Marriage Story: The Most Painful Scene

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @kristenswitzer7745
    @kristenswitzer7745 3 года назад +4443

    I truly think that Adam and Scarlett gave the performances of their careers in this film. It seems so under appreciated by casual audiences. I know the critical acclaim was phenomenal, but this film deserved so much more publicity and advertising than what it received.

    • @ImSimplyAHuman
      @ImSimplyAHuman 3 года назад +26

      They’re acting was so phenomenal!
      Going through a painful divorce definitely made me appreciate this movie (and Blue Valentine). It’s something most won’t understand unless they’ve been through it 💯

    • @l.w.paradis2108
      @l.w.paradis2108 3 года назад +25

      Fell in love with her because of this film. Was never a huge fan before. Now I think she is the best.

    • @thefisherking78
      @thefisherking78 3 года назад +10

      Yeah, I'm literally just now hearing of it

    • @AlexCass1515
      @AlexCass1515 Год назад +3

      Nah seriously it was one of the best scenes I’ve ever watched, yes maybe funny at the start but you leave that scene feeling just depleted and hollow. It was amazing!

    • @NathanaelNaused
      @NathanaelNaused Год назад +16

      Kind of a shame that "real" movies like this can go so underappreciated compared to boring repetitive blockbusters

  • @areebanwar9229
    @areebanwar9229 3 года назад +1971

    This is why I love being alive, to come across new perspectives I’ve never seen

    • @teachmetoqueen
      @teachmetoqueen 3 года назад +33

      Love this comment!!

    • @areebanwar9229
      @areebanwar9229 3 года назад +5

      @@teachmetoqueen thank youuu

    • @JordanahSchroderF
      @JordanahSchroderF 3 года назад +4

      yessss wow! Thanks for that!

    • @preetipawar3053
      @preetipawar3053 3 года назад +5

      Honest comment 💕

    • @hnormizzle
      @hnormizzle 3 года назад +34

      As someone who is struggling with the “alive” part of life, this comment gave me something to think about. Thank you.

  • @aoutsky
    @aoutsky 3 года назад +6015

    Laura Dern didn't win that Academy Award for nothing. She was phenomenal in this movie. She shines despite Scarlett Johanssen and Adam Driver having such a strong roles.

    • @paohaus6482
      @paohaus6482 3 года назад +148

      Laura Dern its simply an amazing actress. She can play the sweetest woman on earth and then THAT lawyer haha

    • @pfv1247
      @pfv1247 3 года назад +48

      Yes. I thought Ray Liotta was equally brilliant.

    • @jedichild6815
      @jedichild6815 3 года назад +22

      Laura Dern in HBO’s Big Little Lies was on fire. Outrageous. The first season she was a little unlikable, but a good actress. In the second season, though they really brought her full blown personality out and she rocked that show better than anyone on that great cast. Superb cast of women and Exquisite filming and directing.

    • @sophrosynemind
      @sophrosynemind 3 года назад +15

      Agreed. This reviewer has misinterpreted the Lawyer... she is just an empathetic person, responding to Nicole's need to be heard and validated ... something she has never had before. Of course you missed that. Grow up a little to understand that strong women don't always turn into money sharks like their male counterparts. LAURA IS THE FIRST PERSON WHO PROVIDES NICOLE WITH A SAFE SPACE TO OPEN UP. DON'T PROFILE HER AS THE RICH MEAN BITCH JUST COZ YOU MISTRUST SUCCESSFUL WOMEN.

    • @nazarboghosian
      @nazarboghosian 3 года назад +25

      @@sophrosynemind I don’t think she was supposed to b empathetic in that movie. They showed her then they showed her male counterpart (the guy that ended up representing the father in court) to show that they’re basically the same person. They both called the others spouse a dick or a bitch even tho that’s not what the spouses wanted n that shows how they drove the divorce. They were one of the main reasons that the divorce turned bitter. The husband tried to find a lawyer w humanity but it was too late for that. N at the end the woman lawyer for the 55 45 w out her clients permission n that shows that she doesn’t care bout her client she only cares bout doing her job rly well (same goes for the male client)

  • @iwolf6645
    @iwolf6645 3 года назад +1263

    this is an excellent breakdown. I have said multiple times that Marriage Story is the best movie I've ever seen that I will never watch again. It is one of the most realistic and heart wrenching movies ever made.

    • @LibbyHam
      @LibbyHam 3 года назад +43

      It really is - for someone happily married fir the first time, I found this realistic, heartbreaking and pretty terrifying as I was able to imagine myself divorcing - not because it’s on the cards, but because I 100% related to the characters. Pretty much the definition of filmmaking genius.

    • @Lucyintheskywithdiamonds140
      @Lucyintheskywithdiamonds140 3 года назад +20

      Yes! I agree. Even for a single women, who has never been married. This movie somehow felt so honoust, relatable and real.

    • @tiffanypersaud3518
      @tiffanypersaud3518 3 года назад +8

      You describe how I feel about it, on point.

    • @angelica8000
      @angelica8000 3 года назад +8

      Omg yes! One of my favorite movies but I can't watch it again because I felt so bad for the characters I can't put myself through that one more time

    • @PhoenixRenata
      @PhoenixRenata 3 года назад +5

      Most heart wrenching movie ever made? Umm. Wealthy White privileged people divorcing is not even close to heart wrenching considering the many movies made of oppression, racism, slavery, poverty, child molestation, Sex trafficking etc… SO many more powerful movies way way more heart wrenching than this film.

