ITS NEVER YOUR FAULT. BEING SEXUALLY ASSAULTED IS NEVER YOUR FAULT. IT IS 100% THE SUSPECTS FAULT.AND IT MAKES ME SICK THAT YOU FEEL THAT YOU COULDNT SO ANYTHING ABOUT IT. YOU HAVE THE POWER TO COMPLETELY THROW HIS LIFE AWAY. SEXUAL ASSAULT IS SEXUAL ASSAULT. ITS NEVER OK
This is why JYP banned their idols to clubs that has female servers or whatnot. He said himself it's to protecc those females. I'm like yep he knows what's happening.
guys the reason she couldn’t say his name is because defamation is taken very seriously in korea, she could get badly sued and/or hated/stalked/hurt by a bunch of this famous dude’s fans.
ana ana That’s what it would seem. Look at these BTS “stans”, painting an idealized image that members are faultless without knowing them personally. Nobody should put a human on a pedestal like that.
This quote does not mean that all celebrities are criminals but rather celebrities have also abused their power in legal ways. For example: Asking a restaurant "I'm [insert celebrity name here], do you have a seat for me?" The quote originated from this video btw: ruclips.net/video/uO9AXxjqqWc/видео.html
Im army but im pretty disappointed in the army people who commented stuff like "omg thank god bts isn't like this" like bro that isn't even what this video is about I rlly hope that guy gets caught tho ✊😔
At this point, it is almost expected for Army to insert themselves into the comment section of any videos,even the ones that don't involve the group. No need to be disappointed. Some of you need to express themselves even if the context is irrelevant to BTS. 😉
I stan BTS. But, if one of BTS member did that, you delulu fans need to accept it. Don't say "this is just a rumor" "He will never do that". And if one of the member did that I will automatically unstan him.
This is why I kind of stopped associating myself with any fandom. I just like to support the artists. Some people in the fandom are really too much that it kind of brings down the whole fandom with them.
i lovetaetae It wasn't for "no reason". People are people and they're capable of doing anything. That includes BTS. Don't be so naive because you stan them.
Af Tech lol surely you didn't just say that right ? you think it's her fault? You're part of the problem. A person who is abused doesn't choose to get abused
@Fernando Soares wtf, YOU'RE the stupid ignorant one here.Testosterone is NOT an excuse for such behavior and when people are put in a vulnerable situation like her what is she supposed to do?? She doesnt know if he could harm her if she tries to do anything.And also when you're put in a situation like that, you're just in shock you cant do anything your frozen and so many things are running through your mind that you cant act quickly and its the case for many people who experience sexual assault.So dont you dare use testosterone as an excuse because with that logic ANY young male can sexually assault any girl and brush it off by simply using testosterone as an excuse.God people like you disgust me.
"-we've been maybe brainwashed to think if it's not rape, everything else is okay; where everything else is acceptable, like just keep it quiet just let it go. Atleast you weren't physically harmed." Gurlllll you spilled the tea.
Jonah F yup. Look at the korean dramas that have the main lead stalk the girl. Or the Netflix show “You”. We think it’s cute because he’s cute but it’s not so cute anymore when we want them to stop.
Levi Loves erwin yeah, exactly. And he tries to justify his stalking and murders by saying that it’s because he loves her. Even thought it’s truly wrong of him to do that.
When I was about 8 years old, there's a male teacher at my school. He always touch me. I didn't know it was a sexual harrasment because he was so nice to me and I thought that he just love me since I was his student. But come to think of it now, I realized that he was actually sexual harassing me and give me good grades and presents all the time to prevent me from knowing his real intentions. I didn't talk about to anyone cause I was ashamed with it I don't think that anyone might took it seriously
Im sorry you had to go through that and hope you’re feeling better Also, I highly suggest you report this scummy teacher and tell someone you trust, because there’s no need to be ashamed for something that wasn’t your fault.
I experienced the same things like he gave me lots of money and thing that I like (he started doing this when I was about 7). The thing is, he's close to my parents so he still visits me sometimes and trying to touch me (but of course I avoided him) I'm ashamed with it and I don't think anyone would take it seriously too. I'm glad I moved out of my parents house and he didn't know my address.
All people freeze, it is a natural brain response to traumatic situations it is not only something children do. Never feel ashamed or weak because you froze, it is a natural response. Your body is overwhelmed and going into fight or flight mode.
true. i remember giving out leaflets as a part time job about 2 yrs ago. i remember one day i gave one to some middle-aged man. he started complimenting me on how pretty i was. i just thanked him. however, he'd keep talking to me. i really tried to stay polite as i'm usually shy & not rude with people. i can remember he once just grabbed my hand and i guess my brain froze or something because until i could remember he kissed my hand. i remember washing my hand thoroughly after. i really felt so ashamed because i left myself to be violated like that. really haven't told anyone. also i remember that creep was like: "i'm looking for a girlfriend so we can kiss & cuddle." like, who says that to a girl who can be his granddaughter?
@@xStrawberryxStudiosx I'm so sorry that happened to you Min Ji! What a creep! I have had many experiences just like this in my life and I always feel so ashamed afterward. How I should have yelled or screamed or fought back. The words I should have screamed at them replay in my mind over and over again. But it is not your fault, he shouldn't have taken advantage of you like that. His actions do not reflect on you. It doesn't mean you are weak or stupid. He took advantage of someone he knew was in a vulnerable situation. Don't allow that man to steal your confidence or happiness, don't give him that satisfaction. Thank you for opening up and sharing your experience. You are not alone. Many of us have gone through the same thing. We need to support each other. The world needs more kind and considerate people like you. Sending you love and courage! 💕
janoskilm how about she make a video mentioning which Kpop boy group she likes and she doesn’t without giving necessary reasons which might help us find him
tonic immunity, I have that kind of experience when I got sexually harassed at age 10. turned out that is very common happens to all traumatic experiences.
When you said "this is probably the only time people will take this story seriously" is honestly so true and sad. If you talked about this any other time people might think you were making it up to get attention. But since there's a huge scandal revealing the truth about the sexual harassment and abuse of women in Korea, people will probably be more likely to believe it.
@Aer /// no of course not, but she may not like a lot of other groups, for other reasons. So if I don't like Hyuna that doesn't mean that she has done anything towards me? Of course i love Hyuna. It was just an example
For the people that saying that it's women's fault that they get harrassed, tell the same thing to your wife. Or tell that to your daughter when she runs to your room crying because a man harrassed her, tell her that it's her fault and she was asking for it. Go ahead, I dare you.
Even if a man is drunk, that is still criminal predatory behaviour. An EVEN if that guy is your boyfriend and you don't feel commfortable about what he is doing to your body, you have every right to say no and defend yourself... Just FYI to all women.
@骑士黑暗 What the f*** is wrong with you??? If a lady is drunk, drugged or whatever, and she doesn't want to have sex, she doesn't want to be touched by you, get your hands off her! IT IS RAPE!
@@wingedbunny6211 Actually, you don't even have to say "no". If a woman says "I don't feel like it" or "leave me alone", or "not tonight", if a man proceeds further and thinks he can "persuade" her, this act is called soft rape. A woman doesn't need to say anything at all. If she pushes the guy away, it is a NO. Finally, some women are so drugged or drunk, that they don't know what's going on - the man should not proceed further, no matter what.
骑士黑暗 yes it is! Becauce She still hasnt given her consent! When you have drunk you are not concious! Do not touch a woman if She is drunk! Do not ever touch a woman without her consent! Asshole
WingedBunny why the person are not vocal about it! Is becauce that person might be shocked and are being traumatised in that exackt moment! DO NOT JUST RANDOMLY TOUCH A WOMANS BODY! We are not your damn play things!
*This makes me scared for all the girls in the kpop industry...* (Edit : This goes for the **everyone in younger generations too. I'm sorry if that sounded sexist; I initially only commented about girls because the issue was about how it's happened to girls in the industry, but I now realize anyone can go through similar situations regardless of gender. Please forgive my insensitivity.)
Damn K-pop girl groups and boy groups have the same Hotel when they're going to award shows... imagine some of the idols being harrast shi- My imagination is wide LoL
Taeyeon from Girls Generation revealed on Strong Heart (a tv show) about how this one male celebrity would always try to contact her and be all weird to her and would call her when he’s drunk. I forgot the full story but I’m sure you can find it on RUclips
Just because girls wear short skirts and opened cleaveges doesnt mean "oh she really wants this" and it doesnt give men the right to do these vile disgusting things without consent, its gross to even think about a woman getting sexually abused right now meanwhile we're watching this video. I hope whoever these people are to go to hell cause fame/money/power doesnt include consent. it doesnt mean you can do whatever you want cause you have those traits to your name.
Technically, girls who wears like this do wants to be appreciated of their beauty. Because it is sexy. You think you wear like that (nicely) and hopefully no one would notice? I'm saying you can wear whatever you want but also understand that ppl do get attracted to you. And that one sided attraction sometimes means that, they want to have you. It do not matter if you approve or not (in fact they wouldn't know unless they try right?). And once they set their eyes on you, they will try. if they are lucky they will get you. If not lets move on to another hot girl who is willing. This is a context of sexual harassment not rape.
Nurimah Rasidz just because someone wears something proactive and your attracted to it doesn’t mean you have to physically assault them ._. And some girls just wear “sexy” clothes because they like how they look, but because they wanna show off or anything like that. No one deserves to be sexually harassed or raped just because the other person can’t control their attraction. If you were really that attracted to someone, I would think that you would try to talk to them not exploit their bodies
So there's more Seungris and Jung Joon Youngs. Great, just what we didn't need. I hope they all get found out one day, we need smart knets to find out.
I remember the story Taeyeon told 10 years ago on the show Strong Heart about a respected senior who was much older than her and began continuously contacting her. Here’s part of her story - *He would send me texts like, 'Let's meet sometime' and 'I'll buy you some ice cream,' almost like a child abductor... What was most upsetting, though, was the time when he called me in the middle of the night while he was drunk. He said he knew a lot about my private life by talking to the people around me. Hearing this, I grew really angry. I asked him, "Why are you being like this? There is no need for us to keep in contact any longer" and quickly hung up the phone. He replied a few weeks later with a text message that read, "If you plan on continuing your life as a celebrity, do you really think you can cut ties with me, just like that?"* -Taeyeon
Oh damn I remember her saying that! It honestly creeped me out. I’m glad Taeyeon is ok now though, but remember when she was almost kidnapped while she was performing on stage?
