I’m a 49 year old man. I learned years ago that Rejection is a blessing!🙌🏾 I thank God I didn’t marry or have children with women that rejected me in the past. Any man reading this you need to put God first before anything or anyone in life. Go find a get on your purpose and block these toxic females out of your life.
Woooooooooooow. Indeed God required, and women who say they are seeing someone but NOT in a relationship with anyone rather as a mechanism to push one off.
thats what it is ,,,,they look for the faults and flaws in a good man, when pookie and ray ray can be on parole with a case pending and thats aight....me on the other hand ...i come home late from work from going to the cvs store because we needed paper towels and i was out tricking with the local neighborhood hooers....i was always doing something wrong
@@ZooTrekkerChroniclesDay don't won't love,Day won't good sex like isle hue men's. Sexual a track Shawn was create Ted four rie pro duck shawn,knot love inn rie lay Shawn ships. ✌️✌️Love inn rie lay Shawn ships are social constructs, But a track Shawn is a build inn survive mechanism. Women isle way chose de write guys bee cause it's program inn dim two. Women are nature's natural quality control. Love ore how Amen treats her does ant matter.
I was disrespected, walked over and treated like crap. Once I realized who I was, I made sure no female was ever gonna have the best of me. These females have lost their damn minds.
They especially hate it when they come crawling back expecting you to welcome them with open arms like nothing ever happened and you make them face what they did.
The reality of that is that women by nature are incapable of loving a man. They love what you do for them, not you individually. Stop doing and buying shit and she will leave you for one who can.
The reasons many women throw away good men is because deep down inside the hearts ♥️ minds, and souls of women they KNOW they aren’t worthy of those men!! They aren’t good women!!
Yup, a lot of women hate themselves. So when you show them love they get uncomfortable and either aren't used to it so don't know how to react to it or just feel unworthy of it.
even if they are a good woman, they dont have the traits and skills to keep a good man around.....always running around with ur gfs to the mall etc isnt gonna cut it when ure pushing 30 ladies, ure about 15 years late to the party
Usually when girls say they left a good ex i typically think either the sex wasn't that good to her or dude didn't make enough money for her and she had dudes who made more showing her attention. The grass isn't always greener but they think it is because of temporary pleasures which is why they end up as side bishes at best in they 40s and 50s.
If they're gonna be side bishes in their 40s and 50s then she was prolly a side bish in her 20s and 30s. They run because they can't stand on the expectations. I know, bro. My girls mom was like this in our relationship. She didn't stay 15 years for bad dk. I was and still am the complete package! She couldn't live up.
Also, trash wmn know they can't be trashy with a good man because he won't tolerate her behavior. So, for her, it's easier and more comfortable to go back to the streets with other trashy men. It's crazy, but true.
yeah that girl in the video is feeling like hot shit now at 21, but its pretty clear with her attitude she aint gonna keep or attract a good man. But honestly its great for her ex that she freed him.
I can relate big time. I was married to a woman 25yrs. Helped raise two kids that had fathers who abandoned them. I started a business and had a three year plan. Well, I put us in a awesome house and build a foundation. Then just out of the blue she started treating me bad. You guessed it. She was cheating. Ask me for a divorce. I was devastated. Crushed me but I excepted it. So I moved on with my business which is now very successful. 1 year later I met a wonderful caring woman who just enjoyed my loving heart. Watch this. My ex broke up with her fling and tried to come back. Even called my girlfriends job. Well that girlfriend is now my wife of 10 years. She is still loving my caring heart.
So many times , a good man has to provide the non sexual part of the relationship for free. Which is why I don't do the friend zone thing. Don't call me asking for things if your not willing to do a worthwhile trade. I don't do nothing for nothing, especially for women whom I'm not in a relationship with.
Lady friend came back 1 1/2 years later and I did not take her back. Her family told her she was stupid for messing up a good thing for her self. She has no retirement plan and will probably be homeless like so many women now that are now homeless.
I am said to be mean. They leave. See what is really out there. And they ALL have asked to come back. I am not mean. I just have rules I live by. Most women are so use to being the Boss of their lives. That when a man comes along. She will fight with him. Rather than work with him.
If this happens let her go back to the streets! Don't fight to keep her and whatever you do don't Beg!! Wish her the best & GO NO CONTACT! Let her go and NEVER take her back!!
As a man who has been left by women who claimed I was either too good or too nice only to end up in bad relationships with dudes that treated them worse.. I wonder if they feel this same way.. it's funny because I just saw a post on social media where a woman wasn't interested in a man who treated her good but was head over heels for a man who treats her like crap... society has created this mindset
They're stupid like that. They mess the hell out of everything up and then wanna to come back and try to get us to fix what they messed up ,I won't do it.
Been married 3 times. They don’t like system, order and structure. Instead they embrace chaos. Many black women don’t know peace when they see it, they call it boring.
Actually, Dnieka, the true problem is that these women are not actually attracted to the guy to begin with, but yet, and still, you go out with him. If you don't like him, don't go out with him, leave him alone. Like Kevin Samuels said: don't go out on a dinner date if you don't like him.
Day won't bee cause love doesn't exist,It's just a word. ✌️✌️ Is inn your own mind,but pea pole. Love means, your giving mii what aye like and won't,but if day stop giving it two you,you'll say day don't love you. Rie lay Shawn ships are trades. You give me what aye won't and isle give you what you won't.
This is why God has ordained men for leadership. Men understand that every decision made involves tradeoffs. Women are blowing up great families to embark on their futile searches for “the One” and “happiness”. It never crosses her mind that she wasn’t the prettiest, sexiest, most stunning woman her husband has ever dated. However her complete package made her his wisest choice for a wife and mother. Women today are shunning wisdom and our communities are suffering for it. Never let the perfect be the enemy of the good.
Rejection is a gift . The person is not right for you . Move on and become a better person for you not them . Be happy in you and don’t waste your energy on these people .
