What makes you think he’s speaking for you?? You a grown ass man with your own thoughts, so who cares? Men should only speak due themselves. Looking for “male representatives” was your first mistake.
The best revenge you do as a man thats been overlooked is to keep focusing on yourself and your goals and they will come back to you now that they see some potential that he has already made. Dont go back for her when she thought you were nothing and was ignored and overlooked..
The whole unfaithfulness doesn’t equate to disloyalty is a cop out. Faithfulness is a component of loyalty. That reasoning is a way to sidestep the responsibility of faithfulness in marriage.
If a woman cheats on u fellas, walk away. Don’t entertain the idea of getting back.. if you take her back, subconsciously you’ll never trust her and she will never respect you.
Let these people think the way they think. It’s straight foolishness, but if that’s how they cope with infidelity let them be I’ll keep myself away from them.
FOR YOU YOUNG BLACK WOMEN YOU ARE NOT GOING TO BE IN THE PRIME OF YOUR LIFE FOR EVER THAT WALL IS BUILT TO LAST FOREVER & IT IS UNDERFEATED NO CAPPING😢
If im in a serious relationship and my girl steps out on me i dont care who it is im done with you theres too many women out here looking for the same thing im looking for out here so ill take my chances out there 😊
Married for 14 years been faithful for the entire ride. Cheated through all my relationships up until being married. And cheating, the act it’s self is disloyal.
As a man who has had many women at a given time and probably still can, I stepped out on those women because I didn’t love them. When you love someone or something that much there some type of sacrifice that occurs so you can have it in your possession
Nice video..., but there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship. I However learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago my wife and I were on the brink of a divorce because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it..
Great sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Yes its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
15:54 we can't let this slide. She tried to send for the men. Men en masse aren't asking for a woman like this as a wife. As men we know our levels and don't stray into the land of the elite but women always want the rare men regardless
".... Being unfaithful does not make you disloyal..." .... TF!!! Nah you can miss me with that one bro. That's gaslighting 101. Imagine someone cheating on you and saying that.
Yeah, that shit waa insane ta' me when it hears it leave his mouth. Like, bruh, get tha' fuck outta here. That one chick rebutted in disagreement that she feels they kind of go hand-in-hand and she's absolutely right!! They're synonymous as hell! Yeah, he needed to tighten-up on that one.
“……people are lying because of social media…” is THEE headline of this video. This is absolutely a fact. Most people are not living what they’re posting. Most of the time it’s for engagement, attention and (for some) for the money
Best thing I ever did was to double back. We were both ready second time around, and we were great together, turned out perfect. We worked like a well oiled machine, no hiccups. She past away 15 years after we got back together and married though. It was10 years between us getting back together, but we found our way back to each other. So it can be good, just depends. Although, I wouldn't recommend necessarily the doubling back, most of the time it doesn't work.
I was head over heels over a woman back in college. I was around 25 at the time. She curved me every chance she could get and only spent her time with the local thugs in the Houston area. She always considered me a friend and nothing else. When I was around 36, she ran across me on Facebook and was going about how she always thought about me and wanted to go out on a date. I kindly declined and kept it moving. She now has 3 kids and weighs about 60 pounds more.
I don't care who she cheated on me with. Hell, it could have been the tooth fairy for all I care. If she cheats she gots to go! If it's Drake or any other rich celebrity, that's even more of a reason to get rid of her. That tells me she can be bought by the highest bidder. No disloyal people in my circle!
when you live outside of the original biblical design, you have to create rules to self govern, and everyone gets to make their own rules. That means you get stuff like this convo above, where technically they can all be right because everyone is governing themselves. Many prayers to all of yall in the game tryna find somebody serious!
4:19 Is gas lighting at its finest. 😆😆 It was still disloyal behavior my guy... you've just separated the categories. You tried to limit it to physical provision or childcare. Loyalty includes having integrity to your word. So if you promised, in front of God, family, and friends, that you wouldn't be with anybody else, but went back on your word, that was disloyal.
The answers these women give are crazy. Nothing was said about loving the person or him being a good person. It was cause you miss the vibe or saving that friend that u can talk to, whine to etc. Look good with. I didn't hear no damn I fuxed up with my ex , he was a good dude, etc. Everything was geared to what that man did for them emotionally or physically. Where and when did this disconnect come from? Also I agree with every man in here, if she cheats on me no matter whom, Drake doesn't matter bye
Why dude thinks women cheating has the same effect on the individual who's cheating psyche's. At least the dudes I know will come back to their girl. As for the women I know who've stepped out, they eventually lost respect/interest in their current partner and get swindled thinking their side piece is better, until the side piece reminds her that we just smashing. Women on average are more emotionally attached to sex then men, so when she cheats it's probably not about the physical, it's about something she thinks she's missing that her spouse lacks.
