Mystery on Pre-Selection and The Three Second Rule.mp4

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  • @steven1671
    @steven1671 4 года назад +822

    This dude looks like a One Piece character.

  • @connorstandingready6312
    @connorstandingready6312 8 лет назад +387

    This guy is a legend. I've used some stuff from his book and it actually works.

    • @kylerobinson8913
      @kylerobinson8913 7 лет назад +14

      Connor StandingReady, Have you married your ten yet or they are not the type of chicks you would marry. What is "works well"? Sleeping with dumb drunk chick isn't the goal to some dudes. How about an emotional 10, intellectual 10, Spiritual 10, financial 10, an educational 10 Get it?

    • @mymarkis666
      @mymarkis666 7 лет назад +80

      Kyle Robinson No such woman exists.

    • @kylerobinson8913
      @kylerobinson8913 7 лет назад +8

      Tall men get more women. Good looking men get more women. Men with money get more women.
      Sense of humor? Like Jim Carey?
      Just get the joke and be lighthearted. Sexy men get more
      women. Men that have sex skills will get repeat customers just for sex. Gimmicks work on dumb drunk chicks. They wake up the next morning and say "Wait a minute! Where is that fuzzy hat?"
      and realize how drunk and horny they were last night.
      If you don't fall into any of these categories you should be looking for something a little deeper and more stable in the woman category. Your aren't going to get much play so use your energy wisely. If you aren't a 9-10 yourself don't expect a 9 or 10. Garbage in garbage out. If she looks like a ten and she is talking to you sje is probably a 1 in personality. Besides if your youtube shit worked on her why wouldn't some other dudes youtube diy pick up shit work on her next time? While your fucking her? You have to pay to have sex with 10s one way or another. Can you afford? If not you get the mentally damaged hoe that eats up any and all bullshit thrown at her. If you find out she is using you for money don't be suprised. If she is using you for sex be flattered.

    • @mikkelandersen5074
      @mikkelandersen5074 7 лет назад +13

      I bet you bought that hat...

    • @YD8189
      @YD8189 7 лет назад +4

      Define "works". Do you mean you can walk into a bar, begin the game with a lie for no other purpose than to get her into bed, and potentially walk out with a phone number and perhaps even get laid. That's some accomplishment.
      For what it's worth you really lowered the bar on the definition of "legend".

  • @cyrolacorte6469
    @cyrolacorte6469 7 лет назад +47

    I used to think Mystery and Matador were just stupid, heck I even thought these guys may be gay by the way the dress but then I watched an hour long video by Matador and these guys are just masters- they put hundreds of hours into everything they talk about, I have a lot of respect for both!

    • @GoldKingsMan
      @GoldKingsMan 2 года назад +1

      It was their time for that kinda stuff,peacocking bit different way now.

    • @regularSenseAppeal
      @regularSenseAppeal Год назад +1

      Mystery is the Michael Jordan of social dynamics. Some guys just have it naturally and don't think one second about what they do. Mystery didn't have that luxury, but dissected how it ACTUALLY works and learned how to become attractive like the naturals.

  • @Frederick0220
    @Frederick0220 2 года назад +2

    For preselection, is it OK to post a photo of you with a Hawt girl on social media?

  • @Colez1
    @Colez1 2 года назад +1

    what a total waste of time

  • @kylerobinson8913
    @kylerobinson8913 7 лет назад +1

    How would you feel about your chick if this dude picked her up at a bar? Honored or embarrassed? What if old man Brad Pitt picked your chick up at a bar? I don't know if I could forgive my chick for hooking up with a dude that wears a fuzzy hat!

    • @Ikaros23
      @Ikaros23 3 года назад +1

      it`s not " your girl" it was just your turn. And if Mr Brad Pitt or Mystery comes in to the room then it`s their turn.you can feel what ever you like, but most likely there is nothing you can do about it. Best you can do is just acept that this is human nature. It`s like a " Zen" thing. Then move on with your life

  • @DanteLikesRock
    @DanteLikesRock 2 года назад +320

    Mystery was so ahead of his time. many gold nuggets of wisdom in this 9 mins alone.

    • @SR-xk8cd
      @SR-xk8cd 2 года назад +1

      Are you for real, Mystery is full of s.hit, in fact all of p u a is full of s.hit.

    • @DanteLikesRock
      @DanteLikesRock Год назад

      @@fightclub3805 Lol. Nah. Says you Ms. "fight club". Many men weren't raised learning these things. You wouldn't know since I'm assuming you're a woman. Women just expect men to be born knowing things like this.🤣 Not how it works.

    • @titusrome2863
      @titusrome2863 Год назад +10

      Agreed brother. I clicked off after 2 minutes listening to this fool

    • @DanteLikesRock
      @DanteLikesRock Год назад +9

      @@fightclub3805 who hurt u

    • @andyreidsmustache9247
      @andyreidsmustache9247 Год назад +1

      @@fightclub3805 can I get a translation?

  • @MrRezillo
    @MrRezillo 2 года назад +39

    Really, it's just like looking for a job: everyone knows it's easier to get a job when you already have a job. Ditto, girls.

  • @Alagathevictor
    @Alagathevictor 11 лет назад +419

    I noticed that, when my sister is talking about her boyfriend, she talks about how many girlfriends he's had. And how Lucky she is to have won his Heart...
    She wants him, because all the other girls want him.

    • @betagimp127
      @betagimp127 5 лет назад +46

      Your sister is just a plate probably

    • @alen-commentnazi8774
      @alen-commentnazi8774 3 года назад +4

      @@betagimp127 ooooooo

    • @bikeshop2002
      @bikeshop2002 3 года назад +11

      i'm usually turned off by men who seem promiscuous or who are taken. maybe i'm weird or something but it just kind of automatically makes them less interesting...?

    • @Christian-mn8dh
      @Christian-mn8dh 3 года назад +1

      @@betagimp127 I wanna sit on that plate

    • @kaushikmajumdar6474
      @kaushikmajumdar6474 2 года назад +14

      @@bikeshop2002 Women who want men because other girls want him tend to be drama prone and may even have self worth issues. You're fine.

