Deuteronomy chapter 24 verses 2-4 says it perfectly: "When she leaves his house, she is free to marry another man. But if the second husband also turns against her, writes a document of divorce, hands it to her, and sends her away, or if he dies, the first husband may not marry her again, for she has been defiled."
Hosea 2:7 says “she will chase her lovers but not catch them, she will look for them but not find them, then she will say… I will return to my husband for I was better off then than now.” It’s even in the Bible fellas.
The passage is comparing the relationship between God and Israel. Israel being the whoring wife. But as my parents have always said, ‘times change, human nature doesn’t.’
My college ex is trying to come back and I’m almost 51. She actually brought up marriage and she rejected my proposal when we were around 24 🤦🏿♂️ because she “didn’t like the circumstances that led to it.” I asked her has anyone proposed since I did. “No.” We lived together in the past. I asked has any guy moved you in since then? “No.” I guess she sees me as a retirement plan. 🤷🏿♂️ Nope.
My ex told me she needs her space and I knew she had somebody else on the side, i had concrete proof, few month's later she came crawling back so i played with her emotion's and got into her head and used her for my own selfish needs and when I was satisfied, i tossed her out my life for good like yesterday's garbage.
@@55maranatha And what does following Jesus have anything to with somebody cheating on you?! That's something completely different, having a relationship with Jesus Christ is important yes but he doesn't have time to play match maker, he has more important things to do, it's your responsibility to find that right person but if you end up with a hood rat, it is what it is, that's all on you, all you can do is learn from your mistakes am move on.
Never take a woman back who clearly thought the grass was greener on the other side in the first place. You’ll take her back and eventually somewhere along the line when she gets tired and bored again she will find another man whom she thinks is more entertaining and better than you. The cycle repeats itself again. Be safe out here fellas. Don’t let these women dance around you like a ballerina.
Nope if I wasn't good for you at your BEST WHY WOULD I WANT YOU AT YOUR WORST. IF YOU DIDN'T WANT ME IN YOUR PRIME WHY SHOULD I GET YOU IN YOUR DECLINE.
The women that came back to me were financially stable, emotionally available, has their whole life figured out. The reason they all came back is because they realized that I was ready to love them in a way no other man would. When someone is genuine to you and you’re blinded by other factors, once you test the water and your heart desires love. Your heart will lead you back to the one who wanted to love you. And now look at your ass, single, in the streets and running out of time and options. Stay strong kings!
She dumped me and left me cold! Outta nowhere! Then 8 months later, she came crawling back. My dumb ass took her back. That was the worse decision ever. That year we were back together was terrible. I finally left her and it was the best decision ever! Don’t let them make you their plan B fellas!
My ex wife tried to come back after 12 years. We split in our 20s. I have always had experience with women. I hap plenty of options. I choose to do right. I still behave like that, but now I only focus on me. I put my life first. My ex told me that no one has ever treated her like me. She is or was very pretty. I was in a new relationship. I didn’t need her. I used to love her, but she is wicked. She remarried, left him. Went back to the man that she left me fire. Left him and reached out to me. I told she might as well marry the guy she left me for. He was older than us when she left me. He always simp and pick up the pieces of her life, but she doesn’t care for him. She is very chaotic. I am glad we are not together.
It's funny because ALL of my exes come crawling back. And I NEVER take em back. I block em on everything & sometimes move. And I don't keep em as friends because I don't see women as good friends. The Truth
@@Culley91 indeed. Females are not your friends, the proof, you have to do everything for her but she won't do the simplest things for you. That one sided BS is not for me
In the military, I knew a lady who put me in the friend zone. No biggie, it didn't break me. She was still my favorite person. We eventually lost contact due to life. MANY years later I found her on FB. She's been to jail (she's back there now) for drugs, prostitution and other things - she was blindly following the crap men told her. Within 3 minutes of talking on the phone, she declared that I was the one for her and she wanted to come be with me. Say wha? I shut that right down! Heck if I'm anybody's rehab!
I’ve been there with THE GRASS IS GREENER situation many times. Women leave because their financial outlook is BETTER and they feel they can do better by temselves because of it and just simply walk away without thinking about the consequences or the person who they walked away from and logic goes out of the window. Women failed to understand when blessed with someone good you TREASURE and you RESPECT and you KEEP what you have because you will NEVER get it AGAIN!!
Those that think the grass is greener on the other side need to water their own lawn. They think the grass is greener on the other side because they can't see the crap from where they are at. Then they go to the other side and stepping all that crap then want to come back to dirty up your lawn.
Between the ages of 18-30 (a woman's physical prime to the wall) BW meet plenty of good brothers. For whatever reason they want nothing to do with them (too nice, not enough swag, not hood, nerdy, under 6'2, lame, boring, etc.)🙄 Fast forward to the wrong side of 30, three kids by some combination of Pookie, Ray Ray and Dontayveus with the waves in his hair, after gaining 100 pounds and becoming a born again "virgin", all of a sudden, the guys they wanted nothing to do with are the ones they're praying to be sent their way.🙄 If these brothers weren't good enough to have you at your best, what makes them good enough to have you in your decline when you no longer have market value and nothing beneficial to offer?🤔 #SYSBM #BlueBookGentlemen✈️
It’s because they’re socialized to believe they are the prize and they can use their 20s for everything EXCEPT finding legit husband material. It takes the Wall to make em realize Men had the choosing power all along and why time wasted and bad decisions catches up with them.
