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  • @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd
    @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd 10 дней назад +93

    I'm so thankful that he is gone and I'm free from his insanity. He was blocking my blessings. Now that he's gone, I sleep better, I feel better, my nerves are better. Now, I have time to do the things that I enjoy and love to do. And, I especially have my peace and my quiet back. It's been very glorious... To God Be The Glory! Thank You Dear God for delivering me from the evil one! Hallelujah! Amen!

    • @tjenkins76
      @tjenkins76 10 дней назад +7

      YAAS!! Thank you 🙏🏽 Jesus!!!!!! Hallelujah 😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd
      @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd 10 дней назад +3

      @@tjenkins76 Praise the LORD! 🙌🙏❤️🙏🙌

    • @fruitypopwhickle6806
      @fruitypopwhickle6806 10 дней назад +6

      Did I write this?!😂💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾🎉🎉🎉❤️❤️❤️👌🏾

    • @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd
      @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd 10 дней назад +3

      @@fruitypopwhickle6806 😂😅🤣 It feels so good to be FREE! 💃🎉💃🎊💃🎉💃🎊

    • @thelordhasbeengoodtomethan5154
      @thelordhasbeengoodtomethan5154 10 дней назад +5

      Glory to God, I feel the same way, thank you Lord for moving this person out of my life!!❤

  • @MegaRockstar48
    @MegaRockstar48 10 дней назад +50

    The Narcissist punishment is self inflicted as they are not capable of having long term loving relationships. They fear rejection and abandonment but do everything possible resulting in rejection and abandonment. Their life is a paradox, and they will always end up sad and lonely

    • @babesadams2991
      @babesadams2991 10 дней назад +2

      Yess. I feel this. Cuz nothing works out for them unless you decided too. My ex relies on our relationship how it'll last or go that's crazy. She has an ex husband that's still she keeps around theyd been with long term relationship but I guess only for money. But she never had long term loving relationship. I thought I'll make it but I'm glad the cord was cut before I go craziiii..

  • @jaslyn5501
    @jaslyn5501 10 дней назад +54

    Idc how much money, success, supply they have…they are tortured in ways you can’t imagine. If you’re with them long enough, they will flat out tell you this.

    • @babesadams2991
      @babesadams2991 10 дней назад +4

      True this my ex spill the beans. She has all the money she experiences all the luxury ,all pleasures but she feels empty and messy.

  • @emptyheadrecords
    @emptyheadrecords 10 дней назад +29

    How does a narcissist REALLY EVER SUFFER if they just keep finding new supply, or backburner supply that they may have "monkeybranched" to? They ALWAYS have SOMEONE around them to use as their "new punching bag or as a form of "supply" - even if it's family members. They're never ALONE long enough to actually FACE what they did to someone - they just run like a coward to the next person who's willing to "comfort" them and tell them "Everything will be okay", and "You poor thing, let me make you feel better." All they DO is play the victim role and just move on to the next sucker who believes their lies and manipulation - which is EXACTLY what keeps the narcissist going from day to day - while you're left REELING from the SEVERE emotional damage they caused you - and not caring ONE SINGLE BIT about it either.

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 День назад

      @@emptyheadrecords having “someone” around means nothing they usually pick up low grades - especially the low grade narcissist.
      It’s called suffering in Silence.. - they do have that moment of clarity which is why many of them have addictions to cope with just everyday life .
      But, again ever supply is treated different. I know now - who I married and what I provided things he never experienced or had. Oh yeah, they suffer when that type of “ supply” Discard them first & never return. After I left, it went down immediately.
      It will hurt at first but when you know your own Worth - you see they NEVER deserved you in the first place & YOU not missing a damn thing.
      Happy & free 5 yrs -

  • @browneyes9507
    @browneyes9507 10 дней назад +32

    Did everyone get discarded by the narc? Nobody walked away first ?
    I tell you with 100 certainty - if you were in a long term “ relationship “ , and if you discarded first and whereabouts unknown- they can’t even contact you cuz you changed your number. Plus the fact they thought you would never leave.
    This is a narc injury that you have inflicted and will haunt them the rest of their lives.

    • @shirlspark_stardust
      @shirlspark_stardust День назад

      I left the narcissist I married dumped him and moved he tried to come back but it's a no contact from me.

  • @aliciabell7631
    @aliciabell7631 9 дней назад +14

    Chile my life got so much better when he left. It was just like dark cloud when he lived here. My got back in college, got a promotion on my job. Still living in the house he thought I couldn't afford without him. He's experienced endless suffering. You littering have to almost call a priest to your home when they move out to get rid of the demonic residue they leave behind 😂

    • @DedraAllen007
      @DedraAllen007 5 дней назад +2

      Don't keep anything they left behind without anointing it with holy oil and praying over it.

