My mom is like this.😕 Edit: I read & appreciate every comment here. Thank you for sharing. I am not glamorising obesity nor living an unhealthy lifestyle but pointing out the parental skill here & disagree with it. I understand most of the parents wanted the best for their child; perhaps they can advise & express their concern for their child with a kind tone & in private, instead of insulting them in public. I also noticed some comments here that stated being fat is disgusting etc. & relate it with overeating. We need to educate ourselves that overweight also can happen due to various reasons such as puberty, genetic & medical conditions. I had tons of arguments with my mom regarding my weight. She apologised eventually & told me she often insecure with the way she looks🙃 Overall, she is imperfect & yet a wonderful mother.
My mom is like this, too. She had overweight too in her childhood and wanted to protect me, I know that, but with this words, she only destroyed my confidence and self-love without noticing that she does that.
I struggle with my weight still and I just turned 15, it’s life, yeah it sucks:( But we are all made in God’s image so he knows ur beautiful anonymous ppl
honestly, the most touching thing about this video is the teenage girls that stepped in to help her make her feel comfortable. telling her she is gorgeous no matter what. because today, girls that age don’t often feel that way. a lot of girls are nasty about appearances.
Yeah but she isn't gorgeous as an obese child. You people just lie to fat people and they never exercise or eat healthy as a result. You have to acknowledge there is a problem. Alcoholics, drug addicts, sex addicts, all have to acknowledge they have a problem before getting better, so should obese people.
Jim Johnson i kind of get the point you’re trying to make, but that girl is not obese, wtf. do you know what obese looks like?? and who says she isn’t gorgeous? in my opinion, she is a very beautiful girl. helping/supporting someone in leading a healthy lifestyle and putting them down and hurting their feelings because of their current one are two completely different things.
@@sunshine1965 she/he is trying to say overweight people cannot stay overweight forever.. at some point they are gonna have to lose weight for they're own good.. they are beatiful but health is all that matters
@@sunshine1965 okay she isn't obese, she is fat. Being that size at that age is a concern to anyone, that's how every person on the 600lb life show looked at that age. No one says people should call her names, but lying that she is beautiful doesn't help anyone. She needs to get in sports fast
I hate parents who tell their kids in such young ages they need to loose weights. If your child is overweight just have a new entire diet for the entire family and serve different kind of food, smaller plates and portions and include everyone to do some sports activities. Joining a sport team, riding bike regularly or anything like that so the kid can loose weights without being shamed .. kids these ages don’t feed themselves! It’s the food you serve and lack of physical activity that makes them weight more..
@@livewithmeterandnomeasureb1679 school offers a lot of free activities. And they can still create their own team with friends and neighbors or just go out for a run every now and then. Legs don’t cost! There’s no excuse for the avoidance of being physically active.
They don’t have to be. Schools, boys and girls club, park districts often offer free or reduced pricing for low income families. Seek out resources. Call your local park district. Even my local zoo offers summer camp and they’re donors offer scholarships. Also, the park is free. Even most low income families have wifi and at least a device to stream on; there’s dance videos and other things families can do together for free. Be creative and be willing to change yourself for the better of your child. @@livewithmeterandnomeasureb1679
If a child does NOT want to ride a bike or run, you will not force him/her, because how can you? If he/she eats sweets outside the home, you can't control it, unless you guard him/her like a prisoner and don't let him/her go out on his/her own even across the street. Being a parent is difficult. There is no tutorial for this. You are a parent straight away. Sometimes your solutions are good, sometimes you go astray.
Tatsujiro Kurogane true but just because i know that i’m chubby doesn’t mean i wouldn’t feel bad if actors spent a whole day making fun of me for it 😂😂
@@kate-lf6vd I feel like she gained more than she lost. She already knew that the actor playing her mum was only an actor but the people who stood up for her genuinely stood up for her. However it does depend on how she takes it.
@Tatsujiro Kurogane excuse me! I'm a chubby person and loosing weight is not easy, I'm currently working out and eating less than my dog, loosing weight is a lot easier said then done. Think before you talk 😡
There's a huge difference between a mother who's worried for their childs health and happiness (if the child is unhappy with their weight) and a mother who wants to live through their child or wants people to think she's some great mom because her daughter is ideal.
My mom is a good mom, but she loved to show off her children. When my appearance changed and I became less "show-off-able" she became very cold to me. Our relationship is better now, but it was not good for a long while.
"and im so angry right now" u can see her female rage she's trying so hard to not burst all out bc she's talking to a fellow woman and also a mother like her. i love it
Ya but so many people said such encouraging words and were helpful in a situation they thought was real, so that probably made her happy. Besides she isn't really overweight, she looks fine to me.
MeowMeowASMR She’s only a kid plus more than likely she hasn’t hit puberty so she’s hasn’t hit a growth spurt. She’ll probably loses the weight as she gets older.
Yeah true last year I lost a ton of weight because of an eating disorder. Even when I lost the weight I didn’t feel any better about myself I felt worse. I was more on edge about getting “fat” again. I felt that losing weight would make me happier but it made more miserable than I already was. I’m better now but one thing that bothers me is that people assume when people lose the weight their lives are improved and they are happy. If you develop an ed when you aren’t thin to begin with you are a success story. But if someone who is already skinny develops an ed they go to the hospital. Oof that was a very long vent sorry
fr 😭 i hate my body more than anything and i feel like no one can relate to me. all people do is invalidate me when i try to express myself. i don't even open up to anyone anymore. i just keep to myself. i always help my friends feel better about themselves and their weight loss journeys or whatever but when i FINALLY hit 100 pounds no one was happy for me. i was ready to celebrate finally accomplishing it and all they did was laugh as if i was joking. it's hurtful.
Viviana Marion if you’re friends do that to you than you need new friends. It’s easier said than done but if they are going to treat you that way you deserve better. I’ve had a lot of toxic friends in my life and it’s not worth the heartbreak. You’re worth more than you know and if they don’t see that than they aren’t worth your time. I’m sorry about my lack of advice, despite my long experience with toxic people I’m still not great at giving advice on how you should rid yourself of them. But my main piece of advice is to get rid of them as fast as possible.
This happened to me when I was 14 I would've absolutely loved for somebody to stand up for me like those women did, it's inspiring seeing these kind of people 💗💗
I understand. My mom wasn’t like this, but everyone else was. It’s not ok. I now know that it’s not ok to say these things to a child. I was just 8 when the comments started... the toxic cycle stops with us. We can be the adults kids need around so that they don’t have to feel this way. I hope you find healing and peace.
Agreed. It's the right thing for the wrong reasoning. People don't want to be shamed for being overweight and of course that is ok. No one should go through that. But to the person who said she doesn't have to worry about it at her age, she is wrong. She should be thinking about getting healthy as soon as possible because it will only get harder later and cause serious health concerns even at a young age.That should be the message, not what someone looks like in a clearly inappropriate dress.
@@RetroFuseable YEP! And it's true for woman, even if you carry any weight around your midsection your at higher risk for heart attacks and other heart problems! So these really huge plus size models they are like 1,000 pounds overweight who are 18-mid 20s..just wait they will die at 40. They have youth on their side and the human body always is healing itself, it is an amazing thing. it's working overtime, for people like that, and there no way to fix these really overweight people, they will die early, unless they seek help soon. But sadly when you have gotten that far even you do manage to be as thin as a rail! You will always be at risk and your body will be damaged. but cuz of this it will catch up to them when getting into their mid-30s/early 40s.
They explain to them before hand what the prompt is and how it isn’t real what the other actor says and that what the other people say (strangers) is correct .
The last lady’s quick reaction/ trigger just by hearing that made me glad that she would stand up for what is right right away regardless to who it was.
