I hope etiquette returns as we increase in numbers. I miss decorum and manners especially in public from younger people. I talk about adjusting one's crotch, spitting, cursing, shouting or wearing dirty, smelly clothing in crowded spaces.
Honestly, the hardest part of being a woman is it feels like the world doesn't want me to be one. Thank you for helping me feel free, happy, and safe, in my femininity. God bless you.
The Angel yes and especially when you notice other girls glaring at you as if it’s a sin to look feminine. I’m scared people will mock me for and saying stuff like I’m dressed like a girly kid
You just put my feelings into words! I also feel bad for being "the feminine one" in those situations, and I feel bad for all the attention I get for actually good looks. So I've spent years and years trying to look average or rather "worse", so no girls/woman would feel angry about me being more feminine and no boys/men would feel like desiring me, especially physically. It's easier when nobody notices you. These videos like hers give me confidence to be who I am! No more breast hiding posture, more cute dresses in summer, here I am.
@@WarriorOfStateOfMind it's amazingly horrifying seeing that are women who put other women down for literally anything. I've always have noticed the attention that I attract from other woman because the way I look and carry myself. I'm 5'9, I have ridiculous long legs and long neck and because my regular outfits are elegant/formal (I work in an office, gracious God) thrust me I drag a lot of attention in a ridiculous manner.
I’m a female in the military and being around men constantly for the last four years has really made me lose my femininity. It’s really nice to watch your channel as a reminder of how to act ladylike!
Idk I’m female in the military and we still find ways to be lady like and pamper ourselves when we are serving. Not to mention we still have times where we can dress in civilians at which time we can be as traditional and feminine as we want. We were making ladies pamper nights, doing natural make up routines, haircut nights, mani pedi nights, etc. even on deployment. It must not always be the case to be able to find other feminine females in your unit. It might matter the MOS too. I’m a medic which traditionally was one of the first jobs for females in the military (see hero nurse Clara Barton). There were lots of very feminine women in my AIT and in the medic sections of the units I was attached to. But many of us are very proud to be both feminine and heroines.
I prefer your channel because you come off very humble and you don’t sound like you are speaking down on anyone. I wish I had a mom like you that could had taught me all of this. I have to change my wardrobe. Also you are very beautiful.
Jo thank you for this sweet encouragement!! This really means a lot. It’s so important for us to recognize that we are all at different stages and places in life. You are so sweet and thank you for taking the time to bless me today. Xoxo
I just wanted to recommend a channel “dearly bethany” if you are investing in your wardrobe watching her beforehand can be really helpful!! Of course being comfortable and confident in your clothes is the most important thing but taking some of her advices and adding neutral colors to my wardrobe has made dressing up so much easier for me so I recommend:))
Same! My mom didn't teach me anything and was incredibly neglectful. I wish I had someone to each me these things when I was young, but here I am in my 30s trying to correct my awful posture, learn social skills and how to be lady like. It's never too late to learn :)
Thank you for talking about common courtesy things such as standing up for the elderly or helping people with a stroller etc. It often shocks me how inconsiderate people are
About loving your seat... Someone can have an invisible disability and being looked down is just... Awful. Some won't even dare to ask for their seat (that they more than need !) because they are afraid of being looked down upon (or have to justify themselves, a thing they maybe don't want do to, which is normal. Plus the justification is rarely listened to if the disability is really not visible). So... I mean of course some are perfectly able and just lazy and/or inconsiderate and that should not be normal. But you never know... Maybe the person have a disability (and she does not want to scream it in public and/or be looked down).
I feel like femininity is under attack today. I love your videos because they create a digital space where I can truly be comfortable with being feminine and where I can work on resetting the effects of the societal narrative that women are only strong if they act like men. I truly thank God that you are able to reach myself and so many other women!
I feel like you've gotten so much more confident with your narration in these videos! You have always been poised, but I think you seem increasingly secure in your message and speaking.
This is gonna be weird to say, but ever since I found your channel my outlook on life has changed. I've been so happy and productive, living in a way that truly makes me feel good. Thank you 💕 Ps I found a breadmaker while thrifting for $7 today! Im so excited~
This made my day! I am so happy you are living in a way that is bringing more productivity and positivity! It will make the harder times much more bearable. 😘 Sending you love and congratulations on finding the bread-maker! Thrifted bread-makers are the white whale of second hand shopping 🤣😊
1. way you carry your body, your posture. imagine you have wings and keep them up. string from your crown pulling you upward. 2. keep your knees together while sitting. 3. give your seat up for elders 4. keep your hygien private dont scratch pluck or play with your hair in public. breath smell fresh, keep your jewellery clean. 5. being a good neighbour
I love how you balanced being a good citizen with paying attention to self protection instincts. Thank you!!!! Women too often put other people's feelings/misguided sense of politeness ahead of their own safety with devastating consequences
THANK YOU for addressing not getting drunk around strangers, not going out alone in the evenings unnecessarily, not being overly trusting, and never driving drunk. Our safety and returning home to our loved ones is so important, yet it is all to common for women to put themselves in these kinds of situations in this day and age. Lovely video! ❤ Can you do a video on how to be feminine in the workplace please?
