MOVE ON & DON'T LOOK BACK | LET HER GO
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- MOVE ON & DON'T LOOK BACK | LET HER GO
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Being with a toxic woman is like coming home to a unpredictable enemy in your own home.
Well said
ArtiFACTS
Amen
Real Talk !!!!
Yoooooo no funnny shit this a fact
The hardest thing about betrayal is that it never comes from an enemy.
Exactly
Have respect for yourself, end the relationship, cut all ties with her, move on, talk to other women, self improve and focus on your purpose. It’s not going to be easy, it’s going to hurt you for a while, shit you just might even cry. One of the hardest things you’ll ever have to do is grieve the loss of a person who’s still alive. But I promise you, looking back in the long run you’ll realize that the best decision you made was to walk away.
Going through that now thanks man
💯 major factz
& self respect is more important.
I'm going through that now bro. I let her go and I am going to work on myself and my Goals.
facts thank you
A just divorced my ex wife of 10 years because, I knew I gave it my all, and she didn’t care. If that person isn’t working with you they are working against you, and if your not growing together your growing apart.
I got in the gym and handled my business, bought a big new house and a new truck . I'm closer to God,I read my Bible and pray
Focus on God
🙏🏾💪🏾
If you do not let her go,
It'll cripple your spirit.....
Be number 1 for yourself,
You are all you got... don't forget that!!!
💪🏿❤️💪🏿
Appreciate the advice bro
Put the most high God first and grind ya ass off
Hell yeah
Thank You🫶🏽
Exactly ..it will cripple your spirit and it will be that much longer to heal.. please “Release for Peace” rope burns keep happening when we are attempting to hold onto what God is wanting to pull you away from.. yelling Release it !!
Release it !! Release it !! You will survive.. love yourself enough not to hurt your own self any longer !! Release for Peace
Men invest emotionally and financially my dear sister..that's why they dont leave ...women dont invest anything... what a deal..I would leave too
Yes… 18 year marriage and a shoebox full of apology letters for the SAME SHYT.
When I saw that, I realized how many chances and how much time I was foolish. I filed for divorce. I’m 43 starting over. Don’t procrastinate fellas. She’s right. You DESERVE better. No guilt. 🗣DIP!!!! If for NO OTHER REASON, do it because SHE doesn’t BELIEVE you will. How dare her have that type of control over you. That makes you HER bish💯
Keeping it real; a woman knows if she's an asset or a liability the same as you.
A female asked me out to lunch, and I accepted.
When the check came, she looked at me, and I said that she asked ME out, so she pays. She said that she didn't have any money, so I paid for my plate with tip, and told the waiter to get an apron, because she was going to be washing dishes.
When I got up to leave, she miraculously found money in the hidden compartment of her purse, paid for hers, and vowed to never ask me out ever again. 😅😂😂😂😝🤪😜
I needed to hear this 20 years ago. I stayed in a disrespectful, loveless, and mostly sexless marriage for 35 years because of my Christian beliefs. After years of counseling (mostly me) I finally decided I had enough. Her childhood trauma made her angry, bitter and difficult to please...she would not seek therapy. Thank you D'nieka for reinforcing my decision to walk away. Not a chance in hell I'm going back to that...
Stay strong big brother you did what was best for YOU
@@mohameddiallo1024 Thank you very much...
Same here brother. I'm ending a 25 year marriage. Stayed because of Christian beliefs. She wanted to just be separated & live separate. I said no its time for a divorce. I can't believe the peace I have now. I'm not looking back. All my family & friends say I'm back I've been missing for 25 years.
Dam, Kevin was surely right men d9nt leave relationships. Unfortunately, you stayed 34 years too long.
My situation is just like what you described.
There should be no excuses for staying in a relationship with someone that puts you through more stress and pain over love and joy.
💙RUclipsr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
Best decision I ever made
& it never makes sense being with a toxic person either
My exact thoughts
I completely agree....
For years I've regretted leaving my last relationship, I wanted to go back to her so bad. But the longer I fought that urge and the more I accepted my decision, the clearer things became.
She never once cared about me, she cared more about herself, how much money I was spending on her and her kids, and what I promised to do for her and her kids. She'd disrespect me and then call me weak for not accepting her disrespect. One day I had enough and just left.
She apologized and said she knew she was doing me wrong and she'll do better if we got back together. I decided to give it a chance but I set boundaries and a clear line of what I'll accept of her behavior and attitude. She told me to fuck off because I was being unreasonable.
