My life started when they said it was over | Elin Kjos | TEDxKI

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @meszaroseszter155
    @meszaroseszter155 2 года назад +1884

    A car knocked me off from my bicycle 18 months ago. Coma, mobility issues, vertigo, deafness....the Doctor said I had 20% chance to stay alive. ...but I was alive 🥰🙏. 3 months later I was diagnosed with cancer...but I was still alive...Guys....we are here at this beautiful Earth 😊, every day is a gift. Thank you for this video♥️♥️♥️

    • @radyashail2885
      @radyashail2885 2 года назад +38

      thank you for you're beautiful words

    • @meszaroseszter155
      @meszaroseszter155 2 года назад +14

      @@radyashail2885 thank you Radya 🥰

    • @andresjlenis5007
      @andresjlenis5007 2 года назад +11

      Very happy to hear this ,still riding?

    • @imasava3560
      @imasava3560 2 года назад +13

      inspiring and energizing.. To live is indeed to embrace each moment, every single second in the 'now'. What has gone isn't going back.

    • @judithmcleod6768
      @judithmcleod6768 2 года назад +6

      ♥️

  • @fireworkboy
    @fireworkboy 2 года назад +588

    Stage 4 colon and liver. Out of the blue, March this year. This lady beautifully and bravely articulated how I feel about my life right now. I felt my diagnosis was an amazing opportunity to transform. I couldn't have talked as she did, without tears. Much respect and love to her 🙏

  • @randiyoung2128
    @randiyoung2128 2 года назад +531

    Stage 4 Metastatic Lung Cancer patient here. Thank you. I like to say I'm LIVING WITH CANCER - It's not a battle, it's a dance!

  • @danoyse8233
    @danoyse8233 2 года назад +543

    This is a great wake up call. Other people negatively effect my life. I’m 64 and I have allowed this to happen. People taking advantage of me. Saying yes to requests every time and putting myself last, not noticing life slipping by. I lost my eldest son in 2020 with COVID. A 40 year old ultra runner. He was there and then he wasn’t. I still haven’t changed,but finding this video today is like a nudge from life telling me to sort myself out. Thank you
    Elin , you look radiant by the way.keep the faith

    • @ofelias8791
      @ofelias8791 2 года назад +22

      Oh...sorry for your loss, may God give you comfort and strength, take good care of yourself, your son would want to see you happy for sure!

    • @danoyse8233
      @danoyse8233 2 года назад +5

      @@ofelias8791 thank you Ofelia take care

    • @yogi4319
      @yogi4319 2 года назад +14

      So sorry about your son. You are strong because I'll unravel and die of sorrow in your situation. Life passes by you so fast. You need to learn to say no with a smile and take care of yourself first and learn to enjoy life before it's too late. I'm a 63-year-old man BTW.

    • @ZZ-su8ph
      @ZZ-su8ph 2 года назад +1

      🕊

    • @alexandraalbertz1442
      @alexandraalbertz1442 2 года назад +4

      Patricia, God bless you

  • @Guss425
    @Guss425 2 года назад +675

    “my love for life is so much stronger than my fear of dying”. such powerful words, what an amazing individual

    • @sjordan7085
      @sjordan7085 2 года назад

      She is correct, the will to live is amazingly strong, far stronger than most of us realize. None of us is promised tomorrow, but we can tweak our diets by eating as Dr. T. Colin Campbell suggests in his book 'The China Study'. We can overcome co-morbities, lose weight. and defeat cancer by eating only foods that are known to prevent its survival, we can decrease our toxic load, exercise, sleep well, meditate, bask in the love of our families and the beauty of nature. Rather than sit and cry when we receive a cancer diagnosis, we can make a plan to not only survive, but thrive, we can be there for our grandchildren when they graduate and marry. Persistance and determination are stronger than we can imagine. That is how I choose to live my life, so that at the end of the day, I can leave Planet Earth, a little better than I found it!

    • @thelastminmom5251
      @thelastminmom5251 2 года назад +9

      And how can something so devastating happen to someone so amazingly good. She was fit and healthy. Which is just crazy to me. It’s so unfair. She is absolutely stronger then me. What an amazing inspiration she is.

    • @polarity2
      @polarity2 2 года назад +4

      Yes very powerful words! Such journey she has been thro. She said she changed her diet, gave up red meat etc, I did so too decades ago. So happy for her she is doing so much better.

    • @jonmolina948
      @jonmolina948 2 года назад +2

      I hope she pulls through. She has a big heart.

    • @peaceemezue
      @peaceemezue 2 года назад

      So 💪🏽

  • @humanityrevisited6006
    @humanityrevisited6006 8 месяцев назад +3

    What a beautiful, alive, courageous woman! Rest in peace my friend.

    • @mimkusss4e
      @mimkusss4e 8 месяцев назад

      😢😢😢😢

  • @GayBrooks
    @GayBrooks 2 года назад +1418

    As a returned soldier from WW2 from New Guinea my uncle aged 25 was diagnosed with lung problems from chemical exposure, he had one lung removed and was given maximum a year to live, the medical profession were not sure !! Most of the young men he served with died within a couple of years of returning to Australia. He died at age 94, he lived a great life, he had a great attitude and served others.

    • @gabrielamaja9672
      @gabrielamaja9672 2 года назад +28

      Thank you for sharing this story!

