderCoretha 8 месяцев назад +2

      As a 30+ yrs trans i dream to be able to return to my 11 and have a possibility to transition at that age. Due to family/close relatives where all this was prohibited and the society where it was condemned, the resulting consequences like a training programme what I should do to fit the role i must live according to assigned gender was really huge challenge

  • @mekashikakira59
    @mekashikakira59 5 лет назад +744

    When I was 11 I had a lemonade stand
    I drank all of the lemonade
    SLURP 😫😫

  • @kelseyclough4944
    @kelseyclough4944 6 лет назад +937

    If I didn't read the title I wouldn't have even known they were trans

  • @nou6245
    @nou6245 5 лет назад +451

    Nobody:
    Not a single soul:
    Everyone in the comments: *wHeN I wAs 11, i WaNtEd To Be a ToAsTeR*

    • @aggressivepie6860
      @aggressivepie6860 5 лет назад +9

      @Quazi Roberts Then consider me a raging homosexual~

    • @nvnax
      @nvnax 5 лет назад +3

      I said microwave doofus

    • @tomtrench7732
      @tomtrench7732 5 лет назад +2

      Well, i mean... I kinda want to be a tOaStEr

    • @JET7C0
      @JET7C0 5 лет назад +1

      The "Nobody: " meme almost never makes sense. It was initially meant as a joke about someone saying or doing something completely unexpected and out of nowhere, but in this case it makes _tons of sense_ that people would be talking about what they did at 11 given the topic of the video, and literally *_tons of people_* are commenting about it which is the _complete opposite_ of "Nobody"
      - it's such a bad joke at this point.

    • @-d3lus10nz-8
      @-d3lus10nz-8 5 лет назад

      *same*

  • @MKEditsxx
    @MKEditsxx Месяц назад +2

    Let kids express themselves however they want through clothes, activity choices, hair, ... Parents should love them unconditionally and be their security and comfort
    But it is a crime if a doctor or a parent gives them any hormones, puberty blockers or sterilizes them
    It is bad for their physical and emotional health especially at a young age where their body and brain is still developing, and could cause permanent damage, and as parents we should protect our children from any harm
    Once they become adults, they are free to choose however they wish their body to look like
    But what's most beautiful is when parents teach their kids to love themselves as they are, because a lot of things in life are NOT in our own hands, not everything that happens to us is in our control, learning acceptance of certain things as they are, brings so much love to our hearts and peace to our souls 💞
    I speak from my own struggles and experiences that I've overcome 🙏🏻

  • @marendranodi2693
    @marendranodi2693 4 года назад +694

    When I was 11 years old, I ate bubblegum and my sister convinced me that I had 24 hours to live.

  • @AloysiusWaffle
    @AloysiusWaffle 5 лет назад +528

    I have no problem with Lilly but if her name was Jack then shouldn’t she be named Jill...
    I’ll see my self out

  • @xxventura2280
    @xxventura2280 6 лет назад +5040

    When I was 11 I wanted to be a cloud

    • @obviouslyame3929
      @obviouslyame3929 6 лет назад +174

      when i was 11 i wanted to be a toaster

    • @LarryGambino
      @LarryGambino 6 лет назад +109

      when i was 11 i wanted to be otto rocket .

    • @eldrichzirconia7832
      @eldrichzirconia7832 6 лет назад +88

      Leona Fraser when I was 11 I wanted to be Obiwan Kenobi from Star Wars.
      Still do and I’m 13 I have a Yoda pillow and a lightsaber

    • @deletedkneecaps
      @deletedkneecaps 6 лет назад +80

      When I was 11 I wanted to be an attack helicopter

    • @MA-ii3gm
      @MA-ii3gm 6 лет назад +10

      Zero Gravity how long did it take you to think about that one? Never heard it before

  • @isaak1748
    @isaak1748 3 года назад +115

    I'd wish someone would've been for me as a child and told me that I'm not disgusting or weird. It's heartwarming to see there are parents who are so supportive.

    • @Marshalkonstantin
      @Marshalkonstantin 2 года назад +14

      Let them become older before they make a horrible life changing decision to turn themselves into mutants like that.

    • @chimmichurri6940
      @chimmichurri6940 Год назад +4

      I legit didnt think you watch the video....

  • @itaysror6591
    @itaysror6591 6 лет назад +1873

    .“I finally know who I was meant to be” is not a sentence that a 10 year old can even understand...

    • @Splajuja
      @Splajuja 6 лет назад +57

      Emma Planas “so what you are saying” one of the most idiotic ways to start off your argument/disagreement don’t try to put what his saying in your own words by summarizing it into what you think his saying it’s a emotional based response and most people who have studied debate and communication realize how uneducated people are who start of there disagreements with that

    • @santiagopichiringo8476
      @santiagopichiringo8476 6 лет назад +34

      @Emma Planas That is exactly right. Kids don't know they are unexperienced, so they say confidently on matters they don't understand.

    • @santiagopichiringo8476
      @santiagopichiringo8476 6 лет назад +19

      @Emma Planas until you as a human being, suffer, life's will, is aiming a response. Which won't be as nice as you define it. These kids think that because they play with dolls, they are to consider themselves girls.

