Exactly sometimes we find massive,new,interesting,far relationships and wallow inside-but don't care and neglect about people,friends who have ever learned,lived, been closed,smiled,cried together! Perhaps we are not fair with them
"We have trust issues with the people we've known for years, yet we trust someone's review that we just saw on Amazon" This hits hard because it's true
Before you scroll further. I'd like to tell you that you didn't get the point discussed in the video. You are still scrolling for no good reason. And don't ever get addicted to motivation. You think you are different than others coz you watch a lot self improvement stuff but in reality it's same as wasting your time on social media. So I highly implore you to go implement what you learned from good videos and don't use it just as an alternative to social media. It doesn't matter who I am to tell you. Take this as a reminder from your soul.
Jay shety believe me or not you have turned thousands of people's way of thinking, living and setting purpose of our life✌and Im one of them💙 Like👍 if you are also one of them too👊👊
This is so true, but a person's thoughts start with themselves. I have always loved the time alone I spend, reading books, and thinking, just thinking about things. I have a cheap phone, I never get on the internet with it. I do use my computer at home, but I spend time with my family and friends. I like just sitting and talking. My sister got cancer and died 3.5 years ago. I miss her. But I am so thankful, we spent a lot of time together, just talking. I would not trade that for all the newest technology or smart phones in the world. I like looking around when I am out and about in the world because there may be someone who needs a smile, a word of kindness and a helping hand, which can only be seen if you are looking at the folks around you.
My life was boring into I got a phone. My parents don’t really have money to go out and do stuff, and my parents don’t let me go places with my friends. Even though I am wasting my time on RUclips and shit like that, its better than wasting my time on nothing. Without my phone, I wouldn’t be able to contact my friends. Also, I wouldn’t have music.
So true what you are saying Jay, people don't realize how much the technology has changed our life. People forget to communicate with each other, they don't pay attention anymore to the ones next by their side. We are losing ourselves in a virtual world where the habits have more power than people themself. You want to make connections and strong boundaries but there is no one around, we are isolating and living without know how fast the life passes by us. We forget about our dreams, because we don't have with who to share them ...
Sometimes while listening to deep, motivating, capturing videos like this one, I’ll hear a captivating line and I’ll think, “wow that was amazingly put!” Often times I come across 2-3 of those. But I feel like literally EVERYTHING HE SAID in this video was one of those amazingly put, captivating lines and I was blown away by the fact that I just couldn’t not get enough of what he was saying. Well done 👏🏻
you are more than a reminder, you're special and one in a million. i love listening to you. watching jay shetty's videos will always lead you to the straight part. and indeed your words are so powerful and spiritual to the extend that it changes a missing soul....
Jay, you've got so much point in this video. Especially when you said that 1.we can't focus because we are pulled in 50 different directions. 2. We don't know who to become because we are busy watching what others are becoming 3. Starve your distractions, feed your focus 4. You can't do the big things when you are always distracted with the small ones
He is being Monk for a enough long period .. u can see videos about him.. n find info around... Anyhow we are also monk for ourselves .. the only difference is we made ourselves the needful.. n there people like him made themselves as giver of knowledge!!!
I am so glad that I watched this video before scrolling down, I am also trying to limit myself, slowly I am thinking of using less cellphone because it is keeping me away from the people I love, recently I deleted my Facebook, and I also turned off notifications for Twitter and Instagram so that I can spend more time with my family because not long ago my friend's mother died and that made me realize alot of things like how this technology is distancing us from what truly matters in life.
I love this for being so honest about what is going wrong in relationships today. As a 50+ I have seen the degradation of friendships and families over the years because too many of us could not 'starve our distractions'. This is sound advice, thank you.
Your video ends my eyes was shut and literally i was able to understand each and every single word because i m indian and not much used to hear this accent but i understood what you said.i love you jake and my bf also love you same.thank you
Your so on the point. I love watching ur videos it’s really realistic n eye catching. I hope u make more videos like these becus THIS IS THE ONLY WAY WE CAN FIX THE WORLD 🌍 and get people back together. Tysm jay. We love you❤️
Because, It what makes us humans... Doing all of these things makes us who we are. It can make or break us and that's our choice. We're humans and we'll keep changing until we change too much and break.
