Both Of Our Children Are Trans | MY TRANS LIFE
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PARENTS of two transgender children say they are not pushing an agenda, but instead supporting their kids with acceptance and love. James, 11, and Olivia, 7, live with their parents, Ben and Sara, in Berkeley, California. The family are sharing their story with the hope of normalising the narrative surrounding trans children.
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“Can we go to the pool today?”
“No”
*depressing music starts playing*
😂😂
😂
LOL😂
😂😂😂😂😂😭🤣👋
Audrey Gonzaga 💀
When i was 8 all i could ever think about was why the moon chasing me everywhere i go
I'm 13 almost 14 and i still think that😭
Honestly 😭😭
So true!😂
Amen
wait it dosent chase me ?
At the end of the day, they still have 1 son and 1 daughter
Just did the ol *switch-a-ro*
Exactly it doesn't matter if you want to change your gender as long as your happy
Yeah we know a female(the boy) and a male(the girl)
Children are perfect as they are, you have to teach kids to accept themselves for who they are! Just because you don’t fit in with popular trends doesn’t mean you’re anything else besides what you are. It’s sad these kids will never learn how to accept themselves and build real confidence
Now the son is older which is worse than the daughter being older
The fact that the oldest was pretty much “jealous” that the younger was “trans” as well, tells you all you need to know. They like the attention, as kids usually do
Yup
I hate to say it but that comment got me too, I noticed it straight away.
Yeah, it goes to show that the kids simply cannot understand the true scope of what they're doing. It's on the parents who are absolutely harming their children over their own ego and ideology
Listen buddy,
You want them to follow your strict unchanging Abrahamic gender rules. That isn’t traumatizing?
If you want them to follow YOUR Abrahamic Deuteronomy 22:5 rules (instead of freedom to be creative and make their own), then respectfully, SHUT. UP. Nobody wants to hear you. Adhere to your Abrahamic gender roles on YOUR own. Don’t force others to be like you or dress like you. Your Abrahamic dictatorship that has been taking control of most history will soon be over. You can dress according to the religious Abrahamic male vs female code, but YOU CANNOT FORCE IT ON EVERYONE ELSE.
True
I'm a trans man and I must say this seems very off. Makes me very uncomfortable
I agree totally!
Lmao well that’s hypocritical
its bcus maybe you don't have parent that support you and you were hiding in the closet for the longest time of your life. glad you r coming out n so you can judge other people that seeking their self! yikes
Why?
Same here, I find it weird that there is two kids who are trans it seems extremly off
I did some research for a current-time update. James still uses he/him pronouns. Olivia is now using they/them pronouns.
what did you research
@@AwakensYT lol whats terrible
Sylvanian stop motion star The post I found was from about a month ago.
2736 They didn’t do anything to the boy he knows for himself that he’s a boy. I can’t believe people actually think they are confusing them that’s just stupid.
2736 the children are clearly happier this way. That’s the opposite of child abuse
I was trapped in a woman's body 9 months later I was out
Lol🤣🤣
Haha!! 😝
This comment deserves thousands of likes
Nick Franco haha 😭💀
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You can legally drink until 21 due to maturity....... Can't rent a hotel room until 21...... Can't drive until 16...... Can't join arm forces until 18.......
Can't RENT A CAR until 25 😂
Can't get a tattoo until 18 except in certain States
@@crazyleaf257 16 here 😛
And yet people force us to be masculine or feminine from a very young age
All of those have deathly consequences if not careful nothing deathly about wanting to be addressed a certain way I agree with surgery’s nd stuff must wait until older but socially transitioning isn’t permanent
When I was 5 I thought, before the 80s, the world was black and white.
Ok
Same
Wait, it all wasnt in black and white?
@@kye4216 Never has been
Same
The boy doesn't look healthy, dark circles under his eyes, seems depressed... not really happy....
Which boy? 🙄🤣
Yea because you’re a licensed psychologist and know what’s going on in his life .
Green For Life YOUR SO RUDE
Romana Volny - How much sleep do you think you’d get if you shared a room with your 7 year old little sibling?
I mean, he's like almost a teen. When I was his age I was depressed and suicidal and tired all the time. I'm not surprised anyway, trans people have a very high rate of depression and suicide. That's a proven fact. Even when people have a support system. It just is what it is.
The weirdest thing in the video to me is the fact that they are eating dozens of cocktail weenies for breakfast.
B R I want to do that often. Maybe I just should.
@@brittaolson6550 Go for it
That's the weirdest?? Lol
Lol I was thinking the same thing. Like why so many? Lol
Its sausage 😂
This was so deeply upsetting. I actually did a google search and what-do-you know, the mom is now a prominent trans-activist doing multiple media interviews and talks about how her youngest is experiencing vicious bullying in school.
Probably hoping to get a reality show out of it.
Mom wanted all the limelight and used her kids as ladder.
Mom should be in jail
They really both pulled a reverse uno card on themselves 😂
SlickMilkAnimates hahahh 😂😂🤣
_NO_ _U_
SlickMilkAnimates im trans but I laughed at that comment
@@dxoq7404 lol
No a switch deck card
There is *SUPPORTING,* and then there is *SUGGESTING.*
Allison Linner right ! Ima need someone to run me the statistics on BOTH your children being trans ????...... because that seems off especially after the older one said “ well it was MY THING”....👀👀👀
Kevin Lopez no it’s not
UNC Kaitlyn Gaming It is because clearly these kids are being influenced by the parents.
Yes I agree
Kreamean Mpoof I don’t think so!
The parents are just accepting them.That doesn’t mean that they are actually influencing their children...
Also I believe that it wouldn’t make any sense,’cause it’s kind of hard to raise a trans kid!Bullying, prejudice and not being able to have a biological child.
I don’t know...
As a trans guy, this is not okay. These children show no signs of actual gender dysphoria. I came out at 11, and my mom sent me straight to therapy. It sucked, but I understand why she wouldn’t allow me to transition medically until I was 18. This isn’t okay.
They are stupid these kid might end up committing suicide their mom is an idiot
You have an awesome mother
what is the point in transitioning after puberty? You will look like the gender you were born with
@Nah but then whats the point in transitioning? If you do it after puberty then you won't look much different . I 've seen people transition after puberty they still look like the same sex they were born with , so my question is what is the point?
sapphire divine before puberty, you’re a little kid. you don’t know what you are or who you are yet and don’t know if it’s a phase. when you’re older after puberty, you’ve figured yourself out and know what you want to do with your life and what gender you are or would like to be. when you’re a kid you’re too immature to make those decisions
They’re letting a child decide about their future fertility…these people should be in jail.
I feel like it’s highly unlikely for two siblings to be trans. I think the younger sibling was either influenced by the older sibling, the parents, or both. However, the older sibling was probably influenced by the parents to begin with. There is more here that doesn’t meet the eye.
