"Trusting a man without a vision is like trusting a car to drive at night without headlights"...😆🤣 LOL!! Golden, Pastor!! Praise God for you. HOW we need your contiuned wisdom & guidance! Thank you.❤
I will miss you all this evening. Unfortunately, I was in a pretty shocking car accident yesterday leaving church. I’m ok but need ample rest to recover. Prayers are requested. You know I love you all, Blessings Queens. 🩷👑🧎♀️
Sometimes people ask, 'where is God in all this?' Well, God works through human hands and human feet, and R. C. Blakes' platform is one example of this.
You are explaining my husband to the T. After almost 2 decades and 3 kids he remains abusive and damaged. Affects me and kids. Sadly I cannot continue anymore 😪
@lori6156 Thank you so much Lori. I'm choosing to honor and respect myself now. I've let my dignity sink for far too long! I appreciate you, thank you❣️❤️🙏🏾😘
23 yr marriage veteran here. Divorced 2 years ago with a special needs kiddo. You must take care of yourself and your kids… nothing matters more once a spouse is abusive. Praying g you find peace and healing for you and your children.
Every. Single. Thing. You. Said. Happened. With. Me. Being raised in a pentecostal holiness church, women are conditioned to accept and embrace this toxicity from an early age. The goalposts are always inched back, telling the woman that she's got to pray harder, fast more, attend more services, etc, but not a word of condemnation or reproach for men. Frequently, the husbands didn't attend the churches anyway, and the wives then get criticism about being at the church too much! WE had to be the light that would draw them to Christ, but if it didn't happen, it's still our fault and responsibility! Dammed if we did or didn't!
1.Self Motivation, he has to motivate himself 2. Unhealed Motherwound 3. When he is a lid over your life rather than a covering. A Covering has the capacity to elevate, to move and to shift! A Lid limits potentials 4. when he has no authentic vision 5. When you idolize him 6. when he is in competition with your success 7. when you don’t respect him
Bishop! You are always PREACHING even when are teaching!!!!! Excellent Teaching!!!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🔥🔥🔥 Teaching with fire !!! God bless you Bishop Blakes!!! I am a guest who has been listening to your excellent Teaching!!! You have taught things about men.. I have not heard yet!! Your teachings has given me much godly wisdom nuggets for a "Royal Priesthood .. Queen/ daughter of the Most High God!!! It is He that findeth and Not "She that findeth!! God will guide and direct the Kingdom Spouse at the appointment time.. Trust in HIM!! LET GOD PICK THE KINGDOM SPOUSE!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 I will be sowing a seed in your mi ministry!!! God bless you & Lisa!! Beautiful couple inside and out!! God made you two examples for what "Kingdom Marriages look like...authentic and always keeping it 💯
I have been saving for queenology in Ghana since i heard its coming close to me. I live jn Nigeria and its an hour flight from here..cant wait to see Y'all
My ex was so upset with his mother to the point, he dated me because he said I reminded him of her, we shared the same similarities, birthday month, height, etc. Then I realized, he really hated her for things from his childhood and began to take it out on me. That’s when I decided to give him back to her and left the situationship after 5 1/2 years,
God is definitely working in you and for you. Thank you Bishop RC Blakes. This was an ontime word and it was very insightful as always. We greatly appreciate you and first lady Lisa Blakes with your advice and sound judgement
What a great blessing this message is and for you breaking it down so softly and making it so clear with scripture. I feel my emotions and anxiety settle, as I watched this and know that I have chosen the right path this time. God has carried me. You are helping my painful awakening… with the needed softness and father talks I’ve always needed. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏❤️
The guy in my relationship has mother issues, needs outside validation, asks "who do I belong to", wants his women to follow everything he says, and doesn't respect boundaries. The list can go on. I told him I belong to GOD first and foremost, then myself, then to everyone else. I told him I don't idolize myself, so I can't idolize you.
This was powerful and true 🏆🔥 I finally have to award this your very best video award in 6 years. They keep superseding each other, but I think it will be hard to outdo this one Pastor RC thinks similarly to myself. This little dude I had to throw back can't hear me but he can hear my thoughts coming from RC complete with all the scriptures cited. Thank you for being my translator over this entire annoying waste of time identified from the beginning. He keeps trying to bargain but me and this dude are and impossibility and from the gate. Just the fact that he doesn't want to hear that punctuates it. God bless Pastor Blakes. Amen. 🙏🏽
Wow number 2 spoke to me specifically you are preaching!!!! All of these are very true. Learning this later in life but I'm grateful for this wisdom. Thankyou 🙌🏾
My ex had hardcore mother issues. She was very dominant & emotionless incestuous with him. Treated him like a boyfriend! She certainly didn't like me. Anyway, we tried but it was impossible. He was a very bitter man. Had zero respect for women. He is now 68. Never married. No children. A wretched man..actually a boy. I praise the living Christ he left me!
