@@nathrose7612 No, they don't know. And that's ok because people aren't expected to know everything that goes on in someone's life. But we should know that no one's life is perfect. Even for those rich and famous people, they go through depression too, because the money doesn't make them 100% happy, because there is no 100% with anything.
“I used to think that the worst thing in life is to end up alone. But it is actually ending up with people who make you feel alone.” Couldn’t be more real right there💯
My mom showed me this, she said “I watched this, the first person who came to my mind was you” I wanted to break down as she showed me, because it’s all true. I pretend I’m alright, but deep down I’m hurting
I felt led to tell you that Only Jesus can heal your pain. He loves you! He can take your hurt your insecurities, your inadequacies and make them all right. I’ve gone through feeling alone and afraid but there is nothing like His comfort. Give God a chance, open our heart to him you’ll Never regret it.
This is reality of most of the people... But with me, it's different. I left social media, and now I am alone because everyone else is being 'Social' on their phones in their bathrooms...
Dude, you aren't alone. I left Social media too, all of it. And i am not alone at all. When you leave social media, you have more time to the real life, and you make real friends, true friends.
I know how you feel... I left social media some years back and I go back to say Hello every once in a while. I have a clear mind but it gets lonely when i go missing my old closest friends. Everyone is thristy for social media. And it sucks bcuz I havent really built any new friendships just new associates who also love social media like old friends. But I have gotten amazing grades in school and have grown a deeper relationship with my Mom as well as my children and their father. Im also building a stronger relationship with myself. My support system has changed to more so being my family and it took getting used to. Even tho I miss those old friends I know love for me resides more for me within my family. They make me a priority regardless of what they enjoy. And I do the same for them. Find ppl who make you a priority. 🌹🙏💙 All will get better for you Hun. Hugs*
End-to-End dude, I'm from india. That facebook which is filled with Goons and fake profiles advertising Modi. I hate that Modi. He's the worst person alive. He'll give rise to a Civil war where people will die from hunger. I left social media because it was changing me. It was making me worse than ever. I started hating everyone from Muslims to Christians. This govt. have an old history of creating violence. And guess what, it's still happening! I witnessed it just a couple of minutes ago. I left social media because it was polluting me.
You must disconnect in order to reconnect ! Love yourself first and the true genuine ones will find their way into your life. Like attracts like. Thanks for the great video Jay 🙏🏽
Ty Speaks . Hey man .. i tried this i disconnected from every social sited nd all people just to have a time with me .nd to know myself better .. nd most importantly to love myself ... But i feels like its also not working .. so any advice for betterment
Ritik Tomar it’s a life long process. Start exploring more, go on adventures with people you love. Find people who mean more to you than just another like. Get out of your comfort zone and try new things ! Life’s all about adventure and finding who you are! Doesn’t happen , have faith my friend !
Thanks Jay. I’ve been there and attempted to end my life. Only for the grace of god and having great people around me that got me through. Thanks Jay, you are delivering great messages 🙏🏽😉
Dear Jay, A week ago today, my eldest son took his own life. He was 22. He was beautiful and smart, but he was also deaf and autistic. We tried everything to help him and show him as much love as we could muster... to get him to see that he could overcome any challenges. But he had already given up in his mind. He did not see a future for himself in our world. To him, life was boring, bleak and without interest. He couldn't see past the darkness, and now he's gone. I don't know if I could have done anything to stop him, but I still wish I had tried harder. Said something that would have eased his pain and shown him that he could have a great future. Now all I am is sorrow.
C'est triste. Mais tenez bon madame, vous avez fait tout ce que vous pouvez et c'est grandiose. Je souhaite que vous trouvez à nouveau le bonheur, soyez heureuse
As a depression and anxiety sufferer myself, this hits me hard and I just to say this. Please no one ever hide their feelings. Please be honest and truthful.... that's all I ever ask. There's no need to justify if you don't want to. Just let yourself feel and explain it, release it, explore it, and process it because it's what makes us alive and well. To those who judge and ridicule, you are doing no favours to help this - not because you're being mean or inconsiderate, but more concerning, you're adding to the misery and therefore risk of injury and harm. If you truly care about humanity and life, you would be peaceful and, if it's difficult to do so, acknowledge the difficulty to help yet still make some effort to try and understand and respect... not the person or the issue... but life itself. Peace and harmony itself. True happiness itself. To everyone out there suffering, I hear you and I understand how you're feeling. I may not understand every situation but it's always the same goal - I want everyone to find peace of mind, safety and healthy and general wellness. No more wars. No more destroying our own lives and or destroying other people's lives. We thrive together.
Every single word spoken so true... "When you smile but want to cry... When you talk but want to stay quiet" I think that the worst thing we can do but sometimes its all we can do to mask the pain in our hearts. Faith keeps me strong some day things will get better the problem is how long.... And how strong can you be when everything falls apart, and its like faith and strength slips out of ur hands. God help us all whom are going thru difficult situations stay strong.
This video made me think really hard about my BFF!!! Honestly, I just turned a teenager and unlike my other friends, I despise social media and so does my BFF...after seeing this video, I think I'm the most happiest person !!! . . . Happy from the outside, happy from the inside...THANKS TO MY FAMILY & MY BFF!!!😍😍😍👌👍💖❤💓💞💗💝
I’m the same way, I do not like social media and have never thought about getting it. That is so great that you and your best friend both agree on that. None of my friends are like that. I always feel like I’m the only person without social media because I’m constantly surrounded by people on their phones and using social media. Especially at school.
