Before Your First Date - WATCH THIS | by Jay Shetty | XoXo
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- Опубликовано: 18 фев 2018
- Watch this before you go on your first date!
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I can't believe how natural the actors were! As if they were not acting at all.
Awesome!
Actually the question were scripted but the answers were not..thats why.
They are really good!
They were acting? Really?
Christine Shahin love it. Top quality
Oh my friend these questions are copy from the web series
Tea for Two...
Jay add this in the description
• Given a choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a guest?
• Would you like to be famous? And if so, why?
• Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you gonna say? And Why?
• What would constitute a perfect day for you?
• When did you last sing to yourself or someone else?
• For what in your life you feel the most grateful?
• If you can change anything about how you were raised, what it would be?
• If you can gain any one quality tomorrow morning, what it would be?
• If the crystal can tell you a truth about your life and future, what you would like to know?
• Is there something you have dream of doing from long time? Why have you not done it?
• What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
• What do you value most in friend?
• I wish I had someone with whom I can share ______
• When do you last cry alone or in front of any person?
• Tell your partner you like about him/ her already
Pls email me this.....been trying to copy it.....preciousofuasia@gmail.com
Thankyou so much
U saved my time thank youuu
@@Godlover25 nice video
So helpful 😊
I did it with my partner and it went really well! the best night we've had so far because we're talking about really important things. Thank you so much Jay!
M P. Do you know where to get the questions?
They said in an essay to fall in love do this search for that
Melody LYU if you haven’t already found them google “36 questions that lead to love - New York Times”
I’m not sure if they’re the exact same questions but similar at least!
Its a copy content of web series..
Tea for Two..
ruclips.net/video/GeSzLqqyNgs/видео.html
I did never this from jay
🤙🏾🤙🏾🤙🏾
Dawww he cries 😭😊. Something about them sensitive men that melts my little heart.
In general, women prefer strong men. It's in their genes.
Yes I'm sure he would make a great Friend for you to go cry at movies with.
I'd describe myself as that kinda guy but society demands "Strong" unforgiving, unemotional men.. so I usually cry by myself.
Shruthi Reddy same here.
Shun Jags be yourself, it's all that matters.
I suck at small talk. Conversations should be more like these.
Abhinav Atwal you will be bored if you do this alot or creeped if someone messy suddenly ask you this without swinging small talk.
ferry jayadi swinging small talk? Excuse me? Lol
I tried it once. We only took the first 7 questions, but it took us already one hour to go through them. Guess we had long answers that lead to even more discussions. :D I still would love to try the whole experiment someday :)
That is even better. I mean you don't have to finish the whole questions immediately. It means you are both enjoyed it. You still have more to talk about, you don't run out of topics, and that's actually good for you if you both don't get bored of each other. You can continue from last question everytime you meet or hangout if you want to.Take your time, and see where it leads you
Enjoy being single forever
That's what it's all about
I asked similar question on a date earlier this yr
And she friendzoned me 😆🤪
Her loss not mine ✌🏻
F
You have to first start out as friends to see if you're compatible before you become romantically involved which protects you as well as the potential partner. That means, take a step back, do casual dates or activities. Were you honest and open to tell her that you were disappointed in the response which you perceived as rejection? I bet you didn't quite get that part???
@@donnawoodford6641 no, it's dumb to try to be a friend with a woman in order to impress and seduce her
Tony Macarony The start of a relationship is a good indicator of how it might finish. For me, it's hard to know the other person's intentions, so I have to keep mine clear and communicate them openly from the start. I can always take what I've learned from a "failed" encounter into the next encounter. People are complex, so relationships may be complicated by desire, cultural expectations, childhood wounds, perceived needs, not understanding yourself, fantasies, etc. I think what you're trying to say is "Be yourself". That is good advice bc if the other person doesn't like you, he/she doesn't like you... thereby, no need to impress someone who doesn't accept you as you are.☀️
Good
I just kept smiling through the while video,, love is a gift that is worth being shared with the right person
Ahh! What an incredible way to open up and be less awkward! Love this. Thanks for making incredible video @JayShetty 👍🏻
I think they are a couple in real life. I can see the connection
They are married I guess. They even have a baby
She is beautiful, and this is to show that we can fall in love with absolutely anyone! Ha ha how great is that?
Its a copy content of Web Series
Tea for two..
ruclips.net/video/GeSzLqqyNgs/видео.html
Ashwin Patel atleast check the uploaded date before u comment
Like DiCaprio and Winslet
Oh gosh, I was so lost into their conversation and so filled with joy that for a while I almost forgot i was actually watching a Jay's video. I loved the concept, the purity on couple's face and just everything that probably that's what I'm gonna do on my first date ✌️ 😍
I just love that he gives realistic honest opinions.