  • @kel9289
    @kel9289 10 дней назад +28

    It’s not Love it’s Lust!

    • @Terri302
      @Terri302 10 дней назад +3

      It isn't as simple as lust with a narcissist, it's shared fantasies and cycles of trauma bonding..

    • @kel9289
      @kel9289 9 дней назад +4

      A reprobate mind uses words like love to destabilize you based on what they think you want, which is love, yet they use lust (excitement to lure you into the trap). It could read lustbomb, which is the truth. However, lovebomb sounds better, which is why I made the distinction.
      Peace be with you.

    • @Terri302
      @Terri302 9 дней назад +3

      ​@@kel9289 Well said , they are masters in attacking vulnerabilities ..🩷✌️

  • @kaglassnor
    @kaglassnor 10 дней назад +27

    Yeah they are absolutely miserable. Holy Spirit is helping me so much thru you sis and your videos! As a transition out of this narcissistic abusive marriage. Really realizing why the enemy has been using this bird to distract me from God's purpose for my life.

    • @babesadams2991
      @babesadams2991 10 дней назад +3

      I agree. Hallelujah! Thank God. I made it out also. I was been dragging out of my spiritual walk. It's like fighting with demons really. Im glad Jesus helped you. May you stay safe and narc free. I speak blessings and healing hearts, peace, true love and joy. We survivors and abused are stronger and wiser. May you live healthier after what happen to you🙏🤍🤍🌿🕊

  • @lauries608
    @lauries608 3 дня назад +2

    My ex doesn't get to run with a multi million dollar divorce contract and leave me for dead. God showed me how to bring him to court without an attorney. And now he will have to pay. 0 regrets, God gave me a great brain and I used it!

  • @cherylwallace4477
    @cherylwallace4477 9 дней назад +7

    “You can’t build, you can’t grow, you only loose. “ Wow! So true. It doesn’t matter what idea they come up with, it never pans out to its full potential. Never!!!

  • @ursulagates3106
    @ursulagates3106 10 дней назад +10

    My Ex- narc would sleep all the time and say he’s depressed. It’s So sad though…but I’m so Grateful to GOD he got me out of that relationship. Thank you GOD!!🙌🏽

  • @annenew8220
    @annenew8220 9 дней назад +3

    I'm thankful for the discard. I'm saving money again, credit being restored, hair flourishing again.
    Narc is no longer my problem. Bye bye

  • @tburgess25
    @tburgess25 10 дней назад +10

    This is so true T. They walk to and fro in the earth, seeking whom they may devour.

  • @charleswilliams8971
    @charleswilliams8971 8 дней назад +2

    The Nac is gonna suffer with or without you

  • @lagoldie9783
    @lagoldie9783 10 дней назад +11

    Good day Ms. Telsha. I hope you're enjoying your Sunday. Good message. Seems to me like the narcissist I knew had a lot of people liking them. Smh. She told me at first she didn't have any friends and the next minute everyone was her friend. Smh

  • @abva56
    @abva56 10 дней назад +23

    I see comments here that empaths want to help them. My ex narc-gf I wanted to help too. However, this is spiritual. They need deliverance. They are separated at the spiritual level from themselves and, therefore, God, Christ. This is the false self. They cannot help themselves without God. They are no different than drug addicts or alcoholics which many, if not all narcs are too. Unfortunately, they are reprobates. Very dark entities at work in them.

  • @xyz67892
    @xyz67892 8 дней назад +2

    They will reap what they sow. The word karma is associated with a false religion.

  • @shireenk6687
    @shireenk6687 10 дней назад +10

    Out of 6 years of relationship, 3 years of cheating with a hippo, and 1 year with a sacrificial lamp look alike. Also found out has a wife for 30 years. Not to mention that he has been spotted on dating apps before me, during me and after me.
    I want to call all those women and expose him. I feel like calling his wife and telling her everything but I feel I will be creating bad karma for myself. BUT I GET URGES TO DO SO, PLEASE HELP ME WITH THIS.
    I WANT TO TELL HIS WIFE EVERYTHING. Should I?
    I DISCARDED HIM and he had no idea it was coming.