When she said "record yourself doing something" I literally gasped. I've done that before while writing essays because I wanted to see if I could veiw how other people see me a bit more realistically lol
Thank you so much for including Neighbourliness. I think niceness is the the most important quality in being a lady. There is no point in being polished if you are mean.
True. I work with a woman who is very polished but very unpleasant to deal with. Her polished look disappears as her snobby attitude overshadows her pretty appearance.
I love that you can have a channel like this without putting down women who are less feminine or graceful. I think it's nice to appreciate every style of person while still following your own style
Thank you for that last part about safety so few people speak on it but it needs to be said. Being too nice to strangers can get yourself hurt or worse. Always be aware of surroundings and off people ladies.
I don't mean to sound dramatic, but your channel is very valuable to me because I don't feel as though I ever learned about these basic skills or topics as a child. Growing up without that kind of role model really makes it difficult to blossom properly. I adore your content. Thank you :)
I wear colored lip balm and do my hair in a nice protective hair style like braids and a bun , when I’m tired after college i wear comfortable and feminine pajama ( search for the vintage pjs ) , when i feel good i will wear something more cute like a dress or a cute t-shirt and comfortable pants , a simple style that i will be confident wearing it out and change it before bed for something suitable for sleeping like a loungewear /nightgown
After getting married, I stayed at home for three years before returning to school to follow my own dreams; next year, I will start a PhD! I’m usually the most feminine-presenting woman in any given room. It’s taken me a while to own it! On another note, I just love that you’re a woman who knows what she wants and does it. I learned that staying home full time isn’t fully for me, but I still adore homemaking in my free time. You have a beautiful way about you, sweet sister! Thank you for sharing your lovely life. 💕✨
I like what you said about having the confidence to say no and trusting your instincts. Those are two things I need to work on. I notice that I have great intuition and find myself disappointed when I ignore them. I applied the shoulder trick as I washed dishes and listened to this video. Thank you for sharing these with us. I appreciate them and have learned a lot.
Something that really helped me with posture was to purchase a posture corrector off Amazon. It was under 20$ and wearing it for 20 minutes a day made a huge difference!
i sometimes wear a Renaissance bodice so I dont slouch . works as well, it has the wrong silhouette for everyday wear out and about. what brand did you get ? i'm overwhelmed by the variatey
I’m so grateful for these videos! I am trying to teach my daughters about the importance of being feminine and living that role in which God created us woman to fulfill. What you share is immensely helpful in conveying that information to my daughters. May God continue to Bless you and use you for His Glory! ❤️
I must say, I feel like you're the definition of femininity. It's very motivating to have someone as feminine as you explaining how femininity is more of a skill rather than a natural "talent". Thanks so much for this video, definitely subscribing. Have a great day🌻
Hi! I just wanted to say that another great way to be lady like is through person-first language. For example, you would say “person with disabilities” instead of “disabled person”. This shows that a person has a disability, but the disability does not have a person. Thank you!!
As someone who is autistic, I and the majority of the disabled community tend to prefer “disabled person” as opposed to person-first language. Our disabilities are a part of who we are, and there are times when society uses person-first language to deny this.
I love how you bring up being safe when it comes to being out at night. We shouldn't put ourselves in dangerous situations for the sake of fitting in, especially when it can lead to a lose of virtue and putting yourself in an occasion of sin.
Your not only teaching us how to live high class but also you are teaching us to be aware around what ever is happening around be aware attitude ... you are beautiful within and very caring ... I believe all young girls should watch this video .. thank you 😊
I think she might be an Aries, in one of her other videos I believe she mentioned her bday is around the beginning of April. Might be wrong😅 She did say she doesn't believe in astrology and what not. She also thinks her enneagram is a 4 if you're interested in that too :) Also, I realize this comment is a year old, but I just found her tonight and have been binge watching her like crazy! Cheers!
I've started watching your videos only this morning, but I must say you give off such a beautiful friendly and positive vibe that it's a pleasure to spend my time with you 🥰 I can really feel the Lord within you when you speak!
I am so thankful for you! Please do not stop! Not everyone will support you, but me and others NEED you. I am several years away from children, but I would LOVE to save your videos for them. Please don't let the naysayers bring you down. You are needed! All the hugs!
Just found out about your channel and i just want to thank you for these kind of videos! No one really taught me how to groom myself and act like a lady since i grew up with my father and my 2 sisters aren't into these kind of things. Hence, growing up i've been bullied for my bad posture and unpolished look. But now i have improved i guess. I started wearing makeup and took care of my posture and people said that i was blooming and it really gave me a lot of confidence!
