Mental health awakening: Suffering is Surmountable | Lis Cashin | TEDxNorwichED

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  • Опубликовано: 25 авг 2019
  • Lis Cashin’s mental health journey living with undiagnosed PTSD following accidentally killing a friend during a school sports day javelin event.
    She challenges the idea that we all need to suffer as a result of going through difficult life events and challenges. She argues that the resulting pain we feel is natural and valid and we need time to process it and heal. But the powerful stories we then make up about the pain and what it means about us/others/the world can create suffering in our minds that is unnecessary and which can be changed. Lis Cashin’s life was devastated when, at just 13 years old, she accidentally killed a friend in a school sports day event.
    Because therapy wasn't available at that time, she lived with undiagnosed PTSD and created some very destructive beliefs about herself and went on to blame and punish herself for many years.
    Until one day she had a personal awakening and began a journey of healing and personal transformation that has seen her completely change the way she views herself, life and everyone else around her.
    Lis is passionate about sharing the key insights and lessons she has learned along the path to happiness to empower people to discover that their potential is far greater than their current reality. She is a speaker, coach, trainer and soon to be published author. Her self-help memoir entitled ‘THIS IS ME: One hell of a path to happiness’ is being published on June 26th, 2019." This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Комментарии • 68

  • @xhilikusx
    @xhilikusx 4 года назад +15

    I am Lis's sister, but did not know about the accident until many years later. To see the strength and tenacity Lis has, as well as the genuine wish to raise awareness of mental health...well I could not be more proud. I hope that some of the people watching this will also check out Lis's book published recently. Inspirational and motivational and fantastic! Please share with all of your friends and family.

  • @adamwoods1
    @adamwoods1 3 года назад +1

    A great talk and particularly like the notion that 'suffering is optional', Lis' humanity and compassion shines through - a true example of power and humility

    • @liscashin7744
      @liscashin7744 3 года назад

      Adam - thank you so much for your wonderful feedback!

  • @davidaginter4128
    @davidaginter4128 3 года назад +1

    Powerful and courageous share. Talking about our suffering is not weakness, it's strength.

    • @liscashin7744
      @liscashin7744 3 года назад

      Thank you so much for your feedback Davida

  • @stephenjames4447
    @stephenjames4447 4 года назад +5

    A powerful message that we can change our internal narrative and suffer less.

  • @Gr4bova
    @Gr4bova 4 года назад +2

    Served Lis and her sister at a restaurant the other day, two of the loveliest women i’ve met. Discovered she was an author and and it’s amazing to hear her talk on Ted. Thankyou Lis

  • @michelesusanbrown2207
    @michelesusanbrown2207 3 года назад +1

    Wow! The courage Lis has stepped into and through with honesty, truth, rawness, and grace is truly inspiring. Her powerful talk regarding a deeply personal experience on stage is a gift to help others find their own path out of suffering, shame, and silence. I was enthralled to hear her speak from start to finish. I am excited to get and read her book titled This Is Me!

    • @liscashin7744
      @liscashin7744 3 года назад

      What wonderful feedback! Thank you so much Michele

  • @nonhill2542
    @nonhill2542 3 года назад +1

    This is such moving talk. Through her experiences, Lis teaches us about courage, kindness, humility, resilience and self-belief. Thank you for sharing and inspiring.

    • @liscashin7744
      @liscashin7744 3 года назад

      Thank you so much for your feedback Non!

  • @helenainwood5419
    @helenainwood5419 3 года назад +2

    Such an inspiring and empowering talk! "If you are suffering, you have suffered enough" really stuck with me - such a simple but powerful message. Thank you for sharing your story Lis, I hope it inspires many more people.

  • @lynnjohnston9297
    @lynnjohnston9297 3 года назад +1

    Such a powerful story. There is a way forward from even the darkest times.

  • @vidyamaharaj4932
    @vidyamaharaj4932 4 года назад +5

    Very powerful. Particularly loved - "Loving is Giving!" ...and "Suffering created thru the beliefs you thought yourself to be"

  • @leilablack2744
    @leilablack2744 4 года назад +6

    Very powerful talk and message, well done Lis. Her book "This is me" is a must read to!

  • @VerartybyLinda
    @VerartybyLinda 3 года назад +1

    Just finished your book Lis, certainly very thought provoking, interesting & an essential read, there are so many people who have suffered enough. Thank you.

  • @angelarigby2710
    @angelarigby2710 3 года назад +2

    Such a courageous, compassionate talk Lis to help change the perception of suffering and routes to heal the mind. Thank you for sharing your journey may it be a beacon of light for others in need of help.

    • @liscashin7744
      @liscashin7744 3 года назад

      Thank you so much for this fantastic feedback Angela!

