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No lie this happened to one of my friends who passed away, she was playing with his feelings, doing him dirty, but they were together when he passed, she then started messing around with someone who he called his brother, then funeral time comes around and he’s hugging all over her, they even left together just them 2, and till this day they still mess around. Lost all respect for both of them
@@slackerman9758 I mean she's just speaking about evolutionary biological facts. Women are usually attracted to the dominant, competent men in society. Cause most of what happens in the world is all about power, perception and the choices we make. There are exceptions of course, but for the most part hetero women are groupies.
#4 about women not being able to empathize with men is accurate and particularly brutal. Women largely don’t see men as human beings who have our own needs, but rather as vessels whose purpose is to meet a woman’s needs.
It's accurate. Men need to be respected, women need attention and validation. They aren't the same thing and women intuitively treat men how they want to be treated.
Yea this one hits for me. Just lost the mother of my child after 13 years and everything about how she switched up on me and ripped our family apart because a "mood" she was in blew my mind.... she can't even tell me why she tore our family apart, she quite literally dodges tf out of that question.
@Just Chill lol, that sounds like some Lifetime/Hallmark channel bullshit. Every woman I’ve spent any significant amount of time around has proven that she will look out for number one over all. They may do things for you in the short term (as a means to an end), but believe they are expecting it to pay off.
This woman is clearly educated and well spoken, and she's really making light of some horrible traits in toxic women. As a black man who is wiser now than I once was, I can say, unequivocally, I will find a woman who does not harbor these toxic traits, or I will die single, old, wealthy and happy, having avoided this kind of abuse entirely. ❤
Brother what you don't understand is a woman's shelf life is approximately 27 years give or take (age 18-45). Affter 45, women generally hate having sex and see it as a chore that they do not get pleasure from. Men on the other hand can be sexually viable for 60+ plus years. So, it's to a woman's benefit to find a man who is simpish for this short span. Don't concern yourself with how a mate thinks, but how you would want a man to see your daugter sister or mother.
@@chadtyrone FACTS I WAS MARRIED 26 YEARS.......been single now for 10 years and loving my life more than ever...I LIVE FOR MYSELF AND I ANSWER TO NOBODY
G Williams, buddy u need to watch every episode of fresh and fit. On youtube. These guys are educating us, and it's gonna be a like a Black lives matter kinda movement. Where we no more have to tolerate bad behaviour as a black man from these toxic black females
@@zrunner240Z you go guy. U rock, BTW south Asian Vietnamese, Thai and pilipina women are so so feminine, u shud try going down there to south asia and meeting them. They love taking care of of their man, and are super hot too. Wen I see Safari's rap artist wife treat Safari like shit, makes me wanna puke. Safari such a great guy.
Men in the modern age are now waking up to the fact that the relationships, dating and marriage scene is a rigged game where the man stands to lose every single time if he doesn't watch his P's and Q's. No amount of getting laid is worth putting up with all the drama and dysfunction. Being single and unattached has given me a peace of mind I wouldn't trade away for the world!
Let the church say Amen!!!😅😅 I knew this shit since I was age 25.. Now age 43.. I give no fucks about marriage in America.. I love spending my money on me. I truly enjoy it just like a woman..😂😂😂
When you are 50-60 with nothing to show for it but your lousy “peace of mind” you will be sad. Men were not meant to be comfortable. Listen to yourself dude. Go out there and hunt, find what u want and tame it. Stop sounding so damn soft.
The kind of attitude that confirms what I just said. Keep on antagonising us and we will keep on turning our backs to you. Note that I didn't insult you back. Both genders are free to make their choices. I choose to protect myself. I have no hate. I'm simply indifferent to your actions.
Now that I'm in my 30's this all crystal clear to me. In my 20's I acted arrogant around women cuz I noticed it got their attention and kept them in tow. In my 30's i realized, it not really the arrogance. Its the qualities's the arrogance suggests you posses. Dominance, assertiveness, confidence etc. I now have healthier, more reasonable ways of signalling these qualities. 😄
Women often confuse arrogance with confidence. That’s why they fall for bad boys thinking if they are confident seducing them they are confident about anything which is false. Often badboys are only good with women and nothing else. Complete lack of ambition, life purpose and more importantly life competence. That’s why they all divorce after they spent their best years with bums
@@TheShermanki1 As long as you see you have flaws you will be able to overcome or cope, is a good thing. Imagine doing something wrong and not being able to tell, so you never correct it and so everythings goes south.
I looked deep inside myself through meditation and managed to see myself and changed myself in my core to have these qualities so now I don't have to show it. It just shows by default
Great to hear a woman being honest about women's behaviours and why they do it. This is real honesty compared to the BS I was fed growing up about what women want and how to treat them or how I should just be "a good guy" etc etc. Totally understand the reasoning she gives for why women test men but it is the most trying thing to ever deal with and nothing puts me off more than when a woman does this. In my mind it creates unnecessary stress and arguments that can turn a good relationship bad just because she wants to constantly test you. Men get tired of that sh*t.
The real silver lining is treat them the way youd want to be treated based on how they act. If they want to act toxic like examples shown here just cut them out theyre not worth the trouble. If they are genuinely trying to be a good person and realize you have deal breakers thats what gets em to want to genuinely want to support you or even mature, but still Id not settle for anyone just because theyd bend to you. Id say look for someone who sees you as an equal or even a friend BUT with establishing by 3-4 months what your intentions are and if they dont feel the same way simply move on, if theyre unsure about it theyll figure it out after youve made the choice to not want to pursue them. Its not as hard as many make it out to be, just treat them well, be aware of what attachment style you both have and try to make a safe space for them if you come to value them. I genuinely dont believe in any of this game nonsense, either be real or dont bother wasting my time.
10 Harsh Truths About Women That Men Learn Late. 1. You will be used for what you lead with. 2. A woman will run over you if you let her. 3. Nice guys usually do finish last. 4. Most women lack empathy for men. 5. Most women like emotionally unavailable men. 6. A woman will constantly test you. 7. Women want security. 8. Being physically desired is everything to women. 9. Attention is the main driving factor for most women. 10. She usually won’t be able to match your sex drive.
@@MrNanah38 yep but in different ways bro... men gain respect and women lose it. it is as it is. Yep i am 50 years old, had learned about life more than you and i am brazilian, i know what is good woman and beachs...Be a beta is an option. I am old school real man
My biggest mistake in my marriage (other than the obvious - marriage itself) was not addressing her disrespect from the get-go. The first disrespect occurred within only a couple of short weeks of the wedding and it threw me. I was completely dumbfounded by it. I was dumbfounded because in all my 30 plus years of life, no one had been so openly disrespectful to me as she began to display. And as i came to understand far too late, a wife's disrespect needs to be dealt with immediately. A man who lets it slide or chalks it up to her having a "bad day" is not doing himself any favors. Each act and word of disrespect will build upon the last until her husband is a miserable, self loathing piece of crap. I speak from experience. It can eventually get so bad that the wife might even begin to display distain for her husband right in front of his own family, pushing him away when he goes to hug her or turning her head if he goes in for a kiss. She might even reach the level at which his physical pain means absolutely nothing to her. Heck, she might even laugh out loud in front of her children if she sees him get hit on the head by a hard object (yes, i speak from experience). His happiness, self worth and basic needs will become absolutely unimportant to her. He will be so low on her list of priorities that his feelings, even in basic human interactions, are of no concern to her whatsoever. She will treat him worse than she would even a casual friend or stranger. This is no exaggeration. I will give you an example of the depths to which her total disrespect stooped. My wife had to have open heart surgery. This operation occurred in the spring time and i took care of her throughout her recovery. I provided for her, cleaned for her, kept things moving and never once complained about the difficulties involved. And I went without sex for months and months (which is no big deal since she never wanted sex with me anyway). For Christmas that December I bought her a rather expensive gold necklace. I had it specially wrapped and waited to surprise her. Christmas morning arrived and I watched her open it. She lifted the lid, looked at it for all of 2 seconds, closed it and tossed it aside as if it were a piece of trash. Not only did she not say even a polite "thank you", she didn't even look at me! But she did come to me later that morning to confront me over my choice in a gift.... Her: "I have a question. Why did you buy me a necklace?" Me: "I thought it was beautiful and would look great on you." (notice that even her overt rudeness did not elicit a correction from me, but an open compliment. I've been a fool.) Her: "I had surgery, you know that, right? I have a scar, you can see that, right? I have not been wearing necklaces, so why would you do that?" And then she turned and walked away. I went to our bedroom, closed the door and sat there for about 15 minutes till I could compose myself and go on with the holiday. So young man, take it from a man who has been miserable for 25 years. If you choose to marry, do not put up with even one act of disrespect. If you do I guarantee you there will be a second, then a third in rapid succession until it becomes common place and pretty much daily.
"they start equating their value to their sexual desirability"...sadly, its the outward expression of most shallow-minded women. You're so spot on alexa👌🏾
I'm in my mid 40s and I've always been given the nice-guy label. Luckily for me, I married a woman that appreciates me for the man I am. I don't think I finished last.
I'm glad you found somebody cause that proves that there are women out there that don't play these silly games and y'all can just focus on enjoying life together!