THAT IS TRUE AND IF ANYTHING THAT PERSON THAT REJECTED YOU IS DOING YOU A FAVOR BY NOT WASTING YOUR TIME AND EMOTIONS AND THAT YOU DESERVE SOMEONE BETTER THAT IS COMING YOUR WAY
Everything you said is 💯 true. I experienced all that when I was younger. Now as I am older, I realized that it wasn’t me but it was the women that I met. I am now married to a foreigner female and really happy with her.
@@jaysouthmusic8230 just work on yourself to be established with a house and a steady job. When you’re ready to settle down, go to another country. I highly recommend the Philippines. The women there are old fashioned, smart, driven to excel, small / petite, and cute. But the best part is that they are a female!! They have faith in a man that he will lead the family correctly. Western women will argue that those women are submissive but that is not true. Those women from another country wants a man who is smart and can cope with every day problems.
This is very deep. Needed to hear this. Got 5 years of my life snatched from me for this very reason. It's one year in since the breakup. I've been to dark places and clawed my way back to reality. To be honest I am still healing cause I put my all in, built her up from nothing just to hear I'm not good enough for her now. I'm stronger now and slowly and purposely plotting a new life's course. We as men who try to do right end up going through hell...
It takes time men are not robots, as time pass you will feel better about yourself and your purpose, never look back at those that left you that's just 1 chapter in your book. You have plenty of chapters left!
im so glad i realized the value of a Good Woman, the fact that I left the game (Casual Sex) as a Guy tells me that the Women that choose the Game over a Good Relationship have no excuse
I doubt that they have enough self awareness to be regretful...and if they knew what they were doing and still picked that path then I say let them fall on the sword
Very true, they have no self awareness at therefore they cant ever reflect on things in hindsight. They will continue down that path of self destruction.
For real bro I feel this and every time you say something to them they get all out of whack I had a girlfriend breaks up with me because I asked her a simple question somebody told me they seen her doing something and I only asked her about it and she flipped out now she sees me out in public and looks at me up and down and don't say anything and roll her eyes😂😂😂😂
I can definitely relate Lil Big sis. My ex came back, then we tried, and then she dipped. I was foolish for trying to see past signs that I shouldn't have, but that makes me human. As of next year, I will tripling my income. Every attempt and decision I made, I took it on the chin and bowed out of the dating market gracefully. New years of new opportunities, she tried spinning the block again, and I blocked her like a bad habit. Now I have two years left for my graduate degree. My current girl is in Nigeria, waiting for me to make my way over to meet her family. My passport will be on its way shortly. I have no kids, no drama, planning on becoming fully remote at the end of 2025. Men get your passports😅✈️✈️✈️✈️✈️💯💯💯🙌.
Congrats homie. One thing, as a Nigerian American, make sure you vet her. Seriously. Every country has a spectrum of women and a good chunk of Nigerian women will drive you nuts and bleed your bank account dry. Pay close attention to her family's dynamics. Just be careful and keep your eyes open. Hopefully yours is one of the good ones. Good luck.
Good to know some women are turning the tables. Holding other women accountable. I stay out the way, I’m very busy and have no time to waste anymore. Thank you for your words
Yo...God always reveals the red Flags🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 if you pay attention and listen. Stay prayed up, and these pitfalls can be avoided. Im 39...and i can tell you...they always come back...just focus on what God has for you! It'll come if its not already in progress ✝️
Your video hit home for me. Recently got released from a two year relationship. I checked all the boxes as the good man. Bottom line, our relationship went from serious to her consciously putting me in the friend zone. All because we had an argument about her acting weird when I ask her to kiss me in public...then that snowballed into me supposedly having an issue with a friend of hers who I stated seeing her kiss in public. I've told her that we can't be friends, but she insists. And lastly she thinks I'm dumb, I feel as though now she just wants me in the friend zone to still get the "boyfriend" benefit. Not happening....
My woman and I of 7 years are going through this breakup. I’ve been paying all the bills, I take care of my child every single second, provided and supported her. She’s leaving me and found this other dude, I was a little hurt the first day then I shook back literally the next day women flocking to me and now she is regretting it, I wish her the best but feels good to be free again. Thought I was going to get married but FUCK THAT 😂
We all know that when a man has a mid-life crisis, he goes out & buys a new 🚘/🏍......In retrospect when a woman 🌬 goes through a mid-life crisis, she becomes a 🌪 and decides to wreck her own 🏡 home.....Suddenly the husband she's had for years is knowlonger good enough
That was my last relationship of 4 yrs, everything that you spoke on and preceded out of your mouth. The only thing is, she just haven't asked to come back. I think it's because her youngest daughter told her that I'm engaged to be married. Fellas there is nothing we can do to ever make those type women see us, until you leave and the really real reality kick in and karma visits her and she's alone and see us moving forward with the next woman.
oh they get the reality check....last time i saw my girl she was outside some club in the ghetto with her gf waiting for a cab....i thought to myself .....there it is right there...thats what you had....keywords had....bc i kept it moving and didnt act like i saw her
One thing I have realised is not to waste your time and energy or money on a woman who does not deserve it train your mind to be stronger than your feelings.
Good video I was a bad boy who got the chicks and had fun with them. These chicks dumped good guys to have fun with guys like myself back in my bad boy years so I used to play with them in every way possible and then treat them like trash because they deserve it. Many good guys I knew have been betrayed and hurt by their loved ones, and this actually affected me when I was in my early teens so I decided to be an a$$hole to any chicks who disrespects good men and treated them like sh*t. All the stupid chicks that I associated myself are so messed up in their lives and full of regret but I am not sympathetic one bit because they deserve what they get. A lot of these good guys do move on and end up with in a better position. I'm now married with kids but I set my boundaries with the wife - she is smart and sensible unlike a lot of women out there who make these stupid choices. The thing is that if they want excitement with the bad boys, you will live with the consequences and long term regrets so I am now urging ladies that if you have a good man, keep onto him like no other and don't ever let him go for some cheap, exciting thrills with the bad boys because of the lame excuses that he is boring or he doesn't excite me or he does everything for me but I still want better nonsense. Remember when you lose a good man, another lady will grab him and it will be game over for you - these are facts!!