    • @astrazeneca1532
      @astrazeneca1532 2 года назад +13

      Wow thx for sharing

    • @marilenat.5255
      @marilenat.5255 2 года назад +20

      Thank you for sharing this story it's giving hope to many! ❤️🙏Blessings7

    • @ammadeus47
      @ammadeus47 2 года назад +11

      Thank you for being a live example and great inspiration for all of us. Amazing!

    • @stevenlao
      @stevenlao 2 года назад +9

      Thank you.

  • @icybluequeenie1498
    @icybluequeenie1498 Год назад +28

    R.I.P. Elin❤ what a beautiful speech you gave. Your words will live on

  • @sarahyoung4166
    @sarahyoung4166 2 года назад +198

    I had brain cancer in 1988 and removing the tumor left me paralyzed on one side and grossly overweight from all the steroids. The doctor said don’t worry about it because you’re gonna die in a year or two. Here I am moving all of my parts, however not that well on one side, and a size 6. I’m pretty happy with my life but it was a bit of work to get there. God bless you for who you are and how you are helping us around the world with this platform.
    Blessings,
    DrRed ❤️

    • @ZZ-su8ph
      @ZZ-su8ph 2 года назад +2

      🌟

    • @jameslightfoot9465
      @jameslightfoot9465 2 года назад +5

      Glad you’re here and doing better. God bless you

    • @nahidsyyed906
      @nahidsyyed906 2 года назад

      I feel like cutting the throats of doctors (espclly half baked ones with little experience) who decide and declare the duration of life of their patients... Some morons (docs) are so uncouth they don't have the ability to put across the news too.

    • @philljombs1151
      @philljombs1151 2 года назад +3

      Amen

    • @AsherBarkin
      @AsherBarkin 2 года назад +1

      thats beautiful

  • @joycefitzgerel1632
    @joycefitzgerel1632 2 года назад +410

    This is one of the most beautiful talks I’ve ever heard. It has really inspired me to live. I will practice what she has taught on this video. I have lived the past 20 years with a chronic health condition. Many times wishing not to live. I would say many times ,I’m not living I’m just existing. By the help and grace of God no more just existing,I will live!

    • @lebo3027
      @lebo3027 2 года назад +3

      💕

    • @laneybop1728
      @laneybop1728 2 года назад +10

      You spoke my soul after viewing this! So true that this is one of the blessings of the internet can bring!

    • @MOAB-UT
      @MOAB-UT 2 года назад +7

      Joyce- check out The Plant Paradox. You would be amazed how nutrition can help- not a cure for everything, I get it but it is amazing. I healed two major health issues. This book is great.

    • @azhotmom
      @azhotmom 2 года назад +4

      I feel the same- this one brought tears!

    • @thereseschab5042
      @thereseschab5042 2 года назад +5

      Me too Joyce...may God Bless you for managing things...

  • @GHOSTRIDER4EVER
    @GHOSTRIDER4EVER 2 года назад +50

    The biggest misconception: We have time, but in truth, ALL WE HAVE IS TODAY, NOW, THIS MOMENT, THE FREAKING PRESENT.

  • @donkemp8151
    @donkemp8151 2 года назад +14

    July 10, 1951 was the last day my Dad walked. That day, he caught 10,000 volts of electricity that, fortunately, knocked him off the ladder causing him to fall 18’ and land on his back on a concrete curb. He was burned on his legs, abdomen, and arms. They told my Mom he wouldn’t make it to the hospital. Then he would not make it through the night....the end of the week....the end of the month. I was born 3 years to the day after his injury. I never my Dad walk. He was paralyzed from the waist down. I grew up with my Dad as Mr. Mom before that was cool. He cooked, cleaned, did laundry and raised me along with 5 grandchildren who moved in with us. My Dad died 43 years later in 1994. My hero.

  • @sepehrAmirkiaee
    @sepehrAmirkiaee 2 года назад +214

    I couldn't imagine how much a person could be strong in this situation
    we should stand and praise you for this inspiring real story

  • @cswellsie
    @cswellsie 2 года назад +58

    Kjos has a beautiful message. I was diagnosed with metastatic prostate cancer that had spread to my liver at age 49. It was difficult to accept, especially since I have two beautiful, young daughters. But, with the help of my amazing wife, I decided to live my life seeking the joyful moments, which there are many. I have come to realize that I love life! And nothing will take that feeling away from me while I am alive.

    • @caravanlifenz
      @caravanlifenz 2 года назад +4

      Your daughters will always have amazing memories of you. Best wishes with your treatment.

  • @sonalkhatri3903
    @sonalkhatri3903 2 года назад +195

    An Eye Opener for all of us... Who are busy either carrying hurt from the past or worrying about the future...
    She had taught me the actual meaning of living in present.... Living to the fullest..

    • @mitch5222
      @mitch5222 2 года назад +3

      I always worry about past traumas and future.

  • @ToshaRaeNailed
    @ToshaRaeNailed 2 года назад +43

    I was diagnosed with a terminal illness in 2011. I had a very similar spiritual awakening. It was a true blessing in my life. The only thing holding me back from changing the things in my life I would like to, is money. I would love to live in a place I love. To travel to places I’ve only dreamed of. I’m still hopeful that maybe one day before my time comes, I will get to achieve those things. I am great full for every moment I have in this life and for whatever experiences I do get to have.

    • @urossedonja3534
      @urossedonja3534 2 года назад +5

      i wish that your dreams come true. i have so many terrible diseases and i am 37 years old. i see my friends, they enjoy their lives, they travel, they work, they fulfil their dreams. but i can only dream of this. i would love to travel with my love, or just have some ordinary conversations. even that would be fun. but all i have is suffering and fear. you are not alone.