You got THE POINT honey.. this is difference, cause she encourage herself and she decides to tel this showing her face, her identity. She has my respect!
@Fernando Soares Wtf are u talking about? We live in 2019, if a woman wants to go out and have fun with her friends, then she does it, she wasn't and will never be forced or fucking "available" you are disgusting! Bet you're a Muslim or live in those places, where women are still not free.
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I've been sexually harassed before when I was younger and I never told anyone about it until recently. What happened to us and other victims is not our fault. The person is just sick in the head and think that they can do whatever they want and not get in trouble
@@sweetsugarhoneycandy5458 it happened on a few occasions so I was 15 and 17 and the guys were 18 and 44. Then it happened again when I was 23. Those incidences made me have a fear of men and I don't really date because of it. If a guy that I didn't know touched me, I would flinch
@@wndychng I just turned 29 on February 18th and I'm still insecure. I tried to go on a date with a guy and he went to put his arm around my shoulder and I flinched
For those who are asking who the idol that did that to her : stop asking her to reveal his name. She doesn’t want to reveal his name . She may be doing that because she want to protect herself and plus sexual assault are traumatizing . I was sexually assaulted and I couldn’t reveal his name because I was scared for my safety and It hurts to talk about it ( even today ) . Asking her to reveal the name may retraumatize her so please respect her wishes . Grace - thank you for sharing your story . I know that wasn’t easy for you . You have my support , girl . ❤️
So for the cause of “protecting herself” and “image” she rather sacrifice all of those women who worked besides this “idol”? What? And how is she protecting herself? She literally just made a video about being harass, normally people would blur their face out or not want to be known when they want to protect their image since that’s literally the whole point of it.
@@shad-o9703 South Korean Defamation laws are such that the truth is not a protection from Criminal Defamation. If she names the individual publicly, she can charged with *criminal* defamation which carries penalties of fines and jailtime.
fluffy death well yea, but the whole point is that, what’s the point of talking bout this in general? Is it because of the me too movement? I’m not saying she’s just making up stories as well as she has no valid proof of any of this what so ever, but how can u believe something that there’s no proof to go by? She could be a no body making up the story so she can get attention through the Seungri incident that was trending when she posted this video. It seems like more of a clout than anything.
@@tryne_71 not only armys but there might be other crazy fangirls too I'm an army but if it was actually CONFIRMED that any of my favs did this i'd honestly never look at them the same and I would lose my respect for them but only if it was confirmed that they actually harassed someone with solid proof
SOME FANGIRLS THINK THAT THEY'RE IDOLS ARE BEST , THEY ARE CUTE , THEY RESPECT GIRLS ETC. ETC. BUT DO YOU KNOW THEM PERSONALLY?? DO YOU KNOW ABT THEIR PAST LIFE?? DO YOU KNOW THEIR BEHAVIOUR PERSONALLY?? IF YOU'LL SAY YES BY SSEING THROUGH PHONE ,CONCERTS AND FANSIGNS THEN YOU'RE VERY WRONG COZ EVERYONE PRETEND TO BE AS GOOD AS POSSIBLE IN FRONT OF CAMERA. SO IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT THEY ALL ARE GOOD IN REAL LIFE. IMAGINARY WORLD IS VERY DIFFERENT FROM REAL WORLD . YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND THIS ......🙃
*Let's all just take a moment and appreciate the girl to actually bring up this issue and talk about her personal experience, cause seriously it's difficult to do so* . . Edit: I am really glad so many people agree 💜
It is indeed very difficult. I had an experience too. I've only told one person, my sister in law, years after. I was even trembling, stuttering, trying so hard to hold my tears when I was telling my story.
@@Rosie-ii7jy That's really sad but more outraging. If ever someone tries to misbehave again be sure to break his balls. And do not fear or hide it. You can open up and speak up. We are with you. Be well and safe and happy 💛
"famous male idol" i feel terrified cuz idk if i actually know "A" and love him😶 but Grace, youre a wonderful and honest person. if i found out that "A" is the idol im stanning, i will instantly drop him edit: Came back cuz of notifications. Sorry for causing people to argue in the replies.
@@janetlim6303 they think theyre so powerful that they can break the law and their fans will stand up for them....Some fans even leave messages of support under seungri's posts...
I'm really disgusted at people trying to guess who this person is and being like "oh it can't be my idol" and I'm like why don't you just try to get the idea that whoever it is this is wrong.
I had to share my own sexual assault story because there were grown ass women protecting Seungri. I'm 17. People have to understand that as a women the most important thing for us, for the gender is supporting each other because WE ALL KNOW we have it hard.
@@dc9067 my english teacher claimed that he didnt agree with the Canadian prime minister bringin his children up as feminists, bc men cant be feminist. This is just.. Sad. Its maybe bc men think feminism means hating men when its not it. As Cher said "i dont hate men, i think men are the coolest. I just think men is not a necessity." Andy Murray is an open feminist and he does it damn right.
I'm an army but I agree with you this video is not abt bts so why bring them up, like for example this video is not abt ariana grande but do you see her fans bringing up ariana in every video? No, so why should they always bring bts up? It's quite boring and irritating but at least not all armies do that
@@lol-rk1qg well like I m a multistan and most of the times many army's bring BTS in good or bad things or videos even tho it's nothing related to them....I m an army too Nd I really find it annoying..Ilike isn't it normal to have fandom in a particular video? Everyone is some kind of a fan but they don't bring their faves up right? People should normalize having a particular or any type of fandom in the comments section
IT IS NEVER THE VICTIMS FAULT! THE BLAME IS ALWAYS 100% ON THE PERPETRATOR! DON'T EVER LET ANYONE TELL YOU OTHERWISE. IF SOMEONE IS TRYING TO MAKE YOU FEEL THAT WAY THEY ARE GASLIGHTING YOU. VERBAL AND EMOTIONAL MANIPULATION IS ABUSE TOO NOT ALL SCARS ARE PHYSICAL.
@@ReptilianTeaDrinker *DOUBLE STANDARD* : If your daughter joined a gang cult, is she in the wrong? *Yes* If your daughter joined a gang cult and she was molested, is she in the wrong? *No* (P.s: the gang members in both situations are in the wrong)
This whole kpop world is all fun and games until reality hits u like a truck. Remember fam nothing's perfect, and all of this is just the immerged part if the Iceberg.
Irene's a very beautiful lady. She's the ideal idol face in South Korean. I can guarantee this has happened many times to her, which is wrong. This has to be one reason why she stays away from them.
She could get sued for defamation if she does not have enough evidence to prouve that he " really " did that to her, contrary to some countries a victim's testimony does not have much weight when taking legal actions in SK in this type of situations
That could ruin her, especially if it goes his way, and especially if hes really popular in Korea, people will judge her and bash her for saying something bad about their idol, not only will he be caught in a scandal, but she also, if she publicly announces it. But if she takes it straight to the law and it doesnt get out that shes the one who told then she should be fine. Theres a high risk in this situation though. It would be good for her to tell and ruin his career though, people like that dont deserve people to idolize them.
If the dude is as powerful and famous as she made him to be, he could probs reach out to his connections and file and win a defamation case against her
@@AngelStarHealer The girl dropped the case herself since it was actually an accident and not intentional. Onew himself asked to go every check and through interrogation and so he wasn't at fault at all. She actually wanted to drop the case after she met him because she found him very good but he insisted to get checked. And got cleared. So yes please don't say that without knowing entirely abt the issue.
I was sexually harassed so many times when I was younger that I learned 3 things: 1.It is never the victim's fault, even if there are people who want to say otherwise ... 2.There is no justification for someone to cross the line with you, not even alcohol... 3.Unfortunately as women we are always exposed to the worst, for that reason you have to be a little suspicious no one shows their true colors at first sight, we have to support each other... every time I hear a story like that it makes me very angry to know that these things keep happening... Sometimes exposing these sick bastards is the only way to protect the other girls... I send you all my love and support ❤
@@ansel8 Yeah true but the fact is that it's mostly women who are treated like this. It really sucks. Society really needs a change, this is NOT okay and people need to realize that.
Very brave of you to speak of such topics. We need to stand up for each other and let situations like this be known. Touching someone without their consent is not allowed. Especially invading their personal space.
Preach! I remember two years ago I was traveling with a bus. This guy was seating next to me. I was next to the window, so he started to come closer and closer. I didn't talk to him, I didn't even look at him. I just moved away again and again and after a few moves I realized I had no more space. I turned my head towards him (I was looking outside the window the whole time) and said "Could you please move? I don't have any space.". He just smiled and moved away and I thought "Thank God! That was creepy af". And then he started talking to me: where I am traveling to, do I want to drink coffee with him. I said no, I have a boyfriend, I'm not interested. And then he touched my knee and said "Oh, come on, it's just a coffee. And so what if you have a boyfriend? Just give me your number and we will go out without him knowing". I freaked out, didn't know what to do. I was angry, uncomfortable and confused at the same time. I told him to get his hand off of my knee, he continued to smile and asked me "Why? Is that a problem for you?". I said "Yes. Get your hand off of my knee". My whole body was shaking, I didn't know what to do if he refused. Gladly, he left me alone and didn't bother me again and I just moved to another seat. I know it's just a knee. But it was such a stressing experience. So when a woman is telling such a story, it doesn't matter if the man touched her knee, her shoulder, her butt, etc. He's doing it without her consent. And that's totally not cool. P.S. - Sorry for the mistakes, English is not my first language.
@@crazyabout1327 Yes, that is right . No matter which body part if i didn't give you permission you have no right to touch me. Thank god he left you alone.
@@Little_baby_99 Yes, true. I think people should be more aware that asking for consent is very important. It doesn't matter if the consent is asked for touching, kissing or having sex. Just ask. And stay away if consent is not given.
girl throw some names. They NEED To be exposed.This BS needs to stop. The kpop insustry needs to be shedded light on because it's a really dark place.The fans think of idols as angels.That meeds to stop.
