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r/TIFU - TIFU by doing what my (ex)wife says and ignoring the accident and two people died
r/okopshow - He Manipulated Me For the LAST TIME and Ended Up Homeless....AGAIN!
r/AITA - AITA for telling my son he deserved his gf breaking up with him?
r/AITA - AITA for being mad my bf won't make noodles the way I like
r/AITA - AITA for making my girlfriend leave the country?
r/AITA - AITA for bringing up my brother's "premature" birth at Christmas dinner to get my parents to shut up?
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Wanna piont out Op in Spaghetti, If we do the math Form the beginning of the story she stated she 20 and her boyfriend is 26 they dated for 3 years. That means she was 17 and he was 23 when they started dating. Her family were cool with this and paying the rent? The spaghetti being made right is the least problematic issue in this whole story.
I think the key point in pasta girl’s story that made bro a predator is the 6 year age gap and fact they’ve been together since she was a minor. The pasta sauce is the least of their problems.
Kudos to the dad who told his son he lost his girl because he was a lazy asshole. More parents should be this honest with their sons!
OP in the spaghetti one is a psychopath and you won't convince me otherwise.
Side note, OP can actually buy spaghetti noodles that are made with tomato included if you like your noodles to taste that way. Then they can have their taste without expecting them to be cooked in such a WTF manner.
I think the sauce was like the straw that broke the cammels back. It's a long term lie that he smugly held over her head.
@@Seecada oh I definitely still think it's an ahole move for him to lie like that and then pick on her the way he did. They needed to break up and all the extra stuff she learned about him cemented that.
I just also think OP's a psycho for wanting their spaghetti rinsed the way they do.
"WTF manner," 😆
I don't believe the extra shit i feel like she's capping to make herself feel better for break up over sauce
@@kzmultiversalstudios4556 it's totally possible. It does seem like an extreme amount of stuff so it totally could be just thrown on to make her feel justified. Especially if anyone else called her out for her way of wanting spaghetti prepared.
The dad is just giving his son a dose of needed medicine. His son wasn’t considering of the girls time and money so he doesn’t deserve consideration either. His dad did right, it’s his job to call him out when he’s in the wrong, not comfort or coddle otherwise he’ll never change.
The last part of the sauce story just sounds like she was tryna make her ex mad because she know he'll be reading
Or trying to deflect all the YTA votes that thought the “essence of sauce” was ridiculous
he groomed her. as stated in the original post, he was 23 and she was 17 when they started dating. do you find it so inconceivable he was secretly a piece of shit?
I was stuck in a terrible DV relationship for almost 7 years so I’ve called 911 dozens of times… I have also lived in several cities in the Midwest and in the south. Definitely have noticed that certain areas have better quality 911 dispatchers and police response times. EMT almost always beats law enforcement, which sucks whilst in a DV situation with a runner. Ultimately ended in 2017 with my ex on the top 15 most wanted fugitives in the US… sooo yeah they should probably try to fix that, at least for clearly stated DV disputes.
I remember hearing about the Visa story and it takes a tragic turn. I can't remember the story fully but unfortunately after a few things, that involves the girlfriend car and money, OP finds out that the girlfriend un-alived herself.
That breaks my heart to hear that. I was hoping she'd do well without OP.
The OP in that story is a fucking psychopath.
Oh my goodness, that's so sad! I think OP wasn't thinking about the fact that she lived in the US for years, so moving back to her home country wouldn't be that easy because everything she has was in the US and she had nothing in her country. Who knows if she even had family or friends to move in with?
I bet it felt like it was all too much, she built a life in a different country, probably thought she would marry OP, only to have it all taken away. The whole situation is so sad.
I'm heartbroken. I'm running out of episodes to binge watch from this channel ☹️
The noodle story is insane 🤣 If she wants her sauce to be washed off then why put it on in the first place? And she didn't even notice. lol That's the most ridiculous breakup reason I've heard.
I called 911 after a storm rolled through.
I was headed to pick up my kiddos from school and noticed a power line draped over someone’s parked car and when I followed the line it was so low over the roadway, a school bus could hit it.
I made that clear in the call and it was fixed before I returned home with my kiddos.
Day saved, as I asked if anyone had called it in yet and NO ONE had!😮
I love Riley LOSING IT 😭 over sam defending his very right opinion that the spaghetti argument was not the point 😂
Sucks that the BF was a freak cuz I’m sorry. The essence of sauce is delusional. Tell me u think ur special w/o …. Hint: you’re not OP. Ur just daddy’s girl w/bad taste in men.
