Before You Break Up Watch This - Motivation with Jay Shetty
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 26 сен 2024
- This video is based on the true stories of so many people I know. It was important for me to make because it's the solution for so many of our challenges in life. Watch & Share with the people you know will connect.
Inspired by Gary Chapman's book, The 5 Love Languages.
Excerpt from an article from Lifehacker:
Psychology studies show that, in the long term, the most important thing in your life is your personal relationships. More important than your circumstances, hardships or successes, stuff you own or places you go, good quality relationships increase your resilience, your happiness and protect you from depression and other related “afflictions”.
This can only be said about mature, fulfilling relationships, which we define based on one principle: “win-win”. In “win-win” relationships (be it friendships or romantic ones), all parties bring their best and leave out the worst. They focus on increasing the value of the partnership, the time spent together, the amount of sharing and avoid, conscientiously, pointing fingers and turning each interaction into a competition.
This man deserves 1 billion subscribers.
Smartness is important in a relationship and cyberhackinggenius helped cloned my husband’s phone and I got access to all his dealings both on phone and social media without touching his phone. All I did was share my husband’s phone number with cyberhackinggenius and I was able to read both his new and deleted messages from my phone without having to touch his phone. My husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all his secrets and infidelity with the help of cyberhackinggenius. I’m here in UK and able to access my husband’s phone messages with a link on my phone even while he was away in Canada cheating on me. I got to discover that my husband who is legally married to me here in UK is also recently married to another woman in Canada and I’m finally going through a divorce with lots of evidence against him. I read all his Whatsapp, Facebook,Skype,Instagram and Snapchat messages Including the deleted text and recent messages. You can contact this great Hacker Gavin via Gmail (cyberhackinggenius) or text and speak to him directly on his phone and WhatsApp : +19256795146 and don’t forget to thank me later.
It's 4.39 millions now
"LOVE is not something that you do for yourself, it's what you do to serve others" 😍😍👏🏻👌🏻
"if everyone thought the same way you think, no one would love anyone "
Best advice I have ever heard. "Love is not something you do for yourself but it's what you do to serve others"
Expectation is bad habit and often leads to disappointment. :(
Definitely
as if always god is watching and giving you directions in all possible manner... i have been thinking about this continuously till date and now I got the solution..Thanks
Love is the most beautiful thing but sometimes it can be dangerous.
when does it become so?
Well I understand this . In college, We were 3 friends and other two used to fight each and every time . It's because their thoughts were somewhat different but still they had some kind of understanding. Plus I used to act as pacifier and used to the patching work for hell 3 years ( no wonder I had to do all this several times in just one month). But later I got fed up and stopped helping them out as I just kind of depressed then for some reason. And just during that they both destroyed the whole trio friendship. I never thought it could happen. Among them one is rude in her behaviour a bit, egoistic a bit and is kind of selfish ( not much) but kind also , will support u . Another one is never forget what happened and will keep the grudge forever ( anger issue), but lots nice, helps out everyone. Now they don't talk and I , myself don't know to who I should go. Both my friend. I tried patch them again but it's real worse this time. Still I went to first one and she was like " I'm fine u can go to her( actually she wants me to be by her side but her ego won't let utter this. So I must beg her to stay with me ) and the second one can't tolerate her a sec even ( gets angry a bit when I go to another but down at say). Then , my so called grades dropped and I focussed on study strongly ( acted selfish right? )......I used to sit alne those days as idk what to do...But the second one came to me when I was depressed cuz of bad marks and helped me out :D . First one kept her distance. She used to be sad though but she never accepted anything....her ego ruled her mind so much that it's only me who tried to talk to her to end this but she hardly showed efforts. At one point , I left all on time. But issues were never solved and me , my second friend are on good terms. Another one became distanced one ( who used to be so close to me ). I'm again trying to fix matters as I don't wanna regret but I know things won't turn like back. But it pains me as we , three not together anymore. Now we , three talk among us on occasion but that two not so close like before . I failed to keep things right : D . Not a good friend I accept ;-;
Why is this soooo true 😰😰😰,,,,,It’s really true,, ‘Love is not sth that you do for yourself,it’s sth you do to serve others’
Mind bogling ..... Jay 1000 percentage true 👍 words ...