I'm a 59 year old male I just turned 59 today. Everything you're saying totally resonates with me. I'm a very sensitive man I have a wonderful daughter that I've raised with my ex-wife and I've maintained a good relationship with her because of the unconditional love I have for my daughter. I'm finding that women that are single in their 50s that have never had children, have difficulty pair-bonding and I'm starting to feel that they're not good long-term partners. What year did scribing of what these women want, it's all Eagle based and it's got no value to me whatsoever these women can just go jump in the lake I really couldn't give to you know what's about them. They're a waste of time totally low-value
😆...LOTS of women run from me because they want OWNERSHIP & control. They see me and QUICKLY hurry up and LEAVE knowing they FAVOR weak beta males!! They have done this for over 20 years (while I was 17 in 2003. NOTHING HAS CHANGED.) This ish is what it is...100% truth. As for "thug" Chads & Tyrones with 4+ kids who cheats on EVERY woman he gets with,the woman who favors HIM better MARRY him...
I used to think I was missing out on a lot being a relationship-less virgin at my age, but then I watched a few videos about modern women and realized the only thing I actually missed out on was losing money, mental health, and probably getting an STI. It's not worth it, men. Just work for yourself, enjoy your hobbies, and take care of your friends. Relationships are a joke.
Hello my friend you are wrong that nice guy finished last. Second what women don't know, men will cut the head of the snake off. The number of guys who you think is too nice is the worlds most dangerous people you don't want to push.
Finally a woman who states it as it is! I love the sex drive opinion. Comical watching these women on different platforms acting like they're so interested in sex. This is all about attention. Most of these women will say or do anything to get that attention they so badly seek, especially in later years, once their looks and figures are in decline. Its really pathetic.
Not brutal enough. She is very wrong about #7 : "Women are loyal to men who provide security." The opposite is true. Never give her certainty and security unless you want her to cheat on you. With women there is only one rule: they respect/love strong and dominating men who are not too attached to her and will replace her if she goes out of line. They punish and cheat on weak men who are loyal and devoted to her.
I am so happy that I learned (slowly and painfully) that I am my own self and that's all I need to be. I am happily living by myself meeting friends and sharing connections. Maybe I'll have a partner again one day, but I am not dependent on finding a partner and can spend my life on my own without becoming lonely.
Funny thing is that I’ve always said this stuff was the truth about women and I was told by women that I had no idea what I was talking about. I have no problem staying single the rest of my life. I’m a homeowner, my bills are paid, I love my work, my kids are adults and I’ll be retiring in 7 years. I’m living a peaceful and do not want headaches
Believe it or not CNN actually made a segment about this. they said men in the US are giving up on dating. lmao its like u know its getting bad if CNN reports on mens issues.
Sounds like you’re in good shape for a relaxing & enjoyable retirement. It’s highly likely an attractive woman will want to be with you for at least a part of your retirement-time. Allow that to happen if you want, but don’t bend over backwards for her or allow her to take anything that’s yours that you don’t wanna be lacking. Oh, and if you want to leave any assets for your adult kids, figure that out now before old-age hurts your brain. There are weirdly specific and complicated laws about giving your assets away where you’ve gotta give ‘em away more than two years before any “spend-down” related to entering a nursing home… but if you’re not avoidant and figure out that stuff out, i bet you’ll have an enjoyable span of time.
Guys no matter how much u love her never let a woman get comfortable disrespecting u if u show her u tolerate blatant disrespect u lose attraction she will think she can do whatever she want
Wow. I’m shook! Im a 29 year old guy and I never knew all of these realities until now. I always wonder why I haven’t been able to attract a female all of these years. I didn’t know girls were that complex and scrupulous. It makes sense because I’m not a confident person and have low self-esteem. I’ve had many girls ghost me because I was “too nice.” I never understood this because I’m naturally a nice person and I don’t want to upset anyone. How could women not appreciate that? I wondered. But now it makes sense. I don’t know where to go from here but thanks for making this video for it has shed light on many things I didn’t know before.
There s a lot of videos out on the internet which may be helpfull. I would also say never forget that there are these things in the video (which are true) And than there's the BIBLE and women trying to follow that. And these women, even though women will be woman, they might apreciate a (nice) guy like you (more). So I would say theres also the choice. For which type of girl you wanna go. Im gonna call m nice woman for now (the type that wants a nice guy) You can stay the nice guy if you want a ''nice'' woman. But if you wanna make more chane with the other (not ''nice'') women You might wanna change/step up your ''game'' However (as she says in the video too) when they get around 30 a lot of them go for a "nice'' guy. And making money and stuff, probably changes a lot. You also might wanna visit Brasil... Good luck anyway
It’s a year removed from your comment, but I’ll say this anyway. The one thing in life, you can never be is a man pleaser, or someone that tries to accommodate everybody else at the expense of your own. Sometimes you have to offend not to be intentionally mean, but to let that other person clearly understand that you have boundaries that will not and cannot be crossed. You must start loving yourself, making sure that disrespect whether it be from a man or woman never is allowed to flourish in your life. You have a God-given masculinity that must be presented at all times. As Olivia mentioned women are attracted to a man that gives them security in all phases of their life. When God created Adam, then he created Eve. When Eve came into the world, it was already set up for her. God gave Adam the resources to care for her and that is why women need security. If you are involved now, make sure your woman understands that you will never tolerate disrespect. Make sure she understands you are not going to be afraid of losing her if that ever happens.. having that attitude as a man will attract so many women you will have to beat them off with a stick. These independent women can holler all they want about self sufficiency and being self reliant, but at the end of the day, they are biologically wired to submit themselves to a strong, Godly man who takes no nonsense. That kind of man will never be concerned about attracting and keeping a woman.
These women are drawn to psychopathic narcissists. I guess it makes sense as most men who conquered the world were def psychopathic narcissists. So maybe it's in their DNA.
Why spreading lies? Women don't seek security. What they really mean by "security" is being lazy. They want a guy with who she can lay back and be lazy without judgement, someone else will do the job and will pay. That is what they seek. Not security. No one is attacking them.
Ma you are right. If a woman think you a weak man and always on Raw Raw shit. This woman tried me. She got her wake up call when I kicked her to the curb. Lol😂 and blocked the number 🤣 get lost.
This is the most LOGICAL I ever heard a woman speak on "Advice videos." Positively speaking, you have hit all your points logically without submerging it in emotion or a lack of accountability that women are being socially programmed to operate in the modern world. Well done and intrigued for more quality vidoes like this.
To sum this up... most men and women are not worthy of being with long term... if she easy then she's not worthy.. if he's easy then he's not worth it either... if both live in the moment and not for the long term.. they not worthy so. To pull off a miracle, you have to be one also
Or in more simple terms I think, despite what we’ve been raised or brought up to believe whether it’s through media,society, etc, women, and men are not very much different, and for the most part both want the same thing. Consistency, security, good communication, affection, attention, love, trust, support, a partner who is their authentic self, honest and of course regular sex lol
@@Shtotagdetotryot1 your right most times than not.. now here is my point... forget what people want... how many people are giving their partner "Consistency, security, good communication, affection, attention, love, trust, support, a partner who is their authentic self, honest and of course regular sex lol" most are too busy wanting.... but dont offer it on a consistent basis... (but why) because they gave goal"s" that are treated as more important than their partners... which makes them......
Most of what people call 'normal' is SINFUL, unchaste behavior. When you're UNGODLY, you're also FLESHLY, WORLDLY and SELF SEEKING. You don't do things in SPIRIT, you do them for gratification of your physical senses. This is where all the confusion comes from. When you're like the world, you do what the world tells you. The biggest tip you can give men and women is GROW UP. A marriage, in the spiritual sense is an EQUAL arrangement with DIFFERENT jobs and roles. To the degree that those jobs are taken seriously will determine the outcome of the entire endeavor. If you have NO peace, you have bad relationship with GOD and so you seek WORLDLY pleasures to fill that hole. Sin begets more sin and as you go further into the darkness, you lose all sense of direction, all motivation for purpose. The end is a terrible destruction.
Sorry I do not agree with some things. My advice to other men: Look for femine traits such as nurturance, sensitivity, sweetness, supportiveness, gentleness, warmth, passivity, cooperativeness, expressiveness, modesty, humility, empathy, affection, tenderness, and being emotional, kind, helpful, devoted. Not a woman looking for ego-boost, desire for unavailablity (thrill for the chase), difficult to obtain (scarcity), attracted to prohibited activities (intrigue). These are bad traits, these people live in this realm only. They are attached in this material world. If you live and just be yourself then that is fine. If you are nice , honest and gentle to woman then that is your way. If a woman doesn't have the ability to see how you are then look for another. In life you should enjoy, not learn "harsh truths" from woman. They are just humans like us, nothing special. If a person loves you and you love her then you have found the right person . The key to have a woman is Love . I get tired of woman telling to men what we have to do. Just improve in yourself, visit your family, take care of yourself (eat well, train, learn new things) and work good to keep your self safe. If you find a woman attractive , talk to her and learn who she is. You will realize when you talk more girls , to more variety there is. People have a different lives, so try to find a matching partner that both lives can connect and live together. If you are unsure, just try to talk more girls without anything expectations. They are not special. If you put her feelings first, you come last. Keep it real.
That's a virtuous woman. A woman who was raised right and loves God! You're right though. I'm a good dude and trusting God in presenting a woman to me who'll love me for me. I don't wanna "act" like an asshole to keep her. My father was extremely abusive towards my mother. I refuse to be that cat.
