I was lost at 24...
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
- I clearly remember that night.
No matter how much I tried, I just couldn’t sleep!
I called up my friend for help, and the only thing I got was more confusion…
This was back when I was pursuing PhD in Physics in the US, and wasn’t happy with it!
All my life, for the last 8 years, the only thing I thought of, was US, Physics, NASA, Space Scientist.
And now when I was there, inching closer to my goal, I wasn’t happy!
I just wasn’t happy!!
I had a burden of family’s expectations.
Burden of my own expectations!
However, more than anything else, I just couldn’t live with a life where I was good at everything yet I had to drag myself through my days! Amidst so much chaos, this was the only clarity I had.
From that day to a day in 2015, life changed, I changed, and I moved on.
But if there is one thing I want to go back and tell the younger version of Ankur Warikoo, that is the one thing I want to tell you as well…
Hope this video helps you understand that...
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Ankur Warikoo is an entrepreneur, an angel investor, a mentor and an active public speaker.
For the past 4 years, Warikoo has been actively sharing content on RUclips, LinkedIn, Instagram, Facebook and Twitter amassing a following of 3 Million+ people.
He posts 3 Hindi and English videos every week on his RUclips channel, where he talks about entrepreneurship, how to grow in life, personal finance and failure.
Warikoo started his entrepreneurial journey in 2008. His most recent startup is nearbuy.com where he was the founder and CEO from 2015 until 2019.
Prior to that, Ankur started Groupon’s India business in 2011 and acted as the Country CEO from 2011-15, and Head of Groupon APAC from 2013-15.
An alumnus of the Indian School of Business, Ankur is an active Angel investor and mentor to several startups.
Ankur has been part of Fortune Magazine’s 40 under 40 List for India, LinkedIn India’s PowerProfiles List, LinkedIn India’s Spotlight List and India’s Top Executives under 40 list.
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Sir, m a mother of a 8 year old daughter with brain cancer. I am badly atuck in financial stress. M not asking money but i am working for a forex company AX token. This company gives you daily return of 0.8% on your investment for 200 days. Ex:- per lakh 800 rs daily * 200 days. U can invest more more if u wish too. Added Daily withdrawal possible.
Sir now I am same age and I'm confused
How can you manage 15 lacs fee that time??
I can't explain my problems I can't really I can't but thanks for this video
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Every youngster needs to hear this! Everything will be okay. Don't let the weight of responsibilities wear down that smile on your face. It is priceless :)
yes, and these things make the internet relevant :)
We need more people like you and ankur who inspires us and guides the right path :)
Thanks so much Abhi and Niyu :))
I firmly believe everything will not be okay if we do not take charge of our life. It needs courage like you had (come back to India) to go against odd and explore to find out answers.
Thank you for your precious advice 😌
I am 27, a civil service aspirant...got up at 5am and seating infront of books and Feeling lost, struggling with anxiety, expectations, Responsibility's, self confidence... When you mentioned your incident about that ground and fence, i felt that so much... It was like a freind of mine travelled through the time to tell me " Everything Will Be All Right ".. Thank you sir
Same happen with me
same
Same feeling here 😞
Same here 27 years old guy doing nothing, preparing for judicial exams sometimes I feel lost
How does it feel
Thank you!
- A 24-year-old in tears who needed to hear this.
So we are sailing in the same boat, lets give hugs and say "everything will be Ok"😌
Same 🙌🏻
Bro I'm also 24 year old
Confused between
Should i persue my master's
Or go to job
My dad is not alive
I have grandparents my grandpa is the main figure in family
I have to help him...
I'm so sad now.
@@prashantlagas hey just a random guy who saw your comment. Things will turn out fine. Continue to work hard. All the best.
Same here
I'm almost 26 years old and past 3 years I've been constantly praying to God to take me back in time in 2018 and relive all these years again having my present conciousness
I literally had tears while watching this video because I'm 23 and this is exactly something I'm going through right now. I don't know if it'll be okay someday but this gives me some hope. Thank you for sharing this!
:)
Amisha Good luck 🍀
There is no hope. Philosophical pessimism all the way to deal with this mess of a life.
I am 26 and going thru dis situation from engg from 22 age to present
all i wanna sayv is "all the power , all the love"
FAILED at 23 dont have job, failed my cat exam, have medical issues, stressed dont know what to do next took gap year, when i was watching this video i had tears in my eyes, but at the end of the video as sir told '' LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND SAY EVERYTHING WILL BE OK'' got me spark of hope in my heart that i will try my besr and do something great in life
All the best for your journey
All the best👍💯
Everything will be ok
Same
I am 28 and going to do the same . I am going for cat again .
I'm 25, lost, feeling anxious as if im finished. Feeling like the biggest looser in the world, worthless and downtrodden. At such a time this story of you gives me hope..that it's going to be okay! Thank you so much for sharing this with us.
Im 18, i have a very narcissistic question... Do you have any advice for me to not be in your situation, coz i can see i will be a big failure, im so lazyy
@@dweepsutradhar6605 try to fix the basics, like the necessary habits
Keep going! 💪
Mai 17 ko comment padh ke merko dar lag rha hai sach kahu to yha sab hi fail fial kar rahe hai yar ?
@@dweepsutradhar6605 should go with flow,give respect and importance to every opportunity come in your way.
I literally in tears.
And also said my self "it's going to be ok!".
Thanks Ankur sir to share this remarkable experience with us it will really direct people in there hard time.
Thank you.
Bro I have ankur warikoo 2 courses
Do you want 🤔🤨
Yes 🥺
All the best Mithun
@@warikoo I can't believe that sir has replied me I feel my self so blessed today. Sir please keep inspiring us with your life experiences.