I wish this video was made last year, this could've saved my relationship with my ex husband
Vanessa Rusinko wish you all the best
Wish you good
go back to him.. maybe he want you still now but can't tell about his feel
sorry about this 😞
Wow, such a lovely message - People often communicate in different forms of love, and end up being in miscommunication.
Very simple and completely obvious and missed so much.
Thank you
hey me frm india ..that dsnt mater bt jay i just wana say you one thng u change my life ssly u r my mentor ..i was ssly so neg nd i see chnges in me now i m super cool enough i dnt cre fr d stupid thngs happening with me ..!tx u r ssly a miracle in my life keep doing ..thanxx alt ...
A good advicer is the One who can't solve he's/her own problem..
U r perfect.... nd ur eyes I can’t explain
I give my love and my time to someone who wasn't cared about me😓😞😖 it's so sad to see that
I agree with the last word: love is not something you do for yourself, but what you do to serve others..
Right...when each one does what they want for their partner and not what their partner wants...it will lead to misunderstanding and end up losing each other.
Wow tears going down
amazing jay!!
it's really true...wat i expect from the one I love is also the same... his company ie to spare his time with me!!.......very much true from both the sides!!
true relationship requires understanding,giving up so called ego,attitude and being you!!
My favourite speaker Jay genius l love his speech very much
Thank you Jay. You've really enlighten me. Gave me whole new perspective to think about my past relationships and why they didn't last.
Great message l wish my boyfriend he could see this😢he always busy with his work no time to talk to each other but sometimes he try his best to take off once in a month to go out!I feel tired somehow😢😢😢😢
Young Love just talk.
Give what they need not want You want to give. Be Peaceful and Happy Environment. THANKS
I wish I had watched this 1 year ago! Things would have been sorted then! Any way thanks for this video too! I will follow this advice of yours in days to come! Thankkk youuuu!!
Indeed Jay shetty have beautiful eyes and beautiful mind. You doing good job Jay. we need alot people like you to inspire human kind. Well done.
Oh! Quite true ......some relations are not in the same wavelengths...thank you for the outlook!
Make a decision and move on with your life there are many people who are waiting you give them chance but you keep holding on a toxic relationship move on and let go.
Jay u r the only person who makes me feel better with these videos
Ur each and every video shows my life ......I cannot explain it thanks a lot for making these videos
all the best !!!!
My favourite speaker Jay genius.
U r doing a great job Jay Shetty. It's a lovely thing which can't understand u tell them what to do...
Right as I heard that last part I bursted into tears.
All I need is love someone to give me time and make me feel like am a super hero
Thank you Jay Shetty.
Was just about to call it quits with my boyfriend, and of course this video popped up. I watched it and i feel a reassurance that everything is going to work out. I love him and he makes me happy (for the most part lol) Thanks for the video. All of them.
Hi Jay, love it! I will be using this as part of my 5 Love Language workshops that I facilitate. We should talk, I have an idea for another video you can do.🙂
That concept is explained in great detail in the book ''Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus " by John Gray.
It's an amazing book to understand people of opposite gender especially in relationships!
* the concept of ''men and women speaking different language of love''
Jay. what would it cost for a 5 minute conversation with you?
1 million dollars *dr evil laugh*
Nicholas Kong hahahahah
Exactly
Everything
Same..😞😞😞
literally wanna meet u in person and your words change my life in these two years.
Me and my partner speaking different languages. Once you have told them what you want and they tell you what they want..... Their is nothing one can do if another wants to do it their way.
One of the best RUclips channels!!! I love your content bro ❤️
Hey Jay ur the best philosopher who understands everyone
You are Love Guru who understand everyone so well😇
I'm glad to hear that ur advise Jay.... I wish sm1 would see ur video.... Love has different expressions
This guy is deep😻
I can see that the idea regarding the 5 love languages is widely-accepted
Your a legend man I love ur videos and it has made me look at my life so different means a lot thank you you are a great person!!
