Charlie Kirk EDUCATED College Student On Modern Day Relationship And Leaves The Crowd SPEECHLESS 👀

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  • @realtalkron7667
    @realtalkron7667 2 месяца назад +171

    These kids don't know how lucky they are to have someone tell them these things..

    • @nrg6245
      @nrg6245 2 месяца назад

      I’m a Canadian born American lived here my entire life. My grandma came here from Canada legally in the 1970s and I never met my father. I listen to Charlie Kirk’s wisdom and I soak every bit of it up because I can tell him and Donald Trump on the true face in future of America. A red wave is coming to save America. Christ is King ❤🇺🇸 TRUMP 2024

    • @nrg6245
      @nrg6245 2 месяца назад +10

      Im grateful for Charlie Kirk trump Candace Owens all legends.

    • @bochapman1058
      @bochapman1058 Месяц назад +1

      No, they just need to go to church. This dude is only a few years younger than me may be. I’ve been for a while, above the national average. The problem is more that our culture doesn’t like to listen to our elders.

    • @skhi7470
      @skhi7470 28 дней назад

      ⁠@@bochapman1058age has nothing to do with maturity experience is way more valuable be humble bro. I’m religious as well but remember you are no better than anyone else and it goes the other way too you are Gods child and so is everyone else.

    • @SavannahHybridCubs
      @SavannahHybridCubs 17 дней назад

      I know right. My GMA and church told me but had I had someone close to my age with experience as a reference who knows. Cause with girls especially young with no dad I got taken advantage of by 12 and life was hard after and it kept happening and when it wasn’t like that I was getting my heart broken by older guys. It sucks. I wish so bad I had it different and made different choices but it is what it is, I’m married now and happy but I tell my kids my experience and warn them of consequences of this behavior. I got boys and two are almost 15, so they get schooled constantly

  • @QueenTubby37
    @QueenTubby37 2 месяца назад +101

    I love that so many of those guys are intently listening

    • @tiarysha84
      @tiarysha84 2 месяца назад +3

      Same here… keyword: intently…
      Extremely receptive to Charlie’s advice!

    • @WaywordDaughter
      @WaywordDaughter 19 дней назад

      @@tiarysha84 That's what happens when young men and woman are genuinely surrounded by good morals and good character, young men and woman are drawn to that, and they smile and feel happy because they are proud of themselves.
      You can either be guided by the immoral or the moral..
      It shows how malleable their young minds still are, and the danger they face when surround by the wrong influences, it's up to good people to guide them correctly and surround them with the inner will for values such as dignity, morals and self worth.
      Even watching them, if they only knew how much they glowed when they all agreed with the waiting and respecting themselves, and their future partners, their bodies, their souls concured with those thoughts!

  • @nycish7148
    @nycish7148 2 месяца назад +80

    Not one male in this audience was combative towards him when talking about masculinity. They seemed as if they needed to be reassured that there are things you can do to respect yourself and and still be attractive but to not give in right away, thus restoring confidence in these young men. Charlie is definitely preaching to these young men! Salute to you! We must uplift our fellow men.

    • @nrg6245
      @nrg6245 2 месяца назад +9

      When he said they all look at it thru a porn lense they all kept quiet and really reflected.

    • @captainchaos3053
      @captainchaos3053 2 месяца назад

      Do none of these kids have fathers? This guy should not have to explain this to guys this age.

    • @nycish7148
      @nycish7148 11 дней назад

      @@captainchaos3053 yea, kids ALWAYS listen to their parents...

    • @captainchaos3053
      @captainchaos3053 10 дней назад

      @@nycish7148 mine do.

  • @88earthstar
    @88earthstar 2 месяца назад +56

    I love this voice for men! Women want clean and strong men with self control. Beautiful women want strong men. Thank you for speaking to men about this. We need men with self control these days.

    • @dianewalters4851
      @dianewalters4851 Месяц назад

      Amen! My 23-year-old daughter did exactly that, she and her husband waited. My 21-year-old daughter is still a virgin. I love Charlie reaching out to these young men because they need to hear this.

  • @pimp4984
    @pimp4984 3 месяца назад +56

    I agree man, beautiful words by Charlie

  • @sandystormable
    @sandystormable 2 месяца назад +23

    Thank you Charlie for reaching out to these young men…we need more self control in this world

  • @sandychilese2893
    @sandychilese2893 2 месяца назад +25

    Charlie is an exceptional person, indeed.