I told one of my best friends how I was feeling, all they said was “oh ok”... and then it was like it was forgotten.... so I just decided to not tell anybody anymore.
delicious u need a new friend. Discuss your feelings and I assure you if a person is a true friend they’ll listen. Perhaps your friend doesn’t understand what you are going through. All the best sweetheart. Sending u hugs love and prayers 😘😘😘
Yeah you have to know who you can vent to. More often then not we ask how people are doing out of habit. But if that person share their true feelings. Subconsciously we think that is too much. That we have our own problems.
Not every person climb every mountain. It's hard to think how life drowns in every bit of second. Such an amazing creation Mr. Shetty. I hope someday at some point of time people who feel like this (depression) sees your videos and at the least have some pressurisations on how to LOVE yourself and your priorities not forgetting the so called "Quality life" . May God bless us all
That's so true. I was depressed for 12 of the 14 years I was married to my first husband. I had had a miscarriage and he didn't seem to care. I them became suicidal. It's just so sad to have to pretend all is well when it's not. I ended up with a nervous breakdown and then tried to end it with pills and booze. Thankfully, the Lord had other plans for me. Thank you for this video.
I'm grateful that you come to know the Lord. You are a living and breathing testimony. Don't EVER let anyone tell you any different. God bless you and yours in Jesus name. God loves you all, and so do I. 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
😭 You just described my life almost exactly. I thank God for influencers like you who use their platform to make an impact and help others realize they are not alone. I recently posted about my journey and hope to make a difference like you have done for so many. This video touched my soul and I feel seen! Thank you for being who you are.
That is relatable to me😭😭😭 i have the world of friends yet nobody is there😭 i have hundreds of comments and likes shares awewome messages but nobody is really there for me🙁 this is something i walk alone😌 show everybody my fake happiness and they believed in it and thought am actually happy but am not💔 Thank you Jay Shetty for making such videos whenever i look at them i feel relieved and peaceful🤗 I Love You and keep up the good work❤
Rose Motee Try to talk back to people you feel are not just random passers-by (either online or in real life, but preferably in real life) and check - some of them might be sensible and attentive enough, probably willing to help and make a new connection to make a difference in your life
Yana Rossoshanskaya Thank you. I tried talk to my mom and a friend but they don't really understand my situation to give some really good advice😭 at times i feel like ending my life is the best solution😭 because i don't have many friends in person💔🙁
Rose Motee There is a site called Blah Therapy, where you get a random nickname for a day and can chat to a complete stranger (no need for an account), either as a venter or as a listener. It might be helpful because there is no prejudice from either of you, and you might receive an advice from either an experienced mind or an objective point of view
Rose Motee It indeed is hard to not have a circle of close people or friends to rely on 😔 Try to start a journal or express in different manners to pour the frustration out, the most important is not to keep the emotions bottled up inside because even Mother Nature "explodes" in volcanoes, damaging itself (you surely get my metaphor 🙂)
“People who care ask how you’re doing.” The total number is 0. . . This video made me realise how lonely i am. But I don’t have any mental illness, i hope.
I've learn so many things from u and im thankful for that! When i feel alone and no one to talk w/ cause no one want too but im going through those videos of u and realizing that im not alone anymore!its kinda sad life but all u do is to wake up urself and see how amazing to live happy w/ ur own happiness not by someone else !thank u so much Jay Shetty
Thank you, this calmed my heart. Related on so many levels. I once had a friend who said to me, you're not depressed, you don't seem depressed, how can you say you are. And I thought, I don't know or don't want to explain. It'd exhausting because they will never know. Now I know, someone knows what depression is, and how to picture it to people who have a wrong idea of it. Cannot thank you enough 🙏♥🙏
Thank you Mr shetty. My name is Leslie and I'm only 14 and the rest of my life has been saved and its all thanks to you sir please do continue inspiring other people and never stop. May GOD bless you in your work sir.THANK YOU ONCE MORE
People will be inspired by your video I know because I have done a big mistake by forgetting the caring and love part of me ,your video has shown my true self has been forgotten and what a selfish person I have become. So Thank you so much.
Jay you are a true inspiration! With every video, your teaching is making me a better human being. I remember who I was and how I am now by continously following your preachings from the very beginning on Facebook. Love and understanding the different perspectives is what making me calmer and more humble. Keep it up! Abhinav
This had opened up my eyes to the world and the people around me showing me how even the happiest people could have the worst emotions and insicuritys about themselves this shows how people really care these days
ok well that only made me realize the only person who asks if I’m ok is my dad.. I swear I would not be able to live without him because sometimes it only feels like he is the only one who cares..
I completely agree. I heard a quote sampled in some music and it is "Death is not the greatest loss in life, the greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live" - Norman Cousins. Hearing this change me in ways that have over the years been instrumental to me seeking positive experiences. Although I still struggle at times I get joy from sharing this quote when ever I can.
Ik m late but in 2020 (present year) in March I loose my most important person of my life.....he died .I cried and cried and after that day I began to lose some of my feelings. my only dream is to make everyone happy and pls people pls be happy that you have someone and u have me too! 🙂🙂
I was moved by this video, it makes me think that all of us go through this kind of situation. We always pretend to be happy but deep inside we are suffering from loneliness, I realized that we need to be true with ourself, if we feel pain, we should not run from it because it will haunt us later on. We should not judged ourself if we are feeling down because sometimes, it's okay to be not okay.
*“Depression is when we smile but we want to cry but we smile. It’s when we talk,but we want to be quiet. It’s when we pretend that we’re happy but we’re not”* that hit way to hard😭
I lost my dad, mom and bff. And I'm only 12... It's too late now, but still thanks!! 💔😭👏💋 Edit: "a smile can hide thousands of tears" people need to be reminded..💔🤤 I have a dream of becoming an actress, but will never be like that for my family... Thank you!!