I agree with you, because a lot of what she says may be true, but it applies to these immature females out here who really don't know what a real man is or is supposed to be. It's all about status and materialism with those kind of females...trying to showcase their worth through those means. Because a woman who knows who she is, and understands the power of her femininity won't waste her time or her nurturing prowess to even engage in a lot of these activities here.
So, to sum up... "She only cares about what she wants. You're never going to get what you want from her, because she has little interest in giving it. In light of the two previous statements, DATING AND MARRIAGE IS A WASTE OF A MAN'S TIME!" Got it! Thanks!
No just date wisely. You have to determine if the woman is worth all this trouble first. If you pass all these tests and you pre approved her as being virtious; you should be the happiest man alive thereafter. The problem is finding the quality woman worth going through all this for.
N Bee: I found that woman and married her. Spent 20 years with her. In year 17, she turned into someone I didn't even recognize, and by year 20, I had no choice but to get her out of my house! I wasted 20 years of my life working hard, remaining faithful, and taking care of my family. I'm done! Whatever time I have left on this earth will be dedicated to caring for myself first!
Because of society’s desensitization to the emotions and feelings of men, quite a few men don’t talk about their feelings ever especially to modern women today. Therefore, when a man drinks alcohol, smokes, dies with poor health and/ or commit suicide and he’s dead, it’s too late for empathy at this point. However, most people are ok with women, children and dogs to express their feelings and emotions.
Nicely put together and gets right to it. I'm not even remotely interested in starting another relationship since splitting with my wife (who is still my best friend) almost 3 years ago. Since she's been back on the market she tells me all the time that I'm not like other guys. I am a nice guy, and I'm emotional, but I have a low tolerance for games and BS and I'm not the least bit afraid of being alone.
Come on Jonathan, pull yourself together. First off.. The likelihood you're HER best friend is slim to none. You're there for the warm, heart-felt conversation she wants from a male. She'll have the same sort of conversations with her female pals, but she'll also fill them in on who she's fucking, how she's being fucked, how often she's being fucked, etc. I'd guess the amount of sex you had with your wife tapered off as she got comfortable and knew you were there forever regardless. So that was the end of her knowing the panties had to come off, so they didn't. Your low tolerance for games and BS is admirable, BUT, whoever your ex-wife is shacking up with here and there will have the same tolerance or lower. If your replacements are the same age as you, it's likely they'll have gone through the same or similar marriage wise. They're back in the game though, they know the score and what women such as your wife are after - the same as them - that's to get fucked (if you weren't sure). Your BS detector then, and this low tolerance for games - that isn't so much a strength then. "Emotional" though? That's a HUGE weakness. Women don't want emotion - period. They'll say they want their partners to open up, but to do it starts the beginning of the end. Your current situation isn't unusual. Nor is you being disinterested in another relationship. But hanging around to be your wife's "best-friend" and her having the audacity to draw comparisons to other men is appalling verging on abuse. Don't kid yourself - she's getting what she wants physically elsewhere - then comes to you for the rest. Note her new partners aren't jealous of you in any way - you aren't "the one she always goes back to" - they're perfectly happy you're around to do the stuff they can't be arsed with. Get yourself out of this destructive relationship, the left-over tatters of something that once was. Be single and stay that way if you wish, nothing wrong with that, but nothing good is at the end of the path you're walking. If you aren't afraid of being alone then do it. Don't let your narcissist ex have her cake and scoff it down.
Priceless... So, So many "OMG She's RIGHT", moments!! Even if we've learned every one of these nuggets, we forget, and have to be reminded. And this is all in One concise video... Thank you!! ( Should be REQUIRED viewing for all males, 15 and up )
Lets be honest here. Given the nature of women and the way society is today, a healthy relationship is impossible with all but the most self aware women. Thanks for your honestly. Maybe we'll be able to get to a better place, one day.
Integrity is what makes a man high-value, yet all their image of a “high value” man leads men to compromise their integrity to get her…. Please, make this make sense…
@@Insight-music It's cause they are shallow jezebels. Don't fall for it. There are exceptions, but those women will be like finding a needle in a haystack
Thank you sister for your honesty and great content. But men have had enough of this 'crap' and the games women play! We would rather be single than to spend the rest of our lives with drama. As Al Bundy in that classic show 'Married with Children' would say: "Men don't need women. Women need men!". Enough said. Peace 🙂
If your not ready to start a relationship don’t try. If you respect each other and communicate without arguing your good. Be yourself if they like you for yourself your half way there. If you can find a mate without the DRAMA keep them!!!! Make sure you find a mate that is not LAZY. If you find that a person that your dating gives you a RED FLAG leave!!!! That’s a sign that its not the only time they will show that’s side of them.
I sincerely appreciate your videos! I am a newly licensed marriage and family therapist and you are definitely educating me on a great deal that was not talked about in school or even in life. Again, thank you!
Don’t overly focus on women and rely on them for happiness, if it doesn’t naturally work then leave. Don’t try to trick women into liking u or act like someone your not to try to get a girl. Just find your happiness in things like friends and family and career and God and hobbies and interests.
I don't think these women understand what's really going on here. Their own men can't stand them and won't put up with them for 5 seconds before he runs her off or walk away.
Wow that was my first introduction to you that was really good thank you. Yes I'm an emotionally unavailable man it is worked both ways for me. I can't wait to hear more what you think and say
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Respect. You're one of the few women I've seen bring up that it's difficult for women to empathize with a man. Society paints women as such great natural masters of emotion, but when their man has a moment of real weakness they freak out, say/do something they can never take back, and fail to be a loving and supportive force in their relationship when it's needed most
She is very wrong about #7 : "Women are loyal to men who provide security." The opposite is true. Never give her certainty and security unless you want her to cheat on you. With women there is only one rule: they respect/love strong and dominating men who are not too attached to her and will replace her if she goes out of line. They punish and cheat on weak men who are loyal and devoted to her.
Well said. I know a lot of people who've lost their eyesights, hearing, limbs, or are paralyzed from neck to the toes, and a few more in difficult physical conditions, Catch is that when it's a w0man in such condition, their husbs are sticking around helping them and taking care of them, but when it's a mn in such conditions, 9 out of 10 times, their waivus abandoned them,, and one of them even starved to death in his own apartment. His waifu got another guy and took out all the belongings and money out and left him on his own, when the mn was not able to use any of his limbs at all, so he could not call anyone, leave his house, or do anything for his survival. They really are in it for only their sake. They say they are the more empathetic ones, and do show them ever once in a while, but it's all show, or just in the moment. In the long run, they are in it for only themselves. As mn, all we have is ourselves and other mn around us. Live as you are not married even if you are. Just fulfill your duty as husbands and fathers, but never count on the w0man to do anything for you when things go south. So always drive safe, eat healthy, make as much money as you can, exercise, and quit drinking and smoking.
I have lived around the world, and currently live in Costa Rica and Panama.🏖 I have dated and mated women from all around the world. It is refreshing to hear a woman be blunt and honest, I applaud you! Irrespective what country, or what culture. Men want sex and companionship, women want financial security and personal safety.
Women want sex, companionship, financial security, and personal safety. Don’t ever underestimate Importance of sex to a woman in a relationship. Women cheat for the very same reasons men do and often times it’s because they’re not getting enough sex, or feel neglected sexually by the man.
Its not true though that nice guys finish last that's where she's wrong because when you stand before God the virtuous, meek, and humble receive greater rewards. Not the unpure, or top competitors of the world. And you will have to give an account for idol words used. Its serious.
@@christianhenry4173 there’s a difference between Nice and a doormat. A good man is inherently nice. 9/10 what people do is Mask their true intentions behind being “nice” but the reality is people can sense the fakeness
@@qwerty1994ize no that's. Not true. I don't know what type of nice guy your referring to. That sounds like a narcissist or a pretender. People don't realize Jesus was very nice, and also very direct. So if anybody should examine what's a great spirit to have its Jesus he's the 2nd Adam and he's truly Alpha and omega. Jesus was indeed so attractive as a man that Mary Magdalene had a crush on his leadership although he rebuked her and his mother. So I disagree with that sorry. It's not true nice guys finish last, well let me put that in context. It is true Nice Guys do finish on top. Because That same nice guy is going to be king judging the world with an rod of iron and it won't be a good day when he returns
Brooooooooo , the main problem is us men have to know all of these instructions to just deal with another human being !! None of y’all find this crazy ?!!!!!
Nah this crazy as fuck bro. I almost doubt the girls in my town operate on this level but I've be on youtube for two years looking at this shit and I'm convinced lol
If I had known this back in the day I wouldn't even have bothered. My simplistic desire to find just one(1) woman I'm compatible with was asking too much, apparently. Women don't even care about compatibility in the truest sense. As long as I play the role she needs me to play that's compatible enough, it seems. All I needed was the play book and to follow that play book in service of her needs and wants. Put me in coach lol. Right.
Dam that’s how it is!! Women don’t care about you being the most honest , gentle, loyal man. But what do you have to offer?? Are you the right height?? Do you have the physical look in into right now??. Hope you Learned your lesson. I finally did !
