Most Important Video for Today's Youth | How Instagram’s Algorithm is Hijacking Your Dreams
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- Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024
- In today's social media-driven world, platforms like Instagram and TikTok set high standards for aspirations, influencing how we perceive success and self-worth. We often find ourselves lost in the race to stay relevant in the game of algorithms, chasing likes, followers, and trends. In this video, we dive deep into how social media platforms shape our aspirations, leaving us feeling inadequate or off-track, and share actionable steps to break free from this cycle. Learn how to reclaim your sense of purpose, find your authentic self, and escape the algorithmic trap. Watch till the end for tips on how to build a healthier relationship with social media.
Key topics covered:
- Impact of Instagram and other platforms on personal aspirations
- How social media algorithms are controlling us
- Ways to regain control of your life beyond social media validation
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Dr Vijender Chauhan is an educator, UPSC Interviewer and Motivational speaker with an experience of over a decade. He is one of the most recognised faces among the UPSC aspirants.
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I'm am proud of myself that I never addicted to Tik tok nor Instagram !!
Thank you sir
Same bro❤😊
Good step. And I want to tell that I have never opened Instagram or Facebook account
Same bro
Same bro
Mee too
Sir please make a video on the student who are now in 30s and are unemployed because of government job traps... And they are simply humanities students and don't have any specific professional degree Or diploma...
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Business ideas ke bare mai Socho
Brother you can choose teaching as a career
@@RiteshMehra-e1y bro wo ese kafi logo ki baat kr rha hai aur saare he teachers nhi ban sakte
Sir I deleted Instagram years ago and this was one of my best decision ❤
4 months and most important decision of my life
2 years ago
I deleted my Instagram and now I'm very happy 😊
Really ye addiction boht buri hoti h
Congratulations Bhai tune zindagi jeet li
Same thing I did...mere sab dost bolte itni boring hoti ja rhi but wo peace jo mil rahi they will not understand
Me too 3 months ago deleted it
"We live in a world of Instagram and Snapchat, where food is chosen for its appearance, not its taste; we wear clothes for likes, not for comfort; we chase jobs for status, not passion; we engage in conversation for attention, not connection; we measure success by followers, not achievements; we seek validation through posts, not personal growth; and we prioritize aesthetics over authenticity.
Very beautiful thinking sir
Very true
Very accurate 👍
Right 👍🏻
Upsc clear hogyi kya bhai ??? Itna motivational comment likha jarur kuch bhyanakar krr rhe hoge life me syd ?? Batow yrr hame bhi
I think ... Following the path of spirituality can help in this matter .... Spirituality reminds you .... 1) You are mortal ..so as long you are breathing , take care of your machine(body).
2) So called material instagram happiness is fake .... Lead you nowhere... It's called Maya . Stay simple, stay grounded , stay humble.
3) Gratitude for what you have. ... You have family, feel thankful. You have healthy with all body part fine , thankful. Etc ...
And many more .... Do meditation or kirtan ... Feel the difference.
Upsc की दुनिया का एक महान अध्यापक 🙏
3 years ago when i realized that social media is destroying my life then i decided to delete insta and fb...
that was my best decision
Same here Aug 2021 ko hi mene fb n Instagram ko bye bye kr diya
I left Instagram 5yrs ago and I'm very very happy with my life
RUclips bhi krde delete bhai
@@shubhamgaurav6554 youtube ko limit me use krta wo bhi zaroori
RUclips per ache chij bhi hai dekhne ki btt hai@@shubhamgaurav6554
Vijendra sir respect button ✅
I also said No to Social Media and it's been 4 yrs and I'm very happy about it. I don't care who is doing what n all. I just focus on my own growth and peacefully enjoying the life as well.
I also did the same thing and it works!!!
Explained fluently...
Digital Literacy is the need of the sec🙇🏻♂️
Yes but it was cazual
@@avinashpawar51Lol
Right term stricked!
Social media se door rehna chahiye... Aaj Tak ka sabse acha video
आप जैसे गुरुओं के कारण ही आज भी अपने यहाँ गुरु शिष्य परम्परा बना हुआ है
My father bought a Mobile phone for me when I am in my 12th std in 2020...Till that time...I only use RUclips and WhatsApp and no other social media...and that is my 101% right decision ❤
Not just Instagram, today's youth need digital detoxification from other social media platforms also for some time 🙂🙂
As RUclips as well..
