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r/BestofRedditorUpdates - My ex-girlfriend might have lied to me about our baby not being mine.
r/BestofRedditorUpdates - Am I wrong for making my son take a paternity test?
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Theory for the rose story. It said in the begining that they both agreed they weren't ready for kids, and if pregnancy happened, they would terminate it. I think when it happened, she had a change of heart and wanted to keep it and didn't want to risk having OP try to get her to terminate the pregnancy. So she made up a lie that would cause them To break up so she wouldn't have to face that possible scenario. Was it the right thing to do? Probably not. But a young, scared, soon to be mother did what she thought was best for her unborn child.
That’s exactly the same thing I thought!
That's still cowardly. If he wanted her to terminate, she can tell him that she's not going to and just break up with him then. That at least would have been a clean break.
Was thinking the same.
That’s what I thought. I honestly don’t think she was being shelfish or cowardly. She was young and did what she thought was best with the info. she had at the time.
This is exactly the thought I had as well.
She was probably scared he would pressure her into terminating.
Should of told him, but fresh outta time machines.
So here's a perspective of someone involved in a similar situation. My mother was 18 when she got pregnant with my older half brother. The father was a senior in high school and she had dropped out a year earlier. She didn't want to "ruin" his life with a baby, so she just ghosted him. That is all of the information that she has ever given to anyone about his father. My brother went his entire life not knowing who his biological father was and it was a hole in him that he carried until he died. Rose is the AH, for depriving OP of his daughter and depriving the daughter of her biological father. If OP had been abusive or otherwise a threat, I could understand, but OP seems to be a perfectly upstanding person.
OP saved her 17 yr old soooo much heartache and madness. Great job mom. It’s a mine field raising these kiddos ❤
The fact Sam thought most women get 2000. a month for child support is hilarious 🤣😂
Exactly my bf child support for maryland usa is 150 every 2 weeks but hè over pays 300 every 2 weeks instead. People will over pay to stay ahead of child support people don't realize that especially when they don't take it straight out of your check.
Exactly! I got $317 a month when I was getting it. I wish it was $2000! 😅
My mom got $62 a month for me AND my sister.
My friend gets 1000 a mo for her kid. Father is a mechanic, so he is paid well- but not like 6 figures. She wAs getting 1000ish for 2 but he chose to take her back to court when the oldest turned 18.
Turns out inflation is factored in.
My birth mom used to get 300 a piece for me n my older sister
When my mom was raising my nephew, she once got a child support check for $0.01.
Once I got five in the mail all at once and they were each for $0.15.
Austin's mom did exactly what a parent is supposed to do. ❤
Especially since in some places, if he's under 18 his parents can be forced to pay child support in the father's place until he's of age so OP was possibly saving her own a**
The second story is sad because the son. He's obviously heart broken and that's why he lashed out at his Mom. Hope the girl's Dad apologized for how he reacted too. The girl is now dealing with the consequences of her actions and no amount of finger pointing will make her less at fault.
OP did the right thing. Especially with the history of cheating, it was necessary to take the test. If he didn’t do it, it could have literally ruined his life and had him on the hook financially for the next 18 years.
I couldn't stop laughing when Sam had his final thoughts on Austin from the last story. Same feelings 🤣😂❤️
Austin’s mom gave him life and saved his life! Well done mama!!
11:09
Rose deprived OP of any opportunity to decide for himself. That wasn't fair to him or his daughter. On the other hand, he might have given up everything to support his daughter and possibly blamed her at some point for not being able to realize his dreams.
Nevertheless, it should have been his decision. And he should have been aware that it would have been his decision. No matter which one he would have made. Normally, a child is always a blessing and rarely a disappointment, at least when it grows up in a loving environment, as it seems to be here. Rose clearly did it out of love. However, she also took the path of least resistance to avoid any confrontation. So the question is also whether she really only did it out of love for OP or also for herself. In any case, I don't think she had any malicious intent.