Never go back once you've left, whatever drove you to leave will always be there. Men, don't be afraid to accept defeat in a relationship, don't be afraid to set a standard of respect and dignity. Especially when you're in a relationship with a woman with a child or children.
When you leave, you can never go back ! Because it will be the same as before.
Do not second guess yourself. There is no going back, push forward and accomplish your hopes and dreams.
A timely message for sure. There are so many men walking around broken ,because of what happened in a relationship. Many men have given so much, without reciprocity, and it has drained them. There are men out there who aren't just looking for sex, but are truly seeking to build a life with a woman. To those men I say, keep the faith a change is gonna come. Focus on healing and being the best version of yourself. Enjoy this life and know that what you seek is also seeking you. PEACE
It's been 7 years now since I left my baby mama, and she hasn't grown at all, she hasn't matured or evolved, still a toxic mess, I feel so sad for her ,but mostly I feel bad for our daughter having to be raised by this toxic person 😢
Sorry to suggest it, but your daughter may grow up to be like her mother.
Can you get custody? If not try to spend time with her as much as you can so you can mold her positively
@@yikemikehappa2463 I do see her every weekend, and I will do my best to raise her right!
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This brought tears to my eyes. And it’s true, sometimes you latch on to people for too long. It’s hard to be open when it comes to finding a relationship and not let the wrong person come in. Especially when you don’t know the damage they can do when you meet them in the beginning.
Be strong!
i’m on the road chasing the bag. my ego still busted. thing is i know ima KING and i know my worth.
I looked back before and regret the hell out of it.
Guys all you’re gonna end up doing is giving them validation and attention they don’t remotely deserve.
I'm getting ready to walk away from a 13 year marriage. I had simped for way too long. Can't do it no more, I'm literally losing my mind. This dope discussion will help me make that move. Thank you for that.
..man I’m feeling the same way..
Leave bro LEAVE BE FREE
I did the same last year, 13yrs married, 7 dating. My first year of being single/unattached, the first time in my adult life. Ive always ended one relationship and somehow start another without enough time in between to breath and be single. It's not easy but you learn to enjoy the peace. It opened some opportunities professionally because I'm able to travel if needed. Yes, once they realize it's over expect the crazy to start.
“ Please Release for Peace”
I did it for 35 years brother, I wish I had walked away sooner. I will be difficult if you really love her, but you will make it...be strong and stay connected to friends, family and the Manosphere...
Your husband is a blessed man to have you, a beautiful sister inside out ✊🏾
I'm 53 my wife is 57 after 13 years of marriage I'm letting her go, I've funded her lifestyle while my hopes and dreams was put on the back burner. Another reason I'm leaving she have 4 adults she raised and now she got 10 grandchildren, I don't have any of my own. At 53 I'm ready to start my own family and if that mean divorcing her then so be it, it's about my legacy and nothing else
In the same boat. We're 50 yo. Married and divorced 25 years ago. Back together 1 year. She had a spoiled brat 20yo daughter with a 1 yo baby. Me, no children. What tf was I thinking to re-enter a world out of control. Full of literal toxicity of alcohol, weed, nicotine and passive aggressive abuse.
Why start a family at 53?
@@hodgepodge9997 I was thinking the same thing. Lol.
This post just proves one thing . Time is on the man's side
My pops had me at 50 I'm 27 now. It's never to late
My ex wife abandoned our 20 yr marriage after I stepped in and raised her son from 2 months to 17 yrs old.. the week he left she left that next week.. we have 4 additional from her but left them with me.. I raised them she didn’t have to want for anything provided and protected I’m retired military and finally accepted the fact that she saw me as an opportunity.. and she abandoned the other 4.. til this day it’s been 6 yrs no apology no contact no child support no nothing just went back to the streets .. she left 1 month before our 20 year anniversary and 1 month before my 50 Birthday.. I think the toughest part for being older is where do you go and what do you begin to do at that age .. the reinventing is no joke ..I don’t give a dam what people say 50 plus is half of 100. It’s a type of PTSD after sacrificing And a person cared nothing about the time you’ve invested .. sure it’s not too late.. now you have to redefine what is a family cook out is ! what is family dinner the daily watching other full families at the 4 th of July family outings or family reunions.. all because of the need to go back out to the streets and them not realizing the emotional damage they’ve left behind towards kids.. those 6 yrs with no thank you for raising the kids or her own child ..and with todays modern Western women smh it’s lame.. #passport bound not looking back at all.. gym save money repeat
Don't forget therapy my brother.