It's all so simple and clear.
Makes my day😊
This is actually such a great thing to do because you get to know the person right away!! WOW
Very realistic acting. Looked really natural.
Yep it's good to ask ques!!! You can know them better & their thinking pattern!!! Thankx so much Jay😊
i found you through impact theory! i love your channel, keep up the good work. i do believe that channels like hours make a real difference 💪
I also found him through IT! Loved that interview!
Me too 😂
I think that when someone feels they are being "interviewed" they will shape their responses to what they think you want to hear.
that's true, but it still breaks the ice and you can still see their reactions. eventually the small talk will follow
Totally agree and I feel like so many people online date now that people have perfected their “perfect” responses
Yep
Thank you Jay Shetty for all you do to make us more aware of ourselves.
I recommended this exercise to my sister as she was confused for her partner. After this activity, she got clarity in their relationship. Thank you so much for sharing!
Watch videos of nanak naam 🙏
That's so so sweet 🦋❤️
Thanks fr adding more values to our relationships...u r pointing out d Most underrated parts of a relationship wch make a huge difference at large..Thanks . Thanks fr being there with us.. Thanks fr helping us..God bless u
I think this is great to do even as a couple! Thanks Jay for Keeping it fresh!
I wish I could go for it on my first date .. I had a pretty bad breakup... I agree that to have a good relationship one must have deep conversation... I'll keep that in mind for next one....
I like the way you make videos. You turn up realities into videos that we are watching....great work !!👍🏻
It's so beautiful. I got tears after watching this. Thank you for bringing such wonderful videos and bless our days . I'm truly grateful to you.
Love to you. More power to you!!
SIMP OR GAY
@@BLACKRAIN390 A Human being .... a sensitive one unlike you .
@@sheenaks4345 FCK SENSITIVITE
Its a copy content of Web Series
Tea for two..
ruclips.net/video/GeSzLqqyNgs/видео.html
Really amazing, if adapted can give a great results for the new start of relationship...
These are such good questions to really break the ice not only on a first date.
They both so beautiful
Men who cry and are not afraid to get emotional are so rare. I have much respect for them.
Is it wierd, when she asked whom would you want to invite as a dinner guest ? In my mind I answered my best friend. Because instead of inviting a celebrity I would like to invite my loved ones 🙃
Understandable
👍👍❤❤👍👍
Manmohan chhandwal because those answers are automatic.I dont know its just in dinner we do most with family and friends.so maybe a guest that is far from our reach.
You already know your best friend and your loved ones. Chances are you already ate with them before. Pick someone that you've never encountered in real life. A celebrity would be a great choice.
Great video!❤ Thank you Jay!😇 Deep questions!🙂
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I love this idea, simply because I hate small talk. Whenever I meet people, I'd like to philosoph with them or talk about stuff that is truly important to them or me. Why would I care how the weather is? I can see it on my app, mention one time and move along! I'd like to try this out soon! Great video!
This really opens up my mind. More
People need to get to know each other before falling in love to fast. So so inspiring
I've seen similar videos. This one is okay. I think it's a good idea to agree to ask and answer questions. Yes, it does help to "weed" out or in a person quickly. Love takes time and becoming friends is the first step. If you don't like someone you probably won't go much further. There are so many questions to ask and you don't want to spend the entire first or second date just asking them. Small talk is an important part of communication too.
I’m glad that I found this channel :) I really needed it 😊❤️
I love the message of this video 😊
Thank you so much Jay 😊
jay i know maybe you won't saw this and i not on relationship or asking to be in relationship but all your video are make me felt good and confidence... thank you so much
I think most relationships fail because we end up meeting people at the wrong places and for the wrong reasons.
It's just so nice to look at these actors, starring at each other, laughing, looking deeply into other's eyes. Maybe acting, maybe real connection, nevertheless - fascinating :)
Very pretty conversation. Acting is so natural.
Brilliant! I definitely used to think abt this but never tried, really love the deep questions which could make our brain work out a bit more... and I love this couple especially the guy's warm smile though they're just acting out there
This is so good and the conversation actually feels so authentic 🖤🖤
Wonderful and deep questions to ask friends or any person you would like to get closer with in general. Thank you for sharing.
Love this idea!
This is awesome stuff jay!! Cant thank you enough
I love this channel i get to learn alot more it really gives me real teaching of life
Great upload. I've been dating someone for 3 months now. We are driving up north to see the forest and nature and I'm going to ask these very same questions during our drive.
This video is so wonderful ❤️ a lot of positivity!