When sitting down, instead of looking at the chair or sofa directly, one may back up slightly until the seat touches one's calves, then sit down. This is especially useful during interviews or more formal events.
I've been binging your videos lately, and you read my mind on this one! Thank you so much for your thoughtful content, positive attitude, and contagious smile!
God! I love your videos so much! While the world tells us to be a go getter and be a Daredevil, I find every video of yours a breath of fresh air! I feel so much joy watching you reaffirm the innate traits in each and every woman, in her own unique way. Loving our femininity is something each girl needs to be taught early in life. You're doing such great work for a whole new generation, and next ones to come. Love. 😍💖🤗
That’s very thoughtful of you to consider the possible concerns of women with different body types. I have a large chest that often makes me feel less than elegant.
I'm a man Mrs. Midwest who appreciates this insight. I find your advice interesting because of the similarities (such as how to show and / or improve your self - worth, confidence, with your posture, etc.) & contrasts (such as how to sit) - depending of course, on the context - be it, masculine or feminine - or both. So, some things you spoke about I take for granted & others could always improve - if I'm not already conscious of & mastered those things that are shared with the feminine (mentioned above) & being a man, or masculine.
Forgot to say hello from Plano, Texas (suburb of Dallas, central southern USA) I also noticed ladylike behavior is wise to NOT follow The Four Rules Of Stupid (because women, children & the elderly are part of a vulnerable population - NOTE: That's NOT meant to be a negative - it's just one of the facts of life) 4 Rules Of Stupid are - Going to stupid places - at stupid times - with stupid people - doing stupid things. Thank you so much for your input, or insight.
Can you please make a video on how upper school girls tend to be influenced with peers. Influence, it’s a huge one until we are much older not caring how others perceive us. And this is how we get caught up in trendy clothes and doing what everyone else is doing because we want to blend in.
Oh how nice to hear somebody saying things I resonate a lot with. I myself often like girly and slightly sexy look, because it suites me and flatters me, but more important than clothing is the posture, walking, talking, behaviour and energy if you want to feel and be treated like a lady.
You look angelic!😍 I love your tips, they're great for someone looking for great advice and a wonderful role model in this era! There is so much beauty in elegance!
I wish someone had made these type of videos like 10-9 years ago...Thank you so much for making such wonderful videos because in some families and also in school they don't teach these basic, somewhat complicated Etiquettes :)
This is a little bit off topic but I really like your way of speaking, it’s very clear and linear. Watching your videos helped me sooo much with learning english. Great video ad always 💞thanks for the tips!
Thank you, Caitlin, you are such an inspiration, I like watching your videos during my morning routine, thanks to that I have motivation to wake up earlier and put some effort. Greetings from Poland
Great advice. I am 62 and appreciate the references to privacy, courtesy, consideration, how to treat others, proper conduct and formal issues,etc.. Long lost.Life is way too informal and lax these days. Many young people have never heard of these niceties of life.Sure helps to hear from you, such a beautiful lady yourself inside and out!
Having grace is very noticeable by both men and women. Many women do not possess these attributes in today's world. So when you have these mannerisms, it stands out from the majority of others. Don't confuse snobbiness with being ladylike. A lady is sincere, caring and loving/friendly unlike fake snobs. Thank you Caitlin for making these videos on a topic much needed.😊👍
This is the best advice to give a woman who actually wants to attract a grown man who lives by his ethics and is financially stable. You will be the 1 in 100. In 2019 So many American woman are crass and brag about behaving terribly....You are a treat to watch. Keep up the awesome work you’re doing, the men in this Country are rooting for you 👍👍👍
Yayy just what I needed to hear! I’m going back to school next week and I definitely want to have improved posture so I can start the school year with a confident start💗
Hello, it has been a delight to my inner self to have found your channel. My goodness, I am excited to view a lovely young woman who believes in being a lady, at all times and in all things, as I do. My mother and my grandmother’s and my Aunts, and my sister’s and I, were and are ladies. We live in a rather raunchy and degrading world, and so many women today, have thrown out ladylike traits and qualities, and could care a less, right? And yet, there are thousands of women who enjoy their rolls as ladies and carrying ourselves with grace and loveliness. Thank you very much for your content, and I plan on binge watching your videos.
Caitlin, I have been watching your videos for awhile and truly appreciate them. I enjoy the propounding dedication you put into these videos as you reach out to the feminine family.
I've been lead by God to you. You help me own my feminitiy, after my abusive past it's hard to embrace your beauty. Thank you so much! God bless P.s been watching your first video! So happy for you and your progress!!