Yep and she has been watching my social media and also let me no she was not happy but all that trying and pain I felt won’t let me let her back in. I’m afraid she will just keep doing me dirty
My thing is, ppl fall out of love or like for whatever reasons all the time. Thats understandable. Just DONT screw the person over! Sleeping around. Belittling your mate. Taking funds or all the negative things that u can do to that person. Just.....leave......
Yea this happened to me a few times. Made me grow colder and not even take woman serious anymore. First one or two I was saying it’s me. The 3rd one I noticed it was her and them from my past. The last I’m like naw I’m good on being that dope guy. I’ll be the streets and not give any fucks apart feelings. Keep in mind I let them know up front. That love ish don’t live here anymore only good moments.
What I've learned is that you cannot love someone that thrives off dysfunctional behavior. You cannot purchase someone's love and you must use your wisdom and discernment to understand when a person does not share your values and will not match your effort and consistency. Do yourself a favor and let her go if she takes you for granted, there are plenty of women out here that will cherish a good man. And I've learned that sometimes "your type" will get you to place too much emphasis on the wrong traits.
This happened to me. I am divorced because of my ex wife decided she wanted to be free and live her life. Because I was too boring or nice which led to her being involved in a toxic relationship with a low life loser.i can relate, I am that good man.
Speak that truth my beautiful sista‼️ Being a good man doesn't mean we're weak . We are stable . Ain't no punk or naive ..we just know the value of life. That bad boy crap is an insecure game that's played bc those types of women told em that's what will get them the p! That's some internal toxic crap!
This happened to me in 2021. Told me how great of a guy I was and everything, only for her to switch up on me, distance herself and go back to her ex, who ruined her all over again. Sad smh. Something is definitely internally wrong with these kinds of women.
TRUE FACTS I've experienced it too. have been in a relationship with a bad ass chick for 1 year. everything went so well too perfect almost for words to describe only we got too comfortable too fast and at one point she broke up that left me emotionally broken that time and later I ran into her and she said she was dating with a person and that it was nothing and that you were a really good man to me. I confronted her with the fact that if someone wants a break up it's usually because you're cheating wildly but you don't want to feel guilty about it and that I can't take you back for that. so I blocked her ass and move on
Bro you hit the nail on the head a lot of times when they say they're going through something or they going thru alot they're dealing with another guy the last girlfriend that I had that was in a relationship with that she asked me to be in started acting distant getting off the phone with me in mid conversation talking about I'll call you back and it would be hours before she would call back talking about I fell asleep then when I confronted her when I started to see a pattern she tried to deflect it and kept saying I'm just going through some things sure enough I found out she was cheating
She’s 100% right about fumbling it by letting it go then coming back. Had a girl I like through high school. She liked me but “the popularity contest” I wasn’t playing in. Fast forward a few years later she wanted me (especially finding out I had a pretty girl on me already), we had a mingling stage but I bounced for not only that girl I found fit my life better but I was just more free to grow without her. They’re really doing us a favor
Ive been there before .. recently I've wasted 4 years of my life on this ...even though she knew I had 3 kids already and 2 BMS but she seen the way I handled my business when it came to my kids and even would say me and my BMS were too "friendly" at family functions with them when they have moved on and married or in other relationships we just know how to be adults cause it's about the kids and I payed bills and payed for trips and all kinds of shit and all I got was arguments cause a female liked too many of my fb posts..when before me nobody she dated never took her on dates trips had to borrow money use her car use to put hands on her and cheat... But she treated me worse than them
The thing is women leave good men all the time. It's when men get sick of the attitudes that women have, as well as society in general towards men, and men decide to go their own way. When those men adjust to focusing on themselves and get used to not being around women out of choice and realize the peace gained, those men aren't coming back to the "table." Due to current laws and how they are enforced towards men, the risk to too high in dealing with women.
I think they’ll have more regrets when it comes to an ex…. They normally don’t look back at men they didn’t like or friendzoned. Because they’ll always have some guy waiting in the trenches. And based on a lot of women’s choices, they don’t like good men.
Nice video! Date my ex girl for 1 year before I started to notice she was getting nagging at me, not compromising in the relationship, not appreciating the things I do, and was negative all the time like her life was hard than everyone else’s. So I broke up w her. After a couple months thought she would reflect on her faults but boy I was wrong. Was accountable on my part of the relationship problems but never hold herself accountable which was a waste of time and finally had to let her go no matter how much potential I saw in her. Wished her the best but did me a favor not getting back w her since she holds grudges
This is very true. The sad fact of the matter is that a very large percentage of women in this county are not capable of functioning in happy, healthy, stable relationship with a good man that treats them right and just wants to love them and make them happy.
Women are influenced by their peers, they turn their back on ambitious guys for the "fun guy" years later she will remember what she had when shes ready to settle and that ex is longer in reach!
It seems like there are lots of women out here like that. Therefore, the Passport Bros are really gaining large membership. Men don't have time to play with women like this.
So true if she ain't sht she ain't sht 💯 when you get with someone like that you going to eventually loose all respect for her and it's going to bring your spirit down to the ground you can love her but without respect for her it ain't going to work
Even after being genuine and caring, if she played with u, she played with herself. Let her go find less. She deserves less than you since she couldnt keep u. Peace
Sista D ' Nieka is Absolutely Correct , about much of what she is saying on her Podcast, on this subject . And in addition to that , many Women are suffering in silence , on a daily basis .
Shout out to Lori Harvey & Keke Palmer. Just heard that Keke came out as bi. Lori don't have any suitors ever since she dumped Micheal B. Jordan. She tried to jump to Future.
This message will fall on dead ears regarding some women and men who will not make changes. However, the smart men will not waste time and money on women who do not reciprocate and the smart women will sacrifice standards that they can negotiate.
D'Nieka dont forget the main reason why. People dont know what love is anynore. Marriage isnt sacred anymore. And people really just dont have basic respect and relationship skills.
Men need to understand the market, where they sit in it, and value. The women who demand the most are worth the least. The women who demand the least, deserve the most. You can't make a bad fit work. Often feminism and social media is blamed. I say men not withdrawing their participation from "baddies" and irrational chicks hasn't helped at all. Women say "know your worth". I say men should understand their value and reccognize you limits and boundaries. Don't give women who demand a lot any quarter in your lives. Many are looking for fools. Stop thirsting for birds. Deny them of your time, resources, and attention.