  • @HillCountryBluebonnet88
    @HillCountryBluebonnet88 3 месяца назад +26

    It’s not estrogen it’s oxytocin. It is released to INCREASE pair bonding. It’s also release during pregnancy to increase the bond with your unborn child. These guys just don’t want to be celibate until marriage.

    • @aimeer201
      @aimeer201 Месяц назад

      It's also released in men, but with different effects.

  • @chrisrussell8245
    @chrisrussell8245 3 месяца назад +47

    That's hilarious because I was raised in the bible belt and dating with the goal of finding a life partner is baked into the cake. These guys minds are blown like they've never heard this crazy idea 😂😂

    • @1986LuisK
      @1986LuisK 3 месяца назад +4

      Exactly

    • @macgregormick65
      @macgregormick65 2 месяца назад

      As much as I can agree with you every 3rd add is a woman selling “ tool hardener “ for men even in this video . Advertising is a powerful thing. But abstinence before marriage should be brought back as a virtue

    • @Redtop1919
      @Redtop1919 2 месяца назад +1

      @@macgregormick65you watching RUclips with ads 😂

    • @macgregormick65
      @macgregormick65 2 месяца назад

      @@Redtop1919 yeah , the Mrs paid for premium but for some reason I can’t connect to the family sharing. So 5 seconds of 304s telling men what they need lol

    • @Redtop1919
      @Redtop1919 2 месяца назад

      @@macgregormick65 that sucks bro. You gotta get that figured out.

  • @toddmiller1039
    @toddmiller1039 2 месяца назад +21

    Wow. Charlie Kirk is amazing. So smart, brave and unapologetic. Keep speaking and planting the seeds of truth to these young people Charlie. This world so desperately needs it!!

  • @angelowhite4701
    @angelowhite4701 3 месяца назад +50

    When you resist sx before you marry and have sx with your spouse that' the only one you want to have it with. It's the one when you get that desire to have it with. It creates a special bond and when I try to explain it to people but they don't understand. It takes a very, very strong person to do what's right when the majority of the people around you trying to make you do what you know is wrong. Yes being a virgin takes 100 times more strength today than in the past. As my dad said " stop trying to prove you're a man, just be a man. Don't let others view of you influence you to go down a path of self destruction. Live your life so when you look in the mirror and see yourself you can see yourself as a man of honor and dignity."

    • @isleofcats9052
      @isleofcats9052 2 месяца назад +1

      The only thing I would worry about re: sex before marriage is, what if you get married but you're both incompatible in the bedroom? I think sex is a very important part of a relationship

    • @TheAh78
      @TheAh78 2 месяца назад +6

      ​@isleofcats9052 Sex is important in marriage, but it isn't the most important. If the husband and wife have a deep love, respect, and admiration for each other, sex won't be an issue.

    • @Silva-je3bu
      @Silva-je3bu 2 месяца назад

      If you really love your partner, sex will be good, or you make it good together.

    • @Silva-je3bu
      @Silva-je3bu 2 месяца назад +1

      Sounds like you have a great father. Wish you were dating my daughter.

    • @Heavyisthecrown
      @Heavyisthecrown 2 месяца назад

      @@isleofcats9052incompatible? How so.. how would you be? You would learn sex together and talk about and do what you like. Maybe if you’re into creepy fetishs. But if that you, you need to suppress those and get help

  • @queenbee4637
    @queenbee4637 3 месяца назад +11

    My husband and I were Virgin when we got together and been married for 20yrs. Even tho we didn't wait till our marriage but we did wait for over a year haha Don't rush to give up ur body..waiting to give it to the right person is worth it. It helps build a stronger lasting relationship where both people respect each other enough to wait. God bless u brother.

  • @richardcarle786
    @richardcarle786 2 месяца назад +9

    I became a dad at the age of 17! It was quite the issue to my daughter's mom that I had been with several (13) people before we got together! I don't say this with any pride whatsoever. I regret the immoral life that I lived. To be honest I was Never faithful either, in ANY relationship I had, wether it was a serious relationship or not! Sex is something that is sacred between a Man and his wife, and that marriage is sacred between him and her and God! All I can say is be strong, especially in this day and age! You don't want to look back and have a lifetime of regrets!! I spend most of my days now trying to please my father in heaven and wishing I had done that all along!!

    • @swaggytj23
      @swaggytj23 2 месяца назад

      Great insight, I don’t know if I’ll keep my V card until marriage (I’m 18 in community college) but I’m definitely self aware about the Gen Z hookup culture, and personally I find it unappealing. I’ll lose my V card when I feel comfortable doing so, but hopefully it’s with the girl I’ll eventually marry.