That’s too bad... who’s taking care of u now? Life to me, is like a tunnel to heaven or hell. Depends. The good, people whom we love is the lighted wax candle in our hand, the only thing we have to light our way. The dripping hot wax sometimes burns our hands, but we must hold on, for they are all we have. Your parents and BFF watch you from heaven, cheering you on. Remember that. They are stars in the night sky, and like stars they shine, never burning out. You can’t always see stars on the daytime, but they’re still there. ( I got a bit carried away expressing life becuz I feel like life is A LOT. ) I wish all the luck in the world and hope you are faring well.
Those last lines And that's what Robin Williams said. 'I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you alone.' 👏👏
Powerful and thought provoking. We live in a world that values perfection. I wish we valued human vulnerability much more. Will we dare to show the world our talents and gifts alongside our deepest vulnerabilities? Jay this is an incredible production that must have taken a great deal of time to produce?I am new to your channel and I am enjoying the content. 👌
I'm watching this again. This is the video that I won't forget. This is the video that I came back to, to see how perfect my life is, to see that I need to feel the worth of it.
It seems like my story..😟😢😢😟 😅 But m not Giving up.... (my short story👇👇) I'm really Alone...😔😔 And...whenever i just Get to study.. I feel Disturbed..... There's a Lot of worst things Happened in this..Year.... and those are Really Shocking and . ..depressive.... painful... Just in Two months.. Life have gone...worst ..than ever... Its... I can't even face some of My lovable people ... 😔😔 .. .. It Have My mistake Too.... but now.. I can't change that Incident.. .. I'm just trying hard .. to Overcome that feeling...kind of Depression.. I don't know..why...But From a Month...Small things are making me sad..And.. angry... on Little Things... Now I'M Just trying .... to Figure it Out.. ... 😟😟 But yes... i know One..thing.very well...That... I'M NEVER GOING TO GIVE UP.... NO MATTER HOW WORST ALL SITUATION ....ALL MY CONDITIONS... ARE GOING TO BE..... NOTHING CAN STOP ME.. IF EVER I'VE LOVED MY DREAM .... AND COMMITTED TO COMPLETE THAT .. THEN.... YES I AM GONNA MAKE IT. ... No matter How i'm going To do That... But yea..I will focus On... how To Improve MYSELF.. BETTER THAN I WAS BEFORE. May be I'll not be the best.. but Yes.. I WILL BE... BETTER.. I WILL BE GOOD.. I WILL BE HAPPY...what ever i will Do... I'll be GOOD.... 😊😊😊 And For Everyone.. Just NEVER GIVE UP...coz.. YOU'VE ONLY THIS ONE LIFE. and A LOT OF THINGS TO DO....A LOT OF THINGS ARE THERE ....TO LEARN... SO...Just .... LETS GO....😄😄😄😄
Yeah same here in 2 months everything was changed I can't understand what is happening in my life I don't what I should I do also don't want to lose my loved ones 😥😥😥
THUNDER BUDDIES Mistakes can be forgiven. Loved ones can be gained back. Talk to me. I am here to help. My Instagram id is passionatedoctor. stay blessed.
@@erwinsmeeth1427 WOW !! how on earth did you find the TIME TO VOICE YOUR REPLY ?? 😡😡😡 DONT do this man !!! SOMEONE'S life is at stake here. If you cant help, MOVE ON !!! stay blessed !!!
i went through so much depression and sadness alone. it felt like i was dying a thousand deaths. but i made it out and now i truly see who i can and cannot trust. when you go through pain you go through growth.
Your right on point here, Jay! Great video & choice of words to depict what this all feels like. We really are too busy wearing masks yet dying inside, feeling like our compass has gone haywire and what is happening in this video is so very real for a lot of us out here. Her ending her life doesn't need to & shouldn't happen! There is another way! I PROMISE! This is just a chapter in your life, it is not your whole life and it does not define WHO YOU ARE, it's just a part, a piece of your INDIVIDUAL story. YOU have the INNATE POWER INSIDE YOU to end this chapter in your LIFE (it may feel like a death) but a NEW CHAPTER awaits you (it may feel like a RE-BIRTH). Be OPEN to Reach Out for Support, Speak Your Truth, LOVE YOUR BEAUTIFUL AUTHENTIC SELF & CHOOSE to FULLY LIVE! YOU'RE WORTH IT! WE ALL ARE! (After watching this, I felt inspired & propelled to type this. I know what this feels like & I emplore you to reach out to someone if you know that are struggling. Be consistent. Sending a virtual HUG to ALL in need.) Thank you for your wise and poetic words and for posting this, Jay! Namaste
Wowww ..you've pictured it all do well something that I believe everybody should lament on but the world acts too innocent to understand even when you shout but its okay going through all the pain melancholy and disdain maybe someday I find my voice and become the voice of a billion people who struggle with mental health illnesses for the naive ones to understand that pain is not hypothetical...this was simply beautiful Jay no Matter how many times I see this it always looks afresh like somebody for the first time understood me and made this whole video on my life I can't be less grateful to God to have people like you on this Earth Thank you for the video..Keep Thriving! Love you!!
Powerful message indeed.. Important for us to look after ourselves.. gone are the days when we do things for fame.. Thank you very much for this video...