  • @easywhitechocolate
    @easywhitechocolate 3 года назад +1184

    2:54 This point is so important not only for Nicole, the character, but also Scarlett, the actress. She's tried for so many years to be seen as more than her looks that I can imagine it's why she never wears makeup or does her hair in this movie. I can't imagine how frustrating it was for her to be taken seriously. She was phenomenal in this movie.

    • @yaeledmonds5158
      @yaeledmonds5158 3 года назад +59

      And in Her. She's just a voice, no visuals of her at all, and she's brilliant!

    • @easywhitechocolate
      @easywhitechocolate 3 года назад +4

      @@yaeledmonds5158 absolutely!

    • @AdrianQuark
      @AdrianQuark 3 года назад +35

      Never wears makeup or does her hair? She's wearing a natural look but that's not the same as no makeup, and her hair is consistently well styled. Even Scarlett Johansson doesn't roll out of bed looking like this.

    • @easywhitechocolate
      @easywhitechocolate 3 года назад +17

      @@AdrianQuark I meant in this particular scene. She's obviously not wearing any make-up and her hair is not styled lol it's just... there.

    • @nadiamccall4311
      @nadiamccall4311 Год назад +11

      This makes no sense, she specifically got a nose job IN ORDER TO GET PRETTY GIRL roles. Gotta love when people project their own beliefs or fall for some party line they read in an interview. She was kind of plain as a child and prettied herself up bc Hollywood demands that of leading ladies, agents tell them to change this and that if they want to get that role. How ridiculous.

  • @jedichild6815
    @jedichild6815 3 года назад +2601

    I love your articulate and artistic focus on the female manipulation of another female. Female manipulation has had a higher success rate, strangely enough, on me than males. Male manipulation is way easier to pick up on, where female manipulation involves emotions and empathy. I’m fine now and love the males and females in my life now, tho 💗

    • @_Anna_Nass_
      @_Anna_Nass_ 3 года назад +35

      You are absolutely right about that

    • @peacelove4215
      @peacelove4215 3 года назад +27

      Unfortunately I know exactly wat u mean thankfully all my relationships are getting beta aswell.
      Peace

    • @welovemusic8542
      @welovemusic8542 3 года назад +11

      Trust nobody 😀

    • @inmytravelstoday
      @inmytravelstoday 3 года назад +7

      The males and females? What do you mean? These words are adjectives.

    • @jedichild6815
      @jedichild6815 3 года назад +24

      @@inmytravelstoday Female can be used as an adjective or a noun. As an adjective it can be used to describe something like a female cat or a female (anything else). It’s also a noun. A female is the same as a woman or a girl. Or at least that’s how it’s been my entire life, according to the dictionary and within English literature going back for centuries.

  • @joyousval
    @joyousval 3 года назад +5095

    So I watch ALOT of video essays, and after watching all 3 of the video essays you have produced I would say you are one of the most brilliant video essayists I’ve ever had the pleasure of watching. Awesome content, can’t wait to see what else you create :)

    • @marcustranfilm
      @marcustranfilm  3 года назад +112

      Thank you so much! I can't wait either

    • @pensieriduri2752
      @pensieriduri2752 3 года назад +2

      Could you please recommend me some great video essay yt channels? I have already watched all videos made by my favourite ones 😮‍💨

    • @joyousval
      @joyousval 3 года назад +16

      @@pensieriduri2752 ruclips.net/p/PL7StX5jAOhfeJ18hxDBW4lbkDbW1tvzc7 this is my video essay playlist :)

    • @annaphora4070
      @annaphora4070 3 года назад +1

      i second this!!

    • @pensieriduri2752
      @pensieriduri2752 3 года назад +3

      @@joyousval thank you!❤️

  • @ZoraTheberge
    @ZoraTheberge 3 года назад +200

    The costume design here is brilliant. The shoes alone are minimum $600. Anyone who knows the brand, Louboutin, would know they’re expensive and uncomfortable. And they’re not just black or nude, which would be more subtle; They’re scarlet red. The costume designer, and by proxy, Laura Dern’s character, wants us to notice the shoes. In any red carpet even, those shoes are high end and impractical. The fact that she describes her outfit as “shleppy” tells us all we need to know.

  • @TriloqElder
    @TriloqElder 3 года назад +994

    Wow. As someone who considers themselves both a film-lover and a writer, I tend to focus so much on the script that I often overlook the directing, editing, and cinematography. Your essays are eye-opening. Please keep up the good work!

    • @sarahewson3607
      @sarahewson3607 3 года назад +12

      One thing that really caught my attention with this movie was the movement/blocking. Most notable is the scene where Scarlett Johannessen meets Laura Dern in her office. I saw somewhere that it was set to look like an onstage play and that’s exactly what comes through in that scene. I don’t normally catch things like that, but this was so unique.

    • @zah2067
      @zah2067 3 года назад +6

      As an aspiring filmmaker, I find that I most often pay attention to the directing. Awesome scripts really are essential but I think without good directing, even the best script cannot pull off a great movie.

    • @lowlowseesee
      @lowlowseesee 10 месяцев назад

      you guys will also love Every Frame a Painting, Filmento and Studiobinder

  • @lucindabreeding
    @lucindabreeding 3 года назад +623

    Tangent: Attorneys bill in six-minute increments. Cry at your therapist's office. Bring your impeccably organized documents and legal questions to your attorney's office.

    • @calisongbird
      @calisongbird 3 года назад +10

      Yuuuuuup!!

    • @kristianashe3451
      @kristianashe3451 3 года назад +10

      Thank you. Doing the Lord's work ;)

    • @ImSimplyAHuman
      @ImSimplyAHuman 3 года назад +24

      Yes! And many attorneys are narcissists. Don’t throw your pearls before manipulative swine.. keep it brief and facts only. Save feelings for a great therapist 👌🏼

    • @morganellabean
      @morganellabean 9 месяцев назад +8

      Attorneys are also relentlessly hounded to maximize billable hours so they're more than happy to let you cry it out in their office.