The sex drive thing I see what she's saying; In my last 2 relationships they're able to keep up within the first 6 months or so, and then gradually decrease interest which I think inevitably trickles down to other things in the relationship which leads to its downfall.
Dude this seems like the blind leading the blind. There are some truths here but it seems like her message is just grabbing on to the same tropes and stereotypes that most “alpha” channels have. Guys, be the strongest version of yourselves and work on trusting yourself more, that will open life up for you, not just in dating but in general. There’s nothing wrong with being a nice person, that’s actually a good thing. She confuses being nice with having a weak character, which is just plain wrong. Kindness is a great virtue to have and should be practiced more by everyone. Above all respect yourself and forgive yourself for the things in your past. You won’t know what life has waiting for you unless you experience it yourself and go out there and have the balls to get hurt and learn. So go for it guys!
Exactly because the message should be about just finding an emotional mature good woman to have a family with of course it's good to learn new skills and get new hobbies and all of that but just trying to be like the reverse side of the other bad is not the way to go. because you're not going to find a good woman if you go around thinking all of them are going to be like the one that was bad. you can't let life circumstances Harden your heart and take away the one thing that yours that nobody can take from you. and that's your hope the right one is out there and if by some crazy chance you never find her at least you won't regret not trying Using money or Hobbies or skills as some kind of fulfillment for trying to pass on your family's Legacy by having family with somebody just isn't going to work because when you're dying alone with all of that money just remember money doesn't talk back to you it doesn't care about your feelings it can't pass on your genes it doesn't even know who you are
So... act unattainable and a challenge.... but protect her since that's all she cares about... be ok when she does not put out, but make sure you pass her trustworthiness test. Makes sense.
Exactly! It's a joke. 99 percent of women are not worth all that hassle. Now I get why those middle eastern fellas keep their women in check 24/7 and 365 lol. They are not logical or reasonable beings at all. And most follow trends and are groupies.
guys just be yourself and stay on your purpose...and most of all live for yourself and not a woman's expectations..modern day relationships is too complicated and childish.
You never know who someone is until the end, men and women wear way too many masks, an eminence front in which is displayed in the beginning of every relationship. I just remember this: Women control the fate of a relationship. Men control whether a woman continues to exist. Men need to start taking more control and giving less attention .
It's by far the most comprehensive assessment I have come across and coming from a woman I truly think there's hope to see a generation of young girls who can't think beyond their social media profiles 😂❤
She is very wrong about #7 : "Women are loyal to men who provide security." The opposite is true. Never give her certainty and security unless you want her to cheat on you. With women there is only one rule: they respect/love strong and dominating men who are not too attached to her and will replace her if she goes out of line. They punish and cheat on weak men who are loyal and devoted to her.
Olivia love your channel you got so much wisdom and insight. But I feel like why women got so many games..(seems too petty and insecure). I don’t do well with games and relationships but you do tell it like it is. Thanks for giving us insight on women. Y’all something else, but damn y’all fine, and men we like visual stimulation. I feel like You need your own tv show like Dr. Phil. Lol. Peace and blessings my sister.
A lot of what she discusses are women who haven't healed from their past trauma...unhealed people will attract unhealed people... these types of women are damaged and should not be seen as an overall blanket for women in general.... there needs to be a divide in who has done the inner work vs. who hasn't.
Men also get damaged by their past experiences. Difference is we have to learn to deal with it on our own. We dont have the female privilege of crying on a girls shoulder for support.
Trauma aka i fk'd the entire tinder catalogue and now i cant function like a healthy adult in a relation. Al this "trauma" is selfinflicted and poor lifestyle choices. Im not a therapist.
@@simdal3088 Trauma such as narcissistic mother, absent father, violence in the home, sexual abuse from adults, neglect. Childhood trauma that we have no control over.
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This book is a real game changer because it teaches you how to actually use your brain to create a new set of rules and standards for yourself instead of just using your monkey brain as an excuse every time you have to make any mental or physical effort around caring for a man. Yes embrace that men are human beings just like you would like to be, and not toys for you to play with at your whim. Men are not your mental dress up dolls, whose minds you can just change when they dont suit yours. Buy my book when it finally gets out and, educate yourself and become human instead of just being a B.I.T.C.H.
So true...with your best friend, or your cousin or even the priest.
10min video, 5 commercial breaks
Don’t die for a woman ; she’ll show up to your funeral with a new mate .
Happened to me
@@emanuel_soundtrackbro
Brutal!
The one she already had
No lie this happened to one of my friends who passed away, she was playing with his feelings, doing him dirty, but they were together when he passed, she then started messing around with someone who he called his brother, then funeral time comes around and he’s hugging all over her, they even left together just them 2, and till this day they still mess around. Lost all respect for both of them
I love how she always goes straight to the point.
And how fast she speaks
No adverts too, probably in the future though
@@Sammie551 you know you can pay to not have ads.
@@InappropriateShorts wow
Sigh, she comes off a bit as if it is men’s fault women want crappy men, but she is speaking truth.
@@slackerman9758 I mean she's just speaking about evolutionary biological facts. Women are usually attracted to the dominant, competent men in society. Cause most of what happens in the world is all about power, perception and the choices we make. There are exceptions of course, but for the most part hetero women are groupies.
For a man, it's love. For a woman, it's business.
Those are incompatible.
Same with Marriage
For a man, it's sex, for a woman, it's complicated.
@@TGP109 Women are incapable of love.
Depends on the person. Some males are gold diggers unfortunately.
11: Don't get in a relationship with these crazy wemen!!!
With how women are nowadays, take marriage and long-term relationships off the table. They've taken what we value, so restructure the deal.
@@detroitvcw EXACTLY!!!
Don’t get in relationships at all
😂😂
Exactly you can get sex from women faster than food so I'm gud pump and dump....
#4 about women not being able to empathize with men is accurate and particularly brutal. Women largely don’t see men as human beings who have our own needs, but rather as vessels whose purpose is to meet a woman’s needs.
It's accurate. Men need to be respected, women need attention and validation. They aren't the same thing and women intuitively treat men how they want to be treated.
This is a reason why women don't deserve my time. I've been single this long not caring anymore.
Yea this one hits for me. Just lost the mother of my child after 13 years and everything about how she switched up on me and ripped our family apart because a "mood" she was in blew my mind.... she can't even tell me why she tore our family apart, she quite literally dodges tf out of that question.
Learned that one the hard way
@Just Chill lol, that sounds like some Lifetime/Hallmark channel bullshit. Every woman I’ve spent any significant amount of time around has proven that she will look out for number one over all. They may do things for you in the short term (as a means to an end), but believe they are expecting it to pay off.
Nice guys don't finish last--they don't finish at all. So nice to hear from a true woman calling out the BS of those women who are abusive.
just like how the bad boy phase is never over or overwritten by the need to settle/kids
They don't finish at all? No, they don't even bother starting.
Relationships shouldn't be this complicated
Read Genesis 3.
@@1USACitizen192 Exactly we are cursed…people keep thinking God’s word isn’t true.
EXACTLY....
@@devinewynder5443 No i cancel that in the name of Jesus..No we are not cursed because who God has blessed no one can curse
@@mynameisirrelevant46 Someone who picks and chooses what parts of the Bible they read. In essence, someone who makes up their own god
This woman is clearly educated and well spoken, and she's really making light of some horrible traits in toxic women. As a black man who is wiser now than I once was, I can say, unequivocally, I will find a woman who does not harbor these toxic traits, or I will die single, old, wealthy and happy, having avoided this kind of abuse entirely. ❤
Brother what you don't understand is a woman's shelf life is approximately 27 years give or take (age 18-45). Affter 45, women generally hate having sex and see it as a chore that they do not get pleasure from. Men on the other hand can be sexually viable for 60+ plus years. So, it's to a woman's benefit to find a man who is simpish for this short span. Don't concern yourself with how a mate thinks, but how you would want a man to see your daugter sister or mother.
Exactly
@@chadtyrone FACTS I WAS MARRIED 26 YEARS.......been single now for 10 years and loving my life more than ever...I LIVE FOR MYSELF AND I ANSWER TO NOBODY
G Williams, buddy u need to watch every episode of fresh and fit. On youtube. These guys are educating us, and it's gonna be a like a Black lives matter kinda movement. Where we no more have to tolerate bad behaviour as a black man from these toxic black females
@@zrunner240Z you go guy. U rock, BTW south Asian Vietnamese, Thai and pilipina women are so so feminine, u shud try going down there to south asia and meeting them. They love taking care of of their man, and are super hot too. Wen I see Safari's rap artist wife treat Safari like shit, makes me wanna puke. Safari such a great guy.
This is why a peaceful woman is cherished.
The women she described sound like an unnecessary task and a headache waiting to happen
Men in the modern age are now waking up to the fact that the relationships, dating and marriage scene is a rigged game where the man stands to lose every single time if he doesn't watch his P's and Q's. No amount of getting laid is worth putting up with all the drama and dysfunction. Being single and unattached has given me a peace of mind I wouldn't trade away for the world!
Let the church say Amen!!!😅😅 I knew this shit since I was age 25.. Now age 43.. I give no fucks about marriage in America.. I love spending my money on me. I truly enjoy it just like a woman..😂😂😂
Yeah, facts. It seems such a daunting task to date now
Ain't that the truth !!!