Exactly 💯 I stated the same thing in my comment
the younger one was for sure influenced
Its true tho like when I was younger I always followed whatever my older sister did if she was to do something like this I would follow being the copycat I was so that probably is the case here
Rebel Baby bruh you need to look at the facts. When I was a kid I got influenced by my brother a lot
Totally agree. Glad you can see and sense that. It's very apparent.
My dude is just trying to color.. like bro leave him alone let him color his treehouse
right i think the kids should just be kids i mean damn let them figure it out on their own dont make their whole childhood about sexuality. it shouldnt be like a lifestyle yk
Kassia not what I was saying but ok
@@beautiful10381 um ok?
@@mrblaz1893 ??? Something confusing about what I said ?
Ya just let him draw
For me the father seems depressed because the wife doesn't let him talk.
Maybe he feels nervous in front of a camera
Maybe he wants to escape this madness, but doesn't know how?
He's lost control over his household so of course he's depressed.
My daughter says that's why her dad is always depressed 😂
I think the mother seems depressed, because she needs to do all the talking, while he is just sitting there.
Mutilating a child should be considered child abuse. These kids are not old enough to comprehend a long term life decision. This is just not right. Grow up and then make your decision. Stop the madness!!!
I went through a tomboy stage from 7-11... I do wonder if I would've ended up trans if I grew up in this family
S S tomboy and transgender is a very different thing. Like I say don’t say anything if you aren’t trans. You don’t know what they think.
It's not the same being a "tomboy" than a transgender.
I always feel like a girl but I just didn't like girly things. I was a tomboy but I never felt like I wasn't girl.
All of my cousins were boys and I guess that's why I didn't like girly things but I never thought I should be a boy and these kids' cases are different obvisouly
Ya but I believe S S is referencing that you go through phases, may have not used the best example because people would of course find a way to turn that around because they disagree. But ya they are too young come on, if anyone thinks different, I feel sorry for your kids or if you have any.
There is a difference between being a tomboy and having a strong feeling that u r the wrong gender
Sameee. Never wore skirts, shorts or dresses. Had my head shaved when I was 5, I was soo scared of looking like a boy. I would wear a black beanie EVERYWHERE
Being trans was "MY THING..." hmmm, interesting statement.
Yes I agree. To me that is a worrisome statement.
@@missyharrison3868 incredibly worrisome.
I mean, they do share the same room
Dude, how many younger siblings do you have?
@@drebae95 it looks like the kids share a room and the parents sleep in the living room on the reclining portion of the couch.
I support transgender people 10000000% but this just seems off.
Yeah
It's way off , when I was 8 I literally wanted to be a dinosaur
@@landencockman3064 I still want to be a dinosaur I'm 18 now
@YaGirl Kk theres a thing called trolling
sketchy ' Same I had my doubts when I was younger but I’m not trans
I died when the mom said “my son sometimes would identify as half boy and half gorilla 😭💀
Her & her mom are both gorillaz tho
I'd be interested to see how they are living their lives now, something seems so odd, even their speech isn't fluid or childlike. Eerie & tragic,this is abuse, the gorilla line was perfect evidence that these kids have no understanding of the concept of gender, let alone transgenderism.
The parents are ill and I hope that the children have got through as unscathed as possible. Some people just weren't meant to be parents, this is the perfect example of such people.
@@tazmanianchic9425 perfectly said.
Yeah they should have transitioned her to be a gorilla
I was desperate to be a boy from the age of around 8, it was all I thought about. I wore boys clothes, played with boys toys and all of my close friends were male. If you had described the term Transgender to me at that age, I would have said that was me. But the feeling slowly passed at around 13 and a decade later I can confidently say I love my body and gender.
smileyguy24 I agree. I was a super tom boy and my mom was even scared I wanted to be boy. I had the short hair, guy friends, boy clothes, hated my body once I hit puberty and started to develop breasts, but as I grew older, I realized I did like being female and got into the girly things..so must of been some weird phase
Same
same! my life would be ruined now if the term transgender would have been around when i was a kid
100% agree. I have been saying for a while that if my family was “woke” like many of today’s parents then i would be a bisexual transgender man instead of a happy wife and mother.
Because maybe you just didn’t vibe with feminine trends! And there’s nothing weird about that, but to reject your body? To reject who you are as unworthy, to say you have to transition to another gender to be perfect, is wrong. It’s unhealthy to grow up so insecure
and I feel terrible for these kids
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This is very off topic, but please do not keep fish in tiny vases like this! Thank you! :)
Avery Chambers Yes! Minimum of 1 gallon per fish
Well it actually depends on how large the fish gets to determine how many gallons it needs.
Avery Chambers thank you, I haven’t had fish in a long time, it’s 1 gallon per inch of fish, not per fish 😊
Tyler Hope Betta Fish do need big space and shouldn’t be kept in this small containers. It is cruel.
Tyler Hope, I believe that bettas should be kept in a 2.5 gallon TANK at the very least (not a bowl or vase). I keep mine in a 5 gallon tank and she’s very happy.
It is not hard to lie to children. When I was a child, I convinced my 8 year old brother, who is 100% Japanese, that he was an Italian man. Let children like things without telling them that they're the other gender. That is true acceptance
As much as that would be nice, it’s not gonna be like that yet, but even if it does happen, what if they do feel like the other gender? Isn’t it better to support them? Rather then ending up with a child who feels suicidal and commits suicide? Better for the first route in my opinion
Or maybe let them be themselves and support them regardless of what they identify as
@@newtlyme7820 “let them be themselves”, this is the problem with you people. it is YOUR job as a parent to guide your child without giving in to their stupid ideas. children have these ideas when they are young where they are experimenting with dif ideas ect., but it is your job to teach them right from wrong. 9/10 they will grow out of it. it’s the truth. this should definitely be illegal, especially hormone blockers for gods sake.
@@soapy7619 as long as it isn't hurting anyone it's not a big deal. And considering how trans people are actually born with brains matching their identities, it's cruel to just plain out disrespect your child just because of your political bias. It is YOUR responsibility to support your child either way. All that these kids go through is a name change and a pronoun change. That's it. It's completely reversible, you're not worried about the kid, you're just worried about seeing something that's outside of your little box of normality.
@@soapy7619 also, the hormone blockers are reversible as well.
when i was 8 i would scream at minecraft creepers for blowing up my base
good for you??
😂😂 same
okay and???
@@mooopy4887 i wasnt thinking about changing gender or being trans back then, i was a normal kid
@@macbookxp529 ok but not everyone is like you yk??? some people suffer from gender dysphoria
"Olivia said she was transgender from the age of four". I guess she saw how much attention her brother got and she wanted attention too?
I think so
Exactly!!!!! its messed up
I think so
Could be. But I've seen/read about Transgender kids (around Age 4 and up) already so.. who knows?
Honestly I think it's very very possible not because of the age but simply because of the attention although there is still a small possibility that they are trans
Why are they eating cocktail weenies for breakfast?
So many of them too!😂
Could be some type of phallic symbology or it could be just... breakfast. Hell, I couldn't tell you! Only they know for sure!