@@himadrisonai8291 but RUclips not give feelings of comparision
Linkden also?
Not youtube. RUclips provides meaningful information but we need to stay away from youtube shorts@@himadrisonai8291
Obviously 😅@@sanketh768
Sir, before watching this video, i was very stressed l, destructed and demotivated as i use social media. But fron now onwards I will not use them. Your one video helps millions of youth's minds ❤
Now a days IAS/IPS and Govt staff also showing off their luxury, power and less realistic life. Instead of actually they know the burden of work and responsibilities assigned for.
निष्कर्ष यह है कि - वास्तविकताओं को स्वीकार करना पड़ेगा ।❤
But vastvikta ko badlna bhi padega na jo sahi nahi hai, aur woh kon badlega sarkar. Instagram jaise apps ko ban karke. Ha mana ki sab khatam nahi hoga but thoda to kam higat
वस्ताविक्ता अक्सर निराशजनक होती है ..
Sir apne Right kaha... Ab me yoghth ko yahi kahungi ki Sache Rashte per chalo , Rukavat ayengi , but harna Nahi hay.. apna best do.. Flp Business is All Girls and Students ke liye best opportunity hay .. digital marketing.. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💝🥰
जिंदगी में मैंने बहुत से महान हस्थियो से बहुत कुछ सीखा है परंतु जबसे मैं आपको सुन रही हूँ तब से मैं सच्चाई को उतनी ही आसानी से अपना पा रही हूँ 🙏🙏
aap Acharya Prashant ji ko v suna kariye bahaut acha mehsus aur badlaw ayenge
@@pranjaldas1091 ji aapka dhanyawaad mein unko bhi sunti hu 🙏
Yudyasv 😊
Yes sister....
Abhi duniya samjhana baki hai
4 days ago i deleted instagram, but due to addicted to it it I was about to download it today but your video came as suggestion in RUclips! Now I feel calm and composed not to download instagram any more 🙏🏻🙏🏻
I agree with you, sir. In spite of the fact that I work in the IT sector and am constantly surrounded by technology, I have kept myself away from social media platforms. In this fast-paced world, we should spend more time with family and friends than on social media.
Haha...no one has asked where u r working...and working in IT is nowhere related to using social media 😂.....lol
Most important topic of today's time 😊❤
Our society needed people like you.
Zindagi ko samjhna zaroori h and this man has understood life❤
Many young men and women of the world are becoming victims of this social media platform. They need to come out of this world of social media and give time to themselves. This video is for all those youth who are completely immersed in social media platforms. This video shows the reality.
Not only Instagram but all social media is destroying us 😔
Right.. 😢
धन्यवाद sir ,
तपाईंको यस विश्लेषण उचित समयमा मार्गदर्शनको लागि आयो । तपाईंको यस बौद्धिकता ले धेरै को आँखा खोलिदिएको छ।
म मेरो मातृभाषामा गर्व गर्छु अनि भारत जस्तो महान देश मा जन्म लिएको मा आफैलाई भाग्यशाली ठान्दछु ।
Deleted instagram 1 year ago. Eventhough I still waste significant time on youtube, but now I am not in constant anxiety of being compared with influencers. I am content with my life.
Priceless talk❤❤❤reality of this world
Finally someone talking about it ❤ thank you sir . Instagram is now the main reason for bad influence . Some Treders and illigal activitists make people think that money is everything. They compare their cars with government employees .This is so disturbing, thanks for making this video
आपकी वीडियोज सभी लोगों के लाभकारी होती है सर।आप महान हो आप समाज सेवा व जागरूक कर रहें हैं देश के सभी लोगों को।आपको नमन सलाम सर🙏🙏🙏🙏आप सदैव खुश स्वस्थ और सफल बने रहे यही ईश्वर से प्रार्थना है।🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹🌹
नमस्ते सर, शास्त्र में गुरु/शिक्षक को भगवान के साथ तुलना इसलिए किया गया है कि उनने समाज कि सुधार के लिए अनवरत चेष्टा कि हे। हमे खुशी है कि आज भी आप जैसे सिख्यक भारत मैं है।
Real me sir meri mental condition kuch dino pahale Tak yahi thi me Instagram jyada se jyada 2 sal se chala rha tha or aaj kam se kam 2 month ho gye delete kare me hakikat duniya छोड़कर एक अलग ही दुनिया में जीने लग गया था आपकी एक एक बात से मेने अपने आप को रिलेट किया है थैंक यू सो मच सर 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Being a constant user of Instagram I don't agree with you on many point. I don't compare myself with some so-called influencers of Instagram.
