She Was Crying Inside But No One Could See | by Jay Shetty
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- Опубликовано: 23 янв 2025
- In honor of mental health awareness month. "Don't be mad at yourself if it takes time to heal. Feel every part of that wound and work through it."-Unknown
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*Caught* *between* *a* *strong* *mind* *and* *fragile* *heart* 💔
Same friend
Samridhi Taral ~ felt!!!
Same
Same.
Samridhi Taral 💯
Unfortunately people don't care, and u have no choice but to go through it alone.... It's the society we live with today :(
Some people do. You just have to find them🤕
;)
I't depends what you define what's society, I'f you define it as a toxic and more extroverted like, then yes. I'ts usually Western culture what you're trying to say, if i'm not mistaken.
liliana valerio Not true. There’s hope! I am praying for you my Friend
that is the universal truth in my opinion...no one cares about your feeling, about ur situation...
*Never neglect yourself. You are the most important person in your life.*
That being said, you are the only one who can save yourself, but don’t forget that you are not alone.
There is always guidance if you need one.
You should never forget that you can carry on in life as long as you are able to fight. Being alone isn't necessarily a bad thing, we can learn a lot and get stronger.
The most important thing is *never giving up* no matter what ❤️
@@XenoghostTV Great message. Solitude is the truest way to learn about yourself and life. When you cut off all noise and observe.
💛💓
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Until your last breath the person who is gonna be with u is only u...so take a good care of urself
*_I feel the people closest to breaking are the ones that try the hardest to put on a fake smile_*
Includes me and well said 👏
The song human Christina perri explains this all
But a dude was fake smiling cuz he didn't get his pizza he paid for
Yup hate that feeling when I have to fake my smile so no one could see how hurt I am..
Life Progress - a channel for introverts yep
I’ve never had healthy guidance in my life.. my mother being very toxic and my father never in the picture, Jays videos have helped me more than I could ever explain. Thank you so much for the guidance that I’ve always needed Jay. You have saved my life. xx
Same here... i don't have guidance and it hurts alot... having mom nd dad in lyf but still they don't even ask how i am.. they see my crying but never asks wht's going on. ...
zoya- Zoya I totally understand. Theyre just so wrapped up in there own lives they don’t see how much you’re hurting. I’m so sorry you have to deal with that :( we will get through it though and raise our children the opposite way❤️ xx
Don't worry about yor life. The life of every human being is very precious, don't let them spoil. I hope you'll get well soon about your family. Make every moment better :)
@@naminami1395 Actually I can understand yor feelings. Don't feel sad. Try to make happy moments in life . Don't be a statue placed inside the four walls, there is huge opportunity waiting for you outside. Make let them in yor life. We should never show angers to our parents anymore. Cuz they are the reason why we are here. So try to make them happy, spent some time for yor family. If they are not, pls let them knw about the importance of family and love. Don't be worried about yor life. Hope you'll get better soon :)
Hope you stay strong in life and somehow gain the eternal happiness 💯
"Guess I'm too good at pretending I'm okay"😂....literally me
Same
me too
Same
Mee too
Same..
I always pretend that I'm OK but I'm crying and dying inside
Can i have someone to hug me right now and say" everything will be fine" my goodness im so broke at this moment😭😭😭😭
Thanks dear😊
😢 😢 😢 😢 😢
Dont worry , things would go well :)
How are you now??? U have a God... U'll see him in someone
Thank you all😘
Sometimes you know someone is going through something so difficult and it's hard to know what to say, just be there for them and show up!
Agree
sometime better dont say anything .just be there and let them be present but dont forget life emotion can be infected .my best friend is both very skilled on this part.i always laugh when im with them .this is already the best others can do.others than being fully recover they bring me so much happy moment even tho i always feel like crying
@@jasontang9192 same situation is with me....feels like i'm noy the only one...you made me smile...thanks❤
just be there is not enough for them.but you dont know what to do too .
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*it's okay not to be okay*
@Nick Nickovski okay
What if I’m not okay, but everyone that is supposed to help me tells me that I’m fine......
Staying is bad!🤓
Sending out Love to anyone who needs a little extra encouragement right now😍😍
Thank you
thanks 🙏 ♡
And sending love to you Tina for being thoughtful of others!