Gotta take notes! I've always struggled with my posture because Im still on crutches but the second I take them off for good inshallah I'll start working on that ladylike posture Currently I have to somehow overcome my laziness and my natural passive aggressive moments to be ladylike
I love your videos, you are such a positive influence. I'm glad I came across your channel. 2020 is going to be about being the best version of myself possible and your channel will help. I hope there will be more youtubers like you. Thank you 💕
I think that it would be soo great if you have your own podcast, you voice is soo calm, and I love it , and your always talking about soo intersting subjects. Love you .
History has so much masculine influence that unfortunately there is a lack of feminine influence. Femininity has been indirectly oppressed. It’s refreshing and a beacon of hope to see your channel having such a positive and helpful education of femininity being taught. I like that some of these are good tips for men to keep in mind as well. Let’s send our love toward Caitlyn 🙌🏼
Caitlyn, Such a beauty! Thank you for this video! Posture... that is were I have to keep telling my-self.. over and over... Don’t slouch... I love all your videos. You are lovely and sweet and beautiful! God bless you and your hubby as he protects your community. Love you, Sister!
I feel like I'm doing online princess training haha
U spoke my mind
@@Priyankashinde293 me too:D
ikr. I'm not really a feminine person in fact I'm actually prefer boy's clothing. But I'm just want to watch this video hahahaha
Same! I feel like I'm living The Princess Diaries lol
U should
Caitlin uploads? Drops everything (gracefully), runs to youtube (elegantly) and takes notes (always!) ❤️
Caty Culp 😂
Hahah I love this
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*bubbles gracefully blushing meme*
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It feels like etiquette is a lost art 😭 Thank you for these videos.
In this day and age it really has become lost. The do whatever you please, feel, and thinking only of yourself mentality is rampant currently.
Britt Tee Exactly!
I hope etiquette returns as we increase in numbers. I miss decorum and manners especially in public from younger people. I talk about adjusting one's crotch, spitting, cursing, shouting or wearing dirty, smelly clothing in crowded spaces.
Femininity is a futile social construct according to women of nowadays.
@@julijakeit i can picture that everywhere and its not a good picture.
Honestly, the hardest part of being a woman is it feels like the world doesn't want me to be one. Thank you for helping me feel free, happy, and safe, in my femininity. God bless you.
The Angel yes and especially when you notice other girls glaring at you as if it’s a sin to look feminine. I’m scared people will mock me for and saying stuff like I’m dressed like a girly kid
You just put my feelings into words! I also feel bad for being "the feminine one" in those situations, and I feel bad for all the attention I get for actually good looks. So I've spent years and years trying to look average or rather "worse", so no girls/woman would feel angry about me being more feminine and no boys/men would feel like desiring me, especially physically. It's easier when nobody notices you. These videos like hers give me confidence to be who I am! No more breast hiding posture, more cute dresses in summer, here I am.
@@WarriorOfStateOfMind it's amazingly horrifying seeing that are women who put other women down for literally anything. I've always have noticed the attention that I attract from other woman because the way I look and carry myself. I'm 5'9, I have ridiculous long legs and long neck and because my regular outfits are elegant/formal (I work in an office, gracious God) thrust me I drag a lot of attention in a ridiculous manner.
@@brendonsforehead4961 I feel you
Ugh yes especially some other women which is sad
I’m a female in the military and being around men constantly for the last four years has really made me lose my femininity. It’s really nice to watch your channel as a reminder of how to act ladylike!
Callie I feel the same way. I just finished AIT and I feel like I forgot what it felt like to take care of myself.
Thank you for your service. I will always remember the most important think is being true to your self not how you look x
respect! love you and admire you sis. God loves you
are we sending women to military to fight wars. my grandfather would turn in grave after hearing this.
Idk I’m female in the military and we still find ways to be lady like and pamper ourselves when we are serving. Not to mention we still have times where we can dress in civilians at which time we can be as traditional and feminine as we want. We were making ladies pamper nights, doing natural make up routines, haircut nights, mani pedi nights, etc. even on deployment. It must not always be the case to be able to find other feminine females in your unit. It might matter the MOS too. I’m a medic which traditionally was one of the first jobs for females in the military (see hero nurse Clara Barton). There were lots of very feminine women in my AIT and in the medic sections of the units I was attached to. But many of us are very proud to be both feminine and heroines.
"a lady is not lazy and sloppy"
I feel attacked
Same.
I prefer your channel because you come off very humble and you don’t sound like you are speaking down on anyone. I wish I had a mom like you that could had taught me all of this. I have to change my wardrobe. Also you are very beautiful.
Jo thank you for this sweet encouragement!! This really means a lot. It’s so important for us to recognize that we are all at different stages and places in life. You are so sweet and thank you for taking the time to bless me today. Xoxo
As told by jo emabrace the feminine energy believe me! You will benefit from it greatly!
Me too. This will help so many girls, I know it would have when I was young.