Not just on Instagram but irl too you can look at someone and compare your life with them. Everything can impact your mind, until and unless you yourself conquer your mind.
CONQUER YOUR MIND FIRST EVERYTHING WILL TAKE CARE ITSELF🌷🦋☘️
I don't use Instagram and don't watch yt shotrs because of you, ham social media par apna time nahi dete sabse phle dete hai apna attention, Thanks you sir , your videos are really helpful. 😊
Really???
Good
we must add some courses or session at school level to make children digitally literate. This video is a wake up call.
Instagram was so bad for me in past. But when I started using it for purpose example exercises. It made my life so better. So use anything wisely and carefully
I have deleted instagram for 6 months last year and felt a great relief in my life, dominating my major friends in the field which seemed valuable and focused on long term pleasure instead of a short story which has no relevance. Thanks sir for highlighting the negative sides of the social media.
Jab vicharon ki Manthan ki Jaati Hai To Aise Hi vichar Samne Aate Hain❤
Dhanyvad
सर मै 19 साल का हूँ और अभी तक किसी भी प्रकार के social media का उपयोग नहीं करता हूँ और सर अब आगे भी नहीं करुंगा😊
Constant comparison is really reality of today world
Kisi nhh kisi way se nhh chahkrr bhi hmare dimag me aa jati hai 😊 Hope ki hm eshe change krege or apne jivan ko apne trhh se jina chahege😊
Thought on this topic is really 100%right
Thank you so much sir❤
I have deleted Instagram 1 month ago and now the mental peace I have is just amazing .
Society needs teacher Like Vijender sir ....
Today , I also felt the feelings which we get after being aware of anything.
आज भी मुझे वही अनुभूति हुई जो किसी भी चीज के प्रति जागरूक होने पर होती है।
Sir apki baat se me saymat hu 100% apne jo bhi bataya me usi duniya me ji raha hu present me lekin ab se me es janjal bhar nik liga
Love you sir ❤
Sir Aacharya Prashant ji ke sath interview kijiye kisi din. Aap dono ke beech bhut hi productive discussion hoga.
mein v soch raha tha apne bol hi d, similarities hai baton mein Acharya ji ke 🙏
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Aapne jitni bate batayi lagta hai adhiktar bate mujh pr lagu hoti meri nose ka shape normal nhi mai jaha bhi jati hu mujhe lagta hai ki mai logo se alag to nhi dekhti pta nhi log kya soch rahe kya kah rahe mai bahut pareshan rahti hu maine socha ki surgery krwa lungi but aapki video dekne bad maine faisala liya ki dusre ke according kyu bdlu .thankyou so much sir
Self doubt bahot buri chiz hai.
Ksi nose h apki ❓❓
Maine Facebook Chore 5 saal Ho Gye Last 9th class tak use kiya tha and Instagram Chore 5 Months Ho Gye. Bus Ab Apne Work And Goal pe Focus H
Bhai yahi toh chahti hai govt tum goal par focus mehnat karo aur unko tax do 😂😂😂
@@readwithrohit8631
Ab Government Hai Toh Tax Dena He Padega Waise Bhi Agar Koi Insan 1 Lakh kamata hai Toh Usse 10rs Kharch karne mai Sochna nhi padta Aise maan lo
Thanks Sir, very much needed video. You have covered almost all points, would like to add 1 point that people (non influencer) also needs to stop showcasing their life on social media, because of that the thoughts are getting multiplied. e.g. We won't get much influenced if a unknown person showing his/her life glamorous, but we do get influenced if same thing is done by known person.
other aspect of this is as we are putting our life on social media there are high chances that we can get hacked and scammed.