  • @bigdaddi2421
    @bigdaddi2421 5 лет назад +79

    Preselection is like the number thing for attraction

  • @yourallbrainwashed
    @yourallbrainwashed 9 лет назад +200

    i have found that if you approach a semi attractive girl, and she is other girls notice that she is intersested, those other prettier girls would come along, not because im good looking, but to see if they could pull me away from her, to boost their egos . its sad realy.

    • @SWIFTzTrigger
      @SWIFTzTrigger 8 лет назад +5

      +youreallbrainwashed sounds like sheep

    • @gavinreid8351
      @gavinreid8351 5 лет назад +14

      @@SWIFTzTrigger humans behave like that. Herd mentality. Or in this case, flock.

    • @falsehoodbasher7240
      @falsehoodbasher7240 3 года назад

      U damn people overestimate
      The importance of “ego” 🙄
      to a woman. They *aren’t men*

    • @crappymeal
      @crappymeal 6 месяцев назад +2

      When a toddler picks up a toy no one is interested in suddenly everyone else wants it, same with adults

    • @Neil-pf3pk
      @Neil-pf3pk 6 месяцев назад

      nice made up story

  • @emanuel_soundtrack
    @emanuel_soundtrack 4 года назад +55

    the more you overthink the approach the more heavy and awkward the girl will perceive it

    • @shaun8062
      @shaun8062 3 года назад +8

      that's why the 3 second rule

    • @HotBoxTrucking
      @HotBoxTrucking 7 месяцев назад +1

      typically, but if u are known for thinking of some GOLD so good that ur confidence in the line will mask it in a short amount of time - by all means

  • @TheBrybrybrybry
    @TheBrybrybrybry 3 года назад +44

    I'll follow the D.E.N.N.I.S system, thank you very much.

    • @Curlygurly81
      @Curlygurly81 2 года назад +2

      Is this a character Glenn Howerton was doing when he was younger?

    • @johansen8989
      @johansen8989 10 месяцев назад +3

      I was thinking the same thing 😂

    • @jwill9877
      @jwill9877 6 месяцев назад +2

      W you 😂😂😂

  • @shozanhanma2709
    @shozanhanma2709 3 года назад +36

    5 attractions circuits;
    -Preselected by women
    -Leader of men
    -Willing to emote
    -Protector of love ones
    I don't know the 5th. It went from 4 in the early stuff ,to 5 In later years and I didn't fully memorize the 5th

    • @extrosongscoverph8322
      @extrosongscoverph8322 3 года назад

      Emote ?

    • @zaccrisp9988
      @zaccrisp9988 3 года назад +12

      @@extrosongscoverph8322 show emotion, not In a pathetic help me kind of way, but in a, I'm comfortable sharing how I feel way

    • @shozanhanma2709
      @shozanhanma2709 3 года назад

      @@zaccrisp9988 well said!

    • @tyrellwebster8006
      @tyrellwebster8006 6 месяцев назад +4

      succesful risk taker

    • @jwill9877
      @jwill9877 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@extrosongscoverph8322 your emotions are calibrated and you're not a sperg

  • @jamie59685
    @jamie59685 Год назад +52

    Mystery was a real pioneer. I know he was standing on the shoulders of giants, but mystery pioneered scaling better than anyone before him

    • @joshuatoms7664
      @joshuatoms7664 Месяц назад

      Not really. There were no giants before him. There were a few people trying, but he was the first to truly make it work.

  • @jayfrankcastle9203
    @jayfrankcastle9203 Год назад +67

    If only people knew what guys like mystery, styles,grimler and so many other in the community of PUA's did for men, which most of todays dating "coaches" need to be thankful for the feel work this guys did. Since 1989 PAU's were doing the work...but of course game outlast pick-up. Most of the so called repill content creators of today where watching jimmy nutron or ben ten when this guys were doing in feel work in the early 2,000's. It takes hard work and a whole lot of trining to reach that level. But like Rollo say you can have all the PUA'S skills but if you dont kill the beta the beta will kill you.

    • @kebman
      @kebman Год назад +1

      Hey, MASF represent. Probably _the_ most influential site too. All the best!

    • @aleterra
      @aleterra Год назад +2

      i agree with you, what breaks my heart is that many of them didn't end up well. As far as I know Mystery has a daughter in the UK and the mother doesnt let him see her. Or a couple of years ago Tom Torero commit suicide.

    • @DimitriTheBarbarian
      @DimitriTheBarbarian Год назад +2

      @@aleterrayeah no shit. They are just regular men. Yes, they have skill and expertise in certain field. But at the end of the day they are no better than a guy who is a specialist in his career field

    • @TheBlackClockOfTime
      @TheBlackClockOfTime 11 месяцев назад

      You do understand that all of this knowledge is thousands of years old though right?

    • @jayfrankcastle9203
      @jayfrankcastle9203 11 месяцев назад

      I am very aware how old is this knowgeldge but it is only the few who can do the work. Their is nothing new under the sun but back in my era 80's 90's early 2000's seen pick artist doing it was incredible to see, also Giacomo Casanova back in the 1700's how many of us would like to go back in time and watch the way he developed his game...yes nothing is new but when you are born in a specific era and time you learn something very old everyday because is only new to you! again king Solomon said best: there is nothing new under the sun.@@TheBlackClockOfTime

  • @wafflecoast
    @wafflecoast Месяц назад +3

    So what’s the equivalent for how women attract men? Does anyone know

  • @minnesotajude8447
    @minnesotajude8447 Год назад +4

    Get falsely accused and simp. No thanks.

    • @Brightenigh
      @Brightenigh 11 месяцев назад

      Indeed.

    • @Nickxxx85
      @Nickxxx85 11 месяцев назад

      if you are really weird then what you expect

  • @theMickBrittle
    @theMickBrittle 9 лет назад +138

    Mystery Method is one of the best strategies in the PUA world! I see comments dissing his attire. He dresses like that for the purpose of attention; usually attracts party girls easily and is a funny conversation starter for more secure women.