  • @wideshadyy
    @wideshadyy 4 года назад +3

    Lis is one of my closest aunts, and to see here come out like this really does make my heart warm!

  • @PamBurrows
    @PamBurrows 3 года назад +2

    Lis’s story is incredible. The way she tells it and makes it relevant to everyone listening is so beautiful.
    This kind of harrowing life story is often told in a harrowing way. Lis takes you though her story with love and care, her humanity and heart shines through.
    She truly is inspiring x

    • @liscashin7744
      @liscashin7744 3 года назад

      Thank you so much Pam for your fantastic feedback! x

  • @CasparCraven
    @CasparCraven 3 года назад +1

    Thank you Lis for your courage and humility to share your story - I know it has already helped many others, myself included ti face what is true for each of us,

    • @liscashin7744
      @liscashin7744 3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much Caspar! And I love Be More Human - your fantastic and ground-breaking book for high-performing and thriving teams

  • @nikkirodwell1843
    @nikkirodwell1843 3 года назад +1

    What a wonderful and inspiring talk and so beautifully presented. Amazing lady with such an important message for us full of hope. Thank you

  • @andrewpain_speaker
    @andrewpain_speaker 4 года назад +2

    hugely moving talk - massively courageous - great job!

    • @liscashin7891
      @liscashin7891 4 года назад

      Thank you so much for your feedback Andrew !

  • @josephineliving6182
    @josephineliving6182 4 года назад +2

    Amazing, inspirational lady. we need more humans like this. life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it. Lis shows us with grace, composure and resilience how to transmute suffering into beauty. what a rockstar.

  • @eisteachbhinn
    @eisteachbhinn 3 года назад +1

    A clear and courageous share of your life changing experience.

    • @liscashin7744
      @liscashin7744 3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much - I really appreciate your feedback

  • @lindaaspey
    @lindaaspey 4 года назад +3

    Wonderful moving talk - thank you Lis Cashin for your encouragement for others to get support after trauma.

  • @Mary-yo8ch
    @Mary-yo8ch 4 года назад +3

    Well done Lis, you deserve to be happy!! Good for you x

  • @chrishickford5037
    @chrishickford5037 4 года назад +2

    Thank you for bravely sharing your story Lis and thank you even more for sharing your learning. Such wise words that bring both comfort and challenge.

  • @ellasimms3500
    @ellasimms3500 3 года назад +1

    Re-watched this talk again today. Lis is inarguably a great speaker, with a beautiful message and a tremendous story. How we all (me included) benefit from the reminder that the stories we tell ourselves about our trauma are optional, that we have suffered enough. Particularly moved by the empowered 'in this story' section at the end. Bravo Lis! Hope your message reaches many more people xo

  • @moiraplanche3334
    @moiraplanche3334 3 года назад +1

    Very moving talk with a powerful message

    • @liscashin7744
      @liscashin7744 3 года назад

      Thank you so much for your feedback!

  • @jodeelaughteryoga
    @jodeelaughteryoga 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this amazing story, you are amazing!!

    • @liscashin7744
      @liscashin7744 3 года назад

      Thank you Jo-Dee! You are pretty amazing yourself!

  • @paulineburke7965
    @paulineburke7965 4 года назад +2

    You are such an inspiration Liz. Your talk was just great! Thank you. Xxx

  • @CassandraWelford
    @CassandraWelford 4 года назад +2

    A very powerful message delivered by a very inspirational lady.

  • @markwilliamsreachingoutpmh
    @markwilliamsreachingoutpmh 4 года назад +3

    Fantastic!!!!

  • @jarjarbinx71
    @jarjarbinx71 4 года назад +4

    Excactly that 10000% truly inspiring! You couldn't explain anything any better! 💪💖✌ x

  • @LouLebentz
    @LouLebentz 3 года назад +2

    Totally love Lis and this talk! It’s so inspiring and amazing and powerful. Thank you Lis for all you do in the mental health field and for sharing your journey. You’re truly brilliant 🙏💕 xx

    • @liscashin7744
      @liscashin7744 3 года назад

      Thank you so much Lou! You inspire me massively with all the work you do with the Trauma Thrivers too x

  • @davidsangels5347
    @davidsangels5347 4 года назад +3

    Very well spoken and delivered, thank you Lis. :)

  • @MichelleHarris
    @MichelleHarris 4 года назад +2

    Very well done!

  • @samiabdulkarim5974
    @samiabdulkarim5974 Год назад +1

    Your story is tragic and your suffering is understandable because you've been through a lot.
    but I'm sorry I couldn't catch the point of how someone can mitigate the feelings!?
    thanks and god bless.