I just wanted to recommend a channel “dearly bethany” if you are investing in your wardrobe watching her beforehand can be really helpful!! Of course being comfortable and confident in your clothes is the most important thing but taking some of her advices and adding neutral colors to my wardrobe has made dressing up so much easier for me so I recommend:))
Same! My mom didn't teach me anything and was incredibly neglectful. I wish I had someone to each me these things when I was young, but here I am in my 30s trying to correct my awful posture, learn social skills and how to be lady like. It's never too late to learn :)
Thank you for talking about common courtesy things such as standing up for the elderly or helping people with a stroller etc. It often shocks me how inconsiderate people are
Right? This is so important in this society. xo
Seriously! Also it's polite to hold the door open into a store if there's someone walking close behind you.
About loving your seat... Someone can have an invisible disability and being looked down is just... Awful. Some won't even dare to ask for their seat (that they more than need !) because they are afraid of being looked down upon (or have to justify themselves, a thing they maybe don't want do to, which is normal. Plus the justification is rarely listened to if the disability is really not visible). So... I mean of course some are perfectly able and just lazy and/or inconsiderate and that should not be normal. But you never know... Maybe the person have a disability (and she does not want to scream it in public and/or be looked down).
I feel like femininity is under attack today. I love your videos because they create a digital space where I can truly be comfortable with being feminine and where I can work on resetting the effects of the societal narrative that women are only strong if they act like men. I truly thank God that you are able to reach myself and so many other women!
femininity is under attack by feminists. men love feminine women.
Femininity is weakness so i don't like it
@@rose-yeah how is it a weakness
you can be feminine and still save yourself
@@urdadsonic1036 dont bother with that misogynist
true feminism means that we should have the choice to embrace our femininity without being criticised
I feel like you've gotten so much more confident with your narration in these videos! You have always been poised, but I think you seem increasingly secure in your message and speaking.
thank you for the feedback! I hope to improve my presentation more and more! :)
This is gonna be weird to say, but ever since I found your channel my outlook on life has changed. I've been so happy and productive, living in a way that truly makes me feel good. Thank you 💕
Ps I found a breadmaker while thrifting for $7 today! Im so excited~
This made my day! I am so happy you are living in a way that is bringing more productivity and positivity! It will make the harder times much more bearable. 😘
Sending you love and congratulations on finding the bread-maker! Thrifted bread-makers are the white whale of second hand shopping 🤣😊
This is such a warm comment🧸❤
1. way you carry your body, your posture. imagine you have wings and keep them up. string from your crown pulling you upward.
2. keep your knees together while sitting.
3. give your seat up for elders
4. keep your hygien private dont scratch pluck or play with your hair in public. breath smell fresh, keep your jewellery clean.
5. being a good neighbour
Thanks a lot! 🙏
“It’s more about the way you carry yourself rather than what you look like”
I felt that , so true and full of wisdom as always 😌❤️
I love how you balanced being a good citizen with paying attention to self protection instincts. Thank you!!!! Women too often put other people's feelings/misguided sense of politeness ahead of their own safety with devastating consequences
On this topic, I HIGHLY recommend the book “The Gift of Fear” by Gavin Debecker. It touches on exactly what you’ve mentioned. xx
I’ve noticed you really suit pink lipstick x
I'd love to see her with a barbie pink lipstick. Looks great with her coloring.
She looks like aurora
THANK YOU for addressing not getting drunk around strangers, not going out alone in the evenings unnecessarily, not being overly trusting, and never driving drunk. Our safety and returning home to our loved ones is so important, yet it is all to common for women to put themselves in these kinds of situations in this day and age. Lovely video! ❤ Can you do a video on how to be feminine in the workplace please?
When she said "record yourself doing something" I literally gasped. I've done that before while writing essays because I wanted to see if I could veiw how other people see me a bit more realistically lol
Whoa I'm abt to write rn I'm gonna do this lol
Thank you so much for including Neighbourliness. I think niceness is the the most important quality in being a lady. There is no point in being polished if you are mean.
Yes to being a good neighbor! The neighbor above me throws his finished cigarette onto my porch from his balcony. Zero class!
True. I work with a woman who is very polished but very unpleasant to deal with. Her polished look disappears as her snobby attitude overshadows her pretty appearance.
I love that you can have a channel like this without putting down women who are less feminine or graceful. I think it's nice to appreciate every style of person while still following your own style
My 6 and 8 year old daughters enjoy listening to you! I'm grateful for your sweet influence on RUclips. ❤
Thank you for that last part about safety so few people speak on it but it needs to be said. Being too nice to strangers can get yourself hurt or worse. Always be aware of surroundings and off people ladies.
I can’t wait for the day that Caitlin writes a book about being ladylike!!
