Fact bro the fact he did all this for her was probably sleepy when she had the ptsd attacks in the middle of the night help her with her trauma and trust issues and all this just for her to laugh at the op and say this random person who is her friend just to say he does more and she doesn’t even recognize everything he has done for you this just makes me pissed
story 1: just call security so they can make it clear for Karen that if she doesn't follow the rules, she won't be allowed into the plane. either you board with a single bag or you don't board. story 2: with how well she lies, can you believe she loves you? or, maybe, it's another lie.
This is a piece of advice that my dad gave me about flying, even though I’ve never flown before: always put your essential items such as toiletries, meds, change of clothes, personal electronics, in one carry-on if you can help it. That way, it’s not as much of a loss if your luggage gets lost. This happened when my dad first went to Washington DC for a competition about 10 years ago
The last story. As a woman, I would tell this guy to send her back where she came from. Obviously she doesn’t appreciate him. She is Way too needy. Send her packing. Emotional Vampires Never get enough.
I feel like story 2 might be a compulsive liar situation rather than her cheating on him given the situation with the father. OP needs to confront her with all of this and get a story that matches what the others are telling him and demand she seek therapy to try and help the situation.
That second story he most definitely should talk to her about it because she's a expert liar due to strict parents so he definitely should talk to her and tell her that she doesn't have to lie to him
At this point, dude I would drop her like a turd, I think she is playing you like a piano or a violin. I would NOT trust her, I think she is entitled. I think you might be much better looking for a woman, say ten years and I think most of what she told you is a flat out lie.
That last story, oof it reminds me of my ex and the only thing to do is tell them that if they don't appreciate all that you do for them then you're done and just break up and cut contact
Just a quick addition here WRT the first story. Please don't misunderstand what I'm going to say, as she was definitely in the wrong, but it's actually not as easy as, "Just check one of the bags." When I travel, I often have several items that CANNOT be checked, because if they're lost it's more than just an inconvenience. In my case, these items are my medications and my work laptop. Losing either, even for a day, could either cost me my job or my life. My last flight I had these in two separate bags (mainly for convenience to get to the meds more easily), but when it was announced that we may need to gate check some luggage I did find a way to rearrange my things so that they were both in the same bag. That's where my sympathy for her ends. While it's not as simple as just check a bag, because it can be a hassle, you CAN find a way to do it.
They sometimes let the people with the seats further back go in first or first after business and special need people so that the whole central aisle doesn't get clogged up at once.
I think i know the truth with the last one. Its her good dreams. She probably has dreams where this guy her mind just picked out of no where gives her a tesla and all major this gen game consoles and still has money to shred. I aint no psychologist and i thought of all that. Also good tip, ask her what he has done for her
13:30 I lie a lot to my dad, I love him but I know he judges me for things that I do. Like I take Wednesdays off from work so I can play MtG with my friends at a video game shop and my dad has no idea about it because I'm scared he'll say I'm "wasting my time and need to be working". I know lying is wrong but I really hate what my dad thinks of me sometimes. I don't lie to my boyfriend about anything, I'm always honest with him and we always communicate our feelings when something is wrong. He knows what's going on in my life because I trust him not to judge me and always support me. I know in the beginning of our relationship my boyfriend got pretty busy with school or doing things with his parents and sometimes couldn't always spend time with me on the weekend. My dad would call my boyfriend inconsiderate and rude even though I know my boyfriend has a valid excuse to be busy but my dad expects my boyfriend to always cater to my wants and needs but that's not right. So I started lying about whenever my boyfriend wouldn't be able to come over. I'd just say to my dad I'm heading over to my bf's house but instead just go shopping or hangout with my other friends. I love my boyfriend, I don't want my dad to hate my boyfriend just because he doesn't see me every weekend. I always tell my boyfriend about anything I lie to my dad about and he completely understands as he's met my dad before and knows the kind of person he is. I hope when I move out I can stop lying to my dad about things that really don't matter in the long run because it really hurts to lie and I don't like my boyfriend being all mixed up in the lies I tell my dad but I'm just glad he understands that I'm just worried about what my dad thinks of me and to cope I lie to him. I would never ever lie to my partner about anything like who I'm out with or where I'm going. What OP's girlfriend is doing just isn't right.
If you believe that there is no love without trust you answered your own question what the hell you doing this woman you know you don't trust her she lies our ass off tell her she's lost all your trust and therefore your love and walk away
Bruh the third story I would just stop doing anything for her and let her see for herself if that guy is really doing more than me or not cuz im not gonna do anything for a ungrateful b like her.