    • @edwuanagrice5214
      @edwuanagrice5214 10 дней назад +8

      You don't want him to kill you, trust me God's revenge is the best revenge, remember he sees everything, and no one gets away from the Almighty, it may take a year or two 3 but he will get it back 10 fold, prayer 🙏 is the best answer now, God bless you sister 👌

    • @edwuanagrice5214
      @edwuanagrice5214 10 дней назад +3

      The faster you heal through prayer and lifting up our God our Lord Almighty, I promise the faster he will get his karma 😁

    • @aliciabell7631
      @aliciabell7631 9 дней назад +7

      If she's his wife of 30 years. She knows, trust me. She know the man she married

    • @edwuanagrice5214
      @edwuanagrice5214 День назад +1

      You never truly know a person, 30 years 40 years 50 years, okay 👌 we're talking about narcissism, these people will surprise you,😮 and do stuff you would have never thought they would do😊

  • @clintlightbourne5713
    @clintlightbourne5713 6 дней назад +1

    I was just thinking about that....i use to be angry and upset...but God Yeshua took the veil of my eyes to see everything that was happening Thank you jesus for ❤ .
    Romans 12:19 in the Bible says, "Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord.
    1 Corinthians 10:13 No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.

  • @raheenholland703
    @raheenholland703 10 дней назад +5

    You can have compassion for them, but the hurt they caused will forever be engraved in our souls! I feel blessed to have GOD take me away from such evil!!! I'm still healing, but I get better every day! Now I'm being stalked from the narc in the new supply car; it's pathetic! My new woman is the blessing that was waiting for me! Stay strong & keep yall heads up! Life is long, not short! Get back out there & enjoy your life & you'll move on mentally! I promise you!

    • @DedraAllen007
      @DedraAllen007 5 дней назад +1

      In the words of a famous pastor Frederick KC Price, "I can love you from afar!"

  • @user-ik6mk8fu9d
    @user-ik6mk8fu9d 10 дней назад +7

    Amen Thank you Jesus I'm @ peace not pieces 🙏🙏❤

  • @JadeeKai-Lorie
    @JadeeKai-Lorie 10 дней назад +7

    Confirmation Confirmation Story of my life but I thank God He removed me away from that Demonic and strong hold

  • @meikahpei
    @meikahpei 7 дней назад +1

    I love that statement. Karma doesn’t lose an address

  • @glendaholmes-moore1403
    @glendaholmes-moore1403 10 дней назад +3

    Amen,God is answering all my questions about my ex concerning his treatment of abuse to me.All she said is truth.

  • @spoken2
    @spoken2 10 дней назад +3

    thank you for this ! the things that have been revealed since the divorce is mind-blowing . she is getting and living everything she has done to me. such a shame that my daughter has to be apart the mess she has made.

  • @KaylaHarmon-cp5bt
    @KaylaHarmon-cp5bt 9 дней назад +2

    If they were single they would be more miserable but if they have new supply their doing alright

  • @lorraineamaker9416
    @lorraineamaker9416 12 часов назад

    Yup all true done ran into another narc. These individuals are ridiculous

  • @cedricwilliams7990
    @cedricwilliams7990 10 дней назад +4

    Thanks for being a light of understanding and revealing the wiles and methods to the madness draining your peace questioning your own mental health. Stay strong family pray for one another

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust День назад

    Hello Ms Tea and survivors been busy with school midterms and finals I left the narcissist first that backwards walking giraffe with the britches touching in the back can't deal with reprobate that is a narcissist best thing is no contact which I have done.

  • @cedricwilliams7990
    @cedricwilliams7990 10 дней назад +4

    Thanks!

  • @qlg8574
    @qlg8574 9 дней назад +1

    The ex narc used to wake up to the sound of the alarm clock. The first thing out of his mouth was the "f bomb". I thought really, somebody laid down last night and took their last breathe. Also, he never said "good morning" it was morning or just start a conversation.

  • @LoveWolves777
    @LoveWolves777 10 дней назад +1

    I agree, she really didn't have before me anything meaningful and stable and after the fact, I know why, she is her worse enemy and always playing victim instead of excepting it's her , because she believes and chasing the world's lies

  • @babesadams2991
    @babesadams2991 10 дней назад +1

    Dearest Ms. Tea! You helped me and infused my dicernment. Thanks for the wisdom God is moving thru you! I'm recovering praise to God. The battle of mind, emotion isn't easy to get out of watching your videos comfort me. And like! Men, I'm stronger. I did what's right. Before I feel guilty from blocking and running away from my ex biiieeerd hahahah u motivate me to share also to some abused people to have insight what's going on and how were able to silently fight back from this walking giraffes ahahahh much love and peace! Pls pray for my situation and emotion to be more blessed and that I may overcome the stress, missing my ex and thoughts of my ex. Thank you 🙏🤍🥺 more power to you and blessed your channel Ms. Tea peace of our God be with you always🤍❤❤🌹🌈🌿