    • @TomasGarcia-zd1tg
      @TomasGarcia-zd1tg 6 лет назад +1

      You are sooooo wrong

    • @rachaelr71
      @rachaelr71 6 лет назад +5

      Amen

  • @zomboy9816
    @zomboy9816 4 года назад +1279

    "When I was 11, I was.."
    My friend knew he was trans since he was 10. Kids at that age aren't that stupid, they can distinguish their feelings.

    • @hq4287
      @hq4287 4 года назад +46

      Thank you 💜

    • @jamietehslytherin9558
      @jamietehslytherin9558 4 года назад +44

      I knew I was trans since I was 10 to my new name is kai

    • @stupidkilljoy3516
      @stupidkilljoy3516 4 года назад +24

      Are you my friend? I came out at 10 (but im still 10 so lolllll)

    • @jamietehslytherin9558
      @jamietehslytherin9558 4 года назад +14

      @@stupidkilljoy3516 sameeee

    • @hq4287
      @hq4287 4 года назад +15

      @@stupidkilljoy3516I'm 23 and you guys are so cute

  • @ameliashandcraftedmemes7888
    @ameliashandcraftedmemes7888 4 года назад +377

    You could turn these comments into lyrics
    _When i was 11 i was shaving all my barbies hair bald_
    _When I was 11 I thought I was pregnant because I hugged my best friend_
    _When I was 11 I was begging my dad for a membership on club penguin_
    _When I was 11 I was 11..._

    • @berryblast9817
      @berryblast9817 3 года назад +3

      😂😂😂

    • @qwertypotato4041
      @qwertypotato4041 3 года назад +18

      the club penguin part got me.😂😂😂😂

    • @Cupcake_Royale
      @Cupcake_Royale 3 года назад +5

      the last one is so true like omg

    • @mariabria2671
      @mariabria2671 3 года назад

      The 2 one is fake but ok

    • @mariksen
      @mariksen 3 года назад

      OH YEAH!! THIS would be a MARVELLOUS adult og junior Eurovision entry!!! 🤣🤣🤣 I do really mean it!!

  • @itsameArmio
    @itsameArmio Месяц назад +25

    As someone who started talking about being a boy at six and started considering surgery at 11-12, it warms my heart to see other trans kids getting so much love and support.

    • @sumguy-l8t
      @sumguy-l8t Месяц назад +3

      Good luck on your transitioning journey! ❤❤❤

    • @Crunchy_Pencils
      @Crunchy_Pencils 24 дня назад +1

      Yay! I hope you get the surgeries you need if you decide to get any. Good luck!

    • @bunnybuddy-o8m
      @bunnybuddy-o8m 23 дня назад +2

      sad

    • @seancollins8218
      @seancollins8218 20 дней назад

      @bunnybuddy-o8mincredibly sad

  • @emilyb7062
    @emilyb7062 6 лет назад +1985

    If they didn't say they were transgender, I wouldn't have known. They all look and seem like girls to me.

    • @kathleenmaerz8676
      @kathleenmaerz8676 6 лет назад +35

      Exactly!

    • @mynameistolong2773
      @mynameistolong2773 6 лет назад +252

      Their masculine features have not devolved yet. Boys can pull off being feminine with just some long hair under the age of 12

    • @kentonrune6621
      @kentonrune6621 6 лет назад +31

      This is the only positive I've seen so far

    • @emilyb7062
      @emilyb7062 6 лет назад +42

      Mandy Boven Positive comment? I would never be disrespectful to the people in this community. I find the people that do to be disgusting

    • @andrewmitchell9262
      @andrewmitchell9262 6 лет назад +28

      @@emilyb7062 disrespectful? That's a funny word for common sense.

  • @kylarenae2180
    @kylarenae2180 5 лет назад +705

    When I was 11 (which I still am)
    I was worried about if my mom was gone bring the skittles home I asked for

  • @daraptor5281
    @daraptor5281 5 лет назад +349

    When I was 11 I was fvckin having the time of my life playing Pokémon

    • @ExperimentProxy_
      @ExperimentProxy_ 5 лет назад +2

      AHhhHhhgg JOhN Is That Uuuuu????!?!?!

    • @daraptor5281
      @daraptor5281 5 лет назад +3

      Meme Collector ✌🏻I see ur a man of culture as well

    • @ExperimentProxy_
      @ExperimentProxy_ 5 лет назад +1

      Yesh...yes I am my fellow WEBTOON brother/sister (Idk)

    • @spring__haru
      @spring__haru 5 лет назад

      Oh hi John!

    • @czennie
      @czennie 5 лет назад +1

      UnOrdinaryyyyy 💖💖

  • @chanelspearman6305
    @chanelspearman6305 2 года назад +45

    When I was 11 I was taught God doesn't make mistakes 🙏

    • @Bambiluvr
      @Bambiluvr 2 года назад

      Wdym?

    • @sgrkoray
      @sgrkoray 2 года назад

      using god and the bible against lgbtq is an abuse of scripture, chanel.

    • @sharynstover1823
      @sharynstover1823 2 года назад +1

      That's true he doesn't make mistakes he knew you from the womb

    • @hi78889
      @hi78889 7 месяцев назад +1

      Well he clearly made many because why was I born with multiple disabilities

    • @chanelspearman6305
      @chanelspearman6305 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@hi78889 The same reason I was…because we’re one of the strongest ones

  • @bonitta1208
    @bonitta1208 4 года назад +140

    I wish I had such a confidence all my entire life to say: “This is who I am, respect me. If you don’t like it, go over there.” I am not a transgender, I just never felt like I really deserve nice treatment. Times are changing. It’s good. I was just a child and everyone was saying me to stay calm and follow the rules of my house. Adults had all the rights.