3rd story sounds more like the dude /thinks/ he knows the kind of help and support the GF needs, but may not be listening to what she wants. (I smell the "nice guy" energy).
I kind of understand why she would lie. My father is not strict, but let's just say he wasn't meant to be a parent. Because of that I've always kept my family life and my personal life separate with the lies always going to my dad, and yeah, it kind of became a habit to lie to my friends sometimes because I'm just used to it...
Honestly anybody who cheats at the very least deserve equal heartbreak every time the decide to be garbage humans which all cheaters are, if you have cheated just know your walking garbage
I think that the nice guy in story 3 is actually Bob, that her mind split his personality into 2, or she herself has split personalities, undiagnosed. I don't know what that kind of situation is called. How and when, did Bob come over or call or do stuff with her? Was there evidence of his presence? She has to get checked
OPs in 2 and 3 cut your losses neither is good for you. 2 your GF is living to you and 100-1 she is cheating. OP 3 your being taken advantage of a belittled even if the support she needs if different than what you have given she needs to tell you that constructively not say sorry it's not even close you don't want me to lie do you is hurtful and shows there is no respect. You may also have a little bit of hero complex (not a psychiatrist only took one class of it) but either way it is not your responsibility to fix people take care of yourself.
Hold up what if the girl in the third story is like daydreaming or smth bc of her anxiety idk but she could be thinking back of her relationships in the past when no one is around and thinks this guy would do more idk
Story 2's OP sounds kind of controlling. I could easily see his girlfriend not wanting to tell him about going to a hotel party because she's used to her father freaking out at her about any kind of party. So, she's come to expect that kind of reaction from all men. Her parents' strictness definitely could also cause her to become a very proficient liar in order to avoid punishment. Also, I wonder if the OP would be willing to tell his girlfriend exactly where, when and with whom he is if he ever goes to a party.
it's not just about what she was doing but the fact that she adamantly lied about it, she went out of her way to try and make sure she didn't get caught. Because she wasn't going out on some random girls night out. She went to a party with a bunch of men that she was invited to by a man her boyfriend doesn't really know. OP made it VERY clear to girlfriend that trust is important to him, she lied cause she knew that OP wouldn't be okay with her going to a hotel party with a room full of men (or he might have been we don't know cause he never got the chance to discuss it with her) doing god knows what. Also her past trauma with her father doesn't give her a valid excuse to lie to OP's face, it's not controlling to expect honesty from your partner.
@@KC-nx8ol So basically OP can expect his girlfriend to constantly keep him up to date on where she is but the girlfriend can't make a decision to go somewhere (a party, or a night out or anything like that) like a grown adult without him giving her permission? That is SO backwards! She's allowed to go to a party, even if there are other men there, without even telling him. And with her experiences with her father, it would probably take her a tremendous amount of trust to tell him about it beforehand. But OP can't trust her to go out and have fun with other men present? That just seems VERY one sided to me. OP needs to learn to give trust before expecting it from others and if he can't then he is just NOT ready for a relationship.
@@EsmeeAnnamarie that's the thing, he DID give that trust and she broke it when she lied to his face about where she was going. Once again her past with her father doesn't give her the right to lie to OP. If anything SHE needs to work on herself before she's ready for a relationship because she is clearly not ready if she can so casually lie to her partner. OP never pressured her into telling him where she was at, he wasn't even actively looking to see if she was lying in the first place. You also should be looking at this from the OP's point of view, She told him that she was going out to hang out with her girlfriends only to find out that GF lied and she was hanging out with a room full of men. if that was your GF/BF what would you think is happening? It's perfectly normal for OP to have this reaction given the facts about the situation. If she had straight up told him that she was going to hang at a hotel party then OP might have been ok with it. but no she went out of her way to make sure OP didn't know where she was going and that fact alone makes her whole side of the situation super sketchy. **EDIT** I'd also like to note that GF had the chance to tell OP exactly where she was going but she decided to be vague about it which makes me think she didn't want him going in the first place.