@@trishmugadza5967 when you stop or pause the video... there should be a arrow in the upper right corner. Click it and it should give you forwarding options. Or just cut and paste the link to the video
Mr Jay u r just incredible ,u r the person who taught all of us how to live,love ,manage relation,have priorities, aim,what is important......just everything hats off to u buddy.thank u soo......much
I used to always be the happy guy in class, everyone would want me around them, and then depression hit me and I lost everyone because no one was truly there for me, if you have a friend that goes through depression...please..please...don't abandon them, be there for them, I always am there for anyone whoever needs someone to talk to but when the roles change...I don't have a single person who understands. I hope you guys have an amazing day today! I wish the best for everyone! This world needs more love in the world than hate.
"Wow" Depression is when we smile but we want to cry; when we talk, but we want to be quiet... You said it all Sir. Now i know what i've been going through sometimes. No doubt sometimes it even sounds better for me to just cry over something or just laugh over something, than to have these double feelings. Peace be with You.
we lose people even if we are happy and positive all the time. U can't please people anymore. The best friend is yourself. U don't need anyone & that it. U will never be hurt again.
I feel alone, but I don't want to! I want to cry, but I do not, so that people can't know that I am sad. I want to tell someone about my life, but I don't know whom to trust!
Hey, are you feeling better now? You can trust me haha thats sounds so creepy. lol. Okay... No, trust me :) It doesn't matter what people think. It never matters. People are forgetful… therefore there is no point in hiding your sadness. Believe me, talking about your pain is better than keeping it inside. Its like a physical wound, which when you don't tell others about it worsens. When you do something against that, it heals… thats basically the same :) I hope you feel better now. Let me know please.
I suffer from depression, recently it took a turn for the worse for me, one thing most don't understand is sometimes-just sometimes-a person can feel so alone that there are no words to describe it, anything can trigger it. I always feel if a person sees something seems wrong with someone, ask the person 'hey how are you? Are you doing ok?' Show them you care or had noticed, it may mean the world to the person, listen but don't push, most would think the person is being 'too sensitive' but it's something so deep most don't understand it unless you suffer from depression yourself, you want to cry, or don't want to talk to anyone, don't enjoy things we normally would, yet we don't want to show the world because the last thing we need to hear is 'it's not that Serious' or 'get over it'-well, it is serious & about being too sensitive-well-that is the thing, it is a sensitive thing & needs to be taken into consideration!
This has been my life for years but I'm still trying to change it. Depression and anxiety take over to the point where no one can tell. Everyone thinks you're okay. Feeling alone is definitely a lot worse when you're with people. I just hope I can get through this as well.
*"A smile can hide thousands of tears"*
Very true and going through this right now many people around me admired my life but they don't know what lacking in life which true love.
Yep😓😓depression is when you are happy but you wanna cry...wow so relatable 😥😥
Yes but people dont know
@@nathrose7612 No, they don't know. And that's ok because people aren't expected to know everything that goes on in someone's life. But we should know that no one's life is perfect. Even for those rich and famous people, they go through depression too, because the money doesn't make them 100% happy, because there is no 100% with anything.
Yes true, I feel like this sometimes
"She drank to drown the pain but the pain learned how to swim"
That's deep.
Glaysa Wong I like this comment
“I used to think that the worst thing in life is to end up alone. But it is actually ending up with people who make you feel alone.”
Couldn’t be more real right there💯
:'(
Yep that's my most favourite verse that I've heard from this video😅😅😍so true though
@@mayail6141 😓😓
Amreen Narang 😌
Trueee
My mom showed me this, she said “I watched this, the first person who came to my mind was you” I wanted to break down as she showed me, because it’s all true. I pretend I’m alright, but deep down I’m hurting
I felt led to tell you that Only Jesus can heal your pain. He loves you! He can take your hurt your insecurities, your inadequacies and make them all right. I’ve gone through feeling alone and afraid but there is nothing like His comfort. Give God a chance, open our heart to him you’ll Never regret it.
You are beautiful, loved, incredibly magical!!!!! Honey you are not alone, many of us are out here
Anayeli Montes my mom led me here too
End-to-End liar
Anayeli Montes i feel you. But never give up, take care of yourself. You are so valuable!
This is reality of most of the people...
But with me, it's different. I left social media, and now I am alone because everyone else is being 'Social' on their phones in their bathrooms...
INDroid that's just a temporary way to escape from the realities, thank God you're not like that 😅
Dude, you aren't alone. I left Social media too, all of it. And i am not alone at all. When you leave social media, you have more time to the real life, and you make real friends, true friends.
I know how you feel... I left social media some years back and I go back to say Hello every once in a while. I have a clear mind but it gets lonely when i go missing my old closest friends. Everyone is thristy for social media. And it sucks bcuz I havent really built any new friendships just new associates who also love social media like old friends. But I have gotten amazing grades in school and have grown a deeper relationship with my Mom as well as my children and their father. Im also building a stronger relationship with myself. My support system has changed to more so being my family and it took getting used to. Even tho I miss those old friends I know love for me resides more for me within my family. They make me a priority regardless of what they enjoy. And I do the same for them. Find ppl who make you a priority. 🌹🙏💙 All will get better for you Hun. Hugs*
End-to-End dude, I'm from india. That facebook which is filled with Goons and fake profiles advertising Modi. I hate that Modi. He's the worst person alive. He'll give rise to a Civil war where people will die from hunger.
I left social media because it was changing me. It was making me worse than ever. I started hating everyone from Muslims to Christians.
This govt. have an old history of creating violence. And guess what, it's still happening! I witnessed it just a couple of minutes ago.
I left social media because it was polluting me.
Indroid, I agree. No matter we accept it or not...whatever we see and expose ourselves to, influences us on a subconscious level.
"The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone" same, I always felt this😢
can you explain this sentense to me plzz?