I call BS! Rose robbed OP of his choice. She couldn't possibly know if he would change his mind and not regret having a child. Instead she made selfish choices that will damage her daughter's relationship with her if she ever found out. What about his legal right to make decisions on how his daughter was raised? Lastly, she says she feels guilty but would she have ever come clean if OP's mom didn't find out at Rose's dad's funeral? I bet the only reason she reached out was to get ahead of any legal action OP might take regarding custody if he so chose.
Yes my thoughts exactly
He wanted her to get an abortion.
He made his choice tho. He was really clear that he didn't want a child and wanted her to abort. If she wasn't going to abort she did what she needed to keep herself and her baby safe. This is an absurd take. I would like to confirm as a child whose parent didn't want them until his new gf couldn't get pregnant years later. Fuck him
They agreed to terminate all pregnancies, but she didn't give him the option to change his mind just like she did when she found out that she was pregnant @@emilybear4832
She was protecting her child. She did the right thing at the time.
Literally screamed out, “Oh, shit!” at the Macy paternity results.
No, the parent is not wrong. Austin will get over it, but feels comfortable right now lashing out. It sucks.
And, seriously, people if you’re gonna cheat (I mean, please don’t, but if you’re GONNA), use protection!
Story 1: I think OP has every right to stay angry for a while. He's handling the situation quite well, but Rose deprived him and his daughter of SIX YEARS of bonding. She caused him to miss out on so much of Daisy's growing up: her first steps, her first words, first day of school...they can't recover that. It's good that they're doing therapy though, so that should help work through those emotions. But I won't blame OP for holding onto some anger/resentment for a while. Rose made a decision that was not hers to make.
Story 2: Am I the only one who was fully expecting Macy to be Austin's half sister? Like OP just didn't recognize him at all and it turns out he was Austin's bio father?
The fact that they are considering therapy as a unit shows how mature and willing they are to give their little girl the best life 🩵
You're not the only one 😅 I did too "oh shot they're brother and sister"🫣🫣🫣
There’s no excuse for not telling him he had a kid. If he didn’t want to be in her life that’s up to him to choose.
Yes. Just like it was her choice to keep the baby, he should've had the choice to be in the baby's life aswell.
No, it wasn't his choice. Legally, he had an obligation to the child. It doesn't look like the mother was going to pursue that, but in reality, men are not given the choice to bail. I think that as long as we keep abortion as an option, men should be given the option to not support or have contact with the child. It's not right to extend the choice for one party and not the other. Or, better yet, we all agree that the choice was made when you chose to engage in activities that could result in a child and leave it at that.
@@Karamarika It absolutely is fair.... fetuses are literally parasites. It's a woman's choice if she aborts or not, but it is not a man's choice to support the child he made. If it was men's bodies being leeched on, abortion would be legal with no questions.
You guys need to upload more videos per day, i have already consumed all your content! And now i have to wait everyday until you guys upload your new video 😭😭😭😭
If I was a mother to a son, I would always suggest a DNA test .. sadly you just NEVER know
OP is NOT wrong for demanding a paternity test. Austin loves this girl and would have stayed with baby mama but in the future baby mama would end up cheating again....well we know that now as she cheated twice already!
It said in the beginning of the story that they agreed to get an abortion if she ever got preggo because they weren't ready. I think she lied because she didn't actually want to get an abortion.
In the final story...regardless of what the actual actions/decisions are...everyone in that story sounds so angry all the time. It definitely feels like everyone needed therapy, at the least.
Op wasn’t wrong get that dna test period
Yooo Sam and John back together!!!!🎉
2:52 It doesn't matter how long its been; the child deserves to know who their father is.
He’s back! Return of the King!
I experienced the first story of the daughter. My mom found out she was pregnant, so she asked what would you say if I got pregnant, and he said immediately abortion. Mom ghosted him till I was because of medical issues I was having. Mom was married and pregnant. At 7, I found out who he was. I asked to meet him, and he told her not to tell me about him and not contact him. At 14, I reached out. Mom was separated, he wanted to talk to my mom; they got back together, I have 2 sisters, 13 and 8 at the time. They are still together today, 33 yrs. His family wasn't told about me till I 17. I got very close to my grandmother and she passed only a couple of years later. So we have a strained relationship still. This is a very simplified version. Lol
Most of the time child support goes off of what the fathers income is and is roughly between 200 to 500 per child a month if you have a normal job amd if you live on the higher end of the scale it can be a couple grand a month.