Emotionally incestuous is what I meant. Same with my stepfather. Very overbearing mom. He treated my mother like trash. EXTREMELY abusive towards my mom.
I'm wondering if anyone else has noticed this within themselves... After 2 1/2 years of loving a man with medical issues, who is incapable of receiving the nurturing love that I want to give him him myself and finding that I am feeling needy now!! Use it as me becoming negative… Which I do not want I feel that the Holy Spirit lead me to his side, he is living with his sister currently and I am living by myself and I feel like all of his needs are being met and what the heck am I doing here
Praise God Almighty Bishop, truly an Empowering discussion. Thank you for this Powerful topic. Well Received. In Jesus name. Bishop, I'm trying to get my adult children to realize. Amen. Thank you so much for this Revelation. Amen and Amen ❤❤
Vision without Execution is Hallucination ~ Sir Thomas Edison, a vision is part of the plan, but without attainable steps, you are hallucinating and chasing dreams, couples need realistic goals, but he has to communicate them first
All I can do is to holla wooo weeee. Thanks you for this process of protection for my healing. Lisa Lisa Lisa We thank you for unselfishly Sharing you husband man with the broken woman of this world. Nothing that you have been through has been in vain. You both exemplify the truth of God's word Working it out for his good. Wish my words can encourage and validate you both as much as your living on purpose lives has validate and healed my being. To God Be the Glory. I love you all including your downline to the moon and back. From the root to the fruit you have seeded well. We are your orchard all over the world You are planting a legacy Eternal life to you NOW
Check out how he looks, y'all. Don't he look 10 to 15 years younger all of a sudden? Also, he's such a SHADOW of his previous self! I can't get over how huge Pastor's transformation is. Just wow!
I need prayers to get a roommate that has shown his deep seated narssistic behavior to move out of my home,i have given him six months to find his own place. I thought i was helping him due to his car breaking down,hot out,found out he isnt helping him self with saving money as he is being scammed out of his ssi to a on line relationship with someone pretending to be someone else.thought i was given him a hand up. He cant see he is being scammed,had police at my house,said he threatened to commit suicide,just found that out by the police that were at my home. I need prayers to get him out. I was married to a narc for 10 yrs i see things he dont realuze i see i can ignore well.
Epic Video RC Blakes : ) Thank you!! Also, you are looking so healthy - I love this for you : ) Keep shining bright. Your videos have been a godsend for my development. Your words come through as those of the wise father - something I never received as a child. Hence, I AM DEEPLY GRATEFUL - ABOVE AND BEYOND
I believe that this is a great help for women, but as a man, I think he needs to have platform to help males become better men, and greater members of society. It's harder to change a male than a female. I believe a lot of these platforms are used for gain, from women who are vulnerable and looking for love and acceptance. Men are to lead and protect, not the woman, so get with them and I think the world would become better, as the real men help to heal their women. I come in peace.☮
My guy is the hardest working man that I've ever met. But been married 3 times, and doesn't want a 4 th. He has given me everything I've ever needed, but emotionally broken. I'm 60 it's tough.
So sad😢 17 years together, no marriage. I always saw potential in him us, but after I repent and newborn I saw all flaws and red flags, we are now not equaly j, and in celibacy but he is full of traumas, and emotionaly cold, no motivation. He is good ,but not godly jet and very avoidant type. He dont now how to lead me, I always try and lead. But Bible says the truth . He got to counsel and therapy, but he is lukewarm need new heart 😢
THIS MINISTRY IS HELPING PEOPLE EVERYWHERE .🎉😊
Yes!!! It is!
Indeed
"Trusting a man without a vision is like trusting a car to drive at night without headlights"...😆🤣 LOL!! Golden, Pastor!! Praise God for you. HOW we need your contiuned wisdom & guidance! Thank you.❤
I will miss you all this evening. Unfortunately, I was in a pretty shocking car accident yesterday leaving church. I’m ok but need ample rest to recover. Prayers are requested. You know I love you all, Blessings Queens. 🩷👑🧎♀️
WOW!!! Im so sorry to hear. Please reach out to us to give us some detail. Email us at rc@rcblakesministries.com 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Praying for you ❤
Praying Queen. We love❤ you some more. Remember everything is for our good. ❤❤❤🎉
BLESSED healing/ complete recovery
I come here from time to time for insight, validation, confirmation, reassurance, and strength.