    • @ajakur8123
      @ajakur8123 4 года назад +3

      Literally it's actually not that hard to figure out when from a young age you have media not because it influences you because it educates you on terms that you might be so you do research and stuff and take time to think and figure out.

    • @ajakur8123
      @ajakur8123 4 года назад +1

      Well not as hard when we didn't have media to educate us on terms

    • @ohxyoyxoyxohx6949
      @ohxyoyxoyxohx6949 4 года назад

      @d bYou also can't make someone Transgender That's something someone must find on there own. These "influences" you say can't make a child Transgender but they can make them feel more positive and more open about themselves. So what your saying sounds pretty ignorant and discriminating.

    • @carelessdreamer
      @carelessdreamer 4 года назад

      d b It’s not an adult choice that they’re making. Currently, they’ve only socially transitioned, meaning they have time to change their mind. They aren’t getting surgery or anything. They’re just using different names and pronouns. If they decide later that they were wrong, then it doesn’t change anything because they never did anything medically.

  • @Yezel93
    @Yezel93 4 года назад +731

    I've notice in so many videos about young children transitioning, the father just sits there and hardly speaks.

    • @ramcharge2704
      @ramcharge2704 3 года назад +95

      Nope to young to transition

    • @ameliaweights
      @ameliaweights 3 года назад +154

      Exactly, because it's all about the demasculinization of society.

    • @agathatgcj771
      @agathatgcj771 3 года назад +40

      @@ameliaweights You get it.

    • @basmalasaad3039
      @basmalasaad3039 3 года назад +41

      It's sad tbh

    • @tommacquillan7372
      @tommacquillan7372 3 года назад +55

      @ameliaweights @Agatha TGCJ Stop your waffling, let people express themselves.

  • @redsignal3866
    @redsignal3866 5 лет назад +277

    50% of the comments: when I was 11
    49% of the comments: why everyone when I was 11.
    1% other.

  • @budgles
    @budgles 2 года назад +6

    This is beautiful. To have the love and support of your own family coupled with that of friends & their parents who truly understand you. 💗

  • @daleyapper3817
    @daleyapper3817 6 лет назад +331

    *This is very irrelevant but when she said "when an eight year old tells you they're in the wrong body" it reminded me of Freaky Friday*
    -You can continue the video now-

  • @risscaybaby13
    @risscaybaby13 6 лет назад +1707

    they never show you the people who regret transitioning

    • @taperra-570
      @taperra-570 6 лет назад +140

      Rich Tonez Nope. Always going to be one narrative. And 80% of them do regret it or de-transition.

    • @offgun6466
      @offgun6466 6 лет назад +19

      Kim Petras is good w her transition after like 15 years

    • @gloria._.
      @gloria._. 6 лет назад +36

      Cat Valentine that’s literally one person

    • @jamesdenton94
      @jamesdenton94 6 лет назад +15

      They don't exist

    • @dangerdolo2242
      @dangerdolo2242 6 лет назад +16

      Taperra - im guessing by “de transitioning” you mean committing suicide

  • @quinceyclouds3208
    @quinceyclouds3208 4 года назад +389

    I stopped caring about anything other than that rabbit when she brought I out of the cage

  • @calli.gio82
    @calli.gio82 3 года назад +5

    Who else thinks these are the sweetest girls ever and would gladly be their friend?

  • @jessmart7290
    @jessmart7290 5 лет назад +658

    Am I the only person wondering whose partner the stepmom is? The mom or the dad's?!! 😕😕

    • @jordiflower
      @jordiflower 5 лет назад +18

      Jess Mart right??

    • @btsIover7
      @btsIover7 5 лет назад +40

      You're not the only one. I'm curious too, who gf the step mum is :/

    • @josalyn3783
      @josalyn3783 5 лет назад +46

      Well she's sitting beside her mother so I'm guessing she's her mothers wife

    • @jessmart7290
      @jessmart7290 5 лет назад +11

      @@josalyn3783, yeah. Probably. We need clarification!!! Their story ought to be more interesting. 😂😆😅

    • @shaunamelissa_6920
      @shaunamelissa_6920 5 лет назад +28

      Jess Mart the mums shirt kinda gives it away lol

  • @engagingfour2943
    @engagingfour2943 5 лет назад +895

    On an unrelated note my dog is on my leg and I'm being crushed

  • @iioromannic.
    @iioromannic. 6 лет назад +489

    I completely support them. I do agree they should wait until they're older to COMPLETELY transition, but you should at least let them wear skirts, have long hair, etc. 💖

    • @Tj-uu1ww
      @Tj-uu1ww 6 лет назад +3

      That's weird

    • @justcaitlin4279
      @justcaitlin4279 6 лет назад +2

      Love your PFP lmao.

    • @O2life
      @O2life 6 лет назад +33

      In almost all cases transgender teens are only given puberty blocker medications, to delay puberty until they are at least 18, at which point, they can choose to take exogenous hormones or stop taking the blockers so their endogenous hormones can kick in. Taking puberty blockers gives kids a few extra years before the irreversible changes of puberty take place. For a trans child who grows up to be a trans adult, taking blockers can save a lot of stress and pain, because many changes of puberty are irreversible or require risky intervention to modify later in life.