My only reason for being a lot of time online is my boyfriend who lives many kilometers away from me. When we met there was nothing else than him and me. Travels, chilling at home,talks, walks,nature,friends... Who needs technology to entertain themselves when the most important things in this world are right next to us? Hopefully this year is gonna be a breakthrough and we are going to be always together. Without Whatsapp, Instagram and Facebook. Not to this extense anyway. ❤ Have a good day. ❤
Stop it distractions...n feed ur focus...(dis line is mh need rgt nw....bcz de menace hppng so far... is ruthless nw) thnx Mr.shetty to let meh take a new step... worthy one😊
Wow... Masterpiece type and full of energy and motivation.. I like your way of talking and first time when i saw you i was thinking you are from India ( but you not from here) cos you looks as Indian totally and Proud to be an Indian... (cos i am Indian)
I want to spend all of my time with my bf becauseci forget everything else when i m with him.but my family don't allow me to meet him still we love each other more and more.
As always....feeling motivated...thank you so much Mr. Jay Shetty for constantly motivating us....and this is completely true.... whenever we besties hang out together we always make sure that we actually hang out together instead of scrolling through Instagram or Facebook.
I love you Jay, i really do. As i was listening to this, i was playing a game on my tablet. Multitasking. Sometimes you say things, but think if i do exactly what you just said I wouldn’t be watching you.....your social media. Your what we scroll to watch. You take time out our days and lives. Your messages are real and prevalent, but you are part of the problem. I don’t think its a bad problem, i think its the era we live in. Times will change, people will change, we must stay with it or get loss in the past.
Jay, what is the difference between watching this and scrolling down? Not to say that whatever you're saying is wrong but a lot of your videos are similar and people will be coming back for that instant gratification they get by watching your video. For example, I get a sense of accomplishment from watching your videos but it ends there. Afterward I watch other productive videos but it becomes a loop. Is there a way for this to stop? I love all your vids and am a huge fan. I just wanted to know if there is an answer to this problem I face.
Sabir Khan hey im no expert, but maybe what he means by this and other videos, is just to put down your phone and reflect on your life. After that, take action to do something productive instead of picking up your phone again. I've had the same problems you have and I really wish you success!
Bro... Exactly the same question I was having in ma mind few months ago... There is no so called solution, instead, let's call it as living in reality. Motivation doesn't work unless you work on it. By the way, I do say , and stress out on one line that... Being disciplined do a lot favour than being MOTIVATED..!! It's the truth. When you're disciplined, everything falls into place. Seems harder in the beginning, but you'll enjoy the result in a short period. You'll have to suffer being disciplined, but rest assured, you'll land to great deals in life. Hope you get answers in a confused way, at least...!!! Keep moving on brother... Stay blessed.
No but how true is this? Too often we get caught up in this world of social media and compare our lives to others, too often we pick up our phones and create a ‘perfect life’, far from the reality of the one we live in today and end up getting indulged in pessimistic thoughts. It’s so true when the part ‘’spend time with people who make you forget to even look at your phone’’ was said! I absolutely love this motivational talk, props to you Jay Shetty!
If the people who make me forget to look at my phone does the same like everyone else? Choose to look at his phone more than spend time with me? What should i do?
Pradevi Tia Calmly explain to the person that spending time scrolling through social media won't help you guys build a genuine connection. Tell the person to keep his or her phone away and do something fun together.
*"Starve Your distractions, feed your focus.!!"* #wellsaid But the thing is that we are having a motivational video to not to spend time on our phones, on our phones itself..!! Irony..
I think that's a great way to seek out the phone addicts who need help. Jay's words are powerful and eye opening. They are sure to help many of us. 🙂🙂👍
My life was so bad I would be hit by my abusive father and take me all day to stupid places like the super market but when my mom left my dad and when I got my first phone my life became better not perfect but better
"You can't do the *BIG things* if you're always distracted from the *small ones* ." - Jay Shetty. I srsly love the ending and maybe if I listen to it, I can actually focus on thing that I need to get done.
This absolutely brilliant I'm so glad I'm not on fb anymore never been on snapchat & I only go on Twitter when I'm on my own , ppl are so wrapped up in technology but dont see the soul in front of us that's probably crying out for help because they know that person is only interested in someone else life & drama not the ppl that love them or care about them, it's such sad society today 😥 please pick your eyes up & your head & see the wonders around us , thank Jay your so insightful & inspirational 💜
This was so powerful Jay! And what a day for you to share this video! I just told my best friend that it's a "no phone" policy when I go out to a restaurant. We talk to eachother and not our phones. Thank you Jay!