DrCognitive Well, that one is caused by stress so it's possible for kids that get fat shamed to even start THAT one. So yeah, you can technically be right
I feel like your kid should be a healthy weight, but you shouldn’t shame them Edit: hey y’all thanks for the likes. *This comment isn’t intended to fat shame, skinny shame etc anyone. My point is, its good to be healthy and society encourages unhealthy lifestyles. Lots of pro-fat people say to “LOVE YOURSELF!” But yet self love means self care. You need to take care of yourself or bad things are gonna happen lol. If being a healthy weight means being under, or over average, then thats fine. As long as you’re healthy. I’m from the Philippines, and people tend to be “smaller” there. They weigh less than the average American. But, they’re healthy. Some of you people are taking my statement the wrong way. Being overweight or underweight can lead to so many health issues (diabetes, heart disease, etc). That isn’t ok lol (Sorry for the long comment, I needed to clear some things)
I don't know, I'm a chubby person, and I don't really care about "your fat," Any more. I know I'm not skinny, and that's healthy. We can't just pretend we are all skinny, because we aren't. We are all beautiful, even if the beauty is buried deep, it's in there, waiting to show.
especially when they're, say playing a transgender male and they are in real life, like, it'd be like reliving all the crap that's been said to you in your life
me as a child, i was overweight, i was bullied at the start of year 7, that led me to bulimia. i’m now nearly in 10th grade and am suffering bulimia and negative body image so, this hits home
Gumball 4870 : I wouldn’t permit my niece, cousin or any child under my supervision in that age range to dress like that while in my care. It’s ridiculous.
Renata Romero Relax, yes it is necessary sometimes shaming kids is just horrendous, but I’m not advocating for being obese. It’s a fact that bigger people tend to have a lot more estrogen and less testosterone (men and women), making them more emotional, so it’s better to just be nice.
Man, I'm a child myself and if I heard a mom shaming her daughter like this I would tell the mother "Why are you shamming her even though you're the shame?"
Amanda: I can’t fit this over my head Mom: you know what you need to do Amanda: what? Mom: stop eating so muc- Lady: WOAH Me: dang that lady was fast she said WOAH
This upsets me. This happened to me when I was 6 years old. My mother was much more strident and cruel and NO ONE came to my aid. In fact, people thought it was funny and I felt so bad. I had years of abuse mainly from her. In all the 19 years I lived with my mother only one person understood what I was going through and tried to talk to her but my mother told her to mind her own business. I shed no tears for my mother when I learned she had died.
I like the girl that said that you can look pretty in anything as long as you're confident. She wasn't acting like these crazies that say that people have to think you're gorgeous no matter what, she was pointing out the less shallow, more real side of it. They tried helping get a bigger size. Very cool.
Sni990per PlaYS Now that’s messed up.. do you know how rude that is?! She is a young girl and just because your behind a screen, doesn’t mean that will break someone’s heart and people DIE from being *fat* shamed.. *Fat* is one of the rudest words to insult someone and I’m someone who was fat shamed and I find that so disrespectful for saying that. Go get a life.
@@lyb06007 She specifically said "my asian mom" by no means was she speaking about all asian moms as a whole. And it's not called being racist cause she didn't discriminate against skin colour she was just pulling out stereotypes that happen in her own family. Please do your research before accusing people of being racist
Yeah but she isn't gorgeous as an obese child. You people just lie to fat people and they never exercise or eat healthy as a result. You have to acknowledge there is a problem. Alcoholics, drug addicts, sex addicts, all have to acknowledge they have a problem before getting better, so should obese people.
@@JustinBieberiscool20 Discipline and conquering addictions isn't easy, and metabolism isn't an excuse. If you're fat you can't say it's metabolism, it's poor eating and a lack of exercise. Some people will have it harder than others, but I guarantee this girl isn't in lots of sports and I promise you she doesn't eat right.
@@jimjohnson358 That is wrong. I have family memebers who eat healthy, who exercise everyday, and alot more who are obese. But they cant lose weight. People can still be big and healthy. Don't try to say that they aren't because the doctors tell them that they are completely healthy.
@@jimjohnson358 Sometimes people do have to acknowledge if they are living that un-healthy life style. I understand if they are obese and very un-healthy. But either way it does not matter what size people are they are beautiful in and out.
@@Nikkiashipp218 actually it does being fat is being over weight and being over weight causes alot of problems not only when you are younger but those problems turn into huge ass fuck diseases when you grow up do some research
@@Nikkiashipp218 if you are a grown up then act like one And also "being over weight doesn't mean shit" Do you think that having type 2 diabetes high blood pressure heart disease and strokes certain types of cancer sleep apnea osteoarthritis fatty liver diseases and kidney diseases Isnt shit then go be unhealthy be over weight but let others live a healthy life and fuck off
angel park Yeah I mean it depends on what kind of body tissue is making up the weight. Take me for example, I’m a 5 feet 6 17 year old girl and I weight around 75 kilos (I think around 170lbs maybe) I’m clinically overweight on the charts, however I’ve been doing sports since I was 3, I go running twice a week and weightlifting 3 times a week, I help with heavy work on my parents farm on the daily and I have excellent stamina, not to say that I’m in excellent overall health, and I’ve been raised on the Mediterranean diet since my birth, in addition I have a muscle mass that makes up 75% of my body weight ( my nutritionist ran test to determine that). It really depends on what kind of tissue makes up your body weight
Omg that is so not right like I don't even get it SKINNY AND FAT what's the difference it just means someone weighs more but like why does it matter amd I'm so sorry ur mom did this or whoever did that Well does it still happen?
when I eat , my parents tell me that Im fat when i dont eat they laugh at me for trying to lose weight guess you cant please some people😞 thanks for the amazing comments everybody❤
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This needs so many more likes I can’t 👁👄👁😭😂😂😂 now that I always watch this show I get scared he’s in my town and I don’t know and that he’s testing me when something happens 😂😂
I was 8 or 9 when my dad put me on a diet. I was not overeating and was an active child; I was just fat. He always made comments about my weight and what I wore all throughout my life. It ruined my self esteem. No 8 year old should be worried about their weight. No parent should shame their damn child. Sorry, it's wrong and causes so many issues. I love how the last mom reacted.
@@beryl5761 no as a child I'm very happy my parent forced me to eat healthy if they havent I'd be a fattass right know that's a job a good parent needs to do
My mum pushed me to a point where I couldn't eat any more, so this one really spoke to me. It affects me still, and I'm so glad these people spoke out against it, because I can at least acknowledge now that my mother wasn't right about what she said to me.
Sairah T same thing happened to me. I ended up in a hospital being fed by tubes. Don’t get to the point I did and give me an update to how you’re doing ❤️ x
My mum keeps pressurizing me and saying "Oh your starting to look fat, looking fat is discuisting." "Lose weight" I wish she wouldn't be so concerned about societal outlooks and stop body shaming me.
@@mohima1367 While what's she saying is technically in your best interest, what's disgusting is a parent talking that way to their own child. No idea about you or your situation, but being fair, people are way overweight, at least in the US, and that causes legitimate problems.
The stikbot Gamer True, and I'm not defending the mom but the daughter does get food at school etc. However, nobody her age should feel bad about the way they look.
When the lady jumped I screamed and jumped out of my chair because I thought she was going to spill her Starbucks on those white ESPENSIVE dresses. ABSOLUTE NIGHTMARE!!!
@@tater.5632 have you ever been around kids?? do you remember being a kid?? 90% of children would eat candy and chocolate all day long if they could. That is why there are parents ya dumb fuck. to be a parent. Do the world a favor and dont reproduce.
I actually started crying when those girls stood up for her like that. I really felt for her because my whole childhood i was chubby and had very low self esteem because of my family. They always told me i was overweight and made fun of me for it. No one ever told me i was beautiful.
Yes, the parents are at fault for resulting in the kid being overweight. So by not shaming the kid, but supporting them in the process to lose weight, they will have a better relationship with health and fitness. So yes, it is necessary to have a healthy weight.