There is also back support. So if a parent is pursuing child support from the other parent for insurance purposes or for whatever reason. If there is no proof of any financial involvement in the previous time since the child's birth or proof of reason why there shouldn't be back child support. like texts about cash to buy baby things or receipts for baby items, childcare, utility bills for the child purchase by the other parents.
They would have to pay all those years of child support. If they do not agree to pay the lump sum of missed child support they can spend up to 6 months of jail time. And will keep going back to jail for each missed payment reported.
My cousin had to pay her ex boyfriend child support when they broke up. She was poor, had the child majority of the time, was going to school and worked just enough hours to qualify for free daycare, while he was broke and only occasionally worked. She has to give him a couple hundred each month. Ironically, it ended up saving her money because he spent more of "their" money partying than she was required to provide in child support 😂
I think it’s absolutely amazing that they are being mature and considering therapy together so that they can successfully coparent “Daisy”. That little girl is going to have such a beautiful well rounded life 🥰
Saaaaam so glad your back it’s just not the same without you, no offense John we love you too 😁
Edit: story 1- I don’t agree with what Rose did. She should’ve told him regardless of what. She literally robbed him of 6 years of her life. Yeah she was raised well but still she should’ve told him and let him.
Story 2- Sam say that ish SAY THAT ISH lol👏🏾👏🏾. I’m glad at least one adult had their head on straight. That little girl was about to commit paternity fraud with the help of her father and his best friend. Ridiculous Mark was all I thought she was better than that even though she was already caught cheating once. Showing that she in fact was not better than that. The fact that he took her cheating self back was his first mistake I hope he learned from this. The best friend being the father is no surprise to me. I knew it would be someone close to them. In the end I hope that young man don’t develop and disdain for dating (if he did I wouldn’t blame him.) I wish him the best moving forward.
In any child support case they will do a DNA testing of their own…
😂😂😂 love the sweary rant, go Sam!
I don't think rose did the right thing
OP said he didn't want kids; Rose merely took him at his word and chose to move on.
ROSE said she didn’t want kids. If she actually wanted kids she should’ve said that and allowed the relationship to take its natural course. It’s giving manipulation tactics😒
“Was that a cash money move?” 😂😂😂😂 I’m dead
Op was NOT wrong for making the kid take a paternity test... We know that Macy is "a cheating little girl" so she had every right to protect her son from that! DOWN WITH CHEATERS AND LIARS BOOOO
WOW I'VE NEVER BEEN THIS EARLY EITHER
🎉
That was actually my game plan once. Before I lost my baby, I was in a very abusive relationship with the father. He beat me a while I was pregnant with his kid. I told myself that I was just going to run away and tell him that I cheated. And it wasn't ever his baby in the first place.
the persona soundtrack kills me🤣
The first couple sentences with Rose and OP, stated that they had discussed abortion if they needed to before she was pregnant. She was probably scared and didn’t want to lose the baby and left.
Why yes Sam, there is in fact a camera that goes up your pee hole 😂
It’s called a cystoscope
One thing that wasn't addressed is the fact that when she got pregnant as far as Rose knew was that op had said abortion was the only option if she got pregnant. I have first hand witnessed too many times where men have forced their gf/wives through manipulation and violence into terminating a pregnancy. It happens alot more than people realize. And a common thing that is almost always said is 'he never acted that way before ' too many men think that when a woman gets pregnant it's to baby trap him. While that has happened in the past to people. Men tend to think it's the majority of all pregnancies
Yeah, I think the whole "follow your dreams" thing was bs. Ir was very obvious that she was afraid of an abortion, but I do think she should have told him even if he didn't want to be a father
22:30 Im really glad Sam said it how it is because I was thinking the exact same thing lmao
Just an fyi, when looking up child support statistics, don't just look up the payment. You'll get inaccurate info. Look up what the average monthly payment is, what the average actually paid is, and the national backlog of payments. You really see what actually happens.