    • @AJP-j8c
      @AJP-j8c 9 месяцев назад +6

      @@ImSimplyAHuman they are not narcissists, to use the buzzword of 2023, but they are lawyers. You want an attack dog and a smart wine at that. One with a Machiavellian playbook.

  • @marymeola2810
    @marymeola2810 Год назад +656

    Having been divorced when my kids were little was painful. Watching this film brought it all back 30 years later. The lawyers destroyed my relationship with my ex husband. Before the lawyers, we were doing really well with the transition.

    • @adrianlemus2768
      @adrianlemus2768 Год назад +75

      It’s wild how your ideas and memories can be twisted by somebody else so horribly when it comes to them enriching themselves.

    • @m.935
      @m.935 Год назад +48

      Lawyers didn't do it, you or your ex husband did it by saying yes to whatever lawyers advised you.

    • @m.935
      @m.935 Год назад +3

      ​@@adrianlemus2768 It is a betrayal on top of a betrayal. It is not about someone else enriching themselves.

    • @krystalgardiner5591
      @krystalgardiner5591 Год назад +13

      Yup I got divorced when I was young and we both agreed no lawyers, well he went behind my back and hired one. My son suffered bc of court orders. Sad.

    • @caremell
      @caremell Год назад +1

      @@m.935 they over do it so that they dont remember why they said yes to be together forever to each other.no money for a divorce lawyer if they continue to be happily ever after.

  • @aussiegirl62113
    @aussiegirl62113 Год назад +66

    I cry every time at Adam reading that letter. Absolutely perfect scene. I love this movie too.

  • @danilogiusti7818
    @danilogiusti7818 3 года назад +361

    This movie was a masterpiece, my wife and I cried a lot.

  • @marlow8478
    @marlow8478 3 года назад +172

    that painting is AMAZING! i’m shocked nobody’s talking about it

    • @TinaCee4
      @TinaCee4 3 года назад

      What is the painting?

    • @marlow8478
      @marlow8478 3 года назад +6

      @@TinaCee4 he shows an oil painting of scarlett johansson in the middle of the vid that he made HIMSELF

    • @lunalongshadow7510
      @lunalongshadow7510 6 месяцев назад

      8:19 in the clip

  • @soledwardzon8091
    @soledwardzon8091 3 года назад +347

    This movie is one of those that seem to get better with each watch. The pain and the laughs while watching is always hard to handle bc it all feels so real! Great great video, love listening to ppl talk about things I love!

  • @originaozz
    @originaozz 3 года назад +767

    It was my top 3 films of that year, but only watched once because of all the emotional heaviness. I only felt that Nora was not entirely sincere, but your breakdown really dives deep in to the methods used. At that state, Nicole just truly wanted someone who took "her side". Even her family members appreciated Charlie and she felt powerless. Nora's manipulation was somewhat wrong, but it did gave Nicole the strengths to regain her power.

    • @W0ndaze
      @W0ndaze 3 года назад +21

      This is how I feel about Fleabag, brilliant, emotional, funny but I could only go through it twice😅

  • @VickieVale367
    @VickieVale367 3 года назад +551

    I’m afraid to watch this movie after being married for 10 years and divorced recently. The pain is still raw. Revolutionary Road gave me a panic attack. Awesome essay tho.

    • @VickieVale367
      @VickieVale367 3 года назад +9

      @Barbara Fernandes Baptista I don’t think I’ll watch it then. I can’t ever watch that show “this is us” without balling my eyes out. 🤣 thank you for helping me not have a nervous break down.

    • @allisonlandesco
      @allisonlandesco 3 года назад +30

      I’m currently in the same boat and I had to fast forward through some of the scenes because it’s was too raw, real, and painful. That’s how you know it’s an incredible movie because it makes you uncomfortable from the realness.

    • @VickieVale367
      @VickieVale367 3 года назад +7

      @@allisonlandesco very true. I’m going to have to wait before I put myself on that emotional rollercoaster.

    • @cristinam3234
      @cristinam3234 3 года назад +11

      Lol I haven’t watched it again after the first time because it’s so upsetting and I’m not even divorced or married! Lol but fr it’s such a great movie!! 😩I recommend watching it.

    • @livinglifeleona
      @livinglifeleona 3 года назад +5

      You could watch Under the Tuscan Sun and hopefully feel better.

  • @princeharryph
    @princeharryph 3 года назад +240

    Wow. This is so insightful. As a Psychology student I can definitely see the social engineering and manipulation, symbolisms. Counseling is really messed up here. These directors are amazing! Haven’t really seen the movie but I’ll definitely watch it soon. Got loads of screenplay vocabs. Awesome review!

    • @RyuThe3rd
      @RyuThe3rd 3 года назад +1

      Bruh the game there is crazy lol

    • @gabetratz2364
      @gabetratz2364 7 месяцев назад

      How is counseling messed up?

  • @FiremanDuval
    @FiremanDuval 3 года назад +1988

    Adam should’ve won the Oscar for this, imo

    • @marcustranfilm
      @marcustranfilm  3 года назад +297

      Such good acting. Both were incredible.

    • @theaudjob3267
      @theaudjob3267 3 года назад +227

      both Adam and Scarlett gave the performances of the year and their careers in this movie

    • @neshwhat702
      @neshwhat702 3 года назад +56

      This is the movie where I fell in love with Adam Driver. 😍

    • @sgrhwl2706
      @sgrhwl2706 3 года назад +4

      Yup ..in parallel universe Joker would hv won ..best actor.