He does this w everything... - Riley
😊😊😊😊@@LLynneM
18:01 nah I completely agree with you Sam. The sauce thing is ridiculous and I actually have a conspiracy theory about this post. I've read this story before and I absolutely think OP made the update up to get sympathy. I think the original fight and breakup are real, but when she saw everyone was clowning on her in the comments she decided to go ahead and slander her ex to make herself look more sympathetic. It's crazy to go from "we had a slight disagreement about spaghetti sauce" to "yeah he's a total loser scumbag sociopath who cheated on me and lied a lot so please feel bad and stop making fun of me"
It wouldn't surprise me.
I mean he lied about her food for who knows how long. It's just super AH on his part. Trust is broken
hey so just a reminder for you in case you didn’t do the math. these two started dating when she was 17 and he was 23 as stated in the original post, making him an actual certifiable groomer. taking that into account, do you **really** think his behavior in the update is that surprising? i certainly don’t
@@beebs4283Wouldn't change the fact that OP is also an AH for stubbornly insisting on all that food waste...
I’ve called 911 on unsafe drivers on the road or freeway who I suspected of driving under the influence of drugs or alcohol. I’ve also called on homeless people fighting on the freeway, and on a squatter who decked my brother when he was entering my parents house.
The tomato sauce-
What he did isn't the issue, but how he treated her was.. he was on some weird high making fun of her. He should of just mentioned it after the first time he made the damn noodles
I ALWAYS run into accidents. Always kinda have but I slowed down on helping and stopping (accidents are incredibly common here, and I lived on an intersection where it was almost weekly), ever since I got into a terrible accident I chose to go towards it and it has helped a lot with the ptsd from it. I guess I inadvertently gave myself exposure therapy 😆
RIP😂 John I really miss you. I miss your great sense of humor.❤️✌️🌼
So my view may be skewed because i’m autistic but personally, I would have just preferred the bf in the pasta story just said “no i’m not doing that.”
The issue is he spent this whole time taking the piss out of his gf instead of being honest with her. Yes she is making unreasonable requests over her food preparations. But he could have just told her “if you want it that way you can do it yourself”
The lying and then making fun of the fact that she never noticed is the problem. Sure he proved his point but it doesn’t change the fact that he likely left her feeling humiliated. Idk what he expected to gain by carrying out the bit this long other than to upset her. Because nobody is going to respond to smth like this with “oh wow your right i didn’t notice guess i’ve been stupid this whole time!”
Tldr the op is unreasonable for her demands, but the bf is also an asshole for how he handled it.
Last story: parents are always hypocritical about life decisions
First one reminds me of the time me and my ex were on our way to his cousins wedding (we were running late) when we watched a dog get hit by car but it was still alive yelping and suffering. He REFUSED to stop so I could help/try to find its owners.
I've called 911 many times. Possibly more than 15 times. For accidents (I watched a FedEx truck roll over on an icy highway, a car drive into a Ditch during a blizzard, a car in the ditch during summerabout 40 feet of the road into the tree line... ) people threatening to harm myself/ my family or themselves, for hit and runs i watched happen, people trying to break into my house or neighbors.....
guys, how did you miss the math that she was 17 when they started dating and he was 23 in the sauce story? it was stated in the original post
Ive called 911 for various reasons including unbranded cow on the loose (on a blind hill, in the middle of the highway), drunk drivers, unmoveable elk carcass blocking the highway, car accidents, DV happening to a friend- and many more lol.
Lol that's just a wild cow, wild cowing. I hope they removed her safely tho
Called 911 several times, most of them were related to my mom's health issues, and once after I saved her from choking(an interesting story for those that don't believe in coincidence). The only time that didn't involve my mother, was a house fire I saw in the middle of the night a couple blocks away. "Today smoking is going to save lives" I had gone out to smoke because I couldn't sleep.
Also, Sam, what do you mean maybe he is just not that in to her as a justification for his lack of effort???😂 This girl spent a lot of money and time traveling to a different country. If he wasn't that in to her, he should have cut her loose, instead of letting her drain her bank account and waste time! It crazy up in here!
