The Shocking Truth Behind Narcissistic Trauma - How Cult Leaders Use It to Mask Their Shame!

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  • @RICHARDGRANNON
    @RICHARDGRANNON  3 месяца назад +4

    www.richardgrannon.com/narcissistic-cults-decoded-course

    • @mkaz3997
      @mkaz3997 3 месяца назад

      @@billgaits3717 Ah....but should it go before or after the 's'? How many cult leaders, one or more?

  • @CradleofLifeSA
    @CradleofLifeSA 3 месяца назад +17

    Yes, they def have a pathological fear of abandonment & just being alone🤔

  • @lisakaler4121
    @lisakaler4121 3 месяца назад +32

    You should do a video about the playboy bunny cult Hefner created. I heard he was actually afraid to be alone and had no personality. That sounds like thats why he created all the playgirls so they could fawn and adore him but he was actually a weak scared little boy behind the facade he created and a lot of those girls are really messed up now because of that.

    • @karagraham9764
      @karagraham9764 3 месяца назад +4

      I agree this would be an interesting topic. I’m not sure I would say they are all messed up now because most bunnies actually had no intimate relations with him. Those who are speaking up now, that were part of the inner circle had a rough go of being deprogrammed

    • @RichardYu-rj3yl
      @RichardYu-rj3yl 3 месяца назад +6

      Better yet do a video on the cult of the catholic church.

    • @lisakaler4121
      @lisakaler4121 3 месяца назад +4

      @@RichardYu-rj3yl Yeah, both.

  • @clairexxx0405
    @clairexxx0405 3 месяца назад +13

    Absolutely and it's very damaging to the one who grows up never being good enough

  • @nryane
    @nryane 3 месяца назад +7

    My youngest brother was the black sheep, mainly because he looked like my father, and behaved in similar ways to my father’s younger self - vulnerable, gentle, kind - before the damage which changed him.
    For a while, I was the golden child, because I was the first child and an achiever. When, as a teenager, I began to SEE my father as who he was - manipulating liar, etc. - he turned on me, as well.

  • @MagdaleneDivine
    @MagdaleneDivine 3 месяца назад +16

    Sir, as an empath the number one way i know someone has suffered from sexual abuse or assault is the shame in their eyes.
    For just a split second a shadow of shame when i meet their gaze and heres the kicker and breaks my heart: ITS NOT THEIR OWN SHAME.
    Its someone else's shame.
    And what it is is what sociopath or hell a narcissist does is to project their shame onto others. Just for making them remember that they feel ashamed.
    And what are cult leaders?
    Narcissists.

    • @johannakunze3300
      @johannakunze3300 3 месяца назад +2

      I love this.

    • @MagdaleneDivine
      @MagdaleneDivine 3 месяца назад

      @@johannakunze3300 tis but only true

    • @Getout249
      @Getout249 3 месяца назад +2

      Please just stop using “empath” it’s not a real thing. Most people have empathy.

    • @MagdaleneDivine
      @MagdaleneDivine 3 месяца назад +1

      @@Getout249 muted

    • @Getout249
      @Getout249 3 месяца назад +1

      @@MagdaleneDivine Muted for stating a small fact that “empath” isn’t a real thing and to add, it’s very culty to use it. Sounds like something a narcissist would do, can’t take any criticism

  • @RedroomStudios
    @RedroomStudios 3 месяца назад +9

    fascinating clip! it's sad that humans are constantly and repeatedly manipulated by defective people among us in pursuit of power and at the cost of the followers humanity.

  • @BuddysBestie
    @BuddysBestie 3 месяца назад +13

    3:15 That is exactly what it was like in the cult I was in. When I decided to take a job offer that required me to move abroad, the leader perceived it as a personal betrayal and abandonment as well as an abandoning of the community (even though there are community members across the country 🙄). In retrospect, it was really weird. They attended my going away party, were full of happy tears and well wishes for me. We had plans for ways I could remain in the community even while abroad. And then…I was immediately discarded as soon as my plane was across the water. It was kind of like they opened the door to let me out and then slammed and locked it behind me.
    (And yes, I’m currently in therapy for it.)

    • @SherryWilson-dk7bo
      @SherryWilson-dk7bo 3 месяца назад +3

      So sorry, prayers and blessings ❤🙏

    • @iugaldem
      @iugaldem 2 месяца назад +2

      It seems to me that you were very lucky to be descarded.

    • @BuddysBestie
      @BuddysBestie 2 месяца назад +4

      @@iugaldem Looking back on 20 years of being in that cult, which was often a cult of one, I definitely consider myself fortunate to be discarded. What surprised me was that 6 weeks after being discarded, my stress levels dropped, my sleep improved significantly, and my unexplained body pain and inflammation disappeared.

    • @iugaldem
      @iugaldem 2 месяца назад +2

      @@BuddysBestie Good for you! Keep getting better.

  • @LinNoOne
    @LinNoOne 3 месяца назад +9

    I am really glad you are collaborating with Marc that is a smart match

  • @oceanside13
    @oceanside13 3 месяца назад +6

    My dad was the cult leader for my mom, me, and my 5 siblings. Magic p€n!$, Bible, sadism, and all. I say WAS because I escaped the cult, as the family scapegoat and outcast, so IDK what the status of the cult is, but I'm out.