Jesse Miles 😂😂 That's funny 😂 your probably some insecure little shit who's self confidence is below the negatives😭 stop tryna bring others down cause your down only to make yourself feel better😂 You should know your beautiful and so are others around you, learn to be able to give compliments not useless petty derogatory comments 🤷🏾♀️👌🏾👻😗
Super Gamer_girl I’m a realist who lives in the real world. Fat people are not attractive or beautiful. They’re the reason the US gets such a bad rap health wise. Gluttonous disgusting beings.
man, this triggered some flashbacks to the days of clothes shopping with grandma. she used to say awful shit to me as a little girl about my weight and appearance and totally skewed my perspective of beauty. 7 years later after recovering from an eating disorder she wants to be all “you’ve always been beautiful” and “i don’t know why you resorted to that, you were fine before”. it boggles my mind how someone can convince themselves the things they said had no effect, but perhaps it’s out of guilt.
IT can damage the Kid If The parents so IT Wrong. I belive There are good and positive ways to Help and MOTIVATE the Kid to lose weight. And If The Kid ist really overeeight, i think ITS the Job of a Parent to Help the Kid , and Not ihnore it and let the Kid get even more fat.
@@borisgopnikov2931 then instead of the mother bringing her down she should slowly encourage her to lose weight in a healthy way which would be great for the long term. It’s not hard :)
@@oink3706 it’s not as easy as telling a kid to eat healthy. Children don’t think about the long term effects of overeating so it’s up to the PARENT to put their child on a strict diet to save them from diabetes, high blood pressure, etc etc.
There's nothing wrong with encouraging and helping your child to live a healthy lifestyle. There *is* a huge problem with shaming your child, especially to the point where they are uncomfortable and embarrassed. Parents, take note of what the women in the video said and did. This is all coming from a teenager who knows how important it is to have a healthy body image.
@Leah Grace My mom has even said she’s fat and she wants me to stop eating so much and don’t eat so late at night so I don’t become like her lol. Im an athlete/amateur for a sport and I do it every week day for an hour, or two hours 30 minutes and I’m not even 100 pounds so I think I’m fine 🙂💀
Okay, so my Mum does this to me but it doesn't bother me. I know I need to lose weight and need to be healthy. Partly because I want to look and feel better and I'm not saying overweight people are not beautiful for both women and men. But mostly I'm not healthy. We actually went out to buy a dress for graduation and it was hard. And I don't want it to be hard in the future. But some things the Mum said in this video are inappropriate to say to a child. In the end, my Mum does tell me I need to lose weight among other things, but the good comes with the bad.
all late! but I'm glad that your mom wants to motivate you to be better but also let you see that you are much more than that. My mom was the same way with me and honestly we need more mom likes that.
@northhyuck yeah but why do you assume a good looking person doesn't have a great personnality. People will choose the whole package. Why deprive the looks of your child, it s dumb.
Depression made me eat more. I was already slightly overweight my whole life but I got borderline obese by the end of high school. That made me more depressed about how I looked, with my family constantly bringing it up. It’s hard for anyone going through it. I moved away for college, and the freedom and not hearing people’s constant babbling about my weight allowed me to think for myself. I made my own decision to fix it and I eventually got fit by the end of college. I really don’t think continuously pointing out to someone that they don’t look good works at all. They have to make their own decision, otherwise it’ll just feel like they’re changing for the sake of someone else and not for themselves. It makes all the difference in the world.
(And I get that sometimes people need to have things points out to them, so they can realize their problems to better themselves. But, it all goes back to how you bring up the issue).
@Gaunter O'Dimm not all of them, have you seen these transformations with over weight people and they loose a ton of pounds. Think twice before you write something. It may put people down.
Ure wrong but yes it is harsh when they talk about looks everyday and there is a limit, but if its not for ur family bringing it up, it may just be another day and you wouldnt start exercising. Because of the hate that made u tired of if, u were driven by motivation to exercise.. Its about turning the shit upon u into motivation.. We are never supposed to be vulnerable to their words or whatever... We have to be strong... Maybe Im different because im in a different situation but im not motivated at all and im not overweight.. I live hating myself everyday, and i do try to exercise now and then..
If you want your child to lose weight, you need to change YOUR life style. If you are the parent it’s your responsibility. Not fat shame them, but bring healthy foods into your household, and encourage healthy behaviors like exercise. Cause chances are, the child is already aware about their body image and doesn’t need to be called out like “Oh you’re so fat”, by their parent figure, or anyone for that matter.
Yeah. If your kids doctors says they need to lose weight then you should work with your child, not against them. Maybe, offer to go on walks with them, or enroll them in a sport. Feed them healthy food and tell them they are beautiful. Don’t fat shame your kids.
This is really such a wholesome video. Everyone is so nice. Am so happy such people exist. Here, it's a skit. But in real life, people will speak up. And that's what matters. 💕💕💕 And sometimes in future, these people and their words will definitely bring a positive influence in someone's life 💕💕💕
tyrone loki yeah when I was her age I suffered the same issues from a parent . Love the positive energy behind the message though. The show is very inspirational 💜 Does negatively hit home for you asshole ? Everybody needs love tho. God bless xx
I feel bad for the kids being hired for these roles John: we need a plus size girl Amanda: " I hope it's not me" John: what about Amanda! Amanda: GOD DAMN IT UGHH
I feel sad for the little girl.. Ok, for all the people who don't understand what I mean, I feel sad for the girl in REAL LIFE, not in the act. I know that she's an actor but to be called "overweight" and be used because she is slightly "overweight" might hurt her feelings! Just saying so DON'T HATE!
Actor: *sneezes*
Me: bless you
*john comes out with the cameras* so, what made you say that?
Me: ...
Lil potato Child 😂😂😂😂😂
I AM ROLLING ON THE FLOOR RIGHT NOW 🤣
I see u in mad of these wwyd video comment section 😂
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The sad thing is, there are moms out there who are actually like this.
My mom is like this.😕
Edit: I read & appreciate every comment here. Thank you for sharing.
I am not glamorising obesity nor living an unhealthy lifestyle but pointing out the parental skill here & disagree with it. I understand most of the parents wanted the best for their child; perhaps they can advise & express their concern for their child with a kind tone & in private, instead of insulting them in public.
I also noticed some comments here that stated being fat is disgusting etc. & relate it with overeating. We need to educate ourselves that overweight also can happen due to various reasons such as puberty, genetic & medical conditions.
I had tons of arguments with my mom regarding my weight. She apologised eventually & told me she often insecure with the way she looks🙃 Overall, she is imperfect & yet a wonderful mother.
Sister Mike:
I am very sorry ☹️😢😔
my mom too.. but im not that fat-
My mom is like this and I’m so insecure
My mom is like this, too. She had overweight too in her childhood and wanted to protect me, I know that, but with this words, she only destroyed my confidence and self-love without noticing that she does that.
The way the last woman whipped around gave me CHILLS
Keverley Charles She was taking no nonsense!
SAME
Same omg
That was my fav part. Her mama bear came out in a snap 💪
as a girl who struggled with her weight all her life. this episode really hit close to home.
Same😢
I struggle with my weight still and I just turned 15, it’s life, yeah it sucks:( But we are all made in God’s image so he knows ur beautiful anonymous ppl
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Violets are Blue,
I’m John Quinones,
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How to get through diglett's cave yeet
This is literally on every WWYD RUclips video comment section
Is anyone ignoring the fact that her dress is a little too mature for her age ? 😂😂
RUclips_girl yeah I noticed that too
Rigggght
Wait how old is she? Didn't they say she's a teenager like those other girls?
but shes still totally rockin it ;)
She is 13
honestly, the most touching thing about this video is the teenage girls that stepped in to help her make her feel comfortable. telling her she is gorgeous no matter what. because today, girls that age don’t often feel that way. a lot of girls are nasty about appearances.