My brother has a girl best friend. Her name was Rachel And one day I was walking with her. And then we stopped at a restaurant We we're standing in a line when a old man suddenly put his hands on Rachel's waist and said "Hey sexy whats up?" And Rachel said "The ceiling." Then she pushed him😂
She's literally just like me...😂🤣 My friends are too innocent.... Random guy: hey pretty girls...* Touching my friend's hair and stuff My friends:* just ignoring the guys I was a little behind them..when I catched up with them The guys: look another pretty girl.. Me: * getting angry 💢 My friends were kinda know I'm like this so they backed off Me:* beating those jerks And then reported it to an adult Then....I scolded my friends Btw I'm the mom of the my friend group 😂
We are glad you shared with us. We would’ve believed you either way because they shouldn’t have done that to you. Don’t forget we are here for you bby 💕❤️ Edit: it’s never your fault
It's so unfair that she could get sued by saying the name of a man who assaulted her. That doesn't make any sense. He deserves to be punished for what he did.
Please never stop talking about harassment, sexual or not. Those who do that must be called out over and over. I admire your courage and the example you set for other women out there. Stay strong! Fighting!
@@edgarferrer5025 You are part of the problem, assuming victims are lying is in big part why they are affraid of coming out. Why would she lie? She didn't even name him. Just stop assuming everyone is deceptive on purpose.
When my friend introduced me to the kpop via Big Bang, I never liked Seungri....didn't know why but for some reason he irked me on a spiritual level.....
Same, but I kept my opinion to myself because I don't speak ill of someone without grounds for it but he has always creeped me out and I still believe that he has a hot temper behind closed doors. There still is no grounds for that but I really think he has an anger issue. I would stay far away from him due to my gut feeling even if this hadn't come out.
천땡땡 Even though that would be the best and right thing she can do , she can be sued. Let’s not press her with this because we all know is really hard for her. Maybe one day she will decide to do it but that’s only her decision.
she could get sued and get in a really big trouble if she exposes him just like that, she needs proofs. after all he's rich and famous and besides has his agency on his side. just casually exposing him would be a big mistake. i mean i'd partially like it because she can ruin his career very easy but still getting herself into a trouble for that... no.
@@youredoneyouredone3644 yeah they probably wouldn't. after all i don't think he'd do something like sexual harrasment knowing that she has an opportunity to expose him and ruin his shitty career.
Don't be afraid to speak out Grace! Yes, it's true that other girls have experienced more worse things than you, but that doesn't invalidate the harassment that you experienced yourself. Sexual harassment is harassment. You made a very good point that girls and women today have been normalised to think that these things aren't important, can be forgotten, when in fact it is just as important to speak up about experiences like these, to make other girls and women more aware that it is absolutely unacceptable. Some girls aren't even aware that certain actions are considered harassment. Good on you Grace, supporting you from the UK!
Seriously??? Like half of the BTS fans in the comments (not all) are saying thank god it's not them blah blah blah I just - Is that seriously all you're taking away from this video and not the real problem here?
Даня Таргарян but girls group is more dangerous, we never know they might be offering sex service (forcefully) to the higher ups from their company... omg i cant :(((
I feel so ashamed and sorry for people who saying glad it's not my idol. How do you know it's not urs, she never mentioned a name and your idol haven't just been called out yet.
It takes a lot for someone to be able to open up about such experience and I am honestly proud of you for sharing it. You made people aware of the acts of these disgusting people and help others who have been through something similar and its not an easy thing to do. Karma will bite these monsters hard one day
Some ARMY's saying shit like "ohhh thank god its not BTS". Like, WTAF ??? This girl was assaulted. Someone touched her. And that is not f*cking okay. I don't care what idol it was that assaulted her, he needs to keep his hands off her. Stop focussing on BTS, focus on her story! Regards, an ARMY
This Is not happening only in Korea or "Entertainment industry " but its happening in the whole entire World in all Different industries. *WOMEN* isn't just a Sexual THING. she has rights like Mens Too. Trust me.
Our experiences are valid. The same thing happened to me before (except with a normal guy, my neighbor). I was literally 10 years old at the time, he was 16 and we were also playing video games. I just remembered feeling confused as to why he was touching me and making me touch him. And I did ask what he was doing but he was just saying ''I'm teaching you to play sex'. Luckily he didnt get any further than touching me because his parents were still at home. I never ended up telling any of my family or friends about it, when I know I should have. I get so anxious around guys ever since that incident.
I'm sorry this happened to you! My best friend that I know only for a year, feels very uncomfortable when she stays near to boys alone so I'm always with her, even if it's just to make some questions to the teacher after class. She said that an old man touched her and tried to probably rape her but she thankfully got away. It's very sad that you will carrying it for your whole life. Those bastards, I feel rage when I think that such people exist, who would do such things. If you ever feel embarrassed about it, you know it wasn't your fault. If you are comfortable enough about it, talk to your closer people, they will surely understand you. Have a nice day and I hope you will be able to overcome it, if possible.
@@lenadesu2544 oh my gosh, what happened to your best friend is awful...I really hope she can find peace eventually, but you are right - these situations often leave a deep and permanent scar. I'm glad she has an aware friend like you though! I should reach out to my closest friends about this, maybe one day I will be confident enough to do so. Thank you so much for your kind words 💕
11:42 omg... when I was about 9 years old one of our teachers made us watch a movie or something, and we rearanged our chairs in a way that every student was sitting next to each other in a straight line. our teacher was sitting behind me, and at one point he grabbed my hair and smelled it saying it smells good. I just froze, it felt so weird
I had a teacher that always talked to me so weird like “omg u are so beautyful” “ why are u so pretty?” and stuff like that. Also he used to touch me inappropriately in my opinion, caressing my butt, thighs, waist. Also his look was always on my tits. To be real I felt so bad, I always cried. The people in my class saw everything but they never did nothing. One day he got fired bc he was discovered proposing sex to another girl of a higher grade than mine. I’m sorry for my poor English but yeah I feel you. It’s horrible.
@@nsqponerbno I feel so bad for you :( my male music teacher touched my thigh once and well he also used to stare at my chest area a lot. Idk if I was blind but his eyes were on my chest. For example when he wanted to ask me a question he wouldn't even look at my face, but my chest instead. It was so awkward. Well I hope this never happens again to you and if it does happen, don't be afraid to report him to the police.
I was listening to this and was like. "Kick him in the nuts!" Or.."Girl, go punch him!!!" "Smash a table on him or something...smack his face!" Then immediately realizes that I would probably have the same reaction that you had...Just wanna say Girl, you are brave. I'm so amazed by the fact that you actually said something and exposed a possibility that some girls that ARE naive and innocent today did not thought about. So thank you for being brave enough to say stuff like this. Love yah. And people in the comment sec. PLEASE DON'T BRING BTS INTO EVERYTHING. Just don't. Please. Thank you.
It is not your fault, it is NEVER your fault when a disgusting pig shows their colors. Honestly calling him a pig is an insult to pigs. Love you hun glad you shared.
It is never the victim's fault. NEVER!!! And when someone touches your private part, that is sexual harassment and it needs to get reported to the police. Once again if it feels wrong, it is wrong. Please take care of your self !!! ✌️
@@-sunny3619 stop saying this everywhere. if you don't like Zico, doesn't mean he's not good.. i don't even stan him, but what you're doing is wrong, so stfu and fuck off
@@cantdecideanultbias2923 its actually important to know,and first of all I do respect her decision of not revealing his name Second of all its bad because some of us are supporting him not knowing that he did some bad stuff
I was feeling so bad for her when she said that nobody will take it seriously. Dont worry...we made the internet for a reason. And it wasn't your fault...you were just trying to be friendly.
It's not Seungri. Lol....if it is she wouldn't be saying she stan BB. After it broke she also wouldn't say she is dissapointed because if it was Seungri then she already knew what kind of person he is.
I am so afraid that my Idol could be a criminal I don’t want to support those people That’s the reason why I can’t trust people anymore No one shows u their real self Even tho u think they are innocent They aren’t
But there are many idols that are kind and inocent. I can read people and i see if they are fishy or just good people. But actually you can't trust anybody, we all don't even know our own friends.
I am 13 and I was harassed twice already, but when I told my mother about it, she said some women just "ask for it" And that made me feel guilty, but now I realize it's NOT MY FAULT, and if you've passed through this, NO IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT, it's not our fault if some men and boys think it's ok to do something we have not allowed them to do. Also, people should stop saying we are somehow guilty because of our clothes
I'm so sorry that happened to you, and please don't ever, ever feel guilty for stuff like that. I still think it's so crazy how many people are able to blame that sort of behaviour on the victims..
Thank you for share your story. I have been sexually harasses by a close family member at a young age. He would try to get to be alone with me. Like touch and kiss me inappropriately. And was confused. But every time I saw him I hide or ran way. But I still happen more than twice. I try to speak up for a while but was scared, embarrassed and didn’t know how to word it in my second language. I later found he was sexual harassing my sister. I told my mother but she didn’t believe me. But my sister denies it.I think she never told because she knew they wouldn’t believe her. I truly sadness me. We need to speak up ladies. My heart goes out to to all the victims.
How could you not believe your child when they barely understand what is happening to them? I'm not going to saying anything bad about your parents, but I can't help my thoughts. I have a 5 year old, I'm paranoid about this kind of stuff because she's shy and timid. I don't make her hug or kiss anyone she doesn't want to regardless if my family or friends don't like it. I want her to understand that she has the right to not have her boundaries broken. I'll never understand how you could put another family member's feelings over your child's well-being.
nobodycares your mom is an idiot. Why wouldnt she trust her own child? I am a male & the guy is so dead if you are my children. My fist will do the talking first instead of my mouth.😡
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People should not comment: "I hope it's not my idol"
They should talk about: " we need to stop harassment"
thank you!! people are too quick and blind to defend people they've never even interacted with
At least a good comment
This comment is so underrated 😭😭
This is so important
yess say it louder
"Maybe it was my fault" - I swear to God, I wanted to jump through the screen and shake you! Absolutely not. NEVER.