Aww hell...cause it’s good
@@daynal9594 Lol that too! 👍
axel4196 phallic symbology...what...
When my son was younger he wanted a bionic arm. He literally told me that he wanted to replace his real healthy normal arm with a robotic arm and he was *very* serious. He kept saying that he wished his arm was cut off and actually passionatly debated me about it. He could not understand the real consequences of having a missing arm (in *REALITY* ) and how that would affect him.
He is now 16 and thinks he was a total idiot back then and laughs about it.
He now debates me about other things that I'm certain he will in a few years look back on and think differently about.
That's exactly what i thought...
When i was little i wanted to be Simba from The Lion King but guess what?
10 years later, i'm almost 18 and still not a lion cub.
ƒloriทα LOL!!:)
@@autumnrayz7009 that is not body dysmorphia lmao
Lol yea I think these kids are just crazy
@@emmyily that is a form of body dysmorphia ????? He wanted to transform his body to fit whats in his mind
If I ever feel like a bad parent I’m
Gonna come back to this.
Yes, my mum guilt is evaporating minute by minute!!
Yeah, it's easy to be harsh on yourself and it's good to remember that you're doing far better than you could have been
Same
This woman is literally asking an 8 year old about her/his PLANS FOR HAVING CHILDREN
Hes 11 i think in this video
And what about it? It's not like he's gonna have children soon, it's just that we need to think about the possible consequences before doing anything.
He's 12
This child literally made the decision to be TRANS, isn’t that a lot more serious than asking about his future plans for having children later in life??
His** and yes it sucks cuz he doesnt know if he would want them in the future but one thing is for sure he has gender dysphoria and it help A LOT to transition bit by bit
they went from brother and sister to brother and sister!
Yes :)
You mean brother to sister to sister and brother
Oof
🤔
Will im confused?
When I was 5 I didn’t even know what gender was
Exactly, so how did these parents know what their kids really truly wanted if the kids don't understand the concept of gender roles? 🤔 That is a big question
Same!!
@@HUYI1 not everyone was stupid enough to not know what gender is at 5 years old.
you didn’t know what gender meant, but you knew what it was
Goof
They say they want their children to accept themselves, when they can’t teach them to accept the way they were born and that changing themselves drastically is ‘acceptance’
Bruh when I was 8 I didn’t know what trans gender was all I cared about was why girls had cooties
Derek fan 1096 Omg lol 😂
@Aidan Donohue
libtard destroyed 😎 now let's go ban abortions
Aye finally a chat that has a brain 😂😂
I wondered why boys had cooties 😳✋
You would if you felt what they and I feel
I threw a soupcan at an elderly woman today. It broke her ribs and I guess she's doing pretty badly right now... What should I do?
no
Maybe or maybe she does feel like a girl, or maybe she was and waited for her brother to come out and she felt comfortable
@SaNdY LOUISE WoOdWaRd1969 To be honest, I did. I was always more masculine and all. I wanted to be a boy. Ever since I started first grade and I made actual friends.
If he wanted to copy the oldest, then she should've stayed a boy. Because no random boy says they want to be a girl at age 4-5
SaNdY LOUISE WoOdWaRd1969 it that makes sense but atleast shes happy
Can't wait to hear what these two have to say in 15 years.
They are happy
No father figure
@@josieoftheweek exactly they don’t understand what it means
TRUTH 100%
Rude
When I was 5 I was crying because my dad didn’t cut the crust off my sandwich.
Omg 😵😭😂
Oh my god dude dotn put that on RUclips my children are crying I’m crying that so sad
@@adityaparashar5154
🤣🤣🤣
Sad..
When was 8 I asked my dad why obama was running the country wrong and why is his healthcare plan unconstitutional because of the penalties for not having it.
That dad looks miserable
Hay Black He looks miserable like Bruce Jenner did before he transformed into Caitlyn.
Yeah something about him seems off
RedDead102 in a a couple years he will be pulling a Bruce. Bet on it
Hay Black i was thinking the same thing.
I’m happy I’m not the only one who thought this 😂😂😂😂
Red flag when he says about his younger sibling being trans “ i got a little defensive because I thought that was MY thing”
maybe got tired of the baby getting all the attention.. and thought ... I know...
Little and cute... dont top trans...
Because it is not politically correct to say cuteness is better...
I WIN...
then lil sis says I'm trans to.....
Damn... what was that 1 day....
SCREW IT ... I'm going back to being a girl...
lol
Trans is not red flag, it's sane. I see some feminine characteristics in boys, likewise some girls are masculine. We don't probably express it due to the strangle hold of society
honestly kids aren't stupid.but kids don't care until we insist.
@@rushmipriya Are you saying boys with feminine characteristics must be "girls" and girls with masculine characteristics must be "boys". How CLOSE MINDED!
I thought it was quite wierd as wel that he says 'my parents' instead of 'our parents'
These parents should go to jail!
Why????🤨🤨😤
@briannashelton1726 I can see they love their child but common sense should be cosidered before making life altering unreversable horrific surgery anytime the person seeking srs have no other legal rights....responsibility is protecting your children when considering castration a child responsible parents should get second maybe 3rd opinions....if the parents would parent and don't let the medical community parent their child. If the child still feels srs a solution when they are an adult then have at it but there's no ethical reason to sterilize n castrate mutilate young women breast's is absurd barbaric....
We are going to end up with a generation of mutulated sterilized aliens
@@KimberlyStubbs-rm8sz So true i completely agree these parents should go to jail
As a post op trans women I have to warn you. Dont let your kids receive sugery until they are adults. Its totally hell and is very hard on your body with a real risk of major complications not to mention they very well may feel different when they get old. In all honesty i wish i never would have went through almost 20 surgical procedures and just stayed as i was created.
@@Sophia_Sophisticated don't use them. You can't change your gender.
@@Sophia_Sophisticated what else is there to add?
@@Sophia_Sophisticated
Keep ur penny p
Even when there adults you shouldn’t allowed this in the first place
@Paleo Geology Thank You for sharing your story!! I HOPE you are an activist to STOP this Atrocity that’s going on!!! I wish you the best!!
At 4? Most 4 year olds don't understand the difference yet....Shady
Petite Fireball ikr
At four, I behaved like what most people would consider how a typical rowdy 4 year old boy did, but I never really saw the line between boy and girl until 9 or so. I was raised in a household that treated boys and girls the same until they reached puberty. I agree with this statement wholeheartedly and I wish my community and those who support it wouldn’t treat it as a trend or something to be publicized. I just want to be treated like a normal man, I don’t want “oppression points” for it.
True. But she had an older brother who went through it so She would have learned it more than other kids
@Simmonds I work in headstart and at 4 they are not paying close attention to gender yet. No 4 year old is capable of making a gender "choice".
Simmonds i only fully knew about gender at age 7 💀
Hmmmm, something about this situation seems off and their Mum gives me the creeps...
Her hair is giving me nightmares!