    • @priyachoudhary9896
      @priyachoudhary9896 3 года назад +63

      No offense to phoenix and joker but seriously it wasn't one of his best performance, he was much better in Her, this was Adam driver's time to shine , let's see if he bags it for House of Gucci

  • @ahdel-nosh5901
    @ahdel-nosh5901 11 месяцев назад +36

    This breakdown of the manipulation is so spot on. I can't even count how many times I numbed my judgement or an intuition because of small acts of niceties, especially ones that hit things I desperately needed validation for.

  • @haritayepuri
    @haritayepuri 3 года назад +56

    I want to cry. I’ve always wanted someone to analyze films in this way- simple, in depth and introspective. Mannn you’re my favorite creator now. 😭 I love this outlet you’ve created. Also need to see more of your paintings! Wow.

  • @thecaptain8624
    @thecaptain8624 3 года назад +32

    I had brought this movie up saying how great I thought it was to a group of aspiring actors/ theater students, and they all shot me down saying the movie was cliche and that it was to by the book. Having been a child who witnessed my parents relationship devolve strikingly similar to this movie, I stand by my opinion that this movie is so so good and breaks my heart every time

    • @elijahram97
      @elijahram97 2 года назад +2

      Completely agree. My parents went through that and brought back so many memories.

  • @grandstave8129
    @grandstave8129 3 года назад +38

    Like most I came from a broken home, suicide attempts, emotional abuse, verbal abuse and sometimes physical.
    I witnessed two grown adults destroy themselves, each other, their children and the family.
    It changed my brain forever.
    I watched this and felt that little child all over again.
    Utterly terrifying.
    This movie is a fabulous education tool, for how hurt people hurt people and create the same madness generations over, if self actuality is not present.
    As for the telling end result of exposure to adverse childhood experiences, all children within my family have chosen no children of their own.
    The cycle ends with us, end story.

  • @hallelfridman
    @hallelfridman 3 года назад +29

    It takes talent to analyze a film to such fine detail without it coming off as a disconnected surface-level perspective. You, sir, have earned yourself a subscriber.

  • @cc-gx8hr
    @cc-gx8hr 3 года назад +186

    I hope Laura Dern smiles at her Oscar every day and is proud of what she did 💖💖

  • @HexoNerd
    @HexoNerd 3 года назад +366

    oh my gosh, I saw a completely different scene and character for Nora in this. It is so interesting to see everything she does as manipulation.

    • @Memberberry123
      @Memberberry123 3 года назад +57

      Same! I can see Nora being fully controlled of the situation but doesn’t seem manipulative with the derogatory sense that goes with it. She is there to help Nicole, with much more experience in such situations.

    • @stvanspawn
      @stvanspawn 3 года назад +5

      @@Memberberry123 damn that's a view haha

    • @irarasi4849
      @irarasi4849 3 года назад +9

      @@Memberberry123 Agreed. I disagree with certain points made by the reviewer.

    • @amrutagodase8797
      @amrutagodase8797 3 года назад +45

      @@irarasi4849 exactly... I too don't find her to be manipulative... She's one of the best divorce lawyers working for her client... Kind of determined for getting her client what she deserves (even without knowing the full story) and not willing to get emotionally involved. I see her as what she's shown to be.. a ruthless divorce lawyer... I disagree with the entire review of the creator.. I saw it completely different.. that's the beauty of cinema or story telling. Everyone sees it differently.. only director knows what he was trying to convey 😀

    • @charlemagnethegreat2916
      @charlemagnethegreat2916 3 года назад +14

      @@Memberberry123 I kinda agree but the moment when its about the custody time at the final scene thats where I lost it, Nicole just realized Nora was all about winning cases than really sympathy to her

  • @sitcomchristian6886
    @sitcomchristian6886 3 года назад +219

    A Marriage Story: a lesson in preventing denial and avoiding red flags way ahead of time....

    • @Alpha-Andromeda
      @Alpha-Andromeda 3 года назад +4

      Oh so that’s where you’re getting your lessons from, Hollywood! No wonder at the dire state of your life development …

    • @purplebubblegum4055
      @purplebubblegum4055 3 года назад +35

      @@Alpha-Andromeda oh just calm down

    • @TheOMGRamen
      @TheOMGRamen 3 года назад +16

      @@Alpha-Andromeda whoa. Uh the person was just sharing what they think the film was trying to say...Did they even say they base allll of their life decisions on a film? Did they mention hollywood? It seems like you're taking it too personal and too literal.
      Relax....calm down

    • @rychipuff
      @rychipuff 3 года назад +11

      @@Alpha-Andromeda bestie who hurt you

  • @fruzsimih7214
    @fruzsimih7214 Год назад +17

    The way Nora is framed when talking to Nicole (very close and higher up than her) really drives the message home.

  • @itsybitsy999
    @itsybitsy999 3 года назад +84

    The Oscar Expert was talking about your channel today, he didn't remember or state the name of it but your video was recommended to me after watching his Q&A. Great analysis, looking forward to more from you.

  • @1zzyfox
    @1zzyfox 8 месяцев назад +1

    That painting is absolutely incredible

  • @nataliesauer2681
    @nataliesauer2681 3 года назад +623

    this is such a great analysis! i haven't actually gotten around to seeing the movie yet because i'm not a big fan of either of the leads, but you've motivated me to finally watch it. i was surprised by how new your channel is because your videos are such good quality. really looking forward to your future videos! (also your oil painting is amazing good job)

    • @marcustranfilm
      @marcustranfilm  3 года назад +24

      Thank you! And yes the whole movie is great, would highly recommend!