Whenever I am broke, I always watch your videos to get motivate... really u r awesome... u r my inspiration... I am a big fan of yours.... thank u so much bro
Mobile phones make you closer to person far from you but it takes you away from the ones sitting next to you... 😌😌
Priyanka well said
Priyanka yeah....
Incorrect. Thank you for playing. Do better next time.
Very well said, so so true
Exactly sometimes we find massive,new,interesting,far relationships and wallow inside-but don't care and neglect about people,friends who have ever learned,lived, been closed,smiled,cried together! Perhaps we are not fair with them
"We have trust issues with the people we've known for years, yet we trust someone's review that we just saw on Amazon"
This hits hard because it's true
"We recharge our devices, but not ourselves."
That was powerful. Thank you. :)
It was hilarious too. 😂😂
@@jenaprithviraj0433 Was it? It is a sad reality.
SCROLL UP AGAIN AND WATCH THE DAMN VIDEO!!
Wolkify I already did.
I love this comment
-.- u got me
Ugh fine
How did you know!!??
"We don't know who we want to become because we're too distracted by who everyone else is becoming."
💔
Hi directioner 💜
What they are doing don't have to steal you energies want to move
Pick which side let you to go long miles ahead
"we complain that nothing seems real any more but we don't give time to become real anymore "
Thx for this line brother
u can't do the big things, if u r distracted by the small ones...
awesome lines 👍
Nice n true quote.....!👍
Sometimes we really don't sense such small things inside us distracting us .... Coz after all we are what we think..!!
@@ravishe2k6 i don't think you got the joke
@@fearze2254 what joke? U tell me if u do
Ravi Vishe it’s inappropriate for u
Ravi Vishe it’s inappropriate for u
Before you scroll further. I'd like to tell you that you didn't get the point discussed in the video. You are still scrolling for no good reason.
And don't ever get addicted to motivation. You think you are different than others coz you watch a lot self improvement stuff but in reality it's same as wasting your time on social media. So I highly implore you to go implement what you learned from good videos and don't use it just as an alternative to social media.
It doesn't matter who I am to tell you. Take this as a reminder from your soul.
I stopped scrolling ..thanks for reminding
Thanks
Bhalesh Patel
Beautifully written! Thanks a lot :)
I’m confused that made no sense for me 😐
@@bhalesh
Wow
Thanks for this.... I needed this😊
Stay with people who makes you stay away from your phone 👌😌
Maha Mohamed so true 😌
that person is my ex... sooo i guess ill just have to spend the rest of my life on my phone -_-
But the only people I can connect with are on the Internet.
@@no1legobatmanfan why?? Are you in a prison or something??
Mohammed Amaan
No I have social problems and when I talk with people in real life I feel like they don’t care about me
"We prefer filtered images to reality"
So true and so deep
R/iam14andthisisdeep
Jay shety believe me or not you have turned thousands of people's way of thinking, living and setting purpose of our life✌and Im one of them💙
Like👍 if you are also one of them too👊👊
"starve your distractions feed your focus"
-jayshetty
"We complain nothing has depth.but we don't allow things space to deepen..."THANK YOU
Aww! Thank you
This brought me to tears. Could listen to him all day long.
This is so true, but a person's thoughts start with themselves. I have always loved the time alone I spend, reading books, and thinking, just thinking about things. I have a cheap phone, I never get on the internet with it. I do use my computer at home, but I spend time with my family and friends. I like just sitting and talking. My sister got cancer and died 3.5 years ago. I miss her. But I am so thankful, we spent a lot of time together, just talking. I would not trade that for all the newest technology or smart phones in the world. I like looking around when I am out and about in the world because there may be someone who needs a smile, a word of kindness and a helping hand, which can only be seen if you are looking at the folks around you.
It feels good reading your comment!
Thank you.
You are amazing I'm sorry for your loss
Thank you.
Your comment brings tears of gratitude to my eyes.
my life was awesome until I first time bought a smart phone 😢😢
Man, you gotta put the reverse gear on. Your life has to be awesome by any means.