Love you too❤
Tina Nekwaya thank you
*Sometimes we just want someone to listen to us* *So do start listening to those who share their feelings may be they are suffering from pain*
Yup... But literally no one cares about you or your feelings these days... People who told you yesterday that they will never leave you become the reason of your pain ... best thing is just control your emotions. And trust on god
Ya
God listens to you. He also knows you're suffer and pain. God never leaves your side.
I listen to ppl who share their feelings and I try to help them, the problem comes when I try to express mine, they always ignore me, interrupt me or start talking to others like if they weren't listening. Hurts
@@r0s3_gol43 Same 😔
You always speak my heart... Every single word you say seems so real and appropriate... You are simply amazing!
Same here
Same
Same
I know right he is a good youtuber
Same
Emotional wounds hurt the most 😩
Soo we need to work on them first by let go of expectations that is the root cause of our emotional wounds.👍
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@@niksha7514 pls don't cry for those who don't deserve.
@@winnersneverquits2570 okay...thank you for your concern...😃👍✌
It is the worst pain ever
I don’t know how to fix myself. Been broken for a long time. No one can see it . Thanks Jay
Get the help you need. Talk to a person you trust, or even a stranger who you'll likely never see again... Or go for therapy. If you can't afford paid therapy the Church offers it for free
Talk to God, he knows how you feel and he has known it the whole time. He can see you're pain.
@child of God That is great that you talk to God when you're upset, and I promise I will "contact" God in good and bad times. Have a great day/night and may God bless you. P.S- there is a verse in the bible that you can look up if you want, you can find it in Deuteronomy 31:8.
Trust in God hooe you are better
Heartbroken doesn't mean being broken by your love only. It means being ignored by the people whom you adore the most, being reject for something you spent your life working on it, it means feeling all your pain alone even in a mob , it means having no one to ask how are you, it means dying inside and keeping a fake smile on your face cux you don't want to explain you just want someone to understand your silence.. ☹☹🥺🥺
I was living this emotion 4 years I can't imagine 😥😥😥how is difficult but may Allah bless for everyone worried and wish you all the best🙏🙏🙏
Ya sometimes I look happy outside but I am crying inside 😢
I hope you can find the inner strength and courage to overcome any difficult situation you're in. You are powerful, strong and wonderful.
@@ErikaK Amen, thank you 🙏 I wish you have a wonderful life ❤
@@gustianawidjaja3195 Thank you, you too :)
Gustiana Widjaja I completely understand that feeling..im catch myself holding my breathe as I'm screaming and crying inside...😖
@@rebekkahk1570 hope you can have strength and courage, be strong ❤
One year ago, i was in tears watching this.. today, i smile 🍀
Thank You Jay Shetty!
♡
I'm glad you've healed.... That brings me hope too💝💖
When someone is crying, of course, the noble thing to do is to comfort them.❤️🌺
That moment when u have to beg urself to stop crying and tell yourself BE STRONG 💪
I always felt like its too much crying bcos emotional wounds was deepening inside bt yr words heels me deeper n deeper.Thanx so much keep the good work jay
@Dr. M. H. YASSSSSSSSS 🥺 BEING HAPPY IS IMPORTANT 🥺 WHEN U ARE HAPPY U CAN DO ANYTHING 💜💜
@@sirines9929 yeah you are right
I want to meet this man at least once in my life. Sir you are amazing. Thank you
Thanks Jay for sharing what really happen to people's lives ..
Seriously it is very helpful for todays generations bcz everyone have inner wounds and we all need to work on it
Simran Maan it does help n I luv this guy coz he speaks what happens in our life.How I wish it could be easy for me to forgive and let go after what happened a month ago.😔😔😔
Love from India!!!
Namaste
Is Jay an Indian?
@@mathiebogar3796 Ethnically, yes. Also, he's a citizen of the UK.
@@mathiebogar3796 yeah and there is some nice inspiring stories from his childhood
And Love From Los Angeles, California!
It took me 60 yrs to work throw FAMILY wounds. When You Know BETTER You Will Do BETTER.
PUT YOURSELF FIRST and LOVE YOURSELF, So You can Others.
Let go of all your stuff it's the past.
Keep Your Eyes ahead of You.
GREAT INFORMATION AND VIDEO THANKS MAN WOW JAY.
