If You Miss Someone - WATCH THIS | by Jay Shetty

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  • Опубликовано: 1 окт 2018
  • Sometimes we're so busy looking for love in other areas that we forget the people who love us that are right there in front of us. Before you miss someone, please watch this!
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Комментарии • 5 тыс.

  • @simplynessa15
    @simplynessa15 5 лет назад +3501

    I couldn’t imagine going a day without talking to my mom 😭❤️

    • @no-vo9bm
      @no-vo9bm 4 года назад +22

      Aww

    • @matabong7108
      @matabong7108 4 года назад +11

      I like your videos 😊❤️

    • @sipstea746
      @sipstea746 4 года назад +8

      I’ve been through it and it’s hard.

    • @user-mu7ih5zi6r
      @user-mu7ih5zi6r 4 года назад +3

      Me too

    • @Tom_1940
      @Tom_1940 4 года назад +3

      @@respectdatruth7160 that's especially true

  • @sofiebarlund527
    @sofiebarlund527 4 года назад +2366

    Sometimes you don’t realize how much you miss someone until they’re gone. Have a good day. God bless you❤️

    • @animegirl553
      @animegirl553 4 года назад +6

      tankyo my love you toomaj good no teynk aym help you wat you wont letr you teynk yor gorop layke many aym kew god many dis gorop an alex aftr you leysen ok

    • @rebeccasimon9905
      @rebeccasimon9905 4 года назад +8

      True God bless you too ❤️

    • @TonyTonychopper355
      @TonyTonychopper355 4 года назад +7

      I miss my friend George

    • @ashutosh3658
      @ashutosh3658 4 года назад +6

      Fuck you! I miss my friend so much... She's only offline temporarily but she's one of my very few friends (and that too, online)

    • @fondelmaddick5085
      @fondelmaddick5085 4 года назад +2

      So true.

  • @aree9690
    @aree9690 3 года назад +618

    ”Dead people receive more flowers than the living. You know why? Because Regret is greater than gratitude.”
    -Akgai

    • @jensnow6551
      @jensnow6551 3 года назад +3

      It's not always about regret.

    • @AA-re8jd
      @AA-re8jd 3 года назад +1

      @@jensnow6551 what is it about then?

    • @pritighosh871
      @pritighosh871 3 года назад +9

      It's from a diary of a young girl.

    • @Anotherstranger88
      @Anotherstranger88 2 года назад

      @@jensnow6551 yes, pls tell your opinion sir 🙏

    • @aratisarkar7348
      @aratisarkar7348 2 года назад +2

      - Anne Frank

  • @gwyn4429
    @gwyn4429 4 года назад +2699

    I was trying to feel better about missing someone I diddnt want to feel more depressed wtf

  • @chakramohora3698
    @chakramohora3698 5 лет назад +3610

    guys please don't ignore when someone calls you and wants to share you something.....

  • @Kinemon284
    @Kinemon284 4 года назад +1262

    When my mom calls I don't care if im in a party,watching a movie, gaming, driving, eating with friends or showering Im taking that call.

    • @RapFanatic4ever
      @RapFanatic4ever 4 года назад +8

      D G me too

    • @bilalshaikh2007
      @bilalshaikh2007 4 года назад +53

      no offence but why are you eating with friends in the shower

    • @Apeezys1229
      @Apeezys1229 4 года назад +9

      @@bilalshaikh2007 Ye i was like wtf when i read that part😂

    • @pinkpepsi2836
      @pinkpepsi2836 4 года назад +9

      Stop eating in the shower bruv 😂

    • @voguexperimental
      @voguexperimental 4 года назад +4

      @@bilalshaikh2007 IM DEAD ASF

  • @marvothemustang
    @marvothemustang 4 года назад +411

    My mom was 97 when she died on mother's Day. still sharp as a tack. I love you Mom thanks for everything.

  • @nasty_bludgers
    @nasty_bludgers 4 года назад +201

    I can never even imagine to ignore someone whose love is so unconditional. Afterall parents are the only ones who can love us unconditionally.

    • @curiousfishie
      @curiousfishie 3 года назад +14

      There are people outside of your parents that are capable of unconditional love as well... Simply be open to them. I wish everyone well.

    • @xfairy3800
      @xfairy3800 3 года назад +1

      I could never ignore my mother that lady is what makes me happy every day even when we have days we don't agree with each other we are right back laughing & having a good time.

    • @thirstonhowellthebird
      @thirstonhowellthebird 3 года назад +5

      That’s sadly not true for so many children raised as acoa.

    • @BuzzLiteBeer
      @BuzzLiteBeer 3 года назад +2

      @@curiousfishie I completely disagree. All relationships outside of parental/familial love is and should be conditional. Friends that become toxic or negative should be dropped. Lovers who cheat, lie, and treat us poorly should be dropped. Only a parent can love a child who isn't a positive influence on their life or the lives of others.

    • @curiousfishie
      @curiousfishie 3 года назад

      @@BuzzLiteBeer I don't think that's a good form of love when you have to feel like there is a limit just because the person is not family or related or whatever. Sorry but to me I can adopt a child and still unconditionally love them even though they are not my flesh and blood. The same goes for the people I bond with on a daily. It's this conditional love stuff (the Ego) which needs to be evaluated in my opinion. I understand that people put up walls and boundaries but we don't necessarily have to be that way toward each other. Ah well, I agree to disagree with you because I was a step parent at one point and I realized there is no difference in how to love someone, our minds are the obstacles most times.