@@thetech1279 Yes sir, how can I reach out to you.
Im 30 and still lost. I liked how how heartfelt your words were, and respect how u opened up enough to share your experience. But maybe there’s no hope for a few of the rest of us 😞 the hardest part is to come to terms with it.
Toh giveup krdega Kya bro?
Bro, I am 29 and still lost, there is always hope, the only thing that's stopping you is YOU.
Age is just a number. It's never too late!
😟 I am 26 still preparing for exam😭😭😭😭😭Sala me exam dete dete he old ho jaunga
Meko koi or career option hi nahi dikta
Isliye mummy Papa Kha Rahe me bus nahi Kar Raha hu
Kyo ki mere khud pas koi Mera passion ya career option hi nahi ha
koi bat nahi mere dost evrything willbe ok
A 24 year old and facing the same situation. The pressure of expectations is immense really.
Thankyou ♥️
I am 24 and still not doing anything for myself. Just sleeping at home no degree holder I'm in final yr of 3yr BBA degree. Thinking about future kaisa hoga kuch kr paunga zindagi mein i just achieved 2 things in 24 years of my life that is 10th and 12th Pass that's it...It is possible to make my life better at 24 from literally zero???
@@ShriramPardikar...... same situation brother i am 21 soon will turn 22 & exactly as you said i also only have 10th & 12th marksheets, i have been preparing for a national exam from past 2 years, but i always got a private college but i wanted a gov. one so i kept battling, last year i gave a state exam in which i scored really well i got 6th rank in my state but again it's not which i wanted of doing, so it's 2022 & still im struggling with a competitive exam with no degree in hands.idk whether i can make it in upcoming year
25 years old still have no clue what I am doing with this life. I feel so lost sometimes but one thing I understand that life is not a race. Everybody moves at different paces. I write this, hoping that for anyone else in a similar position, we will get through this bump in the road. Today, I am pledging to put forth the necessary effort to see a change for the better in my life.
Please help me out.. I study civil engineering diploma and i changed my branch to cse due to good salary. But now i am struggling with cse study. What should I do quit?
Parents told me you do whatever you want.. But i dont know what i want.. I don't have any goal..
@@fat2fitwithbadshah man I'm not any kind of guru to give you an advice on this but here is thing explore the thing you like there are so many things out there but you need to figure out what intensest you the most and then deep dive into the niche you like and try to figure out all corners of that particular niche. internet is out there to explore or for research take your time. and take small step everyday. that's all i can advice you.
@@fat2fitwithbadshahno please don't quit even I am too a civil engineer graduated in 2021 and still I am unemployed,I wish I would have taken cse or IT back in my college days,but I always regret so I dont want you to make the same mistake learn any language and its framework and database and I am sure you will start a fruitful and rewarding carrer.
It's going to be OK
Everything will be OK
This line brought tears in my eyes
👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻📩📩📩
Ok
Thank you so much sir for this video 🙏
My 24 went too hard too, I left my job for my passion, got a management deal for my music too but covid happened and everything went downhill, I lost my management deal and started having anxiety issues, My whole 24 was my battle with myself and my efforts to come out of it, It has been the toughest year of my life but the most learning year too, thankful for the new lessons, that will stay with me forever
Everything thing will get sorted. Stay strong and have patience. Remember not every one have this courage to find their selves. And you are one of them who have courage to find peace, happiness and the reason why you came on this planet!
We all are in same page keep growing don't give up 🤝
I am 24 and still not doing anything for myself. Just sleeping at home no degree holder I'm in final yr of 3yr BBA degree. Thinking about future kaisa hoga kuch kr paunga zindagi mein i just achieved 2 things in 24 years of my life that is 10th and 12th Pass that's it...It is possible to make my life better at 24 from literally zero???
@@ShriramPardikar...... I know someone who started their 3 year degree in Biology at 24. It's never too late, I am still working on myself and figuring out my life, it's about taking responsibility and working on ourselves everyday, there's no rush at all, plan from today where you want to see yourself for ex when you're 28, and then plan backwards and break down what you need to do everyday to achieve that. You'll change your decisions many times during the journey but it's about not stopping. It's all taking those small steps everyday, don't burden yourself with pressure. Plan wisely, set realistic goals and stay optimistic, take small steps everyday. You'll start feeling the change in yourself very soon. Just pe patient and tell your mind it's ok, we'll make it. 🤎🤎🤎
@@Satyum but what about past regrets muze zindagi jeene nhi dere
I'm currently 20, turning 21 this august and I cannot emphasize on how helpful your content is. You've been an absolute boon. Thank you, sir!
I can't control my tears.. I'm so relatable. I'm going through tough situations, failures, broken expectations especially my career isn't going the way I dreamt about.. So many disappointments. No support for my passion from my family.. I literally cry everyday that I'm not able to do what I wanted to do in my life. In the end of this video it gave me hope that everything will be alright. Trust the timing
Same here, I'm 22 I graduated with a wrong major and I really don't know what I like to do, my parents are scolding and pressuring me everyday, I have no support from anyone I don't have any friends as well, internet is the only place where I share my thoughts 😔
@@helloworld2054 I can feel you
@@helloworld2054 Don't worry you are not alone. I can totally understand your situation I am in same place as yours.
22 and graduated in a subject which I am not passionate abt hence unemployed.But I have not lost hope Keep up the hope ✌️
May you find your aim, passion, have the courage to follow it against all odds and discipline and consistency to get there. All the best 👍👍👍
@@helloworld2054same condition
I needed to hear this. I'm 24 now and faced a huge setback in the beginning of this year. Trying to figure out the why behind it and moving forward with a hope that it will make sense in time. Thank you Ankur sir.