Tell you up when I got pregnant(18 in highschool) with my oldest. I gave the dad all the information and told him he could stay or he could leave if he left. He didn't have to pay child support and I didn't have anything no strings attached. I wasn't gonna come back to his house. He wouldn't have been on the birth cirtificate or anything. Regardless of what happened after the fact I gave him a choice just like every girl who gets pregnant dose.
Rose doesn’t have the right to remove OP’s agency; regardless of her motives.
As a mom of a boy I would 100%. Make my son's CHEATING girlfriend take a test. Depending on age and length of their relationship, I'd probably ask they take one regardless
Eh, Austin's at that age where he thinks his special someone is going to be his happily ever after. He'll meet others.
This is exactly why when I get pregnant and have a baby with my fiancée- I’m getting a paternity test even though I know that i haven’t been with anyone but him and that I’d never cheat, and that he knows that as well and trusts me. It should be mandatory and normalized tbh
Rose was wrong for not telling OP he was the father, even if she had not wanted t o stay with him (unless he was abusive or something but it doesn't sound that way to me). She has taken away his chance to decide for himself, his chance to get to know the baby and be involved and possibly has left him with the feeling that he can not trust women as she said she had an affair behind his back, which can have influenced his future relationships. If she did not want to stay with him, she could just have told him so. I wonder what she told her parents. Did she lie and say he broke up with her because he did not want a child?
another great video as always
I want one with both of you plus Riley and Sophia
You talkin bout ya gun or ya JOHNson
Dealers choice.
Child support in indiana on minimum wage is about $56 a week....
Yes there is a camera that can go up your urethra. I is often used when a person has a kidney stone.
A person is under anesthesia when the stone is taken out. Then they put a stent in which needs to be removed. The camera is used again and you are allowed to watch.
Not comfortable. Would not recommend.
Welcome back Sam
I've never been this early
on the Child Support issue. Paternity has to be established before Child Support can be enforced. That will require altering the child's birth certificate to add the father to it. And then visitation would be mandated.
Ha. I only got $200 a month in child support. And rarely got it on time. I banked it and gave to my kid for college.
FYI, As the law is in the USA at the moment, If you assume you are the father (or not) and sign the birth certificate you are responsible for child support regardless of the actual paternity of the child. So...DNA tests when there is any question of paternity is an extremely good idea. The mother was 100% correct on this.
OP wanted to terminate any pregnancy they had when they talked about children. OP didn't want any children. Rose knowing this wanted to protect her baby and not be pressured into terminating the pregnancy. She waited 4 months to tell him. She had to get her exit plan in place before she told him. It's easy for OP to say years later he would have supported her. I don't think he would have years ago just by their conversations about children. Rose did what she had to do to save her baby. She obviously didn't take him to court. She just raised her child on her own. According to OP the child was in fact raised in a good environment.
Save her baby? I didn't know that simply telling and him not accepting would hurt baby in any way? Like there is no law to terminator bc partner dosen't want have baby....
If there is pressure and you don't agree you leave (of course we talk about normal, general situation, not abuse relationship or toxic one).
She alredy made choice to have baby. Like she could tell and see how situation would play and if he didn't want child she still could go live her live, have her child and start new family, like it become later but with clear situation...
Especially if she was ready to leave, had place and things prepared after break up, she could simply say that she is pregnet and she wants this child and she saying him only bc he is father but she don't care about what he things bc her mind is made and not to do things bc "you have to take responsibility", give him clear out and say it is fine if he choose it.
A only 'understand' her decision from place that she thought that they would stay in realationship and she knew he wasen't ready for child and didn't want one at that time and she didn't see how it would work with them and she was scared it would, with time, become realationship that there is there only bc there is child.... Bc I can see him "taking responsibility" if he loved his girlfriend like it was said, with how much trauma it give him, to simply be with her, plus baby after few months...so yeah this is like my only way of thinking to understanding her, she knew he would do what's right and she thought that that was right then wasen't what he really wanted, so that is where her reasoning comes in with "didn't want him to give up on his plans".