    • @jcrocks6698
      @jcrocks6698 3 года назад +4

      I haven't either. Who wants to see such a depressing movie during COVID?
      But this breakdown is brilliant!

  • @kuresh2958
    @kuresh2958 2 года назад +72

    The painting behind Nora is so interesting. It's of two people watching another visual art-piece and there is a 3rd chair that's empty. I wonder what it truly means but I think it's symbolic of how shrewd & manipulative lawyers like Nora show clients like Nicole an entirely different view of their own marriage modifying each & every detail & making the person feel like their marriage was a sham when really it just needed some work. What if Nicole and Charlie had continued their sessions with the marriage counselor, as shown in the beginning of the film? Maybe their marriage wouldn't reach the point of divorce if they had given it an honest and dedicated chance.

    • @yt-sh
      @yt-sh 10 месяцев назад

      i think it means one person is missing, making them focusing on the loss..
      the 2 could be either parent and a child/lawyer

    • @nicolleargueta
      @nicolleargueta 6 месяцев назад

      At the beginning of the movie they werent with a marriage council, they were with a mediator that was helping them with their separation

    • @Ninibaby1
      @Ninibaby1 6 месяцев назад

      And it wouldn’t have gotten their marriage better because Charlie never ever felt anything was wrong.

  • @SableRain
    @SableRain 3 года назад +97

    It's rare that clicking on a random video suggestion is this rewarding. Liked, commented, subbed and notifications on. 🥰 Now I'm off to binge watch the rest of your videos.

  • @ThinkingMonk000
    @ThinkingMonk000 7 месяцев назад +1

    Though this video is old, just happened to stumble upon it and loved it, tbh. Great breakdown of the whole scene and the way you captured the subtle and clever techniques used in the film, made it stand out even more than what on ordinary viewing of the movie would have achieved. Great work!

  • @julieperez7505
    @julieperez7505 3 года назад +50

    This entire analysis was nothing short of amazing. I watched it and subscribed right away, you have a brilliant mind for this space and you should be so proud of yourself for being able to take such a beautiful art form and being able to transform it into something that can be appreciated 10 fold by normal, non-film viewers around you. Keep up the great work!

  • @alohaXamanda
    @alohaXamanda 3 года назад +156

    It concerns me that I didn't notice that Nora was intentionally manipulating Nicole, and I wonder how much my autism makes me vulnerable to being manipulated in every day life because I can't pick up on social cues that are apparently very obvious to NTs. Even re-watching this I was straining my brain to detect the dishonesty in Nora and I kept coming up with an internal error message because her behavior looked 'just like' someone I would assume to be sincere.

    • @perfectpartnermassage
      @perfectpartnermassage Год назад +14

      I felt the same way and I’m NT (as far as I know lol)… I loved the film and thought Nora was sincere. I never got a hint of manipulation in this scene. (After all, she’s her lawyer? What does she have to gain?)

    • @anitahaibara
      @anitahaibara Год назад +15

      That’s because Nora displays some strong covert narcissistic traits. She’s quite skilled at influencing and playing with people’s emotions for her own gain, but she’s also remarkably good at concealing these traits, even from neurotypicals (which I’m not, by the way; I’m also autistic).
      So, yes, autistic people might find themselves more vulnerable to the influence of narcissistic individuals, especially when they have hyper-empathy. What really helped me protect myself and break free from these types of relationships was educating myself about narcissism. It was quite beneficial because being autistic makes me good at picking patterns. This allowed me to escape from unhealthy relationships and understand how true empathy looks like.

    • @Digital.Nomad1
      @Digital.Nomad1 Год назад +4

      While I was reading ur msg I felt it was maybe a comment I wrote n forget. That's how personal it felt.

    • @imstuckonthepuzzle
      @imstuckonthepuzzle 11 месяцев назад +5

      you just made me realize that maybe im not naive, maybe I'm just neorodivergent...

    • @yutisima
      @yutisima 10 месяцев назад +1

      i'm not neurodivergent but i still had issues seeing her as a manipulator, maybe except of the part where she says she's dressed badly and it cuts to nicole wearing very casual clothes, that did feel a bit "icky", if you will. but everything else feels even now, somewhat sincere yet professional. now i'm worried abt how i read people lol

  • @pujakarmakar9176
    @pujakarmakar9176 3 года назад +85

    This whole scene has its own layers and definition I am someone too who loves to dissect scenes according to each character's approach so this video was really a great insight.

  • @btzy
    @btzy Год назад +5

    Thank you for this. I never knew how much went into that scene where Nicole first met Nora, only that i could feel the manipulation and breaking down of Nicole... your explanations made it clear how it was portrayed clearly. I also love the ending when Charlie finishes singing "being alive" and he sighed right into the microphone that was so painful to watch. Hope all's good with you, thank you!

  • @diehardhomie
    @diehardhomie 3 года назад +120

    Dude, this randomly popped up in my feed, and I gotta say you’re killing it! Love the analysis, gonna go rewatch marriage story now. Subbed and patiently awaiting more content. Cheers 👌

  • @LibbyHam
    @LibbyHam 3 года назад +56

    Incredible essay on film making - I’ve subscribed immediately and can’t wait to see what you do next. Thank you

    • @monapop
      @monapop 3 года назад

      Same here!

  • @liv97497
    @liv97497 3 года назад +157

    Oooh this was so good! Everyone was so amazed by the fight scene it seems they had no space to talk about many other great ones in this movie. Loved your analysis!

  • @fiveh3340
    @fiveh3340 2 года назад +17

    I've always seen Nora's character as a manipulator!! Glad to see someone articulate it beautifully

    • @lisilein2
      @lisilein2 2 года назад

      I actually don't really agree with that. Yeah, she's very aware of how things are going to go. But in the end, she never lied about anything to her client, she just did her job. She got the best result as well, otherwise, mother and son might not have been able to stay in L.A. together. I really liked the contrast between her and the other lawyer as well.