I imagined that n that's kinda creepy 💀😂
yup me too!
@@JungkookBestBoy1 I love your profile pic
@@renukaaravind3573 Omg thank you so much!!😫☺💜💜💜💜
ITS NEVER YOUR FAULT. BEING SEXUALLY ASSAULTED IS NEVER YOUR FAULT. IT IS 100% THE SUSPECTS FAULT.AND IT MAKES ME SICK THAT YOU FEEL THAT YOU COULDNT SO ANYTHING ABOUT IT. YOU HAVE THE POWER TO COMPLETELY THROW HIS LIFE AWAY. SEXUAL ASSAULT IS SEXUAL ASSAULT. ITS NEVER OK
This is why JYP banned their idols to clubs that has female servers or whatnot. He said himself it's to protecc those females. I'm like yep he knows what's happening.
i love him sm
YG too well according to blackpink
Kpop Trash Since 2011 yea lol. But when bp was talking to jyp they told him about the no going to clubs and bars and no drinking policy
@@katherinelin480 I don't think he wants to protect them. It's rather that he doesn't want their image to be tainted...
Kpop Trash Since 2011 yea, YG doesn’t want them to get hurt so that they can perform and make the money money money
WE. DONT. KNOW. OUR. IDOLS.
YESSSS
PERFECT WORDS!!
Yup true
I'm scared
PERIODT
guys the reason she couldn’t say his name is because defamation is taken very seriously in korea, she could get badly sued and/or hated/stalked/hurt by a bunch of this famous dude’s fans.
mlo l feel sad for her female or girls especially innocent ones don’t deserve this l hope he’s not someone l Stan
Yean some fandoms are really defensive,possesive and obessed. They become blind and starts blaming the victim.
I thought that was out job... to erm try to erm erm u know... maybe, maybe in the very leastttt: sue/hate/stalk/hurt the guy who harrassed Grazy.
@ana ana you don't even know that girl dude?
Don't judge so quick.
ana ana That’s what it would seem. Look at these BTS “stans”, painting an idealized image that members are faultless without knowing them personally. Nobody should put a human on a pedestal like that.
“Am I supposed to slap him?”
No, you spray pepper spray into his eyes and hit him with a sandal-
Arissa Aliyya is pepper spray not illegal in Korea it’s illegal in the UK
@@prettytitty9681 It's a joke lmao
Also @Arissa Aliyya hit him with a chancala not a sandal-
And punch his eye out
Arissa Aliyya I see..A fellow Latina?
"Don't be surprised when a celebrity abuses their power, be surprised when they don't" - A Dose Of Buckley
Soru7 do you even understand what that quote is saying or are you just sprouting bullshit from that mouth of yours...🤡
eh you must understant it, you're gemeralizing
This quote does not mean that all celebrities are criminals but rather celebrities have also abused their power in legal ways. For example: Asking a restaurant "I'm [insert celebrity name here], do you have a seat for me?"
The quote originated from this video btw:
ruclips.net/video/uO9AXxjqqWc/видео.html
@Soru7 true
**cough cough** yeah James Charles **cough cough**
Im army but im pretty disappointed in the army people who commented stuff like "omg thank god bts isn't like this" like bro that isn't even what this video is about
I rlly hope that guy gets caught tho ✊😔
At this point, it is almost expected for Army to insert themselves into the comment section of any videos,even the ones that don't involve the group. No need to be disappointed. Some of you need to express themselves even if the context is irrelevant to BTS. 😉
some of them just love their oppar and dont even care about the whole video situation
Yes that's crt being army we should say that hope we punish who ever it is
I stan BTS. But, if one of BTS member did that, you delulu fans need to accept it. Don't say "this is just a rumor" "He will never do that". And if one of the member did that I will automatically unstan him.
This is why I kind of stopped associating myself with any fandom. I just like to support the artists. Some people in the fandom are really too much that it kind of brings down the whole fandom with them.
For all the ppl thinking that Korean men are "innocent " and wont do anything sexual
@@lucasa7979 hey.. don't just mention names for no reason
i lovetaetae It wasn't for "no reason". People are people and they're capable of doing anything. That includes BTS. Don't be so naive because you stan them.
@@k.o.h8446 i agree
ikr ..
@@k.o.h8446 what I meant was that there is no reason to name them specifically when it could be anybody
When she said "Maybe it was my fault" HONEY NEVER. NO NO NO IT IS NEVER YOU.
Sadly most victims of sexual harassment think it that way
,❤️
yes it was her foul too
Af Tech lol surely you didn't just say that right ? you think it's her fault? You're part of the problem. A person who is abused doesn't choose to get abused
That's what automatically a victim feels, but it is never her she is not at fault for this
No offense but, Sometimes I think some men are just disgustingly sick.
Sometimes I feel the same way
I understand what you're saying, but not all men are like this.
Not all men are sick y'know?
@@dxln6 well she did say "some"
@Fernando Soares wtf, YOU'RE the stupid ignorant one here.Testosterone is NOT an excuse for such behavior and when people are put in a vulnerable situation like her what is she supposed to do?? She doesnt know if he could harm her if she tries to do anything.And also when you're put in a situation like that, you're just in shock you cant do anything your frozen and so many things are running through your mind that you cant act quickly and its the case for many people who experience sexual assault.So dont you dare use testosterone as an excuse because with that logic ANY young male can sexually assault any girl and brush it off by simply using testosterone as an excuse.God people like you disgust me.
SEXUAL👏 ASSAULT👏 IS👏 NEVER👏 THE👏 VICTIMS👏 FAULT👏
PERIODT
LOUDERRR
Period!
Louder for the stereotypes hidin' in the back!!!!!!!!!!!
SOMEBODY TELL ME WHAT ITS ON?
PERIODT.
I'm waiting for you to expose him, it's a beautiful day to end someone's career.
MOOD
My thoughts
Girl...... the shade tho just love it....😃
LMAO 😂😂🤣🤣
Ok what now?
"-we've been maybe brainwashed to think if it's not rape, everything else is okay; where everything else is acceptable, like just keep it quiet just let it go. Atleast you weren't physically harmed."
Gurlllll you spilled the tea.
Jonah F yup. Look at the korean dramas that have the main lead stalk the girl. Or the Netflix show “You”. We think it’s cute because he’s cute but it’s not so cute anymore when we want them to stop.
Levi Loves erwin yeah, exactly. And he tries to justify his stalking and murders by saying that it’s because he loves her. Even thought it’s truly wrong of him to do that.
@@wakko493 wait he kills people.!?!?!?
@@TheBrisa99 he is a serial killer
Never NEVER think its your fault, you didn't ask for those things to happen
@骑士黑暗 I'm talking in general not only about her experience
We need to know who that idol is
@骑士黑暗 clown
@骑士黑暗 is a troll. Nothing on the boys account. Just ignore.
yeah grace
When I was about 8 years old, there's a male teacher at my school. He always touch me. I didn't know it was a sexual harrasment because he was so nice to me and I thought that he just love me since I was his student. But come to think of it now, I realized that he was actually sexual harassing me and give me good grades and presents all the time to prevent me from knowing his real intentions. I didn't talk about to anyone cause I was ashamed with it I don't think that anyone might took it seriously
awwww hope ur better now
@@yi1532 it happens around 8 years ago and yes, I'm getting better from time to time thank you☺💖
@@monsta_x_cravity6797 aww goood to hear ur betterrr
Im sorry you had to go through that and hope you’re feeling better
Also, I highly suggest you report this scummy teacher and tell someone you trust, because there’s no need to be ashamed for something that wasn’t your fault.
I experienced the same things like he gave me lots of money and thing that I like (he started doing this when I was about 7). The thing is, he's close to my parents so he still visits me sometimes and trying to touch me (but of course I avoided him) I'm ashamed with it and I don't think anyone would take it seriously too. I'm glad I moved out of my parents house and he didn't know my address.
All people freeze, it is a natural brain response to traumatic situations it is not only something children do. Never feel ashamed or weak because you froze, it is a natural response. Your body is overwhelmed and going into fight or flight mode.
true. i remember giving out leaflets as a part time job about 2 yrs ago. i remember one day i gave one to some middle-aged man. he started complimenting me on how pretty i was. i just thanked him. however, he'd keep talking to me. i really tried to stay polite as i'm usually shy & not rude with people. i can remember he once just grabbed my hand and i guess my brain froze or something because until i could remember he kissed my hand. i remember washing my hand thoroughly after. i really felt so ashamed because i left myself to be violated like that. really haven't told anyone. also i remember that creep was like: "i'm looking for a girlfriend so we can kiss & cuddle." like, who says that to a girl who can be his granddaughter?
@@xStrawberryxStudiosx I'm so sorry that happened to you Min Ji! What a creep! I have had many experiences just like this in my life and I always feel so ashamed afterward. How I should have yelled or screamed or fought back. The words I should have screamed at them replay in my mind over and over again.
But it is not your fault, he shouldn't have taken advantage of you like that. His actions do not reflect on you. It doesn't mean you are weak or stupid. He took advantage of someone he knew was in a vulnerable situation. Don't allow that man to steal your confidence or happiness, don't give him that satisfaction.
Thank you for opening up and sharing your experience. You are not alone. Many of us have gone through the same thing. We need to support each other. The world needs more kind and considerate people like you. Sending you love and courage! 💕
janoskilm how about she make a video mentioning which Kpop boy group she likes and she doesn’t without giving necessary reasons which might help us find him
tonic immunity, I have that kind of experience when I got sexually harassed at age 10. turned out that is very common happens to all traumatic experiences.
@@kimcheezy3433 honestly, i don't really don't think about it, it was a one-time situation but yeah, still disgusting.
When you said "this is probably the only time people will take this story seriously" is honestly so true and sad. If you talked about this any other time people might think you were making it up to get attention. But since there's a huge scandal revealing the truth about the sexual harassment and abuse of women in Korea, people will probably be more likely to believe it.