I am going to write these questions down and I'm going to answer these questions for myself 😃 and when I'm ready to start dating again I'm going to ask these questions. I loved this video. It made me smile and I really needed that
I don't know how much happy jay shetty's other fans will be...but I'm dying to see that day that he's having millions of subscribers...undoubtedly a man like jay deserves that support!!! Actually it'll be wrong if i say he deserves people's support instead millions of people need jay shetty's valuable speeches
I gotten addicted to watch videos from your RUclips channel Jay. It's really been helpful and when I knew someone needed this kind of topic, i have been sharing it. And it helped them too! Thanks a lot Jay!
The most perfect words
Best idea ever!!! Now I know what to do on a date. Thank you.
Awesome idea of getting to know someone better on a first date through such a way,people should do this more 😁
I enjoyed watching this. Reality and based and super cool. If they are a couple for real, i ship! The two of them are beautiful; optimist, and lovely
I keep on smiling... So cute to break the ice on first date...
I love this. Made me smile, inside and out.
I love this, and i think going forward in my dating life I'll incorporate this
We need people like jay more in RUclips real content hats off men
Thanks Jay this was well prepared and heart felt
These are actually good and interesting questions, gets the conversation going coz I see so many follow up questions
Oh my God!.... I'm addicted to this video.... I watch it every day!
Very bright and clever. I do love to make this on my next dating with complete stranger.
This idea is quite interesting. Rather than beating around the bush or being somewhat pretentious, asking deep questions immediately is a more effective way to better know someone.
The lady eyes are filled up with fresh love.. it's pure. 🙂
Thanks Jay
Yes I would love this.
I know , I m this kind of a person who always ask deep questions from whoever I wanna know 💝 n I'm excited too , to ask these questions from my soulmate ( whenever I'll meet her ) ☺💝
Thank you so kindly for your messages. Wish I had these 50 yrs ago. 😁
Blessings 💚🐾🧚♂️🦄
Wow, need to bring this list next time I go in a date ☺️❤️
I am big fan of u the viddeos really gives me more relief I love ur videos i just constantly watch ur videos they are just amazing i really appreciate the concept of taking ur videos .I am big fan of u now and to ur videos it really gives a deep meaning .
Love u bro jay!Truly inspirational buddha in the town.god bless you with perfect health and happiness and prosperity and love and wisdom and understanding.
I would one day ask him all these,hope i find him at the right time ... thanks jay 😊❤ from 🇮🇳
Absolutely love this idea! :D
Great!, thank you so much so open an amazing date with this question 🙏🏻. Now I know the best way to meet my partner!!! ❤️
Oh my god!! They looked cute together... 😍
I wish I could meet someone in life who is interesting enough to listen any thing you say about yourself and the way you view things...I'm almost next month I'm gonna be 22 years old...Ever since I was a child till now I have never been in love because I'm scared that if I do i might not be able to protect her or gives her the purest form of love she deserves and also scared that she might not be fit to my way of living...but getting this kind of idea to know each other is really a blessing...and one thing I hope that by the time I met my girl if not on earth but may be in heaven or hell, I wish it could be like the scene in movies.
Love this! I really like the girl's smile
he wouldn't normally be my type but he's so cute! she's beautiful too!
I really like videos like this because it helps me learn English, I hope the admin adds Vietnamese subtitles. thank you so much
Jay, I'd love to grab these questions off ya! Such a great idea! 🔥
This was amazing..very truthful..
Im just feeling happy seeing them happy😊😊😊
Did these questions with my current gf about two weeks into our dating. It did everything to bring us closer together. Many laughs and some tears were shared. I highly highly recommend this for any new couple or even if you've been dating a few months.
@bse523
Are you still in a relationship with her?
They would be a beautiful couple ♡
Good idea! Thank you, Jay! 😍😍😍
They looked beautiful together.
Thank you!
She’s beautiful 😍
She's beautiful I love her she's my fave
Jay Shetty you are the best! 💓
I'm shy and dating petrifies me...this seems like a good icebreaker.
brilliant. thankyou jay
This was lovely! I am wondering since each person did not answer the question, would you recommend switching questions on the 2nd date so the other person can answer and find out their experiences as well?
Do you have a printable list of these questions anywhere please? Awesome video!
Can partly agree but I again it depends on HONESTY...it's something we all expect but how much honest are we???
I will definitely do this on the beginning of my first date....😊
These questions are fire. I will use them one day
Great idea
Liked the questions
Rapport building question... Eliciting emotional content and connecting on a person.. One of the basics form of conversation in PUA
I would love for you to do one about pll who live with anxiety/ptsd every day every minute...I'll offer to do a video with you...you inspire me
Love this.