  • @tomioka8405
    @tomioka8405 5 лет назад +1757

    “You only know you love her when you let her go” 🎶

    • @farheenkhan862
      @farheenkhan862 5 лет назад +16

      😭😭😭😭

    • @seniamarak5216
      @seniamarak5216 5 лет назад +8

      it's right i also think same

    • @Pqq214
      @Pqq214 5 лет назад +27

      Staring at the ceiling in the dark
      Same old empty feeling in your heart
      Love comes slow and it goes so fast
      Well you see her when you fall asleep
      But never to touch and never to keep
      'Cause you loved her too much and you dive too deep

    • @cupcakesyum8626
      @cupcakesyum8626 5 лет назад +15

      Staring at the bottom of your glass
      Hoping to make your dreams last
      But dreams come slow
      And they go so fast

    • @mahnazkhan4930
      @mahnazkhan4930 5 лет назад +3

      Ysh

  • @signofthestyles403
    @signofthestyles403 5 лет назад +667

    What sucks is that the "someone" that you miss, don't actually missed you 💔

  • @imtiaznawaz4191
    @imtiaznawaz4191 3 года назад +282

    I am dying to see “Mom” calling on my phone. Lost her three months ago and I still kind of haven’t accepted that she is not with us 😭

    • @janewui46
      @janewui46 3 года назад +1

      I can recommend you to someone who can help you with any type of problem restored your broken relationship
      Text him on WhatsApp +234 70 54 89

    • @yasrabcalyar1160
      @yasrabcalyar1160 3 года назад +12

      May she rest in peace!❤

    • @dhruv6373
      @dhruv6373 3 года назад +5

      I feel sorry for you hope you revive back

    • @Ina_m22
      @Ina_m22 3 года назад +7

      Im so sorry for your loss my friend, just know she is in a beautiful & loving place & she wants you to be happy! Sending love & light your way

    • @MasterGamer-kz1dj
      @MasterGamer-kz1dj 3 года назад

      Sorry for your loss

  • @fortportal9910
    @fortportal9910 3 года назад +134

    Loving people who don't recognise us hurts please respect people's emotions. Don't take people for granted good day

    • @madisonivy9782
      @madisonivy9782 3 года назад

      Do you need help 💁

    • @madisonivy9782
      @madisonivy9782 3 года назад

      Are you lost on your track I know of a powerful man who can help you retrace your step back ❤,💰

  • @champ4753
    @champ4753 5 лет назад +938

    appreciate what u have before it turns into what u had.

    • @Lurizu
      @Lurizu 5 лет назад +6

      Dammit. You basically spoiled the video for me.

    • @victorlg6924
      @victorlg6924 5 лет назад

      For real man ☹️

    • @wajidmasood3101
      @wajidmasood3101 5 лет назад

      Deep.. True

  • @minionpoo6298
    @minionpoo6298 5 лет назад +566

    "They may love you forever but, may not be there forever" wow just wow

  • @sapnasahil543
    @sapnasahil543 4 года назад +176

    As a nurse I see this all the time, just breaks my heart.

    • @madisonivy9782
      @madisonivy9782 3 года назад

      Do you need help 💁

    • @madisonivy9782
      @madisonivy9782 3 года назад

      Are you lost on your track of life I know of a powerful man who can help you retrace your step ❤,💰

  • @johnsmith7622
    @johnsmith7622 4 года назад +38

    Called my Dad every day driving home from work.Lost him to cancer 13 years ago. Still miss that call.

    • @poojarawat1565
      @poojarawat1565 3 года назад +2

      Hey,I hope you are doing well god bless you!!

  • @delainedanyal9841
    @delainedanyal9841 5 лет назад +713

    “Appreciate what you have before it turns into what you had.” that hit me hard 💔

    • @RLPerez-un6hv
      @RLPerez-un6hv 4 года назад +1

      Wow true

    • @elizaash358
      @elizaash358 4 года назад +2

      Very true!😇

    • @TasosJoker
      @TasosJoker 4 года назад +1

      I can't get over her and her friends told me she can't too but she doesn't contract me either wtf 💔💔💔💔😭

    • @kvishwanathreddy5730
      @kvishwanathreddy5730 4 года назад

      True

    • @aliznew7
      @aliznew7 4 года назад

      Me too. Coz it is ‘had’ for me now. 💔
      Wish I understood it earlier. 😢😞

  • @TanvirAhmed24
    @TanvirAhmed24 5 лет назад +1726

    Take away message: Don't take ANYONE for granted!

    • @milanvp_97
      @milanvp_97 5 лет назад +3

      What does this sentence mean?

    • @TanvirAhmed24
      @TanvirAhmed24 5 лет назад +24

      Taking someone for granted means to fail to properly appreciate them, especially as a result of overfamiliarity.

    • @milanvp_97
      @milanvp_97 5 лет назад +3

      @@TanvirAhmed24 Got it. Thank you.