The parents don't seem educated on this ! uuugghhh
This is child abuse!
froggy9191 I know this family and they are so kind and thoughtful they aren’t freaky
That whole family is off lol
A moment of silence for the Dad
Irving Zisman I think his balls went in with the cocktail sausages
Best comment on here
Divorce papers.
Your pathetic human being Irving
@Complex Ez why-do-you-care
The whole family looks miserable
Nutty Professor seriously
Nutty Professor the father looks disappointed his wife def wears the pants !!
Except for the mother, she's pretty ecstatic about all the attention she's getting. Bringing in the cameras and wearing all the special regalia and everything.
They do
Sorry don't agree at all.
How does a child even know the word transgender??
Parents thought them which is sad
Internet, kids these days have more access on learning things easily
@@Katmp3 so a 6 year old is googling transgender??🤔🤔 Don't think so
Hope Harris I mean it’s more open these days and it’s totally ok. I feel like this young only hormone blockers is ok for hormones I would say 15-16 is a good age. I started t when I was 15.
@@hopeharris7389 kids that are like 8+ could I suppose idk
Just so people get it straight, being a tomboy and being trans are two WILDLY different things. I was the tomboy of all tomboys as a kid (even my older brother tells people that I went early in the "draft" when teams were chosen despite my being the only girl 😆), but I never questioned my gender; I just wasn't a girly-girl... and I still wasn't when I got voted "best looking" and "cutest hairstyle" as a senior in high school. Decades later, I still prefer combat boots over pumps, but I've always been a female and strictly dickly in my sexual preference 😊. People who identify as a trans man wouldn't have that experience (and their sexual preference could be wildly different too). My point? It's complicated - and it's highly unlikely that it's a "phase" if a little girl keeps insisting that she's a boy for years on end.
Thank you for pointing out the difference. I don't think the video's children are going through phases either.
@@bobdavis4848 My heart breaks for those who have to deal with so much discrimination and hate.
@@KB-xp6dq Mine does, too. One of my best friends' father shuns her because she let her trans son transition. I'm cis-hetero and I've spent hours in the past week supporting trans and replying to hateful, misinformed comments.
THANK YOU! Some people get it wrong and then become detransitioners but like after HRT and that hurts, moreover because of their experience all trans people get attacked
The United Kingdom has recently banned hormone blockers for children as there’s been an overwhelming amount of cases of regret and asking to revert back as well as serious medical issues
Good!
Good
Atleast there’s some hope for the UK
Good
I want to see your statistics, a very small percentage of trans people detransition, and most of those are from societal pressure. Besides, hormones, hormone blockers, that stuff is reversible. The irreversible stuff can't even legally be done until 18 and thats with a lot of therapy and 1 or 2 doctors approval. Don't listen to the BBC
I’m transgender myself, and honestly neither of these kids look happy.
I have to wonder if children of such a young age should be over facilitated as these two seem to be. I think at that age children who feel like the opposite gender than their chromosomes indicate should be permitted to explore but not required to commit. If my young son informed me that he was in fact a girl I would tell him that he could live like a girl for a while to see if he was sure. I would get him counselling to help him figure things out. But I would not require him to decide for certain and in fact I would not allow him to decide for certain at least for a while. It would not be until he reached puberty where it would become serious decision time and even then there are medications that can delay puberty for a while. The problem I see is that children tend to change their mind a lot and parents tend to demand a child make up their mind so I think what often happens is the parent demand a child pick a gender and stick with it. I would have no problem with my son/daughter changing back and forth regularly or intermittently just to make sure that they are indeed transgender and not simply either a very feminine boy or a very masculine girl. I think that it is difficult to be happy if the parents pressure a child. I don't mean pressure them to change but pressure them to make up their mind. At that age I had no idea what I wanted to be when I grew up and if offered a gender choice I still might not have had any idea what I wanted to be. Children have far more choices today than when I was a kid. What kind of phone do you want? Me: "I get to have my own phone?" Kids didn't have phones in those days. What kind of school clothes do you want? Me: "I get to choose my own clothes?" Kids didn't get to choose that either in my day. What do you want for dinner? Me: "It's my birthday?" Kids ate what their mom fixed for dinner or went without. Too many choices these days and now kids have to choose their gender on top of everything else. Too many choices leads to a confusing childhood. Gender is one of the biggest choices if indeed it's a choice. I'm 60 and I still am not sure what I want to be when I grow up.
It's probably because they're on hormones. These parents basically put them on birth control pills. Look up the side effects to that!
nunya biznez k
fuckdaswine true but you can change your gender identity.
@@tyr4m1 forcing wrong gender identity on children is an abuse.
Why is the mom asking him “what are you going to do about having kids?” He’s a kid himself.
because she can as it her kid not yours
She is asking those questions because when a child is transgender, they have to think about those things before they make permanent decisions. She is doing the best she can, and I think it's wonderful!
@@hayleyallover yes well said
@S E really do you think they dont understand is that because you're a kid or don't have kids
@S E do you think kids who go through the foster care system don't understand as that a adult thing to understand sorry you're wrong kids understand more than adults these days
I have a 5 year old boy who recently came out as a fox, we are now building a den for him under a tree and he says he wants to transition into a fox, fine with me, we are so proud of our little fox!
I never understand these "arguments" if you had a daughter that came up to you and said "I'm a fairy princess!" You wouldn't go "No you aren't, Melissa! You're obviously just a normal 6 year old, why would you ever think something as stupid as that" because that would just make the kid cry. You WOULD go "Oh yes! Good morning your majesty, what a pretty dress you have!" And if the kid shows a constant love for make-believe fairy princess games you'd get them princess costumes, fairy wings, those dollar store fake jewellery and crowns and more princess/fairy related toys. While most kids do grow out of it, sometimes older kids and teens keep these interests in multiple different ways. While I know not all parents are like this, good ones will continue to support their children through all their fairy princess related activities.
@@anokartist2352 Womp womp
@@Lego_fan112 if the only thing you can say in response is womp womp than I just won the argument
@@anokartist2352 honestly like until your atleast 14 I don’t think it’s good at all to decide your gender, like your mind is barely developed
These pretend games last for some time, not a life time@@anokartist2352
"because I thought it was my thing" they are literally treating this whole process as if it was a toy or something you know why? because they are still KIDS!!!! transitioning at the age of 5? are you kidding me
@@coxuzy_8453 His sister
You have to go though a lot of mental evaluations. Doctors don’t just throw out hormone therapy.
@@coxuzy_8453 who is?
Bruh your being mean they under stand whay it means 😑
Parents prob brainwashed children
The only thing I question is *why so many sausages*
Taking the hormones maybe make them hungry
Didn't you see how fat two of them were?
I was thinking the same!
lol same
Young kids often take on labels just because it's what they've heard or been told. It used to be a girl who liked typically masculine things was just seen as a tomboy but now it's a question of whether they're trans or not. Obviously I believe trans individuals are valid but sometimes young kids who are just being kids are made to think it's something much more
Exactly. I was a tomboy with short hair who did lots of masculine things. If I'd been told I could be trans back then maybe I would have thought I was. But I'm not. I'm a woman now and while I still play with gender expression sometimes I'm very glad I didn't undergo puberty blockers let alone surgery.