    • @betht7591
      @betht7591 2 месяца назад +1

      @@swaggytj23 please do not lose it. Once it's gone you can't get it back. I didn't have the support around me, and ended of taking a chance. Now I can't go back and fix it. I radically accept reality. But I am warning you, please save it for marriage. You'll be very thankful you did.

  • @HillCountryBluebonnet88
    @HillCountryBluebonnet88 3 месяца назад +37

    I am divorced, for a long time now, (over 25 years) but I am and will continue to be celibate until and unless I find the man I should have waited to marry.

  • @SnazzyJazzy-iw9wj
    @SnazzyJazzy-iw9wj Месяц назад +3

    The first guy was trying SO HARD for Charlie to say that having sex somehow makes men more manly or something.
    I'm so glad that he didn't! I'm a woman in my 30s that thinks hookup culture is trashy, and I get grossed out when men brag about how many women they've slept with

  • @jay62moon
    @jay62moon 2 месяца назад +3

    Your theme song at the end is literally everything Charlie is against😂😂

  • @user-rj3dz6dz3b
    @user-rj3dz6dz3b 2 месяца назад +5

    Thank you Charlie for teaching these innocent children morals and values. It doesn’t matter what in what religion or not your kids please have self respect and values. Do be a dog and 🤬 any holes? Please have self respect’s and values. Lord have mercy on you kids! 🙌💒🙏😖😖😖😖

  • @user-jq4tb7yr8m
    @user-jq4tb7yr8m 3 месяца назад +46

    Wow! Surprisingly enough? he had all of those young people connected to him on the topic of trying to hold your sexual desires under control. The truth they were hearing was so true and vivid to them on that topic of what he was speaking on, that they did not become all wild, crazy and disrespectful, like screaming at him? because they knew he was speaking with knowledge, facts and truth to them.

    • @mousetreehouse6833
      @mousetreehouse6833 3 месяца назад +4

      And how many young men hear the stuff that Charlie is talking about? Not many, not these days, that's for sure!

    • @user-jq4tb7yr8m
      @user-jq4tb7yr8m 3 месяца назад +4

      @@mousetreehouse6833 That’s true! when I was young, I did the total opposite of what Charlie was talking about? My dad also told me the same things, when you decide to talk to a girl that you are attracted to? it’s should be about getting to know her to marry her with no sex involved. But I messed around in the late 1980’s in the hook up culture” and now have been paying the consequences for not doing things correctly in the eyes of God and my father.

  • @michaelcole4197
    @michaelcole4197 2 месяца назад +20

    We dated 4 years before we got married and waited till our wedding night. I definitely don't regret

  • @ashleycroydon9743
    @ashleycroydon9743 Месяц назад +1

    Dad always said 5 plus years no one can hold a facade for that long. Years may need to be updated nowadays

  • @michalklein5219
    @michalklein5219 2 месяца назад +1

    Excellent, showing this to both my sons. Thank you!

  • @alizaalberino9263
    @alizaalberino9263 15 дней назад

    I love Charlie hes just such a smart and passionate man i love how he gets u involed in talking about things that many dont want to hear!!

  • @elisabethkolling6697
    @elisabethkolling6697 2 месяца назад +2

    I had a high school teacher back in the early '70s who said you shouldn't date someone if there's something about them that would keep you from marrying them. Why? Because logically, you're going to end up marrying someone you date.
    Case in point would be my sister. She was a Christian and wanted a Christian husband. But she went on a date with a non-Christian guy, and he's the one she fell in love with, and ultimately married.

  • @Justheretowatch321
    @Justheretowatch321 2 месяца назад +2

    It’s crazy to me that people do not knowing what dating is really for! You date because you’re ready to find a wife or husband…… what else would it be for.. entertainment? 💔

  • @stephenkasputis2502
    @stephenkasputis2502 29 дней назад +1

    I'm 25 who's also a guy and is a virgin. I'm def glad I watched this video. Makes me feel somewhat better about myself

  • @conniekellogg6774
    @conniekellogg6774 3 месяца назад +27

    It's called self control

    • @Frank-DuxVanDamme
      @Frank-DuxVanDamme 2 месяца назад +1

      Or it's I just can't get some 😭 Just saying. I'm 47 and never ever saw a guy who refuses to have sex with his partner.

    • @Starsteam1
      @Starsteam1 2 месяца назад +1

      Why do we need self control if it's accepted on both ends.

    • @betht7591
      @betht7591 2 месяца назад

      ​@@Starsteam1because it's not accepted with God.

    • @Starsteam1
      @Starsteam1 2 месяца назад +1

      @@betht7591 You don't know what god wants from it's people.