    • @DaFireman33
      @DaFireman33 8 лет назад +14

      yes quite true... for an example ...Repels the lame ass uptight chick n draws in the free spirited crazy type

    • @MayankSharma-kt7zs
      @MayankSharma-kt7zs 4 года назад +2

      I was also shocked that people r criticising him, but they don't know that this guy has inspired so many pickup artists. I didn't knew who he was until I read game

    • @anthonyvidal7957
      @anthonyvidal7957 3 года назад

      OMG 🤣

    • @bikeshop2002
      @bikeshop2002 3 года назад +4

      party girls aren't hard to attract - they're looking for a good time and to get laid just like anyone else. i feel sad that some people put so much thought and time into this stuff...it would make me feel slightly worried for a guy. it's like they turn a natural, fun part of life into some kind of addiction? if they are happy it's all good but sometimes they seem a bit unfulfilled or something

    • @tuckerbugeater
      @tuckerbugeater 7 месяцев назад

      degens meeting degens@@bikeshop2002

  • @Legacy-Talks
    @Legacy-Talks 8 лет назад +73

    I wish I lived during Mystery's time, or decided to game earlier on. Now to demonstrate preselection I have to do so via social media too. And that doesn't work if you have no friends.

    • @JoeTheToucan
      @JoeTheToucan 8 лет назад +3

      +David R There are other ways, man. This is one teacher in a minefield of gurus. Try Tyler Durden's stuff.

    • @oliverqueen5527
      @oliverqueen5527 8 лет назад +20

      +JoeTheToucan Tyler was once Mystery student and learned from the master Mystery

    • @Garo10
      @Garo10 8 лет назад

      I use arash dibazar stuff lectures from 2014 too he was top mystery student

    • @JoeTheToucan
      @JoeTheToucan 8 лет назад +1

      Oliver Ai
      Actually, he took as much information from as many teachers as he could. A lot like Niel Strauss.

    • @firedrive45
      @firedrive45 7 лет назад +3

      just get 3-4 pictures with friends on your profil, thats all it takes

  • @stresslee
    @stresslee 2 года назад +135

    You know what’s crazy. A few years back when I was 24 I would bleach my hair blonde, platinum, and one time even pink with a buzz cut. I dressed in different colors and I definitely had style to my look. A lot of guys would always ask me why I would bleach my hair all blonde and different colors and they’d hate on it……but what’s crazy is that all the women I had would always tell me they loved it. I shit you not everyone would always look at me and wherever I went I would straight up attract all the attention. I thought it was always in a bad way but learning about this man and seeing how he dresses to get women has opened my eyes to something lately. It’s crazy. But I think I was doing exactly what this guy does. Peacocking. I definitely stood out and women would flock to me with no problem.
    That’s actually crazy because now seeing this man and learning about game I can see why women would love it. They love that idgaf style to be bold as hell and not care what people think. I always thought I got looked at for looking weird but looking back at it I had a great attitude and women would flock to me so much I would be getting laid all the time. It’s crazy. I didn’t realize it at all until I learned about game.

    • @inhabitantofearth
      @inhabitantofearth 2 года назад +31

      As a woman, peacocking makes guys look interesting and confident. Like, if a guy has on something I find interesting or that stimulates my curiosity, it's going to make me want to compliment, or ask him about it. And THAT opens up an opportunity to have conversation in an organic, comfortable way. And generally, women LOVE to feel comfortable around a man.
      I think people in general want to feel comfortable around anyone they interact with, but it's especially important for women because I believe we have an innate subconscious fear of men, and we want to know that you are safe to be around.

    • @tsignite5503
      @tsignite5503 2 года назад

      If you were good u wouldn't be here ass hole

    • @javier.alvarez764
      @javier.alvarez764 2 года назад +17

      Mystery is essentially teaching about looking, dressing, and acting like a rockstar. Rockstars have lots of women because of their idgaf attitude.

    • @regularSenseAppeal
      @regularSenseAppeal Год назад +4

      Mystery emulated a lot of his theories around what alpha males do. So yeah you behaved like an alpha who dgaf and sure enough it worked. When I started reading his stuff I suddenly realised why I had been somewhat succesful with women previously. Most succesful men (wrt women) don't need lecturing. They already found their modus instinctively. Just like you did. I was succesful because I could always get women and groups to laugh and then switch to more personal stuff (plus being tall and not retarded). Never realised exactly what I was doing, but it worked a treat none the less.

    • @zeuskratos8170
      @zeuskratos8170 Год назад

      @@regularSenseAppeal can you tell me how do you make them laugh? İ need to learn something about making laugh

  • @Barrrt
    @Barrrt 8 месяцев назад +19

    You know, none of this PUA stuff worked for me except for the 3 second rule. It changed my life. It's a perfect way of meeting people - not just hot girls, but everyone. It made me a better human and I can meet people whereever I go.
    I tend to place it as a part of our tribal history - if you greet a person straight away when you see them you will both presume you belong to the same tribe. You break the ice before it even grew between you. And once you give a person 'the nod' or the spontaneous 'hi' you can even choose to be silent afterwards, but strike up a conversation at any time because you both acknowledged each other so you know you're good.

    • @SsoulBlade
      @SsoulBlade 5 месяцев назад

      "You know, none of this PUA stuff worked for me except for the 3 second rule. I"
      Depends on the region. His stuff works in South Africa but in Europe you have to adjust a bit. It also depends how effective you apply it to women and also be able to read the girl to apply the correct PUA strategy.
      If you cannot read the woman then it is basically just throwing material out there and see what sticks...

    • @Barrrt
      @Barrrt 5 месяцев назад

      @@SsoulBlade Depends on the person too :) I block when I try fancy stuff but when I'm more myself I can become a bit magnetic

  • @Neil-pf3pk
    @Neil-pf3pk 6 месяцев назад +1

    Nice made up psychology by someone who I don't think even graduated college. Isn't he a mentally ill failed magician?