But I think she still could tell him to at least after some time, year or so, not six years and only bc funeral, she said she planed to come clean someday, what if it would be when kid was 16 or 18 or bc girl started asking about her look, etc...
They talked about children and then she changed her mind but it dosen't mean that there is need to cut him off before even talking. That's what I think hmm ...
The Rose story: Six years is a long time. Everyone in this situation did what they thought was best *at the time* and now, they have realized that mistakes were made and there are plans for fixing that for the future. So, all that said, here's why OP is totally the asshole: he's playing the victim and wants everyone to recognize his growth, but still wants everyone on his side, STILL BLAMING HER *instead* of recognizing everyone grew and celebrating how now he gets a relationship with his child.
The only person who had a choice about anything 'at the time' was Rose. OP wasn't given a choice at all. OP is the victim, Rose deserves blame for doing something wrong. Rose doesn't get a pass because she decided she needed to come clean only because OP's mom saw the daughter and obviously knew she'd lied about it.
I would never trust a mom to be a good mom, if they already decided lying about cheating is somehow a logical decision/reasonable answer. I hope OP watches over his daughter closely because that mom sounds like she would lie to make her daughter act/do the things she wants
2cd case…if child support is in play, nobody had a choice on the matter anyways cuz the courts are gonna want to know who lol Austin’s parents sure as hell wouldn’t of wanted him to just blindly sign a birth certificate ( thankfully ) and be legally tied to a child that isn’t his
True she did him dirty by not telling him. But then he also wouldn't be as successful as he is now. Take it from me who has a dad who has 11 kids taking care of a child even when you're paying child support is so expensive.
She caused unnecessary trauma that he had to pay money to get help to heal from. The fact that it changed his behavior in his relationships for nothing is the lowest a partner can do for another no matter what the reasons were. She does not even acknowledge that he has missed so many firsts and she still controls the dynamics within the relationship between him and his daughter.
Wanted to also say, Hey Sam! Good to see ya back around 😁
Bro vibes are back on
I only get 350 a month in child support, and most of the time, my ex doesn't even pay that.
I know this is off topic but Sam where did you get your hoodie?
Sam I just learned the other day Sophia wasn't your girlfriend. I was very confused and concerned you were doing some Alabama shit when you mentioned your parents as our parents. I was like damn bro you're your own reddit story
Hii sam welcome back ✨
Sam is back
Welcome back Sam.
I think Rose did the right thing, but OP has every right to be angry.
Sooo…Rose just made the decision FOR OP😒😒
So sad he missed out on his kids life. Ok they agreed on abortion but she took away from the dad and child. That’s not ok. She lied and it hurt a lot of people and should be held responsible
Story 1. I call BS. Nobody gets out of their way to struggle and go through difficulties with a baby so the guy can live the high life.
Either that or its a lie and she was afraid that he would force her into an abortion. The beginning talks about how that was their plan if she did get pregnant.
Title typo?
Umm this is a really 10:47 crazy story... I understand rose
I called the number 🫣
His friend did him a favor. Now he can live his life and hopefully learn from this. Their daughter isn’t making good decisions. Austin have a great life and wear a condom
You can't act like god towards other's life, regardless of what might happen both of them must have the full context and be able to decide what happens else that lie no matter how you twist your version or intention is just coming from your own selfish reasons no matter how much you make it like its the best for the other person.
You don't know what's best, stop thinking highly of yourself that you can know bwtter than what both of you can decide..
There is probably more reason but she can't admit it or else both his current family and OP will have more complicated problems relationally
Waw I'm so early 😂
Story 2 not the ahole. I think a paternity test should be mandatory for all births. I’m a woman mother of 3. I’ve seen to many cases women lie.
First
She did it to save her babies life because he was a loser that would have pressured her into aborting…
First one!
It would be interesting to see what's going on in there with a camera! 😅Sam's haircut is looking sharp ❤
Rose was 100% in the wrong. It's his kid he has every right to make up his own mind on what he wants to do with HIS own child...... I hate women who think they deserve to be the only ones to know the truth.... it gives my whole sex a bad wrap... also to the people talking about the abortion talk it's not like op could force her into a clinic, she could have told him and still left while keeping the baby.