    • @andrewerickson2922
      @andrewerickson2922 Год назад

      @@lisilein2 Right! see I don't understand everyone calling her a manipulator. She's a LAWYER! A really good one at that!!

  • @j-cabre-ncabrera8947
    @j-cabre-ncabrera8947 3 года назад +74

    I truly love that you analyzed that scene, it's incredible the things that I didn't notice when I watched the movie.
    I also really loved your two other videos about young royals and call me by your name. especially call me by your name, and I loved how you explained everything in a very poetic and beautiful way

  • @cassandragray1747
    @cassandragray1747 3 года назад +51

    This was so in depth in ways I hadn't really thought of before; I'm so excited to see what you put out in the future!!

  • @davideckl5210
    @davideckl5210 3 года назад +193

    Even though it's just getting started, your channel deserves so much more attention! I recently watched Young Royals and found your video about it yesterday and thought it was outstanding. Now I've got a new subscription I'll always be looking forward to the next upload from. The depth that you have when examining the topics of your videos is the kind of critical eye I wish I had when I watch movies, shows, or read books. Looking forward to more!

  • @emimimix
    @emimimix 3 года назад +62

    im personally hesitant to see this movie because it reminds me too much of my childhood lol but video analysis' like this help me gain better context and understanding of the film so when im ready it won't be too painful to watch!!

    • @leondibenedetto6113
      @leondibenedetto6113 3 года назад +1

      Yeah i had to stop watching in the middle of the film because it started affecting me too much mentally😬

    • @joanneweiss3864
      @joanneweiss3864 3 года назад +1

      Watch it. My personal relevance had me watch it twice ❤️ magnificent 😊

  • @hugenerd4041
    @hugenerd4041 3 года назад +46

    Holy shit dude. I discovered your channel yesterday and I'm actually blown away. How have you managed to make three genuinely amazing videos and yet you've only uploaded three??? I really don't think I've seen a video essayist with such unwavering consistency. I really hope you make it big dude, you deserve it!

  • @madmatzac
    @madmatzac 8 месяцев назад

    This was a great movie, but painful to watch. Everyone who was in this movie really killed their parts. The argument scene in the living room brought me to tears. That fight felt REAL! I just stumbled across this channel after I saw your take on Maestro. I felt that movie was pretentious and had that “Oscar bait” feel to it as well. I look forward to seeing more of your analysis of more films. Great work!

  • @hannahw.6219
    @hannahw.6219 3 года назад +22

    I LOVED Marriage Story ! And your review is really really well done. The whole time during that scene I couldn't explain why but I felt like telling Nicole "don't trust her". You've brilliantly explained how this feeling is created for the audience. I hope you'll get more views and subs so that you keep up your work !

  • @Lara-xu3yc
    @Lara-xu3yc 3 года назад +6

    Seeing that painting you made gave me shivers!!! Absolutely breathtaking!!

  • @sockvine35
    @sockvine35 3 года назад +41

    Wow, so inspiring that you have just started on RUclips but are making such thoughtful, well put together content. Can’t wait to watch more.

  • @FrancisFabricates
    @FrancisFabricates 3 года назад +13

    I really enjoy seeing this sort of breakdown, it’s the kind of way I talk about films too.

  • @america5108
    @america5108 3 года назад +45

    hoping your channel blows up soon this was so good considering you’re a “small” creator right now 🤙🏽✨ keep it 🆙

  • @sabrinariccioppo977
    @sabrinariccioppo977 3 года назад +16

    i’m a huge fan or scarlett and to be honest this wasn’t on of my favorites of her but, after this video i could see the real beauty of the movie and i’m ready to watch it again with a new perspective. thank you for that. really great video, keep doing this and you’ll open so many more minds.

  • @ab-vz4ps
    @ab-vz4ps 3 года назад +35

    incredible breakdown of the scene!! The amazing acting and direction really made this scene a masterpiece

    • @KylieEileen
      @KylieEileen 3 года назад

      I agree. Commenting to boost engagement

  • @kristheblueberry2319
    @kristheblueberry2319 3 года назад +1

    I've only watched two of your videos but, it's so obvious the passion you have for the movies you talk about.

  • @neotshy
    @neotshy 3 года назад +17

    omg while i watched the movie twice and loved it both times for all the general reasons you mentioned, i love how you took such an in-depth approach to analysing a scene in particular and highlight specific examples of how amazingly directed the film is. love your channel and the format and content of your videos!!

  • @jerichocarena4866
    @jerichocarena4866 3 года назад +12

    wow the painting is impressive, I can tell you’re talented!!

  • @zerjiozerjio
    @zerjiozerjio 3 года назад +14

    I watched this movie before I knew I was heading to a separation. It made me sob uncontrollably!
    Now that it’s happening, it’s just so accurate to the experience of it, even when my split is not this contentious!

  • @renaribeiro
    @renaribeiro 3 года назад +360

    It’s incredible to see Scarlet Johansson play as the “underdog” to Nora when Scarlet is literally defined as having the most perfect and symmetrical face
    *I’m not saying symmetry makes someone beautiful, the statement of her being defined is what I’ve read in the media about Scarlet.
    I think beauty is in the eye of the beholder and our differences + diversity is what make us beautiful

    • @pineappleonpizza4164
      @pineappleonpizza4164 3 года назад +62

      Power isn't all about attractiveness

    • @estertankosic5384
      @estertankosic5384 3 года назад +12

      Think that's just a matter of opinion.