    • @thestarlightsymphonyseries
      @thestarlightsymphonyseries 5 лет назад +7

      Very true. Everyone in our life is a blessing

    • @davidanthony1084
      @davidanthony1084 5 лет назад +4

      @@TanvirAhmed24 amazing way of putting it

  • @Super020690
    @Super020690 3 года назад +56

    I was watching this video I became so emotional to the extreme of getting angry that this mother was trying so hard just to hear her son’s voice. I lost my mother when I was 4 years old and I would give anything just to have one more second with her. Those of you who still have your mothers with you try and value the time you have with them before it’s too late. Stay bless everyone 😭😭♥️🤲🏼

    • @ram201pa
      @ram201pa 3 года назад

      Wonderful post. I can so relate. I lost my mother when I was 9 years old. Those folks who still have their mothers are so fortunate. Peace.

    • @themommymiracle3232
      @themommymiracle3232 2 года назад

      Those who have mother are very lucky.. I miss my mom daily every time so badly . I cry daily..

    • @RapFanatic4ever
      @RapFanatic4ever 18 дней назад

      Lost my mom to breast cancer almost 2 months ago . Never cried so hard 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @nurmuslihah585
    @nurmuslihah585 4 года назад +39

    0:53 that's a typical mother's emoji would give to their son/daughter. I'm crying 😭❤️

  • @rubyj4767
    @rubyj4767 5 лет назад +3857

    my grandma has Alzheimer’s....
    Please keep her in your prayers

    • @gachapotato8002
      @gachapotato8002 5 лет назад +79

      sksksks sksksks why are you using your grandma and a bait for likes? That’s sort of rude... You can just pray for her your self or ask people pray for her and not get likes (unless they wanna give ya a like) Anyways, sorry about your grandma, hope she gets better soon, if she can 😇

    • @aashikathapa6009
      @aashikathapa6009 5 лет назад +23

      @@gachapotato8002 I.was going to write the same.....😊

    • @screamingintothevoid6791
      @screamingintothevoid6791 5 лет назад +13

      Your a bad grandkid

    • @rubyj4767
      @rubyj4767 5 лет назад +4

      Gacha Potato 😷🙄🔫

    • @screamingintothevoid6791
      @screamingintothevoid6791 5 лет назад +5

      @@rubyj4767 "and I oop"?

  • @LoveBill20
    @LoveBill20 5 лет назад +1313

    That guy is a jerk. End of the story. So many texts and calls cmon. Especially since that is his mom

    • @RapFanatic4ever
      @RapFanatic4ever 5 лет назад +42

      Ana VonD yeah exactly and sad thing is that there are people who are exactly like this . We’re so busy growing up that we forget that they’re growing old

    • @LoveBill20
      @LoveBill20 5 лет назад +16

      @@RapFanatic4ever true but also for the important people we should always push ourselves a bit to make the time. 5mins a day is enough and can be such a big difference.. but that is just my thought. You (i mean not actually you, I'm not lecturing😅) can skip a day or two if busy, but to do it for a week then turning into weeks, months.. is just unresponsible & you can't say like "you're important in my life" after doing so.. nobody is THAT busy.. I mean you prolly get it.

    • @RapFanatic4ever
      @RapFanatic4ever 5 лет назад +5

      Ana VonD yeah i get it you gotta make tlme for your mom she brought you into the world

    • @LoveBill20
      @LoveBill20 5 лет назад +5

      @@RapFanatic4ever right! But to the friends, other family, close people.. having in mind that some mom's aren't as great, caring and loving but someone who takes good care of you or is your friend, partner or I dont know but close to you and to your heart shouldn't be taken for granted or pushed back like ever. "Actions speak louder than words"

    • @barbkolouktisis4964
      @barbkolouktisis4964 5 лет назад +9

      I couldn't sleep with myself if my beautiful mom reached out to me and I'd ignore her..... speechless with this action !!

  • @charissapeters9289
    @charissapeters9289 3 года назад +47

    I know exactly how the mother feels. Rejection is the most painful feeling imaginable!!!💙

  • @ramyak7635
    @ramyak7635 4 года назад +13

    Please dont ignore anyone who love you so much, one day you will lost that person for life time

    • @mad-hl1rd
      @mad-hl1rd 4 года назад

      My bff decided to leave me for no reason 😰

  • @Casstala
    @Casstala 5 лет назад +603

    I honestly will be in mid conversation with anyone...and excuse myself if my parents call. Period. They're priority to me man. This breaks my heart. 💚

    • @nawan2348
      @nawan2348 5 лет назад +7

      Star Braid, My parent was my life. They are not in this world i feel nothing left for to do anything, life is so boring. They teach me there is nothing to worry about for anything just be grateful for everything.

    • @Dabbsy
      @Dabbsy 5 лет назад

      Why did you say period?

    • @ZAXN
      @ZAXN 5 лет назад +1

      @@Dabbsy he meant full stop. Like period.

    • @Dabbsy
      @Dabbsy 5 лет назад

      Samurai oh right I’m from England so we don’t say that

    • @ZAXN
      @ZAXN 5 лет назад

      @@Dabbsy same I'm from England too and ur right we don't say that. But when u watch American youtubers and shows u just understand their way of talking.

  • @cmukherjee6692
    @cmukherjee6692 5 лет назад +1032

    If you can’t get someone out of your head, maybe they are supposed to be there.

    • @umamaheswari571
      @umamaheswari571 5 лет назад +88

      And that person simply avoiding me 😔

    • @princesschanel469
      @princesschanel469 5 лет назад +93

      And that person simply doesn't want to be with me

    • @user-db8ij7vp2l
      @user-db8ij7vp2l 5 лет назад +23

      You think? What if them being there drive you crazy??