  • @yousef2508
    @yousef2508 2 года назад +99

    Doing this ted talk,You made a legacy that will live forever.
    Keep enjoying your life, lady, and I will pray for for you that you live as many years as you wish.

  • @michaelthiesen5432
    @michaelthiesen5432 2 года назад +179

    II had a brain tumor and had surgery, radiation therapy, and then about twelve months of chemotherapy. Already with the diagnosis I started to meditate and change my focus. After the diagnosis I came home and wrote on a piece of paper:" I am healthy." I have since meditated on the resulting new beliefs in my new world hundreds of times over the past two and a half years. I believe that I also owe it to this circumstance that I am healthy and tumor-free today and will remain so. Everything I did was exactly right and I agree 100% with this wonderful, strong woman. Life is only now and no one knows how long we will be given. Live fully and only in and for the now, so that it is good for you and others. Be and spread love and peace. Stop postponing anything, anything at all, into the future. You never know how long is still given to you. Try the meditations of Doctor Joe Dispenza, maybe they are helpful for you maybe not. You will only know if you try. In any case, they have helped me a lot.

    • @klaverfour8999
      @klaverfour8999 2 года назад +10

      Like animals... our cats and dogs don't ask themselves if they will stay be living next Christmas... They live now, and if it's good now... live is good :)

    • @meszaroseszter155
      @meszaroseszter155 2 года назад +7

      I agree with you Michael, the meditation and to focusing the good thing in our life is an effective help for ourselves. My experience, if I ask advice from doctors, they describe more meds . Well, meditation has no side effects!!

    • @ana999100
      @ana999100 2 года назад +3

      Thank you!

    • @Dejan_23Unlimited
      @Dejan_23Unlimited 2 года назад +1

      🙏🏻

  • @lejlakahriman564
    @lejlakahriman564 Год назад +20

    Rest in peace Elin! I hope we can live and learn from your words like you lived your last years in this life ❤

  • @carolinamarrelli
    @carolinamarrelli 9 месяцев назад +1

    Absolutely incredible. I am moved to tears. RIP dear one.

  • @AFETOTE
    @AFETOTE Год назад +74

    Erin, 6 days after your passing, I found this video 20 minutes ago. It has changed my life. Perhaps everything in yours led to your TED talk and the legacy you have left will reach thousands. Wherever you are, from this woman to you- thank you. XX

    • @tannhauser5399
      @tannhauser5399 7 месяцев назад

      I found it now. But my feeling is similar.
      It is all true. But it also show how at some level, cancer in a lot of cases... is a losing battle. At the end, she was in the gym 4-5 times a week, eating healthy food, no process food, a lof of green and vegetables. No red meat. And more. With a positive attitude and mind set. And she lost that battle at the end. At some level, no matter what we do, no matter how hard we try...
      Look at Steve Jobs, with all his billions, and doctors, medical professionals sourounding him, and all those advices. He has lost that battle too. Different type of cancer of course, but at the end, it wasn't about money or how healthy you are trying to be. In some cases, it is just too late. Your time is up. Sad, but true. And yeah, I had cancers in my family too, and also close stories regarding people who didn't make it (but also couple who did!).
      All in all, whoever that lady was - at the end, she gave it her best, with all possitive atitude and also a good approach even to something like food, diet, exercise and mental approach. She didn't gave up. And at the end, this is all we can do. Much respect for that lady.
      "The only way to succeed in life is to live it to the fulest". Such a simple words, and such difficult to achive for most. Even for me.

  • @lesyarosa8091
    @lesyarosa8091 2 года назад +20

    A friend of ours was diagnosed cancer for a second time and was given 3 months to live. He and the family are the kind of living through what there is, the best and most simple way. He just told me " I really want to live to help her ( the wife) with the children". He is here for 14 years and the cancer is stationary since then. I wish to this marvelous young lady the best success in beating the disease. 🌼💜🙏

    • @hughgallagher
      @hughgallagher 8 месяцев назад

      How did your friend treat his cancer? Traditional? Alternative? Both?

  • @TheAidacar
    @TheAidacar 2 года назад +198

    What a beautiful story!
    What a wonderful woman !
    My story is more of less like hers , ik was diagnosed with ovarian cancer with metastases in 2021, after chemotherapy and an operation with Hipec..
    I had bad expectations according to the medical stuff but fortunately I’m doing well🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
    Being positive is key and being grateful for everything has happened in my life.❤️🙏🏻❤️

    • @suzannecranny9838
      @suzannecranny9838 2 года назад +2

      Good for you!

    • @MrAllywood79
      @MrAllywood79 2 года назад +4

      I truly believe you will get well

    • @tranxuanphuc9756
      @tranxuanphuc9756 2 года назад +3

      hope you will be fine.

    • @kemundo
      @kemundo 2 года назад +3

      May good health continue to be your portion...

    • @francophile6948
      @francophile6948 2 года назад +2

      The possibility of healing from the inside is limitless.

  • @elizabethseta6245
    @elizabethseta6245 2 года назад +3

    Two months ago I was diagnosed with ALS, non curable dis-ease. Doctors say, it’s progressing, I’m loosing muscles, then, the doctors say, I won’t be able to breathe on my own. Last year I could still dance, today I can barely walk. I refused to accept medical diagnosis and strongly believe that I can cure myself with the power of mind. I’m doing a lot of Dispenza meditations and loving life. Don’t see any physical improvements yet, but I know I will. I’m the only person who can help myself. I love life❤️❤️❤️

  • @Nina-dp3gx
    @Nina-dp3gx 2 года назад +15

    Biggest misconception people have is that we have time ! When we all had or have is NOW 👏👏👏👏👏 THIS MOMENT - RIGHT HERE !!!