Because of it,
Im winning. It hurts, but im winning.
excellent message. I remember walking away from my last partner and telling him “ i can’t help. there’s nothing I can do”
Sometimes people ask, 'where is God in all this?' Well, God works through human hands and human feet, and R. C. Blakes' platform is one example of this.
You are explaining my husband to the T. After almost 2 decades and 3 kids he remains abusive and damaged. Affects me and kids. Sadly I cannot continue anymore 😪
You deserve respect and peace. Honor yourself ❤
@lori6156 Thank you so much Lori. I'm choosing to honor and respect myself now. I've let my dignity sink for far too long! I appreciate you, thank you❣️❤️🙏🏾😘
23 yr marriage veteran here. Divorced 2 years ago with a special needs kiddo. You must take care of yourself and your kids… nothing matters more once a spouse is abusive. Praying g you find peace and healing for you and your children.
@@cheekytitaablewow similar story.
What are you going to do?
Every. Single. Thing. You. Said. Happened. With. Me.
Being raised in a pentecostal holiness church, women are conditioned to accept and embrace this toxicity from an early age. The goalposts are always inched back, telling the woman that she's got to pray harder, fast more, attend more services, etc, but not a word of condemnation or reproach for men. Frequently, the husbands didn't attend the churches anyway, and the wives then get criticism about being at the church too much! WE had to be the light that would draw them to Christ, but if it didn't happen, it's still our fault and responsibility! Dammed if we did or didn't!
This is so true, but don’t even try to explain this to the other women in the church.
😢
Please how ?
Am a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down 😭 of myself because of low finance but I still believe God😞
It's Maria Angelina Alexander doing she's changed my life. A BROKER- like her is what you need.
$356K monthly is something you should feel differently about....
Lovely! I enjoyed it like I enjoy a $100k monthly around the turn!!!
It was more than a pleasure speaking with you! You definitely are changing families. ❤
1.Self Motivation, he has to motivate himself
2. Unhealed Motherwound
3. When he is a lid over your life rather than a covering. A Covering has the capacity to elevate, to move and to shift! A Lid limits potentials
4. when he has no authentic vision
5. When you idolize him
6. when he is in competition with your success
7. when you don’t respect him
Thank you 🙏🏽
God bless you
My God!
No #3 wheeew, so spot on👌🏾
Bishop! You are always PREACHING even when are teaching!!!!! Excellent Teaching!!!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🔥🔥🔥
Teaching with fire !!!
God bless you Bishop Blakes!!!
I am a guest who has been listening to your excellent Teaching!!! You have taught things about men.. I have not heard yet!! Your teachings has given me much godly wisdom nuggets for a "Royal Priesthood .. Queen/ daughter of the Most High God!!!
It is He that findeth and Not "She that findeth!!
God will guide and direct the Kingdom Spouse at the appointment time..
Trust in HIM!! LET GOD PICK THE KINGDOM SPOUSE!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I will be sowing a seed in your mi ministry!!!
God bless you & Lisa!!
Beautiful couple inside and out!!
God made you two examples for what "Kingdom Marriages look like...authentic and always keeping it 💯
I could use this video today! Looking forward to it!
He's 💯 when he says the mother wound is real. I've known several men who flat out disrespect women due to them not resolving their "Mother Wound".
on top and going higher!! see yall at the top! thanks again Bishop RC for another great share 💛 i pray God continue to bless you and your loved ones…
I have been saving for queenology in Ghana since i heard its coming close to me. I live jn Nigeria and its an hour flight from here..cant wait to see Y'all
My ex was so upset with his mother to the point, he dated me because he said I reminded him of her, we shared the same similarities, birthday month, height, etc. Then I realized, he really hated her for things from his childhood and began to take it out on me. That’s when I decided to give him back to her and left the situationship after 5 1/2 years,
Yikes! Some men have serious mommy issues. You did the best thing.
Bishop, Thank you for this lesson. This was deep, and I needed it. I praise God for you and Lady Lisa Blakes.... on my long healing journey...