Don’t EVER take a woman back. Bottom line, she’s “resting” on the good guy til he’s got her stable and leveled up. When she gets bored with stability, she’ll be back on her bullshyt. When she’s back on her feet, confidence restored, it’ll be time to hit the streets again…
depends on who you dealing with if she is solid and yall mutually agree to split then theres nothing wrong with getting back together plus as a man of color I would never tell another man not to get back with the woman he had kids with that's why black families are shit now yall don't know how to stick together.....everybody who liked your comment is either scorned bitter or got played .....bad advice...like thats the mother of ya fucking kids you talking bout dont even be her friend ..lmaoooo god its some weak ass men out here sheesh!!! and yall subscribing to that bullsh##
I brought this girl back from the ashes. Her boyfriend left her the same week her grandfather passed(they were amazingly close) because he couldn’t deal with her issues. He literally left her at her lowest. This was 8 months before we reconnected. We hadn’t talked in a year but she cheated on him with me way back. Fast forward and She was wanting to kill herself when she came to me. Within 2 months of hanging with me, I got her to quit drinking, quit vaping and see a future within herself. She started to gain healthy weight again and be happier. We had some intimacy one week where she kept asking me “when can we do it again?” The next week, I saw her in a dollar store and she walked past me. I text her to let her know and she said “ i know. I can’t talk right now …my ex is coming to the house to talk” Basically, reason #3 I built her back up for her ex. Never take folks back for any reason.
My EX wife and I were separated for five years. During that time frame I never heard from her then out if no where she reached out asking to come back. I told her no, two months later she got married 😂
She "settled" for the other man. She reached out to you as a last ditch effort to be with someone she semi prefer.... You said no, therefore she told the other guy yes. She didn't want to be lonely anymore.... You made an excellent choice bro, always say no.
I made this mistake because my children asked me to let her back into our lives, I ended up poisoned, imprisoned on false charges, children disappeared and their names changed and bank account left with 4.95 . Beware brothers
Every woman that miscalculated and fumbled me, has come back. Which was only two. And I took them back because it wasn’t about another man. It was about personality conflicts. Both tried to play the part of a cooperative feminine woman, but it just wasn’t in them long term. So, those two ended for good. I’ve only had one that stepped out on me, and I knew about it. And when I confronted her on it, she knew that there would be no reconciling on any level.
I only had two as well. First was my first girlfriend and my first kiss I was her first boyfriend and kiss as well. She sent me hey big head/stranger texts for a good 6 years. No way in hell I was taking you back after you broke my heart twice plus a permanent reminder of not picking me. The other I at least got proper closure on years later. She apologized for the break up although it was justified (I wasn’t who I am now then) took her six months to realized the girl she left me for wasn’t it. She never found a connection with anyone else like we had. No telling who all has been in her now so yeah no going back to you ma’am.
Yeah, women have come crawling back to me. Why? She had no money, ran thru by multiple men, her kids liked me, I had enough money, and she thought that she could P-Whip me enough to not want kids so basically Alpha F**** and Beta Bucks and I was the Beta. I have had this happened quite a number of times in the US. Since I was taking the RP, I said no and didn't even think 2x. However, these same women are pinging me for rent/care payments while asking where did all the good men go. I just laugh. These women have no idea who I am. Zippo. They just see me talking about my life, they know I'm loaded with money, and they want the lifestyle without performing neither work nor knowing who I am in the first place. I have never had this experience with Foreign women. Zippo.
I'm 43 I'll never let a woman get close to me where if she left it would destroy or effect my life dramatically. One of the main reasons I've built a brand for myself is if I do need assistance at any point, I can pay for it.
A females pride is hard to put to the side but once they do and once they realize the man they lost they’ll come back around money is one thing but also if you really different you the type to rub her back and feet and tell her how pretty she is just for her to leave you and then the next dude don’t do that they miss the little things and it’s like females got a sixth sense you really do get your life together physically financially and mentally then boom here they go ! Stay strong MEN know your worth the right one will come along but in reality enjoy the single life bachelor mode baby I’m the cool uncle with no kids at the party
You are right D'Nieka. With me, they always come crawling back when they are broke and dumped, so, I also pretend I am rolling along with them telling them how much I miss them and I am dying to see them, as soon as I see their face. I dumped them with the same words they left me and walk away. There's nothing more painful than being dumped with your own words.
Story of my life... The worst is when they had bastard kid while she is on her little hiatus, and she expects you to be a step-dad. Lmao. I would not even hit after that lol
Heh, happened to me last year. I didn't hear from her for years, then all of a sudden she gives me this sob story about the baby daddy. Not my problem, she could have been with me but chose Pookie instead
@Breaker Bear yeah I totally agree with you. But on the flipside I think pookies have their purpose in life. They just expose who these girl initially choose. But other than that. Hell no! I am not a back up plan lol.
aside from the fact that certain relationships today are even more complicated right now then ever before . online scams . gas prices are up . rich leaders don't care . crime rate has not gone down at all . and we can't except one another in this country . there is very little humanity where I currently reside at which I'm thankful for . it's nice that good kind people take the time to help others like this video so everyone be well take care keep the videos going and remember you matter always an thank you .
Girl u ain't never lied. My baby mama left me after 13 year's i took care of her and my son the whole time worked and paid bill. 2 years past she with another guy. And trying to get back with me at the same time. They have a son. The new guy thinks its mines so he leaves when she hits like 5 months. I come back an took care of her bathed an fed her every night like a baby. All the way up until she had the new baby bye the new guy. Now im step daddy helped her raise the boy like my own son 2 years straight. Then all of a sudden she stopped coming home. Leaving me in her house staying at her new baby daddy sister house. After a couple days i caught on to what she was doing. She was with her new baby daddy. After i raised the nigga son 2 years straight. Haven't seen the boy but maybe 2 times since. An when he was born i was the first person he seen.
Shit im good it just showed me u can't trust most females regardless of how long y'all knew each other or been together. We literally grew up together we went to high school and middle school together. An she fucked over a nigga like we just met lol.