  • @大野隆志-i4q
    @大野隆志-i4q 2 года назад +20

    I had surgery a month ago, I had stage 1 the lang cancer sane like her, I have still pain and sometime my feelings are depressed, I found this video at that time, she’s strong alive live, I will live like her.
    Thank you so much 🤙

  • @PD-gi2hi
    @PD-gi2hi 2 года назад +58

    She nailed it!! Just diagnosed stage 4 melanoma . I'm embracing it and working on my inner self. Living in the moment! I needed this wake up call in my life cause I wasn't living like I needed to.

    • @djurlivet
      @djurlivet 2 года назад +2

      wishing you a beautiful future.

    • @elmacoppola3364
      @elmacoppola3364 2 года назад

      🙏

    • @EranBair
      @EranBair 2 года назад +2

      I too have stage IV metastatic melanoma. They gave me 3 years tops yet it's been 7+ years and I am still waking up everyday and I have transformed and now feel like Elin. Cancer changed my life in an incredible good way.

    • @jacquelinekabugo-raderson1878
      @jacquelinekabugo-raderson1878 2 года назад

      Prayers 🙏🏾 You are courageous.

    • @jacquelinekabugo-raderson1878
      @jacquelinekabugo-raderson1878 2 года назад

      @@EranBair sending prayers, courage and positive vibes, keep on keeping on 🌹✨️

  • @wee-sianwoon7658
    @wee-sianwoon7658 Год назад +6

    Needed to see this today , much gratitude , Rest in peace Elin

  • @mostguitarswins
    @mostguitarswins 2 года назад +51

    I feel such respect and admiration for Elin Kjos. She took on the challenge of her illness with the same, fierce commitment she brought to training and sports.

  • @hopitalvelpeau
    @hopitalvelpeau Год назад +3

    Rest in peace beautiful Elin. Thank you for the strength you gave me when I found out about my own cancer.

  • @danielledraper3550
    @danielledraper3550 Год назад +8

    I’m having a bone marrow transplant for aggressive Hodgkin’s lymphoma next week. I’m 26. I’ve been dealing with this for 2 years now and refuse to give up hope. What keeps me going is this innate hunger and earth-shattering will to live. There’s so much more I need to experience, nature to see, lessons to learn, and love to give. As I step into the fire once again, I will be using Elin’s words. Rest blissfully beautiful ❤️

    • @elisabethanderson7124
      @elisabethanderson7124 Год назад +3

      I hope everything goes well next week! Your positive energy will be your strong ally in this fight, I believe it can make a difference. I will pray for you!

    • @elisabethanderson7124
      @elisabethanderson7124 Год назад +2

      Just want to say that I hope you are doing well, under the circumstances.

  • @brettneuberger6466
    @brettneuberger6466 2 года назад +3

    There’s a reason this video kept popping up in my feed every single day for a week. Thank you and God bless you!!

  • @francescoquerini8989
    @francescoquerini8989 2 года назад +5

    Big kiss from Brazil! Keep going, keep going!

  • @Xrysab77
    @Xrysab77 Год назад +10

    Vila i frid älskade Elin 💔 största inspiration för oss alla

  • @IvonneMer
    @IvonneMer Год назад +4

    Yours words tell me "never give up", you really inspired me to live and not only survive. Thanks for your great words!

  • @baby-fork
    @baby-fork 2 года назад +38

    My fiance was 31 in December 2020, diagnosed with stage IV cancer after months and months of misdiagnoses and being silenced by the medical community. I am so glad you are here to speak your truth. My fiance wasn't so lucky, the time to react having passed because nobody would take him seriously. He passed away 5 months later. I miss him so much 💙😭

    • @julie-kop
      @julie-kop 2 года назад +2

      ❤️

    • @melizmatea
      @melizmatea 2 года назад +6

      I'm so sorry.That must have been so difficult, and worse yet having his illness compounded by the frustration and outrage of having to deal with the incompetency of the medical community. I hope you will find peace and a way to deal with all of this. ❤

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      @jennywallgren2886 Год назад

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    • @gkbchua73
      @gkbchua73 10 месяцев назад

      I'm so sorry to hear that. Our prayers are with you.

  • @sunshine8477
    @sunshine8477 2 года назад +61

    She looks beautiful, her attitude towards life is beautiful. Her thriving speech will keep on motivating many of us over the time I'm sure. I wish her the best of best . Seeing people like her facing the menace of Cancer, I feel to educate myself, others in our ability & beyond to know more about cancer and how to fight it in our every day life, how to use our skills for cancer research

  • @stanrock8015
    @stanrock8015 2 года назад +18

    thank you for being vocal. Diagnosed with cancer a few weeks ago myself. I very much understand your journey walking thru it now too.

    • @ZZ-su8ph
      @ZZ-su8ph 2 года назад

      💫

    • @athenakoios
      @athenakoios 2 года назад

      I wish you recovery. Stay strong . Hugs.

  • @walterfernandes8218
    @walterfernandes8218 2 года назад +15

    You are a champ Elin. You are a living example to all of us. You are a HERO. God bless you abundantly and always.