RIP JOHN. I've heard the sauce story before, and even if she's a picky eater (I think she's being immature), I don't understand what he gained from telling her. He could've just continued to pretend for her. I think it's a weird power thing. But the reason they called him a predator is because she was 20, he was 26, and they had been dating for almost three years. This means that, at BEST, she was freshly 18 when he was 23, and at worst, she was 17. Which is again sketchy on the boyfriend's part for desire to control her.
TL;DR: A guy in his mid twenties sought out a teenager to control and lie to and got caught because he couldn't hold in something about effing spaghetti. I'm glad she's free of him and matures in her dating life (and just starts to eat spaghetti noodles plain).
Betting her dad did the same thing, because this is something you do to pacify children, which is a big sign of him being predatory
I've pulled over a few times for vehicle crashes and I never regretted helping.I can't imagine not trying to help.
I called 911 because there was some guy at my job that was having an altercation with two of the security guards and he had a gun. I called from behind a desk hoping the gun wouldn't go off. Thankfully everyone was okay, but I had pretty bad PTSD for a while there.
I lived in a SD for the majority of my life so I’ve definitely called 911 a bunch of times. Top 5:
1. Was robbed at a 24 hour fitness I worked at (they took my personal wallet too, the bastards)
2. A drunk driver fell asleep in their car on the 94 E freeway and rolled to a stop in the 4th lane of a 5, maybe 6 lane, portion of the road.
3. A drunk driver in a Dennys parking lot hit around 3 cars and drove over a bunch of bushes in the median. While speeding off, they hit a light post concrete base and totaled their car.
4. A car in a very dark, secluded area of Jamul was running but in park, with the driver door open and the back passenger door open and all the lights were off. I pulled up slowly and cracked my window to shout if anyone needed help- we were in a no service area near MX (near Otay)- but I didn’t see ANYONE. No tint on the windows either it was completely dark and there were no sounds coming from around the immediate area. I felt super creeped out so I kept my eyes out and shouted one more time if everything was ok and when I got no answer I backed up to shine my lights onto the car- no one anywhere- but like I said THE CAR IS RUNNING!!
So I decided to drive away- I was 19 so I wasn’t getting out of my car alone. I called 911 once I had service about 10 miles out and reported it all. Never got any info about it and never saw the car the next day on my way back from work- I checked.
5. I was a bartender for a long while and I’ve called 911 on men trying to roofie women, for parking lot fights, and for people drinking and driving blacked out after being told that they WILL be reported if they don’t Uber/lyft home.
OP with the Immigration case will never know the catastrophic damage he did to his SO's life, don't offer what you can't back up, he F'd up in a major way
she ended up killing herself :(
The only i called 911. It was about 3:00am and i was decently buzzed and was starting doze off. I heard a lady screaming for help for a few seconds, as i was getting up investigate, suddenly the screaming stop and i heard a car speed off . When i want outside quite a few other people got out of the apartments to also investigate. I called cops and they said they be on lookout
Riley - please put up, like one decoration, even it’s just a piece of paper you scribble (decor) on. lol.
My 911 story - about 10 years ago I worked at night cleaning an office after dark in a bad neighborhood. On my way there I was behind a truck that was all over the road. At one point the truck went up onto the sidewalk and almost hit someone on a bike. They had to fall into the bushes to avoid the truck. That is when I called 911 to report the driver. Once I explained what I witnessed they asked me for the license plate. After giving it they informed me that the person the truck was registered to had their license revoked and had a warrant for arrest. They asked me to follow the truck and tell them his movements so the cops could locate us. I did but after a while the driver seemed to realize that I was following him and started to weave through traffic and speed. When I told the dispatcher they instructed me to speed and follow, even to run red lights! The dispatcher lady said "I'm deputizing you, just go!" After about 10 minutes of following the truck I saw blue and red lights and she told me to pull into the next plaza and disengage. It was so exciting! Then I hung up and went on my way to my boring job.
I had to call 911 multiple times. The first was for my father (who has passed away) because he originally woke up to get ready for work but realized the world was spinning and he felt extremely light-headed. He had vertigo but because he was so disoriented, I called 911. The second time, I called 911 was for my twin sister who suffered a grand mal seizure (she has now been diagnosed with epilepsy) and the third time I called 911 was when I was walking home from helping my former boss at the IHOP I used to work at. I came across a young man who was, what i thought, getting something from his back seat. I didn't question it because there was Jersey Mike's to my left, so I was like ' Oh he's getting something from his car' and continued walking. Well, he suddenly pops up next me and starts asking me questions that would seem innocent but when you're a young woman walking home at 10pm by yourself...It's a bit uncomfortable. Then he grabs the handle at the top of my backpack and starts trying to convince me to stay with him and saying that he is my boyfriend. I quickly realize I am not safe and started pushing him away while walking. He moves to block me by standing in front of me and i used the water bottle I had and started pushing him towards the front of the grocery store that was still open, and people were coming out. He realized what I was doing and decided to leave me alone and went to his car. I called the cops, and it turns out, it wasn't his car but rather that he is breaking into the cars parked in front of the car shop. I had walked up on him while he was pilfering through the car.