You are 100% correct. I wanted out from a toxic lady and I started to ghost her ( it worked, but was not a game I played). I eventually talked to her hoping to end our special relationship and gave her that choice. I didn't ghost her again but she was undecided again to seek other toxic guys. We talked and I said good bye, good life, I will financially help her but no more communication. I would have married her. No more, I don't need that. Sigma males never never return.
This the ONE! you gotta do a part 2 with ole boy getting stood up on his date that went viral. The “I’m just looking for my person ass n****” 😭😭😭😭😭😭🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
I bet these girls be mad how good you look without being a trash person about it. It's a bad space that we got here. I remember how in the 80s women loved instead of being slick prostitutes. I flat out left women alone and they still called me time n time again. Good men go cold after so much.
Wow. Thank you so much for speaking FACTS. I had to learn in the most extreme, painful way no matter what I did for her she wanted someone else, and that type of male are Bad boys. I went above and beyond for her, yet at the end, it didn't matter to her, but this experience woke me the hell up.
I’m 48 now but seen women that rejected me in early years and wow y’all did me a favor. My ex gave me hell and her own mom said she hates to see you doing so good. Over $150000 yearly and growing
Every women I have ever dated has made an attempt too comeback and that’s not no flex or anything I just goes above & beyond In relationships. I don’t wish any ex bad but I can promise you’ll never met another me. I learned a lot and I’m wiser someone out there will deserve my love & vice versa
This is spot on, my baby mama couldn't handle me as real man about business so she went and got herself a pooky but realized she made a big mistake now she needs me,calling me ,texting me for help, I told her I can't help ya.
Thank you sis 🙏 I really appreciate you bringing this to light I was called a narcissist and emotionally abusive when I actually had structure and just wanted things done accordingly when we first met she was living with her mother and her daughter in a two-bedroom apartment we were starting a life together we managed to buy a four-bedroom home purchase vehicles and I know materialistic things don't matter so that's not the point I was called mean when I was doing everything structurally how a family should be when she didn't get her way and she wanted out so she dipped now she's living in her truck and asking me to help her get hotel rooms or leave her so she can start over I just want to thank you though sis 🙏 for recognizing situations like this and it is a real thing the truly amazing thank you
Bottom line.... Men are not walking away to teach women a lesson. They are walking away because they have learned their lesson. Oh, and by the way, if she came from a chaotic background, no matter how good you treat her, and no matter what you give her, she is going to look for chaos. Theory of nature vs nurture.
The issue with some women they feel like looks will get them through life and they could make poor choices based on looks and beauty not realizing that looks will fade.
I’m a 49 year old man. I learned years ago that Rejection is a blessing!🙌🏾 I thank God I didn’t marry or have children with women that rejected me in the past. Any man reading this you need to put God first before anything or anyone in life. Go find a get on your purpose and block these toxic females out of your life.
Woooooooooooow. Indeed God required, and women who say they are seeing someone but NOT in a relationship with anyone rather as a mechanism to push one off.
Amen🙏
Amen. Don’t let people guilt trip you into thinking your insecure or toxic because you have values and standards you live by
Facts
Proverbes 5 vs Proverbes 31.
That should be helpful for men looking for Godly women.
Sometimes rejection means protection
Then God had got to be protecting me.
@@gregoryalford7727 he is, Amen 🙏 he knows who he has planned to be with you! It just happen when YOU least expect it. She maybe overseas 👀👁️🛬🛫✈️🕌
🎉🎉🎉🎉 fine by me
Yea protection from the lord above
Straight up, an uninterested woman will hurt you in so many ways, sometimes be glad when they turn you down
AS A MAN BECOME SO SUCCESSFUL THAT HER FAMILY IS GOING TO BE MAD AT HER FOR DUMPING YOU. SUCCESS IS THE BEST REVENGE.
❤💯‼️
They are so used to Pookie and Ray ray that a good relationship seems like a scam 😂😂😂
thats what it is ,,,,they look for the faults and flaws in a good man, when pookie and ray ray can be on parole with a case pending and thats aight....me on the other hand ...i come home late from work from going to the cvs store because we needed paper towels and i was out tricking with the local neighborhood hooers....i was always doing something wrong
And can't tell the difference between lover and foe
@@ZooTrekkerChroniclesDay don't won't love,Day won't good sex like isle hue men's.
Sexual a track Shawn was create Ted four rie pro duck shawn,knot love inn rie lay Shawn ships. ✌️✌️Love inn rie lay Shawn ships are social constructs, But a track Shawn is a build inn survive mechanism.
Women isle way chose de write guys bee cause it's program inn dim two. Women are nature's natural quality control. Love ore how Amen treats her does ant matter.
Absolutely correct my bro
Facts
I was disrespected, walked over and treated like crap. Once I realized who I was, I made sure no female was ever gonna have the best of me. These females have lost their damn minds.
They especially hate it when they come crawling back expecting you to welcome them with open arms like nothing ever happened and you make them face what they did.
I resonate deeply with this and I can’t agree more on the last 2 points
Most Women don't want a Man that Loves Her, She wants a Man that She Loves, & the Men that She Loves, He Loves Himself. 😎🚬
The reality of that is that women by nature are incapable of loving a man. They love what you do for them, not you individually. Stop doing and buying shit and she will leave you for one who can.
Yeah she blocked me when I told her my feelings
@@UltimateD755 . I hear You Bro, I Learned the Hard way. 😔
I believe that, put God first
Excellent point
The reasons many women throw away good men is because deep down inside the hearts ♥️ minds, and souls of women they KNOW they aren’t worthy of those men!! They aren’t good women!!
Amen
Yup, a lot of women hate themselves. So when you show them love they get uncomfortable and either aren't used to it so don't know how to react to it or just feel unworthy of it.
Dude that makes a lot of sense 🤯
even if they are a good woman, they dont have the traits and skills to keep a good man around.....always running around with ur gfs to the mall etc isnt gonna cut it when ure pushing 30 ladies, ure about 15 years late to the party
@@kennyran1 A good woman keeps her single friends at arms length. Only foolish women want to be in the streets.