Words cut deeper than swords. That is why emotional hurt takes really long to get over. But it's worth the courage
You Are So Amazing... sir
Whenever I watching You Videos My hair stood....👍👌
I was just talking to my sister about this. I didn't know how to put it in words as well as you. Thank you ❤️
BOOM! Now all you need to do is share the video! Jay is soooo good with this!
"Don't be mad at yourself if it takes time to heal. Feel every part of that wound and work through it."
Very well said!!
Video really hit home🙂🙂lets all pray and support everyone healing🙏
“When someone we trusted broke our trust”
Why does this relate so much?
Love from a small RUclipsr in SA❤️🇿🇦
This channel always makes me feel better 😊 thank you
Love from a small RUclipsR in Los Angeles!!! Hey Boity Eve!!!
Brilliant video jay sir. One of the biggest problems of the 21st century is people not telling or expressing thier emotions. They keep it withib themselves and just get more and more weak because. The thing is to express your emtional wounds and pain.
Thats why u r here to heal our emotional wounds ❤
Oh man! I mean you just saved some precious years of my life because I do have the habit of overthinking some negative shits so much and most of the time I end up crying and all helpless its feels like being alone in the crowd and lost in the busiest streets. But now I know, that's just something to make you stronger. From now onwards I resolute to not to overthink about the negative thoughts and welcome all the positive vibes. May God bless everyone out there.
Can i just say, Jay you are brilliant. And one of these days I am going to meet you and tell this exact same thing in person.
You really light up your lives with your sayings Jay. It's not enough if we just thank you. You are great. This world needs people like you and I too promise that I am gonna render such services to the public that's how I can pay back my debt to you and to everyone who taught me such great lessons. Thank you 💕💖
How can you be so apt all the time...it feels like someone has recorded me crying or feeling all those things
Hats off jay shetty...feeling blessed ❤❤
I always pay so much respect for people who capitalize on mental illness. It is very important to know that you are loved and cared for in spite of all the bad things the voices inside your head tell you. It helps a lot. Thank you so much.
I just lived your every words....you're such an eternal explorer maybe....so connecting words and so magical!!!!thank you so much!
Someone should give this guy a medal 💕💕
Wounds dealt to the heart are the most dangerous of them all. Because they eat you up from the inside. Forget other people being aware of your wounded heart, often times we ourselves aren't aware of it. And that's what's truly scary.
Yes I feel like dis
@@zahedatabassum7467 I hope we can all be more aware of our internal wounds so we can treat them more efficiently.
Yes When we know ourselves it becomes easy to deal with people
@@zahedatabassum7467 That's right.
Yeah this is thruth.
Thank God for Jay Shetty, his caring, and helping....thank you too Jay Shetty
I love how do you explain
To help people that are in pain God bless you 🙏 Jay 👍💯
That's so true. And that's why we should always be kind towards one another. We never know what struggles the other person is facing. Let's be kind, let's be supportive and let's be loving towards everyone.
Could relate well as i passed through these stages..
I hope you are doing well now, it's hard to overcome such difficult times, but as soon as we accept it, embrace the pain, then we can move on... it takes courage and time. you are strong and even stronger now, you can overcome any obstacle
Only two words: Thank you 🙏
I can only cry when im alone.Idk I guess i just work that way
You are never alone you have God with you!
Be strong and trust the process ... everything will be fine and if not than it's not the end....take my infinite love ❤️
The truth of the world is people will first look at how beautiful you are but won't care about your feelings and emotions.I know how painful emotional wounds are but I hope those who are suffering from it can overcome it. Thanks Jay.
Your videos have changed me a lot.
Thanks for everything
Now I am changing daily as I am seeing world in different like positive attitude
Amrut...What has been the biggest change you have made that you are seeing benefits from?
I'm crying so much with watching it. and yes, only a broken heart feels the pain of wound not physical wound but emotional wound is aching so much inside a heart...
Life and Life experiences ,Knowledge is Power to overcome our circumstances thank you Jay 🙏❤️ peace and love to all 🙏 ❤️
You look awesome mam.. I couldn't stop myself from praising you😃
music to sleep to
Letting go and letting nature follow its natural course is healing. Embracing our pain and noticing it through being mindful is one way we heal and replenish our mind and body!