I don't mean to sound dramatic, but your channel is very valuable to me because I don't feel as though I ever learned about these basic skills or topics as a child. Growing up without that kind of role model really makes it difficult to blossom properly. I adore your content. Thank you :)
What does a lady wear around the house? I'm always curious what I should wear when I'm just staying home all day
Same!
Oh my was asking myself the same question today.
I like a jersey shirtwaist dress.
Shiloh Morris a causal put together. Not sweat pants or baggy tee but you know pants or nice top. You still feel comfortable but still look nice
I wear colored lip balm and do my hair in a nice protective hair style like braids and a bun , when I’m tired after college i wear comfortable and feminine pajama ( search for the vintage pjs ) , when i feel good i will wear something more cute like a dress or a cute t-shirt and comfortable pants , a simple style that i will be confident wearing it out and change it before bed for something suitable for sleeping like a loungewear /nightgown
After getting married, I stayed at home for three years before returning to school to follow my own dreams; next year, I will start a PhD! I’m usually the most feminine-presenting woman in any given room. It’s taken me a while to own it!
On another note, I just love that you’re a woman who knows what she wants and does it. I learned that staying home full time isn’t fully for me, but I still adore homemaking in my free time. You have a beautiful way about you, sweet sister! Thank you for sharing your lovely life. 💕✨
The Gentle Reminder best wishes on your PhD!!!!!
I love that you say not to be ashamed of our feminine forms. As someone with a slightly larger chest, thank you!
I noticed my posture changed after my second baby and my chest is now heavier than ever. This video is a good reminder I need to work on this.
Always so classy, much respect.
I like what you said about having the confidence to say no and trusting your instincts. Those are two things I need to work on. I notice that I have great intuition and find myself disappointed when I ignore them. I applied the shoulder trick as I washed dishes and listened to this video. Thank you for sharing these with us. I appreciate them and have learned a lot.
Something that really helped me with posture was to purchase a posture corrector off Amazon. It was under 20$ and wearing it for 20 minutes a day made a huge difference!
i sometimes wear a Renaissance bodice so I dont slouch . works as well, it has the wrong silhouette for everyday wear out and about. what brand did you get ? i'm overwhelmed by the variatey
Good posture is by far the biggest sexually appealing physical characteristic. Bad posture is terribly unattractive
You won my heart at " give your sit up to anyone who needs it " ❤
Haha! I have done ballet for 9 years, and it definitely helps with posture! :)
Lifting weights helps too you have to keep proper posture...
Same! Every time I catch myself slouching I'm like oh shit I can hear my teacher yelling
@@sonyag1912 I didn't know this. I just started lifting weights while also doing squats.
I’m so grateful for these videos! I am trying to teach my daughters about the importance of being feminine and living that role in which God created us woman to fulfill. What you share is immensely helpful in conveying that information to my daughters.
May God continue to Bless you and use you for His Glory! ❤️
I must say, I feel like you're the definition of femininity. It's very motivating to have someone as feminine as you explaining how femininity is more of a skill rather than a natural "talent". Thanks so much for this video, definitely subscribing. Have a great day🌻
Hi! I just wanted to say that another great way to be lady like is through person-first language. For example, you would say “person with disabilities” instead of “disabled person”. This shows that a person has a disability, but the disability does not have a person. Thank you!!
A little PC aren't we!
Mary Webb I’m not trying to nit-pick, just trying to be respectful and educate about respect!
@@ThrivingInThirdGrade The way you wrote it, was like you were offended by her not using person- first language.
@@tiryaclearsong421 I tend to disagree!
As someone who is autistic, I and the majority of the disabled community tend to prefer “disabled person” as opposed to person-first language. Our disabilities are a part of who we are, and there are times when society uses person-first language to deny this.
Can you please do a video on how to be elegant as a teenager and tips on going through that part of life
A lady is confident enough to say no. So key!!
I love how you bring up being safe when it comes to being out at night. We shouldn't put ourselves in dangerous situations for the sake of fitting in, especially when it can lead to a lose of virtue and putting yourself in an occasion of sin.
I want to be a house wife and I love being feminine. This channel supports and encourages my heart's desire. So blessed.
I'm proud of you honestly and wish you were my older sister 😭 thank you so much for the valuable information ❤️
I don’t have a little sister, so I’m happy that you feel this way. Sending you love my dear!! 😘🥰🥰
@@MrsMidwest I'll value your advices and will always learn from you ❤️ may God continue to bless and love you
Your not only teaching us how to live high class but also you are teaching us to be aware around what ever is happening around be aware attitude ... you are beautiful within and very caring ... I believe all young girls should watch this video .. thank you 😊
I am in my journey to be more feminine. I really loved this video. I know it will help me. Thank you so much for educating us
I LOVE YOUR VIDS! Just have to say how refreshing it is to see a beautiful conservative lady on RUclips. From one LEO wife to another, God bless!