I had to start over at 60. Got a beautiful Venezuelan woman now who is fit, feminine, friendly and who shows me love and respect like I have never ever experienced...peace
Them babies will always remember and honor you! Love is more than being with a woman and God will guide you to know that and if a woman is your desire God will give you that!
That's it that's all FAM, do you and see who shows up, I am not telling you to disrespect women, but everything now should be your playground, date, and preferably younger women. I am 56, and I have not found the one I desire to be with, so I have several younger ladies I rock with and it's not always about the sex, but when it is I do or should I say DOES ME.
Bro take your game on the road and do not limit yourself to these American women. Go outside your comfort zone like this other bro did with his Venezuelan partner. Never sacrifice your mental health for NOBODY! Stay 💪🏼
Muy bien consejo. Very good advice. Also, start that journey of learning Spanish. I guarantee it will grow your life exponentially. Guaranteed. There are beautiful Latina (sisters) who absolutely adore the American Black male! Do your research, bro. This ain’t no joke…..
When your house is on fire run, don't look around and grab stuff.Just leave and have A peaceful life, don't call or visit she's A X.
This woman is dead on accurate, but that is nothing new. I'd like to talk to fellas in the situation she described. She basically told my story.
I am 18 months into leaving. Almost 20 years together, small children involved. Hear me when I say I was HEARTBROKEN when I left. What I need to communicate is this:
Man, Sir, Fellas. IT GETS BETTER. Keep walking. DONT LOOK BACK.
In the words of my father "Why you think God gave you them big hands, big shoulders and big feet?" You can handle it.
You have everything you need within you to overcome and flourish.
God bless you, and God bless you too, Mrs. Ma'am Lady, D Marie.
I just walked away too with little kids involved as well. I fear though I am about to be slaughtered by the family court system. But I stand tall. Thank you D’Marie
MASSIVE RESPECT TO EVRY MAN OUT HERE ? WE EXPERIENCE THE SAME THING ALL AROUND . WE DON T SPEAK THAT MUCH ABOT OUR PROBLEM AS MEN . WE KEEP IT INSIDE AND IT S HARD SO I M HAPPY WE HAVE SAFE PLACE TO DISCUSS BETWEEN EACH OTHER CAUSE ONLY MEN COULD UNDERSTAND
I walked away from past friends too. Same effect and situation.
Ecclesiasticus(Sirach) 25:[24] Of the woman came the beginning of sin, and through her we all die.
[25] Give the water no passage; neither a wicked woman liberty to gad abroad.
[26] If she go not as thou wouldest have her, cut her off from thy flesh, and give her a bill of divorce, and let her go.
This video makes me feel sooooo much better I felt like a loser when I was investing time and efforts into someone who didn’t appreciate me AT All
You nailed it YOU NAILED IT ! And you know what's funny ? it's been a year that I turned my back on this situation. Last week I was waiting for the train and when I was about to get on, somebody poked me on the arm and it was her. She wanted to speak cause I've blocked her since a certain amount of time. I was getting off of the train at the next station. We spoke for maybe 5 to 10 min and guess what ? She only had the time to show me the same fragile ego unable to recognize when it's time to be an adult and take accountability for her decisions. I guess it was a way for Universe to show me that I made the right decision by not trying to put sense and maturity in her again. THX D Nieka
Yes D'nieka you are talking to me, 10 years plus in a toxic relationship? I tried, she cheated enough said, have not looked back since I left one year five months ago ,no contact foreal .Peace D'nieka 💪🏿💯🔥
I'm glad that you brought this to light it said this because a lot of modern-day women will have you believing that if you leave them or the relationship doesn't work out that you "fumbled" them when in reality you dodged a bullet in the Long run
Thank you, BigSis❣
My gf, of 5 yrs, was just a shade off from being on-point. In the end, she just wouldn't listen to me as it pertains to her decisions that jeopardizes our longevity. I question that "shade" from time to time but you're right. If she was HER, we'd still be together❣✊🏿👏🏿🤞🏿👊🏿
I was just praying and reflecting on this exact same thing earlier today, and every word you said spoke to my heart.. I really needed this divine message, in divine timing, so I appreciate you more than you might ever know. Peace sis, love always.
.. I was thinking the same thing bro..