    • @SimplySiwe
      @SimplySiwe 3 года назад +90

      Everything is relative. I think Scarlett is beautiful but "most perfect face" is an exaggeration. This Hollywood notion of "there can only be one" is weird to me. We have women like Aishwarya Rai on this same earth as well.

    • @estertankosic5384
      @estertankosic5384 3 года назад +7

      @@SimplySiwe Exactly!!!

    • @ijustdocomments6777
      @ijustdocomments6777 3 года назад +28

      The whole "face symmetry = beauty" thing has always confused me. It just seems like an OCD thing. Edit: Don't get me wrong, ScarJo is HOT but I ain't lookin at her symmetry.

  • @iv7267
    @iv7267 3 года назад +71

    Nora's comment on why she wanted 51% on the custody later in the movie, proves that to her, it's not about what Nicole wants, it's about her winning.
    Laura Dern is awesome, loved her since jurassic park. (she's awesome there too, in a different way.)

  • @abtjane
    @abtjane 3 года назад +7

    this was so interesting to watch. I loved watching this movie but had no idea the thoughtfulness behind the director! Thank you so much for sharing, this was an amazing analysis!

  • @magalimulamba4770
    @magalimulamba4770 3 года назад +27

    Hii! This is the first review I've watched from you and it was SUCH a pleasure to listen to you and see how you feel about the movie. The analysis was so thorough and on point for a single scene. I and we would love to hear you talk for hours about the whole movie like OF COURSE WE'RE DOWN FOR IT!!! Great work

  • @maureendavis9257
    @maureendavis9257 3 года назад +8

    Omg I love Laura Dern. So glad to see her on the screen once again.

  • @delicooper740
    @delicooper740 3 года назад +15

    Just watched all your videos in one go- Seriously incredible! Your detail and relatability is amazing. Plus your choice of backing music makes all the emotive difference. Can’t wait for more man!🕺

  • @natalierozean5989
    @natalierozean5989 3 года назад +1

    You are brilliant. You absolutely don’t miss a thing. Your analysis made me cry as much as the movie.... for different reasons... for reasons I’d missed. You changed the movie for me in some ways. You gave it more depth than what I originally caught. This is my first time watching you and I thought you were a director. You really should be....you’re movies would shine and be remembered for decades. Thank you.

  • @bellanapoli9362
    @bellanapoli9362 3 года назад +28

    i'd love to see more !! i appreciate the effort and in depth analysis - i really hope your channel grows

  • @captured.star.runner
    @captured.star.runner 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for this insightful, honest appreciation of great work. I had avoided this movie, but will be seeking it out. Subscribed.

  • @talveerlitt9464
    @talveerlitt9464 3 года назад +11

    i love love love this really one depth addressing different things and as someone young who’s really into film and tries to learn more, this is really compelling and well made ! i hope you keep making videos :)

  • @kontsakeisari
    @kontsakeisari 3 года назад +2

    I'd love to see you talk about this film more! There are so many good scenes: the trial(???), the big fight, reading the old letter, trying to give the letter about the divorce.... so good

  • @jinjin-te7bb
    @jinjin-te7bb 3 года назад +22

    this movie gave me so many realizations. Not every relationship is perfect, some happy couples one day separate.

  • @Zoeica
    @Zoeica 3 года назад +2

    You totally hit the nail on the head about other video essays of movies being vague! This was well thought out, explained, and was certainly not vague! Well done, I look forward to you future content :)

  • @elliinspace
    @elliinspace 3 года назад +8

    This was such a great essay! Succinct yet vivid! And that painting, WOAH!

  • @regi4834
    @regi4834 3 месяца назад

    I've had this video in my watch later forever - this movie was so good that, for years, I couldn't even think about it. But you just convinced me that a rewatch is absolutely worth it, despite the literal pain it inflicts on me. Loved your perspective and insight.

  • @ceruleanwake8876
    @ceruleanwake8876 3 года назад +2

    The whole video essay was well done. I really appreciate deeper dives into smaller pieces of things rather than over views, but when you showed the painting at the end, I immediately subscribed. I love hearing and learning from passionate driven people. Good on you for being freaking cool.

  • @MariaRose360
    @MariaRose360 3 года назад

    Love the way you focus on a key scene rather than the typical full movie summary!

  • @ab-vz4ps
    @ab-vz4ps 3 года назад +142

    Do you have a background in film studies or videography? (cause the attention to detail is insane!!)

  • @MartlnB
    @MartlnB 3 года назад +1

    I struggle to focus on everything I do but somehow your way of expressing the feelings of each movie you reviewed kept me going and I was interested and entertained throughout the whole video.

  • @mymistake8214
    @mymistake8214 3 года назад +28

    ngl I miss the window... but damn your quality never seems to drop! Super impressive

    • @marcustranfilm
      @marcustranfilm  3 года назад +4

      ahaha the window! It will probably return next video, I do love the window as well

  • @mikki_miks
    @mikki_miks Год назад +1

    Sometimes in life we forget when we've already done something, until we're reminded of it again. I forgot that I have already watched this video before, and got reminded right now how good this film is. I also didn't notice that I already liked and subscribed. Thanks for the fresh eyes again with this film. This made me wanna watch it again.

  • @candemoran6874
    @candemoran6874 3 года назад +11

    I am loving these videos, you talk about such an intimate part of watching and creating media, which i believe is often overlooked, when it should be, in my opinion, the most important part. Thank you so much

  • @JB-hj9ns
    @JB-hj9ns 3 года назад +2

    You did an an absolutely wonderful job in reviewing the film. It made me plan to view it myself. Thank you for taking the time to do this for your viewers. Also, great job on the oil painting-- it's incredible.