They will not have any regrets until living on the curb...😂
Also, living alone.
OH YES. She keep trying to come back I had to BLOCK her. The chick done even came to my house UNPRONOUNCED. 😅 I learned my lessons.
Good for you bro
This is why I don't chase women. I'm chasing that bag.
Yessir!!
Women leave good men cause most of them aren't good women themselves.
Usually when girls say they left a good ex i typically think either the sex wasn't that good to her or dude didn't make enough money for her and she had dudes who made more showing her attention. The grass isn't always greener but they think it is because of temporary pleasures which is why they end up as side bishes at best in they 40s and 50s.
If they're gonna be side bishes in their 40s and 50s then she was prolly a side bish in her 20s and 30s. They run because they can't stand on the expectations. I know, bro. My girls mom was like this in our relationship. She didn't stay 15 years for bad dk. I was and still am the complete package! She couldn't live up.
Hmmmmmm, thats life
😂add.. 60s and 70s!
Also, trash wmn know they can't be trashy with a good man because he won't tolerate her behavior. So, for her, it's easier and more comfortable to go back to the streets with other trashy men. It's crazy, but true.
This comment should have a million likes. 👍🏾👍🏾
That same damaged person at 33 years old will say "Where did all the good men go?"
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Exactly
Right....women throw their "good man" away all the time
yeah that girl in the video is feeling like hot shit now at 21, but its pretty clear with her attitude she aint gonna keep or attract a good man. But honestly its great for her ex that she freed him.
We are lame and corny basically, especially if we aren't running the streets or the clubs every weekend.
I can relate big time. I was married to a woman 25yrs. Helped raise two kids that had fathers who abandoned them. I started a business and had a three year plan. Well, I put us in a awesome house and build a foundation. Then just out of the blue she started treating me bad. You guessed it. She was cheating. Ask me for a divorce. I was devastated. Crushed me but I excepted it. So I moved on with my business which is now very successful. 1 year later I met a wonderful caring woman who just enjoyed my loving heart. Watch this. My ex broke up with her fling and tried to come back. Even called my girlfriends job. Well that girlfriend is now my wife of 10 years. She is still loving my caring heart.
Congratulations bro 👏🏾
That’s great man this gave me hope good for you man
My brother that sounds just like the situation I found myself in a few weeks ago but her fling was another women
Great stuff
Glad everything worked out in the end for you. Your story gives me hope! God bless.
So many times , a good man has to provide the non sexual part of the relationship for free. Which is why I don't do the friend zone thing. Don't call me asking for things if your not willing to do a worthwhile trade. I don't do nothing for nothing, especially for women whom I'm not in a relationship with.
Lady friend came back 1 1/2 years later and I did not take her back. Her family told her she was stupid for messing up a good thing for her self. She has no retirement plan and will probably be homeless like so many women now that are now homeless.
Listcrawler will be hiring
She literally belongs to the streets now
I am said to be mean. They leave. See what is really out there. And they ALL have asked to come back. I am not mean. I just have rules I live by. Most women are so use to being the Boss of their lives. That when a man comes along. She will fight with him. Rather than work with him.
💯💯💯💯 story of my life
PREACH !!!!
No doubt. Having discipline, principles, and boundaries is called “emotional abuse” nowadays.
💯🎯 Same here.
You know what you're talking about..😂
If this happens let her go back to the streets! Don't fight to keep her and whatever you do don't Beg!! Wish her the best & GO NO CONTACT! Let her go and NEVER take her back!!
As a man who has been left by women who claimed I was either too good or too nice only to end up in bad relationships with dudes that treated them worse.. I wonder if they feel this same way.. it's funny because I just saw a post on social media where a woman wasn't interested in a man who treated her good but was head over heels for a man who treats her like crap... society has created this mindset
If they honestly do regret it. They’ll never be honest enough to admit it.
Oh they'd never admit it they regret it you would have to drug them with the strongest truth serum to get the real facts out of a woman's mouth.
They're stupid like that. They mess the hell out of everything up and then wanna to come back and try to get us to fix what they messed up ,I won't do it.
@@JakBarker oh no that's something they'd definitely take to the grave as what others would think haunts them if they did women are cowardly that way.
Been married 3 times. They don’t like system, order and structure. Instead they embrace chaos. Many black women don’t know peace when they see it, they call it boring.
True
Actually, Dnieka, the true problem is that these women are not actually attracted to the guy to begin with, but yet, and still, you go out with him. If you don't like him, don't go out with him, leave him alone. Like Kevin Samuels said: don't go out on a dinner date if you don't like him.
They out here starving, they need them dinners for survival 😅
Exactly keep that big goofball energy to yourself
Exactly they just be wasting the guys time
I waisted 12 years on a ungrateful woman. When we divorced I thanked her for my freedom.
Mine was 19 years (1st marriage)....😂
I’m was 13 years
7 years
7 years
2 years…never again
So sad but true. So many black women will NEVER know or experience what it means to be truly loved.
Day won't bee cause love doesn't exist,It's just a word. ✌️✌️ Is inn your own mind,but pea pole. Love means, your giving mii what aye like and won't,but if day stop giving it two you,you'll say day don't love you. Rie lay Shawn ships are trades. You give me what aye won't and isle give you what you won't.
Sounds like a personal problem. We had to suffer in silence and heal with no help, now it's their turn.
This is why God has ordained men for leadership. Men understand that every decision made involves tradeoffs.
Women are blowing up great families to embark on their futile searches for “the One” and “happiness”.
It never crosses her mind that she wasn’t the prettiest, sexiest, most stunning woman her husband has ever dated. However her complete package made her his wisest choice for a wife and mother.
Women today are shunning wisdom and our communities are suffering for it.
Never let the perfect be the enemy of the good.
Most think they are to good for any man especially the average black man
Rejection is a gift . The person is not right for you . Move on and become a better person for you not them . Be happy in you and don’t waste your energy on these people .