I am 24, single child, unemployed, financially down, confused about future, my father battling with cancer, i am feeling helpless and stuck.
I hope I will say this as well in future that Everything will be ok!
Same situation 😢 my father also battling with cancer and i am confused about my future. I am just stucked in the field of expectation.
Everything will be okay 💯😊
Don't worry dear Everything will be alright with time. ❤
Same thing happen with me 💯
Everything will be ok.
I'm 25 and I feel like you are speaking my words from your mouth. Like you are reading my story. Thank you for this 🙏
Mera bhi
I just imagined myself sharing my story someday and saying to my self "no doubt it's bigger than your self-belief" make your life the way you want it to be and live it the way you want to live it and you'll do fine ✌️
Mere accident ho gay, kya karu,
Hospital jau kya
@@PlasticEARTH accident shi hua hai ,you are in somewhere wrong track
Your Subscriber here @CarSutra
I'm can assure you that you're doing a phenomenal job at what you're doing and I think it is what you love doing, so more Power to you. I hope you succeed.💐
This video is 1 yr old... And I just finished watching it... Ham dono same age ke hai ..and just like u...in 2003 when I was pregnant ...i was in same state of mind ..now I am 42...and I don't think Maine abhi kuch bhi bolne layak Kiya hai...but....ye video dekh k aaj firse ummid jag rahi hai ki it's not late ...abhi bhi kuch sochu to kar sakti hu...i am biggest fan of u ankoor....thank u so much for this video.....
R u working? I also want to do something in life but i feel myself stuck. I have only BCA degree. I m living in oman currently. I have 4 years old school going child. I feel lost. I feel everyone is moving except me. All my friends are working. I got married in 2014 . That year only I completed my BCA. Since then I am a homemaker. But i want to achieve something. I don't want to b just a homemaker.
You will do it definitely ❤
@@infinitehorizon7224 you can become consultant or work in digital media
More power to you ❤️❤️
@@infinitehorizon7224 dear sis i can feel you.i know how it feels when u r a homemaker in middle east.
I am 36 got married in the yr 2009
I studied throu distance learning and completed bachelors in commerce.
Up until 2015 i was stuck like you and i felt i am stuck in where i am not happy with my situation thn i took charge of all my circumstances gathered courage and started applying for teaching jobs i got a Grade 1 teacher job in 1 of the indian school here in Kuwait.but i couldnt continue after 1 yr bcz i was not enjoying wat i was doing.
I resigned and joined another schl bcz having 2 kids i could only look for teaching jobs.
I tried multiple schools but couldnt settle .in the yr 2017 i got pregant again and still the feeling that i wanted to do somethng couldnt go away.i realized i wanted financial independency.
When my 3rd child was 6 months old luckily i got a job in a school as an admin and i am still there.
Sister , you have a great degree and edu
Its you only who can help you to get out of your situation.
Try out online options if your situation doesnt allow you u step out n look for jobs.
There are plenty of options for someone who holds a comouter science degree.
Good luck and i am sure you can do it❤️❤️
I literally had tears in my eyes when you said in the last that everything will be okay! I myself am 24 and feel lost a lot of times and keep wondering if I'll be able to achieve what I am looking for or not. If I have chosen the right field for me and also that will it make me happy if I actually get it one day. Soo many anxious thoughts!! Sir you have no idea through this video you have given me such a BIG RAY OF HOPE THAT ONE DAY I WILL GET OUT OF THIS SORT OF LABYRINTH FOR SURE. Thankyouu soo much for sharing. Lots of love!!
Hey, I am also in your same situation. Shall we start a WhatsApp group and discuss about different jobs.
same , I'm 19 years old.
@@dreamandmakeit6221 Same here I am a commerce student and I am literally depressed.... I don't know what should I take next and everything need science
I am 24 and still not doing anything for myself. Just sleeping at home no degree holder I'm in final yr of 3yr BBA degree. Thinking about future kaisa hoga kuch kr paunga zindagi mein i just achieved 2 things in 24 years of my life that is 10th and 12th Pass that's it...It is possible to make my life better at 24 from literally zero???
Something about this video has impacted me so much more than any of your video. There was something about the way you're conversing here, which just made me feel okay about my own situation right now personally. More of content like this might just prove to give people more hope and some connective content they can feel okay about. Thank you for this.
True , I thought I was the only one wedd ho found it to be way too relatable, i second that the way he spoke and the background music added to the effect too
I'm 23 just going through phase from which he has gone through. Every inch of his words/ statement is relating with me.i don't if everything gonna be okay or not ! But wish everything will be fine soon!
this man literally pours in his heart and soul in the videos, also this is a big lesson for youngsters like me
thank you so much sir!!
Influencer!
Most of the viewers really have a similar condition as you had. That's why your guidance is so helpful for us to become more in our life. Thanks for the inspiration!
I am 26. Cleared CA, did job for 1 year, left the Job because I was not enjoying the Job. I was always passionate about building products. Decided to switch into Product designer career and here I am clueless, Job less. I don't know what will happen next
I'm exactly 24, dealing through things in my own head. I think I need more videos like this. It creates a sense of confidence in me to deal with all the obstacles in my life. Thanks Ankur ji
Absolutely with tears in my eyes, as if just my story right now in America. Thank you for sharing!!
I cried too..
I am going to be 24 this month and thinking about all the things I want to do now I become sad sometimes remembering how much time I wasted. This video is a blessing maybe an omen(reference to 'The Alchemist'). Thanks Ankur Sir♥️
thank you for this comment i'm 18 currenlty i want to become an entrepreneur, i have an idea but i was not working on it beacuse of laziness and procastinating it from last 8 month. your comment is an eye opener for me. now i am going to make a plan for it and will work hard to achive it. hopefully aapko bhi woh mil jaye jo aap pana chhata hain. GOD bless YOU.