Is she leo??
Tanushree Sharma her husband is a law enforcement officer 👮🏽♀️👍🏻 so is mine
I think she might be an Aries, in one of her other videos I believe she mentioned her bday is around the beginning of April. Might be wrong😅 She did say she doesn't believe in astrology and what not. She also thinks her enneagram is a 4 if you're interested in that too :) Also, I realize this comment is a year old, but I just found her tonight and have been binge watching her like crazy! Cheers!
I've started watching your videos only this morning, but I must say you give off such a beautiful friendly and positive vibe that it's a pleasure to spend my time with you 🥰 I can really feel the Lord within you when you speak!
I am so thankful for you! Please do not stop! Not everyone will support you, but me and others NEED you. I am several years away from children, but I would LOVE to save your videos for them. Please don't let the naysayers bring you down. You are needed! All the hugs!
Just found out about your channel and i just want to thank you for these kind of videos! No one really taught me how to groom myself and act like a lady since i grew up with my father and my 2 sisters aren't into these kind of things.
Hence, growing up i've been bullied for my bad posture and unpolished look. But now i have improved i guess. I started wearing makeup and took care of my posture and people said that i was blooming and it really gave me a lot of confidence!
When sitting down, instead of looking at the chair or sofa directly, one may back up slightly until the seat touches one's calves, then sit down. This is especially useful during interviews or more formal events.
I LOVE your sweater top!!! Where did you find such a wardrobe gem?
I've been binging your videos lately, and you read my mind on this one! Thank you so much for your thoughtful content, positive attitude, and contagious smile!
it's very encouraging to listen to you about these tips and put them into practice. You don't make them appear as a burden, thank you
God! I love your videos so much! While the world tells us to be a go getter and be a Daredevil, I find every video of yours a breath of fresh air! I feel so much joy watching you reaffirm the innate traits in each and every woman, in her own unique way. Loving our femininity is something each girl needs to be taught early in life. You're doing such great work for a whole new generation, and next ones to come. Love. 😍💖🤗
That’s very thoughtful of you to consider the possible concerns of women with different body types. I have a large chest that often makes me feel less than elegant.
Can you do a video talking about how to respond to guys saying gross things to you or unwanted attention with grace?
God bless you for emphasizing good and considerate treatment toward everyone you interact with!
I'm a man Mrs. Midwest who appreciates this insight. I find your advice interesting because of the similarities (such as how to show and / or improve your self - worth, confidence, with your posture, etc.) & contrasts (such as how to sit) - depending of course, on the context - be it, masculine or feminine - or both. So, some things you spoke about I take for granted & others could always improve - if I'm not already conscious of & mastered those things that are shared with the feminine (mentioned above) & being a man, or masculine.
Forgot to say hello from Plano, Texas (suburb of Dallas, central southern USA) I also noticed ladylike behavior is wise to NOT follow The Four Rules Of Stupid (because women, children & the elderly are part of a vulnerable population - NOTE: That's NOT meant to be a negative - it's just one of the facts of life) 4 Rules Of Stupid are - Going to stupid places - at stupid times - with stupid people - doing stupid things. Thank you so much for your input, or insight.
Also, your eyebrows have been looking even more incredible!
I've never been more dainty and girly 🌺🌺🌺
Restarting my femininity journey, this video is one of my top favourites
Thank you for the 22nd birthday gift! I pray this will be a very lady-like year lol
I'm 22 today too! God bless you birthday sister~
Happy birthday Ashley and Rae! I hope you both enjoy the sunshine and feel extra loved today! Xoxo 🥳
I turned 22 yesterday as well😊😊😊
You're amazing. I went into these videos thinking that a lot of your advice would be superficial, but I was so wrong. Subscribed!
Can you please make a video on how upper school girls tend to be influenced with peers. Influence, it’s a huge one until we are much older not caring how others perceive us. And this is how we get caught up in trendy clothes and doing what everyone else is doing because we want to blend in.
Omg you have no idea how excited I get when you post a new video!!!! 😭😍😍😍
Oh how nice to hear somebody saying things I resonate a lot with. I myself often like girly and slightly sexy look, because it suites me and flatters me, but more important than clothing is the posture, walking, talking, behaviour and energy if you want to feel and be treated like a lady.
You look angelic!😍 I love your tips, they're great for someone looking for great advice and a wonderful role model in this era! There is so much beauty in elegance!
I wish someone had made these type of videos like 10-9 years ago...Thank you so much for making such wonderful videos because in some families and also in school they don't teach these basic, somewhat complicated Etiquettes :)
You literally look like an angel . Thank you for this video 🧡🧡
This is a little bit off topic but I really like your way of speaking, it’s very clear and linear. Watching your videos helped me sooo much with learning english. Great video ad always 💞thanks for the tips!