  • @abeltesfaye_
    @abeltesfaye_ 3 года назад +41

    He looks like a Walmart version of Johnny Depp 😂

    • @profonicsgaming7870
      @profonicsgaming7870 3 года назад +16

      Johnny Depp looks like a Walmart Mystery 🤣

    • @jwichmann1306
      @jwichmann1306 11 месяцев назад

      He looks like a young Al Jourgensen

  • @darioorozco533
    @darioorozco533 10 лет назад +12

    you are right MYSTERY some men will kill you over a lady, love sex tends to bringout some of the DARKEST ;emotions in some OF US!!!

  • @idkhehe658
    @idkhehe658 10 месяцев назад +2

    step 1) be white
    step 2) be tall
    step 3) have decent face, personality
    black pill game

  • @MrRoboto81
    @MrRoboto81 5 месяцев назад +2

    You don’t need to pay some guy thousands of dollars to know women’s five attraction switches. First off, they don’t have five, they have three. It’s the 666 rule:
    - 6 feet tall
    - 6 pack abs
    - 6 figure job

    • @dummesschwein8727
      @dummesschwein8727 5 месяцев назад

      That's a different and more expensive game

  • @mcpartridgeboy
    @mcpartridgeboy Год назад +26

    I lost my first gf at 42 because i told her i never had a girlfriend before, i was nervous because im uncomfortable with touch as im autistic, so i told her id never had a gf before and she dumped me like a hot brick after that. I learnt this lesson the hardest way possible, i really liked that woman a lot.

    • @chryzbre4336
      @chryzbre4336 Год назад +5

      She just wasn't the right 1 for u. Endings happen for new/ better things to come in. When things don't work out they're meant to learn from. I like a guy that's been w/ the least possible or no1 even better. Stay positive minded & sweet you'll find the right woman when u least expect it :)

    • @mcpartridgeboy
      @mcpartridgeboy 9 месяцев назад

      @@chryzbre4336 im 45 and it never happened are you sure staying sweat is the right recepie when all the other guys whoa rent like that are getting lots of dates ? i think she was the right one but i wasnt good enough at pick up to get her, now i know your not supposed to say youve never had a gf but the problem is im learning pick up lessons oce every 42 years i cant afford to make any mistakes and i will definatly so now im worried ill never get a gf

    • @jwill9877
      @jwill9877 6 месяцев назад +2

      Lesson learned. If you can get one, then you can get another. Theres a couple billion more out there

    • @jwill9877
      @jwill9877 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@chryzbre4336thats cope. Biology doesn't work like that

    • @brianmeen2158
      @brianmeen2158 6 месяцев назад

      I know a guy that is 44 and on the spectrum and he’s only been on 1 date that went nowhere. He is above average looking too and I think this combo will really scare away or repel women.. I think it’s a huge red flag if a guy is good looking yet has no real dating or relationship experience at the age of 44. He’s is in a very tough spot

  • @calibrastian
    @calibrastian 3 года назад +7

    I´ve had success with preselection. Just talking casually about other girls that wanted you, or was with you and had a good time is surely a shortcut. Still have to pull the trigger though! Good luck!

  • @googletimes89
    @googletimes89 6 лет назад +32

    This guy is right so far, especially with the "I don't care what I look like" clothes, near perfect I must say. And it's 4 scientifically proven things; 1. Pre-Selection 2. Confidence 3. Alpha Male 4. Copious use of money, do that you get any girl you want.

    • @JesusChrist5000
      @JesusChrist5000 3 года назад +5

      the copious use of money in itself will only work with escorts. HOWEVER the copious use of money can definitely get other women to hang out with you in a public or social setting. Other women will see that and preselect you as desirable

    • @christopherwalker6056
      @christopherwalker6056 2 года назад +3

      @@JesusChrist5000 great point.

    • @Shindai
      @Shindai 2 года назад +1

      lol scientifically proven things like alpha male, a concept based on a study whose author has explained was wrong. As for copious use of money, some will be impressed by that but some will find it offputting. At least confidence is something that actually makes you more attractive to everybody.

  • @rayraybewinning8152
    @rayraybewinning8152 11 лет назад +21

    his teeth stare into my soul

  • @KRAZEEIZATION
    @KRAZEEIZATION 3 месяца назад +1

    Was he into Jamiroquai back then?

  • @BEARCRAB
    @BEARCRAB 7 лет назад +17

    because of the implication.

    • @sonnyspliff
      @sonnyspliff 5 лет назад

      vanishing rounder hahahaha

    • @skubadoobie
      @skubadoobie 5 лет назад +1

      Mystery is good and all but I prefer the D.E.N.N.I.S system

  • @gabrielcesar6082
    @gabrielcesar6082 4 года назад +31

    9:32 An important thing to mention here. You got to have a least 5 openers memorized. So in these situations you would act instead of thinking about what to say. Because as effective as three seconds rule can be (it really works) you can't just walk to a girl and say nothing because you didn't have anything to say. You gonna freeze and she will notice you're nervous. BE PREPARED!

    • @mop4093
      @mop4093 2 года назад +2

      Good idea, I have that problem

  • @koolhandluke5646
    @koolhandluke5646 3 года назад +8

    he's right the approach is the hardest part , but once you get over that fear ,oh my god you will live the life wallflowers only dream of just saying .

  • @Dbulkss
    @Dbulkss 2 года назад +4

    He lives in the sewers of new York City now.

  • @NoBonesNoLife
    @NoBonesNoLife Год назад +4

    You get pre selected if you’re chad.

    • @Jorbz150
      @Jorbz150 11 месяцев назад

      The world is full of ridiculously attractive men who mistakenly think their behavior is getting them attention. Like Skinner's pigeons they spend years trying to analyze what they are doing right, when all they need to do is wait and they'll get what they want every once in a while.

  • @MrSmithie25
    @MrSmithie25 5 лет назад +12

    it is interesting that women hate PUA and tactics, because women hate it, when men just understand what to do. They shame men like him but in their mind, they desired him for what he does.

    • @emperorofemperors483
      @emperorofemperors483 2 года назад

      @@bikeshop2002 tell that to a male virgin with no social skills

    • @javier.alvarez764
      @javier.alvarez764 2 года назад

      @@bikeshop2002 It's not really tricking people, PUAs are just taking advantage of social dynamics, how attention and attraction usually take place. It's an art, not manipulation.

