“Because if you don’t understand the intentions of a man, You may be taken on a ride that you did not anticipate and you may be dropped off at a location your heart can’t handle.” ❤❤❤
Amen...that happened with me, i had a man approach me in church ..he held a nice conversation with me and of course he asked for my number..Pastor Blakes,he did end up calln me..He held a decent conversation with me and then he asked me about fulfilling of each others needs..Right away i let him know that i was a celibate woman and i will not sleep with a man unless he was my husband!(My Queens,this supposedly be a man of God,had the nerves to tell me---THAT I WAS WASTING HIS TIME, SO I TOLD HIM FINE .RIGHT THERE HIS MIND WAS ON MY BODY INSTEAD OF MY HEART.(BY the grace of God i have been celibate for 14 years now)🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏Thank u Pastor Blakes for speaking on this...
🙌🙏👏 8 years for me Abstinent. I don't want those nasty 🤢 dogs putting unclean SPIRITS in my flesh. I've cleansed for far too long. I'm waking easy. I'm walking in Peace. I'm rejuvenated. Cleansed of all UNRIGHTEOUSNESS.🤷🙌👏
Growing up we always heard how sex was the way to a mans heart as well as food. I can tell you Im 37 and STILL SINGLE. None of it has got me ANYWHERE pathetically. I would literally sleep with men thinking it was all said to be true and it is a bunch of bullshit lies society tells us. I've ended up hurt everytime. I was always told Im a great girl, why are you single? blah blah yet no one ever wifed me up. Now Im healing from years of hurt and bitterness and shame.
I wish I could put this comment in the sky for all the red pill idiots insisting that women put out for ZERO commitment to see... it doesn't benefit us so NO MORE
Shout it from the mountain top . I felt this way at 37 too. I cried. I took it personally. The audacity of men to say we should choose better when we've been told over and over we won't get a relationship unless we give sex. Now I am 43 and on my glow up journey over 40... and I am holding my no sex position firmly. It's they who 'need' that more.
@@nzingahoney Yes!! I never understood because I KNOW girls who sleep with guys early on and got into relationships almost every time..but I could never get one from them? I know I'm a good catch and have gone after the wrong men but still. It never worked for any of them. i'm always told Im a good girl, cute, sexy, great personality..just more introverted and am sexy intellectually. I'm sorry you have gone through similar. I blamed myself for a long time. And yes, I was always told sex, sex, sex. pff!
1. 17:58 🚩He is at the risk of disrespecting you for sexual advancement 2. 23:52 ✅a man that has honorable intentions will take his time and be patient and respect your boundaries 3. 25:12 🚩he’d text rather than call you to build a connection 4. 29:22 ✅A men that wants to build connection is active and emotional available 5. 32:02 🚩He frequently shows up late 6. 33:59 ✅When a man values you he will make an effort to be on time 7. 38:54 🚩he doesn’t not have any questions of interest about you or your life 8. 40:02 ✅He will want to know about your dreams, fears and experiences 9. 44:49 🚩He doesn’t expose you to his family 10. 48:58 ✅introducing a partner to family is a level of seriousness 11. 49:58 🚩 when a man doesn’t have longterm intentions he causes disruptions 12. 51:48 ✅a man that loves a woman avoids arguing with her
Nowadays men do all these things but still have bad intentions I’ve been introduced to mama, grandma, kids and he still was playing games. He calls, FaceTime, and shows up early. But what I learned is to give enough time to see his pattern. That will show if he is serious or not. Keep your legs closed and eyes open ladies.
This was a red flag 🚨 I noticed with the last two men who claimed to be interested in me: no questions, no conversation, no trying to get to know me, no trying to make sure our values align, no trying to build a connection... Thank you for validating what I felt.
We also need discernment between a man who has genuine questions vs wanting a roadmap to every traumatic experience you’ve ever had to later exploit or take advantage of you.
I cannot wait, 3 years ago I was a broken concious woman who needed guidance and your youtube videos kept coming up but I ignored it everything single time, until youtube recommended your videos to me for 3 months straight and i finally listened..that was god telling me you need to listen and learn ❤❤❤ I will always be so truly gratefull, I move differently now.. you must see me, so beautiful and radiant 😊 I have been abstaining from s*x for 2 years now, I am extremely proud of that, I haven't had a relationship with my mom for 8 years, we are building our relationship now all because of the healing and wisdom from these videos and actually do these actions in real time. Thank you Sir.
Oh praise God, good things comes when we're striving to be in God's presence and doing things His way, restoration for your relationship with your mother 🙏🏾🙌🏾💯 beautiful Queen, stay strong in Jesus
Yes, Queens I know many of us are staring into space just thinking where was Pastor Blakes years ago right? I am wishing I could begin my life over from baby with the wisdom I've acquired and still learning. 👏 👏 👏 👏 Thanks Pastor. 🙏
I was dating a man and i did meet his family. I was also asked to dinner at Christmas with them, then 1 week before that he ghosted me . I had been dating him for 3 months , Long time ago now . Odd 1, so ladies take time in a relationship because when he lets you down the amount of what you have given to this man measures the pain you will feel when he betrays you.❤
For a woman that has been abstinent waiting for the right one, this is a must watch tonight. Seems like soon as you tell them you are abstaining from sex, they either get EXTRA or ghost lol. Idk if they are genuine or just imposters. Let’s see what my virtual father has to say tonight. Thank you God for the wisdom pastor has to speak and mentor to women. A man that truly respects ALL WOMEN! Thank you pastor. Peace and blessings upon you!