WE NEED A HINT
I'm really curious, I don't wanna Stan someone who touches woman in an inappropriate way
Same
@Aer /// yeah but just because there's one guy in a group she doesn't like doesn't it mean she would hate the whole group. Bruh tf
People think it's zico
@Aer /// no of course not, but she may not like a lot of other groups, for other reasons. So if I don't like Hyuna that doesn't mean that she has done anything towards me? Of course i love Hyuna. It was just an example
can someone give us a list of groups she stans?
For the people that saying that it's women's fault that they get harrassed, tell the same thing to your wife. Or tell that to your daughter when she runs to your room crying because a man harrassed her, tell her that it's her fault and she was asking for it. Go ahead, I dare you.
Most of them probs don't have kids because if you get married and have kids chances are you would be a bit more educated (at least I hope)
Wait, are there people in the comments spewing that garbage?
Even if a man is drunk, that is still criminal predatory behaviour. An EVEN if that guy is your boyfriend and you don't feel commfortable about what he is doing to your body, you have every right to say no and defend yourself... Just FYI to all women.
Yeah... it's not really rape until you say no. So if you ever feel uncomfortable with the situation, vocalize that you do not like it.
@骑士黑暗 What the f*** is wrong with you??? If a lady is drunk, drugged or whatever, and she doesn't want to have sex, she doesn't want to be touched by you, get your hands off her! IT IS RAPE!
@@wingedbunny6211 Actually, you don't even have to say "no". If a woman says "I don't feel like it" or "leave me alone", or "not tonight", if a man proceeds further and thinks he can "persuade" her, this act is called soft rape.
A woman doesn't need to say anything at all. If she pushes the guy away, it is a NO.
Finally, some women are so drugged or drunk, that they don't know what's going on - the man should not proceed further, no matter what.
骑士黑暗 yes it is! Becauce She still hasnt given her consent! When you have drunk you are not concious!
Do not touch a woman if She is drunk! Do not ever touch a woman without her consent! Asshole
WingedBunny why the person are not vocal about it! Is becauce that person might be shocked and are being traumatised in that exackt moment! DO NOT JUST RANDOMLY TOUCH A WOMANS BODY! We are not your damn play things!
*This makes me scared for all the girls in the kpop industry...*
(Edit : This goes for the **everyone in younger generations too. I'm sorry if that sounded sexist; I initially only commented about girls because the issue was about how it's happened to girls in the industry, but I now realize anyone can go through similar situations regardless of gender. Please forgive my insensitivity.)
Not only girlsgroup and also girl fans too 😭😔💔
sexual harassment is a problem all over the world and it negatively affects both men and women
少林击剑中国 I completely agree and I'm sorry if my comment seems insensitive 🥺
Damn, so many years of progression and girls are still being treated like this.
Damn K-pop girl groups and boy groups have the same Hotel when they're going to award shows... imagine some of the idols being harrast shi- My imagination is wide LoL
Taeyeon from Girls Generation revealed on Strong Heart (a tv show) about how this one male celebrity would always try to contact her and be all weird to her and would call her when he’s drunk. I forgot the full story but I’m sure you can find it on RUclips
BaeTaeng7 he was a sunbae. I remember that story too.
qυιηтεssεηтιαl qυεεη she didn’t say he was an “idol” she said he was a “well respected senior” could be an idol though...
qυιηтεssεηтιαl qυεεη everything done in the dark eventually comes to the light. I’m sure he’ll get exposed someday
Maybe its heechul lmao jk he wouldn't do that
Vanhmingliani Tochhawng he's not in the same company as her so no, and heechul is literally her best friend how can u say that
For every person who had to go through this: I'TS NEVER YOUR FAULT.
Just because girls wear short skirts and opened cleaveges doesnt mean "oh she really wants this" and it doesnt give men the right to do these vile disgusting things without consent, its gross to even think about a woman getting sexually abused right now meanwhile we're watching this video. I hope whoever these people are to go to hell cause fame/money/power doesnt include consent. it doesnt mean you can do whatever you want cause you have those traits to your name.
Ya lah..This is why girls aren't really allowed to wear short shirts 😒
i always keep my body hidden and dress properly
Technically, girls who wears like this do wants to be appreciated of their beauty. Because it is sexy. You think you wear like that (nicely) and hopefully no one would notice? I'm saying you can wear whatever you want but also understand that ppl do get attracted to you. And that one sided attraction sometimes means that, they want to have you. It do not matter if you approve or not (in fact they wouldn't know unless they try right?). And once they set their eyes on you, they will try. if they are lucky they will get you. If not lets move on to another hot girl who is willing.
This is a context of sexual harassment not rape.
@@iiv_dannybo1 Great 😄 Same here😄
Nurimah Rasidz just because someone wears something proactive and your attracted to it doesn’t mean you have to physically assault them ._. And some girls just wear “sexy” clothes because they like how they look, but because they wanna show off or anything like that. No one deserves to be sexually harassed or raped just because the other person can’t control their attraction. If you were really that attracted to someone, I would think that you would try to talk to them not exploit their bodies
Me: *sees the title*
Also me: WHO THE HELL TOUCHED MY BABY
SAME
So there's more Seungris and Jung Joon Youngs. Great, just what we didn't need. I hope they all get found out one day, we need smart knets to find out.
RIGHT!
Who would want to touch something looking like...... *That*
@@kpoptrash4085 what is your problem 😑
I remember the story Taeyeon told 10 years ago on the show Strong Heart about a respected senior who was much older than her and began continuously contacting her. Here’s part of her story - *He would send me texts like, 'Let's meet sometime' and 'I'll buy you some ice cream,' almost like a child abductor... What was most upsetting, though, was the time when he called me in the middle of the night while he was drunk. He said he knew a lot about my private life by talking to the people around me. Hearing this, I grew really angry. I asked him, "Why are you being like this? There is no need for us to keep in contact any longer" and quickly hung up the phone. He replied a few weeks later with a text message that read, "If you plan on continuing your life as a celebrity, do you really think you can cut ties with me, just like that?"* -Taeyeon
Yasmin Alves omggg taeyon from snsd??
Elena Arevalo yes 😭
Oh damn I remember her saying that! It honestly creeped me out. I’m glad Taeyeon is ok now though, but remember when she was almost kidnapped while she was performing on stage?
its from Strong Heart
Woah omg 😯 how scary, did anyone find out who he is or was?
This hits different now that rumors of Woojin got out. You can’t trust anyone..
You got THE POINT honey.. this is difference, cause she encourage herself and she decides to tel this showing her face, her identity. She has my respect!
But they're still rumors and tbh I'm not sure I believe them after I watched Grace's vid about him
@@pratheekshamenon5949 which rumors ?? sorry that i don't know because i live in india . So news related to kpop is not available on tv .
@@pratheekshamenon5949 I can't😢 because i suffer from a disease called laziness🤣🤣🤣
@@jashandeepkaurgill5416 I can relate bro i can relate😂😂😭😭😭
NO GIRL. IT'S DEFINITELY NOT YOUR FAULT‼️ it's his fault, beacuse he tried to harras you😢
@骑士黑暗 its probably very hard to be that stupid
@骑士黑暗 Did your parents taught you to worship sexual harassment??? I wonder from whom did you get that attitude from.
Fernando Soares you saying makes me so disappointed
@Fernando Soares Wtf are u talking about? We live in 2019, if a woman wants to go out and have fun with her friends, then she does it, she wasn't and will never be forced or fucking "available" you are disgusting! Bet you're a Muslim or live in those places, where women are still not free.
Victim blaming fuck you allllll
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I've been sexually harassed before when I was younger and I never told anyone about it until recently. What happened to us and other victims is not our fault. The person is just sick in the head and think that they can do whatever they want and not get in trouble
How old were you then? 11?
@@sweetsugarhoneycandy5458 it happened on a few occasions so I was 15 and 17 and the guys were 18 and 44. Then it happened again when I was 23. Those incidences made me have a fear of men and I don't really date because of it. If a guy that I didn't know touched me, I would flinch
tell me there name and addresses. i am flying there with my pans to kick his ass.
Same here, I was 13 and happened once. Still feel insecure till this day (i’m 27)
Some people should pay for their sins for real
@@wndychng I just turned 29 on February 18th and I'm still insecure. I tried to go on a date with a guy and he went to put his arm around my shoulder and I flinched
For those who are asking who the idol that did that to her : stop asking her to reveal his name. She doesn’t want to reveal his name . She may be doing that because she want to protect herself and plus sexual assault are traumatizing . I was sexually assaulted and I couldn’t reveal his name because I was scared for my safety and It hurts to talk about it ( even today ) . Asking her to reveal the name may retraumatize her so please respect her wishes .
Grace - thank you for sharing your story . I know that wasn’t easy for you . You have my support , girl . ❤️
So for the cause of “protecting herself” and “image” she rather sacrifice all of those women who worked besides this “idol”? What? And how is she protecting herself? She literally just made a video about being harass, normally people would blur their face out or not want to be known when they want to protect their image since that’s literally the whole point of it.
I understand you but courageous only will solve the puzzle.
Me too movement is strong!!
Gin Yaksha she hasn’t got proper proof and stuff so she could get sued by a’s company ....
@@shad-o9703 South Korean Defamation laws are such that the truth is not a protection from Criminal Defamation. If she names the individual publicly, she can charged with *criminal* defamation which carries penalties of fines and jailtime.
fluffy death well yea, but the whole point is that, what’s the point of talking bout this in general? Is it because of the me too movement? I’m not saying she’s just making up stories as well as she has no valid proof of any of this what so ever, but how can u believe something that there’s no proof to go by? She could be a no body making up the story so she can get attention through the Seungri incident that was trending when she posted this video. It seems like more of a clout than anything.
Bruh fangirls saying it's not their oppas bcuz they respect women and all those trash, do you know them personally to act like you actually know them?
right delusional armys
@@tryne_71 not only armys but there might be other crazy fangirls too I'm an army but if it was actually CONFIRMED that any of my favs did this i'd honestly never look at them the same and I would lose my respect for them but only if it was confirmed that they actually harassed someone with solid proof
@@sandy3666 yeah ofc!! i wasn’t saying all armys just some of like baby delusional ones but yes ofc there is some in every fandom
Love is evil, love is kind; But most importantly, love is BLIND.