That's why there's therapy so they can wait and talk it out.
My friend was a "tomboy" growing up. In his late 20s, he transitioned. He's been taking testosterone for 4 years & is saving for a mastectomy. Perhaps this openness saves heartache later in life, for some?
My thoughts exactly. The more this continues, the more the world is gonna get messed up. Sure, accept each other but I don't think it helps by putting labels on everything. Gender doesn't matter so why can't you just be YOU? Just accept your gender, it really doesn't matter.
Jenn S. They are accepting their gender, just not the one they were assigned to at birth because that's not who they are or feel comfortable being. Just say you are transphobic and go, the world is not going to get messed up by parents loving and accepting their kids! Or do you think it's better when they don't and LGBT kids end up commiting suicide? Cause many VERY YOUNG trans kids have thought and attempted that because their parents wouldn't accept them. If you honestly think that's ok then you are the messed up one.
The first words out of the kids mouth “I felt something was missing” yeah… puberty.
I'm all about equality & being who you are but there is something really wrong with this something feels really off.
It feels ‘off’ because what we are witnessing is the manipulation, brainwashing and abuse of children.
@@CarolsDaughter85 I 100% agree! It's child abuse!
@@CarolsDaughter85 1000% yes, disgusting
I can't help but feel some of these children had parental influence.
@Serena Rios It kind of reminds me of sleepaway camp
Mom, can we change genders? Yes..
Mom, can we go to the pool? No..
Me: 🙂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😅😅
There probably was good reason but still funny
This is parenting
Lol 💔❤️🔥😂😂😂😂.-
How do children know so much about genders at that age? I literally just wanted to play outside.
I was killing zombies and call duty in playing new super Mario brothers, I didn’t care about my gender LMAO
For real . I didn’t even think about my body .. I just knew I hated to take showers 😤
maybe they don't know they're trans or maybe they don't even know labels exist, they just feel like the opposite gender. Gender identity is in your brain is not really hard, just the labels and the things deriving from it. Kids don't need to know the labels, i'll agree with that, but preventing a trans child from transitioning is literally abuse. Many trans children come out in a conservative and/or religious environment, which is potentially really harmful, and i am 99.9% sure a conservative/religious parent wouldn't force their child to live as the opposite gender. Forcing a cis kid to be trans is also abuse, i'll agree on that, though most of the time it's not the case when it comes to children transitioning (which is the opposite of what your kind thinks).
edit: trans children also have friends, play games, go to school, have good or bad grades, get scolded by their teachers/parents, feel awkward in family reunions, just like any other children would. They're not a type of vile wretched monster desperatly seeking for everything lgbtq+ related. Being lgbtq+ might not even be a part of their personalities, like being cis might not be a part of the personality of cis children.
thanks for coming to my ted talk
@@ireallylikebeees if my son wanted to wear dresses and play with dolls I would let him ... that doesn’t make him trans .. you don’t know what these kids in the videos are actually thinking and we will never know ... we need to stop being sexist and allow our kids to do and dress how ever they like ! That will help everyone ! But sadly us Latinos are so sexist we hate to allow our boys be “feminine” .. sadly many cultures are like this . But hopefully it gets better where a kid can be a kids regardless
@@Littlekitten_ you made my point. Let kids wear what they want, their identity and what they wear are separate.
When I was a little boy, I liked watching Hana Montana and liked watching princess movies. I even had a pink Nintendo DSI. Never did I once think I was meant to be a girl. God help these kids and every other kid from suffering the same fate as these kids. Like do people not understand that a tomboy is still a thing? Just cuz a girl likes wearing more boyish clothes and keeps her hair short and cropped doesn’t mean she wants to automatically become a guy. Some girls and guys actually find it easier being friends or fitting in more with the opposite gender but still want to stay their natural gender
True.
Something about this is off .
I have that problem too sometimes. Just make sure you don't accidentally double click the video, because that will pause it. If you keep that in the back of your head, I'm sure the video will always turn on.
Maybe the child abuse part?
There is something seriously disturbing going on here and I’m not talking about the transgender issue. The overall attitude and atmosphere of this family is so depressing. It’s really sad to watch. The Dad is just floating around on “Yes Ma’am what ever you say” Planet And Mom is just living out on planet Oblivion somewhere. Poor kids.
Dayna Langham I agree. Something is definitely off. I just can’t put my finger on it
I agree.
What do u mean poor kids theyre parents are just letting them be who they are which a lot of trans kids don't get theyre very lucky I'd love to have parents like these they are doing the best they can add parents
George Thomas no...no, I think you are misunderstanding my comment. I have absolutely no disagreement with the fact of these children being transgender (however I don’t believe the younger sibling actually is but I’m not even going to go into that), or the fact that their parents are totally supporting their choices. What I do have am issue with is the way I am interpreting the mother’s “support”. It seems as though she has these kids on display, almost like she’s feeding from their lives and dad is just kinda “whatever mom says”.
I am a parent as well, my oldest is 27, my youngest is 3 so I have experienced parenting at all levels. These kids almost seemed coached on what to say and how to think and that I do have a problem with.
shae baybii yep, that’s exactly what I was thinking.
Clownery...The dad looks dead inside
Yes he does
s u m m e r m a d n e s s 😔 for real though
Agreed. You'd have to be pretty dead inside to do this to your own children. Sad, sad, sad.
I laffed and i don't feel bad about it oops
Well if you lost all control over your household like he has you'd be pretty dead inside too.
When I was 4 I could barely wipe my own 🍑 and here he is determining his gender. I have lost all hope in the world 😢
Same
i just don’t understand how an 8 and 5 year old can determine what they “feel” like at such a young age
Jamari Young they should be teens to make a life decision I’m 13 male from I was born and I’m a male now
I mean I definitely felt like something was off but like??? I didn't know what being trans was until like a year ago. I'm not planning on coming out to the people around me until I'm 18
I figured out I was trans when I was around 12 or 13
They can’t. They saw a RUclips video and thought it was cool.
At 5 I knew I liked boys and girls
Omg... I'm speechless.
Socially transitioned at age 5?? At age 5 all i cared about was play outside with my bike instead of a doll. And that didn't make me transgender nor question my gender. I didn't even know the meaning of "gender"... I just want all this phase or trend to stop.
Children shouldn't worry about their gender at such a young age.
PopcornCat 15 have u seen jazz Jennings and it isn’t a trend
Its hard to not think about gender at such a young age when everything is gendered when you're growing up. Every kids toy has a 'boys' version and a 'girls' version. Idk just something to think about
👏👏👏👏
@@eviehope4432 yes, just about everything is gendered. But it doesn't mean we should change our gender according to the things we choose to buy. I was born a female. (Still am a female). As i was growing, i preferred playing with my brothers red bike than dolls. Oh, and i loved playing marbles. I even got into fights a couple of times with boys cuz they didn't let me play football. And the question to me from friends was " are you a tomboy"... That was in the 80s. The word trans was not around yet. I'm not saying it didn't exist. It just wasn't heard about like it is today.