    • @betht7591
      @betht7591 2 месяца назад

      He doesn't want fornication I can tell you that for sure.

  • @danielquintana7499
    @danielquintana7499 2 месяца назад +8

    Was a pleasure to see a calm and honest discussion. The kids in this one were respectful and seemed sincere with their questions and comments. Well done

  • @taylorcronin955
    @taylorcronin955 3 месяца назад +12

    I disagree with Charlie. People need more shame in their lives. You do bad you SHOULD be ashamed. I got drunk last night, my kitchen is a mess and I'm ashamed as I should be😊

    • @ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven
      @ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven 2 месяца назад +2

      People need grace... youre not perfect you deserve the grace to make mistakes... lacking accountability is another story

    • @isleofcats9052
      @isleofcats9052 2 месяца назад +1

      And so you should be, clean that mess up matey!

    • @taylorcronin955
      @taylorcronin955 2 месяца назад +1

      @@isleofcats9052 don't tell me what to do 52.

    • @isleofcats9052
      @isleofcats9052 2 месяца назад

      @@taylorcronin955 Obviously once you've sobered up, though I found when I drank that it's much better to be hungover in a tidy place than a messy one

    • @taylorcronin955
      @taylorcronin955 2 месяца назад +1

      @@isleofcats9052 maybe you'd find cleaning my house cathartic then. Lil nostalgic even. Any time after that.

  • @annbow4064
    @annbow4064 2 месяца назад +1

    I have never saw the point in pointless dating,its using someone so you wont be alone and waisting their time and your own.

  • @kimbasavvy
    @kimbasavvy 2 месяца назад +1

    Charlie kirk and myron debate is something I need to see happen

  • @SuperAllears
    @SuperAllears 3 месяца назад +27

    I've seen a photo of Charlie Kirk 's wife.........she is beautiful.

    • @GodLovesYou1624
      @GodLovesYou1624 3 месяца назад +1

      She SAIID she was a virgin 😉

    • @GodLovesYou1624
      @GodLovesYou1624 2 месяца назад

      @@betht7591 I didn’t say Charlie would lie. Man you must love him romantically to get so defensive. I said that she said she was a virgin, and men believe women when we love them. Don’t worry, they won’t see your comment and fly you out to hang. Let’s not insult. God bless

    • @GodLovesYou1624
      @GodLovesYou1624 2 месяца назад

      @@betht7591 also I didn’t. I’ve been with 26 females in my 36 years alive. Wish I had waited. But I’m not jealous. My path has been laid before me and I’ve walked it well. Take care again

    • @betht7591
      @betht7591 2 месяца назад +1

      Stop regretting and living in remorse. That is a sin.

    • @GodLovesYou1624
      @GodLovesYou1624 2 месяца назад +1

      @@betht7591 true. Thank you

  • @tabster83
    @tabster83 Месяц назад

    He is speaking truth for us sane people out there. I only date with the intention of marriage.

  • @kayceetaylor2151
    @kayceetaylor2151 2 месяца назад

    I appreciate your reaction videos, bro! You have wise comments, and are easy on the eyes, which anyone can appreciate! Keep it up! I hope you continue to grow in success in all your righteous endeavors! God bless you and yours!

  • @rebeccaraoufpur4542
    @rebeccaraoufpur4542 2 месяца назад +4

    this is amazing

  • @HandofBlake
    @HandofBlake 2 месяца назад +3

    3 weeks after I met my wife, she moved in, we married shortly after, been together for 13 years now. You don’t need 3 years to get to know somebody.

    • @Heavyisthecrown
      @Heavyisthecrown 2 месяца назад +1

      Seriously. We did the same. Been married since 21 with kids and now we’re 29

  • @ryanwhite9437
    @ryanwhite9437 17 дней назад

    That Steve Nash jersey goes hard tho

  • @wouldntyouliketoknow12345
    @wouldntyouliketoknow12345 2 месяца назад +1

    Pre-maritial sx is complicated. I was dating this guy and he was waiting for marriage. I respected that. 4 years of dating, he asked me to be his wife, we got married 1 year later. Our wedding night, he let out the biggest sigh and said "Fine, let's get this over with." Excuse me, what? He never wanted to have sx, come to find out 2 years after being married, that he's gay and has been sneaking around with other men. I feel (I could be wrong), that if we didn't wait til marriage, I would have figured out he was gay BEFORE we got married. I was one who always believed in marriage and making it work... and... he lied to me about something that cannot be worked out.