I'm gonna understand him but who the hell will teach him to love me after seeing a girl more beautiful than me 😓😓😓😓😓
@BTS stan for life we have already broken up. It's been 2 months 🙂
Just what I needed at the right time
...Why?
I watched this before but didn't understand anything because my relationship was perfect at that time. Now I got what this video means actually because this is exactly our relationship going through now
This is true, but if you are speaking different love languages on a fundamental level then it likely isn't going to work because over time you will eventually go back to your own language.
This entire video is my boyfriend and I, he gets mad that I don’t tell him what’s wrong. He told me that it makes him feel like I’m not trusting him.
helena gutierrez lykwise
What an advise..!!! Hats off!!
Thank you Jay for your Awesome wisdom and your also an Awesome communicator. God bless you man. Your channel is Awesome!!!!!
Jay Shetty, you're a God vessel of relationships
Yes u r correct most of the true loves break up due to some mis understandings
My bf snt dis to me...I rly love him a lot..bt we dnt understand each other at all😢..dis vid is grt..thnks for sharing..😊
Then what happen to yours relation ? Does this save or your guys brokeup ?
Yes. Max times its misundestandings. But not everyone can understand.
5 love languages I've read the book before but this video makes a difference because its a practical example
Wao this is the real thing i ve ever seen
Beautiful message! Love you Jay Shetty!
Motivation and insporation at the peek......You jay just nailing each and every video and winning million hearts....
Love this. Thank you Jay
So true those words
So much sense in a 2 minute video. Thank you
I haven't words to express how bliss it was this video for me 😘💗 thank your dear Jay from the bottom of my heart. I love you
Thanks Jay Shetty, gold advice
We are proud of you Jay 😘 love from India 😊
tq bro for the fantastic message I inspired the most 😀😀😇😇 legend bro u r😇😇 keep it up bro 😊😊 more videos plz bro😊☺
I'm literally watching jay shetty at 01:14 in the morning. What am I doing with my life
Robam Gaming
your comment inspired me to make a time table .👍
good luck ....
Robam Gaming good things 😊
Kaitlin Ski lol yh
So true. I dont want expensive gifts but he doesnt understand that he'd rather not get me anything if its not expensive until he can get what he wants to get me... But im happy with the small sincere gift given out of love. And I ask him whats wrong when hes upset and all I get is "you should know I dont need to tell you" what do I do with that? 😕❤💔😳 how can I fix something I dont know..
How beautifully he explains the most complicated thing in the world :) Give music courtesy please...let the world know the artist behind
See all about money I the end.
Hey jay bro... my blessings are always wid you man...
What he said was very nice.
2 minutes of pure wisdom
Thank you.
The 5 languages of love... Nice to read!
Wow..... This is just opened my eyes.
I love this video
I'm watching your video it's help me to keep motivated and also keep improving in myself
So thanks a lot for your motivated words
Very amazing advice jey keep to support the people to stay longer and love each other
Very touching jay
Its want everyone needs. You are awesome AJ
He so right
Absolutely beautiful
The 5 Love Languages. Transformative once you choose to ponder yours and your partners and decide to change the way you 'speak' to each other.
Its better to be single cause all are not ready to accept all your wish and not ready to find out the resion why you are sad or angry and it may hurt you later
Best ever motivator and a person to encourage! Thank you, Jay Shetty!!!
I should have had a friend like u in my life... 😑
Well said, yet again. But does anyone ever care how Jay feels? Poor man...
*Wow man* Thanks for the best advice of the year-
You're amazing Jay please never stop doing this 😍
His words just brightens up the day...😍
You opened my eyes...
I really touch my heart.
Am really impressed with thus film, thanks for ur knowledge
awesomely said. hats off Jay .
I've also looked into the "attachment styles" as well!
He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship
±²³⁴⁸¹⁴⁵⁸²⁷⁶⁴⁷
ViawhatsApp
Great lessons
I love it💑😍😍😍😍😍😋
Wow now that's a beautiful emotion to live by, thanks Jay ✌