PopcornCat 15 ok...I kind of agree, BUT, if they are uncomfortable, or they don’t feel good in there body, that’s not worrying about gender that’s being uncomfortable and that’s not ok for a child to be uncomfortable in there own body, that’s why they want to do something about it
Just because he wanted short hair and liked boy things doesnt means he is trans he could have been a tom boy . isnt it weird they dont want them to fall into gender stereo types but basically he only liked things connecting to the boy stero type
veah slays Exactly 🙄🙄🙄
The parents need help
Thannnkkkk uuuuu
veah slays yeah a lot of times they regret it when they are older and wanna be normal but it’s too late.
That's basically it
I feel like a lot of stories that especially involve kids end up like this. A boy can like dresses and makeup without being a girl, same goes for a girl who prefers stereotypical boyish things. We need to change the expectations placed on kids based on their sex without jumping on the trans bandwagon.
Harsh words but I won't apologise.
exactly aren’t they essentially teaching them that only a certain gender can do certain things
In 2019, I took my 16 year old daughter for counseling because she was depressed and it was one of the worst things I ever did. They convinced her she was a boy and encouraged her to go on testosterone that they said she could get without my permission. My daughter did her own research and found out how negatively testosterone affects a female, so she declined it. About 1 month into therapy, they called me into the therapy session where she told me she was a boy. I will never forget the day. I said "no you are not, God doesn't make mistakes". They made me out to be public enemy #1 when I refused to call her my son and by her "boy name". They told me if I didn't accept that she was a boy, it meant I didn't love her unconditionally. I took her out of counseling right away and never acknowledged this falsehood. After a lot of prayer and love, she stopped dressing like a boy and started growing her hair out. By age 18, she had totally broke free from the brainwashing and is now engaged to be married to an awesome young man. Don't ever give in to the pressure of accepting lies from the enemy. God bless.
That is horrible, but I’m happy god pointed her in the right direction!❤
NOW THATS a good mother if you allowed her to do that you waould be an awfull mother
@nameless1299 thank you 😊 God bless.
@@Urfavsammie Amen, Thank you.
@@LoveAcrossAmerica you’re welcome
This child is also using Tumblr talking points, which in itself is concerning.
Can we destroy that website pleae
Bees “tumblr talking points” my pal, these things exist outside of tumblr.
The things he is saying are explored in gender theory textbooks...
@@Valentine-kx7fk i know, it's just in all honesty, like most social media, tumblr is a breeding ground for disgusting ideas that make little or no sense at times. Tumblr just has the worst of it.
Facts
Nope. Theyre children. I thank god my parents didn't let me get the tattoos I wanted at 8 let alone decide such a life altering decision
I wanted a tattoo of my favorite stuffed animal 😂
Thank you. I love this comment 😂😍
But like you knew you were cis when you were a kid sooooo
Pickle Juice I'm bi actually. But children are too young to decide such big life decisions. The mother was discussing with the eight year old about having kids one day and they're just too young for that kind of pressure and too be worried about any of that. Kids should be kids. If that's taken away too soon more problems arise.
Erika CH smh.... No tattoos are a much smaller deal than ones own gender preference or sexuality. If I were to have gotten a tattoo chosen by my 8 year old self I wouldn't be happy with it in my adult years. These are CHILDREN. They're brains are not fully mature yet to make such a life altering decision. Regardless if it is the right choice for them, they should wait at least until an age of maturity to make such a mature decision.
When I was five I was just trying to watch all the ben 10 episodes
that was me with He man on qubo
Same lol
Same🤣
Sam here
I was so pissed when one of the Freeview channels put the episodes out of order
When I was a kid, I identified as King Arthur.
Where's my crown? Where's all the royalty affirmation that society owes me?
This just makes me so sad... I have a younger brother and from the ages about 5-10 I wanted to be a boy, just like him. I grew out of it when I started going through puberty. I'm 17 now and I cannot imagine what my life would be like if my parents had encouraged me to start transitioning so young... No child is ready to make such a life altering decision, once medications and surgery are involved there is no going back.
Interestingly, in Dutch studies, about 80% of kids with body dysmorphia who went through puberty (no blockers or cross sex hormones), became comfortable with their bodies and satisfied with their assigned gender.
@@annagitana1 That's very interesting! I wish parents would get educated on these issues before encouraging their children to transition. It's one thing when a grown adult makes this decision, it's another when it's child.
Same here ... The exact thing happened to me
Thank you !!! You are only 17 and can understand that children are no where near ready to make these kinds of decisions for themselves, while some adults can’t seem to grasp this 🤦🏽♀️
@@kryztynagil5328 There's no 'fun' in that!
Dad looks like he has crippling depression
It looks like he regrets a lot rip
Fr l9l
For real tho 😂
Yep
Well yeah.. I would too if I had to deal with all that.
The dad looks lowkey dead inside lol
Ikr.... #deadeyedaddy
You look dead inside
@@GothboiKenzy thank you, I try really hard to x
He is dead inside
....thats just a robot speaking
@sara Allison aka Miss true Freeman 😂 😂 for sure hippocampus in making
I am not transphobic or against their parenting but I feel the youngest is just copying the oldest.
Hey hey! Trans guy here, just telling ya that you have to be DIAGNOSED with gender disforia by a PROFESSIONAL gender therapist to even be able to get puberty blockers or hormones :) (much longer process to explain but this is it to the simplest form)
Edit: Hormone blockers also are not permanent, stop taking them and you go through puberty
@@waltor4987 even as a child?
@@waltor4987 no the bone development/underdevelopment can't be reversed. Growth plates seal. If a boy takes androgen blockers then changes his mind he'll always be gracile.
@@kilroykovky4636 hormone blockers act as a pause button really. that's the best analogy i can give you. the growth plates will not seal if you're on blockers. they will seal when you start cross hormones but that has nothing to do with blockers. you do still slowly grow on blockers. and if you were to go off of them, you would grow like you otherwise would
Please don’t assume
'We just follow her lead'
You are the parent jeez!
She's too young to make such decisions.
But hey who am I to judge
Gladys Kamau did you not hear the dads follow up comment...?
@@Ashhhhh220 which comment in particular?
Gladys Kamau
The one right after, at 8:44
I feel like transitioning this young is potentially problematic. I was a tomboy as a child. I had short hair, identified with George from Famous Five, and lots of male characters, dressed like a boy. But I wasn't a boy. I'm a girl. As I grew up I enjoyed exploring more of my feminine side. I'm now very happy to be a woman, although I still enjoy sometimes cross dressing as a man for fun.
I think people should be encouraged to express different masculine and feminine sides of themselves and be loved and accepted, but that's not the same as being trans.