    • @futurelane3377
      @futurelane3377 Месяц назад

      lol 😂that’s not premarital sex’s fault. U telling me this guy kept the DL for 4 years? No signs were dropped? And did the men in ur family look at him as well? Everybody gives signs. U might have not been able to read them but somebody else can

  • @Kimx3.
    @Kimx3. 2 месяца назад +1

    I love your videos keep it up ! 🎉

  • @jillwilliams2352
    @jillwilliams2352 10 дней назад

    Met and married my husband within 6 months, celebrating our 48th year together

  • @nrg6245
    @nrg6245 2 месяца назад +2

    These young men really reflected and learned from him here. He’s right. Porn has ruined the societies morality in a way.

  • @zacharyhalma9017
    @zacharyhalma9017 Месяц назад

    6:01 the moment everyone knew he was right

  • @scottylockhart4282
    @scottylockhart4282 3 месяца назад +13

    its not that hard man. You're just weak. You can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens you

    • @FireRising86
      @FireRising86 10 дней назад

      Bullshit. Where was he when my dad died and I prayed my eyes out for him to pull through? Now I'm diabetic and dying, so yeah, Jesus really strengthened me...

  • @drunkduck8073
    @drunkduck8073 3 дня назад +1

    As a girl who wants to wait until merriage I would be mostly happy if my partner is waiting too. That's insanly attractive to me. Charlie is right about strong man having self-control. It's about sharing values. If you're surrounded by friends who are shaming your values maybe you should find another group of friends or pls be strong and don't give into pressure. It will be so worth it when you find the right person.

  • @phonglinhmangav2939
    @phonglinhmangav2939 Месяц назад

    People nowadays is going wild like animal. No self control, no discipline. As long it is what they want they would do it, no consideraction of consequences.

  • @Gone_Rogue300
    @Gone_Rogue300 2 месяца назад +2

    Charlie the GOAT 💪🏾

  • @daleanthony4632
    @daleanthony4632 3 месяца назад +10

    This one's a bullseye 🎯

  • @zadenabi
    @zadenabi Месяц назад +1

    Not to mention intimacy is not always sexual and sex is not always intimate

  • @DENNY-COOL-AND-GANG
    @DENNY-COOL-AND-GANG Месяц назад

    Great channel my friend.

  • @ToaMeikhaal
    @ToaMeikhaal 3 дня назад

    Wow. This guy! He wants to be in a relationship for THREE YEARS before even thinking about marriage? Talk about opening yourself up to temptation! My wife and I were married four months after we met, and we're going on thirteen happy years now.

  • @user-df2uu3qp3y
    @user-df2uu3qp3y 3 месяца назад +5

    where can i see the original video?

  • @Clair1801
    @Clair1801 27 дней назад

    “Yeah I don’t have stds, go to hell.” God bless Charlie Kirk lol.

  • @allaw1726
    @allaw1726 2 месяца назад

    Love is our highest DEVINE POWERS healing energy ! 🤗😇 ! Innocents is beautiful and highly respected as a culture ! Love is between two people who truly respect each other and trust is a bond that holds relationships together . unconditional love for each other ! Life partner ! Thats a very beautiful out look on life ! TOGETHER for ever as one ! DEVINE ENERGY BEING ! I love you all ... Respect ! 😇 ! Thank you , God bless all ....

  • @ryutak4152
    @ryutak4152 20 дней назад

    When I was in high school, girls laughed at other girls for being virgins so those girls lost it as soon as they could as well. This is the world we live in and this can be transpolated to other things as well.

  • @DGregster
    @DGregster 2 месяца назад +2

    Too late for me to save myself for marriage, but I've been saving myself for almost the last two years. As soon as I started, I started finding more desirable women who share the same values as me. I think it's God's way of pointing me in the right direction.

  • @gomeettupoc50cent
    @gomeettupoc50cent 2 месяца назад

    This guy simply does not want to hold himself accountable

  • @nrg6245
    @nrg6245 2 месяца назад

    That’s right. It’s all about the intention.

  • @captainchaos3053
    @captainchaos3053 2 месяца назад

    How do these people not know the difference

  • @333333joshua
    @333333joshua 2 месяца назад +2

    Women may still have the attachment and may want to get back with their ex but they get over the break up fully easier or quicker than men. For me, my mind plagued me for years, because I was bottling it up

  • @HillCountryBluebonnet88
    @HillCountryBluebonnet88 3 месяца назад +3

    That is the entire point of dating, or at least should be.
    If you’re not ready to marry, not looking for someone to spend your life with, then you shouldn’t be dating.
    If the person you are dating is not someone who you could possibly consider marriage material, what is the point?