  • @manuelaglow
    @manuelaglow 3 года назад +6

    I would love to hear your analysis for the rest of the movie! Your work is really detailed and in depth, both your videos on young royals and marriage story gave me whole new perspectives on the storytelling and characters. I’ll keep recommending your channel :)

    • @manuelaglow
      @manuelaglow 3 года назад

      And also the oil painting is beautiful!

  • @jamesjoelholmes4541
    @jamesjoelholmes4541 3 года назад +1

    I've been wanting to watch this film for a while but have been very nervous that it looks really heavy. Some of the clips I've seen remind me of experiences from my 1st marriage. How subtly and sometimes suddenly, things can turn from warm intimate love, into sadness, grief and even bitter hate at points. We are good friends now that we are divorced, I'm happy to say. This was a thoughtful and sincere essay. I love that you made that beautiful portrait and shared it with us. I may just take a deep breath and put this film on tonight.

  • @agustinavictoriaborre1054
    @agustinavictoriaborre1054 3 года назад +6

    This was an excellent analysis and you actually helped me see what I liked about this movie. I remember when I watched it I was left with an odd feeling. It was really bittersweet and contradictory. I realize now that I absolutely love the director's work and that what feels off to me at least are some of the performances. For some reason, and although she does a terrific job of exploring shades, levels, moods, tones, etc., I feel that SJ approaches some really dense traits of her character only on surface. There are times in which there is a mismatch between text/script and how it impacts her character. I see something similar in AD's performance. There is a cleanliness to this couple that is at times difficult to see the weigh of theater frustration and the desire of "making it" without compromising your beliefs about theater, acting and the arts. However, I can see how the director's choices still conveyed the message. I kinda wanna watch it again now, honestly. Thank you! Keep doing these reviews!

  • @justinjbenjamin
    @justinjbenjamin 3 года назад

    Loved how you covered the blocking and camera shots, showing the intention behind the filmmakers.

  • @RachaelAlexander
    @RachaelAlexander 3 года назад +4

    This was brilliant and broken down so well! Looking forward to the full review!

  • @lovealways729
    @lovealways729 10 месяцев назад +2

    Divorces can get so messy, sometimes we choose the wrong people and end up paying so much for these choices, or sometimes we really do not have the skills to talk to each other, we cant see beyond our egos, I think we can depend too much on our partners for validation, today life has become so lonely, and women especially are missing out on genuine female friendships which can off set the burden of meeting all the needs by one individual...

  • @k4rli92
    @k4rli92 3 года назад +4

    Inspired! Always.
    The artist's eye reveals aspects and parts invisible ...
    well done.

  • @Naomi-qu9lv
    @Naomi-qu9lv 3 года назад

    I love small RUclipsrs such genuine people ❤️

  • @arushi2526
    @arushi2526 3 года назад +7

    Hadn't even seen the movie but still saw the whole analysis through because you are so great at them!

  • @dragonstaye4557
    @dragonstaye4557 Год назад

    Thank you Shiny Reviews. You are the first person I've come into contact with who analyzes films like I do. I love it!

  • @john2940
    @john2940 3 года назад +15

    I really enjoy your content so far, my dude. I'm looking forward to see ya grow.
    Don't pressure yourself too hard on making videos. Make what makes you happy and you'll find fans, and they'll stay even if uploads become slow.

  • @aayanaanand9945
    @aayanaanand9945 3 года назад

    all the video essays i see about this film talk about the fighting scene between charlie and nicole, but it was so intriguing and refreshing to see a breakdown of this scene instead. it made me view nora as more of an antagonist, which i had never really done before. phenomenal video, great job. (btw your painting is AMAZING.)

  • @diaanamc
    @diaanamc 3 года назад +8

    Only three reviews, but I loved all of them. Man you’re really good at this, with the editing and analysis. You got all of my support, and I hope this channel grows a lot more!!!

  • @scent007
    @scent007 3 года назад

    You are so smooth and clam with so much passion and understanding to the work you are reviewing. Rare qualities to be in one person. Keep it up man

  • @alexk3806
    @alexk3806 3 года назад +4

    What a sensitive and insightful appreciation.

  • @emmachen11
    @emmachen11 3 года назад

    I didn't cry but I was obsessed from the first sight! Please keep talking about it for hours!

  • @Orchidmami
    @Orchidmami 3 года назад +54

    Professionals like Nora have validated the emotions and supported many women through difficult life transitions. In this economy, everyone needs to make a living though.
    Divorce lawyers equip themselves to deal with emotional people as well as logical ones (hence the tissues), therapists also need to “conveniently” keep tissues around as well, such is the nature of the job.
    I loved Nora’s character in that she reminded me of the woman who shows up with the ability to ground another woman in the reality she is facing, this is hard to do when you’re wrapped up in the emotions.
    I feel as though this take villainized her, where the villain of this film was the toxicity between Charlie and Nicole.

    • @angelicat8540
      @angelicat8540 3 года назад +7

      I get what you're saying, I would only add the toxicity is wonderfully personified by lawyers.

    • @michellezapf-belanger54
      @michellezapf-belanger54 3 года назад +4

      I agree that this is only one take on the scene. While the lawyer clearly was trying to land a client, any woman watching this can ALSO see that she has genuine sympathy, and has heard this story again and again.

    • @DanieEdge
      @DanieEdge 3 года назад +4

      yea I think her angry monologue about the way mothers are treated in society ends up in a place where she is genuine. agree with your take

  • @cyberkiller83
    @cyberkiller83 Год назад +2

    This film is perfect in so many ways, starting with the cast. This film real shows how talented is Scarlett and Adam really are and how choosing the movies to be in is so important to show this.