Yeah but she isn't gorgeous as an obese child. You people just lie to fat people and they never exercise or eat healthy as a result. You have to acknowledge there is a problem. Alcoholics, drug addicts, sex addicts, all have to acknowledge they have a problem before getting better, so should obese people.
Jim Johnson i kind of get the point you’re trying to make, but that girl is not obese, wtf. do you know what obese looks like?? and who says she isn’t gorgeous? in my opinion, she is a very beautiful girl. helping/supporting someone in leading a healthy lifestyle and putting them down and hurting their feelings because of their current one are two completely different things.
@@sunshine1965 she/he is trying to say overweight people cannot stay overweight forever.. at some point they are gonna have to lose weight for they're own good.. they are beatiful but health is all that matters
@@sunshine1965 okay she isn't obese, she is fat. Being that size at that age is a concern to anyone, that's how every person on the 600lb life show looked at that age. No one says people should call her names, but lying that she is beautiful doesn't help anyone. She needs to get in sports fast
Actually a lot of “ mean” girls will help a little stranger girl being shamed
I hate parents who tell their kids in such young ages they need to loose weights. If your child is overweight just have a new entire diet for the entire family and serve different kind of food, smaller plates and portions and include everyone to do some sports activities. Joining a sport team, riding bike regularly or anything like that so the kid can loose weights without being shamed .. kids these ages don’t feed themselves! It’s the food you serve and lack of physical activity that makes them weight more..
This is such an important comment. I am gonna pin this on my Whatsapp and Instagram. Thank you, stranger. Hope you have a good day! ❤
Sports teams cost $$$ dont they? Im asking cuz i cant remember. (I just remember being to broke to do a lot.)
@@livewithmeterandnomeasureb1679 school offers a lot of free activities. And they can still create their own team with friends and neighbors or just go out for a run every now and then. Legs don’t cost! There’s no excuse for the avoidance of being physically active.
They don’t have to be. Schools, boys and girls club, park districts often offer free or reduced pricing for low income families. Seek out resources. Call your local park district. Even my local zoo offers summer camp and they’re donors offer scholarships. Also, the park is free. Even most low income families have wifi and at least a device to stream on; there’s dance videos and other things families can do together for free. Be creative and be willing to change yourself for the better of your child. @@livewithmeterandnomeasureb1679
If a child does NOT want to ride a bike or run, you will not force him/her, because how can you? If he/she eats sweets outside the home, you can't control it, unless you guard him/her like a prisoner and don't let him/her go out on his/her own even across the street. Being a parent is difficult. There is no tutorial for this. You are a parent straight away. Sometimes your solutions are good, sometimes you go astray.
even though she’s an actor i wonder how the little girl was feeling after the scenes 😣
Tatsujiro Kurogane true but just because i know that i’m chubby doesn’t mean i wouldn’t feel bad if actors spent a whole day making fun of me for it 😂😂
@@kate-lf6vd I feel like she gained more than she lost. She already knew that the actor playing her mum was only an actor but the people who stood up for her genuinely stood up for her. However it does depend on how she takes it.
@Tatsujiro Kurogane that sounds so mean ;-;
@Tatsujiro Kurogane excuse me! I'm a chubby person and loosing weight is not easy, I'm currently working out and eating less than my dog, loosing weight is a lot easier said then done. Think before you talk 😡
@@doodmaam7962 agreed and with the corona virus all the gyms are closed I hate I can't work out myself
But... imagine how the actor feels... i mean, its not like its a different body she wears to act....
Good point
I'm fat but if they payed me enough I'd be fine with it. It's probably the same for her
She got paid well so, I imagine she feel great.
@@amadi5x5 word.
I meannn
She wanted the role
I hope the girl is okay after being body shammed so much.
legit-
She might be older
I'm not sure though but I feel yay
I don't think you get hired, I am pretty sure you have to play for that role. I could be wrong idk.
Girl Panda yeah
Well if she comfy in her body then she shouldn’t be 😁
There's a huge difference between a mother who's worried for their childs health and happiness (if the child is unhappy with their weight) and a mother who wants to live through their child or wants people to think she's some great mom because her daughter is ideal.
My mom is a good mom, but she loved to show off her children. When my appearance changed and I became less "show-off-able" she became very cold to me. Our relationship is better now, but it was not good for a long while.
The lady with the blonde hair and bangs is so pretty
Yeah....she is absolutely gorgeous...
Am your 500 liker and its true
Am your 500 like and thats right
Which? Most of them were blonds
Yep
“We can be be depressed but we’re skinny” is a big mood and so true
Emily Carroll she's a obeese fuck
@@HasSalute I cannot stand people like you.
HasSalute, shut up. Your so skinny I can snap you in half.
You soo mean ****
HasSalute ur an asshole
For anyone binge watching these how many times have u heard "I am literally shaking" haha
Tons!!!! Even a few men have said that! I think I would be too, you’re so upset, and you’re in public, trying to not let your emotions show, etc.
At least once in every video.
Every. Single. Video. Of. What. Would. You. Do?
"You disgust me", "you're disgusting"
I knowww right 😅😅
"and im so angry right now" u can see her female rage she's trying so hard to not burst all out bc she's talking to a fellow woman and also a mother like her. i love it
Imagine how the girl had to cope in being hired to play the role of an overweight kid
Oof
Ya but so many people said such encouraging words and were helpful in a situation they thought was real, so that probably made her happy. Besides she isn't really overweight, she looks fine to me.
tacolover_48 tacos not hating but she is overweight but she looks good anyways so doesn’t matter
MeowMeowASMR She’s only a kid plus more than likely she hasn’t hit puberty so she’s hasn’t hit a growth spurt. She’ll probably loses the weight as she gets older.
left-footed yodeling shoe monster true
I think that loosing weight is fine..but not fat shaming....... that woman in the grey hoodie was amazing....
I agree and your right don't fat shaming people
Yeah, losing weight is fine, unless you don’t have to, or if you aren’t “fat”
CookieFrost :3 💙
slime and squishies user user
I know right! Fat shaming is just nasty, I hate hearing about that stuff.
Dream Catcher yeah
"We can be depressed, and still be skinny."
I felt that.
Yeah true last year I lost a ton of weight because of an eating disorder. Even when I lost the weight I didn’t feel any better about myself I felt worse. I was more on edge about getting “fat” again. I felt that losing weight would make me happier but it made more miserable than I already was. I’m better now but one thing that bothers me is that people assume when people lose the weight their lives are improved and they are happy. If you develop an ed when you aren’t thin to begin with you are a success story. But if someone who is already skinny develops an ed they go to the hospital. Oof that was a very long vent sorry
fr 😭 i hate my body more than anything and i feel like no one can relate to me. all people do is invalidate me when i try to express myself. i don't even open up to anyone anymore. i just keep to myself. i always help my friends feel better about themselves and their weight loss journeys or whatever but when i FINALLY hit 100 pounds no one was happy for me. i was ready to celebrate finally accomplishing it and all they did was laugh as if i was joking. it's hurtful.
Viviana Marion if you’re friends do that to you than you need new friends. It’s easier said than done but if they are going to treat you that way you deserve better. I’ve had a lot of toxic friends in my life and it’s not worth the heartbreak. You’re worth more than you know and if they don’t see that than they aren’t worth your time. I’m sorry about my lack of advice, despite my long experience with toxic people I’m still not great at giving advice on how you should rid yourself of them. But my main piece of advice is to get rid of them as fast as possible.
Same :(
that’s me.
This happened to me when I was 14 I would've absolutely loved for somebody to stand up for me like those women did, it's inspiring seeing these kind of people 💗💗
I hope you're doing okay now
"if you're confident, you'll look pretty in anything you wear"
me: 😭❤️
But its not true tho
Szymon Kozlowski Shut up
Szymon Kozlowski please shut the F**K up
Szymon Kozlowski go back to dumbass land
The only comment that matters :')
Kid: **bullys another kid**
Me: **joins in**
Hi this is What would you do.