When you are 50-60 with nothing to show for it but your lousy “peace of mind” you will be sad. Men were not meant to be comfortable. Listen to yourself dude. Go out there and hunt, find what u want and tame it. Stop sounding so damn soft.
Ditto, all.
The best thing a man can have is peace in his life 👍
He won't fuck peace hhhhhh
and p0rn
Marriage is important of life but today modern world that we are living become worst everything went upside down and the system is corrupt.
@@thebasement7330hum no
Single, content!
My wife educated me on number 4 and how most women lack empathy for men. It was a big lesson for me.
Had she divorced you yet?
Check the phone 😂
11. Don’t bother with 99% of women
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😂😂😂😂
You're funny but very accurate. Why would I want to learn about women when data has revealed that dealing with them will lead to your demise?
@@balladbuster5109 THEN DEAL WITH MEN SMH 🤦🏾♀️
The kind of attitude that confirms what I just said. Keep on antagonising us and we will keep on turning our backs to you. Note that I didn't insult you back. Both genders are free to make their choices. I choose to protect myself. I have no hate. I'm simply indifferent to your actions.
Now that I'm in my 30's this all crystal clear to me. In my 20's I acted arrogant around women cuz I noticed it got their attention and kept them in tow. In my 30's i realized, it not really the arrogance. Its the qualities's the arrogance suggests you posses. Dominance, assertiveness, confidence etc. I now have healthier, more reasonable ways of signalling these qualities. 😄
Well said
I had this same thing happen but turned 30 in Jan and I’m way worse now smh 🤦🏾♂️
Women often confuse arrogance with confidence. That’s why they fall for bad boys thinking if they are confident seducing them they are confident about anything which is false. Often badboys are only good with women and nothing else. Complete lack of ambition, life purpose and more importantly life competence. That’s why they all divorce after they spent their best years with bums
@@TheShermanki1 As long as you see you have flaws you will be able to overcome or cope, is a good thing. Imagine doing something wrong and not being able to tell, so you never correct it and so everythings goes south.
I looked deep inside myself through meditation and managed to see myself and changed myself in my core to have these qualities so now I don't have to show it. It just shows by default
Great to hear a woman being honest about women's behaviours and why they do it. This is real honesty compared to the BS I was fed growing up about what women want and how to treat them or how I should just be "a good guy" etc etc.
Totally understand the reasoning she gives for why women test men but it is the most trying thing to ever deal with and nothing puts me off more than when a woman does this. In my mind it creates unnecessary stress and arguments that can turn a good relationship bad just because she wants to constantly test you. Men get tired of that sh*t.
Facts!
NO SHIT! Why do you think I'm not in a rush to get in a relationship?
Amen
The real silver lining is treat them the way youd want to be treated based on how they act. If they want to act toxic like examples shown here just cut them out theyre not worth the trouble. If they are genuinely trying to be a good person and realize you have deal breakers thats what gets em to want to genuinely want to support you or even mature, but still Id not settle for anyone just because theyd bend to you.
Id say look for someone who sees you as an equal or even a friend BUT with establishing by 3-4 months what your intentions are and if they dont feel the same way simply move on, if theyre unsure about it theyll figure it out after youve made the choice to not want to pursue them. Its not as hard as many make it out to be, just treat them well, be aware of what attachment style you both have and try to make a safe space for them if you come to value them. I genuinely dont believe in any of this game nonsense, either be real or dont bother wasting my time.
This video makes me feel like I'm listening to TERMS AND CONDITIONS FOR WOMEN.
Seriously, and i dont want to sign them 😂
10 Harsh Truths About Women That Men Learn Late.
1. You will be used for what you lead with.
2. A woman will run over you if you let her.
3. Nice guys usually do finish last.
4. Most women lack empathy for men.
5. Most women like emotionally unavailable men.
6. A woman will constantly test you.
7. Women want security.
8. Being physically desired is everything to women.
9. Attention is the main driving factor for most women.
10. She usually won’t be able to match your sex drive.
If you're reading this & put up with this for pussy you've lost.
she couId've just said women are awfuI ten times & that wouId've sufficed lol smh
Thanks for the recap
Disagree with 1,4,5,6,7, and 9 and number 10? You’d be surprised
@@superpiccirillo you’re welcome
Never in my life have I ever heard a woman speak so truthfully. I wish this was recorder 15 years ago.
"Attention is a woman's biggest currency" 🎯
Ignoring too lol
Your paying her right now!😂
Who even cares, came here to judge the comment section lol. You’re mostly people who care here, I find that hilarious.
Yup lol fr
yes but thanks to instagram the currency has inflated worse than actual money after the pandemic
too much effort to be cheated at the end. men be single
I know what you mean, Brother. But im lonely.
Men cheat too bro, its the human condition, find someone who value equally and live, stop live in fear that a woman is going to cheat on you.
The juice is just not worth the squeeze. Women cheat more than men do, they are just better at not getting caught.
@@MrNanah38 yep but in different ways bro... men gain respect and women lose it. it is as it is. Yep i am 50 years old, had learned about life more than you and i am brazilian, i know what is good woman and beachs...Be a beta is an option. I am old school real man
@@dougwhiley4028 the best investment is on yourself. You are not lonely, find good friends and go live! Cheers bro
My biggest mistake in my marriage (other than the obvious - marriage itself) was not addressing her disrespect from the get-go. The first disrespect occurred within only a couple of short weeks of the wedding and it threw me. I was completely dumbfounded by it. I was dumbfounded because in all my 30 plus years of life, no one had been so openly disrespectful to me as she began to display. And as i came to understand far too late, a wife's disrespect needs to be dealt with immediately. A man who lets it slide or chalks it up to her having a "bad day" is not doing himself any favors. Each act and word of disrespect will build upon the last until her husband is a miserable, self loathing piece of crap. I speak from experience. It can eventually get so bad that the wife might even begin to display distain for her husband right in front of his own family, pushing him away when he goes to hug her or turning her head if he goes in for a kiss. She might even reach the level at which his physical pain means absolutely nothing to her. Heck, she might even laugh out loud in front of her children if she sees him get hit on the head by a hard object (yes, i speak from experience).
His happiness, self worth and basic needs will become absolutely unimportant to her. He will be so low on her list of priorities that his feelings, even in basic human interactions, are of no concern to her whatsoever. She will treat him worse than she would even a casual friend or stranger. This is no exaggeration. I will give you an example of the depths to which her total disrespect stooped.
My wife had to have open heart surgery. This operation occurred in the spring time and i took care of her throughout her recovery. I provided for her, cleaned for her, kept things moving and never once complained about the difficulties involved. And I went without sex for months and months (which is no big deal since she never wanted sex with me anyway). For Christmas that December I bought her a rather expensive gold necklace. I had it specially wrapped and waited to surprise her. Christmas morning arrived and I watched her open it. She lifted the lid, looked at it for all of 2 seconds, closed it and tossed it aside as if it were a piece of trash. Not only did she not say even a polite "thank you", she didn't even look at me! But she did come to me later that morning to confront me over my choice in a gift....
Her: "I have a question. Why did you buy me a necklace?"
Me: "I thought it was beautiful and would look great on you." (notice that even her overt rudeness did not elicit a correction from me, but an open compliment. I've been a fool.)
Her: "I had surgery, you know that, right? I have a scar, you can see that, right? I have not been wearing necklaces, so why would you do that?"
And then she turned and walked away.
I went to our bedroom, closed the door and sat there for about 15 minutes till I could compose myself and go on with the holiday.
So young man, take it from a man who has been miserable for 25 years. If you choose to marry, do not put up with even one act of disrespect. If you do I guarantee you there will be a second, then a third in rapid succession until it becomes common place and pretty much daily.
Hard hard lessons learnt is all. Focus on God next for comfort and validation. Not a woman's
@@bizlme I quite agree
Well said
Thank you
I feel your pain. Thanks for your advice.
"they start equating their value to their sexual desirability"...sadly, its the outward expression of most shallow-minded women.
You're so spot on alexa👌🏾
I'm in my mid 40s and I've always been given the nice-guy label. Luckily for me, I married a woman that appreciates me for the man I am. I don't think I finished last.
Right cause not all women are like that!
You're the exception brother.
I'm glad you found somebody cause that proves that there are women out there that don't play these silly games and y'all can just focus on enjoying life together!
She completed the hoe face
Or she was just done her hoe phase
I'm a 59 year old male I just turned 59 today. Everything you're saying totally resonates with me. I'm a very sensitive man I have a wonderful daughter that I've raised with my ex-wife and I've maintained a good relationship with her because of the unconditional love I have for my daughter. I'm finding that women that are single in their 50s that have never had children, have difficulty pair-bonding and I'm starting to feel that they're not good long-term partners. What year did scribing of what these women want, it's all Eagle based and it's got no value to me whatsoever these women can just go jump in the lake I really couldn't give to you know what's about them. They're a waste of time totally low-value
The man who is superficial and pleases for the sake of pleasing women is called a SIMP.
Focus on yourself fellas it’s about to get real out here
Truth is, Most men over rate these women. We place them on a pedestal far above their level. The earlier we realise this, the better.