  • @cestlavie9410
    @cestlavie9410 2 года назад +1

    THANK YOU FOR THE SHOWN DIRECTION TOWARDS LIFE AND ABOVE ALL THAT IN ORDER TO LIVE ,WE MUST FIRST LOVE OURSELVES AND LIVE IN THE GIVEN MOMENT....NOW

  • @ninapaz522
    @ninapaz522 2 года назад +4

    "I am alive"
    "I am living"
    Beautiful words to live by!

  • @LovinDebsFit50s
    @LovinDebsFit50s 2 года назад +11

    Elin such a beautiful way to live. “ I was supposed to be dead” resonates with me so much. I was healed of a Mass that was on my left lower lung. I was also healed of granular lung disease which I never even knew that I had. I believe in the Power of Prayer, Meditation and a Healthy Lifestyle. I too have been on a Healing Journey since July 1st 2016. My journey started the day that I found out that I was Type 2 Diabetic and I was on a mission to heal my body without medication, which I did. I am not against medication. God Opened the doors to start my healing from childhood trauma in my 50s. I survived the night that my first husband tried to kill me when I was 17 years old. If You beautiful people don’t think that you have a purpose in life, I’m here to tell you that you do and I love you.

  • @dag118
    @dag118 2 года назад +11

    So true! I never really appreciated my life until after my cancer diagnosis.

  • @sallysalsonoak21
    @sallysalsonoak21 2 года назад +12

    I’ve watched this 3 times in 2 months and it stops me in my tracks each time. I’ve just seen it again now and I just clapped my hands and cried. Beautifully powerful and brave. Since I first saw this 3 friends have been diagnosed with serious cancers…. Another person I know had a head on collision on a motorbike and is fighting for her life…. If I take this over 3 years then my list would be even longer. We have no idea even 5 minutes ahead.. or if we say goodbye at the start of the day… if a loved one will return. We only have now…. I need to have this talk close.. because when all the fluff and nonsense hits my day and I feel fed up then I need to get perspective and gratitude. You are changing so many lives.. but we need your voice in our ears whenever we forget how precious life is and how we should greet each day with gratitude. God bless you….

  • @neonomvete7738
    @neonomvete7738 2 года назад +166

    I'm honestly alive and not living
    Watching this video makes me question so much in my life
    My work misery is consuming me everyday
    Not living in my purpose is creating insanity inside me
    Living shouldn't be this hard- right?
    I'm actively working towards changing my life and this video is part of my motivation
    All we have is now
    I am alive and I want to start living
    Thank you Elin for having the courage to share your life and showing us that fear is only a 4 letter word.

    • @youcantlookaway.9077
      @youcantlookaway.9077 2 года назад +7

      Be strong, you are not alone.

    • @lovchinagirl87
      @lovchinagirl87 2 года назад +2

      I found the higher power in my struggles >< hope the best for you

    • @ianwhitecross4196
      @ianwhitecross4196 2 года назад +3

      You are surrounded by others that need a best friend. Be that friend.

    • @mrnice7570
      @mrnice7570 2 года назад +2

      Your story is my story too

    • @MOAB-UT
      @MOAB-UT 2 года назад

      Oh please- get over yourself. Are you still 20? You act like it. You don't have it so bad- just bad attitude. People in Ukraine literally are more grateful than you. Get a NEW JOB or start a business. Work Out and eat right- which you clearly do not. Travel. Volunteer. Do something- just stop complaining. Not trying to be harsh but listen to this video. She is RIGHT- you are WRONG and I am keeping things REAL. Life is precious and quite short. It is a gift you do not appreciate.

  • @curiouslife1753
    @curiouslife1753 2 года назад +7

    Her story can related on my condition right now, which makes me care about myself more, care about my health, my life, my dreams, my family, my happiness, and my freedom. I don’t want to continue to live under other people’ expectations or impressions anymore. Life too short to caring for other people’ thinking about you. It is better to focus on yourself and live the way want to be in life. Enjoy your time while you can, don’t wait until you get older.

  • @gayaniilleperuma8670
    @gayaniilleperuma8670 2 года назад +9

    "My love for life is so much stronger than the fear of dying "

  • @svettina87
    @svettina87 2 года назад +42

    wow, what a powerful message.... i am going through a challenging time, not due to a medical problem, but a familial and personal one... at times it feels like the end of the world, but seeing this video, it gives me courage to keep fighting, to keep living and finding purpose... thank you for spreading such wonderful words...

  • @rajeshkpatel4491
    @rajeshkpatel4491 2 года назад +32

    "My Love for Life is Stronger than my Fear of Death" - That' is such a powerful positive Attitude. God Bless You with a healthy long and we know your story will inspire thousands and thousands of people around the earth !!

  • @MarieAlessi
    @MarieAlessi 2 года назад +30

    The change on the inside... the start of EVERY healing journey - thank you so much for sharing!
    "Being the creator of your own life!!" So so powerful :)

  • @seph4667
    @seph4667 2 года назад +4

    Fabulously calm. Crystal clear. Purely motivational.

  • @wishtreecounselling3162
    @wishtreecounselling3162 Год назад +18

    What an inspirational woman!