    • @shorrrtbean3038
      @shorrrtbean3038 6 лет назад +2

      Yasss

    • @shorrrtbean3038
      @shorrrtbean3038 6 лет назад +3

      Horrorcore & More your weird

  • @andrewdotcom6770
    @andrewdotcom6770 3 месяца назад +3

    1:57 i thought that was dog and was losing my mind
    “PUT THAT THING BACK”

    • @sumguy-l8t
      @sumguy-l8t 2 месяца назад

      lol, I thought so too XD

  • @soup_ina_box9919
    @soup_ina_box9919 4 года назад +298

    Me at eleven: just realizing that makeup doesn’t blow up if it touches water 😎

    • @lovelypersonn1720
      @lovelypersonn1720 4 года назад +12

      Wait really???? Doesn't it have to be water proof

    • @adelamizerova2420
      @adelamizerova2420 4 года назад +6

      i feel like we are more nature than people 10 years older when they were at our age

  • @ryanleon288
    @ryanleon288 5 лет назад +741

    all these people bein like “when i was 11 i wanted to be a fridge” ok great thats cool
    i wish i knew myself this well when i was 11 so i couldve socially transitioned sooner

    • @LisaFW
      @LisaFW 5 лет назад +10

      Ryan Leon dude u look so good.

    • @kikiloorose7741
      @kikiloorose7741 5 лет назад +6

      🙌🏼🙌🏼❤

    • @ryanleon288
      @ryanleon288 5 лет назад +2

      Lisa A.W thank you :,)

    • @jonnevanmil
      @jonnevanmil 5 лет назад +6

      I totally argree but some of them are really funny though 😆

    • @africaisacontinent2149
      @africaisacontinent2149 5 лет назад +27

      Atleat ur older enough to make ur own descion and whatever happens, u will blame ur self unlike these little children

  • @mellecardinaal9915
    @mellecardinaal9915 5 лет назад +478

    When i was 11 i wanted to be a boy but now i am in puberty and i dont want to be a boy. So be sure in what you want and dont make important choices that young.

    • @panic2063
      @panic2063 5 лет назад +70

      I agree I feel like I should be able to wear what they want and have there hair the way they want but it could just be a temporary thing in no way shape or form I have anything against trans people I support them but I feel and it is something very big I think they should wait until they're older to make a big decision

    • @Jade0603
      @Jade0603 5 лет назад +19

      @@panic2063 I think it's a sensible idea to transition before or during your puberty. If I had a time machine I would go back in time and get Hormone Blockers right away.

    • @planetminepup8305
      @planetminepup8305 5 лет назад

      Same

    • @lauramarie8485
      @lauramarie8485 5 лет назад +3

      Exactly what ive just put the parents aren't helping letting them do it cause in the future they will probably change their mind

    • @sailor3972
      @sailor3972 5 лет назад +5

      it isnt a choice tho

  • @_Martine_
    @_Martine_ 2 года назад +5

    I'm transgender mtf and life gets hard once people get old I'm 42 yrs old without kids and I don't even dating right now. This is not a joke people little kids should not go through medical transition in such young age.

    • @IDKbruh420
      @IDKbruh420 2 года назад +1

      If you aren't hot you're screwed as a T

    • @_Martine_
      @_Martine_ 2 года назад

      @@IDKbruh420 even hot transwomen after 35 yrs they are nothing plain and simple.

    • @IDKbruh420
      @IDKbruh420 2 года назад

      @@_Martine_ that's true, T people will learn thir lesson the hard way

    • @AlexanderCoretha
      @AlexanderCoretha 8 месяцев назад

      Learn actual information before making assumptions and conclusion based on them. Underage patients after numerous interviews, discussions with experts and thorough research (which will be less interesting and sound like meager statistics for a RUclips video)
      patients start taking *puberty blockers* (not the same by far)
      which simply does not allow their hormones to break the body and mind by adjusting to the needs of testosterone/estrogen.
      *When* they reach adulthood and make their conscious decision >*then* they can begin to take opposite hormones or cancel the blocking which will result in their own natural masculinization/feminization.
      All this is easy to find out if you find a little free time to make sure

  • @stacyaracelipifher5725
    @stacyaracelipifher5725 4 года назад +93

    When I was a transgender girl back in the 70’s and 80’s things was so different! You girls are lucky that society is more open to this then when I was growing up! I am. Now 52 and my transition is now compete.
    The process is long and sometimes hard! You girls has one thing that I ever had at your ages! A great friendship and network of support! Wish you girls luck as you journey down this path! And parents ignore the uneducated people! And take this opportunity to educate the ignorant people that has no idea. I tell people it’s more harmful not to let a kid transition!

    • @XMissGX
      @XMissGX 4 года назад +2

      @Kyle Broflovski I know disgusting right, she encouraging child abuse and everyone like her needs to be lock up.

    • @wooyeah1738
      @wooyeah1738 4 года назад +14

      Kyle Broflovski The fact you say this with the pp of Kyle pisses me to no extent, transitioning, when done right, is healthy, and is the cure to gender dysphoria.

    • @faeishhh
      @faeishhh 4 года назад +5

      @@wooyeah1738 Yes, except please wait until you are 18.

    • @wooyeah1738
      @wooyeah1738 4 года назад +11

      Anna Marie For medical transitioning, I agree. Social transitions are mostly harmless for the child in question.