@@Ali-jt3gn it means being stuck with someone that's not good for you
@@jilliandawnmanalastas2892 ohh thanks
So true same here 💕
You must disconnect in order to reconnect ! Love yourself first and the true genuine ones will find their way into your life. Like attracts like. Thanks for the great video Jay 🙏🏽
Ty Speaks .
Hey man .. i tried this i disconnected from every social sited nd all people just to have a time with me .nd to know myself better .. nd most importantly to love myself ... But i feels like its also not working .. so any advice for betterment
Ritik Tomar it’s a life long process. Start exploring more, go on adventures with people you love. Find people who mean more to you than just another like. Get out of your comfort zone and try new things ! Life’s all about adventure and finding who you are! Doesn’t happen , have faith my friend !
This is really worth it!!!
Ty Speaks sure man .. i will try ☺
Ritik Tomar I’m here to be of assistance if you ever need it ! You can hit me up over on my channel if you’d like !
It’s ok you’re now one of my favorite RUclipsr. 🙏🏽
He is the best
Thanks Jay. I’ve been there and attempted to end my life. Only for the grace of god and having great people around me that got me through. Thanks Jay, you are delivering great messages 🙏🏽😉
Jason Andrews God bless you didn't ❤️
@@alonecozydot195are you kidding he is lying he wants attention like 99% of the people that say that are
God bless you
Are you feeling better now?
Dear Jay,
A week ago today, my eldest son took his own life. He was 22. He was beautiful and smart, but he was also deaf and autistic. We tried everything to help him and show him as much love as we could muster... to get him to see that he could overcome any challenges. But he had already given up in his mind. He did not see a future for himself in our world. To him, life was boring, bleak and without interest. He couldn't see past the darkness, and now he's gone. I don't know if I could have done anything to stop him, but I still wish I had tried harder. Said something that would have eased his pain and shown him that he could have a great future. Now all I am is sorrow.
Omg so sorry
im so sorry for your lost😔
C'est triste. Mais tenez bon madame, vous avez fait tout ce que vous pouvez et c'est grandiose. Je souhaite que vous trouvez à nouveau le bonheur, soyez heureuse
Oh Lord I'm heartbroken with your tragedy 😥, I cant imagine your pain of loosing a child...God help you through your lost.
@@lisatorrelli727 thank you ♥
"the worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone"!, Awesome one ❤
As a depression and anxiety sufferer myself, this hits me hard and I just to say this. Please no one ever hide their feelings. Please be honest and truthful.... that's all I ever ask. There's no need to justify if you don't want to. Just let yourself feel and explain it, release it, explore it, and process it because it's what makes us alive and well. To those who judge and ridicule, you are doing no favours to help this - not because you're being mean or inconsiderate, but more concerning, you're adding to the misery and therefore risk of injury and harm. If you truly care about humanity and life, you would be peaceful and, if it's difficult to do so, acknowledge the difficulty to help yet still make some effort to try and understand and respect... not the person or the issue... but life itself. Peace and harmony itself. True happiness itself. To everyone out there suffering, I hear you and I understand how you're feeling. I may not understand every situation but it's always the same goal - I want everyone to find peace of mind, safety and healthy and general wellness. No more wars. No more destroying our own lives and or destroying other people's lives. We thrive together.
This guy is doing a great job! Thanks bro
Every single word spoken so true... "When you smile but want to cry... When you talk but want to stay quiet" I think that the worst thing we can do but sometimes its all we can do to mask the pain in our hearts. Faith keeps me strong some day things will get better the problem is how long.... And how strong can you be when everything falls apart, and its like faith and strength slips out of ur hands. God help us all whom are going thru difficult situations stay strong.
Jay, you’re helping during a difficult time. I appreciate you.
Same in my case
Best Company is your company......learn to love you company. Love yourself.. people will love you for who you are
This video made me think really hard about my BFF!!!
Honestly, I just turned a teenager and unlike my other friends, I despise social media and so does my BFF...after seeing this video, I think I'm the most happiest person !!!
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Happy from the outside, happy from the inside...THANKS TO MY FAMILY & MY BFF!!!😍😍😍👌👍💖❤💓💞💗💝
congrats
I’m the same way, I do not like social media and have never thought about getting it. That is so great that you and your best friend both agree on that. None of my friends are like that. I always feel like I’m the only person without social media because I’m constantly surrounded by people on their phones and using social media. Especially at school.
Awww ❤❤❤
It’s hard to connect with others when everyone has their face looking down at their phone 24/7
Dont worry so much...take up a book and start reading.....phones are very toxic things....a book is better than that😋😊😋
WORD!
Watch this one also an amazing one
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My parent>>
I told one of my best friends how I was feeling, all they said was “oh ok”... and then it was like it was forgotten.... so I just decided to not tell anybody anymore.
Delicious please trust in GOD
GOD BLESS YOU 😃
delicious u need a new friend. Discuss your feelings and I assure you if a person is a true friend they’ll listen. Perhaps your friend doesn’t understand what you are going through. All the best sweetheart. Sending u hugs love and prayers 😘😘😘
True friends stand together in difficult times.
delicious smae
Yeah you have to know who you can vent to. More often then not we ask how people are doing out of habit. But if that person share their true feelings. Subconsciously we think that is too much. That we have our own problems.
Not every person climb every mountain. It's hard to think how life drowns in every bit of second. Such an amazing creation Mr. Shetty. I hope someday at some point of time people who feel like this (depression) sees your videos and at the least have some pressurisations on how to LOVE yourself and your priorities not forgetting the so called "Quality life" . May God bless us all
It's always the people with most beautiful smile are ones who genuinely doesn't get to smile.
And you know what?
everyone's smile is beautiful.