    • @Gez-C
      @Gez-C 3 месяца назад

      To be happy perhaps?

    • @HillCountryBluebonnet88
      @HillCountryBluebonnet88 2 месяца назад +1

      @@Gez-C
      How does wasting time with someone you know is only going to be temporary make you happy?
      Does it make them happy? Knowing that they are just a place filler.
      I’ve been on both sides of that situation and let me tell you, it’s not something that makes both people happy.
      One of them is wishing that the other will see them as more than just a convenient receptacle until someone better comes along.
      One of them is hoping that the other one will be someone who will love them.
      One of them is praying that the other one has found someone they want to spend the rest of their lives with.
      One of them is going to be heartbroken when the other one, the one they thought was THE one, walks away without a second thought.
      Trust me, there is no happiness to be found in dating just for “fun” or to scratch an itch.
      Dating with purpose is much more fulfilling.
      Clear expectations from the beginning makes it much easier for people to move on.
      As soon as you know that their goals in life are not aligned, do not have the same values, don’t want the same things from life that the other person wants, they can then look for someone else who does.

    • @annbow4064
      @annbow4064 2 месяца назад

      ​@@Gez-CWhy would using someone make you happy,and they will not like being used to fill your time till someone better comes along.

    • @Gez-C
      @Gez-C 2 месяца назад

      @@HillCountryBluebonnet88 Never said I was wasting anyones time, Im happily with someone and have been for many years, but neither of us want to marry, doesn’t mean that were not committed to one another!

    • @tigerlily2086
      @tigerlily2086 2 месяца назад

      ​@Gez-C out of curiosity....why do neither of you want to marry if each of you is committed to the other and happy? Marriage is the ultimate commitment and when 2 people are happily committed to one another, then marriage would the bond that solidifies that and what those 2 people say they have and feel.

  • @GoWithAndy-cp8tz
    @GoWithAndy-cp8tz Месяц назад

    All that is true!

  • @kayshakes2981
    @kayshakes2981 Месяц назад +1

    I don't think it was all about religion even centuries ago, I think it was a case of common sense.
    modern day all the single parent families, STD's, the old ways made a lot of sense on a lot of levels.

  • @phil.l.1327
    @phil.l.1327 2 месяца назад +1

    People are always looking for that perfect person. 'There is no such thing as a perfect person and there is no such thing as perfect period.' People need to get that out of they're heads. People are naturally imperfect by default and there's no changing that.

    • @Opa773
      @Opa773 2 месяца назад +1

      That is a reason to work at all time to self improve . Society has just decided not to , lowered their standers . It’s EASY .

    • @phil.l.1327
      @phil.l.1327 2 месяца назад

      @@Opa773 Yep, unfortunately society has taken the easier more non-dangerous route and is suffering for it. Worse, the people who think they have this all figured out, know this and refuse to take accountability or any responsibility for they're poor choices and/or theyre own actions.

  • @lynannemillerwellnesscoach9885
    @lynannemillerwellnesscoach9885 2 месяца назад +1

    I understand that culturally and traditionally this is true.. man, and I would say across the world, are able to have as many women as they want and they are respected, lauded and praised...... but if a woman did the same she is condemned as a harlot, to put it mildly. Has anyone ever read the story Tess of the d'urbervilles? She forgave her fiance for being intimate with someone before their marriage.. when she felt safe to share that she had done the same, she was ashamed, condemned and Outcast. Is Holiness and Purity only for women ? And how would a woman who has saved herself feel that he has slept with 67 other women.. there is no going back on that

  • @blastradius9136
    @blastradius9136 2 дня назад

    Man we have a lot of work to do in America trying to turn young people around.

  • @LightningBeam51
    @LightningBeam51 2 месяца назад

    Never sure which eye to look at when you talk and please put up subtitles, it's hard to listen. That said we really appreciate you putting these vids up, keep up the good work.