I know you loved her but and this is a serious question why after she got with a dude and got pregnant did you take her back? I'm really interested in the why. Hope this reaches u in good intentions
My Women decided to break 💔 it off with me cause I'm struggling financially owing the IRS & they CITY with other BILLS trying to pay them off and wants me to pay for HOTELS that's $200 and up in the CITY of NEW YORK and always want to go to CONCERTS and other expensive places not wanting me to take care of my debt asap but takes time to do that when your FUNDS are very low and always accusing me of messing with other FEMALES with no evidences whatsoever and always BARKING at me every chance she gets and when I BARK back I'm.the BAD GUY which proves what D NIEKA says of BLACK WOMEN not standing by their BLACK MAN when times gets difficult in this INFLATION/RECESSION we dealing with
She hates DIRECT MESSAGES and all she cares about is HERSELF not the situation I'm dealing with but in the words of USHER I told her "YOU DON'T HAVE TO CALL" or TEXT anymore
And my financial troubles been going on a couple of months and she expects me to have it taking care of ASAP telling me her situation is more important and serious then hers smdh
I knew you was in NYC before you disclosed it 😂 Stay strong keep showing up the mess will sort itself out in due time, stay in shape, stay stylish n her replacement will keep presenting herself to you on a daily basis
Modern Women measure Manhood using the wrong devices. And their options will always be "limited and elusive" due to their unrealistic requirements. Because perfection doesn't exist on earth and attraction is not a guarantee of Goodness or Compatibility. Facts on the commentary. And No second chances for Short Sighted Women.
You articulated that very well. Thank you for the insight. And based on what you said. Coming from a woman it’s best not to try again with someone who wants to. It will end the same way eventually. Enjoy being single until the right person comes along.
I'm going through this right now I been with this women 4 years and she leave the house every time things don't go her way then wanna come back months later and say she didn't do anything with anyone for all that time like I'm stupid. Leave the house for 5 to 6 months then wanna work things out when she broke down and have nothing I really thank u for this video and open my eyed
I had an ex that tried to come back in my life after she left me 8 years before that particular time. I told her to kicks rocks, and that i don't care about her in anyway shape or form. Also told her i'm not interested in rekindling any past emotions for her. Was i wrong?
No you're not wrong. Once a woman leaves you it means she's lost all respect for you. If you were to take her back, then she wouldn't respect you at all. You are one & done. I'm gonna treat my ex-wife the same way. She honestly thinks she can come back to me after she gets done experimenting with her same sex relationship. I already have a girlfriend & I don't take back my exes. Stand firm on your decision & do some traveling. Get your passport & visit another country. Who know you may find your wife abroad.
You are wrong that was a time to get the information that you need . Trust it’s no perfect relationship and don’t go back in no relationship ofcourse but getting closure and hearing them apologize is so powerful cause it’s some people that will never apologize
No man should never take his wife or woman back. Because when his wife or woman lays down with another man,the covenant is broken and if her husband or man doesn't put her away,she and the other man is committing adultery.
Becouse. She. Disrespect. You and. Deal with. Other. Man. But. When. It. Not. Working the. Next man. Use. Her. And abuse. Her. Then you. Are the. Best. Option
I even had a woman go as far as gttn her son to reach out to me because we had developed a relationship also,i was on some boy F u and ya mama im done wt all yall
I literally encountered this situation a few months ago, i'll keep it short and simple just incase this woman frequents your channel as well. So my first love reached out to me a few months ago due to a family tragedy she'd heard about and to be quite honest, I was excited to hear from her after almost 15 years. I live in another state now and she's still in the hometown, as soon as we heard each others voice we went straight down memory lane; this lasted for about two weeks. She's divorced the guy she left me for about a year after they got married and has been going through failed relationships ever since, but she had the nerve to tell me that she should've stayed with me and if I ever came back to her we could've worked it out; although she was the one who left me. To hit on your point that they'll crawl back just for you to build their confidence up struck me because she asked for my opinion, she asked did I think she was a "304" back in those days and I told her "yes" and that I was trying to save her from that. She hung up and blocked me after that, guess she couldn't handle the truth; and the truth is that she was and still is a 304 and only used me as a leg up, and couldn't shake that mindset all these years later.
My Name Is Jaylen McGaughy from Mississippi well I perfectly understand now why women try to come back in men's life now thankz you are a very courageous beautiful black woman for having the courage to stand up to the feminist of today's time God bless you and may the God of Israel keep you 🕎
She is spot on never take those women back . I literally have multiple exs that keep up with my life on a daily basis 😂 women not stupid they know exactly what they be doing .
My ex dm me recently and I’ve been completely over her for a few years now but I’m not gon lie……I did screenshot the dm just in case sometime in the future she deny it….I’ve got work to do still😂😂😂
Had two long term relationships in my early 20s both women found their way back via social media. I keep it strictly platonic though, its funny because I told one of them thats what would happen. You don't wanna fight for a relationship when your younger and years later you wake up. Its the story of alot of women its sad man.
🎶 "You & I both know, if you & I both go our separate ways one things for sho, if you ever get the nerves to pack your shxt & walk up out the door, you ain't never coming back no mo"🎶
🥺 So, fellas, here we are again with another of our Me Too Moments, our little Big Sister has spilled, the beans on another of their parlor tricks. 🤔 she doesn't love your doggy style. She loves the fact that you weren't getting any style while she was Wilding Out! 🙄 and it was your energy she used to do it, so she's back for a refill..🫠
You know if a person truly changed or not...I once asked my BM after not talking to here for a while, her getting threw out her aunt house basically homeless, if she learned anything from what's been going on and she told me "yes" I said "what" she said "idk tbh I probably haven't learned nothing" I said "that's very disappointing after all the stuff you been thru by yourself all the stuff we been through together you still haven't learned anything is crazy" it gets hard cause when u actually loved something you think they'll just want to be happy with u no problem but these women are ran by social media platforms they have a bigger impression on women then the guy paying their bills
I FINALLY stopped the bleeding after almost 20 years off n on and this last and most recent departure she added another marriage to her resume....I guess I should thank her for helping remember who I ACTUALLY AM. But she would have to be telepathic to hear me say it cuz she definitely will never hear or see me again physically
On 3 Occasion my Ex's have came crawling back. All 3 have told me that, "they realized what they have lost". Nice dude, supportive, 100k a year Salary here in San Diego and a Strong Sex game. every time its been flattering to my ego, but you for the streets, Ive moved on.