Kids go through phases a lot. It's only later in life that you get a really stable sense of personhood.
they are only socially transitioning jeez did you even watch the video
@Complex Ez Hormone blockers are reversible.
Cherry Pie Not true. They come with an increased risk of osteoporosis, possible infertility, and the effects on developing brains is still unknown. The drugs being used have not been approved for this use and long term studies of the effects on these children have not been done so we don’t really know yet if there will be complications down the road.
@@FirstNameLastName-wt5to I know that there isn't much research done ( since it's so recent ), but it's better than letting kids suffer. Gender dysphoria is a serious condition and if ignored there's a very high chance of them attempting suicide, being anti-social, doing self-harm and becoming severely depressed. All of pharmaceutical drugs on the market have side-effects, but people still use them because they need to. Hormone blockers are the best option we have for these kids and if off them their body will go back to going through puberty. Plus, I mean the affects of puberty are irreversible so their body would never be the same.
Cherry Pie Scientific studies that followed kids who identified as trans have provided evidence that a majority of those kids cease to identify as trans as adults. The rate being as low as 63% and as high as 88% in the studies. All studies showed that the majority do not stay trans. So to make permanent life altering changes to a child is medically and morally irresponsible as there is a higher chance they will identify as their biological sex than being trans in adulthood.
For over two years I thought I was trans. It caused a ton of stress and increased my mental illness. I realized that I’m not trans and got this sense of freedom that I don’t think I ever felt. I’m praying that these kids aren’t dealing with the same stress I had to go through.
Thats good I can relate with this comment
Congrats. A few years ago, I too considered myself trans when I surrounded myself in an lgbtq group who encouraged this. I even had one friend who suggested I inject hormones into myself because I was uncertain of my gender. If it wasn't for my parents, who had noticed I was different and found I was considering myself trans online, and helping me realizing I wasn't I was just surrounded by the wrong people, idk where I'd be today. I have never once reconsidered by gender and I am very strong and affirmed in my manhood.
A vast majority of adolescent kids who have gender dysphoria decide against it later on. Telling kids to get injected hormones and extremely risky surgeries with major complications that legitimately ruin their body, is indoctrination and glorified child abuse. This movement is completely evil when you poke through the holes and realize what they are actually pushing. They are not pushing universal acceptance, they are pushing to completely ruin impressionable children's bodies and make them infertile forever.
I am very happy that you went back on your decision and I wish you the best
@@Zewind Yeah you kinda lost credibility when you called it a "movement" pushing an agenda. Being trans is something you are, nothing more, nothing less. You're either trans or cis.
Transitioning is a choice for some, and isn't a choice for others. You're also lying about regret rates - the transition process has one of the lowest regret rates of all time for basically every procedure, including HRT. The regret rate is 0.5-2% depending on country. The global regret rate for having children is 10%+.
Puberty blockers aren't dangerous in the least, their only effect is delaying puberty.
Once a person is of legal age, they are no longer a kid, and HRT + surgeries should be completely up to them - these do not ruin the body. Yes, infertility is a potential side-effect, and trans people understand that. Infertility isn't a curse or a bad thing if you don't want kids, and even if you do, you can deposit sperm to a sperm bank, or eggs for that matter. Or adopt.
The "think of the children" argument is so tired and irrelevant it's baffling people still make the attempt. The surgeries, unless necessary for life saving purposes, are only made on adults, and they're not "risky" surgeries. Any surgery is by default more risky than not having one, at least short term, but these surgeries aren't new or experimental. They're just regular surgeries. And for people with bad gender dysphoria, lifesaving.
Also, taking HRT for a day or two won't do anything to your fertility. Literally nothing. And your body will tell you exactly what it thinks of the hormones VERY fast, way before any permanent changes take place. So anybody "on the fence but kinda sure" who tries HRT (in a safe way) will know very fast if they're trans or not, because if you're not trans, you'll experience gender dysphoria and body disassociation when you take the "wrong" hormones.
@@jessiesfrosties Yeah you completely missed the mark there. All my claims have actual proof if you need it. Unlike you, who is extremely brainwashed and didn't provide any proof just made up things to counter my claims. The fact that you are detesting the sick and twisted things like gender changing surgeries and puberty blockers on kids that will ruin their life, that being appealed to impressionable children, just makes you look like a horrible person who cares more for unconditional acceptance. Here is a news flash for you. A person who really cares about you will not be accepting of everything you do, they will steer you clear of things they know will harm you. I am sorry that you think this way and I hope you try to be open minded one day and consider how awful this push for biological changes on children is. Good day
Okay but that's not everyone
“I thought it was MY thing” like what. This doesn’t add up
Smh. That comment was very unsettling. Transgender is NOT a novelty.
@@crums0nMyJ4cket very confusing.
Sound more like a status thing. It is Berkeley so there's a ton of acceptance there.
braindamage EXACTLY
H If you feel that way then, don’t use it😂
As a trans guy, this feels weird to me
I didn't think that heavily about gender when I was younger
I always pretended to be male characters
I saw a video on the internet when I was 11 of someone transitioning and thought "wow you can do that? I'll do that one day"
But I never actively told my parents
I didn't know it was right or wrong
I'm not even going to come out or start hormones until I go through extensive therapy when I'm 18
This seems like it was not approached correctly
Agree they are too young
Yeah, I kind of agree with this. I didn’t actually think about my gender till puberty started.
exactly, I wasn't thinking about whether I was girl or boy at five or six i'm all for supporting your kids and their choices but giving a child drugs now that's extreme.
I'm just asking how old do you think you should be to know your trans?😮😮😁
Luke juarez it depends on the person, I personally found out recently (6 months or so ago). I started feeling uncomfortable when puberty started making more noticeable changes.
"You were my first supporter and that made me feel confident that I will have many more". Said the four year old.
Rodgers Makaza she’s 7 they said
But I do agree with you XD
Isn't she seven
Who Cares what’s the difference 2 years isn’t much of an intelligence boost at that age
can kids not act mature?
When my son was 7 he wanted to be Darth Vader. I guess I should have changed his birth certificate accordingly to these people
Yup. You should’ve brought him to the Sith Academy on Korriban, bought him a lightsaber and funded his journey to the Dark Side.
@@himwhoisnottobenamed5427 ok please tell me your being sarcastic, please.
It's never too late to dis Troy his mind and body!! Go tell him fairy tales and get him crippling surgery, THEN you'll be cool and modern.
@@Pulsar_Copper_9wtf did u think
@@am.montyy idk like why did i comment this 2 months ago💀
When i was 5 i thought of joining the power rangers.
same i wanted to be with the wonder pets
When I was 5-6 my parents let me watch Tokyo ghoul because I could handle it and I'm just fine now I'm 12 and I'm a-romantic and asexual and I identify as a girl just because we're young doesn't mean we don't know who we are 😉 don't judge us plz
@arthur m no I won't
When I was 5 I wanted to be a saiyan warrior
I still have the power rangers scooter i got for Christmas when i was 4
Imagine if they grow older and they suddenly regret this... what a nightmare
they aren't on hormones so what's the problem?