You just said the truth
Hint #1: He is very popular male idol.
Hint #2: He is not a drinker and well known for it.
This reminded me of someone tbh. And Im scared to think about that possibility
Oh...can I have a clue? So I won't support that guy (-_-)
I really wonder who it was 🤔
@@fatimabatool4442 May i ask who?
@@fatimabatool4442 who?
Like if you want to throw some hands
骑士黑暗 aaand reported
@骑士黑暗 jail looking real toasty for u
U had 666 likes so i gave u one more cuz it 666
I will not hesitate to punch him
@骑士黑暗 you must be a creep. Otherwise, you wouldn't justify sexual harassment:)
Every wattpad best friend: hE pRoBaBLy LiKeS yOu
XDDD
OMG I KNOW RIGHT 🍵👄🍵😂😂😂😂
YES GORL TRUE HAHAHAHAHHZJZBZHXJX
I'M SCREECHING 💀
OMFG YES LMFAOOO
SOME FANGIRLS THINK THAT THEY'RE IDOLS ARE BEST , THEY ARE CUTE , THEY RESPECT GIRLS ETC. ETC. BUT DO YOU KNOW THEM PERSONALLY?? DO YOU KNOW ABT THEIR PAST LIFE?? DO YOU KNOW THEIR BEHAVIOUR PERSONALLY?? IF YOU'LL SAY YES BY SSEING THROUGH PHONE ,CONCERTS AND FANSIGNS THEN YOU'RE VERY WRONG COZ EVERYONE PRETEND TO BE AS GOOD AS POSSIBLE IN FRONT OF CAMERA. SO IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT THEY ALL ARE GOOD IN REAL LIFE. IMAGINARY WORLD IS VERY DIFFERENT FROM REAL WORLD . YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND THIS ......🙃
@penguin neeni bcoz they support them so they think they all are perfect so yeah
@penguin neeni Umm....Idk about fanboys as I'm a girl so I'll talk about girls na so i don't have any idea about boys thinking 😅😅
@@swastikamahapatra5343 yesss gurl preach!!! 👏👏😌😌 that's why they say, trust no one
@@lol-rk1qg yeah💚
So do u know this girl personally too, u are watching her in the video not in real life
*Let's all just take a moment and appreciate the girl to actually bring up this issue and talk about her personal experience, cause seriously it's difficult to do so*
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Edit: I am really glad so many people agree 💜
So true
It is indeed very difficult. I had an experience too. I've only told one person, my sister in law, years after. I was even trembling, stuttering, trying so hard to hold my tears when I was telling my story.
@@vaniahasan2490 I hope you are in good health now and move on safely. May you have a very bright future. 💜
Dude when I was 11 someone harassed me too. I never told anyone, I am too scared. It’s a really an issue.
@@Rosie-ii7jy That's really sad but more outraging. If ever someone tries to misbehave again be sure to break his balls. And do not fear or hide it. You can open up and speak up. We are with you. Be well and safe and happy 💛
"famous male idol"
i feel terrified cuz idk if i actually know "A" and love him😶
but Grace, youre a wonderful and honest person. if i found out that "A" is the idol im stanning, i will instantly drop him
edit: Came back cuz of notifications. Sorry for causing people to argue in the replies.
Idk about anyone else, but this reminds me of Jung Joon Young, Seungri, and other highly famous/powerful guys in the entertainment industry.
@@janetlim6303 they think theyre so powerful that they can break the law and their fans will stand up for them....Some fans even leave messages of support under seungri's posts...
Who is that "A"? If i can know
@@julkau6253 we don't know... Grace never revealed it cuz she can get sued for it
@@wonyficationn ahh okay
What if I'm a fan of this person thinking he's the sweetest angel??
I think we need to stop thinking like that about any Idol we like, appreciate etc...
Fer /// He could be a solo.
@BTS ARMY I can imagine him doing something like this😳
@@nadiaazzabi9549 really?
cassie it could be the idols (who went to prison bcs of the burning sun !) idk
I'm really disgusted at people trying to guess who this person is and being like "oh it can't be my idol" and I'm like why don't you just try to get the idea that whoever it is this is wrong.
And I hate that people are saying it’s this idol that did it because they don’t drink or are friends with this person. Like don’t assume
exactly. i understand wanting to know who it is, i want to know but we shouldnt go around guessing it and we should instead suport grace
*"should I slap him?"*
*yeah sis*
Naah sis she need to bring out the Lego's
@@deejah4529 the slipper girl, the slipper
@@moonflower3097 Yo we need them stilettos
@ana i totally agree with you!
nah bruh she need to bring a belt
ik this is off topic but GURL UR HAIR IS AMAZING
she has some extensions in-
@whoevers youtube account this is is very gay! Still- like dayum 😂
True
Ikr
Y E S
I had to share my own sexual assault story because there were grown ass women protecting Seungri. I'm 17. People have to understand that as a women the most important thing for us, for the gender is supporting each other because WE ALL KNOW we have it hard.
Men support women too
(At least the good ones).
@@dc9067 my english teacher claimed that he didnt agree with the Canadian prime minister bringin his children up as feminists, bc men cant be feminist. This is just.. Sad. Its maybe bc men think feminism means hating men when its not it. As Cher said "i dont hate men, i think men are the coolest. I just think men is not a necessity." Andy Murray is an open feminist and he does it damn right.
@@ivi1ful I'm sorry that you have to call this person your teacher and show him respect...i mean...
Women who support Seungri deserve a big punch in their faces
@@dc9067 My father and brother then😂😂
My fellow Armies can be really irritating at some point not everything is about BTS. I hope she gets justice for that guy's action.
I'm an army but I agree with you this video is not abt bts so why bring them up, like for example this video is not abt ariana grande but do you see her fans bringing up ariana in every video? No, so why should they always bring bts up? It's quite boring and irritating but at least not all armies do that
Yes
Sometimes they are very stupid
I know right it can be annoying sometimes
They make me so angry like this is not about bts stop bringing them into everything
@@lol-rk1qg well like I m a multistan and most of the times many army's bring BTS in good or bad things or videos even tho it's nothing related to them....I m an army too Nd I really find it annoying..Ilike isn't it normal to have fandom in a particular video? Everyone is some kind of a fan but they don't bring their faves up right? People should normalize having a particular or any type of fandom in the comments section
I'm scared now... what if ,,A" is somebody I stan?😔
I think it was zico anyways
- sunny I don’t recommend saying that-
- sunny don’t start accusations please :))
Queen B im thinking the same thing 😥
I think it was Seungri
GOD imagine if that idol is one of your idols that you stan
lobilob lob 69 likes
Thats now something I'm scared of 😂
Glad I'm A Girl Group stan
@@ningguangsjadechamber5710 same
I hope my idols are not involved in this kind of issue. I'm really scared :(((
IT IS NEVER THE VICTIMS FAULT! THE BLAME IS ALWAYS 100% ON THE PERPETRATOR!
DON'T EVER LET ANYONE TELL YOU OTHERWISE. IF SOMEONE IS TRYING TO MAKE YOU FEEL THAT WAY THEY ARE GASLIGHTING YOU. VERBAL AND EMOTIONAL MANIPULATION IS ABUSE TOO NOT ALL SCARS ARE PHYSICAL.
EXACTLY. The perp is the one at fault, not the victim and the victim should never feel responsible for something like that.
@@ReptilianTeaDrinker
*DOUBLE STANDARD* :
If your daughter joined a gang cult, is she in the wrong? *Yes*
If your daughter joined a gang cult and she was molested, is she in the wrong? *No*
(P.s: the gang members in both situations are in the wrong)
He doesn’t deserve to be protected expose him sis 👏🏽
yesss
@Dude that’s true
@Nachimbongg but isn’t that only if she’s lying she’d get sued?
@@shreyajags3008 oooof ok
@Nachimbongg ohhh ok
This whole kpop world is all fun and games until reality hits u like a truck.
Remember fam nothing's perfect, and all of this is just the immerged part if the Iceberg.
Shirin os true to everything. thats why the more exposed it gets the safer everyone can be.
Shirin sad truth
many female idols have shared stories like these but koreans just laugh and put it under the rug, so sad.
I think this is why Irene hate being around men but maybe not all of them 🤷♀️🤷♀️
Irene's a very beautiful lady. She's the ideal idol face in South Korean. I can guarantee this has happened many times to her, which is wrong. This has to be one reason why she stays away from them.
Vxera oh
Vxera “many” times seems a bit exaggerated.
She stays away from other idols
But its my personal thinking that she is comfortable with JIN bts
Maliha Mehrab ok
The last time I was this early all was well in the kpop world and Grace unknowingly outed Burning Sun before it blew up...
Wait what?
@@aesharose5515 Grace referred to a seedy nightclub as "B" in this video which is Burning Sun ruclips.net/video/02ul1nZpmpY/видео.html
@@passwordyeah729 no, i don't think it was burning sun. BS was only opened last year it hasn't even have 1 year since it was opened.
Which video? Can you send a link@@giovannagreeff2153
Burning Sun was already happening..She even mentioned it in the video
I hope A sees this and feels guilty
these people never change....
Maybe he'll even admit and turn himself in... That's even better
"You are exposed, you are exposed, you are EXPOSED, EXPOSED, EXPOSED, EXPOSED"
Drop names or hints. We don't want to stan trash either.
Wk K yaaaaas
She can't - if she does she could get sued, banned by media ec especially if these men are really that famous
Tali the 2nd Gen Kpop Addict plus, if the idol is popular half of the dudes fans probably wouldn't even care and just result to attacking her
@@talibaozibang9321 I mean. She might as well drop hints and let us guess a bit.
She could get sued for defamation if she does not have enough evidence to prouve that he " really " did that to her, contrary to some countries a victim's testimony does not have much weight when taking legal actions in SK in this type of situations
"Lets call him A"
Me: is this a new season of pretty little liars
Same
Lmao I thought that
same lol😂
DO.YOU EVEN KNEW WHO SHE IS????
😂😂😂😂
I hope someday youll be powerful enough to expose him without thinking twice.
She's already powerful. Just because she won't tell his name, doesn't mean she isn't.