  • @lindseyflesher5742
    @lindseyflesher5742 4 года назад +61

    Maybe this isn't the most respectful thing I've ever said but how sad would it be if the camera pulled back and he was talking to an empty room? 😬

  • @fluorophoremusic3679
    @fluorophoremusic3679 2 года назад +1

    This is the most ridiculous shit I've ever seen. Anyone walks into a club with a fuzzy hat on is going to get laughed it.
    There is literally nothing good about this "method".
    Here's what works:
    1. Be good looking.
    2. IF you're ugly...well be interesting and funny at least--not in a ridiculously corny way like this.
    3. If you're ugly and not funny and not interesting...have a lot of money.
    4. If you are half way decent looking, just be 100% confident in yourself and talk like a NORMAL HUMAN BEING...no gaming...no "switches". Just act like a normal person.

  • @shozanhanma2709
    @shozanhanma2709 3 года назад +4

    NOTE; mystery said "high value male" first

  • @freaksh0
    @freaksh0 11 месяцев назад +27

    This guy put me on game in mid 2000s. I moved on to other gurus after that, but his principles are still 💯.

    • @mateomunozduarte2278
      @mateomunozduarte2278 9 месяцев назад

      Hey, i'm getting on the game myself, been making progress but i feel like i'm running out of information, is there any site I can visit or book I can buy to keep studying and going deeper?

    • @ghostpy
      @ghostpy 9 месяцев назад

      @@mateomunozduarte2278 buy "The Game" from Neil Strauss. He was Mystery's best apprentice and has also become his best friend. That book is mandatory reading, almost "the Game bible". You will not regret reading it.

    • @ivandelac764
      @ivandelac764 8 месяцев назад

      Yeah, back then it was the good old times as old folks would say XD

    • @nate5703
      @nate5703 8 месяцев назад

      ⁠@@mateomunozduarte2278dude this shit does not work. The concepts are sometimes there but you cannot fake confidence. Girls can smell that shit on you. If u want girls, go to the gym, make good money, and have hobbies. Take care of your body. Be yourself! Don’t do any weird conversational tricks or you’ll come off like a weirdo. Just be normal and talk to them like a human and if you click you click. U can’t really make a girl like you

    • @Zelielz1
      @Zelielz1 6 месяцев назад

      @@mateomunozduarte2278Read Mistery books and early RSD videos.

  • @ivandelac764
    @ivandelac764 8 месяцев назад +1

    Mysteri, Or ERIK MARKOVIĆ was the person who gave meaning to many young boy's lives back in the day. I actually became a self made coach at one point, teaching a lot of different approaches in that time. Good times. Technology destroyed everything to a certain degree. Yes it was useful at a certain point but it changed society to the point where it became a benefit to become a leech on society... I feel sad for the kids today. I'm a gym owner and coach from pro athletes to average people, and kids today are fcked up beyond speech.
    Its sad.

  • @googletimes89
    @googletimes89 6 лет назад +6

    I'm not debating or arguing with this guys points, don't know him, only heard this first part, and in his situation he's nervous, but I'll just tell you how it is with me, and I'm a master approacher. If I'm "nervous", it means I'm off, and I don't even try. As I say I tell myself constantly I'm a Stud, tell myself I have tons of girls, I'm TELLING YOU if you keep doing that fear will go away, women CAN SMELL FEAR, 90% of communication is NON VERBAL, IF YOU REALLY DON'T CARE, IF IN YOUR MIND YOU ALREADY HAVE ALL THE HOTTIES YOU CAN HANDLE HOW CAN YOU POSSIBLY BE AFRAID, NERVOUS TO MAKE A MOVE? I'm training a friend, think I said that, getting his hair cut at a men's place, super hot greeter, at the end I walk up almost nose to nose, Red Hot Chili Pepper song was on I said "Did you know I'm the lead singer for the Red Hot chili Peppers and every girl loves me", she got the joke and said "Oh wow can I have your autograph", "Are you one of my groupies have I done you before", "I don't think so I think I'd remember", "OK I'll let you give me your number", BOTH OF US JOKING TO MAKE IT WORK, please, lie until you buy that fact that you're the alpha male, that you have chicks, that you spend money, and that you don't care or worry about anything, do that and they'll come, she was looking at me the entire time, purposely cleaning right next to me though it was clean. Again not disagreeing with this guy, I'm sure he has great advice, I'm just brushing up to help my friend.

    • @XxDeathcorpzxX
      @XxDeathcorpzxX 5 лет назад +3

      Lucky you, cuz you are what they called a 'Natural'. Mystery is the GodFather of pickup and he invented the terms and guidelines that is now used. He trained "nerd" students to great playboys.

  • @robinhooduk8255
    @robinhooduk8255 11 месяцев назад +5

    this guy really helped me, i never really went 100% in on this stuff, but the concepts and what NOT to do really stuck and helped, my best pal was a DJ at londons biggest house clubs in the mid 2000s (the cross and egg club) and i used to get laid about 3times as much as him, despite his social status and being better looking than me, i would never mess up interacting with girls and would end up with better looking girls and closing the deal more than my pal who was the good looking and successful dj. groups of girls would always come up to him to talk so never really had to learn to cold open but i would always end up with the hottest girl from the group. one thing that really sticks out though is that his interactions with girls at clubs many times ended up with relationships if he wanted it where as my experiences never ended up with relationships in those settings.

    • @xRealUzz
      @xRealUzz 11 месяцев назад +1

      cap

    • @lilith2754
      @lilith2754 11 месяцев назад

      So what did you do to pick up the girls exactly ?

    • @Nickxxx85
      @Nickxxx85 11 месяцев назад

      @@lilith2754 Use brain

    • @kennetha.h.6042
      @kennetha.h.6042 10 месяцев назад

      Girls wanted to stay with him because of his status. And then you were a convenient side Ho

  • @Alagathevictor
    @Alagathevictor 11 лет назад +9

    It's called being brave and dressing how the fuck you want

  • @intp-akil3127
    @intp-akil3127 Год назад +21

    I remember Learning about Neil Strauss and man they where pioneers with psychology and “Game Theory” respect to these guys ☝🏿

    • @samson3523
      @samson3523 11 месяцев назад +1

      mystery taught neil strauss everything neil knows ... but not everything mystery knew.