Where are the men??? You would think that our men would be interested in godly ways to cultivate a godly relationship in the way our Heavenly Father projects in the word of God, relationships can be a testament when two individuals are sold out to God physically and emotionally and spiritually and mentally. We as followers of Christ that have a relationship with God let us continue to stand in Faith no matter what, God will prevail, let us pray 🙏🏾🙌🏾💯 one for another, and pray for our brother's in the church and the world, and vice versa, we need strong men and strong women in order to raise strong children, NOTHING is impossible with God, let US hold onto God's word and remain faithful. Love listening and applying this Rich wisdom to my life, it's so beneficial and helpful, thank you, may God continue to bless and keep you for the encouragement you give to us to carry ourselves as Queen's and King's, men and women of the Most High God!!!!!
I have been a widow for 2 1/5 years after 29 years of marriage to a wonderful man. I since have had 3 clowns ask me to dinner, of which I declined. But a fourth gentlemen who I met through a friend, asked to a fund raiser, where I met some of his friends and even his son. Then later he invited me to see the Rolling Stones with his daughter. Later on a few other non-traditional dates. And the end, all he ever does is give me a nice hug. Not one of those, squeeze me real tight hugs. We have spent many hours just talking together. I have never met a man like this. But I'm very layback I never call him. I'm not running to check out rings, I'm just watching to see his next moves. So far I really like this man, I respect the respect he has for me. I have prayed about this man, not sure what the Lord has planned for me. But who does?
Sounds like a good man, but I would suggest a little reciprocity if he calls you it may be OK to call him somewhat, not a lot, he sounds like a keeper most men the first thing they want to do is B.E.D., not him don’t lose him.
Make sure you "drop the handkerchief" and show your affection just a little bit. Let him know you approve of his demenour and favour him. Don't risk losing this gentleman over him not knowing your intentions. Good luck and God bless!
Keep praying. The Lord will reveal otherwise why you are praying. If you're not sure what the Lords plans are for you, he will reveal it. You can pray ephesians 1:17-23 for clarity
I was very foolish. At the age of 24. I married a male for all the wrong reasons. After 13 years of wasted time. Three Children.And him having many affairs. He one day told me he was not going to take care of me anymore. He also told me that if we had sex before marriage. He wouldn't have married me. He was at that time involved with a married woman on his job. I also wanted the marriage more than he did. It was a total disaster. I was out of The will of My Heavenly Father. When I married him. This was an amazing teaching. Many women can benefit from this teaching. Thank you Pastor Blake's.
Abstinent 8 going on 9 years.🙌👏🛏️✌️ Proud of me respectfully taking care of my body, self esteem and Self respect. Period. Got too many dishonored me wrongfully. I Desired marriage since Early age. Nobody wants marriage since I was 19. When I endured them only wanting Sex i got myself chin checked 😮 and woke up 😮. I'm God's child and I am a Queen 👑 I walk in my Queendom. No Man taking me off my throne. I Love ME
I met a man two months ago. Seems sincere, but something is not right. He has a daughter that is 11 years old. Told me that he felt something when we met, but cannot explain. We have been out on a date once. This man is self employed and a mr. mom. Seems to be a keeper, but does not call me, waits for me to call or text him. when I ask why he does not call or return text, this is his explanation. He is raising his daughter by himself, does not want her asking questions. Does not want to bring different women around her in case it does not work out (I get that part). He does not have a lot of time to talk, but has to schedule time for us to go out on a date. I get the fact that he is really busy, so am I. Now when we do chat, the conversation always goes left to something sexual. I have been celibate for over a decade and plan to keep it that way until I am married. I refuse to defile my bed and go through those emotions because of a soul tie. I am really paying attention to words and actions. I will not allow myself to go on a roller coaster ride.
I wholeheartedly agree with everything you said in this video, Pastor Blakes! I remember complaining to an aunt that a guy I had gone out on three dates with didn’t ask me any questions about myself- absolutely no curiosity about me, my life, my experiences etc. I was very curious about him and asked him A LOT of questions- absolutely no reciprocity on his part. So I told my aunt, I was turned off by that and was going to cut him off. She begged me not to because according to her, guys only ask questions when they are invested in someone and 3 dates wasn’t enough time to be invested in someone 🙄 She proved my point! You don’t have to be invested in someone to be curious about whom they are! I love the process of getting to know people regardless of wether I’m romantically interested in them or not- I’m genuinely curious about people, their thoughts, outlook on life etc. Anyway- I dumped the guy- his proposal for the fourth date, which also coincided with my birthday- Valentine’s Day- was to come over to his house for chocolates 🙄🤣🤣🤣 Nope! Absolutely not! I took myself on vacation to Hawaii instead 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hi Pastor. You had such good things to say. I wish every single woman of all ages knew what you know. You give me courage to live by godly boundaries and values.