    • @bdWongsWang
      @bdWongsWang 4 года назад +6

      Stacy Araceli Pifher It’s great they’re young and can take hormone blockers for awhile. I’m guessing you weren’t able to do that. I would think it’d be a lot easier for trans people to be able to try to prevent secondary sex characteristics of theirs from developing, then when they’re old enough, they can take the hormone needed to develop into the female (or male) they were born to be.
      You’re right-it’s so much better than it was, but the world still has a way to go!
      ✌️

  • @kimberlysharkey8164
    @kimberlysharkey8164 5 лет назад +310

    Now that I think about it, almost everyone and anyone in the LGBTQ+ community or with a disorder (or anything that sets them apart from the rest) has a higher risk of being bullied or talked about, in the negative way.

  • @louanders829
    @louanders829 6 лет назад +445

    i think that children should be able to socially transition at any age and present as whichever gender they want but they should wait until at least 17/18 to start a medical transition to stop them from making bed decisions and having to detransition

    • @lymay8340
      @lymay8340 6 лет назад +1

      That's how I feel too.

    • @sundreary
      @sundreary 6 лет назад +19

      i’m pretty sure that you have to be at least 16/17 to start hormones anyway

    • @holykoifish
      @holykoifish 6 лет назад +7

      The suicide rate is 50% for trans people including kids if you made all trans kids transition medically at 17/18 who knows how high that number would get

    • @DimeTree
      @DimeTree 6 лет назад +10

      By the time puberty has run its course, the kids' bodies will be irreversibly altered. Believe it or not, most regular boys don't want to be a girl by the time they're in middle school. Personally, I only realized my situation and started to medically transition at age 17, and I wish I'd had the resources and acceptance before puberty that these kids do. If I'd known back then, and was allowed to go through the puberty of the correct gender, I wouldn't hate the body and face I have today. I'm slowly fixing the damage done to my body because of testosterone, but there's certain things I'll never be able to reverse with hormone therapy.
      I hope you change your mind on this issue, because I never want any of these children to have to go through the same pain I have. Knowing that I might never be seen as a girl in the eyes of society, and that I could potentially be murdered, or have my basic human rights taken away at any moment. The world today is not safe for trans people, and this kind of gatekeeping in the healthcare system is a massive part of the problem.

    • @panevan767
      @panevan767 6 лет назад +9

      Standard practice is puberty blockers as they start puberty (10-12) which just delay puberty until they are ready, and hormones at 16 or older but sometimes younger depending on the case. Surgery is typically saved until they are 18+ Most credible doctors take all aspects of the case into account in helping people transition or not

  • @tupaclives5848
    @tupaclives5848 2 года назад +4

    2:49 I blame the parents for this one. "For your 7th birthday we went to the American Girl store"

  • @oliviasalas3338
    @oliviasalas3338 4 года назад +724

    Ok you guys have to realize kids aren't stupid they know and understand stuff if they feel comfortable in their bodies is most important

    • @gracesnowflake2344
      @gracesnowflake2344 4 года назад +26

      Periodt

    • @Lawful_Rebel
      @Lawful_Rebel 4 года назад +5

      Do we, do we really? Thanks for your sage advice.

    • @hq4287
      @hq4287 4 года назад +52

      @@Lawful_Rebel When I was 11 I didn't know what transgender was and I was extremely fearful and shameful about who I am... I wish I knew about being transgender like these 11 year olds. Puberty was rough and I wouldn't come out for another 12 years.

    • @stupidkilljoy3516
      @stupidkilljoy3516 4 года назад +7

      I am a kid
      THANK YOU

    • @casperleeeeees
      @casperleeeeees 4 года назад +20

      @@hq4287 Aren't you happy that kids today are given the information they needed to find out who they are? So that they could feel safe about knowing their true selves? Isn't that what we're to work towards?

  • @jackpayne6490
    @jackpayne6490 6 лет назад +1778

    If the kids are happy that’s fantastic and if there parents are happy and keep them safe that’s fantastic.

    • @rashone2879
      @rashone2879 6 лет назад +32

      If the kids are happy, that's all that matters? Wow, when I was 11 I would have been happy as a clam to eat nothing but chocolate ice cream. Are you serious? These are little children who have not even reached puberty. The are NOT being kept "safe"... they are little kids playing dress up and the parents are negligent to be encouraging them to think anything else. Lots of little girls don't want to play with dolls...that doesn't mean they are boys. Jeezus, will people please stop being stupid.

    • @jackpayne6490
      @jackpayne6490 6 лет назад +5

      Rashone amen buddy

    • @commess1
      @commess1 6 лет назад +10

      @@rashone2879 So true. But everyone wants to be so politically correct, so much with the "in crowd" or what they think is the "in thing", that they can't see how they are literally destroying the children. Absolute foolishness. It's not ignorance, it's foolish.

    • @tanaxana6205
      @tanaxana6205 6 лет назад +16

      And if the suicide rate is over 40% that's also fantastic?

    • @maddiep.9816
      @maddiep.9816 6 лет назад +9

      If killing people makes you happy are you still going to encourage that

  • @Rooted_Locs
    @Rooted_Locs 6 лет назад +1631

    It's interesting how much people rely on "feelings".

    • @Okada404
      @Okada404 6 лет назад +58

      Let's fight mental illness together.