The first pretty much admitted and explain why it’s different for men and women and why a man won’t usually accept cheating! She said it’s usually getting attention and everything else before wanting to be intimate whereas a man usually doesn’t get involved emotionally to have relations with a woman.
You know something. I seen this one before in my own handbook. The young lady who left me was not much older than 23. The reason however I would never ever turn around is.... Had the young lady just needed to figure out life and left to do that I'd have understood that but, no there's more. The young woman left me for what what truly was her elder sibling so to speak and I told her of the dangers of the encounter then she slept with my best friend to add insult to injury. All to hurt me. I'm afraid of what even a young woman with such vigor would do quite frankly.
Most people really still be dating childishly, looking for the "looks good to everyone" type of relationship, over actually what is good for you personally...
Being unfaithful IS being disloyal. Stop trying to normalize shitty behavior. I dont care how much you want to justify your behavior or ease your guilt, YOU cheat in any way is a crappy thing to do. If you COMMIT, you need to honor that. If you arent willing and able to do so, DONT commit. No excuses. Hate when these boys attack women and shit on their bad behaviors and then take NO accountability for their own actions. Grow up.
If you Brothers don't get anything out of this video just understand they're telling you without actually saying that Men are literal tools to them. It's about what they can get out of you that suits their needs specifically, whether large or small. I will add though the Sister at the end spoke nothing but the truth.
Get your passports guys, go to countries like Philippines, japan , chile, bulgaria where women are much more traditional and ready to get a good man for marriage by 21.
Some of these think pieces are crazy. Dude said if it’s Drake, he can understand.. Hella weird. Then, one of the ladies said that it’s wrong for a man to talk down on his woman to another woman, but if he let the other woman know that he’s not leaving the woman he’s with after they do whatever it is that they do, it’s somewhat better. Trash
I'm just going to tell you if my lady cheated on me she don't have to worry about coming back. Because for a woman to cheat she really has to be at a mental space and she's done with her man. Men are sport sexual encounters we don't need an emotion we just need a place.
Great convo 👏🏽this the kind of info we need in podcast very in intelligent women great dialog everyone is hitting points it’s crazy to say this, but I really see women speaking without putting their emotions in it. Love this👍🏾
Fellas you never take any woman back that step out on you, regardless who she cheat on you with.
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Facts
FACTS. NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!
Fellas don't be a dam foo and take a women back keep it moving 💯
The man is right 😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅
If they don't want you in their prime, don't take them in their decline. Stay up, kings.
talk that shit
YEAH THATS RIGHT!!!
Bars😂😂😂
Dud you are bugging, I don't care if it's Michael Jordan she cheated with, she is gone.
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Facts, homie, I was thinking the same thing f who the person is she cheated plan and simple, these young Boi's be bugging 😂😂
Dud sounds right. 🫥
True
@@cephasmee6456Only to a clown. Only a fool will take a cheating woman back
My guy is tripping, if a lady cheats on you she is emotionally tied to the guy she cheated on you with 😂 the relationship is over 😮
Especially if she’s not your wife!
@@tonyantoine5823yea and even if she is your wife. Your time to leave!
@@tonyantoine5823even worse if she is your wife. That means she broke vows to sleep with that other man. Let her go.
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just look at the way he sits... body language literally tells you the type of male he is
a woman cannot be in love and respect you if she is shared.
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That's shows how lame he is, straight simping.😅😅😅😅she don't care for you if she cheats, women are emotionally gone.
Woman can only serve one man only. Facts
Everyone in this comment section are Triple OG’s! Speaking straight FACTS!! 💯
Please get another male representative on this show, he doesn’t speak for US
I'll just watch a different show 😂
True talk. I taught I was the only one that see this
What makes you think he’s speaking for you?? You a grown ass man with your own thoughts, so who cares? Men should only speak due themselves. Looking for “male representatives” was your first mistake.
This dude is really trippin'
Right he cool, but I feel like it’s sass somewhere 😂😂
Cheating is a lack of respect, easy
& a red flag
To yourself and others.
Facts!!!!! Both Men and Women!!!
Amen! If don’t try to hide it. Run, run and run!!
That part 💯 I dont know why it's soo difficult for people to understand this it should be common knowledge theres no way around it.
never take a cheater back
For it's a red flag
After swallowing several meats, she wants to get back 🤔
😂😂😂😂
facts 🤣🤣😂😂
Cumberland 😆😆😆
they want someone to offload all that baggage and bills onto.