  • @pamelaholland1094
    @pamelaholland1094 10 дней назад +2

    Hoooooney Im so ELATED that Yeshua rescued Me BEFORE it Got Bad I was fortunate through my obedience and God strength to discard that rascal first ....I Never knew what a Narcissist was until i stared doing my research came across Your channel and others on U tube .He use to ask me how could I sleep with a smile on my face i never knew what a narcissist stare was.My health is sooo much better he was breaking me down but God!!!!!! Set Me 🆓 . Healing and total restoration. I discarded him he didn't even see it coming . Yes he offered to buy me a New car but Imy Soul is not for sell I'm Blood Bought by The Blood of The Lamb he's been sending fake accounts I refuse to answer them .

  • @karenflowers4079
    @karenflowers4079 10 дней назад +3

    Thank you so much!

  • @kvessell41
    @kvessell41 4 дня назад

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾...Always well said on point T

  • @rosamontelongo842
    @rosamontelongo842 8 дней назад

    Today I am SHINNING 💎🌞💎🌞 and I am a watching my HEALING JOURNEY , HEAL and START to ACTUALLY LIVE. Thank you Mrs. T and all other Anti Narc channels for you beautiful ❤❤❤❤ motivation, inspiration and awareness ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @StrengthNLove
    @StrengthNLove 6 дней назад

    My peace is in Jesus Christ

  • @AliciaCh80
    @AliciaCh80 10 дней назад +5

    Safe travels Telsha. Have a blessed Sunday.....🌺👑🤗🙏🏽

  • @Dothyification
    @Dothyification 10 дней назад

    Peace! U are amazing. ❤

  • @nikkigirl4072
    @nikkigirl4072 9 дней назад

    Whew!!! I needed this one today!!💯💯🙏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾

  • @donnasoares9141
    @donnasoares9141 10 дней назад +1

    You are so right but us empaths want to help them 😢

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 10 дней назад +1

      That’s true , we do, only if you still care.
      When you get to a point of apathy , you could care less about them or their wellbeing. This is a beautiful place to be…🎉

  • @leelandgilbert4301
    @leelandgilbert4301 10 дней назад +3

    Love youuuuuuuuuu❤❤❤❤

  • @Mandooze
    @Mandooze 10 дней назад

    Love your channel❤

  • @CassandraLove-k7t
    @CassandraLove-k7t 10 дней назад

    Preach Sis ! ✍🏾🎤

  • @InnocentPufferFish-wn5zq
    @InnocentPufferFish-wn5zq 10 дней назад

    Real talk sis 🙏 Halleluyah Holy Spirit Revelation and Confirmation Abba Thank you Always 🙏💜

  • @haroldhendricks1167
    @haroldhendricks1167 10 дней назад

    Wow! She just said the other day, I just want to sleep all the time

  • @theresae5362
    @theresae5362 10 дней назад

    Yup!

  • @user-qt9or4xu9l
    @user-qt9or4xu9l 10 дней назад

    Let sit on it spin stew my goodness.

  • @user-qt9or4xu9l
    @user-qt9or4xu9l 10 дней назад

    Broken soul depleted that pride spirals honey sad pray for the narc . He's gut punched. I've had it this place piece of work ya🎉

  • @Encornelious
    @Encornelious 10 дней назад

    🫡🫡🫡 nothin but truth

  • @montellhorton748
    @montellhorton748 10 дней назад

    U ain't Neva lied 😅😊

  • @TerranceRush-q6c
    @TerranceRush-q6c 9 дней назад

    I got ? Bout the narcissist.

  • @justpde
    @justpde 10 дней назад

    That "constant victim hood " sounds like Donald Dump 😂

  • @creativegemarts
    @creativegemarts 10 дней назад

    🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @user-qt9or4xu9l
    @user-qt9or4xu9l 10 дней назад

    Girl we're you been I moved into something bad toxic . Look good

  • @user-nj1rn3qq2p
    @user-nj1rn3qq2p 10 дней назад

    Imagine if I was let back he would play both of us he with together all information of me next going back his wife telling oh my ex stalk etc I would never go back yuck 🤮

  • @user-nj1rn3qq2p
    @user-nj1rn3qq2p 10 дней назад

    The wife knows to much about me he’s being messy and a snake. 🐍 trying pull me back in why his wife she’s start trouble 😈 clearly she must not doing nothing right keep him away regardless I will never go back

    • @partiesbykeshia07
      @partiesbykeshia07 9 дней назад

      That’s not true narcissistic are selfish! She can have sex with him everyday and he could still entertain other women

  • @donnasoares9141
    @donnasoares9141 10 дней назад +1

    Why don’t they get help

  • @iamaliveyoucantstopnow
    @iamaliveyoucantstopnow 5 дней назад

    I’m so traumatised I wake up everyday miserable. Have the most intense intrusive thoughts and nothing good is happening in my life. I feel like I’m now just like him.