    • @loulou2229
      @loulou2229 6 лет назад +14

      NO NO NO NO NO NO LGBTQ+ PRIDE

    • @alexlg9521
      @alexlg9521 6 лет назад +64

      I did not understand and i am the kind of person to always want to be supportive and accepting. I know now though. What i learned in a philosophy class in university helped me figure it out. Thinking about it using logic: At the age of 12 (Or however old as a kid) did you "finally" know who you were? Have it all figured out pertaining to "who you were meant to be"? No child knows that, transgender or not. We seem to think the same rules don't apply to transgender children and that's crazy.
      Another point: All transgender people describe this feeling of not liking a part of themselves - even hating it. They describe this DEEP dissatisfaction within themselves. Since when is it physiologically healthy to change something on the OUTSIDE and expect it to change who you are on the INSIDE. From a psychology standpoint (which is my background) that method won't work and will only lead to deeper dissatisfaction and also a sense of hopelessness on top of that. This leads me to my next and final point:
      When a person, for whatever reason, WILLINGLY decides to cut off or surgically (or horomonally) ulter a PERFECTLY HEALTHY AND FUNCTIONAL part of their body in hopes that it will make them feel better on the inside, that is no longer simply ineffective but has now become a very mentally unstable thing to do.
      People usually only consider surgically or horomonally altering their bodies as a LAST RESORT when faced with a serious illness.
      As you can see i have thought about this extensively and deeply in a caring and logical way. I DO believe these people FEEL the need to change their gender. However i believe that doing so will only further harm and confuse them. The issues that need to be addressed here are Mental and not physical.
      There are also issues with "transitioning" as people report always feeling "different" than natural born people of the gender they transitioned to. They STILL report feeling uncomfortable in their own bodies for that reason. They can also experience something called "Gender Disphoria" where they are disasociatrd from their bodies. This is classified as a mental illness.
      There is so much more i can say but basically when you get down to the root cause of it it all stems from the mentality. Therefore to treat something with a PHYSICAL treatment when the root cause is Mental does not make logical sense and will Never be effective.
      There are videos on RUclips about "De- transitioning" where older people who have undergone transgender procedures are now in regret saying it did not help them and only made there issues worse and more confusing. I'll try to comment a link here.
      I hope that had helped you. As a professional working in the social service feild i Do Not Have any hatred towards people who feel out of place in their sex. I simply want to HELP in the most effective way possible. I hope this helped you to at least consider the possibility of what i have learned. 🌅😄 I want to help make the planet a happier and healthier place for people to live in ♥

    • @honey77777
      @honey77777 6 лет назад +14

      Alex LG I really appreciate this reply. Thank you for articulating my thoughts so beautifully in ways I wasn’t sure how to

    • @NGB44
      @NGB44 6 лет назад +13

      @@alexlg9521 Alex LG as a man that has completed my transition many years ago, I know that the majority of this is wrong. There isn't a sense of dissatisfaction after hormones and surgeries, instead I'm completely comfortable and proud of who I am. I'm no longer disgusted with my body.
      With that in mind, Gender Dysphoria is definitely a mental illness, that I agree with. And the people who rush into it quickly are more likely to detransition because they've not taken the necessary precautions to ensure that what they are doing is correct. Nowadays that's even more comman due to the suddenly hype over gender.
      But before I was even allowed to transition I was given years worth of intensive psychology help before my doctors came to the conclusion that I was transgender. Physical and chemical treatment was not my first form of treatment.

  • @Dayranrat
    @Dayranrat 25 дней назад +2

    "When I was 11, i-" they are expressing themselves

  • @erinfr
    @erinfr 5 лет назад +191

    Imagine having parents that support your decision and don't tell you your too young to know how you feel

    • @stupidkilljoy3516
      @stupidkilljoy3516 4 года назад

      Frank iero's left ear hey same

    • @dannymarcusftm2332
      @dannymarcusftm2332 4 года назад

      I can't tell if you're being supportive or hateful

    • @justsomerandombananawithin3705
      @justsomerandombananawithin3705 4 года назад

      That must be great...

    • @UltimatePiccolo
      @UltimatePiccolo 4 года назад +6

      Imagine having parents so ignorant they would let their child ruin its life in the pursuit of being "supportive".

    • @cadirgemont5900
      @cadirgemont5900 4 года назад +7

      Imagine being adult and committing suicide because your idiot parents allowed you to make life changing decisions you can't change

  • @lizaageeva8950
    @lizaageeva8950 5 лет назад +397

    Off topic but that bunny shouldn't be living in a hutch that is way too small for bunnies 1:59 ... But anyways love your story and you are amazing!

    • @kathleenmaerz2711
      @kathleenmaerz2711 5 лет назад +8

      Bunnies went back to the breeder, it was temporary.

    • @kirin1230
      @kirin1230 5 лет назад +4

      At least they let it out. For all we know, it's only kept their at night and they have an exercise pen for it.

    • @thepizzainthebackofyourfre9615
      @thepizzainthebackofyourfre9615 5 лет назад +2

      Cookie no. They don’t.

    • @kirin1230
      @kirin1230 5 лет назад +3

      @@thepizzainthebackofyourfre9615 I'm trying to look on the bright side. I firmly believe it's cruel to keep animals in spaces that are too small, but perhaps the rabbits are let out a lot. Maybe during the day, when they're not being patted, they have an area on the backyard or something. You never know.