  • @triple999fruitful
    @triple999fruitful 3 месяца назад +7

    Your guest is refreshing !

  • @audbod4140
    @audbod4140 3 месяца назад +15

    For some reason, when Marc explains cult leaders tactics, I can see npd tactics so clearly. Perhaps cos I'm well out of the thrall...thank god.
    Do what the cult leader/npd tells you.
    Believe what the cult leader/npd tells you...
    OR be punished or shamed
    But NEVER see how pathetic and vulnerable they really are.

  • @brusselsprout5851
    @brusselsprout5851 3 месяца назад +3

    The cult is the supply.
    This is chock full of yep, yep, yep.

  • @grammygirlforgod9326
    @grammygirlforgod9326 14 дней назад

    I would love to hear your assessment of a situation going on here in the US, that of ‘Pastor’ JP (John Paul) Miller and his now deceased wife, Mica Miller. I believe if you were to break down the dynamics and bring definition to the things Mica experienced, it would be helpful for a lot of women in similar situations to this to see the abuse for what it is. 💕🙏 Much love and blessings to you, dear Richard!

  • @renchemarais8419
    @renchemarais8419 3 месяца назад +1

    ALL SO VERY TRUE

  • @whadis404
    @whadis404 3 месяца назад +1

    I’d love to talk to you two about my cult experiences

  • @heatherthompson769
    @heatherthompson769 3 месяца назад

    Fascinating!
    I was in a cult. SO GLAD I’m out!

  • @nicholes3781
    @nicholes3781 3 месяца назад +1

    I'm in agreeance for the most part, but wonder, is a person who fears abandonment always viewed as pathetic by you, or just as it pertains to narcissism?

  • @adarshkaur
    @adarshkaur 3 месяца назад

    this is really good - accurate

  • @spitfirered
    @spitfirered 3 месяца назад +9

    Sounds Like Everyone Who Says They Have Power In Politics!

    • @RedroomStudios
      @RedroomStudios 3 месяца назад

      I was thinking the same thing... these days it is reaching new levels of toxicity though. the leaders of western nations are destroying their own populations in pursuit of global power.

  • @AlgoRhythmmike
    @AlgoRhythmmike 3 месяца назад +2

    After the reset, I'm going to start a cult.

    • @Levandetag
      @Levandetag 3 месяца назад +1

      =D Good luck, or God is me ;)

  • @MagdaleneDivine
    @MagdaleneDivine 3 месяца назад +1

    It double posted but if i erased one it erases both

  • @christophermoody6840
    @christophermoody6840 3 месяца назад

    No live chat?

  • @Michael_Arguello
    @Michael_Arguello 3 месяца назад

    Soooo, according to this video, Heaven’s Gate is not a cult. Seriously. So…I guess that’s that. I guess they were just experiencing a shared psychosis. Right…

  • @user-ws9tb7zt1h
    @user-ws9tb7zt1h 3 месяца назад

    🧐💯😇

  • @jonsnow911
    @jonsnow911 3 месяца назад

    00:50

  • @user-db3oi8jb2y
    @user-db3oi8jb2y 3 месяца назад

    Подскажите, где можно послушать с переводом на русский язык ❤

  • @ChristOfHer333
    @ChristOfHer333 3 месяца назад

    Unfortunate surname! 😁

  • @MagdaleneDivine
    @MagdaleneDivine 3 месяца назад

    I had an argument with this 27 year old who couldn't tell a true philosophy from a distorted philosophy contorted for the gain of a psychopathy (ie psychopathy)
    Im probably misspellings but I'm bored of typing
    And im not gonna bother finding the link if you don't notice this comment.
    Causr the guy...well i think you would understand my point.
    I commented on another video probably a day and a half ago

    • @williamtiffee3799
      @williamtiffee3799 Месяц назад

      I believe you may be onto something, there. (And perhaps the majority of the last 2- 3 generations in the West, and the East, M.E., etc. can't either, now... by PTB "collectivized" de$ign!) ONLY those of us who can SEE what is FALSE... and have the audacity to be TRUE to ourselves, and others... DARE to be "wide awake" outside the "mental prison Matrix" of: mind, body and soul ABUSE. But it only takes 10- 20% to topple, the "1984- Brave NWO" of their 'inner' CULT... and that's the doubled- edged ROME 2.0 short sword, now cutting thru their "Matrix" via their D@RPA developed internet, etc. Fortunately narc-opaths have a blind side, prcisely because they do NOT SEE outside... of their own delusionally grandiose, faux "reality" theatrical plays. ;-)

  • @ShaaRhee
    @ShaaRhee 3 месяца назад

    Jesus? 😂

  • @MagdaleneDivine
    @MagdaleneDivine 3 месяца назад +7

    Sir, as an empath the number one way i know someone has suffered from sexual abuse or assault is the shame in their eyes.
    For just a split second a shadow of shame when i meet their gaze and heres the kicker and breaks my heart: ITS NOT THEIR OWN SHAME.
    Its someone else's shame.
    And what it is is what sociopath or hell a narcissist does is to project their shame onto others. Just for making them remember that they feel ashamed.
    And what are cult leaders?
    Narcissists.