  • @rheaharrington8585
    @rheaharrington8585 2 года назад +4

    I sit here and listen to your story and I feel like it's me talking! I was diagnosed with CML (chronic Myeloid Leukemia) and Philadelphia Chromosome at 55. I am a dancer, Esthetician , Cosmetologist, healer, I've worked out my most of my life, fearless and lover of life. But when I herd this the world stopped and I said to my mother "am I going to die"?? In that moment my mom and I said "no one is going to die" and we marched forward for my new journey. I realized in my journey of taking everyday and my process for what it was, I am a better version of myself today. I am 182 days from my Bone Marrow Transplant and I no longer have Leukemia or the Philadelphia Chromosome! I am still healing until January it will be a year but I am grateful everyday for life. I stand tall, I stand strong and I live!!! Thank you for your words and being brave which gives people hope and strength!!

    • @elisessea7757
      @elisessea7757 2 года назад

      💗

    • @rheaharrington8585
      @rheaharrington8585 Год назад

      @JohnPhilip-be5ys Please stop reaching out to me!! I am not interested and healing from an illness!

  • @MmeKunterbunt
    @MmeKunterbunt 2 года назад +21

    If this speech was held by a "healthy person", it wouldnt have touched me i think, this "life is now", "live your life now"- attitude I am reading everyday on instagram. But this is different. Because I rarely imagine myself getting diagnosed with what she was - and in this minutes, when she talked about it, i imagined how it would be, so her words hit differently. All the best for you, strong woman.

  • @medytalo-desarrollopersona6212
    @medytalo-desarrollopersona6212 2 года назад +86

    ❤️ It is absolutely true, the beauty in life comes from healing our wounds and transform the past pain into wisdom, which we can apply in our own life, in our own decisions for a fulfilled life 🕊

  • @debrawucik826
    @debrawucik826 2 года назад +11

    My heart goes out to you. You are strong, wise and keep up the good life. I can empathize with you as I spent 8 years of my life recovering from illness, Lyme, EBV and Coxsackie. Three years sliding downhill and 5 years recovering. With the help of a wonderful doctor well-versed in Homeopathy and Allopathy, changed my diet, reassessed priorities and finally really began to take care of myself. It works.

    • @bkirstie
      @bkirstie 2 года назад

      mine is similar as i was extremely mentally illl. 20 years

  • @theartzscientist8012
    @theartzscientist8012 2 года назад +40

    I have malignant brain cancer. I’ve learned to focus on God, not on myself. To be okay with his will, erasing my need for my own. Nothing else matters.

    • @Percyfaith7
      @Percyfaith7 2 года назад +1

      You are right! Nothing else matters. Will pray for His Will for you...He will lead you into all the truth you need. Keeping my eyes on Him in my life as well.

    • @theartzscientist8012
      @theartzscientist8012 2 года назад

      @@Percyfaith7 I hear him all day. I’m blessed.

    • @_____________2007
      @_____________2007 Год назад

      R u okay now rn??

    • @theartzscientist8012
      @theartzscientist8012 Год назад +2

      @@_____________2007 yes. I’m gladly in remission from a malignant brain tumor. I hope to stay this way. Thank you for asking.

    • @meghasehdev9779
      @meghasehdev9779 Год назад +1

      You are a corageous one, god bless you :)

  • @quaderat1
    @quaderat1 2 года назад +2

    Ive survived 3 episodes of cancer. Ive survived it all and just carried on with life. I never stopped to really appreciate me, the wonder of my body and my good fortune until this talk. Thank you.

  • @domenicfinochiaro2464
    @domenicfinochiaro2464 2 года назад +7

    That's the meaning to life , just live it to the best of your ability!!! She is AWESOME

  • @valyananeva3008
    @valyananeva3008 2 года назад +3

    Same as me. Sometimes the diseases gives us more than the normal life. And in one moment I was thinking...what is the normal life? It has to be what I have now. Congrats on your healing process.
    We are the most important thing in it xxxx

  • @soksreymom3353
    @soksreymom3353 2 года назад +41

    Love her speech and really appreciate her attitude toward life, she is strong both inside and outside 💕

  • @tj3954
    @tj3954 2 года назад +18

    This is one of the best Ted talks that I have ever seen. Best wishes for her continued health!

  • @AbdallahBotan
    @AbdallahBotan 2 года назад +64

    With that energy, I'm 100% sure you will make it Elin. Congrats, people like you makes this world with full of impossiblities worth living.

  • @claudiolener2922
    @claudiolener2922 11 месяцев назад +7

    The fact that someone may be doing EVERYTHING right in life and STILL get severely sick is, to me, the most unfair aspect of life. It's truly saddening to know of her passing. Nevertheless, she gave a great talk that I'm sure continues to help many people watching it.
    Let's all live in the now.

    • @mahnoorfatima9951
      @mahnoorfatima9951 5 месяцев назад

      there are studies now that show that excessive stress in any form overwhelms the system and considering her life she put herself under too much physical stress between the gym and jobs, and was mentally stressed to keep that lifestyle up, undoubtedly the standard american diet she must have had worsening it from chemical/metabolic stress. Cancer has increasingly been shown to be linked to our systems being put under too much stress be it from habit of overthinking anxiety inducing throughts or physically exhausting the system or eating too much junk that cant be cleared out all the time leaving toxins behind doing their damage overtime. Overachievers like her for instance steve jobs also died of cancer so its making more and more sense now....Its only a matter of how much capacity your body has left to deal with the continual excess stress u put it under...too much of even a good thing can be bad...moderation is the key

  • @alonsoherrera8049
    @alonsoherrera8049 2 года назад +68

    One of the best and most inspiring talks that I have seen. This is a tremendous realization that happened through "disaster", just when she thought everything was perfect. Looks like life just wants us to be more present and alive, this anecdote is very similar to what happened too many great mystics.