The first story I understand why the luggage problem frustrated the person you have people that weigh over 400 pounds sitting next to you only have to pay for one seat half their fat flap is sitting in my seat but I can't have a 2 ft bag extra for the same price of the luggage fee
Can't shake the feeling with the last story that OP just sounds more upset about not winning a trophy for being the nuerotypical bf in a nuerodivergent relationship. PTSD and trauma survivors aren't just little uwu babies that cry sometimes and have cute panic attacks. It's ugly and scary and did OP actually ever ask what her what she needed? He gave her a support system made up of people she can't divulge info with- his family and that's its own bag of nuts. While it's sweet that he's trying to help and not saying to just get over her prinlems, if you want to support a victim, you don't shove them in your support shaped box; you ask them what works and work with their therapist or they do that work independently to manage- because the ugly truth is you never heal but learn how to be better than the last day. I'm a survivor of SA with PTSD and Autism and not once had my partner of 7 years ever assumed what I needed. He waited for me to explain as best as I could and I would tell him what I worked on with my therapist to steer me in the right direction. I have not had a bad day in a long time because of his support. Saying, "I did all of these things and you're just an ungrateful brat!" Is not how you handle these relationships and honestly, you should end the relationship not for your benefit but for hers. Clearly OP does not understand relationships with trauma survivirs
I watch this RUclips channel and am greatful when I realize I've never met a Karen.
Its only a matter of time...
Same
i have to agree
Same
Met only one and she was a reverse normal Karen she insisted to buying my food for me when I told her I have the money
last story dump her dump her fast she clearly is in love with the friend more and not you leave her before it gets worse
Fact bro the fact he did all this for her was probably sleepy when she had the ptsd attacks in the middle of the night help her with her trauma and trust issues and all this just for her to laugh at the op and say this random person who is her friend just to say he does more and she doesn’t even recognize everything he has done for you this just makes me pissed
ya
Strict parents make good liars
I came to say the same thing!
It’s why strict parenting doesn’t actually work.
@@Mario87456 true
story 1: just call security so they can make it clear for Karen that if she doesn't follow the rules, she won't be allowed into the plane. either you board with a single bag or you don't board.
story 2: with how well she lies, can you believe she loves you? or, maybe, it's another lie.
The first story, I have a feeling she had something in her bags that she probably didn’t want people finding out
@TheMainMon All bags go through security, checked or carry on so they would've known regardless
it sucks how there are people like this. at least we mostly get to talk about good people on am I the genius
This is a piece of advice that my dad gave me about flying, even though I’ve never flown before: always put your essential items such as toiletries, meds, change of clothes, personal electronics, in one carry-on if you can help it. That way, it’s not as much of a loss if your luggage gets lost. This happened when my dad first went to Washington DC for a competition about 10 years ago
Good advice
2nd story I willing bet She kept you away from party from finding out she actually a cheater and someone does this for some more than a relationship.
I don’t she is a cheater.
She not a cheater her friends all know she has a bf and her friends literally was like nah bruh she came alone
The last story. As a woman, I would tell this guy to send her back where she came from. Obviously she doesn’t appreciate him. She is Way too needy. Send her packing. Emotional Vampires Never get enough.
I feel like story 2 might be a compulsive liar situation rather than her cheating on him given the situation with the father. OP needs to confront her with all of this and get a story that matches what the others are telling him and demand she seek therapy to try and help the situation.
I think in story 2 the biggest red flag is shes treating her bf like her abusive father lying to go out x
Oh man the nostalgia of the game playing in the background. I played the absolute hell put of it on my ps2 when I was younger
That second story he most definitely should talk to her about it because she's a expert liar due to strict parents so he definitely should talk to her and tell her that she doesn't have to lie to him
At this point, dude I would drop her like a turd, I think she is playing you like a piano or a violin.
I would NOT trust her, I think she is entitled. I think you might be much better looking for a
woman, say ten years and I think most of what she told you is a flat out lie.
That last story, oof it reminds me of my ex and the only thing to do is tell them that if they don't appreciate all that you do for them then you're done and just break up and cut contact
1:11 You were sleep deprived AND tired? What a double whammy!
Just a quick addition here WRT the first story.
Please don't misunderstand what I'm going to say, as she was definitely in the wrong, but it's actually not as easy as, "Just check one of the bags." When I travel, I often have several items that CANNOT be checked, because if they're lost it's more than just an inconvenience. In my case, these items are my medications and my work laptop. Losing either, even for a day, could either cost me my job or my life. My last flight I had these in two separate bags (mainly for convenience to get to the meds more easily), but when it was announced that we may need to gate check some luggage I did find a way to rearrange my things so that they were both in the same bag.
That's where my sympathy for her ends. While it's not as simple as just check a bag, because it can be a hassle, you CAN find a way to do it.
Story 2 - She's playing you! Walk away from her ASAP!!!!
For the second story
That's pretty bad lie really, like, i can think of 10 better ones of the top of my head
Why does anyone need to board the flight first. They aren't gonna run out of seats.
They sometimes let the people with the seats further back go in first or first after business and special need people so that the whole central aisle doesn't get clogged up at once.
Story 2, what was the point in the girlfriend lying, like what was the reason she felt she had to lie about the actual event?