For the sauce story, i dont know if that was enough reason to break up but i would be pissed too. If he didn't want to prepare pasta that way he should just tell her, so she could do it herself or reveal hownhe did it after first time (without making fun of her, just showing that there is no difference). I think the lying for so long and then taking so much pleasure in tricking her was the main problem, not the sauce itself.
Re "homeless" guy, I took a homeless couple home for "a decent meal, shower, sleep etc" for the night. Their benefit payments were due next day.
Two months later my son had to get the police to get them out. The guy had multiple warrants and they were intimidating me and taking over my house.
No money paid to me, either.
No folks. Don't be kind if it could even possibly put you at risk.
Lesson learned.
One time when my brother was like 8 years old he woke up from a nap and couldn’t find anyone in the house. He was convinced the rapture happened and he was left behind (church trauma lol). He called the cops and my mother was not happy 😂
I have had to call 911 because my daughter went into a seizure after hitting her head scariest moment of my life. She is okay now
Have you called 911….I am 911 lol love being a paramedic ❤️
Rip in piece John, you were the most tender of lovers with dreamy blue eyes, luscious beautiful hair, a captivating smile, and the biggest di-
I grew up in San Bernardino and live in central LA - I call the 911 weekly at this point. Man running people down with a car, people hiding out by my door after smash and grabbing, people stealing catalytic converters from cars, all this plus more! The first time I called 911 was on my father at age 6 because he was assaulting my mother and brother. Count your selves 🍀lucky you JUST called for the 1st time. ❤ love your alls show!
4:02 Some one kick down my door on Christmas day 3 years ago and attacked my roommates. I was supposed to stay with family the whole week and came back early. Glad I called and that the kids were with the neighbours.
Calling 911- Called 911 when a stranger was trying my front door at 4am, trying to get in and screaming, wouldn't stop even though I tried to get him to go away. He was getting mire and more violent, was super drunk, and I was afraid he'd break in the door somehow. Turned out when the cops came, he had the wrong house, think SE instead of NE, same number.
I love all of you guys together! I miss you even after I just watched your video. 🤭
She was dating him he obviously wasn't dating her
I was driving back to my parent's house one afternoon and there was a flaming truck at a 3-way intersection. I was able to catch that it was just the materials in the truck bed that was on fire rather than the truck itself. I called 911 as I was making my turn and the operator said that they had already been alerted. Thankfully the nearest fire station was less than a block away and nobody got hurt that day. And in the case of a flaming helicopter crash, 911 would definitely be the way to go as I am severely inequiped to handle an emergency like that.
Didn’t know La Croix made spaghetti now 🤔🍝
Eulogy: John loved divorces and did not like people showing up with their belongings where they weren't expected. These romantic gestures were inappropriate to him. He was one of the greatest😢❤... 😂
There's a response story from the boyfriend of the crazy pasta woman, I heard it on another podcast months ago, she's insane
She sounds like it my word
If anyone can figure out what that story is called please let me know I'm looking everywhere for it
and he isnt for dating a 17 year old when he’s 23? 🤔
@@twideslauriers7875 oh no he definitely is but so is she. He's just more insane with an added level of predatory creepiness
@twideslauriers7875 oh absolutely, depending on situations but I know age gaps also bother people and to each their own I definitely think she should be 18 but either way I was just trying to stay on point with the weird controlling pasta thing, I don't think there is any proof of grooming with a 6 year age gap but I remember being that age and wanting to date older friends so unless there's proof of that I don't jump on that bandwagon.
I called 911 twice. First time was when I worked as a bus aid for a special needs school. As we were on route we passed a library with cement stairs and at the bottom of them was a elderly man face down, not moving. We pulled over no one was out as it was winter time, and a low traffic area. I went up and tried to see if he was okay it took a minute but he said something and I put something I had like my coat or something under his head and we called 911. He was bleeding from his head. We stayed until paramedics and police came. We gave a statement and they took him away. IDK what happened after that we never found out if he was okay.