Lapiz Reading this even made me feel shakey and scared
That's my fucking luck right there
God now I’m afraid to bully kids 😂
"Omg...I'm literally shaking so much right now"
You:Ahh shit...
This made me cry. I was a fat kid and I could tell my whole childhood my mom didn’t think I was pretty. That led to bulimia, anorexia, and depression.
I’m so sorry I hope your doing better now!
I understand. My mom wasn’t like this, but everyone else was. It’s not ok. I now know that it’s not ok to say these things to a child. I was just 8 when the comments started... the toxic cycle stops with us. We can be the adults kids need around so that they don’t have to feel this way. I hope you find healing and peace.
Sometimes it's better not to have fat ... being offended by even an advise is not a good idea
Me too I cry at bathroom
@@judgementalsociety1625 me too still
“we could be depressed but we’re skinny” i- i felt that
How when males r looking at u being thin shouldn’t make u depressed it should make u happy and excited
@@AmandaYee-yn9dkwtf? what if i don't want creepy men staring at me and just want to live without being someone's eye candy?
@@W1LL1AM_SOLACE look if u want 2 stay single lonely and miserable it’s ur problem
@@AmandaYee-yn9dk andd what if i just want one loyal husband and don't wanna fuck around with multiple men? it's quite doable.
@@W1LL1AM_SOLACE how r u going 2 find him if u don’t u answer me that because u have 2 be what they want if u want 2 snag one
An interesting scenario would be a mom wanting her daughter to lose weight for health reasons, not to look good.
insanedragongirl exactly
Exactly! Like wtf is wrong with these moms?!
Agreed. It's the right thing for the wrong reasoning. People don't want to be shamed for being overweight and of course that is ok. No one should go through that. But to the person who said she doesn't have to worry about it at her age, she is wrong. She should be thinking about getting healthy as soon as possible because it will only get harder later and cause serious health concerns even at a young age.That should be the message, not what someone looks like in a clearly inappropriate dress.
Lee Paradis exactly my thoughts, thanks for verbalizing that.
@@RetroFuseable YEP! And it's true for woman, even if you carry any weight around your midsection your at higher risk for heart attacks and other heart problems!
So these really huge plus size models they are like 1,000 pounds overweight who are 18-mid 20s..just wait they will die at 40. They have youth on their side and the human body always is healing itself, it is an amazing thing. it's working overtime, for people like that, and there no way to fix these really overweight people, they will die early, unless they seek help soon. But sadly when you have gotten that far even you do manage to be as thin as a rail! You will always be at risk and your body will be damaged.
but cuz of this it will catch up to them when getting into their mid-30s/early 40s.
You guys actually ever think this stuff actually hurts the child, and shes no telling you? I'd be heartbroken even if It was just a skit.
Faith•xo Yeah me too
Something tells me she realizes this is acting/fake. Kids are smart
@@robm9462 ik she realizes it but it could still hurt her.
Faith•xo tbh even if i applied for the role myself i’d be devastated they thought i was a good fit for the role of the ‘chubby girl’
They explain to them before hand what the prompt is and how it isn’t real what the other actor says and that what the other people say (strangers) is correct .
The mom needs to find a dress to fit the child, not a child to fit the dress.
Or a child to dress the fit lmao-
@@penisbuttfart15 i laughed way harder than i should have i-
auzzie w. Lmaooo
That's exactly what I was thinking!
Good sentence
I love seeing those older teens and twenties girls standing up for her.
The last lady’s quick reaction/ trigger just by hearing that made me glad that she would stand up for what is right right away regardless to who it was.
This is how kids start eating disorders, Karen
Edit: These replies, dear God XD
Preachh
i can confirm!!!! due to personal experiences, and the thing is, my parents where more subtle about it but it still made an impact on me
April Marie I rest my case
She already has an eating disorder. It's called Binge Eating Disorder. DSM-5 or ICD10 F50.81
DrCognitive Well, that one is caused by stress so it's possible for kids that get fat shamed to even start THAT one. So yeah, you can technically be right
I feel like your kid should be a healthy weight, but you shouldn’t shame them
Edit: hey y’all thanks for the likes.
*This comment isn’t intended to fat shame, skinny shame etc anyone. My point is, its good to be healthy and society encourages unhealthy lifestyles. Lots of pro-fat people say to “LOVE YOURSELF!” But yet self love means self care. You need to take care of yourself or bad things are gonna happen lol. If being a healthy weight means being under, or over average, then thats fine. As long as you’re healthy.
I’m from the Philippines, and people tend to be “smaller” there. They weigh less than the average American. But, they’re healthy.
Some of you people are taking my statement the wrong way. Being overweight or underweight can lead to so many health issues (diabetes, heart disease, etc). That isn’t ok lol
(Sorry for the long comment, I needed to clear some things)
Yeah
Agreed. I had three years of health and care as my main subject. It's scary what the wrong weight can do to a body, especially in such a young age.
Also if your kid is overweight it's your own fault. They aren't the one buying the food, you are.
Tide Pod Pad Thai Omg you are exactly right. Like you should know what healthy weight your kid should be
Tell that to my mom 10 years ago
Imagine how hurt that girl must feel after being casted as the overweight kid…
The parents should have take care of her
Hay if i am getting paid i don't care what role i play
She auditioned though?
I wonder if the actors feel bad at all when they play their roles
Alanna Johnson IkR
I don't know, I'm a chubby person, and I don't really care about "your fat," Any more. I know I'm not skinny, and that's healthy. We can't just pretend we are all skinny, because we aren't. We are all beautiful, even if the beauty is buried deep, it's in there, waiting to show.
especially when they're, say playing a transgender male and they are in real life, like, it'd be like reliving all the crap that's been said to you in your life
I mean if the paycheck is big.....
I dont think so if their going to feel bad then why audition or take the role
I mean being skinny isnt healthy so...
Imagine the casting call ad for this. "Looking for an overweight 8 year old actress who won't mind being publically shamed". 😂
Marl Kalone bruh that’s what i was thinking 😂
Yes
Lol true
Marl Kalone Ikr 😂😂😂
lol sameee
"We need a bad mother"
Michelle: Someone's calling me?
Or Traci
😂
Nana Chan HAHHA NOOO TRACI!
me as a child, i was overweight, i was bullied at the start of year 7, that led me to bulimia. i’m now nearly in 10th grade and am suffering bulimia and negative body image so, this hits home
i’m so sorry. i believe in you you’re perfect
Doesn’t anyone recognize the blonde mom by now? She plays the mom in so many of these!!
I know that
She is always the mom that makes the daughter lose weight
She’s so good at being annoying.
@@coolperson8272 same with Traci
We know
People are ignoring the fact that the dress is inappropriate for her age
Gumball 4870 : I wouldn’t permit my niece, cousin or any child under my supervision in that age range to dress like that while in my care. It’s ridiculous.
A Masion Ikr, it’s very inappropriate. I’m 16 and I would never wear something like that
Honestly tho like da heck
Gumball 4870 r/imnotlikeothergirls
Gumball 4870 yeah it kinda is but I don’t think people are gonna question it probably because they thought maybe the mom allowed it.
Me: Takes bullet for a person
Also me: Where's John Quinionnes
*"HI I'M JOHN QUINONES AND THIS IS WHAT WOULD YOU DO. AS YOU SIT HERE BLEEDING OUT, WHY DID YOU DECIDE TO DIE FOR THIS PERSON?"*
Hah
@@werewolfremus9981 🤣🤣
Underrated comment lol
@@werewolfremus9981 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
i would literally die for that child actress she's so precious
teenage girls in the gen z are so supportive especially when it comes to mental illness related things
Ironic.Square I know I’m so cool 😂
Thanks Ig
Renata Romero I found the incel
Renata Romero Being fat is unhealthy, but you can’t just come up to people like that. Rather, convince them!