Yeah 😀
My life was boring into I got a phone. My parents don’t really have money to go out and do stuff, and my parents don’t let me go places with my friends. Even though I am wasting my time on RUclips and shit like that, its better than wasting my time on nothing. Without my phone, I wouldn’t be able to contact my friends. Also, I wouldn’t have music.
I fell the same😭
Then you just need to destroy that smart phone.
Loved the line - You don't know what to become because your too distracted by everyone else who are becoming.....
This message is timely and relevant in our generation. We no longer know how to bond with other human being because we are so busy with our phones.
This is hard & real... time to do things differently.
Be Lili Moradi so true xx
Be Lili Moradi I wonder if any of us actually did anything differently after watching this.
zain i did.
So true what you are saying Jay, people don't realize how much the technology has changed our life. People forget to communicate with each other, they don't pay attention anymore to the ones next by their side. We are losing ourselves in a virtual world where the habits have more power than people themself. You want to make connections and strong boundaries but there is no one around, we are isolating and living without know how fast the life passes by us. We forget about our dreams, because we don't have with who to share them ...
“We have trust issues with the people we’ve known for years yet we trust someone’s review that we just saw on Amazon.”
That’s true and irredeemable !
well said jay. i fully agree with u. keep up the talks ur uplifting to hear
"We complain nothing is real but we don't give anything time to become real"
-Jay Shetty
Sometimes while listening to deep, motivating, capturing videos like this one, I’ll hear a captivating line and I’ll think, “wow that was amazingly put!” Often times I come across 2-3 of those. But I feel like literally EVERYTHING HE SAID in this video was one of those amazingly put, captivating lines and I was blown away by the fact that I just couldn’t not get enough of what he was saying. Well done 👏🏻
you are more than a reminder, you're special and one in a million. i love listening to you.
watching jay shetty's videos will always lead you to the straight part. and indeed your words are so powerful and spiritual to the extend that it changes a missing soul....
Thank you for all your videos! I don't use social media with my horses, they live in the moment, they are truly present at all times.
Don't give people just your time,give them your energy along with it.. Thank you Jay💛
I love technology and programming. So I spend most of the time on them.
Jay, you've got so much point in this video. Especially when you said that
1.we can't focus because we are pulled in 50 different directions.
2. We don't know who to become because we are busy watching what others are becoming
3. Starve your distractions, feed your focus
4. You can't do the big things when you are always distracted with the small ones
How do you understand our problem so well ? Thank you for these videos Jay ❤
Priyanka , coz they r humans jus lyk us bt who hv understood lives in a better way!
He is being Monk for a enough long period .. u can see videos about him.. n find info around... Anyhow we are also monk for ourselves .. the only difference is we made ourselves the needful.. n there people like him made themselves as giver of knowledge!!!
Jay Shetty : Man of inspiration
Very true. I am really inspired by your talks. You are doing phenomenal job. Thank you Jay
I love Jay Shetty ! ❤
We cannot decide what we want to become we are too busy in watching what everyone else is becoming....that line struck me hard🔥
I can relate. I have a big decision to make but I feel really stuck. I'm so much focused on others are doing. That kinda paralyzes me.
You are a beautiful poet Jay, all your words hold so much meaning.
"You can't do big things if you're always distracted by the small ones."
I feel it and at one point real people start looking forward to faking their lives. This was a heart touching message, thank you. We needed this.
starve ur distraction nd feed ur focus!! amazingg line!❤
Sad but true. This is what really happening in the world today. To me spending Time and Energy to your loved ones is very Precious. It is Priceless.
I am so glad that I watched this video before scrolling down, I am also trying to limit myself, slowly I am thinking of using less cellphone because it is keeping me away from the people I love, recently I deleted my Facebook, and I also turned off notifications for Twitter and Instagram so that I can spend more time with my family because not long ago my friend's mother died and that made me realize alot of things like how this technology is distancing us from what truly matters in life.
I love this for being so honest about what is going wrong in relationships today. As a 50+ I have seen the degradation of friendships and families over the years because too many of us could not 'starve our distractions'. This is sound advice, thank you.
What everyone think is motivation is actually reality of life and we just need to see that reality
Every video i watch from Jay Shetty always teaches me a lesson.