Second time was I was waiting in Preschool drop off lane and a VERY pregnant lady tripped and fell on her stomach. I got out to see if she was okay. She said she was in pain and couldn't get up and she was worried she hurt her baby. So I called 911. They came and got her. A few days later she was back and said both her and baby were okay.
RIP John. He ate 💅
I would help the people in the crash, you never know the impact you could have.
I had to call 911 when a kid got stuck in a waterfall. I looked around and no one was on their phones. I asked if anyone had called 911. We were all without service and I had to run and find the nearest landline. To add to the terror the people in the house didn't want to believe me. I had to beg them to call for us.
I’ve called 911 quite a few times actually … one of the most memorable was in the evening about five days after I moved into my first solo apartment and I heard gunshots right out front.
I was 25 and living completely alone for the first time. My apartment was a garden level unit in an old house and the unit upstairs was unoccupied at the time, so it was really just me and my dog in the building. The house was right across from a high school and apparently a student had brought a gun to intimidate another student. He fired off a few shots above head level to scare said person. They were intentionally barely off school property by being on the sidewalk across the street (aka, about 10 ft from my front door). When I called the police, dispatch said they had gotten a bunch of calls from people in the neighborhood and they were there within about 5 minutes. A cop came by that evening to interview me about what I heard/saw.
I’ve also had to call 911 after a dog attack, a homeless woman wielding a lawn aerator and threatening people (think a long stick with a wheel covered in spikes at the end), a man coughing up a LOT of blood on the street during the Covid pandemic who needed an ambulance, and more unusual events that come from living in a city.
I call 911 all the time. Reasons: Drunk Drivers, Fires, Car Accidents, Physical Injuries (Dropped my car on my chest), and when my mother had a stroke.
I have called 911 when the nuclear threat message went off in Hawaii😂😂😂 the 911 was down the whole time. My boyfriend was driving while I was calling 911 and looking at the sky to monitor any missile. At the end, I hung up and left a voice mail with my last word to my parents😢 by the way, I miss John.
The sauce one- she didn’t need to break up with him because of the sauce… But the sauce was basically her opening her eyes to his true personality. So it’s not because he wouldn’t do the sauce the way she wanted, it’s because of the fact that he knew he wasn’t doing it the way she liked, lied about it the whole time, and then still thought It was funny that he was lying to her, and didn’t care how she felt. Which means he had no problem lying to her about anything else. If a man will lie to you about something as simple as sauce on your spaghetti, he would lie to you about who he’s hanging out with and what he’s doing. It was never about the sauce it was about the lies and condescension… also, he’s lying cheating POS.
She lied about everything else...she's a sociopath
@@eclecticraeenshe was 17 when they started dating and he was 23. he’s a predator
He is a predator…. She’s currently 20 and he’s 26. They’ve been together for 3 years. She was 17 and he was 23! What is an adult doing with a high schooler?
I have called 911 twice. Once where someone was trying to break into my apartment during a blackout (my dog scared the intruder away). And another time where a guy assaulted me at a park in front of my kids (I fought him off grabbed my kids and called the cops).
911 in the Los Angeles area during a holiday weekend (I think it was around Thanksgiving in the early 2000s), a really bad accident occured on the 2 freeway. Got the busy signal and had to wait (recording) about 4 minutes. Called 911 maybe a couple more times after that. Usually car accidents, once on accident with the emergency button combo on my phone.
Omg this was posted 1 min ago
LOVE U GUYS I WATCH U EVERYDAY
RIP John, your hair of gold now resides on the streets paved with gold in heaven
Big Protein has the CUTEST laugh ever!! i was laughing even harder because of him!!
The story with OP making his gf leave the country is another level of selfish and evil. I agree, he should not have offered it in the first place. I read the update to the story. She ended up unaliving herself and he still only cared about himself and didn't think he did anything wrong. I really hope it was a fake story and rage bait. If not, I wish him the life he deserves after screwing someone that he claimed to love over like this and ruining her entire life.
911 story: I’m technically not the person that called. I was a dumb tween who was being all edgy, listening to music with a candle lit next to my boom box. At the time my mattress was on the floor( idk why i wanted that but i did)
My brother called me downstairs as recently I had rediscover his N64 that our mom had taken away( and forgot were she hid it), and he was about to beat banjo kazooie. So i left my room thinking it would be quick but totally forgot about the lit candle ADHD.