@@rajeevrana7705 Hey Rajeev, I hope you achieve all the things you wanted in your life. I relate to you and your comment inspired me in a way to move forward towards my goal.
Bro I have ankur warikoo 2 courses
Do you want 🤔🤨
@@goudabhuvanesh yes bro, just forgive yourself for everything you have done in past and make a plan for your goal and work hard. Any dream can be achieved with discipline and determination bro. All the best for your future goals and make a promise to yourself that now you will not procastinte at all. No days off just hustle till it achieved. Goodnight bro hoping tommarow you wake up with new version of yourself.❤️
Kash mein payda he nhi hota
Everything will be alright brother, trust God 🙏
Me too brother
Bharosa rakho khud par ❤
Me also
Dont say like that bro
I'm speechless! 😢 Thanks a lot. It is so much inspiring. I've also faced a somewhat similar situation in 2017 when I joined my master program and today when I look back I ask the same question. I'm currently so happy about my decision.
Going through same situation. At the age of 27, having a stable job, in-demand skills, H1B visa is getting processed but still feeling lost. It's very tough phase.
Whats your job?
U well rn?❤
@@karunsabu6470 much better. I think I needed a change of environment. Completed 2 year in US, now planning to move back to India, have much clarity on what I want.
@@ShubhamKumar-wi6pd GIS ETL developer
I'm 23 now, After completing my diploma (Electronics and communication ) course, I joined Engineering which was a completely Different world for me. But I easily passed one semester, but I faced the same issue as you faced I was really not loving Engineering. Even after being a distinction student in School and college I dropped out just after studying one year of engineering. Later I worked for few private. Now I feel so lost and so confused and your video popped up on the right time. It has really motivated me. ❤️
Your gonna do great ! Everything will be fine 😊
Just crossed 24 last week and i definitely needed to hear this ❤️❤️
2 sal to corona ne barbad kar diye
No words can express how this video made me feel! so overwhelmed and grateful for having watched it. I feel I am the 23 year old Ankur at present but I will sail through! Thank you
I had goosebumps hearing each and every word of yours. Will watch this video whenever I feel beaten down. I am 25 and at a point in my life when I really don't feel happy doing what I am doing right now. "Everything is gonna be OK". Thanks a lot Ankur Sir. This video means a lot for me atleast.. ❤️
Lying in bed for almost one week alone thinking nights what to do man, can't sleep at night awake till 8 .. So depressed of these.. I just don't understand where to start, still awake and watching this video
This one's no less than a quality short film of the highest production values. Any top quality filmmaker would take a look and appreciate the storytelling which is absolutely immaculate. Thank you Ankur Warikoo for a personal yet motivational story.
Thank you so so much
Deep & intense! I couldn’t stop listening for a second. I needed to hear this!
24 years old, at the same point of life, same kinda experience, M.Arch dropout, feeling of betraying parents, feeling unhappy, confused and completely lost... Really needed this... Thankyou Ankur sir.! ✨
I am 24 and still not doing anything for myself. Just sleeping at home no degree holder I'm in final yr of 3yr BBA degree. Thinking about future kaisa hoga kuch kr paunga zindagi mein i just achieved 2 things in 24 years of my life that is 10th and 12th Pass that's it...It is possible to make my life better at 24 from literally zero???
@@ShriramPardikar...... yes . If u master some life changing skills u can.and remember age is just a number . And there's nothing but you who has the power to make difference in ur life.
@@ShriramPardikar...... I am 24 and about to be 25 at the end of this November, I am bcom graduate and want to do MBA in future but for now I couldn't afford that... I suggest you to do digital marketing from free RUclips resources and then online courses, and if needed you might consider paid course from good institute too, mostly focus on SEO
Same here I felt like I did a crime by betraying my parents 😔
@@helloworld2054 same here. Exact position in at
Same like you sir, After completing 12th I was completely lost and spent my 2 years doing nothing. Now I am 21 and developed a deep passion in graphic designing but nobody is interested to take me as an intern in their company not even unpaid ones. I dont know how I am going to continue but I wont stop being consistent with my work, the only pressure right now I feel is what would happen to me if I would remain staying unemployed for the rest of my life, I wont be able to face my parents.
I am just 21 years and software engineer and dealing with exactly what you have said. This is not the first time I have faced it before when was a 19 years old frustrated engineering student. When I was listening to you it feels like some one brief my stories or the situations I have passed and again going through. Sir thank you so much it helped me like I never able to express. I recommend every one to watch this video. Great sharing sir. I wish i could meet you once.
I am 19, doing engineering in ECE, but main focus is on software dev. Any tip u can give to me?
@@supremeleader5516 what kind of tip do you want i mean rated to what
@@TEBPJS anything which u suggest to avoid. According to experience
Thank you very much for sharing this Sir.
I am 24 and I have been going through this.
I know Everything will be okay one day but still feel depressed. I can relate every single word you said and always wanted to hear this from anyone.
Someone said - "After every sunset there is Sunrise. Don't lose hope. Everything will be okay".
Thank you very much again🙏
In 11th grade, I was forced by my family to opt for PCM, when I wanted to go for Humanities. Those two years were tough because I saw that I had no interest in those subjects and the weirdest part was I was scoring well in them. I scored 90% in the 12th boards. But then I was done! Right now I am doing BBA because I wanted this for myself and I am happier!
Same situation...right now in 12th😭
College?