Thank you caitlyn.. You have no idea how much better my life has become because of u..
Thank you, Caitlin, you are such an inspiration, I like watching your videos during my morning routine, thanks to that I have motivation to wake up earlier and put some effort. Greetings from Poland
I love how she speaks. ♡ She's teaching us how to be princesses & queens !
Great advice. I am 62 and appreciate the references to privacy, courtesy, consideration, how to treat others, proper conduct and formal issues,etc.. Long lost.Life is way too informal and lax these days. Many young people have never heard of these niceties of life.Sure helps to hear from you, such a beautiful lady yourself inside and out!
Having grace is very noticeable by both men and women. Many women do not possess these attributes in today's world. So when you have these mannerisms, it stands out from the majority of others. Don't confuse snobbiness with being ladylike. A lady is sincere, caring and loving/friendly unlike fake snobs. Thank you Caitlin for making these videos on a topic much needed.😊👍
I'd love to hear your take on ladylike swimwear! Love your content!!
This is the best advice to give a woman who actually wants to attract a grown man who lives by his ethics and is financially stable. You will be the 1 in 100. In 2019 So many American woman are crass and brag about behaving terribly....You are a treat to watch. Keep up the awesome work you’re doing, the men in this Country are rooting for you 👍👍👍
This particular makeup look is very flattering on you!
I wish the thrift stores in my area had cute outfits like the ones you seem to find! You always look like you are glowing and happy! I love it!
Yayy just what I needed to hear! I’m going back to school next week and I definitely want to have improved posture so I can start the school year with a confident start💗
When I'm at my desk, I have a habit of hunching and its got to stop! Going to the gym has really helped me with my posture, I think :)
Hello, it has been a delight to my inner self to have found your channel. My goodness, I am excited to view a lovely young woman who believes in being a lady, at all times and in all things, as I do. My mother and my grandmother’s and my Aunts, and my sister’s and I, were and are ladies. We live in a rather raunchy and degrading world, and so many women today, have thrown out ladylike traits and qualities, and could care a less, right? And yet, there are thousands of women who enjoy their rolls as ladies and carrying ourselves with grace and loveliness. Thank you very much for your content, and I plan on binge watching your videos.
U r sooo graceful like a princess. U have elegance in your air. U r my inspiration. Thank you
You’re my new role model omg. You’re so stunning
Caitlin, I have been watching your videos for awhile and truly appreciate them. I enjoy the propounding dedication you put into these videos as you reach out to the feminine family.
Thank you for being a blessing to women everywhere 😊
I've been lead by God to you.
You help me own my feminitiy, after my abusive past it's hard to embrace your beauty. Thank you so much! God bless
P.s been watching your first video! So happy for you and your progress!!
Gotta take notes! I've always struggled with my posture because Im still on crutches but the second I take them off for good inshallah I'll start working on that ladylike posture
Currently I have to somehow overcome my laziness and my natural passive aggressive moments to be ladylike
@Zainab Hussein same to you ameen :)
I love your videos, you are such a positive influence. I'm glad I came across your channel. 2020 is going to be about being the best version of myself possible and your channel will help. I hope there will be more youtubers like you. Thank you 💕
This is the video I was waiting for. @Mrs.Midwest delivering some ouch to me today. Need to watch and apply this regularly.
As a man I must say it is a great pleasure watching your videos madam!
haha cao iz bosne!
Your lipstick looks gorgeous, would you mind to share the name and brand. Thank you, love your videos! 💖
yes, please
I think that it would be soo great if you have your own podcast, you voice is soo calm, and I love it , and your always talking about soo intersting subjects. Love you .
i found you from a jaclyn glenn roast but.. your videos are really helpful and you are soo radiant!!
History has so much masculine influence that unfortunately there is a lack of feminine influence. Femininity has been indirectly oppressed.
It’s refreshing and a beacon of hope to see your channel having such a positive and helpful education of femininity being taught.
I like that some of these are good tips for men to keep in mind as well.
Let’s send our love toward Caitlyn 🙌🏼
Oh my goodness thank you so much for this! Such a blessing! God knows my heart! And He's so good to have lead me here!
Yay! I've been waiting for this one!
Kind of flown out the window made me laugh lol 😂 but yes I totally agree
My opinion:
We can be feminine and still stay true and stand our ground
Caitlyn, Such a beauty! Thank you for this video! Posture... that is were I have to keep telling my-self.. over and over... Don’t slouch...
I love all your videos. You are lovely and sweet and beautiful! God bless you and your hubby as he protects your community. Love you, Sister!
💛💛💛💛 the best thing happened this week is discovering this channel 💛💛💛💛
I saw the notification for this video and instantly sat up straight lol! Loved this as always! xoxo
Thank you! I definitely need these tips. It's hard when there's not enough of help from your own mom