That guy is actually a weak bastard.
@@dj-ks2nk thank you.
nakiri souma yass
That could ruin her, especially if it goes his way, and especially if hes really popular in Korea, people will judge her and bash her for saying something bad about their idol, not only will he be caught in a scandal, but she also, if she publicly announces it.
But if she takes it straight to the law and it doesnt get out that shes the one who told then she should be fine. Theres a high risk in this situation though. It would be good for her to tell and ruin his career though, people like that dont deserve people to idolize them.
If the dude is as powerful and famous as she made him to be, he could probs reach out to his connections and file and win a defamation case against her
To all those who think SM is too strict or JYP is too restricting, this is the reason.
And I hope a time will come where girls feel safe and secure.
Wasn't Onew accused of touching a woman inappropriately at a club though?
@X .lilith. X so that's not a company's fault those are the sick people.
@@AngelStarHealer The girl dropped the case herself since it was actually an accident and not intentional. Onew himself asked to go every check and through interrogation and so he wasn't at fault at all. She actually wanted to drop the case after she met him because she found him very good but he insisted to get checked. And got cleared. So yes please don't say that without knowing entirely abt the issue.
Sm the boys can go to club right? But not the girls?
I was sexually harassed so many times when I was younger that I learned 3 things:
1.It is never the victim's fault, even if there are people who want to say otherwise ...
2.There is no justification for someone to cross the line with you, not even alcohol...
3.Unfortunately as women we are always exposed to the worst, for that reason you have to be a little suspicious no one shows their true colors at first sight, we have to support each other... every time I hear a story like that it makes me very angry to know that these things keep happening... Sometimes exposing these sick bastards is the only way to protect the other girls... I send you all my love and support ❤
Omg i feel so bad unnie these sickos should be sent to a jail ...
I agree with all this but one. Sexual harassment goes both ways, it's not just men on women.
awww i hope ur better now
That happened to me too and I've never had the bravery to tell anyone :(
@@ansel8 Yeah true but the fact is that it's mostly women who are treated like this. It really sucks. Society really needs a change, this is NOT okay and people need to realize that.
Very brave of you to speak of such topics. We need to stand up for each other and let situations like this be known.
Touching someone without their consent is not allowed.
Especially invading their personal space.
Preach! I remember two years ago I was traveling with a bus. This guy was seating next to me. I was next to the window, so he started to come closer and closer. I didn't talk to him, I didn't even look at him. I just moved away again and again and after a few moves I realized I had no more space. I turned my head towards him (I was looking outside the window the whole time) and said "Could you please move? I don't have any space.". He just smiled and moved away and I thought "Thank God! That was creepy af". And then he started talking to me: where I am traveling to, do I want to drink coffee with him. I said no, I have a boyfriend, I'm not interested. And then he touched my knee and said "Oh, come on, it's just a coffee. And so what if you have a boyfriend? Just give me your number and we will go out without him knowing". I freaked out, didn't know what to do. I was angry, uncomfortable and confused at the same time. I told him to get his hand off of my knee, he continued to smile and asked me "Why? Is that a problem for you?". I said "Yes. Get your hand off of my knee". My whole body was shaking, I didn't know what to do if he refused. Gladly, he left me alone and didn't bother me again and I just moved to another seat.
I know it's just a knee. But it was such a stressing experience. So when a woman is telling such a story, it doesn't matter if the man touched her knee, her shoulder, her butt, etc. He's doing it without her consent. And that's totally not cool.
P.S. - Sorry for the mistakes, English is not my first language.
@@crazyabout1327
Yes, that is right .
No matter which body part if i didn't give you permission you have no right to touch me.
Thank god he left you alone.
@@Little_baby_99 Yes, true. I think people should be more aware that asking for consent is very important. It doesn't matter if the consent is asked for touching, kissing or having sex. Just ask. And stay away if consent is not given.
@@crazyabout1327 definitely.
girl throw some names. They NEED To be exposed.This BS needs to stop. The kpop insustry needs to be shedded light on because it's a really dark place.The fans think of idols as angels.That meeds to stop.
she would get sued
She shouldn't, she would get jail time because she doesn't have enough proof and the court would say it's a false allegation
And you need a dictionary 😂
Need a lot of proof to exposed their name cuz they have money
@@sharkddududdudu1679 you cant go to jail for that, itll just be dismissed for lack of evidence
My brother has a girl best friend. Her name was Rachel
And one day I was walking with her. And then we stopped at a restaurant
We we're standing in a line when a old man suddenly put his hands on Rachel's waist and said "Hey sexy whats up?" And Rachel said "The ceiling." Then she pushed him😂
Her: confidence
Me when my teacher asks me if I want food: I- uhh- mayb- well- ah-..,,,.... I’m ok...
Damn she savage😎😂😂😂😂
I already love her
She's literally just like me...😂🤣
My friends are too innocent....
Random guy: hey pretty girls...* Touching my friend's hair and stuff
My friends:* just ignoring the guys
I was a little behind them..when I catched up with them
The guys: look another pretty girl..
Me: * getting angry 💢
My friends were kinda know I'm like this so they backed off
Me:* beating those jerks
And then reported it to an adult
Then....I scolded my friends
Btw I'm the mom of the my friend group 😂
@@ibeyaimahaobam5970
Lol nice
"A" and his 517 accounts disliked this video.
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649*
You guys know his account???
There are 666 dislikes I’m scared
NO, girl. It wasn't your fault. I believe you.
@骑士黑暗 you're gross
@骑士黑暗 i wont continue talking with u lmao ur just a gross piece of shit, hope u enjoy hell 💙
na na what?
@@lilolilo8832 they deleted their comment but they were basically saying that 'she liked it'and that they would've done the same to her
na na oh okay that is gross
oh, the look in her eyes shows that she's telling the truth. drop his address sis, i just wanna talk...
i see the exact opposite
@@joshualee6765 i recommend seeing an eye doctor, then.
joshua lee why would she lie about such a thing like literally no one benefits
@@joshualee6765 ofc a man would say this lmfao
joshua lee You’ve probably hurt someone and got away with it.
girl it's never your fault, harassment is the perpetrator's fault
We are glad you shared with us.
We would’ve believed you either way because they shouldn’t have done that to you.
Don’t forget we are here for you bby 💕❤️
Edit: it’s never your fault
It's so unfair that she could get sued by saying the name of a man who assaulted her. That doesn't make any sense. He deserves to be punished for what he did.
Please never stop talking about harassment, sexual or not. Those who do that must be called out over and over. I admire your courage and the example you set for other women out there. Stay strong! Fighting!
And if it was a lie? You hear one point of the story and everything is cleared?
@@edgarferrer5025 why would she lie tho
Im so mad how she is getting attack by the "oppa lovers" and they don't even know if it's their oppa lol
@@edgarferrer5025 You are part of the problem, assuming victims are lying is in big part why they are affraid of coming out. Why would she lie? She didn't even name him. Just stop assuming everyone is deceptive on purpose.
Wait, did u go from, "like of you want to throw some hands" to this?
HARASSMENT IS HARASSMENT
NO MATTER WHO DID IT
MAN-WOMAN
FAMOUS-INFAMOUS
IT DOESN'T MATTER
AND THIS THINGS NEEDS TO BE RAISED!
When my friend introduced me to the kpop via Big Bang, I never liked Seungri....didn't know why but for some reason he irked me on a spiritual level.....
Me too
Same, but I kept my opinion to myself because I don't speak ill of someone without grounds for it but he has always creeped me out and I still believe that he has a hot temper behind closed doors. There still is no grounds for that but I really think he has an anger issue. I would stay far away from him due to my gut feeling even if this hadn't come out.
CREATIVEIDEAS -APPLE ARTIST OMFG SAME
Same thing
He was always my least favorite.
You should just expose him gurl... honestly. He deserves it
(Edit:Maybe she could give hints on who it could be?
It would probably backlash on her, unfortunately.
천땡땡 Even though that would be the best and right thing she can do , she can be sued. Let’s not press her with this because we all know is really hard for her. Maybe one day she will decide to do it but that’s only her decision.
she could get sued and get in a really big trouble if she exposes him just like that, she needs proofs. after all he's rich and famous and besides has his agency on his side. just casually exposing him would be a big mistake. i mean i'd partially like it because she can ruin his career very easy but still getting herself into a trouble for that... no.
They wouldn't believe her
@@youredoneyouredone3644 yeah they probably wouldn't. after all i don't think he'd do something like sexual harrasment knowing that she has an opportunity to expose him and ruin his shitty career.
Don't be afraid to speak out Grace! Yes, it's true that other girls have experienced more worse things than you, but that doesn't invalidate the harassment that you experienced yourself. Sexual harassment is harassment. You made a very good point that girls and women today have been normalised to think that these things aren't important, can be forgotten, when in fact it is just as important to speak up about experiences like these, to make other girls and women more aware that it is absolutely unacceptable. Some girls aren't even aware that certain actions are considered harassment. Good on you Grace, supporting you from the UK!
These idols MAY look like angels but some of them are NOT on the side of the angels 🙅♀️
Yess I agree!
Yes.
YES GIRL SPEAK. We’re so proud of you as fans and we love you. You deserve your voice.
Seriously??? Like half of the BTS fans in the comments (not all) are saying thank god it's not them blah blah blah
I just -
Is that seriously all you're taking away from this video and not the real problem here?
THANK YOU OMG
They are dumb
Exactly, I'm a bts fan myself but that's besides the point here
hanna lklkl ur dumber😪
Omg yaas
This shows that you NEVER know the true sides to idols
How do you know if she is truly telling the truth though? So many clickbait youtubers nowadays and their fake storytimes looking for attention.
@@asd-dr9cf how do you know that your idol is innocent and pure?
in conclusion: *stan girl groups, in a girl groups we trust*
Даня Таргарян but girls group is more dangerous, we never know they might be offering sex service (forcefully) to the higher ups from their company... omg i cant :(((
Because they are idols... they are supposed to appear sweet and likeable. No one knows the true them unless you’re around them without cameras
I feel so ashamed and sorry for people who saying glad it's not my idol. How do you know it's not urs, she never mentioned a name and your idol haven't just been called out yet.