    • @taniabhowmick8271
      @taniabhowmick8271 5 лет назад +23

      You're right... But people's natures are different, so we misunderstand them most of the time..
      And things which could be solved in past, are getting complicated due to virtual life...

    • @darkchocolate5494
      @darkchocolate5494 5 лет назад +4

      @@umamaheswari571 same situation, I miss them so much

  • @user-bn6op9rr8c1
    @user-bn6op9rr8c1 3 года назад +36

    When my mom was alive, I,stayed in another city, phoned her everyday to ask if she had dinner yet. She passed away 3-4 years ago. (I'm in Thailand.)

  • @anthonywoodburn625
    @anthonywoodburn625 4 года назад +19

    I looked after my mum for 6 years with Alzheimer's, the last 18 months of her life I packed in work to look after full time, it was really hard ,but looking back now I'm so glad I did it,,,,, precious moment's in life,,,,

  • @nadeemahmadkhan1894
    @nadeemahmadkhan1894 5 лет назад +270

    Parents = Unimaginable Gifts.😙
    But Remember: *Respect is for those who deserve it... Not for those who demand it.*

    • @RapFanatic4ever
      @RapFanatic4ever 5 лет назад +1

      Nadeem Ahmad Khan it’s a 2 way steeet you gotta give it to get it and visa Versa

  • @hyunkim2642
    @hyunkim2642 5 лет назад +315

    "Appreciate what you have before it turns to what you had." - Jay Shetty

    • @noelevans8239
      @noelevans8239 4 года назад +1

      Hyun Kim pity my son didn’t do that

    • @RapFanatic4ever
      @RapFanatic4ever 4 года назад

      Hyun Kim y that hit me hard

    • @geraldwilliams5173
      @geraldwilliams5173 4 года назад +1

      That was deep man..

    • @zack7059
      @zack7059 4 года назад +1

      That was so good

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  • @leahthorne4890
    @leahthorne4890 4 года назад +63

    This just made me miss the person I’m missing even more

  • @NguyenNguyen-bj7cb
    @NguyenNguyen-bj7cb 4 года назад +6

    Love that “appreciate what you have before it turns into what you had”

  • @missmohamud1956
    @missmohamud1956 5 лет назад +1099

    I can't life without her she's my happiness may Allah protect my mama

  • @EuphoriaInBloom
    @EuphoriaInBloom 5 лет назад +587

    This is so sad. Last year, my dad messaged me for months, yet I kept ignoring his texts and calls. Dont get me wrong, I love my dad. It was mostly because I was afraid of what I would say. Our family situation is complicated and I was just really nervous to talk to him, even over text. A few days ago, he called and I finally decided to pick up the phone. After talking to him for a while, I realized everything was okay. Usually, I feel a lot of anxiety when I talk over the phone with anyone but with him, it was okay. I found out he's coming back to the states to visit and I couldnt be happier. I really miss him and hope to see him soon. I hope to spend as much time as I can with him this year 😭

    • @bhaktitattur2783
      @bhaktitattur2783 5 лет назад +7

      Don't worry I pray it happens as earlier as u thought

    • @GoldenAngel-
      @GoldenAngel- 5 лет назад +3

      Im sorry about your dad.

    • @miriamrojas7198
      @miriamrojas7198 5 лет назад +1

      😭😭😭

    • @blancarugerio39
      @blancarugerio39 5 лет назад +4

      Just let the anxiety go......let it go ...
      No matters what situation you have with your dad or family ...
      Talk to your dad , especially if he is trying to be in touch with you... Take advantage of the time and of the opportunity you have while he is alive ....
      Best wishes for you ...

    • @ily8747
      @ily8747 5 лет назад +1

      😭😭😭😭

  • @user-my9hc6uf9l
    @user-my9hc6uf9l 3 года назад +2

    "...appreciate what you have before it turns into what you had"
    Brilliantly quoted!
    Thank you Jay!

  • @xiomaraortega4199
    @xiomaraortega4199 4 года назад +19

    I miss my Dad
    He was an
    amazing lovable
    Papá.

  • @TheFearlessCooking
    @TheFearlessCooking 5 лет назад +732

    I heard it from a friend. His friend was calling him constantly but he kept ignoring. After months he came to know that his friend needed him because his dad died. My friend regretted it and made it a point that he will always call back... That's what I also learnt from his experience.

    • @vasiv2537
      @vasiv2537 5 лет назад

      Married Friends my dad died to

    • @fireballdude7368
      @fireballdude7368 5 лет назад +1

      Married Friends sorry about the loss to your friend’s friend

    • @fireballdude7368
      @fireballdude7368 5 лет назад +1

      Shadow Master123 sorry about your loss

    • @212go
      @212go 5 лет назад +1

      Sorry about the loss
      Condolences

    • @roberttoppi5427
      @roberttoppi5427 5 лет назад

      Yea same mine passed away 3 years ago I was 14

  • @akivaholstein3765
    @akivaholstein3765 5 лет назад +445

    I hate videos like this it makes me cry so hard when especially when it comes to moms it breaks my heart to see that some people don’t understand that people don’t last forever you should always cherish your time with your loved ones because one day that will all be gone

    • @beccahwang2573
      @beccahwang2573 5 лет назад +1

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    • @kryptonian69
      @kryptonian69 5 лет назад +1

      Yea bro ,same thing happens with me

    • @barbarahammer9037
      @barbarahammer9037 5 лет назад +3

      You are right. Don't take each other for granted. I miss my late husband I am 71 yrs. old.I cry off & on for my late husband. thank you.None of us can stop time & relive the past.with our loved ones.