We gotta stop ignoring red flags for the sake of wanting a man/woman. Bishop, I’ve learned so much from this lesson & pray everyday for my kingdom husband 🙏🏾
Although I’m married and have been for 18yrs ! I still listen and learn from all your videos and topics ! I can relate to some of the topics - I only wish I had the wisdom earlier life that I have now . Oh well better late than never. Keep opening our eyes to stay queen conscience. You are greatly appreciated as the father figure I never had . May GOD continue to bless you and your ministry
I was delivered from this experience. We dated and was engaged 💍 for 3.5 years. The Holy Spirit revealed that "enough was enough." I broke it off that same night. He begged for months to continue, but God said NO! Then, exactly 1 year later, he died.😢 Holy Spirit revealed that from day one, he was speaking about not "dying" alone. At the same time, I was speaking of sharing "life" with someone. It was sad that it took me 3.5 years to even see that. But God... Whew, I'm glad that class is over!
3.5 years is too long to be engaged unless your 16 years old. I had a man string me along for 5 years because he was dying & wanted me there but he didn't make good on his promises to marry. Thank the Lord we weren't in sexual sin. It would have crushed me.
I have come across too many little boys. Father, thank you for confirming that I am on the right track; waiting patiently for my king; the man God has for me.
I pounced on the link of this podcast and liked it at once on this channel, then clicked on "play" ... but it didn't. I looked again only to see it will take place on the 11th! 😅😆 Can't wait 😥
My first time on the actual LIVE 😭👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾 I watch your videos almost everyday…God Bless you and your family abundantly Bishop RC Blakes. Truly and sincerely, THANK YOU for your teachings, wisdom, and mostly your obedience to your purpose. So many lives and generations transformed because of QUEENOLOGY 👸🏾 May you never lack and always have joy. God Bless You Sir and Mrs. Lisa Blakes and family ❤️ -Dr. A
Yes, yes, yes on all accts. Seems every time i speak on my feelings about something .. he would immediately tell me hes done trying and then blocks me as though to punish me for opening up. Im always shocked by this behavior. This has happened several times. Thanks for the clarity. I know now this is exactly what i face. Soul ties, are definitely a thing. The back and forth, the constant push and pull, and the uncomfortable trauma bonds it creates. So very toxic ! Certainly not what one might expect from a person who claims to love them. It makes me sick to my stomach thinking about it.
BROKEN 💔 mislead the broken. LADIES get your life by healing every scar these Men afflicted upon you. I had too. I'm healthier ❤️🩹 on all levels because of Pastor Blake's teachings
Bishop, thank you for all the advice. I know what to look for in a man now. I’ve learned so much from you. I’m working on myself as I wait for God to send my husband!
You’re so right! Women, we need to have more self respect and don’t let men have it so easy! Being easy, devalues you and therefore, men see us as an object to use. Unfortunately, that’s a harsh truth.
Having intercourse alone does NOT devalue you in the eyes of anyone who isn't blind to your non sexual value. The fault is in men, not in us, that they consider us worthless unless they have to work for us. We are not lands to conquer; we are human just like them. We too want connection and pleasure and this is no crime as rape is. However the creator knew the blind, shallow nature of the male and that is why I think marriage was insisted upon.
On time message Pastor. Unfortunately, I’ve recently (and in the past) have met individuals who has checked all the boxes of Not intentionally wanting to be with me but my body!!! Wow!! This was powerful and I know better.
Yes Bishop, I've been in this situation, years ago. I got to the point where I said, Don't come in here with that mess. If you want to go do something, GO! That's when I walked away.
Pastor Blake's healed my spirit, SOUL too. I dedicated myself to Soul and Spirit Detoxification in 2019. God led me to him and since then I've changed what i do🥹, how I move, pay attention what a Man do, say, or behavior wise no matter what. It's offensive for a Man to try getting me in thr 🛏️ bed. I cannot stand disrespectful Men. I tolerate nothing anymore. I don't care who people are.
What a wonderful gift you gave us your time are you are on vacation or actually the pre-recorded time but the fact that you’re thinking about us so we’re not skipping a beat and we have time to get our act together before you get back in town. Thank you so much, brother. The prayers are always well spoken needed and on time as well as the message and love the scripture. I try to share this with other women, but they’re a little slow to come around but keeping in prayer and in prayer and motion, love to all safe travels back in there.