  • @johnmcdonough955
    @johnmcdonough955 2 года назад +3

    Marvelous marvelous marvelous lady. Truly strong, truly centred and I believe a blessing to us who see your courage and fortitude.

  • @Bernard_01
    @Bernard_01 2 года назад +3

    Life is really a miracle to be grateful to have and to live for. I'm inspired greatly.

  • @GabardineSweetie
    @GabardineSweetie 2 года назад +1

    "We don't have time. We have now.". Profound.

  • @ChillSoYo
    @ChillSoYo 2 года назад +129

    Wow, an inspiring story! One thing is sure: Everyone of us will die but nobody knows when that day will be. I think to be more grateful in life, it is important to realize that we are only on this planet for a brief period of time! Have a good and conscious life! To everyone who is reading this :)

    • @devonseamoor
      @devonseamoor 2 года назад

      Life maybe too short to waste it, but be assured that more life will be offered to you, all for the benefit of the evolution of consciousness, a flowering of the seed once planted on our blue planet in the name of love. 🌞🌏🌝

    • @bettiesnyder8393
      @bettiesnyder8393 2 года назад

      @@devonseamoor That is truly beautiful. Thank you.

  • @claireh007
    @claireh007 2 года назад +8

    What an amazing and inspiring woman.
    I sincerely hope she has a long and very happy life 🙏🙏🙏

    • @jamesbond0004
      @jamesbond0004 2 года назад +1

      nope it doesn't matter how long, but how full, i think was the message

    • @claireh007
      @claireh007 2 года назад

      @@jamesbond0004
      Yes indeed! Nonetheless, I hope she continues to have a long, happy and full life...
      She doesn't want to die - she has far too much to live for! Granted, she makes every second count, but that doesn't mean that she's necessarily okay with dying.
      We all have a fear of death and our mortality whether we'd like to admit that or not - especially when our drive to live is so strong.

  • @retiredmona2181
    @retiredmona2181 2 года назад +14

    Thank you so much for sharing your amazing mindset. I am a cancer survivor going through chemo and you have inspired me to continue to live with your mindset... You are amazing!!!

  • @billiejennings9127
    @billiejennings9127 2 года назад +7

    “Through my strong will to live, I started to change on the inside” and her whole face lights up when she says “my strong will to live” what an amazing human

  • @Strawberryfox26
    @Strawberryfox26 2 года назад +8

    You have such a beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing your wisdom!

  • @marthawunnam2946
    @marthawunnam2946 Год назад +1

    "I don't know for how long I'll live but then again none of us do". Those words struck me. Thank you for the wake up call.

  • @shantitanna8033
    @shantitanna8033 2 года назад +8

    What an inspiring story , I was touched, brought tears to my eyes. Love you, take care. From Canada

  • @mjmj7799
    @mjmj7799 2 года назад +1

    The last quote "the time is now, so go out and live it" is the good motto

  • @za5989
    @za5989 2 года назад +3

    I was diagnosed with cancer while I was pregnant with my first and only child. When I went to hospital for biopsy never did I expect to hear from my doctor saying that " although we have to send the sample to lab to confirm the result but my diagnosis is that it is cancer". I had to go through surgery while being in my second trimester , four months pregnant. 6 years has passed since then , and I am still alive. Lots of thing has changed though, I had to quit my doctoral program at the 3rd year, but that was also part of my healing. My life has healed from being fearful, fearful of being myself or doing whatever I feel is right for me. Life goes on, the best thing we can do is to live every moment to the fullest as if there is no tomorrow.

  • @candidogonzalezfernandez9563
    @candidogonzalezfernandez9563 2 года назад +2

    Dear Elin, in my believes I consider you as a miracle. Thank you for sharing your extraordinary attitude to fight for your life! Take care.

  • @HolisticMenopauseWellness
    @HolisticMenopauseWellness 2 года назад +16

    What an amazing woman and an inspiration to all of us, to live life to the fullest! 😍

  • @claudiahinojosa9803
    @claudiahinojosa9803 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for making us realize we are ALIVE .❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @gwendolinegoetz9224
    @gwendolinegoetz9224 2 года назад +16

    I like how my cancer was announced by my urologist in a very same way. His assistant called me for an appointment. He took the biopsy analysis and said you have a bladder cancer (full stop). He continued to expose how it will treated and fixed - a pretty hard core process. I start to learn all what's going on around my cancer. I upgrade the protocol wherever is needed. Still at work with changed responsibilities compatible with my treatments and side effects...

    • @yankee2666
      @yankee2666 2 года назад

      . There’s a great little book on natural healing written by an older man who cured himself of a number of maladies without medical intervention, called My Physician, Myself. I read it a couple of years ago but lost my copy. I’m going to Amazon right now to order one and be more careful with it. It’s more than well worth the read. You might look into the work of Luigi Cornaro, a Venetian nobleman who lived to 102

    • @ZZ-su8ph
      @ZZ-su8ph 2 года назад +1

      🌹

  • @TheOfficerMahoney
    @TheOfficerMahoney Год назад +1

    She passed on today. Thank you for the inspiration. Thank you for all you did.