  • @TheGrandmaster1
    @TheGrandmaster1 4 года назад +33

    I learned this stuff later in life, and man, it changed my life. Goddamn how I wish I'd learned this stuff when I was 15-18. I'd have had 1000 girls by now. But....even learning it later, it made a huge difference. This guy is a damned legend. He should win a Pulitzer.

    • @keldel4363
      @keldel4363 2 года назад +1

      A NOBEL !

    • @myrahunter131
      @myrahunter131 Год назад

      I wouldn't touch a guy with a ten foot pole who had been with that many women. Ick

    • @Jackson-e4k
      @Jackson-e4k Год назад +1

      How old are you?

  • @morninglory4918
    @morninglory4918 4 года назад +6

    I feel like I bumped into something big

    • @TheGrandmaster1
      @TheGrandmaster1 4 года назад +3

      You did.
      Go through as much of this as you can. It will LITERALLY chance your life and I"m not shitting you. It did mine.

    • @morninglory4918
      @morninglory4918 4 года назад +1

      @@TheGrandmaster1 Hello friend, i'm on this road since this day when the life gave me the gift of meeting Erik and his perspectives of the social interations. Yes, this is big. This change who we are, change everything. As he always say: "this is not about get girls, it's about building a life." I feel so happy that could meet this. I still learning as much i can and more i know more i see more we have to learn. Much light in your way. Cheers from Brazil. ♥
      Diego.

  • @KpxUrz5745
    @KpxUrz5745 Год назад +2

    Ok, it took me 8 months to find the ugly stupid fake fur hat... So what do I do next to pick up lots of girls???

  • @doctorcatnip2551
    @doctorcatnip2551 3 месяца назад +1

    I don't fear the approach ...

  • @chris_sndw
    @chris_sndw 5 лет назад +15

    Newton, Darwin, Mystery. He is one of the greatest thinkers of all time and he has a funny hat. :D

  • @TimpBizkit
    @TimpBizkit 11 лет назад +5

    Isn't it possible though that in some cases, that the girl isn't interested for some random reason not related to pickup, just like you were a completely different physicality e.g. she strictly liked really short blonde guys with deep voices (not Mystery) or she was in a bad mood etc, and no amount of preselection or correct 'game' could change anything

    • @yeflynne
      @yeflynne Год назад

      Yea on her period and needs to take a shit

  • @brandonjackson5142
    @brandonjackson5142 3 года назад +26

    I always wrote this guy off because of his appearance, but I have to say this is fascinating.

    • @epicenterbasshd9636
      @epicenterbasshd9636 2 года назад +1

      Bro i been saying we psychologically act and feel certain ways through evolution. This shit is interesting af

    • @billybanter9573
      @billybanter9573 Год назад

      @@epicenterbasshd9636 The science of evolutionary biology/

  • @tastybrownie7448
    @tastybrownie7448 9 месяцев назад +2

    Mystery was super tall, pale, and good looking with blue eyes. No woman in the universe would turn him down even if he was terrible at "game". I wanna see all this stuff work for a dark skinned short guy. That is what I consider evidence.

    • @MTS4success896
      @MTS4success896 8 месяцев назад +1

      I don't think any of these tactics are necessary. I feel like I am watching a fucking nerd conference with a bunch of men weirdos.

    • @EKAlpha
      @EKAlpha 7 месяцев назад

      You're right to some extent.
      But remember that be brave and approach women. It's better than sitting there and being resentful about the realities.
      If he approach 100 women gets 10, you'll get at least 2. Why not try, 2 obviously is better than zero. (By the way I'm an average man too)

  • @Igor-Bogdanoff
    @Igor-Bogdanoff 5 месяцев назад +1

    How we get girl now please yes?

  • @dannypalmer339
    @dannypalmer339 2 года назад +4

    This dude is a Master damn were can I get that hat

  • @jareth7456
    @jareth7456 4 года назад +5

    I do not agree, we men don't NEED women, we desire them sure but we don't Need them and from an evolutionary perspective we men can take care of ourselves, the women NEED us . We are the hunters and the warriors . Your disqualification or the Neg shows her that you don't need her and if you so desired a mate you have plenty of choices and always have options. And you are correct, beautiful women are common but what you fail to mention is that truly high value men are rare . They spend two hours minimum on their hair and makeup, ok three hours, they have far more invested in us because they NEED or their genetically hardwired to believe they need a high value man or men around them and hopefully carry forth his high value genes to her children as this will help ensure the success of her offspring. But no we don't need them and we should make that point to them and keep making that point if you want to keep her loyal.

    • @jareth7456
      @jareth7456 4 года назад

      Women like an attractive man sure traits like symmetry but where women are truly different is that it's behavior that really attracts them.

    • @holamoco
      @holamoco 4 года назад

      We need each other to survive and reproduce. Or else humankind would die out.

    • @GMATTOEFLSATGRECOACH
      @GMATTOEFLSATGRECOACH Год назад

      This is the most insightful comment I have ever read in any PUA comment section! The above observation MUST BE true, otherwise negging women would NOT work! So there is a logical fallacy Mystery did not observe!

  • @bieateofan2251
    @bieateofan2251 10 месяцев назад +2

    This is a genius level explanation. Why you should not simp.