😂 lol ,you said it the best the internet iconic words .................It's over, it's over.......... I can't speak for anyone else but I'm not coming back to deal with the games and tricks. I'm just waiting on job paperwork. All that's left is packing up clothes and chucking the deuce ✌️ before boarding. The ticket is already paid for.
Being yourself has a cost as to how the outside world presents pay or various different costs in being yourself. Aside from what is made of your self existence.
Being able to acknowledge value and distinguish that robbing your self of value is not healthy alongside self respect which most often get miscomprehended based on the casualties that look to devalue anyhow pin pointing only sex and or being sexual at you as toward you does.
Women most often come back because technically that is probably all they know, use to having or being also known as conditionings formatted to force a zone that is not or has not ever been healthy especially in house or out house looking at the distubguishment of home and traveling, also some what stated as love setting the effort.
You will be foolish in giving a second chance to a woman you know that’s like giving them a second bullet because they missed not saying you can’t have fun with them though
Sometimes the way they will come crawling back is by trying to start and argument with you out of nowhere because their pride won't allow them to say "I miss you".
Men: Dont be a Will Smith. If she doesn't want you, dont go back to her and be her last choice... You have no self worth if you cant even love your self to find someone who respects and cares for you 1st.. Not come back when she needs something..
Once a woman left you, never let them back into your life!!!
…they can always come back for the D, bout it.
Deuteronomy chapter 24 verses 2-4 says it perfectly:
"When she leaves his house, she is free to marry another man. But if the second husband also turns against her, writes a document of divorce, hands it to her, and sends her away, or if he dies, the first husband may not marry her again, for she has been defiled."
@@4yajustblazin exactly!!!
Don't let her back because She wont taste the same
Just remember : SHE left you, no matter the reason , why should she now stick around? Certainly not because of who you are.
Men: NEVER let a woman tell you she DOESN’T WANT YOU, twice 💯
Hosea 2:7 says “she will chase her lovers but not catch them, she will look for them but not find them, then she will say… I will return to my husband for I was better off then than now.” It’s even in the Bible fellas.
...thanks for posting this 👍
@@dareo25 No problem at all 🙏🏾
The passage is comparing the relationship between God and Israel. Israel being the whoring wife.
But as my parents have always said, ‘times change, human nature doesn’t.’
🥊💥K.O‼️
Yep....the bible knows the foolish females nature.
"Some women don't want a good guy until it's too late"
Sincerely 500,000 Miles later.
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Good One Lol 😂
She's only back because she's run out of options. So she remembers the one who actually cared about her. Don't fall for the malarkey.
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Exactly! I fell for that once before and never again!
Yes sir
It's the treatment for the most part.
My college ex is trying to come back and I’m almost 51. She actually brought up marriage and she rejected my proposal when we were around 24 🤦🏿♂️ because she “didn’t like the circumstances that led to it.” I asked her has anyone proposed since I did. “No.” We lived together in the past. I asked has any guy moved you in since then? “No.” I guess she sees me as a retirement plan. 🤷🏿♂️ Nope.
Don’t fucking believe that she has not moved in with any guy in that time! Don’t be a fool!
She had her change bye
Lol
And there probably has been guys living and proposing to her she's just at the wall now
Yeah brother in that kind of situation I would be thinking about how much is she lying garunteed she's had multiple men ask her or have lived with her
My ex told me she needs her space and I knew she had somebody else on the side, i had concrete proof, few month's later she came crawling back so i played with her emotion's and got into her head and used her for my own selfish needs and when I was satisfied, i tossed her out my life for good like yesterday's garbage.
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I did the same good job
i support u bro
@@55maranatha And what does following Jesus have anything to with somebody cheating on you?! That's something completely different, having a relationship with Jesus Christ is important yes but he doesn't have time to play match maker, he has more important things to do, it's your responsibility to find that right person but if you end up with a hood rat, it is what it is, that's all on you, all you can do is learn from your mistakes am move on.
As you should
Never take a woman back who clearly thought the grass was greener on the other side in the first place. You’ll take her back and eventually somewhere along the line when she gets tired and bored again she will find another man whom she thinks is more entertaining and better than you. The cycle repeats itself again. Be safe out here fellas. Don’t let these women dance around you like a ballerina.
PREACH!
Facts. I wish more men knew this naturally 😂
Those woman are Narcissist 🤷🏽♂️
Happened to me
@@adamedwardsnj3800 Sorry to hear that. That sucks, I just hope it didn't make you be on "demon time". Every woman isn't the same.
Nope if I wasn't good for you at your BEST WHY WOULD I WANT YOU AT YOUR WORST. IF YOU DIDN'T WANT ME IN YOUR PRIME WHY SHOULD I GET YOU IN YOUR DECLINE.
Bars!!!!!!
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Bars❤👍🏿
PREACH!
SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE,,,,DONT TAKE HER BACK,,,,I DONT CARE WHAT THE REASON IS!!!!
MOVE FORWARD & DONT TURN BACK!!!!💯💯💯💯
And if you look back your peda will turn into a pillar of salt
@@jamesmclean9026 sadom and gamorah
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Thank you.. I needed to read this
The women that came back to me were financially stable, emotionally available, has their whole life figured out. The reason they all came back is because they realized that I was ready to love them in a way no other man would.
When someone is genuine to you and you’re blinded by other factors, once you test the water and your heart desires love. Your heart will lead you back to the one who wanted to love you.
And now look at your ass, single, in the streets and running out of time and options. Stay strong kings!
Well said my brother
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She dumped me and left me cold! Outta nowhere! Then 8 months later, she came crawling back. My dumb ass took her back. That was the worse decision ever. That year we were back together was terrible. I finally left her and it was the best decision ever! Don’t let them make you their plan B fellas!