God is definitely working in you and for you. Thank you Bishop RC Blakes. This was an ontime word and it was very insightful as always. We greatly appreciate you and first lady Lisa Blakes with your advice and sound judgement
And once again my earthly father that I hold very close to my heart 💕
I so need this tonight. In so much emotional pain right now
Ooh yes great title
🙏🏾🙏🏾❤
Sorry to read this but tune in regularly...keep pushing....
You are the daddy, uncle, father, and friend we dont have
What a great blessing this message is and for you breaking it down so softly and making it so clear with scripture. I feel my emotions and anxiety settle, as I watched this and know that I have chosen the right path this time. God has carried me. You are helping my painful awakening… with the needed softness and father talks I’ve always needed. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏❤️
The guy in my relationship has mother issues, needs outside validation, asks "who do I belong to", wants his women to follow everything he says, and doesn't respect boundaries. The list can go on.
I told him I belong to GOD first and foremost, then myself, then to everyone else.
I told him I don't idolize myself, so I can't idolize you.
This was powerful and true 🏆🔥 I finally have to award this your very best video award in 6 years. They keep superseding each other, but I think it will be hard to outdo this one
Pastor RC thinks similarly to myself. This little dude I had to throw back can't hear me but he can hear my thoughts coming from RC complete with all the scriptures cited. Thank you for being my translator over this entire annoying waste of time identified from the beginning. He keeps trying to bargain but me and this dude are and impossibility and from the gate. Just the fact that he doesn't want to hear that punctuates it. God bless Pastor Blakes. Amen. 🙏🏽
Wow number 2 spoke to me specifically you are preaching!!!! All of these are very true. Learning this later in life but I'm grateful for this wisdom. Thankyou 🙌🏾
Aaaaaamen pastor you are preaching and now and days you don’t have to look 👀 to far!😢😮❤🙌🏽
Always love listening to the truth you speak! 0:00
BLESSINGS BISHOP RC.Blakes,and 1st lady Lisa Blakes ❤ 🙏
Pastor, I am shouting in this car as good as your preaching!! 🙏🏾👏🏽
This kind of revelation doesn't make no sense to be this good! God I'm learning so much!!
Pastor you are THE TRUTH
Thank you Pastor Blakes, all the way from Bonnie Scotland X
Man every thing you are saying is so important!!🙏🏼
Good evening Bishop, Lady Lisa and saints of the most High
So much truth and wisdom. Thank you Pastor. 🎉
This is a hot topic, looking forward to this one!
This word was so good! Every point was on point. I’ve lived this for 12 years .. Thank you for sharing this!
I approve this message and thank you pastor for always helping us Queens value ourselves and know our worth!! Thank you and Lisa love you guys ❤
Looking forward to yet more truth!❤
Your timing is divine 👼 … 💔
God bless you Pastor and your family 🇿🇦
Your platform helped me to all glory to the most high
Thank You Pastor, Thank Yu, Self Discovery and Inner Healing ... Much Needed 🙏💗🙏
I had to come back and listen again. Wow. So much wisdom shared through this ministry 💜🙏🏽
Thank you Bishop RC, you have nailed it💯✅
Looking forward to this! You are always dead on! 0:00
Keep talking to these men out here!!!
Bishop Blakes, I did purchase two of your books.
Queenology and The book about the Kingnolgy/ men.
@@loucindahobbs3620 THANK YOU!
Oh I'm shouting !! this is a word we wish we heard sooner ❤ thank u RC
Thank you, for your great teaching and messages!👍🙏❤️
My ex had hardcore mother issues. She was very dominant & emotionless incestuous with him. Treated him like a boyfriend! She certainly didn't like me. Anyway, we tried but it was impossible. He was a very bitter man. Had zero respect for women. He is now 68. Never married. No children. A wretched man..actually a boy. I praise the living Christ he left me!
Emotionally incestuous is what I meant. Same with my stepfather. Very overbearing mom. He treated my mother like trash. EXTREMELY abusive towards my mom.
I'm wondering if anyone else has noticed this within themselves... After 2 1/2 years of loving a man with medical issues, who is incapable of receiving the nurturing love that I want to give him him myself and finding that I am feeling needy now!! Use it as me becoming negative… Which I do not want I feel that the Holy Spirit lead me to his side, he is living with his sister currently and I am living by myself and I feel like all of his needs are being met and what the heck am I doing here
Praise God Almighty Bishop, truly an Empowering discussion. Thank you for this Powerful topic. Well Received. In Jesus name. Bishop, I'm trying to get my adult children to realize. Amen. Thank you so much for this Revelation. Amen and Amen ❤❤
Vision without Execution is Hallucination ~ Sir Thomas Edison, a vision is part of the plan, but without attainable steps, you are hallucinating and chasing dreams, couples need realistic goals, but he has to communicate them first
I know right, I think I have been waiting for something like this
All I can do is to holla wooo weeee.