  • @googletimes89
    @googletimes89 6 лет назад +3

    Nothing to do with evolution, but anyways here's why this guy can walk up to a girl, lick her face, and 95% chance she'd go for it, and you can too. When I was getting back into it, I retrained myself as to how I used to get so many hot girls, it's much more than looks and I knew that, long story short one of the most successful things I ever did was write in reverse, so it looked like a girl did it STUD, and on the other cheek in red a heart, this drove girls nuts, for clearly in bed my "Girl" did it last night. So a dog, if a dog comes up to a girl and licks her, does she get mad at it? NO, it's a dog, so same thing with this guy the way he's dressed, or me with my million bracelets, dyed black hair with STUD and a heart, see the hottest girl, just casually walk up and lick her face by her ear, now just as she doesn't get mad at the dog for licking her, she won't get mad at you "Hey it's just how HE IS", and it's done, if you dress funky enough (Look up rock stars), and you show rock solid I DON'T CARE if you like it or not I FEEL LIKE DOING IT, you're golden. I had more girls than most dream, and many would tell me things "I always had a fantasy of prince charming, a stranger, putting his arms around me, kissing me and taking me away" or TAKING ME! It takes balls, but I'm telling you now, you take her, and you're tapping into her emotional center and SHE HAS NO CHOICE. Don't care about risks, you must decide how much you want it, want to wake up to a hot set, long legs, flowing hair, her looking up at you? You want that? Then go for it, boyfriend? Maybe, dike? Maybe, who cares go for it, or be alone. Sadly there are few "Decent" girls, I'm convinced just about any girl will sleep with a guy, even the most "Respectable", hey they want it, give them what they want.

    • @bikeshop2002
      @bikeshop2002 3 года назад

      yes, hot women like to get laid, and people naturally want to get along, like and be liked. this isn't rocket science. and i'm glad the preselection thing works for you. i'm one of those rare people who finds it a turnoff, but if it works to attract most people, go for it :)

  • @goddessinsecta
    @goddessinsecta 12 лет назад +4

    If you look at the lower left part of the frame from 1:37-on, there's the live version of his hat moving around down there.

  • @T-20022
    @T-20022 Год назад +8

    this guys teaching is real trust me i myself got bullied in school
    and bt watching this for the course of 1 year i learned to be more confident abd took the girls from the guys who bullied me . his shit works period trust me

  •  7 лет назад +19

    I just came across your video for the first time ever, and I was completely shocked and baffled to witness that you provided the most astounding explanation I have EVER experienced in all my life. May I please ask if you have a comprehensive course that I can purchase ASAP?

    •  7 лет назад

      DavePazz Thank you 'very' much for your response!!

    • @corma5783
      @corma5783 4 года назад +3

      Buy The Game by Neil Strauss

    •  4 года назад

      @@corma5783 Thank you!!

    • @williamizm3745
      @williamizm3745 4 года назад +6

      The game is not an instructionnal
      Manual its a biography. Buy the mystery method, then purchase revelations by lovedrop. But i think the best nowadays is a guy called justin wayne. Look him up.

    •  4 года назад

      @@williamizm3745 Thank you very much for all your recommendations!

  • @davidharris8797
    @davidharris8797 4 года назад +2

    This is so complicated I think extcey works better

  • @ThePlanetTVtheplanettv
    @ThePlanetTVtheplanettv 9 месяцев назад

    Frankly, after significant retrospection, I believe this training is dangerous, and probably lead up to spreading corruption for women and men. Look what's happened to women post PUA in the 2000's on. Guys can't even put a hand on the back of a lady in CA now. Look at Keanu Reeves. Anyway, when a man optimizes all his motivations, processes, tactics, scripts, and strategy, so he can go to pussy town --he is not securing a woman in a long term/permanent relationship. But, rather feeding his desires. As his skills and efficacy increase, he lives for those moments. He never has a realization of happiness because he's still reviewing the catalog of women. Worse, he cannot know 1 woman or get to know them because the time, patience, efforts, and tenacity to accomplish those measures are sacrificed to convenience, desire, and addiction.

  • @Allnew_K
    @Allnew_K 2 года назад +23

    I underestimated this man, but after watching this video and seeing his passion and knowledge for the subject, He has my respect.

  • @ethanxenon404
    @ethanxenon404 8 лет назад +5

    What? A very marry un-birthday to me?

  • @ElaineBorowski
    @ElaineBorowski 12 дней назад

    Walker Kenneth Jackson Jason Rodriguez Scott

  • @skullcraftcustoms
    @skullcraftcustoms Год назад +3

    I remember when he had a reality show for a while and he would teach nerds and stuff how to pick up on women and it looked pretty interesting actually and there are a lot of things he talks about their totally true

  • @octavioavila6548
    @octavioavila6548 Год назад +1

    2:03 Matthew principle

  • @JayHarms-ov2bp
    @JayHarms-ov2bp 2 месяца назад

    His physical presentation is about as ridiculous as what he says rings true.
    What he says and how he says it makes so much sense the ridiculous hat and nail polish barely register.
    This dude obviously has a super high IQ.

  • @lukeluke7082
    @lukeluke7082 3 месяца назад

    I asked a girl to be my gf and she said no and then the next day she said yes because after talking to her friends they said I was hot so because her friends liked me she then dated me. Didn’t last long and this was with girls who were teenagers so probably more works with younger girls

  • @Tumbles.Revenge
    @Tumbles.Revenge Год назад +1

    The mystery video was him explaining abt attraction switches while simultaneously gaming a girl sitting next to him, she's like just sitting there stroking her hair🤣🤣🤣

  • @kit7311
    @kit7311 Год назад +2

    Preselection actually works sooo well if you do it well

  • @HotBoxTrucking
    @HotBoxTrucking 7 месяцев назад +1

    it takes longer to learn this than to actually just go out in the world - these ARE very GREAT training wheels and will never discredit that, though

  • @smalliver365
    @smalliver365 4 года назад +5

    Dudes a genius

  • @maximt1401
    @maximt1401 10 месяцев назад +1

    That's why he's the ... THE GOOOOAAAAATTTTT !!!! 👑

  • @piratepat898
    @piratepat898 3 года назад +1

    why learn all this game to pretend to be high value. u should get on ur grind and be high value fr💯

    • @TimXMan1000
      @TimXMan1000 2 года назад

      This guy is teaching game. Not being on the grind you’ve watched too much RP content but game is still important it’s no point having it all but still can’t talk to women

  • @Dogbreath921
    @Dogbreath921 11 месяцев назад +1

    The hat is bananas

  • @AlbanaBrahimi-g1e
    @AlbanaBrahimi-g1e 27 дней назад

    Jones Michael Hernandez Frank Perez Anthony

  • @JonathanMelnik
    @JonathanMelnik Год назад +1

    What I don't like here is that he is pretending he is not after beauty but that's the only thing he was after:(

    • @robinhooduk8255
      @robinhooduk8255 11 месяцев назад

      WRONG, you dont get it. he is trying to show and demonstrate that her beauty doesnt effect him and her beauty doesnt put her out of his league. also there is something really wrong with you if you dont want beauty, dont silly you would like a beautiful woman, a beautiful house, a beautiful car, beautiful clothes...........if you dont even want to better yourself in any way what is even the point of living????