Yeah and ensure these chicks on plan B if you dont want a life long headache 😅
Most of us older fellas learned the hard way before all this knowledge was shared.
My ex wife tried to come back after 12 years. We split in our 20s. I have always had experience with women. I hap plenty of options. I choose to do right. I still behave like that, but now I only focus on me. I put my life first. My ex told me that no one has ever treated her like me. She is or was very pretty. I was in a new relationship. I didn’t need her. I used to love her, but she is wicked. She remarried, left him. Went back to the man that she left me fire. Left him and reached out to me. I told she might as well marry the guy she left me for. He was older than us when she left me. He always simp and pick up the pieces of her life, but she doesn’t care for him. She is very chaotic. I am glad we are not together.
Damn bro. Sounds like this chic I was a coochie hair from marrying. On some prophet shit. I saw the future when I read yo shit. 💯 Good shit King
-before watching ; my guess. -
1. Tyrone hit it and quit it.
2. Pookie hit it n quit it.
3. Chad hit it and quit it 😆
Right....they aren't that complicated...it ALWAYS translates into another man....
You have gotten all three answers correct, although the hyenas will say otherwise
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Probably even the bagboy at save a lot
L's 😂😂😂
Bottom line, she couldn’t do better. Her contacting you is for her benefit, not yours.
PREACH!
I mean all women do that their wired to worry about themselves first we need to think the same way. Think like a woman act like a man 💪 Alpha
@@Fabian6980 and black men need to stop playing clean up man.. and let that female drown..
It's funny because ALL of my exes come crawling back. And I NEVER take em back. I block em on everything & sometimes move. And I don't keep em as friends because I don't see women as good friends. The Truth
Preach bro...
True I can’t see em as friends either lol what is that doing for me at that point
@@Culley91 indeed. Females are not your friends, the proof, you have to do everything for her but she won't do the simplest things for you. That one sided BS is not for me
In the military, I knew a lady who put me in the friend zone. No biggie, it didn't break me. She was still my favorite person. We eventually lost contact due to life. MANY years later I found her on FB. She's been to jail (she's back there now) for drugs, prostitution and other things - she was blindly following the crap men told her. Within 3 minutes of talking on the phone, she declared that I was the one for her and she wanted to come be with me. Say wha? I shut that right down! Heck if I'm anybody's rehab!
Dr phill 😂😂😂dam that’s a fall off. I hope my ex don’t get that down low
Man, your first mistake was finding her on FB and allowing her to call. Leave them where ya found them and stay strong, Sir!
🤣🤣SO FOR THE EXPERIENCE MAN.. GOOD DECISION
😭😭😭😭😭😭 ON GOD ☝️
DWL
so them love tek people boy pickney for Rehabilitation Centre.
Don't take up any trash general.....mek dem go weh.
*Never* Fellas take woman back.After she left you for some else....
I’ve been there with THE GRASS IS GREENER situation many times. Women leave because their financial outlook is BETTER and they feel they can do better by temselves because of it and just simply walk away without thinking about the consequences or the person who they walked away from and logic goes out of the window. Women failed to understand when blessed with someone good you TREASURE and you RESPECT and you KEEP what you have because you will NEVER get it AGAIN!!
Women cannot see through man's eyes
Women can't see pass their emotions. Same old story. Never appreciate what you had until it's gone.
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Facts
Those that think the grass is greener on the other side need to water their own lawn.
They think the grass is greener on the other side because they can't see the crap from where they are at. Then they go to the other side and stepping all that crap then want to come back to dirty up your lawn.
Between the ages of 18-30 (a woman's physical prime to the wall) BW meet plenty of good brothers. For whatever reason they want nothing to do with them (too nice, not enough swag, not hood, nerdy, under 6'2, lame, boring, etc.)🙄
Fast forward to the wrong side of 30, three kids by some combination of Pookie, Ray Ray and Dontayveus with the waves in his hair, after gaining 100 pounds and becoming a born again "virgin", all of a sudden, the guys they wanted nothing to do with are the ones they're praying to be sent their way.🙄
If these brothers weren't good enough to have you at your best, what makes them good enough to have you in your decline when you no longer have market value and nothing beneficial to offer?🤔
#SYSBM #BlueBookGentlemen✈️
It’s because they’re socialized to believe they are the prize and they can use their 20s for everything EXCEPT finding legit husband material. It takes the Wall to make em realize Men had the choosing power all along and why time wasted and bad decisions catches up with them.
Truth...
You ain’t never lie
Exactly
Yeah I have experienced this, Ex tried to come crawling back after her situationship ended by getting cheated on multiple times.
Don’t EVER take a woman back. Bottom line, she’s “resting” on the good guy til he’s got her stable and leveled up. When she gets bored with stability, she’ll be back on her bullshyt. When she’s back on her feet, confidence restored, it’ll be time to hit the streets again…
Exactly, never then.
This is scary but true.
We actually fall for this every time.
I'm just as guilty
Fellas do not take them back. Even if you have children with the woman do not take her back. Do not give her a friendship as well.
👆🏾that last part
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depends on who you dealing with if she is solid and yall mutually agree to split then theres nothing wrong with getting back together plus as a man of color I would never tell another man not to get back with the woman he had kids with that's why black families are shit now yall don't know how to stick together.....everybody who liked your comment is either scorned bitter or got played .....bad advice...like thats the mother of ya fucking kids you talking bout dont even be her friend ..lmaoooo god its some weak ass men out here sheesh!!! and yall subscribing to that bullsh##
I brought this girl back from the ashes. Her boyfriend left her the same week her grandfather passed(they were amazingly close) because he couldn’t deal with her issues. He literally left her at her lowest. This was 8 months before we reconnected.
We hadn’t talked in a year but she cheated on him with me way back. Fast forward and She was wanting to kill herself when she came to me. Within 2 months of hanging with me, I got her to quit drinking, quit vaping and see a future within herself. She started to gain healthy weight again and be happier.