What Olivia says about asserting dominance is true. If a man appears weak a woman will run game on him
😆...LOTS of women run from me because they want OWNERSHIP & control. They see me and QUICKLY hurry up and LEAVE knowing they FAVOR weak beta males!! They have done this for over 20 years (while I was 17 in 2003. NOTHING HAS CHANGED.) This ish is what it is...100% truth. As for "thug" Chads & Tyrones with 4+ kids who cheats on EVERY woman he gets with,the woman who favors HIM better MARRY him...
All women will.
Whole time be running game on hersepf cause most men already be knowing just dont care.
So most women respond to psychological manipulation.
I was financially reaped by women who pretended to love me
I used to think I was missing out on a lot being a relationship-less virgin at my age, but then I watched a few videos about modern women and realized the only thing I actually missed out on was losing money, mental health, and probably getting an STI. It's not worth it, men. Just work for yourself, enjoy your hobbies, and take care of your friends. Relationships are a joke.
Yes sir
Save it for marriage as God intended. Don’t wanna create soul ties with anyone other than your wife
Modern men are just as bad as modern women.
Fuckin' a right!
women are a joke tbh
We always say women are a puzzle but videos like this definitely help to unravel some of these puzzles. Thank you
Ms. Olivia thanks for giving us the Game!! Female Nature has no heart smh
I know right!! Smh.
@@zealousideal the Game is Cold smh
Men are the REAL romantics...men have the ability to love unconditionally
Not all females are the same. You would hate if women grouped all men together, so why do it with them?!
@@detroitvcw yep! Men loves harder than women
Damn… if I would’ve known this…. I wouldn’t have gotten married. Facts
Hello my friend you are wrong that nice guy finished last. Second what women don't know, men will cut the head of the snake off. The number of guys who you think is too nice is the worlds most dangerous people you don't want to push.
Finally a woman who states it as it is! I love the sex drive opinion. Comical watching these women on different platforms acting like they're so interested in sex. This is all about attention. Most of these women will say or do anything to get that attention they so badly seek, especially in later years, once their looks and figures are in decline.
Its really pathetic.
It's refreshing to hear this type of brutal honesty.
@Just Chill I need this.
This is the type of truth that can completely shatter the romantic view men have of women. im glad it exists.
Not brutal enough.
She is very wrong about #7 : "Women are loyal to men who provide security."
The opposite is true. Never give her certainty and security unless you want her to cheat on you.
With women there is only one rule: they respect/love strong and dominating men who are not too attached to her and will replace her if she goes out of line. They punish and cheat on weak men who are loyal and devoted to her.
@Just Chill -- we are talking about 95% women. 5% or less are probably not so crazies.
I am so happy that I learned (slowly and painfully) that I am my own self and that's all I need to be. I am happily living by myself meeting friends and sharing connections. Maybe I'll have a partner again one day, but I am not dependent on finding a partner and can spend my life on my own without becoming lonely.
Funny thing is that I’ve always said this stuff was the truth about women and I was told by women that I had no idea what I was talking about. I have no problem staying single the rest of my life. I’m a homeowner, my bills are paid, I love my work, my kids are adults and I’ll be retiring in 7 years. I’m living a peaceful and do not want headaches
Believe it or not CNN actually made a segment about this. they said men in the US are giving up on dating. lmao its like u know its getting bad if CNN reports on mens issues.
You already reproduced so you've won the mating game
@@cosmicsea89😂
Sounds like you’re in good shape for a relaxing & enjoyable retirement. It’s highly likely an attractive woman will want to be with you for at least a part of your retirement-time. Allow that to happen if you want, but don’t bend over backwards for her or allow her to take anything that’s yours that you don’t wanna be lacking. Oh, and if you want to leave any assets for your adult kids, figure that out now before old-age hurts your brain. There are weirdly specific and complicated laws about giving your assets away where you’ve gotta give ‘em away more than two years before any “spend-down” related to entering a nursing home… but if you’re not avoidant and figure out that stuff out, i bet you’ll have an enjoyable span of time.
Guys no matter how much u love her never let a woman get comfortable disrespecting u if u show her u tolerate blatant disrespect u lose attraction she will think she can do whatever she want
Quran is very red pilled.
ان كيدكن العظيم.صدق الله العظيم
Women only respect you when you treat like trush control her .
Wow. I’m shook! Im a 29 year old guy and I never knew all of these realities until now. I always wonder why I haven’t been able to attract a female all of these years. I didn’t know girls were that complex and scrupulous. It makes sense because I’m not a confident person and have low self-esteem. I’ve had many girls ghost me because I was “too nice.” I never understood this because I’m naturally a nice person and I don’t want to upset anyone. How could women not appreciate that? I wondered. But now it makes sense. I don’t know where to go from here but thanks for making this video for it has shed light on many things I didn’t know before.
There s a lot of videos out on the internet which may be helpfull. I would also say never forget that there are these things in the video (which are true)
And than there's the BIBLE and women trying to follow that. And these women, even though women will be woman, they might apreciate a (nice) guy like you (more).
So I would say theres also the choice. For which type of girl you wanna go. Im gonna call m nice woman for now (the type that wants a nice guy)
You can stay the nice guy if you want a ''nice'' woman.
But if you wanna make more chane with the other (not ''nice'') women
You might wanna change/step up your ''game''
However (as she says in the video too) when they get around 30 a lot of them go for a "nice'' guy.
And making money and stuff, probably changes a lot.
You also might wanna visit Brasil...
Good luck anyway
Wake up brother, don't fall into women's traps, be strong and make money and live for yourself, don't go for women, let them come to you.
It took me till i was 30 , I was an IDIOT before. Whatever you do love yourself , do not waste time on women my guy
I'm the same way.
It’s a year removed from your comment, but I’ll say this anyway. The one thing in life, you can never be is a man pleaser, or someone that tries to accommodate everybody else at the expense of your own. Sometimes you have to offend not to be intentionally mean, but to let that other person clearly understand that you have boundaries that will not and cannot be crossed. You must start loving yourself, making sure that disrespect whether it be from a man or woman never is allowed to flourish in your life. You have a God-given masculinity that must be presented at all times. As Olivia mentioned women are attracted to a man that gives them security in all phases of their life. When God created Adam, then he created Eve. When Eve came into the world, it was already set up for her. God gave Adam the resources to care for her and that is why women need security. If you are involved now, make sure your woman understands that you will never tolerate disrespect. Make sure she understands you are not going to be afraid of losing her if that ever happens.. having that attitude as a man will attract so many women you will have to beat them off with a stick. These independent women can holler all they want about self sufficiency and being self reliant, but at the end of the day, they are biologically wired to submit themselves to a strong, Godly man who takes no nonsense. That kind of man will never be concerned about attracting and keeping a woman.
Be cold.
Be selfish.
Be disloyal in the open.
If need be, be violent.
Be disrespectful at all times.
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Crazy part a lot of them love this even some or lot of church woman and church wife's like men like this
violence? I don’t think so. What goes around comes around. You don’t want violence in your life 😭 I’m telling you
Don't be violent....
These women are drawn to psychopathic narcissists. I guess it makes sense as most men who conquered the world were def psychopathic narcissists. So maybe it's in their DNA.
Why spreading lies? Women don't seek security. What they really mean by "security" is being lazy. They want a guy with who she can lay back and be lazy without judgement, someone else will do the job and will pay. That is what they seek. Not security. No one is attacking them.
Yep you get it. I also commented her video. She is not saying true things about all woman
That......Makes sense!!
Edgar's, amen and amen. Nailed it.
You are what you are. If no one party appreciates the other, it's not a good situation.
I appreciate your channel, but none of this applies to any women of value.
It applies to narcissists and we should keep away from narcissists. Male or female.
Ma you are right. If a woman think you a weak man and always on Raw Raw shit. This woman tried me. She got her wake up call when I kicked her to the curb. Lol😂 and blocked the number 🤣 get lost.
This is the most LOGICAL I ever heard a woman speak on "Advice videos." Positively speaking, you have hit all your points logically without submerging it in emotion or a lack of accountability that women are being socially programmed to operate in the modern world. Well done and intrigued for more quality vidoes like this.
Some reasons why young men are applying for and getting passports?
Good that you are truthful about nice guys. The truth needs to be said
Solution to all of this: ZERO TOLERANCE
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lol nah, the real solution is hit and quit. Pump and dump. Smash and dush. Fu*k and chuck. Slide in then ride out. Pipe and dip.
To sum this up... most men and women are not worthy of being with long term... if she easy then she's not worthy.. if he's easy then he's not worth it either... if both live in the moment and not for the long term.. they not worthy so. To pull off a miracle, you have to be one also
Or in more simple terms I think, despite what we’ve been raised or brought up to believe whether it’s through media,society, etc, women, and men are not very much different, and for the most part both want the same thing. Consistency, security, good communication, affection, attention, love, trust, support, a partner who is their authentic self, honest and of course regular sex lol
@@Shtotagdetotryot1 your right most times than not.. now here is my point... forget what people want... how many people are giving their partner "Consistency, security, good communication, affection, attention, love, trust, support, a partner who is their authentic self, honest and of course regular sex lol" most are too busy wanting.... but dont offer it on a consistent basis... (but why) because they gave goal"s" that are treated as more important than their partners... which makes them......
Hmmm facts!