Your video ends my eyes was shut and literally i was able to understand each and every single word because i m indian and not much used to hear this accent but i understood what you said.i love you jake and my bf also love you same.thank you
Jay Shetty... salute to u buddy...in just 4:19 minutes u said everything about the current life...i will definately change myself...ty
Your so on the point. I love watching ur videos it’s really realistic n eye catching. I hope u make more videos like these becus THIS IS THE ONLY WAY WE CAN FIX THE WORLD 🌍 and get people back together. Tysm jay. We love you❤️
Because, It what makes us humans... Doing all of these things makes us who we are. It can make or break us and that's our choice. We're humans and we'll keep changing until we change too much and break.
My only reason for being a lot of time online is my boyfriend who lives many kilometers away from me. When we met there was nothing else than him and me. Travels, chilling at home,talks, walks,nature,friends... Who needs technology to entertain themselves when the most important things in this world are right next to us? Hopefully this year is gonna be a breakthrough and we are going to be always together. Without Whatsapp, Instagram and Facebook. Not to this extense anyway. ❤ Have a good day. ❤
Aleksandra Alexandra
Aleksandra Aleksandra this is good
Have a great life ahead😄😄
You can't achieve big ones by distraction of small ones
Great words🙌
I'm not on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram or yelp? But.
What i am on
*is RUclips*
*Yo Certain situation* 🙋
Same here
Same
Me too
Same here
Stop it distractions...n feed ur focus...(dis line is mh need rgt nw....bcz de menace hppng so far... is ruthless nw) thnx Mr.shetty to let meh take a new step... worthy one😊
Jay, you are simply the best. Thank you for these videos.
So perfectly said . Jay if you're reading this, I love you ♥️
I love your videos and especially the wisdom and message behind this very one! Keep the good work up, you inspire to make changes! (:
I was really depressed one day searching for hope......and found you......really happy.....thanks jay for filling my life with positivity...😘😘👍👍👍
Wow...
Masterpiece type and full of energy and motivation..
I like your way of talking and first time when i saw you i was thinking you are from India ( but you not from here) cos you looks as Indian totally and
Proud to be an Indian... (cos i am Indian)
He is a guy with indian background
God bless you Jay for this truth..exposed, no one seems to expose
JOKE OF THE CENTURY
"MOBILE AND COMPUTERS ARE MADE TO SAVE OUR TIME.."
I was badly in need to listen to this. And there's someone I want him to watch this too! Thank you, thank you, thank you for sharing it!
I want to spend all of my time with my bf becauseci forget everything else when i m with him.but my family don't allow me to meet him still we love each other more and more.
As always....feeling motivated...thank you so much Mr. Jay Shetty for constantly motivating us....and this is completely true.... whenever we besties hang out together we always make sure that we actually hang out together instead of scrolling through Instagram or Facebook.
Wow 😮
jay yes yes yes yes
It’s soo true
Absolutely powerful
I love you Jay, i really do. As i was listening to this, i was playing a game on my tablet. Multitasking. Sometimes you say things, but think if i do exactly what you just said I wouldn’t be watching you.....your social media. Your what we scroll to watch. You take time out our days and lives. Your messages are real and prevalent, but you are part of the problem. I don’t think its a bad problem, i think its the era we live in. Times will change, people will change, we must stay with it or get loss in the past.
Best motivation video
"Starve your destructions,Feed your focus. You can't do the big things if your destructed by the small ones. " thank youu
And yet so many people say they wish they where born in the 1800s etc
No shit we live in a simulation...
Jay shetty u r always an inspiration. Being in real world is now helping me to relate to people and to me most
Jay, what is the difference between watching this and scrolling down? Not to say that whatever you're saying is wrong but a lot of your videos are similar and people will be coming back for that instant gratification they get by watching your video. For example, I get a sense of accomplishment from watching your videos but it ends there. Afterward I watch other productive videos but it becomes a loop. Is there a way for this to stop? I love all your vids and am a huge fan. I just wanted to know if there is an answer to this problem I face.
Sabir Khan hey im no expert, but maybe what he means by this and other videos, is just to put down your phone and reflect on your life. After that, take action to do something productive instead of picking up your phone again. I've had the same problems you have and I really wish you success!
Watch just one video, reflect in it and take action on just one thing.