    • @leshalegg1014
      @leshalegg1014 4 дня назад

      *Misery loves company, this is the only physical life you have, you are not getting any younger. Precious, you do not deserve misery,but true love,peace happiness,and growth . He does not love himself,so he can not love you,but he(heartlessly) likes useing and abusing people to get his selfish needs and desires meet. He has access to your soul, is why he has the ability to manipulate you,beautiful one. I suggest you give you soul over to the lover of soul, Holy God,almighty and rekindle a friendship with yourself,listen to your intuition, not your heart, when it comes to toxic people( creatures). I suggest you be as secretive and calculatetive,as he is, when you plan your escape. Your healing journey can start ,today, if you decide it!🌺
      *( It is deeper than what is on the surface, it is spiritual, as well) I also,suggest that you pray to holy God to cut off any flesh and soul ties you have with the narc or any toxic person,in Jesus name,daily! This is what I have done,and I have peace freedom,and happiness

    • @richrich2862
      @richrich2862 18 часов назад

      Listen to Dylan James nighttime affirmations/ read his success stories on his community page here on YT - listen to his videos where he talks about regulation of your nervous system, setting a daily schedule breathing techniques AND changing your mindset and how you speak to yourself and what you type here online. If you think you just like the narcissist - you will become a narcissist. Our thoughts and words becomes our reality.

    • @richrich2862
      @richrich2862 18 часов назад

      Listen to Dylan James nighttime affirmations/ read his success stories on his community page here on YT - listen to his videos where he talks about regulation of your nervous system, setting a daily schedule breathing techniques AND changing your mindset and how you speak to yourself and what you type here online. If you think you just like the narcissist - you will become a narcissist. Our thoughts and words becomes our reality. Trust me your life will change! Also I broke up with my narc ex last week - and yes I had a few times of crying, but because I had a strong sense of self already instilled due to what I say to myself - for instances when I had bouts of anxiety and not feeling safe - I would repeat over and over to myself “I am safe. I am protected. I am secured within myself” - it HELPS!

  • @nishapage2757
    @nishapage2757 8 дней назад

    Ma’am. Are you feeling ok? You haven’t song iffffffffff you rocksssss with ya girl” in 2 videos already. 🧐

  • @AndrewBoone-uf5so
    @AndrewBoone-uf5so 7 дней назад

    The Narc that I was with snored, and I'm telling you she sounded like it was a demon.

  • @erickonassis6310
    @erickonassis6310 10 дней назад

    What you eating

  • @EarlineBlack-hh5rj
    @EarlineBlack-hh5rj 10 дней назад +5

    He killed my dogs 🐶 that was the STRAW that broke the camels 🐫 back , my dog 🐶 died on a Tuesday I got lost until Friday evening and I just couldn’t look at him anymore so fast forward to Sunday evening he came in attacking me verbally and I just had enough, I had been praying 🙏 when to leave at that moment God spoke it’s time so I set all of my alarms ⏰ for 7:00 🕖 am and I missed the alarm ⏰ but I woke up at eight and it was on fed the rest of my animals and got in my car and went to the courthouse and filed Domestic Violence charges and filled out the paperwork and I had to go back the next day and I got the injunction papers 📄 I had to stall for time because I had to wait until he got home called the police to meet me at a safe place and then they came gave them the paperwork and they served him at the house about 9:00 🕘 pm and when they made him leave they came and got me and gave me possession of the house, that was one pissed 😤 narcissistic man and his friends was calling, I had to tell them that I’m not Allowed to talk to you, first one month stay away, he didn’t show, then it was extended a month and then he had to go to the courthouse and I was on Zoom, I wanted a permanent injunction but she only gave me a year, I’m filing for divorce and suing for as much as I can get and he’s trying to hide 🙈 the money but I have everything I need to track down the money, so far I had to call the police 👮 once and now I’m getting everything I need to move forward Amen 🙏

  • @deniskolenovic4670
    @deniskolenovic4670 10 дней назад