Renata Romero Relax, yes it is necessary sometimes shaming kids is just horrendous, but I’m not advocating for being obese. It’s a fact that bigger people tend to have a lot more estrogen and less testosterone (men and women), making them more emotional, so it’s better to just be nice.
"we could be depressed but we're skinny. That doesn't mean anything"
Sairah T no it does but that comment was meant for intelligent people to understand so if you don’t...
@@caseyplayzroblox7432 that's a direct quote dumbass
Casey T it was a quote, that’s kinda what the quotation marks interpret, which is also for intelligent people to understand so if you don’t....
Casey T you should do a fact check yourself lmao
THE WAY THAT LAST MOM TURNED AROUND I KNEW SHIT WAS ABOUT TO GO DOWN AHDAHDH
kait HAHAAAHHA
Man, I'm a child myself and if I heard a mom shaming her daughter like this I would tell the mother "Why are you shamming her even though you're the shame?"
Nobody:
John: *watching a mom calling her daughter fat* Excellent this is G O O D
well when you it it like that...
...acting
Stream DNA to 1B I know...it’s a joke
Stream DNA to 1B
Huh... maybe there should’ve been a joke about his reaction to the acting...
HAHAHAHA
Amanda: I can’t fit this over my head
Mom: you know what you need to do
Amanda: what?
Mom: stop eating so muc-
Lady: WOAH
Me: dang that lady was fast she said WOAH
...
Because that could encourage the child to not eat at all
Krystal Carreon me too😂😂
@Jessie LOL! that timing was impeccable! 😂
She was like “and a pop”
*the first girl can hmu so we can go shopping for dresses everyday*
omg thank you for 1.4k likes lmao
Ethan
alyssa kirk what would you do?
A I u say phaggot but in what context do u mean that?
Nicole ღ I think all women r beautiful
Nicole ღ illiterate. You’re spelling it wrong too.
This upsets me. This happened to me when I was 6 years old. My mother was much more strident and cruel and NO ONE came to my aid. In fact, people thought it was funny and I felt so bad. I had years of abuse mainly from her. In all the 19 years I lived with my mother only one person understood what I was going through and tried to talk to her but my mother told her to mind her own business. I shed no tears for my mother when I learned she had died.
"If you are confident, you'll look pretty in anything."
SO true. Love yourself, people.
Moral of the story: Don't listen to your parents
lol jk
True
Kate DIY I’ll come after for your precious life lol
Lol
Yossss
😂😂💜
I like the girl that said that you can look pretty in anything as long as you're confident. She wasn't acting like these crazies that say that people have to think you're gorgeous no matter what, she was pointing out the less shallow, more real side of it. They tried helping get a bigger size. Very cool.
Amanda must be a very confident young lady at her age to be able to play this part; and I couldn’t be happier for her!! 😊
Sni990per PlaYS lmfao😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sni990per PlaYS 😂😳
Sni990per PlaYS that’s not funny...
Sni990per PlaYS that’s literally shaming her
Sni990per PlaYS Now that’s messed up.. do you know how rude that is?! She is a young girl and just because your behind a screen, doesn’t mean that will break someone’s heart and people DIE from being *fat* shamed.. *Fat* is one of the rudest words to insult someone and I’m someone who was fat shamed and I find that so disrespectful for saying that. Go get a life.
"She dosent need to be skinny to be pretty" Best quote
My asian mom: dont eat too much, you're getting too big
Me: "skips dinner"
My asian mom: come eat! Stop starving yourself
Chee Vue lol
Felix's deep ass voice I think they’re Asian too but I think what he is trying to say is that Asian mom are probably harsh in a loving way
Felix's deep ass voice oh I see you’re joking lol
@@lyb06007 She specifically said "my asian mom" by no means was she speaking about all asian moms as a whole. And it's not called being racist cause she didn't discriminate against skin colour she was just pulling out stereotypes that happen in her own family. Please do your research before accusing people of being racist
Same
5:20 dang she turned around real quick
Wolf Pack 5:20 when you’re parents find out your dating
5:20 when you find out your dad and the guy your date ing went out alone to "talk"
5:20 when you see your crush walk into class
When someone yells out “free tacos”
5:20 when someone stole your candy
WTF AM I LAUGHING AT THE WAY THE LADY JUMPED WHEN JOHN QUINONES CAME UP BEHIND HER?!?!
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
you are not the only one😂
I got nervous when she jumped and the green drink got a little too close to the white clothes.
"Don't you want that summer body" said by a mom to her child is the creepiest WWYD line yet
The other children helping her was really adorable
Yeah but she isn't gorgeous as an obese child. You people just lie to fat people and they never exercise or eat healthy as a result. You have to acknowledge there is a problem. Alcoholics, drug addicts, sex addicts, all have to acknowledge they have a problem before getting better, so should obese people.
Jim Johnson some people can’t lose weight easily because of their metabolism and polycystic ovarian syndrome
@@JustinBieberiscool20 Discipline and conquering addictions isn't easy, and metabolism isn't an excuse. If you're fat you can't say it's metabolism, it's poor eating and a lack of exercise. Some people will have it harder than others, but I guarantee this girl isn't in lots of sports and I promise you she doesn't eat right.
@@jimjohnson358 That is wrong. I have family memebers who eat healthy, who exercise everyday, and alot more who are obese. But they cant lose weight. People can still be big and healthy. Don't try to say that they aren't because the doctors tell them that they are completely healthy.
@@jimjohnson358 Sometimes people do have to acknowledge if they are living that un-healthy life style. I understand if they are obese and very un-healthy. But either way it does not matter what size people are they are beautiful in and out.
Don't body shame your child but kindly don't let them live an unhealthy life
Mitch Shipp yes it does
@@Nikkiashipp218 actually it does being fat is being over weight and being over weight causes alot of problems not only when you are younger but those problems turn into huge ass fuck diseases when you grow up do some research
@@Nikkiashipp218 if you are a grown up then act like one
And also "being over weight doesn't mean shit"
Do you think that having type 2 diabetes
high blood pressure
heart disease and strokes
certain types of cancer
sleep apnea
osteoarthritis
fatty liver diseases and
kidney diseases
Isnt shit then go be unhealthy be over weight but let others live a healthy life and fuck off
Yeah if they're overweight cook them healthy meals and encourage them to go outside and play dont body shame them that's gonna mess them up mentally
angel park Yeah I mean it depends on what kind of body tissue is making up the weight. Take me for example, I’m a 5 feet 6 17 year old girl and I weight around 75 kilos (I think around 170lbs maybe) I’m clinically overweight on the charts, however I’ve been doing sports since I was 3, I go running twice a week and weightlifting 3 times a week, I help with heavy work on my parents farm on the daily and I have excellent stamina, not to say that I’m in excellent overall health, and I’ve been raised on the Mediterranean diet since my birth, in addition I have a muscle mass that makes up 75% of my body weight ( my nutritionist ran test to determine that). It really depends on what kind of tissue makes up your body weight
How do they find actors to portray "obese ppl" and be nice ABOUT it?????
i’ve been wondering about that for a long time lmao
They put on auditions they need plus sized people, and actors fitting that description apply.
They get paid
hehehe loll id do it
sometimes actors gain weight for parts
My mom literally did this! I still struggle with weight issues and I would definitely step in immediately
Omg that is so not right like I don't even get it SKINNY AND FAT what's the difference it just means someone weighs more but like why does it matter amd I'm so sorry ur mom did this or whoever did that Well does it still happen?
when I eat , my parents tell me that Im fat
when i dont eat they laugh at me for trying to lose weight
guess you cant please some people😞
thanks for the amazing comments everybody❤
Same here in my home... 😒😒😒
I can feel u
same here!
Kookies And Kream same :(
Kookies And Kream same here
*Quinonesphobia:*
----------------
noun
1 The fear of having John Quinones appear within seconds and ask:
“What made you act (or do) that.”
Or
“Why did you stand up for what’s right?”