This video is 2 months old but I just found it I’ve seen lots of your videos like it but this one really hit me I was with a man off and on for 9 years I knew what it was but always wanted more from him. I never got it. At some point I realized he didn’t know anything about my family siblings etc he never asked I would bring it up. I knew a lot about his family but I never met them he was married but living in his own house on his own… he said he would be out in the open with me. I met a few of his friends no family. i walked away 2 years ago now I see he’s with someone and she’s all in with his friends and family on social media etc. I’ve talked to him a few times he never mentioned her. Idk maybe he didn’t want to hurt my feelings? Still keeping his options open? Whatever I was very confused throughout the relationship but I ultimately knew, I kept my options open too. But like RC says I basically took myself off the market as long as I was hanging around with him. Soul tie, hurts like hell, wasted time trying to move on. God help me
Hello Pastor Blakes, I have a couple of topic suggestions if you’re interested. I’d love to hear you speak on ruminating and I’d love a video on how to speak life into yourself. I’m so thankful for you and your ministry! I am currently separated from my husband by his choice. You have helped me more than you’ll ever know! I plan on passing it onto my daughter one day as well.🙏🏼
24:50 Not rushing you to bed…for the most part that is true…just be mindful, it could be that he’s getting it somewhere else and being patience reeling you in until your heart is involved then he starts having you and the other woman he’s living with. True story.
I will be at Queenology 2024! This will be the most exciting and beneficial trip I will be taking thus far! To GOD be the GLORY for Pastor RC Blakes Jr.!👑❤️✨️👑❤️✨️👑❤️✨️👑❤️✨️👑❤️✨️👑❤️✨️👑❤️✨️
Thank you Bishop I fully understand now and please forgive us we as woman are so used to guys putting effort on us to mislead us as all they want is sex,we have become sceptical if a guy doesn't want us sexually,but thanks to your wisdom we have a better understanding that a man who really wants us will wait and wants to learn more about us THANK YOU.Nozipho in South Africa ❤
“Because if you don’t understand the intentions of a man, You may be taken on a ride that you did not anticipate and you may be dropped off at a location your heart can’t handle.” ❤❤❤
Whew chile... 😬😳😭😩
Well said .
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This man continuously drops gems!! Ooh wee the facts!
That was a whole word
Amen...that happened with me, i had a man approach me in church ..he held a nice conversation with me and of course he asked for my number..Pastor Blakes,he did end up calln me..He held a decent conversation with me and then he asked me about fulfilling of each others needs..Right away i let him know that i was a celibate woman and i will not sleep with a man unless he was my husband!(My Queens,this supposedly be a man of God,had the nerves to tell me---THAT I WAS WASTING HIS TIME, SO I TOLD HIM FINE .RIGHT THERE HIS MIND WAS ON MY BODY INSTEAD OF MY HEART.(BY the grace of God i have been celibate for 14 years now)🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏Thank u Pastor Blakes for speaking on this...
🙌🙏👏 8 years for me Abstinent. I don't want those nasty 🤢 dogs putting unclean SPIRITS in my flesh. I've cleansed for far too long. I'm waking easy. I'm walking in Peace. I'm rejuvenated. Cleansed of all UNRIGHTEOUSNESS.🤷🙌👏
I've held on to my commitment to God, myself and my future Boaz for 4.5 years as a Solvent woman of God preparing for His timing.
Please forgive my spelling. My word correction is Sulvant
What is the meaning? I looked on Google. To no avail. Thank you.
Beloved… tbh the church men be the worst in my experience. Him asking you for sex being the least to worry about.
Growing up we always heard how sex was the way to a mans heart as well as food. I can tell you Im 37 and STILL SINGLE. None of it has got me ANYWHERE pathetically. I would literally sleep with men thinking it was all said to be true and it is a bunch of bullshit lies society tells us. I've ended up hurt everytime. I was always told Im a great girl, why are you single? blah blah yet no one ever wifed me up. Now Im healing from years of hurt and bitterness and shame.
Can't lead off with your ass
Rejoice in the Lord and let all that bitterness go and you will become a new woman
I wish I could put this comment in the sky for all the red pill idiots insisting that women put out for ZERO commitment to see... it doesn't benefit us so NO MORE
Shout it from the mountain top . I felt this way at 37 too. I cried. I took it personally. The audacity of men to say we should choose better when we've been told over and over we won't get a relationship unless we give sex. Now I am 43 and on my glow up journey over 40... and I am holding my no sex position firmly. It's they who 'need' that more.
@@nzingahoney Yes!! I never understood because I KNOW girls who sleep with guys early on and got into relationships almost every time..but I could never get one from them? I know I'm a good catch and have gone after the wrong men but still. It never worked for any of them. i'm always told Im a good girl, cute, sexy, great personality..just more introverted and am sexy intellectually. I'm sorry you have gone through similar. I blamed myself for a long time. And yes, I was always told sex, sex, sex. pff!
1. 17:58 🚩He is at the risk of disrespecting you for sexual advancement
2. 23:52 ✅a man that has honorable intentions will take his time and be patient and respect your boundaries
3. 25:12 🚩he’d text rather than call you to build a connection
4. 29:22 ✅A men that wants to build connection is active and emotional available
5. 32:02 🚩He frequently shows up late
6. 33:59 ✅When a man values you he will make an effort to be on time
7. 38:54 🚩he doesn’t not have any questions of interest about you or your life
8. 40:02 ✅He will want to know about your dreams, fears and experiences
9. 44:49 🚩He doesn’t expose you to his family
10. 48:58 ✅introducing a partner to family is a level of seriousness
11. 49:58 🚩 when a man doesn’t have longterm intentions he causes disruptions
12. 51:48 ✅a man that loves a woman avoids arguing with her
Thank you
@@allisonp.190 you’re welcome
You're the GOAT! Thank you!