    • @goodwill2174
      @goodwill2174 5 лет назад

      @@barbarahammer9037 Take Care ❤️

  • @ibalindasmdkhar6855
    @ibalindasmdkhar6855 4 года назад

    I wonder y some people even dislike your videos.....maybe they have different thoughts or different opinions but for me after subscribing to your channel and after watching your videos it just gives me hope of forgetting everything that happened in the past Life.... thank you for even existing

  • @thegreatsohrab1881
    @thegreatsohrab1881 4 года назад

    My grandma went to New York today and she raised me like her child I miss her so much! And I love her so much! She and my other grandma are the best grandmas anyone could ever ask for! :) love you grandma!

  • @rimamaroc6685
    @rimamaroc6685 5 лет назад +9001

    I don’t respect anybody who has no respect for his parents

    • @teresaknoke5468
      @teresaknoke5468 5 лет назад +812

      Rima - then you are lucky. Not everyone has parents who are worthy of respect. Some people have had terrifying, isolating, traumatic childhoods their own parent(s) are responsible for & it’s no small miracle they even reached adulthood. Please think about this before feeling the need to judge them.

    • @rimamaroc6685
      @rimamaroc6685 5 лет назад +39

      Teresa- sure sweetie

    • @mai-kp3qm
      @mai-kp3qm 5 лет назад +212

      and even if they have mentally abusive parents?

    • @lauinasili8305
      @lauinasili8305 5 лет назад +112

      Fuck u

    • @laraneri9909
      @laraneri9909 5 лет назад +256

      Rima Maroc you‘re ignorant for saying that, not everyone‘s got to respect their parents, especially not when they‘ve been mentally and physically abusive

  • @alicethomas5582
    @alicethomas5582 4 года назад +967

    how can he ignore her texts and calls like that 😭

    • @RapFanatic4ever
      @RapFanatic4ever 4 года назад +32

      Alice Thomas dudes a jerk

    • @anthonygabriel5470
      @anthonygabriel5470 4 года назад +41

      That guy needs some serious whooping what the heck

    • @picklerick172
      @picklerick172 4 года назад +10

      Fuck my mom would beat me

    • @lirabutiasvili5492
      @lirabutiasvili5492 4 года назад +2

      😢🖤💔

    • @vaudemu2263
      @vaudemu2263 4 года назад +26

      He could be ashamed and doesn't want to face her. He isn't sincere or mature. He is selfish. Ignorant.

  • @karunakarakarunakara3621
    @karunakarakarunakara3621 3 года назад +1

    "Appreciate what you have,before it turns into what you had" this line just touched my heart ❤we have no idea when our last breath stops....until then live everyday with a smile and kindness just like its your last day❤

  • @abaz7577
    @abaz7577 4 года назад

    I lost my mother 6 years ago. I'm so Thankful that I spent alot of time with her. She was my world and it broke my heart into a million pieces when she passed. I take comfort in knowing she was loved while on earth. Make time for your parents because they won't be around forever. God Bless..

  • @munamnoor835
    @munamnoor835 5 лет назад +225

    Its so rare nowadays to have people around us that really care for us ,love us for no reason and supports us no matter what. But we always take them for granted , its a very sad reality.

    • @shawnmerchant
      @shawnmerchant 5 лет назад

      Very True

    • @jmusic4312
      @jmusic4312 5 лет назад +4

      I never ignore my mom or someone who loves me... Happy for who I am 😊😊😊

    • @algrey4230
      @algrey4230 5 лет назад

      Well said

  • @maegan1580
    @maegan1580 5 лет назад +354

    I'm going to start picking up my dad's calls now...

    • @houdazgb8458
      @houdazgb8458 5 лет назад +9

      Yes please 🌹

    • @ryana-6762
      @ryana-6762 5 лет назад +15

      I know that feeling and you are not alone. I unfortunately suffered many years of verbal abuse and being put down from my own dad but it's time to forget and forgive!

    • @ryana-6762
      @ryana-6762 5 лет назад +6

      I hope you love both your dad, your mom and your family because I do. Family is the greatest gift anyone can have!

    • @mcducusin
      @mcducusin 4 года назад

      Ryan Zad good heart touching speech ;) :(

    • @oksanavig152
      @oksanavig152 4 года назад

      Same thing here

  • @Just_us-2
    @Just_us-2 3 года назад

    This is deep. And so very true. Tomorrow isn't promised to any of us love your loved one's today❤

  • @emiliotoodope
    @emiliotoodope 4 года назад +8

    I wish i could f go back in time to tell my grandma i love her and i will never forget her and give her a big hug

  • @sofii7173
    @sofii7173 5 лет назад +245

    I just lost my grandpa 2 hours ago. I really need this...

    • @amnahaque5042
      @amnahaque5042 5 лет назад +34

      And you are looking for videos instead of being there

    • @guapasgotmotion
      @guapasgotmotion 5 лет назад +2

      Sofii WoW i’m so sorry for your loss 😞❤️🖤

    • @lluvia2770
      @lluvia2770 5 лет назад +13

      Amna Haque They legit lost him. You think they rather watch videos than be there. I bet they would be there if they could. They are watching videos to cope with they’re loss. No need to be rude.