I think i know the truth with the last one. Its her good dreams. She probably has dreams where this guy her mind just picked out of no where gives her a tesla and all major this gen game consoles and still has money to shred. I aint no psychologist and i thought of all that. Also good tip, ask her what he has done for her
13:30 I lie a lot to my dad, I love him but I know he judges me for things that I do. Like I take Wednesdays off from work so I can play MtG with my friends at a video game shop and my dad has no idea about it because I'm scared he'll say I'm "wasting my time and need to be working". I know lying is wrong but I really hate what my dad thinks of me sometimes. I don't lie to my boyfriend about anything, I'm always honest with him and we always communicate our feelings when something is wrong. He knows what's going on in my life because I trust him not to judge me and always support me. I know in the beginning of our relationship my boyfriend got pretty busy with school or doing things with his parents and sometimes couldn't always spend time with me on the weekend. My dad would call my boyfriend inconsiderate and rude even though I know my boyfriend has a valid excuse to be busy but my dad expects my boyfriend to always cater to my wants and needs but that's not right. So I started lying about whenever my boyfriend wouldn't be able to come over. I'd just say to my dad I'm heading over to my bf's house but instead just go shopping or hangout with my other friends. I love my boyfriend, I don't want my dad to hate my boyfriend just because he doesn't see me every weekend. I always tell my boyfriend about anything I lie to my dad about and he completely understands as he's met my dad before and knows the kind of person he is. I hope when I move out I can stop lying to my dad about things that really don't matter in the long run because it really hurts to lie and I don't like my boyfriend being all mixed up in the lies I tell my dad but I'm just glad he understands that I'm just worried about what my dad thinks of me and to cope I lie to him. I would never ever lie to my partner about anything like who I'm out with or where I'm going. What OP's girlfriend is doing just isn't right.
Man karens are wild
I’m 14, listening to the controlling dad story, while walking a dog … at 9 pm 😂
It's a good day when Am I The Jerk uploads a video.
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I would say I don't care who the hell you think you are you going to have to follow the rules just like everyone else or just find another flight
Re the Lying girlfriend. When she said that she lies to her dad on the regular that should have been your first red flag. 🙄
3rd story guy “I thought my patience and understanding was paying off” reeks of Nice Guy Syndrome.
She had contraband and didn't want her bag out of her hands
The OP in the first story dodge bullet
Thank god the smooth voice is back. The other one was to high pitched, seemed like he was always yelling.
I am just asking this out of curiosity where has oh nickel been?
Omg I'm early!!! I love the videos guys, keep it up ❤️
She have to swim home.
If you believe that there is no love without trust you answered your own question what the hell you doing this woman you know you don't trust her she lies our ass off tell her she's lost all your trust and therefore your love and walk away
What I would do in the last story have her sit down and write 2 separate lists on what each of them have done and show her who really has done more
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Bruh the third story I would just stop doing anything for her and let her see for herself if that guy is really doing more than me or not cuz im not gonna do anything for a ungrateful b like her.
3rd story sounds more like the dude /thinks/ he knows the kind of help and support the GF needs, but may not be listening to what she wants. (I smell the "nice guy" energy).
that's what karen gets for being spoiled?
I kind of understand why she would lie. My father is not strict, but let's just say he wasn't meant to be a parent. Because of that I've always kept my family life and my personal life separate with the lies always going to my dad, and yeah, it kind of became a habit to lie to my friends sometimes because I'm just used to it...
That's a reason, not a valid excuse. Seek help and get over the trauma instead of passing it on to others.
Honestly anybody who cheats at the very least deserve equal heartbreak every time the decide to be garbage humans which all cheaters are, if you have cheated just know your walking garbage
I think that the nice guy in story 3 is actually Bob, that her mind split his personality into 2, or she herself has split personalities, undiagnosed. I don't know what that kind of situation is called. How and when, did Bob come over or call or do stuff with her? Was there evidence of his presence? She has to get checked
If there's any justice, Karen would have had to sleep in the airport
Girlfriend sounds unbalanced. Walk away
OPs in 2 and 3 cut your losses neither is good for you. 2 your GF is living to you and 100-1 she is cheating. OP 3 your being taken advantage of a belittled even if the support she needs if different than what you have given she needs to tell you that constructively not say sorry it's not even close you don't want me to lie do you is hurtful and shows there is no respect. You may also have a little bit of hero complex (not a psychiatrist only took one class of it) but either way it is not your responsibility to fix people take care of yourself.
Karen go burrrrrr
Bruuh what is that Looney tunes racing game!? That looks awesome 😂
Anyone know?