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Most of what people call 'normal' is SINFUL, unchaste behavior. When you're UNGODLY, you're also FLESHLY, WORLDLY and SELF SEEKING. You don't do things in SPIRIT, you do them for gratification of your physical senses. This is where all the confusion comes from. When you're like the world, you do what the world tells you. The biggest tip you can give men and women is GROW UP. A marriage, in the spiritual sense is an EQUAL arrangement with DIFFERENT jobs and roles. To the degree that those jobs are taken seriously will determine the outcome of the entire endeavor. If you have NO peace, you have bad relationship with GOD and so you seek WORLDLY pleasures to fill that hole. Sin begets more sin and as you go further into the darkness, you lose all sense of direction, all motivation for purpose. The end is a terrible destruction.
Modern Feminism has REALLY messed women up.
This is the most logical video made by woman I've seen so far. Thank you.
No sane man would tolerate this insanity.
Sorry I do not agree with some things. My advice to other men: Look for femine traits such as nurturance, sensitivity, sweetness, supportiveness, gentleness, warmth, passivity, cooperativeness, expressiveness, modesty, humility, empathy, affection, tenderness, and being emotional, kind, helpful, devoted. Not a woman looking for ego-boost, desire for unavailablity (thrill for the chase), difficult to obtain (scarcity), attracted to prohibited activities (intrigue). These are bad traits, these people live in this realm only. They are attached in this material world.
If you live and just be yourself then that is fine. If you are nice , honest and gentle to woman then that is your way. If a woman doesn't have the ability to see how you are then look for another.
In life you should enjoy, not learn "harsh truths" from woman. They are just humans like us, nothing special. If a person loves you and you love her then you have found the right person .
The key to have a woman is Love . I get tired of woman telling to men what we have to do. Just improve in yourself, visit your family, take care of yourself (eat well, train, learn new things) and work good to keep your self safe. If you find a woman attractive , talk to her and learn who she is. You will realize when you talk more girls , to more variety there is. People have a different lives, so try to find a matching partner that both lives can connect and live together.
If you are unsure, just try to talk more girls without anything expectations. They are not special. If you put her feelings first, you come last. Keep it real.
Facts
That's a virtuous woman. A woman who was raised right and loves God! You're right though. I'm a good dude and trusting God in presenting a woman to me who'll love me for me. I don't wanna "act" like an asshole to keep her. My father was extremely abusive towards my mother. I refuse to be that cat.
The prettier she is, the less feminine she acts cause there are so many options for her and therefore narcissist
You pathetic loser boomer.
I agree with you, because a lot of what she says may be true, but it applies to these immature females out here who really don't know what a real man is or is supposed to be. It's all about status and materialism with those kind of females...trying to showcase their worth through those means. Because a woman who knows who she is, and understands the power of her femininity won't waste her time or her nurturing prowess to even engage in a lot of these activities here.
So, to sum up...
"She only cares about what she wants. You're never going to get what you want from her, because she has little interest in giving it. In light of the two previous statements, DATING AND MARRIAGE IS A WASTE OF A MAN'S TIME!" Got it! Thanks!
No just date wisely. You have to determine if the woman is worth all this trouble first. If you pass all these tests and you pre approved her as being virtious; you should be the happiest man alive thereafter. The problem is finding the quality woman worth going through all this for.
N Bee:
I found that woman and married her. Spent 20 years with her. In year 17, she turned into someone I didn't even recognize, and by year 20, I had no choice but to get her out of my house! I wasted 20 years of my life working hard, remaining faithful, and taking care of my family. I'm done! Whatever time I have left on this earth will be dedicated to caring for myself first!
@@mr.dennis5503 oh no, am sorry you had to go through that. You definitely need to put yourself first now.
@@nbee6217 “you have to determine if she’s worth the trouble first” it’s never worth any trouble you already lost
@@kevinl6136exactly
Because of society’s desensitization to the emotions and feelings of men, quite a few men don’t talk about their feelings ever especially to modern women today. Therefore, when a man drinks alcohol, smokes, dies with poor health and/ or commit suicide and he’s dead, it’s too late for empathy at this point. However, most people are ok with women, children and dogs to express their feelings and emotions.
Nicely put together and gets right to it. I'm not even remotely interested in starting another relationship since splitting with my wife (who is still my best friend) almost 3 years ago. Since she's been back on the market she tells me all the time that I'm not like other guys. I am a nice guy, and I'm emotional, but I have a low tolerance for games and BS and I'm not the least bit afraid of being alone.
Come on Jonathan, pull yourself together. First off.. The likelihood you're HER best friend is slim to none. You're there for the warm, heart-felt conversation she wants from a male. She'll have the same sort of conversations with her female pals, but she'll also fill them in on who she's fucking, how she's being fucked, how often she's being fucked, etc.
I'd guess the amount of sex you had with your wife tapered off as she got comfortable and knew you were there forever regardless. So that was the end of her knowing the panties had to come off, so they didn't.
Your low tolerance for games and BS is admirable, BUT, whoever your ex-wife is shacking up with here and there will have the same tolerance or lower. If your replacements are the same age as you, it's likely they'll have gone through the same or similar marriage wise. They're back in the game though, they know the score and what women such as your wife are after - the same as them - that's to get fucked (if you weren't sure).
Your BS detector then, and this low tolerance for games - that isn't so much a strength then. "Emotional" though? That's a HUGE weakness. Women don't want emotion - period. They'll say they want their partners to open up, but to do it starts the beginning of the end.
Your current situation isn't unusual. Nor is you being disinterested in another relationship. But hanging around to be your wife's "best-friend" and her having the audacity to draw comparisons to other men is appalling verging on abuse. Don't kid yourself - she's getting what she wants physically elsewhere - then comes to you for the rest. Note her new partners aren't jealous of you in any way - you aren't "the one she always goes back to" - they're perfectly happy you're around to do the stuff they can't be arsed with.
Get yourself out of this destructive relationship, the left-over tatters of something that once was. Be single and stay that way if you wish, nothing wrong with that, but nothing good is at the end of the path you're walking. If you aren't afraid of being alone then do it. Don't let your narcissist ex have her cake and scoff it down.
Does Olivia realized she’s basically describing a sociopath?
Yes she's describing someone high on the narcissistic spectrum. Male or female.
Guys girls understand the ignorance is the realtionship is over
Priceless...
So, So many "OMG She's RIGHT", moments!!
Even if we've learned every one of these nuggets, we forget, and have to be reminded.
And this is all in One concise video...
Thank you!!
( Should be REQUIRED viewing for all males, 15 and up )
Men: treat a bih like a bih and a Queen like a Queen. Be happy!🤜🏾🤛🏾
Treat any woman like a queen and you are doomed
Lets be honest here. Given the nature of women and the way society is today, a healthy relationship is impossible with all but the most self aware women. Thanks for your honestly. Maybe we'll be able to get to a better place, one day.
Hope you have a happily ever after mate, whatever that would be for you. -a woman
I dont know how to be anything but nice.
I wont change that either.
Even if im forever single.
Yeah if you to change yourself to be with someone it's not worth it
I agree if I have to be mean to get her then I don't want her.
Integrity is what makes a man high-value, yet all their image of a “high value” man leads men to compromise their integrity to get her…. Please, make this make sense…
@@Insight-music It's cause they are shallow jezebels. Don't fall for it. There are exceptions, but those women will be like finding a needle in a haystack
Be nice bro....just be nice to yourself and your own needs first thats the trick
This Olivia woman is a national treasure.
Thank you sister for your honesty and great content. But men have had enough of this 'crap' and the games women play! We would rather be single than to spend the rest of our lives with drama. As Al Bundy in that classic show 'Married with Children' would say: "Men don't need women. Women need men!".
Enough said.
Peace 🙂
They are too much trouble. Too messed up. Men are messed up too but when you add a woman to the situation it will likely get worse
You right. Have you been to the hoe strolls lately? Business is BOOMING!!
It would be the case as long as you believe it
Tbey dont want a sensitive guy. Good, have the violent psychopaths, then
I like his other quote better.
Son, don't try to understand women. Women understand women, and they hate each other.
If your not ready to start a relationship don’t try. If you respect each other and communicate without arguing your good. Be yourself if they like you for yourself your half way there. If you can find a mate without the DRAMA keep them!!!! Make sure you find a mate that is not LAZY. If you find that a person that your dating gives you a RED FLAG leave!!!! That’s a sign that its not the only time they will show that’s side of them.
I sincerely appreciate your videos! I am a newly licensed marriage and family therapist and you are definitely educating me on a great deal that was not talked about in school or even in life. Again, thank you!
makes one wonder what stuff you're taught as a marriage therapist if they don't teach any of this.
Don’t overly focus on women and rely on them for happiness, if it doesn’t naturally work then leave. Don’t try to trick women into liking u or act like someone your not to try to get a girl. Just find your happiness in things like friends and family and career and God and hobbies and interests.
Your comments make my day. Nice one, this is the truth of all time.
@@akokohjoel9854 glad I could help brother
This is 100% correct!
I don't think these women understand what's really going on here. Their own men can't stand them and won't put up with them for 5 seconds before he runs her off or walk away.
If a woman tests you, then they're still dealing with their own insecurities and trust issues. If she does this, dump her and walk away.
Wow that was my first introduction to you that was really good thank you. Yes I'm an emotionally unavailable man it is worked both ways for me. I can't wait to hear more what you think and say
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Yep yep yep yep..