Thanks for posting awesome and helpful videos for us it really helps us out in life this video made me cry and lot 😢😢😢
You are healing well
@@rjkintegratedfarm7186 thanks
Safiyyah Ali so sorry dia all will be well Inshaallah pray to Allah walashey
@@zahirzain2871 thanks a lot for the motivation i always pray to Allah and I will never stop i also go to Mosque every Sunday
Safiyyah you are like ma own sis and seeing you crying hurts a lot just let the past be and try to move like nothing ever happened dia.
Thank you for acknowledging the fact that it takes time to heal, so many just expect you to let it go or get over it immediately. If you think you are over it instantly, you are lying to yourself.
Thank you so much sir.
This lesson is definitely going to help me in the healing process.
i don’t like admitting to needing help but this has opened up my eyes. i definitely think it’s time.
Exactly what I'm facing right now..
Relax......the sun always sets to shine again........
Time...............heals everything!
Stay positive......stay happy :-)
Hope you can catch a better life soon :)
Be strong & let go of expectations. 🙏
How can we get out of this
Same here
Something I’ve learned after meeting ppl with depression and anxiety and stress, is that the saddest ppl are most of the time the kindest ppl you’ll ever meet. Because they don’t want anyone to know what they’re going thru, but most of all, because they don’t want anyone to experience what hey have to. I am just now realizing I have anxiety. Major anxiety, and I understand now cuz I feel like “my friends don’t need to worry about me I’ll be fine. They look up to me I shouldn’t feel this way” but this video made me realize it’s okay to ask for help. Thank you ❤️
Thank you Jay your videos are so helpful in my life, May God give more wisdom 🙏👏
Watching his videos can make you grow mentally and physically strong..to overcome whatever situations you're into!
I'm a big fan of him❤️
Your videos are so helpful.. it really points to our inner feelings.. plz keep going..
I really needed to hear this message. In a 40 year narcissistic marriage, there's been a lot of pain. Trying to leave and heal. Narcissists don't make it easy to leave because of their ego. More pain... Thank you for your message.🌹
It's strong mind and fragile heart 💖rlly she's very strong human 😘
just because i needed it thank you jay shetty for being there
😔😔😔 sir u r amazing 💕
Every word you say speaks the truths of the souls and make them come out to their light and cure themselves
Thank you for this pressious words!
It's a great relief when you have been there, done that, and Jay Shetty's video comes to support your self development as if he's got your back!
I dnt know how but ur videos always comes at the right moment..💕
The pain never stops you just learn to cope with it...
You are strong enough to go through whatever life puts you through.
Thankyou very much for posting this video.Really speaking today i was lost. But this video was really helpful
Erum Laghari yeah same...
‘dont be mad at yourself if it takes time to heal’ wise words
Thank you Jay Shetty ❤️❤️
Sharing is not the problem, finding a trusted one who will listen, understand and give advise or compassion is the challenge.
People tend to judge so most likely will keep it inside and self heal.
Amazing video Jay, just what most of need to hear! I can relate so much to this video and even more of the visuals of tennis because I'm a tennis player myself, it's all about how we can heal and recover, there's no one who is more important than loosing one's own self and being a victim and letting their emotions get the best of them!
True
"You will behold great sorrow, and in this great sorrow, you will be happy. Here is the commandment you seek: seek happiness in sorrow. Work, work tirelessly." - Fyodor Dostoevsky
Ever since I came across your videos a year ago I woke up and changed my life in ways I didn't think was possible. For those feeling hopeless, trust me it's possible if you refuse to be stuck any longer. Thanks Jay
This makes so much sense.
I have no idea why I'm crying 😭😭😭
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So good to listen and watch these teaching videos. sometimes there is no one who cares about you, ... even family. These teaching tools, and watching Jay Shetty is almost like being with a friend who leads you through tough times. feel much better , understanding, and aware after watching.
U r amazing
nd u r the motivator 4r me
Love 4m Nepal 😘😘
Subscribe my chanel la bro. Nepalese here from Perth, Australia.
Lovely words wipe away our tears.
This was just what I needed thank you ☺️
How are you doing today Kari_P? Are you feeling better?