Thanks you for this process of protection for my healing.
Lisa Lisa Lisa
We thank you for unselfishly
Sharing you husband man with the broken woman of this world.
Nothing that you have been through has been in vain.
You both exemplify the truth of God's word Working it out for his good.
Wish my words can encourage and validate you both as much as your living on purpose lives has validate and healed my being.
To God Be the Glory.
I love you all including your downline to the moon and back.
From the root to the fruit you have seeded well.
We are your orchard all over the world
You are planting a legacy
Eternal life to you NOW
Praise the lord
Hi you’re explaining very well to the point of understanding
Looking forward to yet more truth!
Hallelujah Daddy! 🎉❤🎉😊
Check out how he looks, y'all. Don't he look 10 to 15 years younger all of a sudden? Also, he's such a SHADOW of his previous self! I can't get over how huge Pastor's transformation is. Just wow!
There is a biblically based book called LOVE AND RESPECT. BY EMMERSON EGGRICH. I it’s about how women need love and men need respect!! Thx for this!!
Waiting patiently but eager to hear Mr. Blakes
Genesis 2:18
This was so helpful thank you 🙏🏼!!!
That’s great! Thank you!
Amazing as usual! ❤
THIS ISSSSS SOOOO GOOOOOOOD YESSSS
My God this was right on time
This is the ❤❤❤❤❤❤ 39:11 best message yet!!!
This was a good one!!! Thank you so much!!!
Great Truths
I need prayers to get a roommate that has shown his deep seated narssistic behavior to move out of my home,i have given him six months to find his own place.
I thought i was helping him due to his car breaking down,hot out,found out he isnt helping him self with saving money as he is being scammed out of his ssi to a on line relationship with someone pretending to be someone else.thought i was given him a hand up.
He cant see he is being scammed,had police at my house,said he threatened to commit suicide,just found that out by the police that were at my home.
I need prayers to get him out.
I was married to a narc for 10 yrs i see things he dont realuze i see i can ignore well.
You are in a dangerous situation. Maybe you can "sell " the house, and get the process in place for him to get out?
Preach preacher
Thank you
Eagerly awaiting.
😃😻
30:09 when he’s a lid and not a covering.
Amen, pastor
You slimming down Pastor ❤
Epic Video RC Blakes : ) Thank you!! Also, you are looking so healthy - I love this for you : ) Keep shining bright. Your videos have been a godsend for my development. Your words come through as those of the wise father - something I never received as a child. Hence, I AM DEEPLY GRATEFUL - ABOVE AND BEYOND
I believe that this is a great help for women, but as a man, I think he needs to have platform to help males become better men, and greater members of society. It's harder to change a male than a female. I believe a lot of these platforms are used for gain, from women who are vulnerable and looking for love and acceptance. Men are to lead and protect, not the woman, so get with them and I think the world would become better, as the real men help to heal their women. I come in peace.☮
You got it! 🙏🏾
Thank you ❤🙏🏾
Thanks!
My guy is the hardest working man that I've ever met. But been married 3 times, and doesn't want a 4 th. He has given me everything I've ever needed, but emotionally broken. I'm 60 it's tough.
You MUST leave then. Prayers forthcoming.
This is going to be good!
Patiently waiting
RC did you lose a lot of weight?
can you put a link to the membership please - I could not find it. Thank you!
Good evening everyone ☺️
Good Evening
Indeed, unless a couple has a shared vision how will they stay together ?
I’m preaching better than y’all are shouting!! Amen!!!
Hi Pastor, what would be your advice for a man who recognises a lot of what you said in this video in himself and and is married with a child?
💯 Truth !
It makes plenty sense take yo time....
38:21 deserves ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
No we can’t help him. 😱
So sad😢 17 years together, no marriage. I always saw potential in him us, but after I repent and newborn I saw all flaws and red flags, we are now not equaly j, and in celibacy but he is full of traumas, and emotionaly cold, no motivation. He is good ,but not godly jet and very avoidant type. He dont now how to lead me, I always try and lead. But Bible says the truth . He got to counsel and therapy, but he is lukewarm need new heart 😢
How much longer will you stay?
Amen
Hello guys