Bhut Sundar video,
इस दशक के इतिहास की सबसे बेहर वीडियो
Thank you sir 🙏🙏🙏❤️
I get your point sir, i also think like, we watch reels and vlogs for more than 2-3hrs continuously almost everyday and think this person is living A life and achiving things that we also desired that but when it comes to working on our goals we fail, and we end up just being a watcher/viewer, i think what we should learn is how can we incorporate those atitudes/habits that we see in reels and vlogs in our life and try to achive our goals, would love to hear your opinion on this. Thank you sir for much needed video hope to meet you someday.
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सोचने समझने और इतनी हिम्मत के साथ सच को सामने रखने के लिए बहुत बड़े कलेजी की जरूरत होती है जो कि सर के पास है।
इसीलिए उनकी बेबाक तरीके से अपने विचारों को सर जिस तरह से रखते हैं वह मेरे हृदय को अंदर तक छू जाता है।
मैं जब से सर को सुनना शुरू किया है तब से मैंने अपने अंदर एक गहन विश्लेषण वाला व्यक्तित्व के विकास होते हुए देखा है।
But there is another side of it. Like vloggers of uttrakhand showing their simple life. Influencers promoting their own pahadi dialect, showing their culture and celebrating the life of a common person 😊. It is not about what is offered. It is just about what you choose 😊
Attention chahiye...
Its not about validation,it’s about learning from others,n keep getting better every single day,you just tryna show one aspect of it uncle,,,💁♂️💁♂️💁♂️
Sabse pahle to sir bahut-bahut dhanyavaad aapka jo aap iss tarah ka selfless content banate hain,waise to inhe content kahna hi apne aap me galat hai lekin apne limited knowledge se ye kehta hoon sir aap present me sabse unique vdo bana rahe hain. Jo aap, na v karte to aapka kaam chalta lekin aapne ye thaani hai ki logon ko upgrade karna hai. Thanx a lot sir
Sir bahut acha kiye jo ye video bnaye , maine aaj tk instagram install nhi kiya but soch rhe the ki future m chalungi but ye video dekhne k bad lg rha shi h nhi chati hu . Thank god🙏🏻🙏🏻😂😂
Sir,
"I'm feeling lost and uncertain about my future... I'm trying to choose a career, but every time I think I've made up my mind, someone else's opinion throws me off. I talk to one person about a particular career path, and they tell me it's a great choice, full of opportunities and growth. But then I talk to someone else, and they point out all the drawbacks and challenges. It's like I'm being pulled in different directions, and I don't know who to listen to. I'm facing setbacks, like my NEET two attempts, which are adding to my confusion. I know I'm not alone in this struggle - many of us are torn between different options and unsure of what's right for us. If you've been in my shoes, please offer your guidance: How did you navigate this uncertainty? What helped you make a decision that felt right for you?
Please make a video on this if possible!!!!
Yahi chize agar mata pita apne bachho se kahe to aj kal ke bachhe unhe oppose krte h or old fashion kehte h or apne apko cool kehte h inthe name of freedom❤️Thank you so much sir for this knowledge
Firstly thank a lot sir by bottom of heart, who thinks about very important issues in our society , it's needed for youth .
Thank you Sir for this wonderful video 🙏🏻 I always take regular break from social media for digital detox . Sir the biggest marketing strategy is not advertisement, sales promotion, etc. The biggest marketing strategy is to change culture. I was influenced by show off culture😅. Later I realized I was influenced to buy certain accessories that I don't need and use , for example, boots, high heels. Again Thank you Sir for this very informative video.🙏 I am proud of myself that I'm not addicted to any social media platform and I live a simple life. 😇
Cool
Hats off 🤠 to people like you who are creating content for the betterment of life, a happy life.