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The best revenge you do as a man thats been overlooked is to keep focusing on yourself and your goals and they will come back to you now that they see some potential that he has already made. Dont go back for her when she thought you were nothing and was ignored and overlooked..
Never take a woman back that leaves you.
I agree
That's real light skin for him to say he will take her back
"But it's Drake though...Drizzy!"
He as light skinned as that goofy ass take. Foh.
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He'll be stupid to take her back
Don't go Back. NEVER EVER G0 BACK‼️
Wished I had learned this lesson a long time ago.
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Rico, why are you crossing your legs like that, my guy lol
The bag 💰dropped
💯 😂😂😂😂
the zest is real.
Auditioning and advertising himself for them people
I swear I was thinking the same had to stop watching the video he's more feminine that the girls lol
Four black ladies here and nothing of substance in all that yapping.
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Towards the end the woman in the peach sweater made some good points .... you should listen again
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5 women
Number one reason for divorce.. woman just not happy and feel that the grass greener on the other side
The whole unfaithfulness doesn’t equate to disloyalty is a cop out. Faithfulness is a component of loyalty. That reasoning is a way to sidestep the responsibility of faithfulness in marriage.
Nah. Most men with options have no intention of being faithful
Exactly they are tryna be slick
@@myronbourne6937 stop choosing the top 10% of men then. they ain't FOR you.
Facts only rich people can talk foolishness and people listen 😅😂😂
U shouldn’t be with someone and desiring another person!!!
If a woman cheats on u fellas, walk away. Don’t entertain the idea of getting back.. if you take her back, subconsciously you’ll never trust her and she will never respect you.
Fellas never backtrack
Being loyal to your responsibilities and being loyal to your person are not mutually exclusive. you need them both or you indeed are DISLOYAL
I'm loyal to whatever I agree to be loyal to
The thing us, when she ran away, she and her ex didn't grow together . They grow apart from each other, that's why it doesn't work.
Facts only Rich people can talk foolishness and people listen 😅😂
Let these people think the way they think. It’s straight foolishness, but if that’s how they cope with infidelity let them be I’ll keep myself away from them.
Facts bro. I was thinking the same like what are this pple talking about😂😂. They don’t know shit about being loyal.
If I cheat and she get back, I won’t leave her. Men gotta NOT CHEAT in the first place
FOR YOU YOUNG BLACK WOMEN YOU ARE NOT GOING TO BE IN THE PRIME OF YOUR LIFE FOR EVER THAT WALL IS BUILT TO LAST FOREVER & IT IS UNDERFEATED NO CAPPING😢
If im in a serious relationship and my girl steps out on me i dont care who it is im done with you theres too many women out here looking for the same thing im looking for out here so ill take my chances out there 😊
She'll never get a 2nd chance from me if she ever walks out sorry
Married for 14 years been faithful for the entire ride. Cheated through all my relationships up until being married. And cheating, the act it’s self is disloyal.
Uncross your legs like that, my guy
What’s wrong with crossing legs
@marleyjanim5033 that's a not masculine a leg cross. That leg cross It suffocate's, hurts and crunch your male parts downstairs.
@@marleyjanim5033 That's some girl attitude. Maybe he is LGBTQ 😅😅😅😅
Please and thank you.
@@mjay9881He’s not a masculine dude. Does he sound or talk like a masculine dude? What did you expect?
I don’t know who told the Male that he had good advice . If a woman steps out on you , she is being disloyal.
He’s pandering.
What ? When a woman steps out she doesn't just step out physically also 3motionally, with men it's just physical
This dude a simp
The play on words….cant be faithful if you aren’t loyal, lets be real.
Exactly. Semantics smh
Facts! These folks are messed up in the head with that thinking.
As a man who has had many women at a given time and probably still can, I stepped out on those women because I didn’t love them. When you love someone or something that much there some type of sacrifice that occurs so you can have it in your possession
Nice video..., but there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship. I However learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago my wife and I were on the brink of a divorce because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it..
Great sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Yes its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Thank you. I will look her up online right now
You definitely should
15:54 we can't let this slide. She tried to send for the men. Men en masse aren't asking for a woman like this as a wife. As men we know our levels and don't stray into the land of the elite but women always want the rare men regardless
NEVER EVER TAKE THEM BACK! Too many women with less issues out here to meet and wife up. Avoid these damaged goods at all costs.
".... Being unfaithful does not make you disloyal..." .... TF!!! Nah you can miss me with that one bro. That's gaslighting 101. Imagine someone cheating on you and saying that.