I'm 20 now.....I was forced to do +2 with PCB and then prepare for neet for two more years (pure drops) now I'm going to do BA after fighting so much with my family.... I'm so fucked up in life... Falling behind all my peers...how much I regret not taking admission directly after 12th at 18
@@zoya1822 in which feild u r doing ir BA
@@zoya1822 same situation buddy, i am 21 now, passed 12 in 21, took 2 years droop for jee by my choice, now regret doing it and right now, fighting with my parent to not push me for a btech as i want to save my time now.
I am 27 and this happened to me when I was 24.. I completed my studies and had no idea what to do next.. I felt like whole world is collapsing and I dont deserve to be alive. I was clueless directionless and puzzled how to figure out my life.. Im 27 now and im more mature.. I truly understand the meaning of the line:"Everything is going to be OK👌 " ... Thanks Ankur Sir..
I am 24 and still not doing anything for myself. Just sleeping at home no degree holder I'm in final yr of 3yr BBA degree. Thinking about future kaisa hoga kuch kr paunga zindagi mein i just achieved 2 things in 24 years of my life that is 10th and 12th Pass that's it...It is possible to make my life better at 24 from literally zero???
I am also 24 now and going through the same feeling as you and like Ankur warikoo. I guess 24 is really a different age.
@@ShriramPardikar...... how's things now ?
@@35mm_DREAM same condition nothing change with myself
your comment is exaclty same as mine its like copy of my current life.
Fuck, man! This made me cry! This is so similar to what I'm going through currently! I am a recent graduate with double majors in Zoology and Geology. I'm thinking of switching my career. I loved watching science documentaries when I was young! So I thought becoming a scientist would be great! I did my double bachelors and got 8.83 & 9.69 CGPA (was one of the toppers of my batch). I just loved learning! But since last year, I have lost interest in everything! It's like every day is a Groundhog Day (movie reference). It's like I'm living the same day again and again and again and again. I'm feeling so lost that I don't know what I should do. My parents are telling me to get a job. But I'm so freaking confused about what field I should choose, everything seems so dull. The idea of becoming a creator on the Internet fascinates me a bit! I can edit videos decently and can communicate as well, so I'm thinking of making science-related videos on RUclips and Instagram. Hope I find something which I like doing along the way! 🤞🏻
U started anything?
I'm 27 years old, and currently, in BPT 2nd year, I feel lost. My will to live is waning rapidly with each passing day. Everything seems to have its color, and I often wonder what am I living for anymore? I've thought about suicide many times, but it's just that my mother's face pulls me back to life every time. At the age of 16, when I was in 12th class, my father suffered from a stroke, brain hemorrhage, and partial paralysis second time in his life.
At the time, I'd Science & Maths as my selective subjects, which I didn't enjoy and was struggling with Maths especially. I didn't have any guidance on which subject to choose after 10th class, so I followed my friends and family and picked up the subjects everyone else was choosing, which was a mistake that I wish I shouldn't have made.
The next two years were a struggle as Maths was like a bouncer delivery that was going over my head, and during that time, in 2010, my father suffered the disaster of illness. Same time I failed my Math exam on the 12th Board. So, I dropped out a year, and again, I tried to clear 12th as passing supplementary exams was considered bad for IIT and other engineering entrance tests, which I was trying to prepare for consequently. On one side I had to take care of my father and on another side, I wasn't interested in my subjects so studying them felt like a chore that never bore any fruit. At this point, I slowly started drowning in depression. Two more years passed by without any success, on the other side, it seemed as if my father had lost his will to recover from paralysis.
My mother is a government teacher and she, at the time, had to go a long distance in a faraway village by changing three buses just to get to her work, so the complete responsibility for my father's care had fallen on my shoulder, and I couldn't let this hamper my younger sister's studies, so I sacrificed my time.
After many failures, in 2014, I decided to change my subject to Science Bio, as I was somewhat interested in Bio and could at least do better in that subject. I cleared my 12th with Bio in 2016, but couldn't clear the medical entrance exams. I was getting older, and that lead to increased anxiousness & stress. So, I decided to take another gamble and tried my luck in animation courses in Mumbai.
But, just after a year, my father's condition got worse, and I left leave everything behind and returned home. I couldn't let my mother take care of my father as she was our only financial source. Again. I tried to clear NEET exams but to no avail, being a general category holder comes with the privilege of the inability to get admission to government college under the steep cut-off line.
At this point in life, I'd started to lose hope in life itself, and that hopeless feeling only grew as I watched my friends get married and do well in their lives. I was at my lowest in 2019, my father's condition was getting worse, he'd long since lost the will to live and my grandma was in similar condition health-wise, but she was the only one who held hope that one day her son would recover whereas others, including me, had long since given up on that dream.
My aunt got me admitted to a private BPT college as nothing else was working out for me. Then comes February of 2020, just before the pandemic, my father was admitted to ICU with failing organs and a body that couldn't even lift itself to use a toilet as he did everything in bed. I and my mother, were both at our limit as cleaning the bed five times a day, after he soiled it with excretions, wasn't a pleasant experience, especially when you have to do that while sacrificing your college. And finally, the day came on 8th March, my father returned to eternal sleep, forever. It was a heavy setback for my mother and especially my grandmother. Just after a few months, my grandmother passed away as well. She couldn't take the pain of losing her son before her and succumbed to her death in her sleep in ICU. I had to stand in front of that burning inferno of cremation a second time in the last six months, and this time it was for my grandmother. Both times, I didn't cry. I felt lost, no tears came to my eyes, just a deep emptiness left in my heart, and a single question in my mind, what was the purpose of my life in the last decade. Except for my mother, I've no one to live for. Every day feels like a chore. I feel like a lost boat in an endless ocean with no destination in sight. I'm living just for the sake of living.