Hi D'Nieka Marie, I am a 70 yr old Man. I enjoy your content. Keep Cooking Young Sister no matter what.
..Yea your talking directly to me, I put up with a lot of bs dealing with my kids mother it was hard to leave but everyday I was dealing with her I was losing myself, I didn’t even recognize myself when I used to look in the mirror..
First off THANK YOU Qween Sister for being such a divine feminine voice of MATURE REASONING! WE NEED MORE WOMEN LIKE YOU SO DESPERATELY IN OUR COMMUNITY!!! I went thru this while in the damn "friend zone" for longer then I am comfortable to share and when I say I LOVED THIS YOUNG LADY, I LOVED HER....🤷🏽 but YES! As a man with his life together, any female who is not willing to cooperate from jump, we MUST walk away fellas!!! It's the one move that nature gave us innately is to WALK AWAY and don't look back!!!! It's hard to do when you have pure love for a female but if she doesn't reciprocate we must be strong enough to move on!!! It's thee ONLY WAY to heal yourself!!!
You TALKING to me for real. Just this morning I closed the door on that relationship.
My God, I needed to hear this!
Was frustrated and feeling guilty after dumping my girlfriend of four years. My ex-girlfrienf never reciprocated much and always waited for me to take initiative. She even openly admitted and owned up to being lazy. I found myself being stressed out and resentful the longer the relationship went on.
Before that I was married to a user, cheater, and abuser. A woman that refused to take responsibility for her actions and was always a victim.
In both cases people attacked me for not sacrificing enough or not being willing to stick it out. What I learned about myself was that I was a people pleaser, willing to settle out of guilt, and direct enough with my needs.
Spoiled milk is spoiled milk, you can take it out the fridge and smell it, check the date as many times as you want, Its still spoiled milk, its not going to unspoil
This makes me think of my ex I’m 22 years old I was with her for 6 months and then she said we need to take a break and few weeks later she dealing with someone else saying that her male Friend and she broke my heart it put me in a dark place for two months and it made me mad and it hurt me and it made me not want to love another woman or be in relationship period because it just feel like all women are the same and just don’t appreciate real good man you feel me
But it taught me a lot about women and female nature and I admit for a while it made me Cold to point I barley had love inside in my heart because I felt hurt and she did me wrong fr
Bro, let her go. Focus on your career and yourself . Women will come once you are successful
Channel that pain and hurt into the grind and use it as fuel, and in the future if you’re blessed to find a wife in the states cool but if not don’t hesitate to go overseas and find a wife if you have to because the amount of women here in the states that’s wifey material is decreasing by the day and becoming extinct
Thank you for this video.. I’ve worked two jobs and went to school full time for 5 years straight. Constantly depressed, broken down and felt worthless. This was the video that I’ve needed. Thank you.
I needed to hear this after 8 yrs an with 4 kids your own mental health matters at the end of the day
Thanks for your perspective it really helped me a lot. I’m currently going through this situation where I started to have regrets after walking away and was willing to try again but she doesn’t want to try again or reciprocate. Even after I invested so much into her & the relationship. She told me to move on Apparently I’m just too good of a man for her… It hurts but I have no control of the situation. It takes two & once one person stops dancing why even bother wasting your energy. Fellas don’t be afraid to walk away from situations that no longer serve you any purpose. When someone gives up on you just let it go.
Damn, talking to me today. I left recently and been having thoughts about going back... thanks for this message!
I do not feel 2 iota of guilt! I gave everything to stepsons, 2 daughters, sacrificed my body, my dreams, my desires to make sure we were good! I'm much better for it!
Chase the HOLY SPIRIT ...ITS easier to have help than be alone without ***JESUS*** GOD knows our situation so take it to GOD...on your knees in prayer in your secret place 🙏 then he will reward you openly in due time for what you prayed for privately according to his will for your life. ✌️ ONELOVE ✝️
I feel like my current wife is such a fn drag in my life. She brought poisonous relatives and friends in my life. The marriage is sexless and toxic from her daughter's constant belligerence. And she's functionally stetile, so there's no chance of a new chapter in fatherhood. I figure it's time to cut my losses and get while I still can.
Don't look back.