@@allisonp.190 you’re welcome
@@cheyennenuelle6711seriously
Nowadays men do all these things but still have bad intentions I’ve been introduced to mama, grandma, kids and he still was playing games. He calls, FaceTime, and shows up early. But what I learned is to give enough time to see his pattern. That will show if he is serious or not. Keep your legs closed and eyes open ladies.
I’ve learned that lesson
I had one introduce me to his best friend mama. He was a mamma boy spoiled. I let him go
Same here I’ve been to family events and still got played so sometimes meeting the family isn’t crap either
This was a red flag 🚨 I noticed with the last two men who claimed to be interested in me: no questions, no conversation, no trying to get to know me, no trying to make sure our values align, no trying to build a connection... Thank you for validating what I felt.
The daddy I never had. Your wisdom is so on point!
We also need discernment between a man who has genuine questions vs wanting a roadmap to every traumatic experience you’ve ever had to later exploit or take advantage of you.
I know… I get confused with this too.
Whew😮😩
Great point! Yes we do!
Not even my father had healthy, pure intentions for me... My God PLEASE HEAL MY HEART!
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Queens ask questions that only kings can answer!!! that was so good!!
I cannot wait, 3 years ago I was a broken concious woman who needed guidance and your youtube videos kept coming up but I ignored it everything single time, until youtube recommended your videos to me for 3 months straight and i finally listened..that was god telling me you need to listen and learn ❤❤❤ I will always be so truly gratefull, I move differently now.. you must see me, so beautiful and radiant 😊
I have been abstaining from s*x for 2 years now, I am extremely proud of that, I haven't had a relationship with my mom for 8 years, we are building our relationship now all because of the healing and wisdom from these videos and actually do these actions in real time. Thank you Sir.
Awesome 👌 👏 👏 👏 👏 😊 ✌️
Oh praise God, good things comes when we're striving to be in God's presence and doing things His way, restoration for your relationship with your mother 🙏🏾🙌🏾💯 beautiful Queen, stay strong in Jesus
Listening to you has made me emotionally stronger 💪 Thank you so much! You’re a light in this darkened world.
Phantom arguments allows him to blame you so he can go out and do what he wants without guilt.
Yes, Queens I know many of us are staring into space just thinking where was Pastor Blakes years ago right? I am wishing I could begin my life over from baby with the wisdom I've acquired and still learning. 👏 👏 👏 👏 Thanks Pastor. 🙏
I woulda been so ahead in life
Indeed.
Yes
Maan, I am telling u
I was dating a man and i did meet his family. I was also asked to dinner at Christmas with them, then 1 week before that he ghosted me . I had been dating him for 3 months , Long time ago now . Odd 1, so ladies take time in a relationship because when he lets you down the amount of what you have given to this man measures the pain you will feel when he betrays you.❤
For a woman that has been abstinent waiting for the right one, this is a must watch tonight. Seems like soon as you tell them you are abstaining from sex, they either get EXTRA or ghost lol. Idk if they are genuine or just imposters. Let’s see what my virtual father has to say tonight. Thank you God for the wisdom pastor has to speak and mentor to women. A man that truly respects ALL WOMEN! Thank you pastor. Peace and blessings upon you!
Where are the men??? You would think that our men would be interested in godly ways to cultivate a godly relationship in the way our Heavenly Father projects in the word of God, relationships can be a testament when two individuals are sold out to God physically and emotionally and spiritually and mentally.
We as followers of Christ that have a relationship with God let us continue to stand in Faith no matter what, God will prevail, let us pray 🙏🏾🙌🏾💯 one for another, and pray for our brother's in the church and the world, and vice versa, we need strong men and strong women in order to raise strong children, NOTHING is impossible with God, let US hold onto God's word and remain faithful.
Love listening and applying this Rich wisdom to my life, it's so beneficial and helpful, thank you, may God continue to bless and keep you for the encouragement you give to us to carry ourselves as Queen's and King's, men and women of the Most High God!!!!!
I have been a widow for 2 1/5 years after 29 years of marriage to a wonderful man. I since have had 3 clowns ask me to dinner, of which I declined. But a fourth gentlemen who I met through a friend, asked to a fund raiser, where I met some of his friends and even his son. Then later he invited me to see the Rolling Stones with his daughter. Later on a few other non-traditional dates. And the end, all he ever does is give me a nice hug. Not one of those, squeeze me real tight hugs. We have spent many hours just talking together. I have never met a man like this. But I'm very layback I never call him. I'm not running to check out rings, I'm just watching to see his next moves. So far I really like this man, I respect the respect he has for me. I have prayed about this man, not sure what the Lord has planned for me. But who does?
Keep your breastplate of righteousness on and the best 👌 to you.