Yeah, that shit waa insane ta' me when it hears it leave his mouth. Like, bruh, get tha' fuck outta here. That one chick rebutted in disagreement that she feels they kind of go hand-in-hand and she's absolutely right!! They're synonymous as hell! Yeah, he needed to tighten-up on that one.
Even though you lie when you cheat being unfaithful doesn’t mean disloyal 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Fuggin disgusting “ you caught me stepping outside “
They don’t want you in their 20’s but they regret it in their 30’s…😏
Rico is giving me Dwyane Wade vibes very zesty😂
Never trust a man who folds his legs like a woman!
"Zwayne Wade"
See People & Things For Who And What They Are & Not For What You Wish For Them To Be. 💯
The responses of the hosts are more logical and reasonable than what I saw 2 years ago. Salutes the 8 crew for personal & professional evolution.
“……people are lying because of social media…” is THEE headline of this video. This is absolutely a fact. Most people are not living what they’re posting. Most of the time it’s for engagement, attention and (for some) for the money
So she's on a pound tizzy tour for 12 years, and now she wants to reach back? Fellas like AC says... this is nasty work!!!
Why that dude lookin real zesty
because those the type of dude black women listen to. the ninjas that look like they wearing lip gloss lol smh
cuz he's probably likes getting his shit pushed in.
Best thing I ever did was to double back. We were both ready second time around, and we were great together, turned out perfect. We worked like a well oiled machine, no hiccups. She past away 15 years after we got back together and married though. It was10 years between us getting back together, but we found our way back to each other. So it can be good, just depends. Although, I wouldn't recommend necessarily the doubling back, most of the time it doesn't work.
Fellas never give them a second chance to do the same thing. Once they leave let them stay gone
Never take she back let she go long she never cared or loved you
Like I told my wife when I was courting her…” if I lose you then I never had you, so you’ll be doing me a favor.”
The leg cross is spicy as hell, my boy!
These women will Get 🥜 on and ready to gaslight you back into a relationship 💀 fellas what a time!! They can’t RUN FROM ACCOUNTABILITY
From experience, very true. You can't change people from who they really are, only GOD can help them change if and when they put in the work to change
A MAN SHOULD NEVER SIT LIKE THAT WITH THEY LEGS FOLDED
..."you'd rather be lied to" 🔥 🔥 🔥
I was head over heels over a woman back in college. I was around 25 at the time. She curved me every chance she could get and only spent her time with the local thugs in the Houston area. She always considered me a friend and nothing else. When I was around 36, she ran across me on Facebook and was going about how she always thought about me and wanted to go out on a date. I kindly declined and kept it moving. She now has 3 kids and weighs about 60 pounds more.
You’re unfaithful but not disloyal? What a bunch of hogwash.
I don't care who she cheated on me with. Hell, it could have been the tooth fairy for all I care. If she cheats she gots to go! If it's Drake or any other rich celebrity, that's even more of a reason to get rid of her. That tells me she can be bought by the highest bidder.
No disloyal people in my circle!
when you live outside of the original biblical design, you have to create rules to self govern, and everyone gets to make their own rules. That means you get stuff like this convo above, where technically they can all be right because everyone is governing themselves.
Many prayers to all of yall in the game tryna find somebody serious!
4:19 Is gas lighting at its finest. 😆😆 It was still disloyal behavior my guy... you've just separated the categories. You tried to limit it to physical provision or childcare. Loyalty includes having integrity to your word. So if you promised, in front of God, family, and friends, that you wouldn't be with anybody else, but went back on your word, that was disloyal.
This is the best comment I’ve read thus far!!! Who are these people! It’s all in the same boat to me ! I guess it’s working for them.
The answers these women give are crazy. Nothing was said about loving the person or him being a good person. It was cause you miss the vibe or saving that friend that u can talk to, whine to etc. Look good with. I didn't hear no damn I fuxed up with my ex , he was a good dude, etc. Everything was geared to what that man did for them emotionally or physically. Where and when did this disconnect come from? Also I agree with every man in here, if she cheats on me no matter whom, Drake doesn't matter bye
If you cheat on me once, that's it. We're done. If I stay, I want my turn to cheat.
Gentlemen, you have to stand on business. Never accept anything less than respect from a woman.
If a woman every leaves you then most men except if you are Boyce Watkins will take you back.
Genuine desire cannot be negotiated.She ain't into you, that's it,let her go for good!
Never take her back
Not taking ANYBODY back after they left to be ran through by somebody else. If you feel the need to leave, STAY gone. I moved on, and I'm done.
I can never go back to someone i left, wether am the one that left u or wether u are the one that left me. Thats a No No No for me.
I didn't want the woman to be anything except happy, kind and agreeable, but even that was too much.