Run as fast as you can
Get up outta there and join the passport bros
I went back & got rejected found out she’s neglecting our children to now be promiscuous with another dude who has a family she met 2 months ago at the gym because I pushed her away to work on myself see change in her & equip for a furfulling relationship. Now she’s living a life that can’t sustain itself & doesn’t even give AF about me after she chased for 12 months… most unbearable pain; I dunno what to to but walk again now this person has proved their colours rather than deal with their BPD.. sad for my children - walk away and don’t look back guys trust… don’t go back
I needed this message sis. I’m back to mr freeze 🥶 mode on a braud, but I’m glad for reassurance that I wasn’t tripping after cutting my roster off 💯💯💯🤞🏽🤞🏽Thx u sis
Sister D’Nieka you look absolutely stunning in your dress and headwrap!
Blessings to your husband and you!
Keep building!
Hey sis I'm 48 my wife is 35 we do have a child together even though she has 3 already, I really can relate to actually what you are say I did leave more than once and came back only because I was told that it is worldly and not right that I left but sometimes I feel like I made a mistake in coming back my wife puts more time into being on social media than she does her marriage, she can't even express her feelings for me but I can, when she says she loves me it feels fake. I love my daughter but can't continue to be where I don't feel any respect or appreciated, I supposably the man of house but runs things and let her kids do whatever many times I expressed my thoughts about discipline but I just get told I'm being impatient, but I could go on and on just wanna say you are spot on with your topic keep it 💯
It sucks but are you living your life? When we are totally reliable and available they take us for granted and seek excitement elsewhere. You may have a shot before you bounce in becoming scarce and doing alot of things you enjoy away from her. She will lose that easy support and attention and begin to wonder.
When my ex walked away with her toxic behavior, I didn't even look in her direction. "Yeahokbye". I slept great that night. Of course she wants to "come back home", AIN'T no way! Her own family even advised me to never take her back. Dang! Lol!
Damn this video really hit me in my peneal gland, I have woried about leaving my daughter behind for a long time, but my unhappiness is keeping me from being a great far because of mother's confused mind, I did my very best so its time to move on, thank you
When it feels like she’s talking to you, then this is for you ❤ 💔
Sis I definitely appreciate your message this morning. I can definitely relate. I'm working my plan but I'm getting older and would like to have a family of my own. Online dating is far l dead. I just find it hard to stay positive sometimes
I'm letting go and moving on with me my health and my value after 12years with her and I don't want another woman I'm 46 I'm just ready to be alone and not invest time and money feelings
I am in the same situation, but I came back to my senses. My (christian)wife has been out of control for the last 4 years... MY mother in law moved in and is refusing to leave....my wife is refusing counseling...
I thought she will change, but things are getting worse....
I got depressed and desperate because I used to love her, we have 3 boys, own a house, was raised christian ...I thought that the world was falling on.my shoulders and everything was over.....but I have come back to senses: I am 45 years old, 6,2, make 65k a year, handsome. I definitely can start over
I forgot how to date and got timid because all I was doing since I met my wife 10 years ago were: work, providing for the family, being a good dad, praying...
I am here for kids and she can go with her mother.
The Phoenix shall rise again!!
I wish that I had someone say this to me. I struggled to leave the relationship for way too long and when it was over I felt like a weight was lifted off of me. But the whole time that I was there, I felt guilty for wanting to leave.
"So many men are facing this uphill battle in today's society dealing with the trauma of losing someone special."
"Due to experiencing this in my life. Your message gives me strength to heal accordingly as God, walks with me on my journey of love & family." I Hope many other brothers appreciate your inspiration & emotional relief. 🙏🏿🙏🏿
To hell with that I'm not looking back once we over it's over GOD don't make no mistakes 💯..
I needed to see this video earlier in the year 2023. I went through a breakup with someone, and it was really bad. Even though I knew she wasn't right for me, I still wanted her back. Thankfully, after months of self-help, and self-love, I am on the other side of it. She had trauma issues with her mom and father, and I never considered how that can impact a relationship, but I totally get it now. It was also tough because I really liked her daughter (a child she had before we I met her). Onward, and forward!
I been going through this for a few months. Dneika was talking directly to me. This was on time & it eases my mind now to move forward. Thank you Dneika💯
I stopped ✋️ making an effort. The kind of results I got from making my greatest efforts to keep my family in one circle while I handled business was totally disrespected. Went right out the window because, yes she was trying to be some kind of pimp. I cut that off immediately with my first child mother.