    • @JonathanMelnik
      @JonathanMelnik 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@robinhooduk8255 Maybe you misinterpreted what I said.
      Look, if you ever had beautiful girls in your life and formed relationships with them, then you already know that it's not enough. You need a lot more in the other person to have a meaningful and lasting relationship.
      But what I said is that I don't like he is pretending to not care about the beauty when that's obviously all he cares about. It's possible to be straight about it, without playing these silly games and try to manipulate others into liking you.

  • @MrZola1234
    @MrZola1234 Год назад +1

    The infamous Mystery from Neil Strauss's book "The Game."

  • @KBTNFishing
    @KBTNFishing 3 месяца назад

    If anyone actually watched this whole video I feel bad for you

  • @brothajack1993
    @brothajack1993 Год назад +2

    I respect his logic and style of thinking.

  • @geofreak12345
    @geofreak12345 5 лет назад +4

    why do i feel like i d be going to bed with this guy in an instant ! AGHGHHH

  • @academicknowhow1816
    @academicknowhow1816 Год назад +22

    i am following this man for 10 years, he is truly a genius of his time, he deserves a nobel prize

    • @DimitriTheBarbarian
      @DimitriTheBarbarian Год назад

      In 10 years have you been able to sleep with every Supermodel and Hollywood star? Or at least go to bed with 100s of women? I can’t imagine listening to the same line of thought 10 years straight. I hope you were successful with your dating life

    • @TheBoon14
      @TheBoon14 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@DimitriTheBarbarianyou are spiteful & weird, seek help

    • @Nickxxx85
      @Nickxxx85 11 месяцев назад +1

      great you learn stuff and are happy about it, but isn't 10 freaking years more than enough to learn everything he has to offer? Move on with life man:)

  • @songoflovemetalofficial
    @songoflovemetalofficial 7 месяцев назад +1

    The king of rock and roll

  • @ChesterShoemake-u8j
    @ChesterShoemake-u8j 23 дня назад

    Hernandez Paul Gonzalez Scott Hernandez Frank

  • @davidlan01
    @davidlan01 12 лет назад +3

    i love you . thank you mystery . you write book help my life

  • @AngryGrape1337
    @AngryGrape1337 11 месяцев назад +1

    How to pick up girls:
    Step 1: Dress like a rejected Devil May Cry character
    Step 2: ???
    Step 3: Demons ☕️

  • @sperk01
    @sperk01 3 года назад +3

    mystery we miss you

  • @N.D.1984
    @N.D.1984 5 лет назад +8

    Why he didn't get a degree "honoris causa"? This is Science

  • @101RealTalker
    @101RealTalker 5 лет назад +11

    What about the fact that Mystery is really tall, like, freakishly tall, lol, 6'5... plus some of those extravagant hats add another 4-6inches....plus his thick heeled boots, we're talking over 7 feet here, lololol....not making excuses, I absolutely adore the framework around the abstract that he has structured, it's the epitome of sophistication personified....but social dynamics does kneel easier to the tall, it commands respect simply by existing..........that has to be a dominating factor in the equation of his Method ;)

    • @user-2Hteyasizyc
      @user-2Hteyasizyc 4 года назад +1

      Look deep into facebook of your favorite most hottest skanks .... They're always with shorter men, men they look better than. Anytime i've stressed over a certain bitch i'd realize she wasnt the hottest i'd had ... these average bitches are the worst and they have the highest expectations and try to knock you down even when you're better looking than them. Go for hotter ones. No matter what you assume, a few of them WILL reciprocate. Remember all men go through this shit. Ugly to superior looks have women problems... its the bitches... Dont convinceyourself of something like height alone...

    • @52baldingindianjanitor72
      @52baldingindianjanitor72 2 года назад +2

      He’s tall, white, and decent looking, it’s not going to require much game for him to get a lay.

    • @chingchingbling2145
      @chingchingbling2145 2 года назад

      Neil Strauss or Style is short, balding and pretty average looking. He is also skinny, and has the voice of a braying donkey. Still, he seemed to succeed using variations of his method.

    • @101RealTalker
      @101RealTalker 2 года назад

      @@chingchingbling2145 good answer 👌👍🎯

  • @biragaba
    @biragaba 3 года назад +1

    Open a conversation with another woman in the social setting or have a woman with you while going out to approach women is preselection theory. If not skip this part and go directly to disqualification theory. Cat string type. Pull and pull. Give and take.

  • @GreshamBertram-w2u
    @GreshamBertram-w2u 10 дней назад

    Robinson Steven Harris Robert Moore Larry

  • @PUARS
    @PUARS 9 лет назад +3

    Yes, this works like a charm.

  • @itswalters
    @itswalters 12 лет назад +3

    You're a fucking God.

  • @fearanarchy
    @fearanarchy 4 года назад +2

    These videos helped me get married.
    .....
    My wife was happy I wasn't them.

    • @neinneinnein379
      @neinneinnein379 4 года назад +1

      Never Ever get Married

    • @fearanarchy
      @fearanarchy 4 года назад

      @@neinneinnein379
      I mean I would indeed recommend the viewership take that advice

    • @enrique2395
      @enrique2395 3 года назад +1

      She must be obese

  • @mathewchacko8993
    @mathewchacko8993 5 месяцев назад

    Yep he is a one piece character
    I can vouch for him 😊

  • @manicmurph
    @manicmurph 2 года назад

    I wonder if this dude is still around getting chicks or of he got married.