This was an eye opener for everyone
I have significantly reduced the amount of time I used to spend on the Instagram since a year
First of all thank you so much sir for sharing this video and informing and discussing on these topics and awaring all of us . ❤ Thank you akhirkar aj mere problem resolve ho gya , mere sath wo sari problems ght rhi thi or hai jinse mai saalo se preshan tha at the age of 19 mai real life se bilkul alg ja chuka hu but after seeing this video . Today ,I could know my all problems . Sir, i am greatful to you and please aise hi hme guide krte rhie . Mai jis background se hu yha utne intellectual person nhi h jo hmse problem pe discuss kr skte or hme guide kr ske koi mentor v nhi h but i am lucky to got you as my life mentor .
बिलकुल सही बात की है आपने ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Sir I don't know whether to share this or not or is it good, but in my life I try to fix small problems rather than transforming whole setup. These small (good) habits and tasks gives me validation in my own. And I think right now that seeking validation from yourself is far more better than seeking from others. It is actually important to embrace yourself
Aap ke ye batao se mujhe bohot acah lga aur ab mai v kosis karu gii ki ab mai social media pe apna time waste na Karu 👏 thank you sir😊
Sir maine to abhi uninstall kardiya ab nahi dekhunga, aur sabse jyada important topic par baati ki hai aap sir . thank you very much
Kitni der me dobara download kr loge😂😂😂
Mein social media pe nhi hun 👀☠️
Every single word said in this video is absolutely correct.
मैं आज तक insta and Facebook par nhi hu mai you tube bhi padhayi ke liye use karti hu sir mujhe videos dekhna pasand nhi hai thank you sir
Hat's off for ur unique personality in this viral era
It's possible aisi v ladkiyan hoti hai
You are queen 👑❤️
Uniq ho aap
U hu saff sidha sadhi ban tari
Maine 8 sal pahle jb ph liya tb sb kuvh tha ph m fir dekha ki inse kuch fayda nahi ulta mera hi time waste ho rha h. Or ab 6 sal se mere ph m bs whtspp and u tube hi h downloaded. Seriously i m extremely hapoy then others nearby me❤
Sir, मैं भी इन सामाजिक चिंताओं पर बहुत विचार करता हूं कि मेरा देश कहां जा रहा है,, thank you sir ❤
इन सब पर विचार करना व्यर्थ नही है यदि हम इन पर विचार करे तो नए नए उपाय मिलते है जो की सही है ❤
Sir ..i have unstalled my Instagram application 5 years back..
Exactly felt the same u have told to us..
But I did not had words to describe that tym.
I also feel , this effects the most on children between 10 to 19 i.e gen zs because we got maturity as we grow old ..but the children at this age they got trapped in it..these trends ruined them inside and outside..they even not agree to listen anything.
If u notice , u will be amazed to see children are not talking to their parents even if when they need them .
These trends made parents isolated from this young generation.
People rarely talked about themselves even if they lived in same house.
Yes this exactly decide what we are doing now!
Absolutely correct ✅️ this must be share to every youth
Last month date of 24th aug I lost my younger brother aged 15 on his birthday 😢he was too happy inviting friends via instagram from nearby areas he didn't came home that day , next day we police found an dead body on the lake around 13km from our home ..Social media apps just destroyed his brain ...and he did this stupidity. 😢
Its been 5 months I am preparing for CSE and I deleted my account when I started my prep...and now I feel this was one of the best decision that I took in my journey
Me too 1.1.2024 and lifes going good
Ha sir true reality hai aur jo in chijo se dur rehte hai duniya inko pagl bolti hai pagl samjhti hai...!!
I am feeling proud of myself that I'm on no social media platform since last August ❤
Kaise kiya bhai
Then how you are commenting on this video without social media?
@@tanmaygupta8288 bas Bhai ho gya, badi shanti hain jivan me . sab kahte hain tum yha ke nhi ho sakte 😎
@@rajeshsingh38184 good 😂👍
@@rajeshsingh38184 please have some knowledge before saying!!
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युवा पीढ़ी को सही रास्ते की पहचान करने और उसे रास्ते पर चलने की हिम्मत देने के लिए सर ने एक मुहिम चलाई है जिसे मैं हृदय की गहराइयों से स्वागत करता हूं।
इस जागरूकता अभियान में
मैं सर के साथ हूं
Algorithm ne mere se haar gaya mein Jeet Gaya.. because mere phone mein 2020 se Instagram or Facebook ye sab third-party app Nahin hai kabhi jarurat hi Nahin Laga 😊
धन्यवाद sir, मैने कभी भी इन बिंदुओं पर ध्यान ही नहीं दिया.