It takes a lot for someone to be able to open up about such experience and I am honestly proud of you for sharing it. You made people aware of the acts of these disgusting people and help others who have been through something similar and its not an easy thing to do. Karma will bite these monsters hard one day
this is why anime boys are better.
My god your so right yes.
It's time for the otakus and kpop stans to fight to the death.
Right
XxMVHR _PlayzxX or you can just say “Humans” sucks
Ikr! I always tell that jokingly to my friends who like idols 😂
Thank you for sharing. It's so sad that if it's not rape then "it's not a big deal" - cause it is a big deal and the trauma is real
Some ARMY's saying shit like "ohhh thank god its not BTS". Like, WTAF ??? This girl was assaulted. Someone touched her. And that is not f*cking okay. I don't care what idol it was that assaulted her, he needs to keep his hands off her.
Stop focussing on BTS, focus on her story!
Regards, an ARMY
LOUDERRR
THIS
@X 1 we don't know. Because she hasn't mentioned a name. So don't assume things.
Its never the victims fault, sorry to heard your story Grace, i really admire you, be strong!
This Is not happening only in Korea or "Entertainment industry " but its happening in the whole entire World in all Different industries.
*WOMEN* isn't just a Sexual THING. she has rights like Mens Too.
Trust me.
*Men
You edited it and it's still wrong
@@thatbitch3218 Yeah it should be Men not mens also after a full stop there should be a capital letter.
@@sam1234_ "its" should be "it's'
@@sam1234_ it should be "Women have rights like men too, trust me."
Let's just say I'm happy that Jungkook freaks out when a girl comes close.
I'm pretty sure he doesn't do that anymore, but I see what you mean
That's because taekook is real!
Omg yes
not anymore
boi yeet no
50% of comments: I hOpE itS nOt mY IdOl
Me *as a female* : I'm scared for my female idol...
(And all females in general).
sorry but I don't see any comments saying "I hope it's not my idol" 🥰🔪
@@h3artl3ss03 literally everywhere
@@h3artl3ss03 I did ok 🤗
Our experiences are valid. The same thing happened to me before (except with a normal guy, my neighbor). I was literally 10 years old at the time, he was 16 and we were also playing video games. I just remembered feeling confused as to why he was touching me and making me touch him. And I did ask what he was doing but he was just saying ''I'm teaching you to play sex'. Luckily he didnt get any further than touching me because his parents were still at home. I never ended up telling any of my family or friends about it, when I know I should have. I get so anxious around guys ever since that incident.
I'm sorry this happened to you! My best friend that I know only for a year, feels very uncomfortable when she stays near to boys alone so I'm always with her, even if it's just to make some questions to the teacher after class. She said that an old man touched her and tried to probably rape her but she thankfully got away. It's very sad that you will carrying it for your whole life. Those bastards, I feel rage when I think that such people exist, who would do such things. If you ever feel embarrassed about it, you know it wasn't your fault. If you are comfortable enough about it, talk to your closer people, they will surely understand you. Have a nice day and I hope you will be able to overcome it, if possible.
@@lenadesu2544 oh my gosh, what happened to your best friend is awful...I really hope she can find peace eventually, but you are right - these situations often leave a deep and permanent scar. I'm glad she has an aware friend like you though! I should reach out to my closest friends about this, maybe one day I will be confident enough to do so. Thank you so much for your kind words 💕
Your hair here is amazing! I’m so sorry with what happened to you, and I can’t believe how strong you are to even post and talk about this!
11:42 omg... when I was about 9 years old one of our teachers made us watch a movie or something, and we rearanged our chairs in a way that every student was sitting next to each other in a straight line. our teacher was sitting behind me, and at one point he grabbed my hair and smelled it saying it smells good. I just froze, it felt so weird
Wtf is wrong with him? Did you ask or say something at the time?
My teacher sat next to me and put his hand on my thigh when I was in primary school. He got fired and I wish he is in prison.
i am no one ⟭⟬ I hope you are okay! Hopefully this won’t happen to anyone else
I had a teacher that always talked to me so weird like “omg u are so beautyful” “ why are u so pretty?” and stuff like that. Also he used to touch me inappropriately in my opinion, caressing my butt, thighs, waist. Also his look was always on my tits. To be real I felt so bad, I always cried. The people in my class saw everything but they never did nothing. One day he got fired bc he was discovered proposing sex to another girl of a higher grade than mine. I’m sorry for my poor English but yeah I feel you. It’s horrible.
@@nsqponerbno I feel so bad for you :( my male music teacher touched my thigh once and well he also used to stare at my chest area a lot. Idk if I was blind but his eyes were on my chest. For example when he wanted to ask me a question he wouldn't even look at my face, but my chest instead. It was so awkward. Well I hope this never happens again to you and if it does happen, don't be afraid to report him to the police.
I was listening to this and was like. "Kick him in the nuts!" Or.."Girl, go punch him!!!" "Smash a table on him or something...smack his face!" Then immediately realizes that I would probably have the same reaction that you had...Just wanna say Girl, you are brave. I'm so amazed by the fact that you actually said something and exposed a possibility that some girls that ARE naive and innocent today did not thought about. So thank you for being brave enough to say stuff like this. Love yah.
And people in the comment sec. PLEASE DON'T BRING BTS INTO EVERYTHING. Just don't. Please. Thank you.
That idol guy sounds like he thinks real life is a porno because that's probably the only place where something like that would work.
He probably said "i'm a feminist, I love them bitches"
Yo spam we need to know who that idol is
It is not your fault, it is NEVER your fault when a disgusting pig shows their colors.
Honestly calling him a pig is an insult to pigs. Love you hun glad you shared.
I feel so bad thinking he can be my idol, its disgusting to think I support someone like this. Hope some day we know
This...
YES! Thas´s why I wish she would say who he is, but I understand why she doesnt...
It is never the victim's fault. NEVER!!! And when someone touches your private part, that is sexual harassment and it needs to get reported to the police. Once again if it feels wrong, it is wrong. Please take care of your self !!! ✌️
I feel so gross because I don't know if I'm supporting "A" or not... I NEED MORE CLUES
I'm sorry this happened to you
It's probably Zico
@@-sunny3619 stop saying this everywhere. if you don't like Zico, doesn't mean he's not good.. i don't even stan him, but what you're doing is wrong, so stfu and fuck off
I really wanna know who is it...someone please say his name
@@booorredddd just stop asking, nobody knows. if she doesn't want to say his name, you should respect her decision..
@@cantdecideanultbias2923 its actually important to know,and first of all I do respect her decision of not revealing his name
Second of all its bad because some of us are supporting him not knowing that he did some bad stuff
I was feeling so bad for her when she said that nobody will take it seriously. Dont worry...we made the internet for a reason. And it wasn't your fault...you were just trying to be friendly.
It's not Seungri. Lol....if it is she wouldn't be saying she stan BB. After it broke she also wouldn't say she is dissapointed because if it was Seungri then she already knew what kind of person he is.
Seungri is also a drinker...she mentioned the guy doesn't drink
i wasnt the only one who thought so, then... also she said "popular club"... um... burning sun?
@@nikunia104 I am sorry but Burning Sun is not the only popular club in Korea. Lol....
@@ms.chuisin7727 that is true... i just know that burning sun is one of the more popular clubs in korea. thx :)
Ms. Don't Give A Fuck Let me just say this: You can Stan the OTHER members of BB. They have nothing to do with Seungri’s bs.
your english is so fluent. great! i felt sorry on what happen to you. keep safe!
I am so afraid that my Idol could be a criminal
I don’t want to support those people
That’s the reason why I can’t trust people anymore
No one shows u their real self
Even tho u think they are innocent
They aren’t
But there are many idols that are kind and inocent. I can read people and i see if they are fishy or just good people. But actually you can't trust anybody, we all don't even know our own friends.
im so scared to stan them now they are my inspiration :(
ArmyStayMonbebeAtinyNTCzen Yeah ur right. Sometimes I don’t even trust myself.
maple_ vlogz Same :(
Sahra B I totally agree. I will never stop supporting my favs because they deserve this love💞
I am 13 and I was harassed twice already, but when I told my mother about it, she said some women just "ask for it"
And that made me feel guilty, but now I realize it's NOT MY FAULT, and if you've passed through this, NO IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT, it's not our fault if some men and boys think it's ok to do something we have not allowed them to do. Also, people should stop saying we are somehow guilty because of our clothes
Drop yo mom get a new one
I'm so sorry that happened to you, and please don't ever, ever feel guilty for stuff like that. I still think it's so crazy how many people are able to blame that sort of behaviour on the victims..
Wtf, what kind of mother says that.
you are so mature and brave ;_; ignore your mom she is so brainwashed...
Im so sorry that happened. Please surround yourself with good people. no girl ever asks for it. You are incredibly brave and I appreciate you
Thank you for share your story. I have been sexually harasses by a close family member at a young age. He would try to get to be alone with me. Like touch and kiss me inappropriately. And was confused. But every time I saw him I hide or ran way. But I still happen more than twice. I try to speak up for a while but was scared, embarrassed and didn’t know how to word it in my second language. I later found he was sexual harassing my sister. I told my mother but she didn’t believe me. But my sister denies it.I think she never told because she knew they wouldn’t believe her. I truly sadness me. We need to speak up ladies. My heart goes out to to all the victims.
How could you not believe your child when they barely understand what is happening to them? I'm not going to saying anything bad about your parents, but I can't help my thoughts. I have a 5 year old, I'm paranoid about this kind of stuff because she's shy and timid. I don't make her hug or kiss anyone she doesn't want to regardless if my family or friends don't like it. I want her to understand that she has the right to not have her boundaries broken. I'll never understand how you could put another family member's feelings over your child's well-being.
I hope you are okay. I hope you know you have infinite worth and no one else can ever take that away from you
Speak up
i actually really genuinely hope that your okay !
nobodycares your mom is an idiot. Why wouldnt she trust her own child? I am a male & the guy is so dead if you are my children. My fist will do the talking first instead of my mouth.😡
We really don’t know our idols no matter who they are u can’t trust