We had some intimacy one week where she kept asking me “when can we do it again?” The next week, I saw her in a dollar store and she walked past me. I text her to let her know and she said “ i know. I can’t talk right now …my ex is coming to the house to talk”
Basically, reason #3 I built her back up for her ex. Never take folks back for any reason.
Most men have experienced this.
Fellas protect your M.E.A.T MONEY ENERGY ATTENTION TIME
My EX wife and I were separated for five years. During that time frame I never heard from her then out if no where she reached out asking to come back. I told her no, two months later she got married 😂
The nerve of these thot 304s
Damn wtf
How she get married if yall were still married
Wtfff 😂😂
She "settled" for the other man. She reached out to you as a last ditch effort to be with someone she semi prefer.... You said no, therefore she told the other guy yes.
She didn't want to be lonely anymore....
You made an excellent choice bro, always say no.
When they come back don't be mean. Just friend zone them. You have better things to do with your time and energy.
I made this mistake because my children asked me to let her back into our lives, I ended up poisoned, imprisoned on false charges, children disappeared and their names changed and bank account left with 4.95 . Beware brothers
Who the fuck were you dealing with bro? Jeez
Demon possession
Damn. "Finish Him".
Mortal combat
BABALITY
3 REASONS WHY WOMEN COME CRAWLING BACK
1. She is struggling financially
2. They are tired of being played
3. To build back their confidence
Every woman that miscalculated and fumbled me, has come back. Which was only two. And I took them back because it wasn’t about another man. It was about personality conflicts. Both tried to play the part of a cooperative feminine woman, but it just wasn’t in them long term. So, those two ended for good. I’ve only had one that stepped out on me, and I knew about it. And when I confronted her on it, she knew that there would be no reconciling on any level.
I only had two as well. First was my first girlfriend and my first kiss I was her first boyfriend and kiss as well. She sent me hey big head/stranger texts for a good 6 years. No way in hell I was taking you back after you broke my heart twice plus a permanent reminder of not picking me. The other I at least got proper closure on years later. She apologized for the break up although it was justified (I wasn’t who I am now then) took her six months to realized the girl she left me for wasn’t it. She never found a connection with anyone else like we had. No telling who all has been in her now so yeah no going back to you ma’am.
Same
@@GearGolemTMF same words
you fucked up
Nah bra those ladies did have other man when they left u
Ecclesiasticus 25:19
“All wickedness is but little to the wickedness of a woman: let the portion of a sinner fall upon her.”
Yeah, women have come crawling back to me. Why? She had no money, ran thru by multiple men, her kids liked me, I had enough money, and she thought that she could P-Whip me enough to not want kids so basically Alpha F**** and Beta Bucks and I was the Beta. I have had this happened quite a number of times in the US. Since I was taking the RP, I said no and didn't even think 2x. However, these same women are pinging me for rent/care payments while asking where did all the good men go. I just laugh. These women have no idea who I am. Zippo. They just see me talking about my life, they know I'm loaded with money, and they want the lifestyle without performing neither work nor knowing who I am in the first place. I have never had this experience with Foreign women. Zippo.
Joey from ada and ny?
Salute King. I agree with you. It's hard to find a woman who will treat you good in Amarica.
They all try to come back and I get great pleasure in turning right back around, I'm good love be cool
I'm 43 I'll never let a woman get close to me
where if she left
it would destroy or effect my life dramatically.
One of the main reasons I've built a brand for myself is if I do need assistance at any point,
I can pay for it.
A wise man once said, “Give not thy strength unto women, Nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings. -King Solomon
@@truththeoryknowledge833 they're the devil
Chuuurch!!! Tabernacle!!!!
@@truththeoryknowledge833 preach
A females pride is hard to put to the side but once they do and once they realize the man they lost they’ll come back around money is one thing but also if you really different you the type to rub her back and feet and tell her how pretty she is just for her to leave you and then the next dude don’t do that they miss the little things and it’s like females got a sixth sense you really do get your life together physically financially and mentally then boom here they go ! Stay strong MEN know your worth the right one will come along but in reality enjoy the single life bachelor mode baby I’m the cool uncle with no kids at the party
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You are right D'Nieka. With me, they always come crawling back when they are broke and dumped, so, I also pretend I am rolling along with them telling them how much I miss them and I am dying to see them, as soon as I see their face. I dumped them with the same words they left me and walk away. There's nothing more painful than being dumped with your own words.
Ahhhh damn brotha that's what's up lol
They’re like boomerangs; no matter how hard I throw em they come back 🪃 👩🏼
I like these shorter formats. Easily digestible for us busy men.
Story of my life... The worst is when they had bastard kid while she is on her little hiatus, and she expects you to be a step-dad. Lmao. I would not even hit after that lol
Yeah.. it's been used again.. and now it don't look the same as it once did..
Heh, happened to me last year. I didn't hear from her for years, then all of a sudden she gives me this sob story about the baby daddy. Not my problem, she could have been with me but chose Pookie instead
@Breaker Bear yeah I totally agree with you. But on the flipside I think pookies have their purpose in life. They just expose who these girl initially choose. But other than that. Hell no! I am not a back up plan lol.
You're making a VERY good arguement to NEVER let a woman back into your life after she's left - Thanks
aside from the fact that certain relationships today are even more complicated right now then ever before .
online scams .
gas prices are up .
rich leaders don't care .
crime rate has not gone down at all .
and we can't except one another in this country .
there is very little humanity where I currently reside at which I'm thankful for .
it's nice that good kind people take the time to help others like this video so everyone be well take care keep the videos going and remember you matter always an thank you .
Cats and dogs living together
Police are turning into more domestic terrorist…blah blah
Folks not minding their own business trying to get into yours…
Good discussions
" don't let that broke b#tch in, cause she too messy" 😂 RIP TAKEOFF 🚀
3 reasons why...Reason #1...I need help with the rent...Reason #2...I need help with the rent...Reason#3...I need help with the rent...