Sounds like a good man, but I would suggest a little reciprocity if he calls you it may be OK to call him somewhat, not a lot, he sounds like a keeper most men the first thing they want to do is B.E.D., not him don’t lose him.
Make sure you "drop the handkerchief" and show your affection just a little bit. Let him know you approve of his demenour and favour him. Don't risk losing this gentleman over him not knowing your intentions. Good luck and God bless!
Keep praying. The Lord will reveal otherwise why you are praying. If you're not sure what the Lords plans are for you, he will reveal it. You can pray ephesians 1:17-23 for clarity
He deserves reciprocity. Sounds one sided.
I was very foolish. At the age of 24. I married a male for all the wrong reasons. After 13 years of wasted time. Three Children.And him having many affairs. He one day told me he was not going to take care of me anymore. He also told me that if we had sex before marriage. He wouldn't have married me. He was at that time involved with a married woman on his job. I also wanted the marriage more than he did. It was a total disaster. I was out of The will of My Heavenly Father. When I married him. This was an amazing teaching. Many women can benefit from this teaching. Thank you Pastor Blake's.
“Never connected, just attached” 😮
Sheesh! 🎯
Happened to me for 4 long years…
Abstinent 8 going on 9 years.🙌👏🛏️✌️ Proud of me respectfully taking care of my body, self esteem and Self respect. Period. Got too many dishonored me wrongfully. I Desired marriage since Early age. Nobody wants marriage since I was 19. When I endured them only wanting Sex i got myself chin checked 😮 and woke up 😮. I'm God's child and I am a Queen 👑 I walk in my Queendom. No Man taking me off my throne. I Love ME
WOW YOU PRACTICING A LOT DISCIPLINE AND SELF CONTROL 🎉🎊🎉🎊 CONGRATULATIONS
THIS WORLD IS SO SAD
I am LISSETTE using my friend phone
Good info based on the word of God
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I met a man two months ago. Seems sincere, but something is not right. He has a daughter that is 11 years old. Told me that he felt something when we met, but cannot explain. We have been out on a date once. This man is self employed and a mr. mom. Seems to be a keeper, but does not call me, waits for me to call or text him. when I ask why he does not call or return text, this is his explanation. He is raising his daughter by himself, does not want her asking questions. Does not want to bring different women around her in case it does not work out (I get that part). He does not have a lot of time to talk, but has to schedule time for us to go out on a date. I get the fact that he is really busy, so am I. Now when we do chat, the conversation always goes left to something sexual. I have been celibate for over a decade and plan to keep it that way until I am married. I refuse to defile my bed and go through those emotions because of a soul tie. I am really paying attention to words and actions. I will not allow myself to go on a roller coaster ride.
Drop him like a bad habit, sis. Red 🚩!
Amen 🙏🏽
He do not want you therefore he will not lady meet his daughter if he doesn't want you.
I think he married....n want some icing on his marriage..he doesn't have a heart to learn ur ❤
Run 🚩🚩🚩I think he has a woman and using the child as an excuse..
I wholeheartedly agree with everything you said in this video, Pastor Blakes! I remember complaining to an aunt that a guy I had gone out on three dates with didn’t ask me any questions about myself- absolutely no curiosity about me, my life, my experiences etc. I was very curious about him and asked him A LOT of questions- absolutely no reciprocity on his part. So I told my aunt, I was turned off by that and was going to cut him off. She begged me not to because according to her, guys only ask questions when they are invested in someone and 3 dates wasn’t enough time to be invested in someone 🙄 She proved my point!
You don’t have to be invested in someone to be curious about whom they are! I love the process of getting to know people regardless of wether I’m romantically interested in them or not- I’m genuinely curious about people, their thoughts, outlook on life etc.
Anyway- I dumped the guy- his proposal for the fourth date, which also coincided with my birthday- Valentine’s Day- was to come over to his house for chocolates 🙄🤣🤣🤣 Nope! Absolutely not! I took myself on vacation to Hawaii instead 🤣🤣🤣🤣
A lot of them will still bring you home to family a be playing the whole time
Yeppers! My brother is notorious for this. Now we don't even get excited or invested. He needs deliverance 😢
Same ❤
I wish my Daddy would have had these talks with me when I was younger...
Same..
❤❤❤Bishop you ain’t never lied!!! Thank you for speaking life!!! These talks help us live our best lives!!!
THERE IS WAY, MORE TO LIFE! ! ! ! ! ! ! !
Thank you so much for accepting the call of the Lord on your life and teaching us women and young ladies the rules to be honorable women in society.
The grown women in me needs more than that… come on sir 👏👏❤️❤️🙌🙌✅✅
Hi Pastor. You had such good things to say. I wish every single woman of all ages knew what you know. You give me courage to live by godly boundaries and values.
Words come from the heart. Texts can be manipulated.
Questions are the building blocks of intimacy ❤
We gotta stop ignoring red flags for the sake of wanting a man/woman.