  • @Daxmcd3078
    @Daxmcd3078 2 месяца назад

    I have a body count of 7 that I unfortunately have to carry with me the rest of my life. And more upsetting is these numbers went from 1 in 2021 to 7 by the end of 2023… so in only a short time. And i was okay with the fact it was only 1 with a girl I dated for 4 years but after her and I broke up in the end of 2021 I found it difficult to find a girl and just found myself having sex with women and a lot of them didn’t have interest in me after or anything and it wasn’t until I met my wife who’s extremely traditional and a virgin (and thank God doesn’t judge anything about my past) now I find myself realizing I messed up but there’s nothing I can do about it

    • @joey2729
      @joey2729 2 месяца назад +1

      Don’t be so hard on yourself

  • @tinas2857
    @tinas2857 Месяц назад

    What Charlie mentioned about the attachment that a woman gets with a man, after sex, is caused by release of oxytocin, (aka, the ‘cuddle bug’)

  • @user-ff7cx7to4f
    @user-ff7cx7to4f Месяц назад

    The whole reason for dating is to get to know the other person kids today think dating is only for getting laid

  • @metallicman10000
    @metallicman10000 2 месяца назад

    That was my issue. I bought into the idea of dating without the intent to marry. Social pressure sucks, but having discipline is sweet.

  • @IBmisspeppermint
    @IBmisspeppermint Месяц назад

    OH Arizona State University Tempe - so embarrassing 🫣

  • @asoncalledvoonch2210
    @asoncalledvoonch2210 Месяц назад

    Dude in the glasses thinks he's Myron Gaines.

  • @annbow4064
    @annbow4064 2 месяца назад +8

    Thats why i dont date if i look at someone and know for whatever reason i would never marry them i wont waste a min of their time or my own,thats not to say i expect to marry anybody just because i went out with them,but i dont date for the sake of it so if i know i would never marry them for whatever reason i dont go there at all.

  • @whatuonboa1576
    @whatuonboa1576 2 месяца назад

    First guy is my boy

  • @PennySixx-di7um
    @PennySixx-di7um 2 месяца назад

    What’s better…. Having a laundry list of how many strangers you had sexual relationships with (and how “kink” it was or how “freak off” the interactions were) like a revolving door if ppl just proving to each other EXACTLY how insignificant and disposable they all are to each other…. OR…. spending your time with someone who actually LOVES you… knows all your likes/dislikes, your childhood stories, knows your family and friends, knows what happened that caused every scar (physically/emotionally) that has your back and is your best friend and ally in a world where you need that more than ever! Someone you trust, takes care of you when you’re sick, cheers for you when you succeed, has seen you at your worst and at your best and it’s all REAL and cherished… you fight and argue but sometimes but it’s about IMPORTANT things not BS and it happens because you give a shit about that person and they give a shit about you!!! A witness to your LIFE that WANTS to be there and go through it with you and wants you to be a witness to theirs…. Until the end.
    And it WILL end!!!! Stop wasting your life on a random fuck…. you WILL regret it! One day you’ll be facing the end of your life and all you’ll have is a long list of sexual encounters with ppl who didn’t care about you in the least or any of the other ppl on THEIR long list of ppl that never mattered. But you could have someone who has LOVED you, who stuck with you, who knows you, who has been the most engaged witness to YOUR life because you matter to them and they’ll miss you and think about you and talk about your life after you’re gone. But yeah …sex with whoever and being “free” of an “old ball and chain” sounds like a way better option 😉

  • @kiyobot123
    @kiyobot123 3 месяца назад +3

    As a women, I can say that I wouldn't be attracted to a virgin.

    • @GorramT
      @GorramT 3 месяца назад +1

      And how high is your body count?

    • @kiyobot123
      @kiyobot123 2 месяца назад

      @@JaneCurtright-zs1lr I'm sure I am... can't help what I'm attracted to

    • @kiyobot123
      @kiyobot123 2 месяца назад

      Below 4

    • @kiyobot123
      @kiyobot123 2 месяца назад

      @@GorramTbelow 4... and I'm 40... that's not the point.

    • @sharonrussell4491
      @sharonrussell4491 2 месяца назад

      If you are no longer a virgin, keep looking.

  • @KaxantheDragon
    @KaxantheDragon 2 месяца назад

    💯

  • @tylerwatson5976
    @tylerwatson5976 2 месяца назад +1

    See that’s the problem with todays world. Dating is something done so loosely these days. If I’m “dating” someone, it’s to find my life partner. Why else are you dating? We are in a world where intimacy is only known as sex. 😂🤷🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @queenstar9299
    @queenstar9299 Месяц назад

    I love low to no body count men. ❤ they show discipline and to me, are more trustworthy.

  • @scottmcclure8933
    @scottmcclure8933 Месяц назад

    I wish I had remained a virgin. My wife was 28 yrs old and a virgin when we married. I respected her choice to wait until marriage and wish I would have, as the process of desensitization affect relationships if you’re used to seeing the naked female form or male form over and over again. That really shined with my wife having never been intimate and it makes it that much more special between us.