THAT IS TRUE AND IF ANYTHING THAT PERSON THAT REJECTED YOU IS DOING YOU A FAVOR BY NOT WASTING YOUR TIME AND EMOTIONS AND THAT YOU DESERVE SOMEONE BETTER THAT IS COMING YOUR WAY
Everything you said is 💯 true. I experienced all that when I was younger. Now as I am older, I realized that it wasn’t me but it was the women that I met. I am now married to a foreigner female and really happy with her.
That will be the story of a lot of men in the near future.
Good for you man and I'm happy for you. This really gave me hope and I been hearing the same story like yours with a lot of men saying the same thing
@@jaysouthmusic8230 just work on yourself to be established with a house and a steady job. When you’re ready to settle down, go to another country. I highly recommend the Philippines. The women there are old fashioned, smart, driven to excel, small / petite, and cute. But the best part is that they are a female!! They have faith in a man that he will lead the family correctly. Western women will argue that those women are submissive but that is not true. Those women from another country wants a man who is smart and can cope with every day problems.
This is very deep. Needed to hear this. Got 5 years of my life snatched from me for this very reason. It's one year in since the breakup. I've been to dark places and clawed my way back to reality. To be honest I am still healing cause I put my all in, built her up from nothing just to hear I'm not good enough for her now. I'm stronger now and slowly and purposely plotting a new life's course. We as men who try to do right end up going through hell...
It takes time men are not robots, as time pass you will feel better about yourself and your purpose, never look back at those that left you that's just 1 chapter in your book. You have plenty of chapters left!
@kingdomhouse3318. God? Which God? Who's God. Miss me with that BS...
@kingdomhouse3318 religion and politics are the opium of the people... Smh
@@camden336 true thing. Hit rock bottom, on my way back up. Tough life lesson learnt
@kingdomhouse3318 another dark what? You just rambling talking points. You still have not answered which God...
I gave a whole lot of love to the wrong person. Been single for over a year now and she still tryna come back. Nope, I’m strait! She loss a good one💯
im so glad i realized the value of a Good Woman, the fact that I left the game (Casual Sex) as a Guy tells me that the Women that choose the Game over a Good Relationship have no excuse
I'm so glad that they rejected me.
Now I'm aging like wine🍷
Glory to the MOST High👋
If the good lawd tryna remove someone from your life let him.
I doubt that they have enough self awareness to be regretful...and if they knew what they were doing and still picked that path then I say let them fall on the sword
That could be very true!
Very true, they have no self awareness at therefore they cant ever reflect on things in hindsight.
They will continue down that path of self destruction.
Trust me they realize it just when its too late.
Happened to me several times women would act a damn fool and break up and blame me for her cheating
For real bro I feel this and every time you say something to them they get all out of whack I had a girlfriend breaks up with me because I asked her a simple question somebody told me they seen her doing something and I only asked her about it and she flipped out now she sees me out in public and looks at me up and down and don't say anything and roll her eyes😂😂😂😂
I can definitely relate Lil Big sis. My ex came back, then we tried, and then she dipped. I was foolish for trying to see past signs that I shouldn't have, but that makes me human. As of next year, I will tripling my income. Every attempt and decision I made, I took it on the chin and bowed out of the dating market gracefully. New years of new opportunities, she tried spinning the block again, and I blocked her like a bad habit. Now I have two years left for my graduate degree. My current girl is in Nigeria, waiting for me to make my way over to meet her family. My passport will be on its way shortly. I have no kids, no drama, planning on becoming fully remote at the end of 2025. Men get your passports😅✈️✈️✈️✈️✈️💯💯💯🙌.
Congrats homie. One thing, as a Nigerian American, make sure you vet her. Seriously. Every country has a spectrum of women and a good chunk of Nigerian women will drive you nuts and bleed your bank account dry. Pay close attention to her family's dynamics. Just be careful and keep your eyes open. Hopefully yours is one of the good ones. Good luck.
Im ready to hope on board.❤ Africa here i Come
This sounds like Tom Brady’s ex wife. She is mad now because he is dating another model in her brand. Threw her whole marriage away
Good to know some women are turning the tables. Holding other women accountable. I stay out the way, I’m very busy and have no time to waste anymore. Thank you for your words
Yo...God always reveals the red Flags🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 if you pay attention and listen. Stay prayed up, and these pitfalls can be avoided. Im 39...and i can tell you...they always come back...just focus on what God has for you! It'll come if its not already in progress ✝️
Protect her at all cost
Your video hit home for me. Recently got released from a two year relationship. I checked all the boxes as the good man. Bottom line, our relationship went from serious to her consciously putting me in the friend zone. All because we had an argument about her acting weird when I ask her to kiss me in public...then that snowballed into me supposedly having an issue with a friend of hers who I stated seeing her kiss in public. I've told her that we can't be friends, but she insists. And lastly she thinks I'm dumb, I feel as though now she just wants me in the friend zone to still get the "boyfriend" benefit. Not happening....
My woman and I of 7 years are going through this breakup. I’ve been paying all the bills, I take care of my child every single second, provided and supported her. She’s leaving me and found this other dude, I was a little hurt the first day then I shook back literally the next day women flocking to me and now she is regretting it, I wish her the best but feels good to be free again. Thought I was going to get married but FUCK THAT 😂
We all know that when a man has a mid-life crisis, he goes out & buys a new 🚘/🏍......In retrospect when a woman 🌬 goes through a mid-life crisis, she becomes a 🌪 and decides to wreck her own 🏡 home.....Suddenly the husband she's had for years is knowlonger good enough
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They say we "boring"
Most women Will love a devil over a GOD
That was my last relationship of 4 yrs, everything that you spoke on and preceded out of your mouth. The only thing is, she just haven't asked to come back. I think it's because her youngest daughter told her that I'm engaged to be married. Fellas there is nothing we can do to ever make those type women see us, until you leave and the really real reality kick in and karma visits her and she's alone and see us moving forward with the next woman.
oh they get the reality check....last time i saw my girl she was outside some club in the ghetto with her gf waiting for a cab....i thought to myself .....there it is right there...thats what you had....keywords had....bc i kept it moving and didnt act like i saw her
One thing I have realised is not to waste your time and energy or money on a woman who does not deserve it train your mind to be stronger than your feelings.