Bishop, I’ve learned so much from this lesson & pray everyday for my kingdom husband 🙏🏾
You gave a dummy what a dummy wanted....Thank you for keeping things soooo real😅
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Although I’m married and have been for 18yrs ! I still listen and learn from all your videos and topics ! I can relate to some of the topics - I only wish I had the wisdom earlier life that I have now . Oh well better late than never. Keep opening our eyes to stay queen conscience. You are greatly appreciated as the father figure I never had . May GOD continue to bless you and your ministry
I was delivered from this experience. We dated and was engaged 💍 for 3.5 years. The Holy Spirit revealed that "enough was enough." I broke it off that same night. He begged for months to continue, but God said NO! Then, exactly 1 year later, he died.😢
Holy Spirit revealed that from day one, he was speaking about not "dying" alone. At the same time, I was speaking of sharing "life" with someone. It was sad that it took me 3.5 years to even see that. But God... Whew, I'm glad that class is over!
3.5 years is too long to be engaged unless your 16 years old. I had a man string me along for 5 years because he was dying & wanted me there but he didn't make good on his promises to marry. Thank the Lord we weren't in sexual sin. It would have crushed me.
I thank God for Pastor Blakes.
I have come across too many little boys. Father, thank you for confirming that I am on the right track; waiting patiently for my king; the man God has for me.
Yep that's what they do create conflicts to be with someone else then come back like nothing happened.
This hurt a bit but it’s true. I’m so glad to receive this wisdom from God through you. I needed to hear this.
👀 ...if you look carefully, you can see a halo around our beloved Brother Bishop Blakes head🙏🏿
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I pounced on the link of this podcast and liked it at once on this channel, then clicked on "play" ... but it didn't. I looked again only to see it will take place on the 11th! 😅😆 Can't wait 😥
Hi Queen. The video is coming up today 8pm (CST). Hope to see you there 👍🏽
Today, June 10th. 🤭😁
Maybe It is her time zone?
My first time on the actual LIVE 😭👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾 I watch your videos almost everyday…God Bless you and your family abundantly Bishop RC Blakes. Truly and sincerely, THANK YOU for your teachings, wisdom, and mostly your obedience to your purpose. So many lives and generations transformed because of QUEENOLOGY 👸🏾 May you never lack and always have joy. God Bless You Sir and Mrs. Lisa Blakes and family ❤️ -Dr. A
I am working on me in every way possible.
Thank you pastor for this opportunity to listen learn and become! ❤
From the first video a couple years ago I watched from you, I knew that god had sent you
Yes, yes, yes on all accts. Seems every time i speak on my feelings about something .. he would immediately tell me hes done trying and then blocks me as though to punish me for opening up. Im always shocked by this behavior. This has happened several times. Thanks for the clarity. I know now this is exactly what i face. Soul ties, are definitely a thing. The back and forth, the constant push and pull, and the uncomfortable trauma bonds it creates. So very toxic ! Certainly not what one might expect from a person who claims to love them. It makes me sick to my stomach thinking about it.
You are truly the voice of the father many women in the world never had. Thank you for your powerful ministry.
Right on time!! Bishop and First Lady Lisa! Thank you for saving my life repeatedly!!!!! 🙏
The term or concept of Firsy Lady is not biblical but we love Lisa and RC.
Tell Lisa, that I said Hi. 🙏💐. GOD BLESS her!
Amen. I amen. God bless you brother for your advice. Stay blessed 🙏🏾
I cannot wait to hear this one! It will be good and so need for many, included myself! Thanks for being that father figure my us (ME) haven't had.
This has been so encouraging. You r a blessing to women around the world.
BROKEN 💔 mislead the broken. LADIES get your life by healing every scar these Men afflicted upon you. I had too. I'm healthier ❤️🩹 on all levels because of Pastor Blake's teachings
Bishop, thank you for all the advice. I know what to look for in a man now. I’ve learned so much from you. I’m working on myself as I wait for God to send my husband!
You’re so right! Women, we need to have more self respect and don’t let men have it so easy! Being easy, devalues you and therefore, men see us as an object to use. Unfortunately, that’s a harsh truth.
Having intercourse alone does NOT devalue you in the eyes of anyone who isn't blind to your non sexual value. The fault is in men, not in us, that they consider us worthless unless they have to work for us. We are not lands to conquer; we are human just like them. We too want connection and pleasure and this is no crime as rape is. However the creator knew the blind, shallow nature of the male and that is why I think marriage was insisted upon.
Men err & so do women. We ALL have sinned. Abide in Christ.
Thank you for all you do❤🙏🏾
Bishop!!! your sound effects & verbal expressions is so real!!!!!!!
Thanks!
On time message Pastor. Unfortunately, I’ve recently (and in the past) have met individuals who has checked all the boxes of
Not intentionally wanting to be with me but my body!!! Wow!! This was powerful and I know better.
“He listens with his eyes”. Yes this is definitely discerning between that of lust/conquest or a genuine desire to be know and be connected to you.
Yes Bishop, I've been in this situation, years ago. I got to the point where I said, Don't come in here with that mess. If you want to go do something, GO! That's when I walked away.
That no question thing is on point!!! Haven’t asked not one yet….Ive asked so many questions and haven’t been asked much of nothing.