That's so true. I was depressed for 12 of the 14 years I was married to my first husband. I had had a miscarriage and he didn't seem to care. I them became suicidal. It's just so sad to have to pretend all is well when it's not. I ended up with a nervous breakdown and then tried to end it with pills and booze. Thankfully, the Lord had other plans for me. Thank you for this video.
I'm grateful that you come to know the Lord. You are a living and breathing testimony. Don't EVER let anyone tell you any different. God bless you and yours in Jesus name. God loves you all, and so do I. 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
Spirituality is the ultimate path of happyness
😭 You just described my life almost exactly. I thank God for influencers like you who use their platform to make an impact and help others realize they are not alone. I recently posted about my journey and hope to make a difference like you have done for so many. This video touched my soul and I feel seen! Thank you for being who you are.
This is the best one so far!
Jay Shetty seems to be a prophet. In every video, he speaks with so much knowledge, wisdom and truth always. Very self-actualized person!
That is relatable to me😭😭😭 i have the world of friends yet nobody is there😭 i have hundreds of comments and likes shares awewome messages but nobody is really there for me🙁 this is something i walk alone😌 show everybody my fake happiness and they believed in it and thought am actually happy but am not💔 Thank you Jay Shetty for making such videos whenever i look at them i feel relieved and peaceful🤗 I Love You and keep up the good work❤
Rose Motee Try to talk back to people you feel are not just random passers-by (either online or in real life, but preferably in real life) and check - some of them might be sensible and attentive enough, probably willing to help and make a new connection to make a difference in your life
Yana Rossoshanskaya Thank you. I tried talk to my mom and a friend but they don't really understand my situation to give some really good advice😭 at times i feel like ending my life is the best solution😭 because i don't have many friends in person💔🙁
Rose Motee There is a site called Blah Therapy, where you get a random nickname for a day and can chat to a complete stranger (no need for an account), either as a venter or as a listener. It might be helpful because there is no prejudice from either of you, and you might receive an advice from either an experienced mind or an objective point of view
Yana Rossoshanskaya Alright i will check it out. Thank you Thank You So Much i really appreciate it🤗
Rose Motee It indeed is hard to not have a circle of close people or friends to rely on 😔 Try to start a journal or express in different manners to pour the frustration out, the most important is not to keep the emotions bottled up inside because even Mother Nature "explodes" in volcanoes, damaging itself (you surely get my metaphor 🙂)
“People who care ask how you’re doing.”
The total number is 0. . .
This video made me realise how lonely i am. But I don’t have any mental illness, i hope.
Wow, very powerful message! To whoever reads this, I hope you are truly doing well today! You are loved! 🕊❤
This is soo true and sad....Never live for the approval of others always live to please yourself.
Jay Shetty sir ... You are Mr inspiration 😇🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
First time I watched this I couldn't stop crying as finally someone was describing how I felt
After this,I'm thankful to my mom and my family,i don't have friends but I got family.
Powerful statement.Family is better than anything.
I've learn so many things from u and im thankful for that! When i feel alone and no one to talk w/ cause no one want too but im going through those videos of u and realizing that im not alone anymore!its kinda sad life but all u do is to wake up urself and see how amazing to live happy w/ ur own happiness not by someone else !thank u so much Jay Shetty
Same here... Exactly
Thank you, this calmed my heart. Related on so many levels. I once had a friend who said to me, you're not depressed, you don't seem depressed, how can you say you are. And I thought, I don't know or don't want to explain. It'd exhausting because they will never know. Now I know, someone knows what depression is, and how to picture it to people who have a wrong idea of it. Cannot thank you enough 🙏♥🙏
"People who love you will wait till you tell the truth"
But there are no such people
Thank you Mr shetty. My name is Leslie and I'm only 14 and the rest of my life has been saved and its all thanks to you sir please do continue inspiring other people and never stop. May GOD bless you in your work sir.THANK YOU ONCE MORE
Sick of crying
Tired of trying
Yes I am smiling
But inside I am dying
People will be inspired by your video I know because I have done a big mistake by forgetting the caring and love part of me ,your video has shown my true self has been forgotten and what a selfish person I have become.
So Thank you so much.
Im watching this and remembering Sushant Singh🥺🥺
An indian here...
Same here..
"I don't think we understand how stressful it is to explain what's going on in your head when you don't even understand yourself." Thank you.
Jay you are a true inspiration! With every video, your teaching is making me a better human being.
I remember who I was and how I am now by continously following your preachings from the very beginning on Facebook.
Love and understanding the different perspectives is what making me calmer and more humble.
Keep it up!
Abhinav
This had opened up my eyes to the world and the people around me showing me how even the happiest people could have the worst emotions and insicuritys about themselves this shows how people really care these days
ok well that only made me realize
the only person who asks if I’m ok is my dad.. I swear I would not be able to live without him because sometimes it only feels like he is the only one who cares..
Be a true believer.You don't feel no one cares you.Only ALLAH can make your heart satisfied.You will become the happiest person.
Hey, are you feeling better now? Are you okay?
TWINS!!!!!!!
Mango I fee exactly the same ....
Dads are THE BEST❤
I completely agree. I heard a quote sampled in some music and it is "Death is not the greatest loss in life, the greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live" - Norman Cousins. Hearing this change me in ways that have over the years been instrumental to me seeking positive experiences. Although I still struggle at times I get joy from sharing this quote when ever I can.
"She drank to drown her pain, but the pain learned how to swim.."
That is some Lionel Richie wisdom right there.
When someone sees behind your cracks .. in your life .. you know you have a true wise inspiring person .