I guess the candle heated up my boombox which exploded. Honestly kinda glad I wasn’t in the room, I wouldn’t have noticed.
My brother and I didn’t hear the boom cause at the same time the power went out. We were confused. And our parents were at a football game ( go Bears).
I heard an odd hammering sound and think it’s somehow my dad. I go up to my room and open the door, black smoke hits me like a wall and I can only make out two fires in the distance, one tall near my wall(boombox) and one on my pillow. I shout out to my brother and then run to our parents room. He eventually finds me and tells me to find water, i hand him the half empty glass on my dads bedside table. He yells at me and eventually i run to the basement to fill up a mop bucket and he tosses it on the fire and runs out. i ran back in and tried to open my window, they we’re always an issue and I only got it open a bit before I couldn’t breathe. I go downstairs and my brother said the phones were down ( this is just as cellphones we’re becoming more common but still black and white with just call functions, and we couldn’t find ours. I ran outside around to the front to hopefully flag someone down. luckily, someone had seen the smoke and was worried. They called out to us and I used their phone to call my mom. Then realized our dog was still in the house and panicked to go find her. I took her outside, held her and cried, she was fine. The good samaritan had called 911. And then my mom again to update us. Fire and paramedics came. We were shipped off to the hospital. Damage was mostly soot damage. I lost most of my childhood toys and my cloths. My family made jokes about me and candles for a few times after that left their scars. The fire department confirmed the boombox got overheated and blew. Probably not anything that would have hurt me, but nothing i could have prevented if i had stayed in my room. Im still iffy about candles around the home. I didn’t get punished, mom and dad figured losing most of my valuables was punishment enough.
911 story number two: I currently live in Japan. Since 2016. This past march I was having health issues which got worse and resulted in a PE in April ( pulmonary embolism ). I tried to call 119 but I couldn’t breathe to speak, so I had to text a friend. The PE was caused by a blood clot due to my birth control and I spent two weeks in the hospital recovering. 👍
Also yes I would try to help if I saw a helicopter crash.
Rip John please come back! Where'd you gooooooo? I misssssss you soooooo hasn't been the same since you've been goneeeeee
I've only called 911 twice. Once because the woods between us and the house next door were on fire and once because I was 6 hours through a 10 hour overnight drive and I came to a construction roadblock. I stopped and sat for a solid 15 minutes as people lined up behind me. No idea where I was so I could look up the non-emergency number, I called and was like "Hi this isn't exactly an emergency but it's 2am and I have no idea what to do."
I have to say I am appalled at the 1st story... I don't know about USA laws but in our country not providing the first aid can land you in jail for 2 years... It is in most cases linked to car accidents but applies to any witnessed accident. If the crash site was dangerous to help them directly they should have at least call an ambulance immediately. Like wth...
Yes called 911. I grew up with parents who went camping all the time, the unhinged kind, weather sucks? Going anyways. The sound of a campfire is stuck in my mind. 3am I hear crackle! fire noises and woke up😬. I look across the street and a bunch of trees and bushes were on fire in front of a house. Since it was 3am I was probably not a lot of people would notice so I called. An empty building nearby had a death because a squatter set it on fire recently so I was already a bit on edge
I have called 911, and the reason was for domestic violence, however I learn to never call for them for now on when the situation involves African people because then you would be deemed the A-hole for trying to protect a fellow African family memeber who was going to get a clay cup to the head by the other family memeber in front of children. Some family right. 🙄
Who cares about being called an a-hole. Call 911 still.
@@EsoteriaHealingit's not just about being labeled an asshole for AA/ Black people, at least not in the US. The police are an active threat every time someone calls them and it's a decision on of it's better to call or worse to call. And that's just for *anyone* calling in the US. It's so much more precarious for a POC, especially Black people - whether they are "called on" or they call themselves for help.
Shit, remember Breonna? She was a 911 dispatcher just hanging out in her home and he was killed when police mistakenly and therefore illegally entered her home without notice and she was murdered by those LEOs she *worked* with, and that were supposed to "protect and serve".
The only things LEO's in the US protect and serve is the *State* and the rich.
Rip john, you are definitely missed! So funny and gorgeous long hair.