आपके इस topic की चर्चा ने मेरी सोचने की approach ही change कर दी.
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Very nice attempt sir,This is the contribution to society by a expert
Because of algorithms I can see this video but that knowledge I contain from you is not waste of my time
Ekdum shi kha social media sahi nhi hai ....comment padh ke lagta hai social media nhi tha tab hi thik tha kitni galiya or kisi ke bare me bure comment padh ke dukh hota hai
Thank you Sir 🙏...Kitne behtareen tarike se aapne samjhaya diya ki fake world se bachakar real world par dhyan dena hai... Ye such hai ke aaj ke zyadatar log internet ke ishare me chal rahe hai aur ye bohot hi chintajanak vishay hai...
मैने देखा की वो लोग हमारी video बनाकर social media पे चढा दीये थे और उसपे जो coment थे पढने के बाद अपने आप पे शर्म आने लगी😢😢
Dont let yourself be defined by the opinion of others
I never used Instagram,but today onwards I will never use RUclips shorts..
Thanks sir for this eye opening session..❤❤❤
Pranam sir🙏
Aap bahut acchha kaam rhe hai.
Aap jaise logon ki jarurat hai es desh ko.
बहुत ही शानदार और जबरदस्त मुद्दा उठाया है आपने, इस रोग है हर व्यक्ति पीड़ित है जिसके पास स्मार्ट मोबाइल है ।
बेहद अनुकरणीय अनुसरणीय🙏🙏
Kon kon chahte hai "Acharya Prashant" yaha aaye❤🙏🏼
Koi nhi
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Noo he has already made a video on this topic.
Hm to kbhi nhi chahte
@@sudhirkumarsuman4274reason?
maine one week tk mobile phone nhi use kiya tha ha ik do bar kisi se mang kr use ki thi vo parents ko call krne ke liye , but trust me without mobile i feel very happy and and relaxing , even my mind feel goood , aaap bhi ye practicle krke dekhiye aru agr break up chal rha ho to us time jarur kriye
aapne jo perspective diya h
really helpful sir❣️
Very nicely covered with facts , Now Instagram is 75% full of nonsense things and people have lost their focus due to short influence and temporary entertainment
what a great man and great thinking
Its been year that I uninstalled Instagram, Facebook, Twitter from my phone and disabled youtube shorts from my phone! Not to limit that stopped playing pubg the only game I use to play yet I am planning to uninstall youtube and uninstall those habits which lure me to waste time! I am certain that I will achieve my motive and boost to work upon me! It’s my message to all those whoever reading my comment to work on your skills that will help you to grow in real world! I am not against internet I sure will use it in a manner that will help me to keep updated about the areas that require improvement! I seek no like no validation but if you’re reading this please mind your real growth rather than giving preference to virtual growth!
Sir aapki ek ek baat sach aur sateek h lekin mujhe nahi lagta is video ka koi khas impact padega kyu ki aaj ka youth kuch bhi samjhne ko taiyaar nahi hai.
Good evening sir,
Sir i know you are right, but in my view sir, sometimes these social media feeds, pushes us to live a life like the influencers we follow, and that "push" In my view is a kind of motivation to think of the "change" We want and we need in our life.
So despite of a bad thing it can also help in doing progress in life, if we take it in a positive way.
-thank you sir.
Sir एक बार की बात है मै गांव मै एक लड़के के birthday मे गयी थी वो लोग शहर से आये थे मैने देखा की सारे लोग नये कपडे पहने हुये है मै और कूछ गांव के लोग पूराने कपडे पहने थे वो लोग birthday मनाये cake 🎂 सबको मीला कूछ दिन बाद मैने
Are koi baat nahi esse aapne aap par na le
The bureaucrats are also a part of this algorithm. You should also state this as well. Even our parents are also a part of this validation.
Not only Instagram youtube and other apps are affecting the same
Thank you sir. 🙏 it is ruining our lives by the time we realise that real life is very different from that we see on screens.