Girl u ain't never lied. My baby mama left me after 13 year's i took care of her and my son the whole time worked and paid bill. 2 years past she with another guy. And trying to get back with me at the same time. They have a son. The new guy thinks its mines so he leaves when she hits like 5 months. I come back an took care of her bathed an fed her every night like a baby. All the way up until she had the new baby bye the new guy. Now im step daddy helped her raise the boy like my own son 2 years straight. Then all of a sudden she stopped coming home. Leaving me in her house staying at her new baby daddy sister house. After a couple days i caught on to what she was doing. She was with her new baby daddy. After i raised the nigga son 2 years straight. Haven't seen the boy but maybe 2 times since. An when he was born i was the first person he seen.
Damn... You aight my guy?
That's fucked up man. Hope you're OK.
Shit im good it just showed me u can't trust most females regardless of how long y'all knew each other or been together. We literally grew up together we went to high school and middle school together. An she fucked over a nigga like we just met lol.
I know you loved her but and this is a serious question why after she got with a dude and got pregnant did you take her back? I'm really interested in the why. Hope this reaches u in good intentions
@@WHENWEGONEWIN real spill.. Great question 🤔
“You could not live with your failure…and where did that bring you?…..Back to me….”
~ Thanos
If a female leaves me or makes me leave her, or if she turned me down for another, I will not even consider reconciling.
When she goes ghost mode for about two weeks to three months it's challenging for me to accept her back
My Women decided to break 💔 it off with me cause I'm struggling financially owing the IRS & they CITY with other BILLS trying to pay them off and wants me to pay for HOTELS that's $200 and up in the CITY of NEW YORK and always want to go to CONCERTS and other expensive places not wanting me to take care of my debt asap but takes time to do that when your FUNDS are very low and always accusing me of messing with other FEMALES with no evidences whatsoever and always BARKING at me every chance she gets and when I BARK back I'm.the BAD GUY which proves what D NIEKA says of BLACK WOMEN not standing by their BLACK MAN when times gets difficult in this INFLATION/RECESSION we dealing with
She hates DIRECT MESSAGES and all she cares about is HERSELF not the situation I'm dealing with but in the words of USHER I told her "YOU DON'T HAVE TO CALL" or TEXT anymore
And my financial troubles been going on a couple of months and she expects me to have it taking care of ASAP telling me her situation is more important and serious then hers smdh
I knew you was in NYC before you disclosed it 😂 Stay strong keep showing up the mess will sort itself out in due time, stay in shape, stay stylish n her replacement will keep presenting herself to you on a daily basis
Modern Women measure Manhood using the wrong devices.
And their options will always be "limited and elusive" due to their unrealistic requirements.
Because perfection doesn't exist on earth and attraction is not a guarantee of Goodness or Compatibility.
Facts on the commentary.
And No second chances for Short Sighted Women.
You articulated that very well. Thank you for the insight. And based on what you said. Coming from a woman it’s best not to try again with someone who wants to. It will end the same way eventually. Enjoy being single until the right person comes along.
Many of us don't give second chances
Never take anyone back, if they did not realize your worth in the moment. Sucks for them 💯😂
I'm going through this right now I been with this women 4 years and she leave the house every time things don't go her way then wanna come back months later and say she didn't do anything with anyone for all that time like I'm stupid. Leave the house for 5 to 6 months then wanna work things out when she broke down and have nothing I really thank u for this video and open my eyed
Triple D you be on point. You and hubby outlook on things are changing ppls lives. Keep pushing y’all
I had an ex that tried to come back in my life after she left me 8 years before that particular time. I told her to kicks rocks, and that i don't care about her in anyway shape or form. Also told her i'm not interested in rekindling any past emotions for her. Was i wrong?
No you're not wrong.
Once a woman leaves you it means she's lost all respect for you. If you were to take her back, then she wouldn't respect you at all. You are one & done. I'm gonna treat my ex-wife the same way. She honestly thinks she can come back to me after she gets done experimenting with her same sex relationship. I already have a girlfriend & I don't take back my exes. Stand firm on your decision & do some traveling. Get your passport & visit another country. Who know you may find your wife abroad.
Grow some hair on your palm and run like hell
NO. You 100% did the right thing.
You did right my bro 😎
You are wrong that was a time to get the information that you need . Trust it’s no perfect relationship and don’t go back in no relationship ofcourse but getting closure and hearing them apologize is so powerful cause it’s some people that will never apologize
No man should never take his wife or woman back. Because when his wife or woman lays down with another man,the covenant is broken and if her husband or man doesn't put her away,she and the other man is committing adultery.
Becouse. She. Disrespect. You and. Deal with. Other. Man. But. When. It. Not. Working the. Next man. Use. Her. And abuse. Her. Then you. Are the. Best. Option
I even had a woman go as far as gttn her son to reach out to me because we had developed a relationship also,i was on some boy F u and ya mama im done wt all yall
😂😂😂😂 my Nigga
@@tramayneharris7044 had to let it be known..lol
@Arika Doriyama 😬😂🤷🏾♂️
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I don't look back once I move on.
I literally encountered this situation a few months ago, i'll keep it short and simple just incase this woman frequents your channel as well. So my first love reached out to me a few months ago due to a family tragedy she'd heard about and to be quite honest, I was excited to hear from her after almost 15 years. I live in another state now and she's still in the hometown, as soon as we heard each others voice we went straight down memory lane; this lasted for about two weeks. She's divorced the guy she left me for about a year after they got married and has been going through failed relationships ever since, but she had the nerve to tell me that she should've stayed with me and if I ever came back to her we could've worked it out; although she was the one who left me.
To hit on your point that they'll crawl back just for you to build their confidence up struck me because she asked for my opinion, she asked did I think she was a "304" back in those days and I told her "yes" and that I was trying to save her from that. She hung up and blocked me after that, guess she couldn't handle the truth; and the truth is that she was and still is a 304 and only used me as a leg up, and couldn't shake that mindset all these years later.