If you've made it this far, then thanks for reading. I just wanted to share some of my life, I don't know what will happen in the next ten years, but I hope to pass this moment and hopefully move towards a better future. There's still a feeling of emptiness in my soul. Let's see what life has next in-store.
Ohh my poor heart
I am all numb after reading this
I hope u are doing great in ur life
After this, I feel like I am still living a better life
You have gone through a lot let's hope God has made something really special for u for this much of struggle
Take care
You r a warrior for real 🌻
Everything will pass. Life is not easy but it has to be lived. Live for your mother, help her out.. suicide is the worst thing which you’ll give her. Never ever have such thoughts to overwhelm you.
Every middle class person has to pass through this stage. I also did and trust me,, It just passes. Go with the flow.
World is a nice place to live. All the best wishes for your future ahead 👍
I feel my heart leapt out while reading this. You are a strong individual. I don't know you, but I pray that your situation gets better and you find life to have some meaning someday.
Hey, everything will be alright. Don’t loose your hope. We all are fighting, we are gonna be okay.
It's really needed at the age of 21 I am confused for my future what to do what not to do as a single child of family I have to do something to run my family take responsibility from my father but I don't know what will going to happen will I get a good job or not will I able to run my family or not nothing but at last as you said everything will be okay...This video is like a hug from someone who is very close to you. THANK YOU SIR ❤️
Oh my god! Story of my life. After 5 years into my physics phd program , I decided to quit. I did not get along with my advisor and it became a very traumatic for me. I had sleepless nights. It was not an easy decision. Quitting at a point when I was writing my thesis was not easy. But I knew I could not take the trauma anymore.
After that I dabbled in small small businesses. Never lost money but never earned much either. At 45 , I am working in my family business (in-laws) but I still feel lost. I think this is not my calling. Still cannot my passion. If not now then when. Even at 45 , I don’t know what (work) will give me happiness. I feel so lost……
A warm hug to you🤍 from another lost one.
I also quit my phd now jobless 😢 feeling lost in life .... Even no skill
Felt like Crying ♥
Going through Same situation right now
Saying myself: Everything will be fine
There were tears in my eyes at the end of the video Ankur Sir, I too am in a similar situation, I don't know what I am doing at age 29. But at the end your saying that everything is going to be ok has instilled some hope in me.😊
This video was the need of the hour.
🙂28 here
I am currently 24 and lost. This video motivated me to pursue mba. I am in 2nd sem right now. I will be updating my growth here. I hope everything will be ok.
Really needed to hear this today , i am also 23 and I am stuck in a phase from which I don’t know how to get out , but I believe one day I will, hopefully. Everyone around at this point of time seems happy , except me, who is stuck and I am somehow navigating through life with so many expectations from me , but I know whatever I am doing doesn’t make me happy thats why I left it . So hearing this makes me not regret that decision.
Thanks for this beautiful message ✨.
A 24yrs old -watching this...and i everyday just say kash mein apni life k 5saal piche jaa skthi...n i also thing meri puri zindgi khatam ho chuki he...jho mein kar rhi hu,uusse kbhi khush nhi rhungi aur fir bhi kar rahi hu..majburi he par mein abhwal bhi hu padhai mein...
The reason is i really really wanted to be a ...........
The ultimate relation to a CA Final student at the age of 24-25 giving multiple attempts wid d burdon of expectations of that degree created for last 6 years.... ❤️ Heart Touching piece Sir...
I am also doing CA..feel you. Parents/relatives of students pursuing Prestigious courses have this expectation from students. Be it CA IAS IIT/NEET entrance, Govt jobs. They don't make us ready to deal with failures and motivate to pivot. Student at that time need some support but noone gives it mostly. Student have to find way to pivot and courage to take a decision himself thats little bit sad😕
24 Now; into CA Final. Totally understandable.
I'm 23 rn. Going through my highs and lows and my on set of confusion and dealing with them. Slowly & happily overcoming them but somewhere after watching this video, it's reassuring me for the future. Thank you sharing this bit of your life.
I am 22,failed in career, back to back attempts in exams, can't face my parents, can't talk or meet anyone with full happiness, a faked smile and laugh to everything, completely feeling like a loser,waste,useless... Dont know how and what to be done, stagnant completely, but still have a belief to see some good days, Thank you for this video❤🙏
Everything will be okay...have faith! U are the only one who know what u r going through... Nobody can understand u everybody will just show sympathy towards u...But U know what it's the beginning of a better life... Success never comes without failure... There r lots of people who failed multiple times... But those who never gave up are the legends... And One day u will also be one of them... God Bless u....Start with a new beginning.... U hve lot of resources... On u tube u can find a lot of things which may help u... So keep going! All the best!
Dont worry dear you r not alone many like us r going through same...what you know what me you and many like us are going to be very successfull..rich...happy...satisfied its going to be okkkkk
Almost 24, been through something similar, all those expectations got me stuck, but decided to come out of it cause it just didn't feel right. Did not know if I had made the right decision or not, until now. Thank you so much sir for this video! You have no idea how much I wanted to hear someone say those words. I'm sure too many of us did!
How cleverly he controls his tears hats off to u sir …I’m 19 year old wanna thanks uhh for drastic change in my thought process by sharing ur experience and knowledge honestly saying I feel much connected with u whenever I see ur video …🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻Thanks for ur valuable virtual support
I am 24 & I have returned back to India from the Caribbean after dropping out of my Medical School
where I studied for more then 6 years. Zero Happiness & Satisfaction ~ Max Anxiety & Depression.