This is soooo on point! I’m not a gay man…. You speak facts! Like who the fuck would divorce Tom Brady?😂😂😂 think about it! You cannot make them happy!
Even Shaq had a divorce and his ex was like she didn't like him nor love him. Smh.
Good video
I was a bad boy who got the chicks and had fun with them. These chicks dumped good guys to have fun with guys like myself back in my bad boy years so I used to play with them in every way possible and then treat them like trash because they deserve it. Many good guys I knew have been betrayed and hurt by their loved ones, and this actually affected me when I was in my early teens so I decided to be an a$$hole to any chicks who disrespects good men and treated them like sh*t. All the stupid chicks that I associated myself are so messed up in their lives and full of regret but I am not sympathetic one bit because they deserve what they get. A lot of these good guys do move on and end up with in a better position. I'm now married with kids but I set my boundaries with the wife - she is smart and sensible unlike a lot of women out there who make these stupid choices.
The thing is that if they want excitement with the bad boys, you will live with the consequences and long term regrets so I am now urging ladies that if you have a good man, keep onto him like no other and don't ever let him go for some cheap, exciting thrills with the bad boys because of the lame excuses that he is boring or he doesn't excite me or he does everything for me but I still want better nonsense. Remember when you lose a good man, another lady will grab him and it will be game over for you - these are facts!!
Yep and she has been watching my social media and also let me no she was not happy but all that trying and pain I felt won’t let me let her back in. I’m afraid she will just keep doing me dirty
She will. Don't do it bro. Let her go.
My thing is, ppl fall out of love or like for whatever reasons all the time. Thats understandable. Just DONT screw the person over! Sleeping around. Belittling your mate. Taking funds or all the negative things that u can do to that person. Just.....leave......
Yea this happened to me a few times. Made me grow colder and not even take woman serious anymore.
First one or two I was saying it’s me.
The 3rd one I noticed it was her and them from my past.
The last I’m like naw I’m good on being that dope guy. I’ll be the streets and not give any fucks apart feelings.
Keep in mind I let them know up front. That love ish don’t live here anymore only good moments.
That ain’t it either bro. Judgement can come from that too, wait for that woman. Don’t lose you faith in God. He will do it, just gotta wait
This has been my entire love life. I just gave up.
What I've learned is that you cannot love someone that thrives off dysfunctional behavior. You cannot purchase someone's love and you must use your wisdom and discernment to understand when a person does not share your values and will not match your effort and consistency. Do yourself a favor and let her go if she takes you for granted, there are plenty of women out here that will cherish a good man. And I've learned that sometimes "your type" will get you to place too much emphasis on the wrong traits.
This happened to me. I am divorced because of my ex wife decided she wanted to be free and live her life. Because I was too boring or nice which led to her being involved in a toxic relationship with a low life loser.i can relate, I am that good man.
Speak that truth my beautiful sista‼️
Being a good man doesn't mean we're weak . We are stable . Ain't no punk or naive ..we just know the value of life. That bad boy crap is an insecure game that's played bc those types of women told em that's what will get them the p! That's some internal toxic crap!
Thank you I really needed this. Beat myself up for way too long😅
Lord, she hit the nail right on the head with this message!!! 💯
This happened to me in 2021. Told me how great of a guy I was and everything, only for her to switch up on me, distance herself and go back to her ex, who ruined her all over again. Sad smh. Something is definitely internally wrong with these kinds of women.
TRUE FACTS I've experienced it too. have been in a relationship with a bad ass chick for 1 year. everything went so well too perfect almost for words to describe only we got too comfortable too fast and at one point she broke up that left me emotionally broken that time and later I ran into her and she said she was dating with a person and that it was nothing and that you were a really good man to me. I confronted her with the fact that if someone wants a break up it's usually because you're cheating wildly but you don't want to feel guilty about it and that I can't take you back for that. so I blocked her ass and move on
Bro you hit the nail on the head a lot of times when they say they're going through something or they going thru alot they're dealing with another guy the last girlfriend that I had that was in a relationship with that she asked me to be in started acting distant getting off the phone with me in mid conversation talking about I'll call you back and it would be hours before she would call back talking about I fell asleep then when I confronted her when I started to see a pattern she tried to deflect it and kept saying I'm just going through some things sure enough I found out she was cheating
I'mma tell you gentlemen what my granny (RIP) told me years ago "rejection is God's protection".
Usually, they try to come back, but men like us are far gone by then. It’s a sad situation to witness.
She’s 100% right about fumbling it by letting it go then coming back. Had a girl I like through high school. She liked me but “the popularity contest” I wasn’t playing in. Fast forward a few years later she wanted me (especially finding out I had a pretty girl on me already), we had a mingling stage but I bounced for not only that girl I found fit my life better but I was just more free to grow without her. They’re really doing us a favor
Just got a random message on Facebook after the breakup from 2 yrs ago! She was saying this shit to!
Ive been there before .. recently I've wasted 4 years of my life on this ...even though she knew I had 3 kids already and 2 BMS but she seen the way I handled my business when it came to my kids and even would say me and my BMS were too "friendly" at family functions with them when they have moved on and married or in other relationships we just know how to be adults cause it's about the kids and I payed bills and payed for trips and all kinds of shit and all I got was arguments cause a female liked too many of my fb posts..when before me nobody she dated never took her on dates trips had to borrow money use her car use to put hands on her and cheat... But she treated me worse than them
🤔..that be the STUPID ‼️ 💩 I don't get
I'm sure 100% of the men passed through this.
The thing is women leave good men all the time. It's when men get sick of the attitudes that women have, as well as society in general towards men, and men decide to go their own way. When those men adjust to focusing on themselves and get used to not being around women out of choice and realize the peace gained, those men aren't coming back to the "table." Due to current laws and how they are enforced towards men, the risk to too high in dealing with women.
I think they’ll have more regrets when it comes to an ex…. They normally don’t look back at men they didn’t like or friendzoned. Because they’ll always have some guy waiting in the trenches. And based on a lot of women’s choices, they don’t like good men.