I think the problem with the sauce story isn't that Op's boyfriend didn't make the sauce the way she wanted but the fact that he lied about doing it her way and then smugly showed that he didn't. The behavior shows a certain level of toxicity. It's not about the sauce it's about the shitty way he handled her request as if it wasn't important because he didn't think it was worth it.
RiP John! Please come home for Christmas 🌲🎄✨
Yes called plenty of times. From drivers sleep at the wheel, domestics, health emergencies
I had a neighbour with a serious anger problem and I called 911 once on them. They were screaming, slamming (something?) in the walls so hard it was making my bookcases shake, screaming "I'M GOING TO KILL YOU" and etc, and I was worried that someone was being hurt, so the cops came, and after their door being buzzed a few times and them not answering (thin walls lol) I buzzed up the cops and they talked to my neighbour, and turns out they were having a complete and utter meltdown over...A VIDEO GAME.
I wish that was the only time, but they had frequent angry meltdowns over the course of two years, screaming so loud and for so long I began to refer to those times as "scream o'clock", which was fun. Eventually he moved out, which was a huge relief for me XD
I would do something... I couldn't live without trying, especially because I live so far away from hospitals etc, you gotta do anything you can when you live in the outback, for your neighbours.
I called 911 on accident one time when my phone was on the bed and me and my husband were having our fun times my phone thought I was being taken advantage of to put it lightly, so it literally called the police thankfully no officers showed up. They just called us back to make sure it was an accident.
Needless to say, it killed the mood
We don’t have fun times on the bed with the phone anymore
Spaghetti OP is high maintenance no doubt but if your significant asks you something dumb taht doesn’t harm you and takes a little bit of your time to make them feel cared for and happy especially if you volunteered to take over that task for them and you can’t do it or are looking for short cuts then y’all aren’t right for each other
I lived in hud housing in my 20s. I have a disability, most everyone esle was elderly. One day im out walking my dog, and i see a woman on the ground. He little high energy dog had pulled her down. Of course it was one of the few times i didn't have my cell. But theres always one nosey neighbor watching from there window. I yelled for yhem to call 911. I took her dogs leash so he could pull her anymore. She was able to sit up and i just waited with her until the ambulance arrived. I later found out her family had just kinda dumped her there. She really needed to be in an assisted living facility and definitely didnt need such a high engery dog. Another time, i yet avain didn't have my cell, i was in my powerchair coming home to this same apartment building. One of the tenants had been walking in the cold after dialysis to the post office and collapsed. I booked to the building managers office and told them and they handled it. She was my acriss the hall neighbor. Idk y she would try tovwalk to the post office after dialysis. Sweet woman. She had a little dog like mine who, whenever we happened to open our doors at the same time, hers would run into my apartment and great my dog. Now my dog didn't not like other dogs but for some reason tolerated Buddy. He wotukd sniff Buddy and Buddy would sniff him, get a little pet from me and run back to his apartment. One time i was going down the hall and i saw him just chilling by himself in between the double doors at the end of the hall. He ran off on her and she showed up two seconds later looking for him.
I MISS JOHN 😢😢😢
I had to call 911 when my sister tried to push my mother down the stairs. We previously 10 minutes before that got into a fist fight unfortunately, she's the same sister that threatened to unalive my 5 cats, but yeah I unfortunately called 911 as I was afraid of who or what she may hurt due to mental state after taking a handful of alprozolam. We are no contact. The sister and I. She's unwell.
Yes to 911 only once. Customer died at the company where I worked.
I called 911 because I saw someone on the highway. Just in case they needed help? I didn't see a car anywhere... and I was driving to work. The person was on the other side of the highway.
The accident was probably the one that was a flight instructor and student that it crashed near a northern california freeway in july of 2008 and they both died. In what posted in the new york times
I came out of my house to see a man passed out on the street. Running over I dial 911, checking vitals and starting cpr. 911 operator comes on tells me to do as I am doing and starts counting. Now in ontario, pharmacists have to be certified in cpr and have a difibulator. I live across from one. They come out to yell across the street at the whole 120 pounds, 20 something of me trying to break this 200 pound+ man's ribs (you have to break ribs while doing cpr or you aren't pumping blood) "we already called"
I am in no mood, already screamed at a car rubber knecking; you bet your ass I'm screaming at the medical professionals for doing nothing. All while 2 little old ladies are coming to do whatever they can to help. My neighbor came to trade me off on compressions while I cleared his airway. I have no idea how long the ambulance took, but he had died in the time between the pharmacy calling and me calling.