    • @thepizzainthebackofyourfre9615
      @thepizzainthebackofyourfre9615 5 лет назад

      @Cookie it’s nice that you try to look at the bright side of things but the rabbit does no have an ex pen. Now I don’t live in the house but I do know that it is in the hutch very often and that’s unacceptable. And to add on top of that the rabbit is often in the cage at the times that it is most active.

  • @mike2207
    @mike2207 5 лет назад +1177

    So this is basically the comment section
    99%: when I was 11...
    1%: actually having a discussion about the video.

    • @nickyannajones
      @nickyannajones 5 лет назад

      Its horrible! What happened to complete sentences?

    • @jacklynbrown1768
      @jacklynbrown1768 4 года назад +5

      @Eric Cartman can't say it couldn't be possibly transphobic

    • @be-unique2325
      @be-unique2325 4 года назад

      Crazy

    • @randomcat7246
      @randomcat7246 4 года назад +4

      Eric Cartman wdym by transphobe?? Just because I recognize that gender dysphoria is a mental illness and should be treated as such, doesn’t mean I hate adult transgenders. They’re fine tbh. Its just that they need to be mature enough to transition, and 11 is far too young

    • @MrDriedanddone
      @MrDriedanddone 3 года назад +2

      And those 99% of comments are pointing out that an 11 years old doesn't think about what gender they are. These kids have been manipulated and influenced by their mothers. The fathers silence in this video speaks volumes.

  • @Ezzydesu
    @Ezzydesu 4 года назад +932

    I feel sorry for Lily, she is very insecure about her deadname and her mom just THROWS it at the camera.

    • @user-zv6zf7ff1j
      @user-zv6zf7ff1j 4 года назад +114

      Alana COLLINS yes, a deadname is what lots of trans people call their old name that they were born with and had before they transitioned. some keep the old name too but lots of people change it or go by a different name that makes them feel more comfortable

    • @afrobabyentertainment458
      @afrobabyentertainment458 4 года назад +15

      Why you calling... him a her ...you realize this is a insult to women right ....so sick

    • @user-zv6zf7ff1j
      @user-zv6zf7ff1j 4 года назад +142

      Afro Baby Entertainment damn dude who hurt you. let the 10 year old live however they want to. none of this affects your life... WHATSOEVER.

    • @Ezzydesu
      @Ezzydesu 4 года назад +145

      @@afrobabyentertainment458 I am a woman and I am always happy to welcome a new sister. It's an insult to women you are not accepting all of them equally. Go somewhere else with your transphobic comments and leave these kids alone

    • @thegayestgoth
      @thegayestgoth 4 года назад +7

      Afro Baby Entertainment Says you.

  • @TexasAlabamaBoi205
    @TexasAlabamaBoi205 3 года назад +7

    Such energetic little BOYS ❗❗❗

    • @s1ckdolly
      @s1ckdolly 2 года назад +1

      *girls

    • @rozlovesmusic
      @rozlovesmusic 2 года назад

      they are all such energetic little GIRLS❗️❗️❗️

    • @miwiviAR
      @miwiviAR 2 года назад +3

      Boys

  • @NasTHo-ry5os
    @NasTHo-ry5os 5 лет назад +85

    When I was 11, I started puberty. That's when I knew I was trans since I experienced symptoms of gender dysphoria.
    I'm now 15 and medically transitioning. Unfortunately, I have to fend for my self. My family are extremely transphobic, that's why I'm in the closet. But it's imperative that I start HRT in order to stop puberty, so I got a part-time job. I'm risking my health and family relation for DIY'ing hormones just because I can't handle myself to suffer every time my body grows masculine. Besides, I've already told my parents about this when I was 12. Yet they only retaliated in anger and denial.
    So here I am taking my pills each night hoping they'll never found out. My mom already found out about it, which I'm relieved when I managed to persuade her it's just 'candies'. I'm afraid for my future once, but at least now, knowing I won't live forever with irreversible masculine features, I can be at peace.

    • @CatrinaC7777
      @CatrinaC7777 5 лет назад +8

      Wish you the best of luck 💖

    • @mortycaldwell770
      @mortycaldwell770 4 года назад +11

      How did you convince a doctor to prescribe you drugs without parental approval? You must not be from the US because what you're saying sounds incredibly illegal and would also be on your medical record, which your parents have access to. Not only that, but how can you convince your parent a pill is candy? HRT pills have numbers on them for identification as well.

    • @julianrashidn-noah9807
      @julianrashidn-noah9807 4 года назад +1

      @@mortycaldwell770 fr that's true this guy or girl prolly lying or sum cuz how u trans when ur parents r transphobic??? Plus they way u explain ins sounds so dumb

    • @meadowpapp2795
      @meadowpapp2795 4 года назад +6

      Julian Rashidn-Noah i’m trans and my parents are transphobic. some places (such as where i live) you’re allowed to start testosterone at 15 without parental permission

    • @laura-yd3fv
      @laura-yd3fv 4 года назад +3

      Farting Bean Shut Up!

  • @marcerieti_exo-l
    @marcerieti_exo-l 5 лет назад +220

    Everyone say a lot of things...
    But when I was 6 I wanted to be a dancer, when I was 11 I wanted to be a dancer.
    I'm 22 and I want to be a dancer, but my parents though that was just a childish dream, and I didn't get the support when I was younger so that I could become a professional dancer.
    Sometimes you have to trust your children (and specialists if needed) and give them the best chance to be what they want/need to be.