Ik m late but in 2020 (present year) in March I loose my most important person of my life.....he died .I cried and cried and after that day I began to lose some of my feelings. my only dream is to make everyone happy and pls people pls be happy that you have someone and u have me too! 🙂🙂
the most powerful thing i’ve ever seen...👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
she drank to drown her pain
but her pain learned how to swim
what a beautiful saying this is the quote for the year
This made me cry ... It's just what I needed ... Something was dead inside me, but now it's up again thriving
The line on 2:55 was amazing....
I was moved by this video, it makes me think that all of us go through this kind of situation. We always pretend to be happy but deep inside we are suffering from loneliness, I realized that we need to be true with ourself, if we feel pain, we should not run from it because it will haunt us later on. We should not judged ourself if we are feeling down because sometimes, it's okay to be not okay.
Thank you for pointing out what we all should see. Not always is it obvious, and it's easy to hide behind a facade....
Social media is always the most common platform to hide from anxiety and depression😅😅
And i literally cried afte watching this. Amen!
Oh my God! His words made me feel like someone knows what I'm gng through 😣 .....Yes Anxiety n depression 😔
*“Depression is when we smile but we want to cry but we smile. It’s when we talk,but we want to be quiet. It’s when we pretend that we’re happy but we’re not”* that hit way to hard😭
I lost my dad, mom and bff.
And I'm only 12... It's too late now, but still thanks!! 💔😭👏💋
Edit: "a smile can hide thousands of tears" people need to be reminded..💔🤤 I have a dream of becoming an actress, but will never be like that for my family... Thank you!!
Stay strong
That’s too bad... who’s taking care of u now? Life to me, is like a tunnel to heaven or hell. Depends. The good, people whom we love is the lighted wax candle in our hand, the only thing we have to light our way. The dripping hot wax sometimes burns our hands, but we must hold on, for they are all we have. Your parents and BFF watch you from heaven, cheering you on. Remember that. They are stars in the night sky, and like stars they shine, never burning out. You can’t always see stars on the daytime, but they’re still there. ( I got a bit carried away expressing life becuz I feel like life is A LOT. ) I wish all the luck in the world and hope you are faring well.
This video is very touching. I mostly feel sad every single day. People see me smile but they do not know what I go through inside.
Perfect meaning of depression other than all other rubbish motivation videos.
Those last lines
And that's what Robin Williams said.
'I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not.
The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you alone.'
👏👏
This video is seriously amazing . Finally come to know what is depression . Thanks Jay 😀👍👍
Literally me I can’t am crying of how true this is
Powerful and thought provoking. We live in a world that values perfection. I wish we valued human vulnerability much more. Will we dare to show the world our talents and gifts alongside our deepest vulnerabilities? Jay this is an incredible production that must have taken a great deal of time to produce?I am new to your channel and I am enjoying the content. 👌
I'm watching this again. This is the video that I won't forget. This is the video that I came back to, to see how perfect my life is, to see that I need to feel the worth of it.
It seems like my story..😟😢😢😟
😅 But m not Giving up.... (my short story👇👇)
I'm really Alone...😔😔
And...whenever i just Get to study.. I feel Disturbed.....
There's a Lot of worst things Happened in this..Year.... and those are Really Shocking and . ..depressive.... painful... Just in Two months.. Life have gone...worst ..than ever... Its... I can't even face some of My lovable people ... 😔😔 .. .. It Have My mistake Too.... but now.. I can't change that Incident.. .. I'm just trying hard .. to Overcome that feeling...kind of Depression..
I don't know..why...But From a Month...Small things are making me sad..And.. angry... on Little Things...
Now I'M Just trying .... to Figure it Out.. ...
😟😟
But yes... i know One..thing.very well...That...
I'M NEVER GOING TO GIVE UP....
NO MATTER HOW WORST ALL SITUATION ....ALL MY CONDITIONS... ARE GOING TO BE.....
NOTHING CAN STOP ME..
IF EVER I'VE LOVED MY DREAM .... AND COMMITTED TO COMPLETE THAT .. THEN.... YES I AM GONNA MAKE IT. ...
No matter How i'm going To do That...
But yea..I will focus On... how To Improve MYSELF.. BETTER THAN I WAS BEFORE.
May be I'll not be the best.. but Yes..
I WILL BE... BETTER.. I WILL BE GOOD..
I WILL BE HAPPY...what ever i will Do...
I'll be GOOD....
😊😊😊
And For Everyone..
Just NEVER GIVE UP...coz.. YOU'VE ONLY THIS ONE LIFE. and A LOT OF THINGS TO DO....A LOT OF THINGS ARE THERE ....TO LEARN...
SO...Just .... LETS GO....😄😄😄😄
Yeah same here in 2 months everything was changed I can't understand what is happening in my life I don't what I should I do also don't want to lose my loved ones 😥😥😥
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Try talking to me about it.
My Instagram id is passionatedoctor.
stay blessed.
THUNDER BUDDIES
Mistakes can be forgiven. Loved ones can be gained back.
Talk to me. I am here to help.
My Instagram id is passionatedoctor.
stay blessed.
I don't have time to read your newspaper.
But don't do like this girl.
@@erwinsmeeth1427
WOW !! how on earth did you find the TIME TO VOICE YOUR REPLY ?? 😡😡😡
DONT do this man !!! SOMEONE'S life is at stake here. If you cant help, MOVE ON !!!
stay blessed !!!
why can i relate it to Sushant's story? ... RIP sushant we miss u... i can't accept the fact tht u r no more with us
I have seen ur hundreds of video but this video touch my life.
this video is a must watch for this generation
Dammit, good point of view.
Train your mind and your body will follow.