@light light, EXACTLY
@@electro2781 the "boy" is on hormone blockers... that ain't right.
Imagine if they grow older and they have made nothing and went through puberty, and wanna die. Which is the case for most of trans people, very few had the chance to prevent their puberty. Which is a shame. Trans lives matter.
@@electro2781 They are KIDS. I don't think kids should decide on such a life-changing matter. If they are adults which could consent, sure, but they're not. Good thing my parents aren't like these people LOL I had undergone boyish stages, I hated dresses and pink and I kinda wanted to be a boy, but it's just a phase and now I'm not girlish still but I know that I am a girl. What if they are just confused? I do not hate trans people as they are still humans like us all but I am just concerned about these kids and their environment. I think it's too early for them to undergo transition because they lack experience and they still are not mature. Look at those kids, one aged 7, and "she" decided she wanted to be a boy at FREAKIN AGE 5, it's just unbelievable, and more ridiculous that the parents allowed it.
Is it just me or do they seem unhappy
They feel like they were born imperfect and the parents say “yes the way you are is wrong, so let’s change you physically.” It’ll never be enough, they’ll always feel imperfect because that’s how they’re growing ip
@@Silver-Freddy no they those kids both knew something wasnt right withbthere bodies.Doesnt mean they werent beautiful children and im sure the parents saw that but those kids knew they werent born in the right bodies.And how can the parents tell them different.How do they know what theyre feeling?They werent encouraging them they were just accepting them.And thata the best thing parents can do for a child
Would you be happy being a fat, ugly ducker? ;-)
One could put their kid on a diet and make her comfortable - instead they chose the "transitioning" route...
No they love themselves be happy for them
Not really in the beginning they seemed kinda uncomfortable (Olivia did) but if someone was filming me at 7 years old I would have been a lot more uncomfortable. So no they don't seem unhappy😂
They destroyed children's life
No they saved their lives
@@kalindamcnulty-uw4yh those poor children wouldn’t even know what being trans was had mommy and daddy not told them
@@clckc they didn't say I'm trans they said I'm a girl and I'm a boy.
@@kalindamcnulty-uw4yh same thing lol
@@clckc so you edmit that they know who they are
My baby is 4, he has no idea what trans is. Her 4 year old goes to the mom and says shes trans? My baby one day likes cheese burgers the next day he doesnt. They change their minds so quick, I feel like the kid only did it because the older one did when they are that small they like to copy 🤷🏽♀️. I mean do your thang though.
They might decide later on that they're not trans. Let them explore their identity and be kids. There's always the chance that the parents could be doing this for attention, but I'd rather give them the benefit of the doubt.
They're just letting her wear what she wants i don't see the issue.
And so what if the kids change their minds later? The 4 year old is not on hormonal blockers or something. They just.... changed their hair and clothes
egg toast do you know how that can affect them mentally ??
toast well she is to young to be on hormonal blockers, she still has her baby teeth. the older one already has something in his arm.
When i was 5 I was still wondering if Spider-Man 4 was gonna happen.
When i was 5 i would ague with my brother on why batman beats everyone, he would always say superman is super and we would laugh all day
that when you where 5 tho
When I was 5 I was wondering if a cars 2 was ever gonna come out. And it has.
Okay. All people have different struggles even5 year old kids are able to have complex feelings of doubt or not feeling like they are who they want to be.
When I was 5 I wondered why Ben Kenobi turned into a ghost when he died.
When the mom was asking her oldest child those questions...it felt like all that was rehearsed for the camera 🤷🏾
@Rowan I guess? No I don't expect children to always know what to say or even do. However it's most important to really hear and know what that child really feels and doesn't feel. Most of her oldest's child's responses didn't seem like they were genuine. It was more of what the mother may have wanted her child to say in my opinion.
@Rowan I guess? Right which is what I felt like happened here with it being rehearsed. I don't feel this was genuinely what her oldest child wanted to express or say. But again just my opinion.
100% the parents are messing with these poor children's heads.
he would have definitely been asked these things previously, mate. that's probably why. he's though about these things and he's been well educated on the subject. doesn't sound like a rehearsal to me - just sounds like he knows what he's talking about. could just be someone with a strong understanding of language and communication skills. i talked like that all the time as a kid.
They probably Had already asked them and just repeating it for the camera
you are a parent before you are their friend. you have complete control over them until they are 18. im trans and i will never let my child make such a life changing decision when clearly they have no idea what they are doing. poor parenting.
Way way way way too young to make decisions like this.!!!! 🤔🤔🤔🤔
Jay Miller you knew as a child that you knew who you were, leave their decision to them.
Rebekah Spears when I was there age I wanted to be spy im glad my parents didn’t let me make that decision
@@wildshadowstar xd
Rebekah Spears I mean, it’s the parents who let the “ok” sign to become trans
as long as it's pre-op, stuff's reversable tho
I just want to see them when they get older
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Some can.
When they get older they will more than likely regret their decision.
Overly Aggressive Meerkat yep
@@overlyaggressivemeerkat They might not, lots of transgender people regret not doing it earlier so it goes both ways
The dad looks freaking miserable
Dead inside
UnderCoverHunter You hopefully aren't anyone's father with how utterly stupid you are. Seriously, how do you not know how to form proper sentences, and not know the difference between "where" and "were".
Not surprised
Brianna Gordy ok grammar police
imagine he and his wife literally made them sterilised
When i was 7 years old, I love building my House with Diamonds in Minecraft and Call it a Home
No you don't...
I wonder how many of these 'trans' kids are gonna end up being 20-30 and wishing they hadn't taken all these drugs.
Exactly and the parents are concerned about suicide well by letting their kids think for themselves they are gonna push them to suicide
Look it up, most people don't regret it! It's very very rare that someone regrets transitioning, also, they're only taking puberty blockers to later on decide whether they want to go through male puberty or female puberty. I think they are too young to transition medically but transtioning socially and trying to figure youself out is fine and the kids should be allowed to.
@@edenp2465 How about they just be KIDS??
@@effaitch7629 kids who feel like they don't belong in their bodies and feel like they aren't what they were born as (cause they aren't) won't be able to "just be kids", they won't grow up normally, they will be depressed and anxious. Transgender people don't transition cause they just felt like it one day, they transition cause they feel like something is wrong with their current gender.
MANY
When I was 4 I prayed that I would be spiderman
When I was 6 I was bullied and being shoved into the mud, I see what you're saying.
@m. Well done for being close-minded and assuming all cis-kids are never bullied.
I watched Goten learn how to fly and I used to try to learn how concentrate my Ki
When I was little I told my parents I was buzz Lightyear
I love this comment so fecking much😂😂
Next we will have “the first trans baby”
It wouldn't surprise me freaken weirdos
Already happened
we already have genderless babies. True story.
Gendered baby opens eyes and touches blue or pink rattle. Trans confirmed.
We have non-gender birth certificates in at least 4 states (CA, NJ, OR, and WA).