Quinonesphobia causes anxiety in public places, (stores, restaurants, showers, etc.)
It gives the feeling of being watched (Scopophobia.) When doing certain actions or giving reactions to
-any given situation.
this is way too underrated xD
XD
*Guess i have Quinonesphobia*
This needs so many more likes I can’t 👁👄👁😭😂😂😂 now that I always watch this show I get scared he’s in my town and I don’t know and that he’s testing me when something happens 😂😂
This is amazing 😂 😂 😂
Doesnt anyone else wonder if the little kid actually got her feelings hurt
yea tbh they fucking asked her we need a sence for fat shaming fliping rlly!!
Ikr, you never know if the kid really felt uncomfortable doing this dumb crap for views. Like...Fam....
Who cares if her feelings are hurt lol
Its Swayy rude
@@allisonclayton5666 thank you
4:59 the most nicest teenager ive ever seen
Why ain’t no one speak up when my mom did this :’( FAKE
Sorry for you 😕
same tho. AND WE WERE OUT IN THE OPEN IN THE MIDDLE OF A STORE
@@itaiserra hey it's ok. Don't let someones body negativity knock u down
You're amazing the way you are. Don't let anyone make u change . Don't let her body negativity knock you down
They must have known John cañonas would be in the store that day😂
Ok that blue dress is actually *very* pretty and looks prettier on the girl.
my opinion
@@emg8910 it did she look very pretty
She looked gorgeous
it fit her and looked really good on her!
She's really fat
"You need to eat less."
THE GRANDEST "NOPE" WE COULD EVER WITNESS IN HUMAN HISTORY IS CAUGHT ON CAMERA!
Hey she dose not need to lose any wait she is perfect
@@subzero5009 lol
mY OpInIOn mAtTeRS tHe mOSt
I was 8 or 9 when my dad put me on a diet. I was not overeating and was an active child; I was just fat.
He always made comments about my weight and what I wore all throughout my life.
It ruined my self esteem.
No 8 year old should be worried about their weight. No parent should shame their damn child. Sorry, it's wrong and causes so many issues.
I love how the last mom reacted.
@@lisagouker7880 perfectly capabally of dying early I guess sense people like you are lying to her saying shes perfect
@@beryl5761 no as a child I'm very happy my parent forced me to eat healthy if they havent I'd be a fattass right know that's a job a good parent needs to do
With all due respect this little girl is extremely overweight but everyone deserves to be treated with dignity and respect
Imagine being asked to have a role of an overweight kid 😟
Edit: OMG Guys thank you for all of the likes! If only I had that many subscribers....
Sheesh sounds harsh
@@kellyhornsey582 I know
She probably auditioned for it tho
@@juliabennett7843 oh ya
@Ur irrelevant Imspeakingfacts oh
Imagine getting casted for this episode like “Hey we need a girl who is uh..... overweight a little bit.... and you seem to um... fill that roll...”
IAmFinnTV i was thinking that too
She filled a lot of rolls.
Casey Schubert jesus christ
Casey Schubert that’s just cold
IAmFinnTV I’ve always thought this but i’ve NEVER seen anyone comment about it 😂😂
My mum pushed me to a point where I couldn't eat any more, so this one really spoke to me. It affects me still, and I'm so glad these people spoke out against it, because I can at least acknowledge now that my mother wasn't right about what she said to me.
Sairah T same thing happened to me. I ended up in a hospital being fed by tubes. Don’t get to the point I did and give me an update to how you’re doing ❤️ x
I hope you're okay now. ❤️
My mum keeps pressurizing me and saying "Oh your starting to look fat, looking fat is discuisting."
"Lose weight"
I wish she wouldn't be so concerned about societal outlooks and stop body shaming me.
@@mohima1367 While what's she saying is technically in your best interest, what's disgusting is a parent talking that way to their own child. No idea about you or your situation, but being fair, people are way overweight, at least in the US, and that causes legitimate problems.
But did you lose weight though?
The teenage girls were so sweet and cute! They were like big sister figures, and it was so adorable. I love us! 🥰
Why would a mother criticize her daughters weight if she’s the one feeding her the food!
The stikbot Gamer Ikr? My mom does that😂
The stikbot Gamer True, and I'm not defending the mom but the daughter does get food at school etc. However, nobody her age should feel bad about the way they look.
But she excepts the food like num num more thats what she says dip shit not even her daughter
The stikbot Gamer ikr
4real
The last person talk so smoothly it sounded like she was auditioning for something 😂
Then your wish shall be granted
When the lady jumped I screamed and jumped out of my chair because I thought she was going to spill her Starbucks on those white ESPENSIVE dresses. ABSOLUTE NIGHTMARE!!!
Michele and Traci really do be the supervillians of the WWYD cinematic universe.
am I the only one who actually thinks she’s so pretty?
Sydney R FBI OPEN UP
@@CATGUTZ really?
kiara Rodriguez what ?
@@CATGUTZ sorry, I just mean are you actually calling the FBI or is it a joke?
kiara Rodriguez it’s obviously a joke 🌚
Parents are the ones who feed their kids
OOOOF TRUTh
Lord Fuckwad: exactly
Yep
The parents provide you with food to eat. It is your choice on how much of it you eat.
@@tater.5632 have you ever been around kids?? do you remember being a kid?? 90% of children would eat candy and chocolate all day long if they could. That is why there are parents ya dumb fuck. to be a parent. Do the world a favor and dont reproduce.
I actually started crying when those girls stood up for her like that. I really felt for her because my whole childhood i was chubby and had very low self esteem because of my family. They always told me i was overweight and made fun of me for it. No one ever told me i was beautiful.
I can relate.
You are beautiful, I am a professional photographer for models.
Can I have 5 minutes of your time?
I take pictures for a living, perhaps we could set up a time together to exchange info?
If you don't want to become a model, it's your choice..
Many others would love this opportunity
Snap photos are too generic. I need more personal photos
Yes, the parents are at fault for resulting in the kid being overweight. So by not shaming the kid, but supporting them in the process to lose weight, they will have a better relationship with health and fitness. So yes, it is necessary to have a healthy weight.
yess
"If you are confident you will look pretty in anything you wear" *PERIOD 👏🏾TRUST👏🏾 I LOVE THAT!*
Super Gamer_girl false.
Jesse Miles Accurate 😏
Incorrect
Jesse Miles 😂😂 That's funny 😂 your probably some insecure little shit who's self confidence is below the negatives😭 stop tryna bring others down cause your down only to make yourself feel better😂 You should know your beautiful and so are others around you, learn to be able to give compliments not useless petty derogatory comments 🤷🏾♀️👌🏾👻😗
Super Gamer_girl I’m a realist who lives in the real world. Fat people are not attractive or beautiful. They’re the reason the US gets such a bad rap health wise. Gluttonous disgusting beings.
man, this triggered some flashbacks to the days of clothes shopping with grandma. she used to say awful shit to me as a little girl about my weight and appearance and totally skewed my perspective of beauty. 7 years later after recovering from an eating disorder she wants to be all “you’ve always been beautiful” and “i don’t know why you resorted to that, you were fine before”. it boggles my mind how someone can convince themselves the things they said had no effect, but perhaps it’s out of guilt.
sappy i’m so sorry. i’m happy you’ve recovered (physically) even though i’m sure you haven’t recovered mentally. words can truly effect people.
IT can damage the Kid If The parents so IT Wrong. I belive There are good and positive ways to Help and MOTIVATE the Kid to lose weight. And If The Kid ist really overeeight, i think ITS the Job of a Parent to Help the Kid , and Not ihnore it and let the Kid get even more fat.
But Your grandma probably really forgot IT, maybe bcs she didnt think too much Into the Things she Said to You.