Amen! Good word Pastor
This is going to be and eye opener and very well needed
Sir Blakes! You are looking sharp and healthy! God bless you
Pastor Blake's healed my spirit, SOUL too. I dedicated myself to Soul and Spirit Detoxification in 2019. God led me to him and since then I've changed what i do🥹, how I move, pay attention what a Man do, say, or behavior wise no matter what. It's offensive for a Man to try getting me in thr 🛏️ bed. I cannot stand disrespectful Men. I tolerate nothing anymore. I don't care who people are.
I love your content. could you please do a video on when a man is always fighting, trying to create drama, stress, strife and contention?
Hello Pastor and First Lady Blakes Jr!
Hello New Life Church! Hello Everyone!
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Thank you, Bishop I'll really learn a lot from your teaching over the last year. And I'm so grateful for you and first lady Lisa 🙌❤️
Thankyou this is a very good and important message women need to hear and hear it well.
All facts!!! Smh…. This is some of the realest information on the net today.
What a wonderful gift you gave us your time are you are on vacation or actually the pre-recorded time but the fact that you’re thinking about us so we’re not skipping a beat and we have time to get our act together before you get back in town. Thank you so much, brother. The prayers are always well spoken needed and on time as well as the message and love the scripture. I try to share this with other women, but they’re a little slow to come around but keeping in prayer and in prayer and motion, love to all safe travels back in there.
Thank you Father God for your redemptive power, and Pastor Blake for looking after us woman. Blessings
Hello, Pastor RC
At a location you can't handle. Bishop speaks real talk👍🏽💯
💫Hi Family....
Hectic evening for me. Will definitely watch from the beginning. Love the teachings and comments ❤️🩹
This video is 2 months old but I just found it I’ve seen lots of your videos like it but this one really hit me I was with a man off and on for 9 years I knew what it was but always wanted more from him. I never got it. At some point I realized he didn’t know anything about my family siblings etc he never asked I would bring it up. I knew a lot about his family but I never met them he was married but living in his own house on his own… he said he would be out in the open with me. I met a few of his friends no family. i walked away 2 years ago now I see he’s with someone and she’s all in with his friends and family on social media etc. I’ve talked to him a few times he never mentioned her. Idk maybe he didn’t want to hurt my feelings? Still keeping his options open? Whatever I was very confused throughout the relationship but I ultimately knew, I kept my options open too. But like RC says I basically took myself off the market as long as I was hanging around with him. Soul tie, hurts like hell, wasted time trying to move on. God help me
Jus wanna say Thsnk u so much pastor Blakes! Words can’t express the value you bring to us all!!! God bless you continuously!!🙏💕😊
THANK YOU BISHOP🙏
Wow, Bishop Blakes, this happened to me .Ladies, be careful!Thank you, Bishop ❤
Thanks popsi ❤ I love you
What a message!! Thank you!! ❤❤
JAH continue to bless you and your family in Jesus Christ name!!!!
Oh my God, l needed to hear this message 3 times in 48 hours. Poweful teaching! Thank you pastor Blakes!
Ladies please do not lay down with a unsafe man that don't want to be in a relationship
Brap brap. Same way suh!
Thank you for all your wisdom, I’ve made poor choices in the past but no more!! Due to your teachings , bless you xx
Hello Pastor Blakes, I have a couple of topic suggestions if you’re interested. I’d love to hear you speak on ruminating and I’d love a video on how to speak life into yourself. I’m so thankful for you and your ministry! I am currently separated from my husband by his choice. You have helped me more than you’ll ever know! I plan on passing it onto my daughter one day as well.🙏🏼
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Not rushing you to bed…for the most part that is true…just be mindful, it could be that he’s getting it somewhere else and being patience reeling you in until your heart is involved then he starts having you and the other woman he’s living with. True story.
God bless you! Thank you for this message!🙏🏽❤️
I will be at Queenology 2024! This will be the most exciting and beneficial trip I will be taking thus far! To GOD be the GLORY for Pastor RC Blakes Jr.!👑❤️✨️👑❤️✨️👑❤️✨️👑❤️✨️👑❤️✨️👑❤️✨️👑❤️✨️
See you there!!
What about the ones that call etc but still mentions sex
Good evening bishop and First Lady!
Good evening everyone please listen to pastor blakes
That was beautiful Bishop. 🙏🙏💜
Hey bishop and Lisa how are you guys doing great word as usual God bless you guys get home safe❤❤🎉
My Lord help us! Jesus!!
Love how you are teaching still through the gospel and breaking it down. Thank you. I look forward to attending a further event with a success story.
Confirmation Pastor RC Blakes 🔥🔥🔥
Good afternoon RC. I totally enjoyed this podcast! I always learn so much from your counsel and teaching. Thank you so much! God bless you! ✝️🙏😊👍💯❤️
Thank you Bishop I fully understand now and please forgive us we as woman are so used to guys putting effort on us to mislead us as all they want is sex,we have become sceptical if a guy doesn't want us sexually,but thanks to your wisdom we have a better understanding that a man who really wants us will wait and wants to learn more about us THANK YOU.Nozipho in South Africa ❤