    • @kathleenmaerz2711
      @kathleenmaerz2711 5 лет назад +8

      Thank you.

    • @xxDenni
      @xxDenni 5 лет назад +8

      Damn that sucks. Why not take some classes now? I mean, it's never too late to do anything. If that's your dream then go for it! :) (What my mother taught me )

    • @marcerieti_exo-l
      @marcerieti_exo-l 5 лет назад +11

      @@xxDenni onces in done with college I'll take dance lessons ♡ I might not be professional, but I'll do want I love :) thank you very much!

    • @marcerieti_exo-l
      @marcerieti_exo-l 5 лет назад +2

      @@kathleenmaerz2711 ♡

    • @yl5148
      @yl5148 5 лет назад +9

      I hope you achieve what you've always wanted. I wanted to dance too, but my parents didn't take it seriously. However, career choices and changing your gender are two different things.

  • @Someguysayingsomething
    @Someguysayingsomething 4 года назад +280

    I don’t why people find it so hard to believe that three girls with similar life experiences are friends?? Like I’m trans and like 5 of my friends are also trans

    • @leogingerich1141
      @leogingerich1141 4 года назад +25

      I swear, LGBTQ people just flock. In my friend group there is only one cis straight person and we've all been friends since before coming out.

    • @gluurbburger
      @gluurbburger 4 года назад +2

      @Mia Young cishet?

    • @Rain-cs6gh
      @Rain-cs6gh 4 года назад +2

      Ikr im non binary and i have like 5 other trans friends lol

    • @leogingerich1141
      @leogingerich1141 4 года назад +3

      Update: the one straight one thinks she might be bi

    • @airbutcooler5753
      @airbutcooler5753 4 года назад

      man i dont really have that much irl lgbtq+ friends (that i know of) i wish i had more people i could talk to and relate to.

  • @sillygoofylilguy1234
    @sillygoofylilguy1234 2 года назад +6

    YESSS #SLAYGIRLBOSS KEEP IT UP🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️WE LOVE AND SUPPORT YOU❤️❤️❤️

  • @user-hh1ki8xb2i
    @user-hh1ki8xb2i 6 лет назад +395

    allow them to transition. but wait for surgery or estrogen supplements until they are fifteen- because their bodies can’t handle it at such a young age

    • @upnorthboogie3573
      @upnorthboogie3573 6 лет назад +1

      i make memes using imovie i completely agree

    • @lynn_ytmsp6358
      @lynn_ytmsp6358 6 лет назад +3

      100% agree

    • @phoenixrising342
      @phoenixrising342 6 лет назад +2

      I 100% agree

    • @Doglover-gh9ut
      @Doglover-gh9ut 6 лет назад +17

      I don’t know why people think they’re performing surgery and giving hormones to children. THEY ARENT. u have to be 18 to get surgery and they don’t do anything involving hormones until the child is just starting their biological puberty. Then they give them blockers. Which r completely reversible. And then they end up going through puberty later than most kids around 14-15.

    • @smalpiper4999
      @smalpiper4999 6 лет назад +4

      Fifteen? Seems like an odd age, I’d personally go with 21. But yeah, get what you’re saying and I agree.

  • @abbynowlan3729
    @abbynowlan3729 6 лет назад +1333

    Omg.. Lilly’s eye colour is rlly pretty😘

    • @lizziek4814
      @lizziek4814 6 лет назад +5

      Ikr she's gorgeous 💖

    • @karromurrey7915
      @karromurrey7915 6 лет назад +5

      Ya ikr but you mean “color”

    • @abbynowlan3729
      @abbynowlan3729 6 лет назад +22

      The Sibling- Vlogs no.. I’m Australian so here it’s spelt ‘colour’

    • @-itzwafflez-6569
      @-itzwafflez-6569 6 лет назад +3

      The Sibling- Vlogs the real way to spell “color” is colour

    • @bellainnes8479
      @bellainnes8479 6 лет назад +3

      Ikr it’s gorgeous

  • @marioleyba2217
    @marioleyba2217 5 лет назад +932

    When I was 11 I wanted to be hanger
    Now I’m 12 and I still do

  • @katelynwilliams7147
    @katelynwilliams7147 2 года назад +2

    There was a time in my life that I honestly believed that the word transgender and the word kid/child should not be used in the same sentence. I believed it was something that kids should not think about, that they should be just being kids, but I did plenty of research and discovered that many kids cannot be kids if they are not happy in their own body. If they are too busy trying to figure out why they don't feel like they are happy with who they are, there is no time to truly live life. I know of many situations of which kids keep their thoughts inside until they are adults to avoid huge family conflicts. That does not permanently make that go away. It will usually still happen even if they wait until adulthood to speak of it. That and saying it early makes a huge difference in a child's mental development. There is tons of information that is just not deniable. There's cases of kids who do come out young but are not accepted and sometimes forced to act as if those feelings do not exist and continue being who they are in that moment. All that does is create a very stressed, depressed, and reclusive child. I have learned so much and my opinion is to let them be them. There will be struggles and ups and downs, but overall you'll have a happier kid.

    • @DosYeobos
      @DosYeobos 2 года назад +1

      You had it right the first time.