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Thank You So Much Warikoo Sir!! This single video was all I needed for a very long time.
"Everything will be okay! I am going to be okay!"
I can't describe how much desperate I felt before encountering this video yesterday. This can be called a succes story! Thank you for sharing it and in a way giving hope to those of us already struggling to find their way in career and life. May God bless you with more and more success!
I'm a 4th semester student facing the same. Lost and confused. The career is decided for me and expected to follow it. But somewhere I am not happy, and just like you I am good in that field as well. There is something else that is attracting me and I feel connected to it more. Honestly not courageous enough to tell this to my parents. Still connecting dots to find my niche.
Hope I will find a happier self of mine at the end. ❤
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I am 27 year old feeling anxious,stressed, lost i don't know what will happen in my life i could not decide how where i can make my career i just confused and what i am doing i am just doing only support for family but i am not happy yet😢
Things are going to be good❤
I don't know, but I'm 18, and I'm Don't know what is now happening with me , this thing is so much for me
I'm 21 and prepared for Medical entrance test and didn't cleared it after dropping for 2 years . Stucked and nothing else to do . But amidst
This storm I've found something to hold and say to myself that everything will be ok 💯
Same...I am 20 rn and after 2 drops and a lot of mental health issues later tomorrow is Neet and I am not going because I haven't studied due to my poor mental health for the past few months and now I m again at the cross roads of weather I should drop again or do something entirely different with my life.
I am also, taking third drop . For neet 2023. With 100% confidence.
Things are getting worse, it's so bad that having a job doesn't mean financial security
Several intelligent people are terrible investors because they face the market with untrained psychology and untamed emotions. . You need to keep raw, irrational emotion under control.
Really wish I knew what I know now several years ago in my early 20's.
Investing today is priceless because tomorrow isn't promised, trading bit-coins, gold, silver and crypto secures a better future financially.
@@hodler8559 This is very true.
How many wealthy people or billionaires became wealthy by wages and salaries or by saving in a bank account? You don't even know one right?
Yeah I agree with you, I think the best time is now .
@@JohnJohn-th3fe funny enough they don't know how the fiat money keeps losing value.
Our global economic value just keeps declining. Dollar will soon not be the safe haven.
This happened with me while I was pursuing CA... and recently dropped it after putting 5 years of my life into it...I hope I find what's right for me... my purpose.. 🤞🧿
👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻📩📩📩
Please guide me I'm also ca drop out kya karu aage life me career ke liye? Aap kya kar rahe?
I'm dropping out after this nov exam regardless of results. Actually i wanted to drop out after foundation itself but since i passed, i wasn't allowed to quit. This time I'm taking up both groups of inter. Definitely flunking it. So yeah Im hoping to build useful skills and become more employable in the next few years till my bcom ends🙂
Currently 19 going to be 20 this year. I wasted 2 years of my life in confusion and lazyness. This video is like a warmth comfort and yes 'Everything is gonna be ok.'
Thank you sir for sharing such a great experience of your life.I am 25 year 5 months old right now and still disappointed whether the path I have chosen would land me at some point or not .But there's always a voice inside saying that one day I will do great. I hope everything will be fine!!
Thank you for this! Literally in tears
- A 25yr old, still dependent on my parents.
i know my goal but still wandering around and struggling to reach at it. Hoping someday it will all be okay :)
Relatable
Can u mention ur goal?
I’m more of a number’s guy, so finance and accounting is my field. The goal is to be the best of my capabilities in finance
Hi karan Kapoor, I am aparna from Kerala. I am 25 years old. I am a nurse. My parents forced me to join nursing. I don't like this profession. But my problem is I don't know what to do in my life. I wish to have a job. But I don't know what to do. Now my parents forced me to get married.
Hi Aparna! I just wish being under this pressure it was easy to move out of the house and work on ourselves like our age people do in other countries but here we lack all this. I’d say you should pursue what interests you and try to perfect it with all the time in your life. Marriage isn’t always the option, in case of girls and I believe you should fight for it.
Sir, I can literally connect to the each and every single event happened in your life, currently I am 23 and i feel lost and couldnt continue the thing i am pursuing right now.Not to mention this video came in my YT recommendations, now i feel like the universe itself was talking to me in ur form.Thanks a lot sir, this gives me hope.
This video was popped up on my feed because destiny wanted me to watch. U never know how somebody’s words could change their entire whole mood with just a single video :))) ❤❤❤blessed to watch this video
Damn your storytelling skills are just out of this world. I am so touched. I needed this, right from the point where you talked about the friend to being lost we all can connect somehow in our lives.
Man when I grow up I wish I will be some percent of what you are today. You are hands down one of the most genuine character in RUclips. That's a superpower Sir. God bless you.
Not only 23 years people but every aspirant who is preparing for any of the exam mostly jee aspirants feels the same
Sir, I can literally feel every single word you have said. I was exactly on same situation on 2019. Now I am working on creating my own business based on art. Although I am not enough courageous to call it a start up still. But I would like to comeback here after 20 years definitely on the comment section again.
Last but not the least, thank you so much for making this particular video and making feel many of us that "It's okay, you will be alright."
I don't know you will read this or not. But really I am grateful to you for making this video. ❤
I will also wait and comeback here after 20 years i will tell what is going in my life
I am 24 and still not doing anything for myself. Just sleeping at home no degree holder I'm in final yr of 3yr BBA degree. Thinking about future kaisa hoga kuch kr paunga zindagi mein i just achieved 2 things in 24 years of my life that is 10th and 12th Pass that's it...It is possible to make my life better at 24 from literally zero???