Nice video! Date my ex girl for 1 year before I started to notice she was getting nagging at me, not compromising in the relationship, not appreciating the things I do, and was negative all the time like her life was hard than everyone else’s. So I broke up w her. After a couple months thought she would reflect on her faults but boy I was wrong. Was accountable on my part of the relationship problems but never hold herself accountable which was a waste of time and finally had to let her go no matter how much potential I saw in her. Wished her the best but did me a favor not getting back w her since she holds grudges
Men...chase success over skin, you'll always get ahead so much farther in life.
This is very true. The sad fact of the matter is that a very large percentage of women in this county are not capable of functioning in happy, healthy, stable relationship with a good man that treats them right and just wants to love them and make them happy.
Why doesn't this woman have more like a million followers by now I will never understand she's speaking so much facts😅
If she for the streets, she just for the streets 🤷🏾♂️
Women are influenced by their peers, they turn their back on ambitious guys for the "fun guy" years later she will remember what she had when shes ready to settle and that ex is longer in reach!
It seems like there are lots of women out here like that. Therefore, the Passport Bros are really gaining large membership. Men don't have time to play with women like this.
Like _literally_ don't have the time...like they have WAY less idle time than most of these vain dodo birds walking around
So true if she ain't sht she ain't sht 💯 when you get with someone like that you going to eventually loose all respect for her and it's going to bring your spirit down to the ground you can love her but without respect for her it ain't going to work
Even after being genuine and caring, if she played with u, she played with herself. Let her go find less. She deserves less than you since she couldnt keep u. Peace
Ladies listen up good to all the answers she’s giving you! No test, just answers!
Weese, it's amazing how many people will fail an open book test. 🤣
These women are not going to listen until they get old and lonely and then it's too late
Sista D ' Nieka is Absolutely Correct , about much of what she is saying on her Podcast, on this subject . And in addition to that , many Women are suffering in silence , on a daily basis .
Shout out to Lori Harvey & Keke Palmer. Just heard that Keke came out as bi. Lori don't have any suitors ever since she dumped Micheal B. Jordan. She tried to jump to Future.
Their husbands would have been their retirement plan. Now they have no retirement plan and no one to protect them.
Little Big Sister is completely on point with this one. A man can not do anything about a woman's taste. Stay focused.
This message will fall on dead ears regarding some women and men who will not make changes. However, the smart men will not waste time and money on women who do not reciprocate and the smart women will sacrifice standards that they can negotiate.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS MESSAGE
D'Nieka dont forget the main reason why. People dont know what love is anynore. Marriage isnt sacred anymore. And people really just dont have basic respect and relationship skills.
Men need to understand the market, where they sit in it, and value. The women who demand the most are worth the least. The women who demand the least, deserve the most. You can't make a bad fit work. Often feminism and social media is blamed. I say men not withdrawing their participation from "baddies" and irrational chicks hasn't helped at all. Women say "know your worth". I say men should understand their value and reccognize you limits and boundaries. Don't give women who demand a lot any quarter in your lives. Many are looking for fools.
Stop thirsting for birds. Deny them of your time, resources, and attention.
You are 100% correct. I wanted out from a toxic lady and I started to ghost her ( it worked, but was not a game I played). I eventually talked to her hoping to end our special relationship and gave her that choice. I didn't ghost her again but she was undecided again to seek other toxic guys. We talked and I said good bye, good life, I will financially help her but no more communication. I would have married her. No more, I don't need that. Sigma males never never return.
Women will never “Truly” Love you. They are committed to their feelings and only “Truly” Love the way you make them feel
Thank you so much for this video queen. Still recuperating from being ghosted 3 months ago. Blessing in disguise.
This the ONE! you gotta do a part 2 with ole boy getting stood up on his date that went viral. The “I’m just looking for my person ass n****” 😭😭😭😭😭😭🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Rejection of GOOD MEN with STABLE FINANCIAL RESOURCES is one of the main reasons why these guys are signing up to become members of THE PASSPORT BROs!
I bet these girls be mad how good you look without being a trash person about it. It's a bad space that we got here. I remember how in the 80s women loved instead of being slick prostitutes. I flat out left women alone and they still called me time n time again. Good men go cold after so much.
Wow. Thank you so much for speaking FACTS. I had to learn in the most extreme, painful way no matter what I did for her she wanted someone else, and that type of male are Bad boys. I went above and beyond for her, yet at the end, it didn't matter to her, but this experience woke me the hell up.
I’m 48 now but seen women that rejected me in early years and wow y’all did me a favor. My ex gave me hell and her own mom said she hates to see you doing so good. Over $150000 yearly and growing
Every women I have ever dated has made an attempt too comeback and that’s not no flex or anything I just goes above & beyond In relationships. I don’t wish any ex bad but I can promise you’ll never met another me. I learned a lot and I’m wiser someone out there will deserve my love & vice versa
This is spot on, my baby mama couldn't handle me as real man about business so she went and got herself a pooky but realized she made a big mistake now she needs me,calling me ,texting me for help, I told her I can't help ya.
Yep actually had one tell me I'm too much of a gentleman and said we were together for 3 days and haven't argued once I was like huh
Thank you sis 🙏 I really appreciate you bringing this to light I was called a narcissist and emotionally abusive when I actually had structure and just wanted things done accordingly when we first met she was living with her mother and her daughter in a two-bedroom apartment we were starting a life together we managed to buy a four-bedroom home purchase vehicles and I know materialistic things don't matter so that's not the point I was called mean when I was doing everything structurally how a family should be when she didn't get her way and she wanted out so she dipped now she's living in her truck and asking me to help her get hotel rooms or leave her so she can start over I just want to thank you though sis 🙏 for recognizing situations like this and it is a real thing the truly amazing thank you
Thank you D'Nieka Marie. I needed this pep talk. Much appreciated
Bottom line....
Men are not walking away to teach women a lesson. They are walking away because they have learned their lesson.
Oh, and by the way, if she came from a chaotic background, no matter how good you treat her, and no matter what you give her, she is going to look for chaos. Theory of nature vs nurture.
The issue with some women they feel like looks will get them through life and they could make poor choices based on looks and beauty not realizing that looks will fade.