    • @amnahaque5042
      @amnahaque5042 5 лет назад +1

      @@lluvia2770 i wasnt being rude

    • @amnahaque5042
      @amnahaque5042 5 лет назад +1

      @@lluvia2770 but people do these type of things to gain sympathy

  • @chloescott5225
    @chloescott5225 5 лет назад +122

    People say u never knew what you had when you lost it, you did know what you had you just thought you’d never lose it

  • @daxsukee5695
    @daxsukee5695 4 года назад +1

    *"They may love you forever. But they may not be around forever."* That is the deepest quote I've ever heard.

  • @lucynorman9415
    @lucynorman9415 3 года назад

    This is so true,never take the people you love for granted,in a second they can be gone and you cant ever see that person again..Especially your mom,you only get one in a lifetime

  • @thelastnation2159
    @thelastnation2159 5 лет назад +362

    *Sending this to everyone who keeps leaving me on read*

    • @arcane-charm1397
      @arcane-charm1397 5 лет назад +15

      YO I FELT THIS-

    • @truthartistic7452
      @truthartistic7452 4 года назад +9

      Bro fr. They only love you till your gone.

    • @kingfargo9578
      @kingfargo9578 4 года назад

      You must be desperate asf if you do some shit like that. How about start talking to people who actually like talking back?

    • @thelastnation2159
      @thelastnation2159 4 года назад

      @@kingfargo9578 theres always one of ya smh

    • @kingfargo9578
      @kingfargo9578 4 года назад

      TheLastNation it’s true 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @abhiranidevi
    @abhiranidevi 4 года назад +74

    I wonder why people wait until something bad happen and then realize everything...love should be shown when somebody is there for you... not when they say goodbye​ to the world ...love you every fellow people in this world... wishing you love and peace...you guys are so beautiful and kind ❤️😘

    • @RapFanatic4ever
      @RapFanatic4ever 4 года назад

      abhi abhi cause they’re so caught up in their own lives

  • @killslayer1526
    @killslayer1526 4 года назад +1

    My gosh. Such a good message. And also. Who doesn’t show respect/love to their parents? That’s such a horrible thing to do to them...

  • @Oceanusnovas-um2zf
    @Oceanusnovas-um2zf 4 года назад

    I am so happy most of my life I spend it telling my sister I love her...a d she knew how much I loved her and I still do. She use to tell me too. When she passed it was unimaginable BUT as time went on as i start to heal little by little I found comfort in knowing she was saved and she left knowing she was truly loved. She was my bestfriend i truly miss her. But I am also reminded that we too just passing by and will take that journey so I am trying to better myself as she did. Tell those you care about how much you love or appreciate them. It makes your soul happy. Peace!

  • @edenkaren923
    @edenkaren923 5 лет назад +91

    Appreciate what u have before it turns into what u had
    Seriously...dont ever take the people who love you for granted!

  • @savanadowney1731
    @savanadowney1731 5 лет назад +89

    i saw this and i’m literally crying now, i miss my mom so much and wish i could even call her again or even send her a text message. never take the people who love you for granted :(( 😭

  • @MahirMesbah
    @MahirMesbah 4 года назад

    Everytime I see a video of Jay, I run to my mom, sister and father and hug them tightly.

  • @caroljennings3760
    @caroljennings3760 4 года назад +2

    My grandma passed away a couple years ago and for some reason, today I just couldn’t stop thinking about her. The one thing I wish I could do was go back in time and tell her how much I love her. I wish I didn’t take her for granted. I wish I realized what I had before it was gone. The last time I saw her was in the hospital. She was unconscious and I don’t know if she even heard me say goodbye or how much I cared about her. You really don’t know how much someone matters to you until they’re gone so please, take the time to tell your loved ones how much they matter before it’s too late. 💖

  • @itsveebitch8295
    @itsveebitch8295 5 лет назад +147

    I hate people who treat their loved ones like this 💔

  • @hamzanayab6342
    @hamzanayab6342 5 лет назад +225

    It literally made my eyes wet...
    Bcz my mom's also working abroad and it's been months since I've seen her.... 💕💕 Mom i love you💖💖.. And thank you Jay for this

    • @shintastin5197
      @shintastin5197 5 лет назад +3

      Hamza Nayab my mom works in another city and sometimes she comes home once a month 😂

    • @hamzanayab6342
      @hamzanayab6342 5 лет назад +2

      @@shintastin5197 it's been months since I've seen my mom 😂

    • @JaneyImaaniEmotionalAwareness
      @JaneyImaaniEmotionalAwareness 5 лет назад +2

      It’s nice that you miss you mum 💕

    • @savanadowney1731
      @savanadowney1731 5 лет назад +2

      Hamza Nayab i cried bc i haven’t seen my mom in over 5 years bc i’m not aloud :(

    • @hamzanayab6342
      @hamzanayab6342 5 лет назад

      @@savanadowney1731 I'd get to meet my mom but it's like one month in a whole year

  • @keeganodonovan7753
    @keeganodonovan7753 4 года назад +1

    I lost my mum just over a year ago, taken very suddenly and too young - believe me, you will miss them when your gone! Enjoy the time you have with them.