@@ShriramPardikar...... yes it's very possible
i will be back on this channel and will search my comment after 5 years and will tell myself everything will be okay!
now i am feeling the same as you were feeling.
i am 22 but i am stuck puzzled hopeless aimless even when i know what my goal is.
Expectations from parents are heavier than everest and Expectations from your ownself is equally heavier.
Graduating at 23 Job at 24 Marriage at 28 Child at 30 and a happy life. This is the pressure.
@warikoo247 BHAK BHOSADIKEY SCAMMER sala
Same 22 , struggling with school and know I be sent back home , expectations r being crashed , I am being crashed
Hahahah iam 22 aur mai ab college mai admission liya h 😃😃😃
@@dohyun4787 Keep fighting! 💪
Rat race ? ..... fucking hell
I am almost 25 tomorrow i am lost in life have lost my confidence lost my smile nothing feels right but hearing all of you watching majority of us go through this period of life and still manage to smile i do have hope that i will be myself soon. I am trying making progress yet i make mistakes and cover up for myself, this experience is making me i know someday i shall conquer this mind and smile again
I'm literally in tears.....Respect.
Wooww!! Salute to you sir. Whatever you said at the end of the video, it looks like you are talking to me one on one. Thanks a lot for your support and for understanding these problems which no one can explain not even who is suffering from it. Thanks a lot again ❤️
Same age, struggling with myself, struggling with my mind, struggling with financial problems but still i hope there will be light one day, there will be light. This gave me some strength. Thank you!
Thankyou !
- A 24 year old just in tear about confused future
I can feel every bit of emotions that Ankur sir went through (goosebumps).
Thank you for sharing this experience. Those going through this phase will relate and need to hear this. ❤️
Same problem at my age of 24now. Can relate myself a lot with this, but right time to hear this for me.
I am 23 year old. I am kinda stuck in a toxic work environment where there is lack of growth, my boss that I was close with sort of betrayed me in the end and I have a health issue now as well with back pain. I am literally crying everyday nowdays and I was reliant on tarot readings and astrology for a year to go through this turmoil phase. I find it cringe as I never believed in such stuff before until covid hit but then again people need something to believe in like religion.
My own parents especially my dad is pushing me to quit this job due to how I was treated, the stress I feel and just the whole experience but they’re quite logical in their approach. My relationship with my parents doesn’t feel that good right now and for me the job was an escape from all my problems and emotions I was feeling.
I just feel so lost over things that I want to achieve, the profession I want to work in and if I even want to do MBA in future. Just the thought of it exhausts me.
I just clicked on the notification and after watching this I am in tears 🙂 every middle class boy goes through this stage. Yes I am stuck in this phase rn 😑 I can relate to each and every word you said in this video and i guess most of us would do 😓 " koi nhi boss , everything will be okay "
Why boys only.... girls also.
@@akankshasinha9030 I was about to write the same
Bhai is chakkar se kaise nikle...
Everything will be OK
Everything will be OK
Everything will be OK
Remember this always !! ❤️❤️
I feel a lot connected to this story. I am 22, few months back I left a job in mechanical engg. Throughout my college life, I was waiting desperately to get a job. When I got that, I found the same thing that I dont feel happy. To leave the job and become unemployment, scared me less than the thought that I would to spend, I dont know how many months doing that job which didnt made me happy. As of now, I havent found any way or any solution, but it feels good that I am not the only one who has faced this.
Stay strong, don't depressed whatever the situation is.
am 24.. going through same phase. after listening to you, spoke myself "his past was just like my present. my type guy"
Thank you very much ankurwarikoo for sharing your personal life story with us.This will definitely help most of the youngsters get motivated who are suffering with depression in life.
Cheer up guys keep doing the things which you love to do it. Everything will be ok.
I am 23. Had an abusive childhood and teen, lost my home when i was 10, have no friends, have changed 15 rented homes in 9 years, came out of a toxic relationship of 3 years, failed at my first job as a PA, have health issues since 2019, atleast i was good in studies but feels like i lost all the merit.
I will still keep fighting.I cannot give up
Your channel has inspired me alot. I have started reading again after i saw your book suggestions
I can't believe that this video popped up just when i needed it, A 20 year old guy who is thinking that he will not be OK. But now i fell that maybe i will be OK. Thanks Ankur❤️
Me an 18 year old girl neet aspiirant living the most darkest part of her life. Feels like giving up . literally dont wanna study anymore iam fade up of it .can't tolerate physics anymore .iam way tooooo behind the syllabus ,cant be consistant ,cannot understand physics , all those syllabus my backlogs ,no hopes, loosing confident , responsibility of my family's hopes ,
REsponsibility of my dreams, only suicidal thoughts.
Hopelessly hoping that I'll be at better place next year when I see this comment and can realise that things really do get better with time and patience.
It’s never easy to take the risks considering the expectations and responsibilities for middle-class family kids 😕
But I feel one should try different things in life before committing to a particular area
We should know ourselves
Completely agreed
Sometimes our heart knows where we belong and starts preparing us for the right way where we belong, whatever our heart hints us, it's necessary to take that way at that time or you will never forgive yourself for the road you have taken, thanks Ankur for making this video, I think almost all of us have gone through this, some are still wondering and some have found their way 😊
at the age of 24 . I am facing right now exactly the same thing in my life . I don’t know what to do . But I know it will be okay one day ❤
I m also 24
Giving my CS inter ka paper for 6th time.
Esa lagta hai sabse piche hu.
Log kaha se kaha ja rhe hai.
And mai iss exam k loop mai fas gyi hu
🥺🥺🥺🥺
@@urmidave hope you will achieve your goal.
Sm
Keep going! 💪