Careful kids.
i went through so much depression and sadness alone. it felt like i was dying a thousand deaths. but i made it out and now i truly see who i can and cannot trust. when you go through pain you go through growth.
Amazing.. nice thoughts.. the final quote is very true.. good to be late than never.. Thanks for sharing yet another amazing video Jay :) :)
Your right on point here, Jay! Great video & choice of words to depict what this all feels like. We really are too busy wearing masks yet dying inside, feeling like our compass has gone haywire and what is happening in this video is so very real for a lot of us out here. Her ending her life doesn't need to & shouldn't happen! There is another way! I PROMISE! This is just a chapter in your life, it is not your whole life and it does not define WHO YOU ARE, it's just a part, a piece of your INDIVIDUAL story. YOU have the INNATE POWER INSIDE YOU to end this chapter in your LIFE (it may feel like a death) but a NEW CHAPTER awaits you (it may feel like a RE-BIRTH). Be OPEN to Reach Out for Support, Speak Your Truth, LOVE YOUR BEAUTIFUL AUTHENTIC SELF & CHOOSE to FULLY LIVE!
YOU'RE WORTH IT! WE ALL ARE! (After watching this, I felt inspired & propelled to type this. I know what this feels like & I emplore you to reach out to someone if you know that are struggling. Be consistent. Sending a virtual HUG to ALL in need.)
Thank you for your wise and poetic words and for posting this, Jay!
Namaste
This one describes my lyf 900%!
Amazing... Depression is a silent killer and I m glad you came up with such an important topic.
Your aura is really amazimg❤️
The best video in the universe that Explain and Define the real Depression...
She drank to drown her pain but the pain knew how to swim!!!! Dayumm
Sounds like a take off from Bono's lyrics from "The end of the world".
Wowww ..you've pictured it all do well something that I believe everybody should lament on but the world acts too innocent to understand even when you shout but its okay going through all the pain melancholy and disdain maybe someday I find my voice and become the voice of a billion people who struggle with mental health illnesses for the naive ones to understand that pain is not hypothetical...this was simply beautiful Jay no Matter how many times I see this it always looks afresh like somebody for the first time understood me and made this whole video on my life I can't be less grateful to God to have people like you on this Earth Thank you for the video..Keep Thriving! Love you!!
You showed me the world
Powerful message indeed.. Important for us to look after ourselves.. gone are the days when we do things for fame.. Thank you very much for this video...
I am definitely sharing this 💯👍
I have a family member that's going through this now.. I sent her this video yesterday. I hope it helps her 🙏🙏🙏
how do l share it also
@@trishmugadza5967 when you stop or pause the video... there should be a arrow in the upper right corner. Click it and it should give you forwarding options. Or just cut and paste the link to the video
thanks hyy
Once again you nail it! Your videos are awesome. Thanks!
Mr Jay u r just incredible ,u r the person who taught all of us how to live,love ,manage relation,have priorities, aim,what is important......just everything hats off to u buddy.thank u soo......much
2 years I’m suffering can’t express my pain
Thank you for being our voice of depressed . Open our mind
“She’s smiling but inside she’s dying” 😭
I used to always be the happy guy in class, everyone would want me around them, and then depression hit me and I lost everyone because no one was truly there for me, if you have a friend that goes through depression...please..please...don't abandon them, be there for them, I always am there for anyone whoever needs someone to talk to but when the roles change...I don't have a single person who understands. I hope you guys have an amazing day today! I wish the best for everyone! This world needs more love in the world than hate.
beautiful , I cry
"Wow" Depression is when we smile but we want to cry; when we talk, but we want to be quiet... You said it all Sir. Now i know what i've been going through sometimes. No doubt sometimes it even sounds better for me to just cry over something or just laugh over something, than to have these double feelings.
Peace be with You.
Jay Shetty! d best ever!
we lose people even if we are happy and positive all the time. U can't please people anymore. The best friend is yourself. U don't need anyone & that it. U will never be hurt again.
Hi jay your work is fantastic you are the master of your mind
This video made me cry as i was heart broken and sad.
Now that i moved on, i realize that she wasn't worth my tears.
I feel alone, but I don't want to! I want to cry, but I do not, so that people can't know that I am sad. I want to tell someone about my life, but I don't know whom to trust!
Hey, are you feeling better now? You can trust me haha thats sounds so creepy. lol. Okay... No, trust me :) It doesn't matter what people think. It never matters. People are forgetful… therefore there is no point in hiding your sadness. Believe me, talking about your pain is better than keeping it inside. Its like a physical wound, which when you don't tell others about it worsens. When you do something against that, it heals… thats basically the same :) I hope you feel better now. Let me know please.
Hey maybe talking to a complete stranger will help . I'm listening .
I suffer from depression, recently it took a turn for the worse for me, one thing most don't understand is sometimes-just sometimes-a person can feel so alone that there are no words to describe it, anything can trigger it. I always feel if a person sees something seems wrong with someone, ask the person 'hey how are you? Are you doing ok?' Show them you care or had noticed, it may mean the world to the person, listen but don't push, most would think the person is being 'too sensitive' but it's something so deep most don't understand it unless you suffer from depression yourself, you want to cry, or don't want to talk to anyone, don't enjoy things we normally would, yet we don't want to show the world because the last thing we need to hear is 'it's not that Serious' or 'get over it'-well, it is serious & about being too sensitive-well-that is the thing, it is a sensitive thing & needs to be taken into consideration!
Many times I hide my tears bcuz no one understand you😞
This has been my life for years but I'm still trying to change it. Depression and anxiety take over to the point where no one can tell. Everyone thinks you're okay. Feeling alone is definitely a lot worse when you're with people. I just hope I can get through this as well.