Bro... Exactly the same question I was having in ma mind few months ago...
There is no so called solution, instead, let's call it as living in reality.
Motivation doesn't work unless you work on it.
By the way, I do say , and stress out on one line that...
Being disciplined do a lot favour than being MOTIVATED..!! It's the truth.
When you're disciplined, everything falls into place. Seems harder in the beginning, but you'll enjoy the result in a short period.
You'll have to suffer being disciplined, but rest assured, you'll land to great deals in life.
Hope you get answers in a confused way, at least...!!!
Keep moving on brother... Stay blessed.
Same question
But i think it needs to be force stopped by ourselves
Jay Shetty's videos make me cry :'
We r looking at our devices now
A lot of thank you for giving keys to open locked answers of our lives.
Some people including me cry at night so next day they can smile
Sounds kind of gay, ma n***a.
@@jackfavvv0280 umm
No but how true is this? Too often we get caught up in this world of social media and compare our lives to others, too often we pick up our phones and create a ‘perfect life’, far from the reality of the one we live in today and end up getting indulged in pessimistic thoughts. It’s so true when the part ‘’spend time with people who make you forget to even look at your phone’’ was said! I absolutely love this motivational talk, props to you Jay Shetty!
If the people who make me forget to look at my phone does the same like everyone else? Choose to look at his phone more than spend time with me? What should i do?
Pradevi Tia Calmly explain to the person that spending time scrolling through social media won't help you guys build a genuine connection. Tell the person to keep his or her phone away and do something fun together.
Rachel Sanders thank you! I will do that :)
Exactly. We really need to understand what is important and what isn't. It's not about being busy. It's about getting your priorities right 🖤🙏
That's right we need to stop 😢😳
I saw this guy on RUclips at school. He’s truly inspirational. 🙏🏻
*"Starve Your distractions, feed your focus.!!"*
#wellsaid
But the thing is that we are having a motivational video to not to spend time on our phones, on our phones itself..!!
Irony..
I think that's a great way to seek out the phone addicts who need help. Jay's words are powerful and eye opening. They are sure to help many of us. 🙂🙂👍
U actually the importance of life..n still making it btr fr others too...so nice of u
"Well that was a nice movie".. *Goes back to being a internet junkie*
Mindblowing wisdom. You are simply one of the best.
My life was so bad I would be hit by my abusive father and take me all day to stupid places like the super market but when my mom left my dad and when I got my first phone my life became better not perfect but better
"You can't do the *BIG things* if you're always distracted from the *small ones* ." - Jay Shetty.
I srsly love the ending and maybe if I listen to it, I can actually focus on thing that I need to get done.
Hatts off 😎
Social media makes people crazy isolated from real experiences. Real fun, real touching
Stop scrolling the comments and turn off your phone / computer
Screw you😂
Oh Yeah Yeah * phone/ computer/ tablet
You are so so so right......that's what our children should learn at schools nowadays
First...thanks for motivation
Too much love from Uganda 💯in Africa 💯💯n Mike am following u already... N Jay thank you again
The video was amazing.
Lol !!! But u too would distract me if I go on to check or follow your Instagram page.😝🙏😂😂😂
Shubham Samir I was thinking this 😂🤪
This absolutely brilliant I'm so glad I'm not on fb anymore never been on snapchat & I only go on Twitter when I'm on my own , ppl are so wrapped up in technology but dont see the soul in front of us that's probably crying out for help because they know that person is only interested in someone else life & drama not the ppl that love them or care about them, it's such sad society today 😥 please pick your eyes up & your head & see the wonders around us , thank Jay your so insightful & inspirational 💜
❤
This was so powerful Jay! And what a day for you to share this video! I just told my best friend that it's a "no phone" policy when I go out to a restaurant. We talk to eachother and not our phones. Thank you Jay!
*Lmao do you want us to watch your videos or nah*
Too motivating and bitter reality of life.... Thank you sir
I know its cringe but i have to say this
OK BOOMER.
Whenever I am broke, I always watch your videos to get motivate... really u r awesome... u r my inspiration... I am a big fan of yours.... thank u so much bro
I found this with the help of technology.
Jay you are great speaker ,you have depth in your voice to touch the heart of listener
Wow.... Jay Shetty.... You inspire us everyday. Thank you. I needed to hear this