Aset Dedieva i’m sorry but i have no idea what you’re trying to say to me
sappy you are so so brave🌺🦖
The mom: maybe you should eat less
The woman: oh no u don’t
Well the mom is pushing her daughter to go on a diet at a very young age which can cause an ed (which is what happened to me) 😐
@@mae-bb7vw What if she is on the path of becomeing morbidly obese and dieing soon
@@borisgopnikov2931 then instead of the mother bringing her down she should slowly encourage her to lose weight in a healthy way which would be great for the long term. It’s not hard :)
@@oink3706 it’s not as easy as telling a kid to eat healthy. Children don’t think about the long term effects of overeating so it’s up to the PARENT to put their child on a strict diet to save them from diabetes, high blood pressure, etc etc.
@@mae-bb7vw obesity is literally causing people to die my dear, dieting is good if it's done in a healthy way. Are you in your 70's?
Me: This is a kid. Who's paying for her food? You? Well, this your fault. Fix you!
Exactly. She give Too Many food for her and dont make he love sport or games. Too bad for little girl already to be obesy when she kid.
*Me: It doesn't fit!*
*My parents: Just hold it in. Suck it in!!*
Killer Mode28 oh shit. I was thinking about something else when I read this 😬😬
imagine being in a dressing room and people walking by as your mom yelling that 🤣
+Taylor wilson I wasn't thinking of anything else until I read your comment, then my mind went to an *ahem* unholy place 😂
HAHHA
😂💀💀same
There's nothing wrong with encouraging and helping your child to live a healthy lifestyle. There *is* a huge problem with shaming your child, especially to the point where they are uncomfortable and embarrassed. Parents, take note of what the women in the video said and did. This is all coming from a teenager who knows how important it is to have a healthy body image.
@Leah Grace
My mom has even said she’s fat and she wants me to stop eating so much and don’t eat so late at night so I don’t become like her lol. Im an athlete/amateur for a sport and I do it every week day for an hour, or two hours 30 minutes and I’m not even 100 pounds so I think I’m fine 🙂💀
@@majesties4365 how old are you? What height. Because if you're over say 16 you may be underweight
Okay, so my Mum does this to me but it doesn't bother me. I know I need to lose weight and need to be healthy. Partly because I want to look and feel better and I'm not saying overweight people are not beautiful for both women and men. But mostly I'm not healthy. We actually went out to buy a dress for graduation and it was hard. And I don't want it to be hard in the future. But some things the Mum said in this video are inappropriate to say to a child. In the end, my Mum does tell me I need to lose weight among other things, but the good comes with the bad.
Matilda Robertson me too
Peachy Potatoes me too
Peachy Potatoes yeah!
Peachy Potatoes xD
all late! but I'm glad that your mom wants to motivate you to be better but also let you see that you are much more than that. My mom was the same way with me and honestly we need more mom likes that.
"if your confident, you'll be beautiful in anything you wear" 😭
If it's for looks than NO ! But if it's for HEALTH than YES
Yesss I agreeee!!
Not if you use the words that mom did that is pure rude right there.
Looks are important, you don't want your kid to lose attractiveness value and then settle for a bad partnership latter on.
@northhyuck yeah but why do you assume a good looking person doesn't have a great personnality.
People will choose the whole package. Why deprive the looks of your child, it s dumb.
Peach Blossom agree with health yes
Depression made me eat more. I was already slightly overweight my whole life but I got borderline obese by the end of high school. That made me more depressed about how I looked, with my family constantly bringing it up. It’s hard for anyone going through it. I moved away for college, and the freedom and not hearing people’s constant babbling about my weight allowed me to think for myself. I made my own decision to fix it and I eventually got fit by the end of college. I really don’t think continuously pointing out to someone that they don’t look good works at all. They have to make their own decision, otherwise it’ll just feel like they’re changing for the sake of someone else and not for themselves. It makes all the difference in the world.
(And I get that sometimes people need to have things points out to them, so they can realize their problems to better themselves. But, it all goes back to how you bring up the issue).
Gaunter O'Dimm nope
Cornberry: good for you, parents need to be sensible about obesity.
@Gaunter O'Dimm not all of them, have you seen these transformations with over weight people and they loose a ton of pounds. Think twice before you write something. It may put people down.
Ure wrong but yes it is harsh when they talk about looks everyday and there is a limit, but if its not for ur family bringing it up, it may just be another day and you wouldnt start exercising. Because of the hate that made u tired of if, u were driven by motivation to exercise.. Its about turning the shit upon u into motivation.. We are never supposed to be vulnerable to their words or whatever... We have to be strong... Maybe Im different because im in a different situation but im not motivated at all and im not overweight.. I live hating myself everyday, and i do try to exercise now and then..
If you want your child to lose weight, you need to change YOUR life style. If you are the parent it’s your responsibility.
Not fat shame them, but bring healthy foods into your household, and encourage healthy behaviors like exercise. Cause chances are, the child is already aware about their body image and doesn’t need to be called out like “Oh you’re so fat”, by their parent figure, or anyone for that matter.
yes they can only eat when you buy
Yeah. If your kids doctors says they need to lose weight then you should work with your child, not against them. Maybe, offer to go on walks with them, or enroll them in a sport. Feed them healthy food and tell them they are beautiful. Don’t fat shame your kids.
so on point
Amen
good job
This is really such a wholesome video. Everyone is so nice. Am so happy such people exist. Here, it's a skit. But in real life, people will speak up. And that's what matters. 💕💕💕 And sometimes in future, these people and their words will definitely bring a positive influence in someone's life 💕💕💕
Hold on if people watch his show all the time wouldn’t they know the actors by now? Like you know?😂 the blonde chic is in so many of these
Ambermauigoa lol there are so many blonde chicks it’s hard to remeber
Maybe they comfort purposely to be in a vid/the show lol
Ikr and some other woman with black hair
Marely Osorio You mean Traci lol
Ambermauigoa Yeah, I do wonder how nobody recognises Michele. Then again, people probably do and they just don't show it.
They always make her the ignorant mom or bystander 😂😭 Her acting makes it feel too real 😭
hits home fatty?
tyrone loki yeah when I was her age I suffered the same issues from a parent . Love the positive energy behind the message though. The show is very inspirational 💜 Does negatively hit home for you asshole ? Everybody needs love tho. God bless xx
@@barrettcarter7892
en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Qui%C3%B1ones
He's 5th generation American how can he go back to a country he's never lived in? 😑
That's the whole point of acting.
Barrett Carter oh stfu, fucking bragger. What did you achieve by yourself, without the interpreting of your “millionaire” parents or whatever.
That last Mom has me in tears. My parents always pushed me to lose weight. I wish I had a mom like her
My all time favorite movie and still to this day, so grateful someone spoke up for me when my birth mom degraded me every chance she had.
What movie is it please???
@@elissawyatt1585 Spanglish I love that movie and it says it at the end of this episode what movie they are talking about.
No one:
Literally no one:
Everyone on this show: “I’m shaking.”
I feel bad for the kids being hired for these roles
John: we need a plus size girl
Amanda: " I hope it's not me"
John: what about Amanda!
Amanda: GOD DAMN IT UGHH
It’s Me Gaby they volunteer :) to do the parts
They probably agree to do it, and they get paid, so no problem
I love that we use John as a representation of the casting agency and not just the host 😂😂
she knows that she is plus sized and there is no problem with that, and she get paid Haha
They’re actors, so they’re probably used to being type cast.
I feel sad for the little girl..
Ok, for all the people who don't understand what I mean, I feel sad for the girl in REAL LIFE, not in the act. I know that she's an actor but to be called "overweight" and be used because she is slightly "overweight" might hurt her feelings! Just saying so DON'T HATE!
It’s an act, just to see how society reacts.
Kōūch Pōtātō yeah but in real life she actually is “big”, even if she is an actor. (But she is still beautiful!!)
EXACTLY, you got the point!
@@nicolearcade7082 only on the inside tho
Nicole McKee she not even obese tho
“If you feel confident you’ll look pretty in. Anything you wear “ best advice to give a girl💗 shoutout to these sweet humans