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Story 2 : the relationship can be savageble .
Last story: break up
Hold up what if the girl in the third story is like daydreaming or smth bc of her anxiety idk but she could be thinking back of her relationships in the past when no one is around and thinks this guy would do more idk
Why does the second story sound so familiar??
Story 2's OP sounds kind of controlling. I could easily see his girlfriend not wanting to tell him about going to a hotel party because she's used to her father freaking out at her about any kind of party. So, she's come to expect that kind of reaction from all men. Her parents' strictness definitely could also cause her to become a very proficient liar in order to avoid punishment. Also, I wonder if the OP would be willing to tell his girlfriend exactly where, when and with whom he is if he ever goes to a party.
it's not just about what she was doing but the fact that she adamantly lied about it, she went out of her way to try and make sure she didn't get caught. Because she wasn't going out on some random girls night out. She went to a party with a bunch of men that she was invited to by a man her boyfriend doesn't really know. OP made it VERY clear to girlfriend that trust is important to him, she lied cause she knew that OP wouldn't be okay with her going to a hotel party with a room full of men (or he might have been we don't know cause he never got the chance to discuss it with her) doing god knows what. Also her past trauma with her father doesn't give her a valid excuse to lie to OP's face, it's not controlling to expect honesty from your partner.
@@KC-nx8ol So basically OP can expect his girlfriend to constantly keep him up to date on where she is but the girlfriend can't make a decision to go somewhere (a party, or a night out or anything like that) like a grown adult without him giving her permission? That is SO backwards! She's allowed to go to a party, even if there are other men there, without even telling him. And with her experiences with her father, it would probably take her a tremendous amount of trust to tell him about it beforehand. But OP can't trust her to go out and have fun with other men present? That just seems VERY one sided to me. OP needs to learn to give trust before expecting it from others and if he can't then he is just NOT ready for a relationship.
@@EsmeeAnnamarie that's the thing, he DID give that trust and she broke it when she lied to his face about where she was going. Once again her past with her father doesn't give her the right to lie to OP. If anything SHE needs to work on herself before she's ready for a relationship because she is clearly not ready if she can so casually lie to her partner. OP never pressured her into telling him where she was at, he wasn't even actively looking to see if she was lying in the first place. You also should be looking at this from the OP's point of view, She told him that she was going out to hang out with her girlfriends only to find out that GF lied and she was hanging out with a room full of men. if that was your GF/BF what would you think is happening? It's perfectly normal for OP to have this reaction given the facts about the situation. If she had straight up told him that she was going to hang at a hotel party then OP might have been ok with it. but no she went out of her way to make sure OP didn't know where she was going and that fact alone makes her whole side of the situation super sketchy.
**EDIT** I'd also like to note that GF had the chance to tell OP exactly where she was going but she decided to be vague about it which makes me think she didn't want him going in the first place.
Story 2 drop the GF she got her cheeks clapped
Karen’s… Christians say god likes everyone except probably karens
The 3rd story she’s cheating
what game is showing in these stories?
What is this game
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The first story I understand why the luggage problem frustrated the person you have people that weigh over 400 pounds sitting next to you only have to pay for one seat half their fat flap is sitting in my seat but I can't have a 2 ft bag extra for the same price of the luggage fee
Notification squad 😂
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Can't shake the feeling with the last story that OP just sounds more upset about not winning a trophy for being the nuerotypical bf in a nuerodivergent relationship. PTSD and trauma survivors aren't just little uwu babies that cry sometimes and have cute panic attacks.
It's ugly and scary and did OP actually ever ask what her what she needed? He gave her a support system made up of people she can't divulge info with- his family and that's its own bag of nuts. While it's sweet that he's trying to help and not saying to just get over her prinlems, if you want to support a victim, you don't shove them in your support shaped box; you ask them what works and work with their therapist or they do that work independently to manage- because the ugly truth is you never heal but learn how to be better than the last day.
I'm a survivor of SA with PTSD and Autism and not once had my partner of 7 years ever assumed what I needed. He waited for me to explain as best as I could and I would tell him what I worked on with my therapist to steer me in the right direction. I have not had a bad day in a long time because of his support.
Saying, "I did all of these things and you're just an ungrateful brat!" Is not how you handle these relationships and honestly, you should end the relationship not for your benefit but for hers. Clearly OP does not understand relationships with trauma survivirs
Oh, Boo Hoo. 🙄
My name is Kiran not Karen ok plz don't mix it up
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First lol
second lol
I'd tell her to go meet Bob and block her all ways.