  • @clarapearl1
    @clarapearl1 3 года назад

    Yes true again. I kept texting n making mself available n expressive for this one person I thought to be m soul mate . Seeing this I pity m self . It's like i m begging mself to b in his life . What is it is this love . Love cant b like this . It has to be both ways . Jay believe me you i try hard to just focus on other things . But when he texts a line I go back n express more then 10 lines . And here I m watching this video n thinking this is me . I wish n pray to the universe for making me strong n be stronger . Thanks 4 sharing. God bless

  • @Amit_Z
    @Amit_Z 4 года назад +228

    It's so rare to have love in our life, it's even more rare to have people around us who really care for us.
    We're so busy looking for interest in other areas, that we forget the people who love us that are right in front of us.
    We think to ourselves that we have time, there will be another chance we believe that people will always, always be around, until something happens.
    Don't take people for granted.
    They may love you forever but they may not be around forever.
    When the person tries to send a message or them trying to call us, when we're busy all of that seems like a burden, it seems like stress, it seems like pressure.
    But when we recognize that that moment may never happen again in future, we learn to value it, we learn to appreciate it, we recognize how truly valuable and priceless it is.
    "Appreciate what you have before it turns into what you had"
    Thanks:)

    • @the_aerogirl8339
      @the_aerogirl8339 4 года назад +2

      This makes me cry.. M already lost..n i kinda feel good.. But only if people were aware of d damage dey make in other's lyf!

    • @Kuro-kr8gb
      @Kuro-kr8gb 3 года назад +1

      And you have more of a heart than 95% of the people on this planet

    • @ramvinayak3035
      @ramvinayak3035 3 года назад

      OMG this happened to me 😢

  • @elise7159
    @elise7159 5 лет назад +29

    "The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"

  • @sakthin826
    @sakthin826 4 года назад

    Mom is a reflection of Wow..pay attention to both dad n mom' s love..😍❤️❣️

  • @parthiban7111
    @parthiban7111 4 года назад

    “Appreciate what you have before its turn in to what you had ....”👏🏼🖤

  • @arthiutamiahmad8599
    @arthiutamiahmad8599 5 лет назад +22

    Well, if we treat any of our parents like that, just wait until our children treat us the same way. That's the rule.
    They have never put us or our needs on postpone when we were young and weak.. But how come we keep them on hold when they are old and weak... Have a gratitude!!!

  • @aleksandarbrt
    @aleksandarbrt 5 лет назад +657

    The topic isn't really whats in this video

  • @GearReviewDepot
    @GearReviewDepot 4 года назад

    If she's anything like my mother then not seeing her is a good thing. Gotta be strong and remove the toxic people from your life. Stay strong brother!

  • @Moonlight24683
    @Moonlight24683 4 года назад

    This makes so much sense... Just.. Don't.. Take.. People.. For.. Granted.. They will be be gone before you realise.. Let's give the best we can..

  • @nataliebates6201
    @nataliebates6201 5 лет назад +133

    My grandpa had dimensia. I miss him so much. I watched him die He was the last person I had. We had each other. Now it's just me. I was always there. And I don't regret a minute. Yes I wish I said I love you more. But it won't be the same. Miss you papa. Rest in heaven

    • @user-gw5pu2hx4f
      @user-gw5pu2hx4f 5 лет назад

      شنو مفتهمت ههههههه

    • @ognyena
      @ognyena 5 лет назад

      * dementia

    • @mmyvfamed
      @mmyvfamed 5 лет назад +1

      @@ognyena no offence but this is not the time to correct people

    • @kunalnagarkoti1097
      @kunalnagarkoti1097 4 года назад

      @@ognyena everyone has to die at one day

    • @legendaryzet8450
      @legendaryzet8450 4 года назад

      @@ognyena seriously? You f*cking grammar nazi!

  • @satekiaholoka611
    @satekiaholoka611 5 лет назад +98

    I miss so much of old friends back in school that have moved on and not even thinking of me anymore 😢

    • @sel3059
      @sel3059 5 лет назад +3

      Me too

    • @uddhavsurve2974
      @uddhavsurve2974 5 лет назад +5

      Yeah but the truth is you crave for company until you meet them after that you realize its better being away, they've changed..

    • @forestnraindeers3690
      @forestnraindeers3690 5 лет назад +2

      Same. I still even dream of them from time to time. A lot of nights

    • @hopesamuels9715
      @hopesamuels9715 4 года назад

      I moved schools and I’m missing them so bad and that’s why I’m here

    • @manishbhoyrub7596
      @manishbhoyrub7596 4 года назад +1

      Me too 😢😢😢

  • @herma2002
    @herma2002 3 месяца назад

    Previously, I was confused. When I miss someone, it's better to hide it or express it. And after watching this I chose to reveal it. And apparently after expressing it I felt relieved. Thank You🌹

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489
    @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 2 года назад

    Affectionate hearts are very rare on this earth.

  • @ATrueLoveOfficial
    @ATrueLoveOfficial 5 лет назад +14

    "Appreciate what you have before it turns into what you had." This striking line is absolutely true. We should not take anyone for granted before it's too late.