People's reaction time does matter.
I had to non emergency police for a stalled vehicle on the Bay Bridge on my way to San Francisco. 40 minutes later, I park my car, and I start getting my stuff out for school. A women from the fourth story window opens it, looks at me, and screams "CALL THE POLICE". She looked terrified and went back into the apartment. I immediately called 911 and continued to watch her window in case she came back. The dispatcher told me to stay there so the poice officer would know which building he needed to go into. The dispatcher hangs up and I wait a couple minutes until a single cop in his car shows up. I wave him down, he stops in the middle of the road, gets out, DRAWS HIS WEAPON, and says "WHERE?!" I say 4th story in that building. He runs into the building without saying anything else. I just stood there. I legitimately didn't know what to do, was I supposed to stay there? Do i really just walk away from a clear emergency, or do I call someone else? I finally walked to school and told my teacher why I was late to our lesson. I wish I had more of an update after my classes, but I never learned anything more.
Rest in peace 🪦 John we miss you!!! 😂
I called 911 with a dude I used to go on dates with because we saw a girl walking out of the restaurant we had just eaten at and she was stumbling drunk. We looked at each other and were like "yo, is she about to drive right now?" Her boyfriend had to help her get in the car. So we called 911 to report her as a drunk driver. They told us to follow her to get the license plate and the street they were at and then stop following. It was wild
Rip John come baaaccck!
So my 911 story, I was in my early 20s and it was my youngest sister who called 000 we are Aussies, she called because my other sister was having a seizure. The seizure lasted half an hour, a very abnormal amount of time for a seizure but luckily she ended up fine after it
That 19 year old talking about herself like she’s woo boo hoo 13 or something 😭and I used to be a people pleaser hard but bringing over some old man to my house to live there is insane.
She's 23 now. And she's autistic so clearly her perception of social situations would be different. As an autistic person even if our gut reaction is to run, we can't always trust it because of how different our brains read human interactions. And he wasn't old. He was 26 bless your heart
RIP John, we love you ❤ an amazung soul who left too soon 🥺💕
The sauce girl is just………. Insane.
Just fyi if you do the 2 bed thing always check under the bed and linen on the bed for hidden items your mother or family member might put there to see if it is being used or not.
RIP John
Sam kept leaving him to do solo episodes and now John left us all.
So I have called 911 before... my mom, sisters and I were in a city a can't remember which town (road tripping) and we made a wrong turn and we ended up in a neighborhood instead of the highway and we saw a girl and guy clearly arguing. she starts walking away and he grabs her and throws her to the ground. My sister jumps out of the car before my mom could come to a complete stop gets between them and the girl runs off. Another guy comes out of the house and starts fighting with the guy so we pile back in the car drive down the road convince the girl to get in the car with us and she starts telling how to get to her aunts house. Well the guy had gotten in his car and started following us.. he cut us off, gets out and starts yelling at us to let her out.. we keep yelling we didn't have her... we finally get around him and he starts following us for like 30 minutes. So we stopped at a gas station because were almost out of gas at this point. My mom and sister get out and the rest of us stay in the car... the guy shows up and starts punching the car window so I call 911 and while I am on the phone with them another couple pulls up and sees whats going on and the lady comes up and pepper sprays him... he gets in the car and leaves after and the cops show up and they end up taking her to her aunts house.... I think about her every now and then and hope she didn't go back to him.. Maleah, I hope you found a guy that treats you right
Immigration dude - he is the AH, and should have educated himself. And they should have gone with the consultant because they would have advised to renew the work permit while the spousal sponsorship was being processed. OP needs to move on as he made a bad mistake.
I have called 911 my daughter is a diabetic and her blood sugar was low and i couldnt get her to drink anything to bring her sugar up .... Thats not the only time i called 911
12:57
No, you're wrong
It depends on the mood
If the son was devastated and completely sad, ok then you can give it some time to tell him that stuff.
BUT this kind of people are not sad when someone breaks up with them. This type of person is angry. And in this case they need the hard truth
Smosh beat you guys to the spaghetti story
I called emergency services twice. Once when my flatmate swallowed a bottle of pills and once when someone set a fire on a dried school field
My first time calling the police was when my brother had a house party and a local gang tirned up, mugged and stabbed people. A famous rapper in my country BUGSY MALONE was one of the people who stabbed my brothers friends.