Never lose your self respect by taking a woman back who did you dirty.
Loyal literally has "FAITHFUL" in every definition. Its one in the same lol.
Fuck no. We not gonna change the meaning of words to suit these arguments... Unfaithfulness is disloyalty...
Wait. Why are we going backwards? Exes are your ex for a reason.
Ol Girl in the pink is preaching! God bless her and her husband she’s a keeper
"That's what you wanted That's what you got" unrealistic taller... more curvy, does not amount to more love I agree. 👏
Why dude thinks women cheating has the same effect on the individual who's cheating psyche's. At least the dudes I know will come back to their girl. As for the women I know who've stepped out, they eventually lost respect/interest in their current partner and get swindled thinking their side piece is better, until the side piece reminds her that we just smashing. Women on average are more emotionally attached to sex then men, so when she cheats it's probably not about the physical, it's about something she thinks she's missing that her spouse lacks.
Nothing but truth spoken after 13:50
I hear nothing but 4 girls talking utter nonsense 🙄
The first pretty much admitted and explain why it’s different for men and women and why a man won’t usually accept cheating! She said it’s usually getting attention and everything else before wanting to be intimate whereas a man usually doesn’t get involved emotionally to have relations with a woman.
Once they realize they cant have a hot girl summer forever is when they finally want the "nice guy" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You know something. I seen this one before in my own handbook. The young lady who left me was not much older than 23. The reason however I would never ever turn around is.... Had the young lady just needed to figure out life and left to do that I'd have understood that but, no there's more. The young woman left me for what what truly was her elder sibling so to speak and I told her of the dangers of the encounter then she slept with my best friend to add insult to injury. All to hurt me. I'm afraid of what even a young woman with such vigor would do quite frankly.
Most people really still be dating childishly, looking for the "looks good to everyone" type of relationship, over actually what is good for you personally...
This is wild! Fellas do not take that woman back. Learn from my mistakes 😂😂
This dude is tripping. U never take a girl back if she cheats on you. It don't matter who it was with. Dude is bugging
The girl in pink is super knowledgeable, kind of appreciate her
Being unfaithful IS being disloyal. Stop trying to normalize shitty behavior. I dont care how much you want to justify your behavior or ease your guilt, YOU cheat in any way is a crappy thing to do. If you COMMIT, you need to honor that. If you arent willing and able to do so, DONT commit. No excuses. Hate when these boys attack women and shit on their bad behaviors and then take NO accountability for their own actions. Grow up.
Nah B its a wrap!!! I wouldn't even want that ISH no more once I know somebody else been jumping up & down on it. I'll pass
True story. They don't mind being a side piece to a good dude
If you Brothers don't get anything out of this video just understand they're telling you without actually saying that Men are literal tools to them. It's about what they can get out of you that suits their needs specifically, whether large or small. I will add though the Sister at the end spoke nothing but the truth.
There’s no exception to be cheated on by poor man or rich man it’s not about welt it’s self-respect and trust foundations of relationship
You CAN'T take her back she has probably caught 30 bodies in that time
Never take that woman back
Never take a ex back!
Men mature but the other segs do not. they stop maturing at age 16 then resume after 60
Gotta push the latter age up by a decade now. I've heard old clowns.
@@buFFlosouljah1 🤣🤣
Get your passports guys, go to countries like Philippines, japan , chile, bulgaria where women are much more traditional and ready to get a good man for marriage by 21.
Some of these think pieces are crazy. Dude said if it’s Drake, he can understand.. Hella weird. Then, one of the ladies said that it’s wrong for a man to talk down on his woman to another woman, but if he let the other woman know that he’s not leaving the woman he’s with after they do whatever it is that they do, it’s somewhat better. Trash
These days I rather be alone than being in a relationship.
I'm just going to tell you if my lady cheated on me she don't have to worry about coming back. Because for a woman to cheat she really has to be at a mental space and she's done with her man. Men are sport sexual encounters we don't need an emotion we just need a place.
Great convo 👏🏽this the kind of info we need in podcast very in intelligent women great dialog everyone is hitting points it’s crazy to say this, but I really see women speaking without putting their emotions in it. Love this👍🏾
Never get back with an ex, it ended for a reason!
Look how happy these ladies are with the rubbish this dude is saying. If you cheat you’re gone!
If a women leave u cuz u cheated dont take her bac
Oppression and slavery
@@joyceg7859 lol you really want to be someone a backup
The wisdom the world has to offer…
Why he got his legs crossed like that 😂😂😂😂😂
Most times money isnt the problem but more so uncommunicated expectations are the #1 reason for divorce
Ok we hear you with the pig analogy !!!!