  • @damienveals7641
    @damienveals7641 Месяц назад

    Yupp. I wish I would have known what I was doing to myself my teen years sleeping around. I tell children now, guy at work had his 15 year old son in the shop, his uncle said he needs to get laid I said no please don’t . Save yourself until you get married and then come thank me. Having sex before marriage does nothing but bad for you.

  • @TheFruitingChamber
    @TheFruitingChamber Месяц назад

    If you are from the UK why are you flying our flag? Lol

  • @Silva-je3bu
    @Silva-je3bu 2 месяца назад +1

    Seems as if these young people are concerned that they want to have sex so they will be sure they will enjoy their partner. In truth, if they save themselves for the “ one”, they will make sex better because they love each other enough. It’s very hard, but very rewarding.

  • @breecoward2289
    @breecoward2289 12 дней назад

    I agree to an extent, but honestly charlie shouldve spoken more about how people who ARENT virgins can reachive this. Because the majority of the society is ,in fact, NOT virgins.

  • @vincelafore4281
    @vincelafore4281 2 месяца назад

    Lmao. That wut charones were for. We just snuck around it

  • @berrywine6579
    @berrywine6579 Месяц назад

    You don't have to have sex, live together, get married. Just go out with each other and have a good time.

  • @DPRyan-vd5pp
    @DPRyan-vd5pp Месяц назад

    Your generation has it easy with phones!…Back in the 80’s we had to sneak playboys from our dad, uncles, or friends older brothers houses to look at! Lol as famously said on impractical jokers “date a handy, marry a blowy”

  • @hail2703
    @hail2703 2 месяца назад

    God knows best. Look at Charlie’s life.

  • @damienveals7641
    @damienveals7641 Месяц назад +2

    My cousin met her husband at Bible college in Louisiana. They met 4 or 5 times. Had real serious conversations. He came up and got to know her family and her dad married them a month later. They knew how many children they wanted and everything in those first few meetings. Both virgins and they don’t have anything to argue about they have an amazing relationship and a house full of children now.

  • @Reluctant_J
    @Reluctant_J 3 месяца назад

    Like B4 watching just 4 the title 👍🏻

  • @jasonking4037
    @jasonking4037 2 месяца назад

    That liberal makes me think he's a real-life Michael Kelso.

  • @Cool_Cat89989
    @Cool_Cat89989 15 часов назад

    i hate that i'm going to have to grow up (btw i'm a 13 year old boy) with this concept in men that you shouldn't marry anyone and do whatever and not take any responsibility for your actions it sucks because i want to marry eventually and have kids but because of feminism and all that nonsense its going to be very hard god bless it changes in 5 or so years

  • @connieyarga9798
    @connieyarga9798 2 месяца назад

    You r ready

  • @margaritasandler7883
    @margaritasandler7883 2 месяца назад

    This is so good these students are listening without opposition and aggression

  • @terezka5340
    @terezka5340 Месяц назад

    It ś true. My respect for my male friend went up the roof after his female friends told me he is refusing to have sex with them if they don´t want to commit in serious relationship. Itś the most manly thing. Because part of being manly is protecting women... It´s super sexy

  • @wonderwhy5824
    @wonderwhy5824 3 месяца назад +2

    Tell this story way more.. please. Its so true. God made us, He made sex, He knows what He's doing. I'm almost 50 years old. And I wish I knew this when I was young

    • @betht7591
      @betht7591 2 месяца назад

      Don't feel bad. God forgives.

    • @betht7591
      @betht7591 2 месяца назад

      You learned your lesson the hard way.

  • @huckthomas7231
    @huckthomas7231 Месяц назад

    I generally respect Charlie, but could not disagree more with his archaic stance that marriage should be the goal for all. I've never wanted to marry and feel just fine about that.

  • @Arlene_DOTK
    @Arlene_DOTK 2 месяца назад

    Why do you re-post a lot of Charlie's videos? Genuinely curious 🤔

  • @lesliel4126
    @lesliel4126 2 месяца назад +1

    I also as a female don’t want a guy with a high body count

  • @michalklein5219
    @michalklein5219 2 месяца назад

    What he must be? By Voddie Baucham Jr

  • @GroundZero_US
    @GroundZero_US 2 месяца назад

    There’s a big difference between being voluntarily celibate and involuntarily celibate. The former can signify strength and latter weakness.

    • @ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven
      @ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven 2 месяца назад

      Whats involuntary?.

    • @GroundZero_US
      @GroundZero_US 2 месяца назад

      ​@@ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven - Means they're celibate against their will. If they could get a girl they would - but they can't so they're called "involuntary celibates" or "incels" for short.