  • @stefaniecrowe6806
    @stefaniecrowe6806 5 лет назад +8

    “imagine telling someone you love them but they don’t even recognize who you are” that hit a little too close to home for me and i started tearing up

  • @chibenjamiz809
    @chibenjamiz809 2 года назад

    I thought this was supposed to make me feel better.....It just made me miss someone even more

  • @bethmuthoni5440
    @bethmuthoni5440 3 года назад

    You are the wisest motivational speaker I know

  • @Loqque2k
    @Loqque2k 5 лет назад +218

    I miss you brother
    I wish you could pick up your phone when I call you
    I wish you could come over for my birthday
    If I just saw your face once more I would be happy,
    If you showed me that you love me
    and that you care about me
    It's been 3 years brother,
    I miss you

    • @leleponscomps5520
      @leleponscomps5520 5 лет назад +4

      What's happened😢😢

    • @areejalsham6662
      @areejalsham6662 5 лет назад +10

      talk to him
      call him
      show him that you love him and miss him and care about him
      send him gifts to his address
      do something surprise them

    • @Loqque2k
      @Loqque2k 5 лет назад +11

      @@areejalsham6662 I have no idea where he lives, he has changed his number and yeah, last time I heard from him he said he would move to the US (I live in Sweden)

    • @dodgergirlla_blu
      @dodgergirlla_blu 5 лет назад +3

      I wish I could have and feel the same exact things with my sister. But unfortunately, I could never have that again. Don't give up!

    • @kritijainn_
      @kritijainn_ 4 года назад +2

      Never ever give up!
      Have hope
      Just keep loving
      I am with u💕💕

  • @ekvid1528
    @ekvid1528 5 лет назад +22

    That happened with my family with my late grandma who passed away two months ago .As her favourite grandchild,I can proudly say that I did everything for her including taking care of her despite my busy schedule.I do miss her but I don't regret that I should have spend time with her unlike my family who had ignored her until she passed away.

  • @okonikkhan6536
    @okonikkhan6536 2 года назад

    can't live without mother my day starts with talking to my lovely mother❤️

  • @tharrykauni6703
    @tharrykauni6703 4 года назад

    Thank you so much. I still live with pain and regrets. But it is not too late for me to share the powerful message in your video. To my friends,family and people I come in contact with. NEVER get our loved ones for granted. Life is too short.

  • @lesleyliu6637
    @lesleyliu6637 5 лет назад +11

    Now I miss him more... but I can never call him. This video doesn’t help but I appreciate the message

  • @lovemecom3832
    @lovemecom3832 5 лет назад +3

    This is such a one of a kind story and it is an eye-opener. We should not let the day pass by that without communicating with the person who unconditionally loves us. Before it’s too late, we should show to them how much we really love and care for them.

  • @jillgarittagoatgirl-expose2759
    @jillgarittagoatgirl-expose2759 4 года назад

    This is so true😢....It's so easy to always say "Tomorrow ", but tomorrow is never guaranteed..Even good people are guilty of doing this...Every moment above ground is precious 🙏

  • @ValleyofLove562
    @ValleyofLove562 3 года назад

    Life is so fragile, and unpredictable. I tell everyone I know this message everyday. It’s not always accepted. That’s when the pain becomes unbearable. It should never be a bother to text, call or e-mail someone just to say hello.

  • @stayslickwithkit
    @stayslickwithkit 5 лет назад +46

    Absolutely True. We have to realise all the sources in our lives that give us positive energy and feed them with our own time and energy. To often to we try and please people who don't give us anything instead of the ones that give us EVERYTHING.
    A constant inspiration for me and my content as always.
    Thanks Jay Shetty.

  • @ryana-6762
    @ryana-6762 5 лет назад +6

    I cried this is so touching and beautiful thanks Jay, I will always appreciate and love my family because that is the greatest gift!

  • @jc0730
    @jc0730 3 года назад +1

    Guilt and shame are not effective tools for teaching the heart!

  • @boyguapo1650
    @boyguapo1650 4 года назад

    At the end of the video, those are some strong, meaningful words you said

  • @sabinajones1728
    @sabinajones1728 5 лет назад +3

    “ we believe that people will always be around “ :( wow that hit hard

  • @Malik-xw9bo
    @Malik-xw9bo 4 года назад +5

    I’m watching this through tears and it made me feel better thank you

  • @carrieorser5534
    @carrieorser5534 4 года назад

    So very true and we all have been there at some point in life. It's crazy how we can get caught up in our own and can miss out on moments with people we love and care about.

  • @tarang2458
    @tarang2458 4 года назад

    Even though the title is a little confusing, but somehow the video changed my perspective. Many of us are trying to love and give our energy to people who don't recognise the love and value in us, when instead we could be putting that energy into people who would actually value and appreciate it and reciprocate it back to us 💗💖 what a beautiful feeling that would be.

  • @clara_18_mesionatano68
    @clara_18_mesionatano68 4 года назад +9

    We Argue sometimes with my Mama but I Love Her and I can’t live without her😔♥️

  • @seriatimlife
    @seriatimlife 5 лет назад +15

    Never commented on RUclips but was really touched. Gotta get your priorities in life straight. Is a football game, a beer with some "friends" more important than caring for your mother (or dad/partner/siblings etc)? How long would those "friends" be around? And if something bad happens to you, who in this world really cares about you? I never take love for granted, because love is rare in this world. I try to treat every time I see my mom as the last time we will ever see each other. No one is getting younger. The time you can spend together is decreasing. You know who is waiting for your call. Don't wait any longer and reach out.

  • @aishaabdi7979
    @aishaabdi7979 2 года назад

    Most hard situation become when you miss someone and then they dont care and feel your emotion, and keeping they lives and you get a fire in your heart

  • @Xamicon
    @Xamicon 4 года назад +65

    If someone cares about you and misses you remember this

    • @noelevans8239
      @noelevans8239 3 года назад +2

      These sort of people would never follow this advice