Your right on time with this one I've been through a bad one and I was having doubts but I moved forward and have someone in my life now that love me and respects me and I haven't look back since ty your the best keep up the good work we need more women like you blessings to you and your king ❤
😄My decling 💰🧐Bank account told me it was time to walk away from her🚶♀️
I needed to hear this and I want to thank you for telling us this little sister I was in a relationship with then got married, and I put in sacrificed energy and effort into this whatever was needed I was very much open, to our marriage, and have two children then problems have started between us, so she started to give up, and I try to work it out and I kind of realized myself I couldn't do it anymore she divorces me, and I found happiness in my life that I wanted to do when I want to do. Thank you so much.
These women are wild, bro.
Stay strong
Thank you for caring and those kind words ❤️
Listening to u at work. Ur subjects always be on point with what’s going on in my life at the time. My ex just pulled up on me outside before my shift starting drama. She’ll be ok I’m just gone let her blossom alone
Problem is, few women work on themselves or accept accountability for their actions. Many die alone thinking it was men’s fault the whole time, ignoring the fact that it was them who went through 100 guys, never able to find that “perfect” man.
Man I really needed to hear this message today. Thank you so much
I'm going through a divorce now and all the points she said we're my wife verbatim. After 23years she cheated on me with a guy that works with her. When I found out and pressed her she chose to keep seeing and texting him. I asked for a divorce and obtained a house to begin my new life. This video really hits home. Thanks for the encouragement
I needed to hear this. Thank you for this message.
Yes, I feel you ! I need you about 30 yrs ago !
Just want to say thank u
Absolutely correct
Sis spittin!! Short, Clear and Consice!!
Needed this today.
Very Much Appreciated. You expressed this message with sincerity and moral conviction. Nothing can encourage you like a real heart felt exhortation.
Needed to hear this right now sis. 💯💯
Thank you sooo much. You are on point. I really appreciate your words.
Your advice is very biblical. It reminds me Job🙏🏾✌🏾🙏🏾
Facts💯 ! Just left a situation that was bringing me down. Needed to hear this
YOU make me laugh (in a good way). Thank you for keeping me tough.
Thanks Queen for the knowledge and compassion,alot of us needed to hear this🙏❤. There are alot of good shows out there,yours is in a class by itself the best by far👌👏🙌
I had to move forward while never looking back
Thank you my sister, this was exactly what I needed to hear to confirm moving on with my life ❤🙏🏾
I'm working on my business like i should've 10 years ago. ThAnks 4 de video.
Wow lil sis i just watched this video n you were speaking to me personally. Thanks lil sis. Im gone never looking back n focused on becoming a MONSTER.
I needed to hear this!! Thank you Queen 👑
Going through it now. It’s hard to let it go. I got a five year relationship and engagement that im dealing with right now. I bought a house and she’s afraid to make the move and leave the nest. The Ring was given back to me and now im being challenged with the choice of trying to fix things or let it go and move on.
One thing I do is I no longer ignore my feelings... When red flags present Themselves and you don't like the way they make you feel.... Get into action Be brave for yourself and respectfully kick rocks... Never be desperate..
Thank you for this video Queen. I really needed this & everything you mentioned I legit recently experienced & had those same exact thoughts.
30 yrs and 2 women that didn't deserve me
Great message🙏🏾 Thank you!
Honestly, I really needed this. Had to walk away from my ex, and we have a child together. I really wanted it to work for our child's sake, but boundaries were crossed and sacrificing and compromising more than I could bare made me notice she couldn't heal or grow being with her.
🎯🔥💞 THANKS so much my sister ‼️
It's worked for some, but the reality is that most people do not change. The reality is that you're more than likely going back to the same situation that led to the initial breakup. Maybe this time, it just takes longer to rear its ugly head again. Before you do go back, are you 100% ok and at peace with how things ended the first time, and everything that possibly happened during that break up? If not, you're just putting an immediate slow burn to a second ending. Trust me, I've been there. Starting over with somebody new is hard, but starting over with somebody you thought you knew can just be downright detrimental.
I been dicorced a year now have three adult kids with my ex im 45 also a grampa , my kids ignore me now that i live with a woman ten years younger its not easy it hurts but my ex ran me to the ground always putting me down in front of my kids lifes not perfect but peace is really the goal.. God bless everyone.
After three years, I finally decided to walk away from a loveless relationship with a dismissive avoidant. It's tough because I still love her but this is what I need to do.
You just reassured me about my decisions because your right and its crazy because I was asking this question these past few days and I needed and answer and you gave it to me