Phillip Andrew Barbb I’m doing great thank you 😊, but sometimes we all need kind words to start off are day, I really appreciate you for asking
@@kari_p2090 I think it is important to do daily!!! "We cannot take a show on Monday and be clean all week." I look at consuming positive content like taking a Spiritual Shower. Daily! Sometimes twice when I am really dirty. :)
Phillip Andrew Barbb that sounds really nice, mainly because taking showers you are doing something that’s good for you and it is a great place to think because you are alone with nothing to disturb you
I really dont know how u do it . get the videos right on time when we feel the same way . ur my inspiration . u do change how people think in the most positive way possible .
DEPRESSION ANXIETY STRESS IS ALL I AM FACING AT THE MOMENT......I JUST HOPE THIS HARD TIME PASSES SOON 💔💔💔
You're not alone... just want to remind you that you are strong, powerful and wonderful. Believe in yourself, you can overcome any obstacle, you still have time. don't give up on yourself
@@ErikaK thank u so much for ur kind words....much needed and I really appreciate that ❤❤❤
God is with you and so are other people. You are a strong person and God listens to you and he knows you're pain.
Branko Petrovich ❤️❤️❤️
The best way to start your morning is to have Jay Shetty playing in the background as you’re getting ready for your day ❤️
This what I m going thru past one month. Crying inside with so much painful. I m trying so hard to stop or control my tears. I can't. 😔
Have courage you can get out of it ...
Remember you are not the only one. Plus God is here by you're side and he knows how you feel.
Thank you for speaking out the truth. I hope more people will know this, that this a part of Life.
1.forgiveness
2.acceptance
3.let it go
You may recover, one who is reading god bless you.😊
Bless you as well 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I love how your care and compassion are seen in your beautiful green eyes that have such a gentle look.
Your videos are amazing, Jay 👍.
Really superb video 👌 thank you sir
Thanks for all these words.. Really helped at a right time in my life.
Love From Pakistan.
*Love* you Jay, may *_Allah Al-Mighty_* guide you and protect you.
Honestly I'm recently _suffering_ from the _trauma._ Recently i had a _breakup_ despite me going *all* my _way_ and _beyond_ to prove that I'm _loyal_ and a _sincere_ person, yet i got *rejected* 😔😢
And your videos Jay, helps me walk through my _healing_ process. And to be very honest, the timings of your videos are just _miraculous._ When I'm feeling too low and is on RUclips, your video pops up and i instantly watch it. And i thank my *_Allah_* that *_He_* has such a _perfect timing_ and *_He_* _guides_ me through you.
Once again, _Thank You _*_Allah_* for _helping_ me.
And _Thank You_ and _Love you_ *Jay* for _helping_ us, may *_Allah Al-Mighty_* _guides_ you and _protect_ you.
*_Ameen_*
😊
You are not alone same thing happening with me in every single day but i am smiling becuz nothing doesn't happen without a reason and without the permission of Allah BTW Aameen
@@latest4724
Indeed brother, you are right.
May Allah Al-Mighty guides us all and relief us from our burdens and griefs.
Ameen
جزاكم الله خيراً كثيراً كثيرا
@@DataMaster786 Ameen
Did you know that you are the greatest person ever? Thanks for speaking my heart..
I always take the chance to cry my heart out although it is just a small cut... Because I'm still bleeding inside... If you guys have done it, you will understand...
P/s: Music is always there to save us...
I had been Suffering from last 5 yrs from my husband's mental cruelty n nw I decided to give up. Your videos give me courage to face the gossips of this dirty world.The all that I have learnt in those past 5yrs is that during depressed moments nt even parents as well as near-n-dear ones come to guide or understand my feelings.it was I alone who is to suffer.
This helped me!
Thank you
thank you, I'm crying because this is what I needed today. been working on digging deeper on my fears and its left me raw and an emotional rollercoaster. but today though for the first time, I'm able to see and live in thankfulness. seeing this couldnt have come at a better time. thank you
Ur video inspire us thankyu. Love from indonesia❤️
Love from Los Angeles, CA Adinda!
Emotional wounds are very hard because outside you may look normal, but inside you are in tremendous pain.
Because the fear of being judged by others as "toxic person" when we express our emotional wounds, many of us decided it is best to just simply hide the emotional wound. Little did we know that the more we hide the wound, it's basically just bottling up the situation, & thus it would eventually lead to a more destructive path.
It's unfortunate that we as a society still need a lot to learn about mental health.
Thanks jay for this beautiful video❤❤
Don’t be mad at yourself. It takes time to heal.
Thank you for this wonderful message ❤️