I must be to old for new words lol but wtf is a 304
@@pitbull_top5766 Type it in a calculator then turn the calculator upside down
My Name Is Jaylen McGaughy from Mississippi well I perfectly understand now why women try to come back in men's life now thankz you are a very courageous beautiful black woman for having the courage to stand up to the feminist of today's time God bless you and may the God of Israel keep you 🕎
never be a back up man guys. thrash will always be trash
She is spot on never take those women back . I literally have multiple exs that keep up with my life on a daily basis 😂 women not stupid they know exactly what they be doing .
Thank You!!
Happened this week. My homie said the same exact thing.
My ex dm me recently and I’ve been completely over her for a few years now but I’m not gon lie……I did screenshot the dm just in case sometime in the future she deny it….I’ve got work to do still😂😂😂
Listen... Sis is Preaching... !! I've seen 3 in recent times spin the block with that Older Puss, More Trauma and Some with Another Small Child.
I had one chick leave me for the streets and then try to come back after a pregnancy and failed relationship…
This is so true all three reasons is legitimate. 😎💯👍
Very good advice. It squares with my personal experience (I'm 71 years old)
Hi Ross are you an American?
They never came back because they knew it's a wrap. I can't imagine taking any of the women back that I've dated.
Exactly 💯💯
Had two long term relationships in my early 20s both women found their way back via social media. I keep it strictly platonic though, its funny because I told one of them thats what would happen. You don't wanna fight for a relationship when your younger and years later you wake up. Its the story of alot of women its sad man.
🎶 "You & I both know, if you & I both go our separate ways one things for sho, if you ever get the nerves to pack your shxt & walk up out the door, you ain't never coming back no mo"🎶
Yesss we always run back to Christ when we get done having fun in our funky sins
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i got the hey big head treatment twice, last one 2 weeks ago..its crazy
🥺 So, fellas, here we are again with another of our Me Too Moments, our little Big Sister has spilled, the beans on another of their parlor tricks. 🤔 she doesn't love your doggy style. She loves the fact that you weren't getting any style while she was Wilding Out! 🙄 and it was your energy she used to do it, so she's back for a refill..🫠
Dont worry about everybody and I mean everybody reaps what they sow no exceptions no escape from what you put out into the universe.
I needed to hear this from a woman because I'm going through this rite now
You know if a person truly changed or not...I once asked my BM after not talking to here for a while, her getting threw out her aunt house basically homeless, if she learned anything from what's been going on and she told me "yes" I said "what" she said "idk tbh I probably haven't learned nothing" I said "that's very disappointing after all the stuff you been thru by yourself all the stuff we been through together you still haven't learned anything is crazy" it gets hard cause when u actually loved something you think they'll just want to be happy with u no problem but these women are ran by social media platforms they have a bigger impression on women then the guy paying their bills
This is a great list. It's just sad that none of the reasons are about genuinely building with a quality man. It's all about what she wants and needs.
I FINALLY stopped the bleeding after almost 20 years off n on and this last and most recent departure she added another marriage to her resume....I guess I should thank her for helping remember who I ACTUALLY AM. But she would have to be telepathic to hear me say it cuz she definitely will never hear or see me again physically
Stay strong my g 👍🏿👍🏿
On 3 Occasion my Ex's have came crawling back. All 3 have told me that, "they realized what they have lost". Nice dude, supportive, 100k a year Salary here in San Diego and a Strong Sex game.
every time its been flattering to my ego, but you for the streets, Ive moved on.
Help none of them until they give you what you want first. Simple
The confidence was a good ass point. Never looked at it that way. Great video!
😂 lol ,you said it the best the internet iconic words .................It's over, it's over..........
I can't speak for anyone else but I'm not coming back to deal with the games and tricks. I'm just waiting on job paperwork. All that's left is packing up clothes and chucking the deuce ✌️ before boarding. The ticket is already paid for.
Thank you for this video. A lady I considered a Dreamgirl. Just came back yesterday. This video confirmed everything 🙌
Being yourself has a cost as to how the outside world presents pay or various different costs in being yourself. Aside from what is made of your self existence.
Being able to acknowledge value and distinguish that robbing your self of value is not healthy alongside self respect which most often get miscomprehended based on the casualties that look to devalue anyhow pin pointing only sex and or being sexual at you as toward you does.
Women most often come back because technically that is probably all they know, use to having or being also known as conditionings formatted to force a zone that is not or has not ever been healthy especially in house or out house looking at the distubguishment of home and traveling, also some what stated as love setting the effort.
Comprehensive, true, and right on time. Thank You
Peace of mind is priceless
Dnt do it fellas
I've literally had two women from my past wanted to come back And you just said exactly what they was asking for. Now that explains alot🤔
I am glad I found this channel!!!! A breath of fresh air!! Thank you sis!!!
That last one is all too frequent!!!! Great list!👏🏿👏🏿
You will be foolish in giving a second chance to a woman you know that’s like giving them a second bullet because they missed not saying you can’t have fun with them though
Sometimes the way they will come crawling back is by trying to start and argument with you out of nowhere because their pride won't allow them to say "I miss you".
Had this happen to me plenty of times so they know what they are doing
More videos like this and on this subject!
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I know a woman exactly like the way you describe this type of woman and she called herself my favorite
Men: Dont be a Will Smith. If she doesn't want you, dont go back to her and be her last choice... You have no self worth if you cant even love your self to find someone who respects and cares for you 1st.. Not come back when she needs something..
Reason #1:
That "Hot Girl Phone" ☎️👈ain't ringin' no mo'. Her other options have dried up🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Am looking for my passport right now while house cleaning
Thailand/Vietnam, Africa or South America. Dick discipline will be tested out there but complete the mission and bring a wife back 👊🏾🔥