Would be good if more women were like Olivia.
Respect. You're one of the few women I've seen bring up that it's difficult for women to empathize with a man. Society paints women as such great natural masters of emotion, but when their man has a moment of real weakness they freak out, say/do something they can never take back, and fail to be a loving and supportive force in their relationship when it's needed most
She is very wrong about #7 : "Women are loyal to men who provide security."
The opposite is true. Never give her certainty and security unless you want her to cheat on you.
With women there is only one rule: they respect/love strong and dominating men who are not too attached to her and will replace her if she goes out of line. They punish and cheat on weak men who are loyal and devoted to her.
Women are sl@ves to emotion. Not masters.
Well said.
I know a lot of people who've lost their eyesights, hearing, limbs, or are paralyzed from neck to the toes, and a few more in difficult physical conditions,
Catch is that when it's a w0man in such condition, their husbs are sticking around helping them and taking care of them, but when it's a mn in such conditions, 9 out of 10 times, their waivus abandoned them,, and one of them even starved to death in his own apartment.
His waifu got another guy and took out all the belongings and money out and left him on his own, when the mn was not able to use any of his limbs at all, so he could not call anyone, leave his house, or do anything for his survival.
They really are in it for only their sake. They say they are the more empathetic ones, and do show them ever once in a while, but it's all show, or just in the moment.
In the long run, they are in it for only themselves.
As mn, all we have is ourselves and other mn around us. Live as you are not married even if you are. Just fulfill your duty as husbands and fathers, but never count on the w0man to do anything for you when things go south.
So always drive safe, eat healthy, make as much money as you can, exercise, and quit drinking and smoking.
They never are loving or supportive, unless they are robbing you.
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I have lived around the world, and currently live in Costa Rica and Panama.🏖 I have dated and mated women from all around the world. It is refreshing to hear a woman be blunt and honest, I applaud you! Irrespective what country, or what culture. Men want sex and companionship, women want financial security and personal safety.
Women want sex, companionship, financial security, and personal safety. Don’t ever underestimate Importance of sex to a woman in a relationship. Women cheat for the very same reasons men do and often times it’s because they’re not getting enough sex, or feel neglected sexually by the man.
Its not true though that nice guys finish last that's where she's wrong because when you stand before God the virtuous, meek, and humble receive greater rewards. Not the unpure, or top competitors of the world. And you will have to give an account for idol words used. Its serious.
💯% facts‼️
@@christianhenry4173 there’s a difference between Nice and a doormat. A good man is inherently nice. 9/10 what people do is Mask their true intentions behind being “nice” but the reality is people can sense the fakeness
@@qwerty1994ize no that's. Not true. I don't know what type of nice guy your referring to. That sounds like a narcissist or a pretender.
People don't realize Jesus was very nice, and also very direct. So if anybody should examine what's a great spirit to have its Jesus he's the 2nd Adam and he's truly Alpha and omega.
Jesus was indeed so attractive as a man that Mary Magdalene had a crush on his leadership although he rebuked her and his mother. So I disagree with that sorry.
It's not true nice guys finish last, well let me put that in context. It is true Nice Guys do finish on top. Because That same nice guy is going to be king judging the world with an rod of iron and it won't be a good day when he returns
Stay single guys.
Best Advice it's better to be Single than be in Love Relationship
There is a contradiction between not desiring a man who is emotionally available and wanting a man who is emotionally secure.
This!
Exactly.
Olivia needs to be protected at all costs
Brooooooooo , the main problem is us men have to know all of these instructions to just deal with another human being !! None of y’all find this crazy ?!!!!!
Nah this crazy as fuck bro. I almost doubt the girls in my town operate on this level but I've be on youtube for two years looking at this shit and I'm convinced lol
It's amazing that not single female made a comment on this video. Great Job as always Olivia.
That’s if she actually decides to even show up to your funeral at all. Chances are she might not even show up.
My next woman will be from overseas and have no American influence at all
Not is she a woman of beauty but wisdom, salute to u Olivia 💯
She's sharp as a razor..... amazing 👏
Olivia. Try to do a collaboration/appearance with Just Pearly Things. She can help boost your numbers even more.
If I had known this back in the day I wouldn't even have bothered. My simplistic desire to find just one(1) woman I'm compatible with was asking too much, apparently. Women don't even care about compatibility in the truest sense. As long as I play the role she needs me to play that's compatible enough, it seems. All I needed was the play book and to follow that play book in service of her needs and wants. Put me in coach lol. Right.
Realest shit ever.
Dam that’s how it is!! Women don’t care about you being the most honest , gentle, loyal man. But what do you have to offer?? Are you the right height?? Do you have the physical look in into right now??. Hope you Learned your lesson. I finally did !
Yeah, I can relate.
It's a bitch when you finally come to that realization. All that time, money and effort wasted.
Y’all are too emotional
Why are women’s desires anymore wrong than a man’s?
The sex drive thing I see what she's saying; In my last 2 relationships they're able to keep up within the first 6 months or so, and then gradually decrease interest which I think inevitably trickles down to other things in the relationship which leads to its downfall.
Dude this seems like the blind leading the blind. There are some truths here but it seems like her message is just grabbing on to the same tropes and stereotypes that most “alpha” channels have.
Guys, be the strongest version of yourselves and work on trusting yourself more, that will open life up for you, not just in dating but in general. There’s nothing wrong with being a nice person, that’s actually a good thing. She confuses being nice with having a weak character, which is just plain wrong. Kindness is a great virtue to have and should be practiced more by everyone. Above all respect yourself and forgive yourself for the things in your past. You won’t know what life has waiting for you unless you experience it yourself and go out there and have the balls to get hurt and learn. So go for it guys!
best post MVP god bless brother
@@MyShapeofmyHeart Thanks bro! God bless
You're talking common sense and personal responsibility. She's talking clickbait for all the wounded men.
Exactly because the message should be about just finding an emotional mature good woman to have a family with
of course it's good to learn new skills and get new hobbies and all of that but just trying to be like the reverse side of the other bad is not the way to go.
because you're not going to find a good woman if you go around thinking all of them are going to be like the one that was bad.
you can't let life circumstances Harden your heart and take away the one thing that yours that nobody can take from you.
and that's your hope
the right one is out there and if by some crazy chance you never find her
at least you won't regret not trying
Using money or Hobbies or skills as some kind of fulfillment for trying to pass on your family's Legacy by having family with somebody just isn't going to work because when you're dying alone with all of that money just remember money doesn't talk back to you it doesn't care about your feelings it can't pass on your genes it doesn't even know who you are
So... act unattainable and a challenge.... but protect her since that's all she cares about... be ok when she does not put out, but make sure you pass her trustworthiness test. Makes sense.
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Exactly! It's a joke. 99 percent of women are not worth all that hassle. Now I get why those middle eastern fellas keep their women in check 24/7 and 365 lol. They are not logical or reasonable beings at all. And most follow trends and are groupies.
It's basically be backwards
guys just be yourself and stay on your purpose...and most of all live for yourself and not a woman's expectations..modern day relationships is too complicated and childish.
sumed up the whole video, im not about to change who i am for a woman
And women wonder why we get our passports to go find a wife else where😂
Wish I knew that years ago
God bless you for being honest Sister.
You never know who someone is until the end, men and women wear way too many masks, an eminence front in which is displayed in the beginning of every relationship.
I just remember this:
Women control the fate of a relationship.
Men control whether a woman continues to exist.
Men need to start taking more control and giving less attention .
It's by far the most comprehensive assessment I have come across and coming from a woman I truly think there's hope to see a generation of young girls who can't think beyond their social media profiles 😂❤
She is very wrong about #7 : "Women are loyal to men who provide security."
The opposite is true. Never give her certainty and security unless you want her to cheat on you.
With women there is only one rule: they respect/love strong and dominating men who are not too attached to her and will replace her if she goes out of line. They punish and cheat on weak men who are loyal and devoted to her.
And she was able to do it without being annoying
Just be yourself guys. If she can't accept that move on no matter how fine she is. Never change your basic behavior to please a woman
I just want someone who’s THIS aware and has a desire to become better as we all should.
Olivia love your channel you got so much wisdom and insight. But I feel like why women got so many games..(seems too petty and insecure). I don’t do well with games and relationships but you do tell it like it is. Thanks for giving us insight on women. Y’all something else, but damn y’all fine, and men we like visual stimulation. I feel like You need your own tv show like Dr. Phil. Lol. Peace and blessings my sister.
A lot of what she discusses are women who haven't healed from their past trauma...unhealed people will attract unhealed people... these types of women are damaged and should not be seen as an overall blanket for women in general.... there needs to be a divide in who has done the inner work vs. who hasn't.
Why? Women make blanket statements about men ALL the time, but never want it done to them. Learn how to take accountability
Men also get damaged by their past experiences. Difference is we have to learn to deal with it on our own. We dont have the female privilege of crying on a girls shoulder for support.
Yes we should be blocking narcissists. And stop dividing men and women.
Trauma aka i fk'd the entire tinder catalogue and now i cant function like a healthy adult in a relation. Al this "trauma" is selfinflicted and poor lifestyle choices. Im not a therapist.
@@simdal3088 Trauma such as narcissistic mother, absent father, violence in the home, sexual abuse from adults, neglect. Childhood trauma that we have no control over.