  • @Ericavolio
    @Ericavolio Год назад +1

    "I learned to love myself without having to perform or achieve". This sentence made me cry. Thank you for sharing! 🌹

  • @stellarsystembusters
    @stellarsystembusters 2 года назад +13

    There is such a beauty shining through you, not only physical beauty but also the beauty of your soul and your heart with every word you were speaking and expressing in this amazing talk!!! There is a light and a strength that is so strong and a humbleness that you are radiating, dear Elin! Thank you so much for sharing your story, the lessons of your healing journey and for showing us, the world, the transformed new you that you have become and are becoming!! You have the spirit of a spiritual warrior and the courageous heart of an athlete who has learned to understand what truly winning means…and that is so priceless and inspiring!! I’ve been through one of my worst years in my life last year and it’s a huge miracle that I’m still alive and in a much, much better place by now… I am on my own healing journey and so grateful to be allowed to learn and be inspired by such beautiful and courageous souls like you are…!! I’m looking forward to the time when I will be able to say that that year was the best year of my life… What kept me going was the strong desire to be able to help people one day so that all the suffering and major Traumata have happened for a higher purpose, for a reason not only to transform myself but to be of service to others as well. Yes, and you are right, what am I waiting for? Why not start living it NOW? …You are living it already… Thank you again!! Sending much love, light and many more blessings and miracles as you are realizing your highest potential and purpose that you came here to experience …🙏💖✨💫🌟❣️

  • @joanlyons2672
    @joanlyons2672 2 года назад +6

    A ❤ thank you! RWE said “ To have played and laughed with enthusiasm and sung with exaltation, to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived, this is to have succeeded.” You have more than succeeded! Thank you for sharing.

  • @SkinnyDancer
    @SkinnyDancer Год назад +3

    Love and Courage ❤ She wanted us to live here and now, In the moment of life!

  • @razimri7810
    @razimri7810 2 года назад +17

    Thank you for the encouraging words! My sister in law is battling cancer right now. She will be send home today as there is nothing the doctors can do anymore. I believe she has a fighting chance

  • @viviennepastor3188
    @viviennepastor3188 2 года назад

    Such a beautiful, articulate young women. You wonder how on earth she got lung cancer. Life is just not fair at all. My dear you are an inspiration.

    • @Bittersweet.Symphony.
      @Bittersweet.Symphony. 2 года назад

      Botoxed actor paid to be smug. So inspiring you now have a new life, right?

  • @ishanvidyarthi139
    @ishanvidyarthi139 2 года назад +8

    I heard this Ted talk 2 weeks ago. While walking, I was amazed how much passion she has towards her life. And how thrilled she is to share her knowledge with the world. I pray she gets a long and healthy journey to tell the 🌎🥲. Love from India🇮🇳❤️

  • @lisamuir4261
    @lisamuir4261 11 месяцев назад

    Where the clock on the wall quits existing! I love everything she is saying. And I feel her from where I'm sitting.

  • @christineo7930
    @christineo7930 2 года назад +28

    Man förstod att du skulle vara bra, men såhär bra… wow! Vilket tal. Så tagen av din historia trots att jag hört den flera gånger förut. Du är en lysande stjärna i världen, här för att göra skillnad. Och vilken skillnad du gör. Tack ❤️❤️❤️

    • @angelicacris4334
      @angelicacris4334 2 года назад +2

      Vilken fin kommentar. Tänk om alla kunde skriva så fint och uppmuntrande. Hoppas hon får läsa din kommentar. Hade det varit mig hade jag blivit jätteglad. ❤🧡💛

    • @rhythmandhazelmom
      @rhythmandhazelmom 2 года назад

      z bm mp

  • @haimanotmitiku3396
    @haimanotmitiku3396 2 года назад +3

    I cried 😢 the time is now to live, I don't want to survive anymore, I want to live my life to the fullest, she already won the battle, what a beautiful and vibrant soul

  • @canadiandiyguy4100
    @canadiandiyguy4100 2 года назад +10

    Elin. Thank you so very much for sharing, until now, I have not found such an inspirational presentation. Your story has reeduced me to tears, tears of inspiration “my love for life is so much stronger than my fear of dying”. I have survived three strokes since 2018; the most recent in January of this year has been the most devastating. Since January 5 of 2022, I have faced the overwhelming fear of another stroke, that could be worse. I am truly inspired to live life. I am truly grateful.

  • @margot7819
    @margot7819 2 года назад +1

    One of the most powerful speech i have listened to

  • @barbk2297
    @barbk2297 2 года назад +10

    Choose to live, to be alive, here and now, in every minute of the miracle called life :) Thank you for this beautiful talk. All the best to you Elin!

  • @kaylacarnanda3879
    @kaylacarnanda3879 7 месяцев назад

    She's an inspiration and wonderful human being. Thank you God I needed to hear this message. ❤

  • @MS-iz2vf
    @MS-iz2vf 2 года назад +4

    For me the insignificant health issues were headaches, balance issues and weak legs. The conversation with the doctor took place in February 2019. For me the diagnosis was incurable brain tumor and took place in the hospital bed as I just suffered from another epilepsy. I was almost incapable of telling my parents, brothers, wife and 3 kids about it as I was in shock. Now having undergone 2 major brain surgeries, radiotherapy and currently going through my second chimiothérapie I managed to replace fear and anger by gratitude. I am grateful as this experience allowed me to appreciate every aspect of my life, even if they seem negative at first. The relationships with my family and friends are more intense and intimate than they have ever been. My lessons from this: Don't compromise the present for the future. Don't confuse joy (short-term, partial and insignificant) with happiness (long-term, meaningful and holistic)

  • @jaegermeister1968
    @jaegermeister1968 2 года назад +6

    A very inspiring woman who also reminds me of a very good old friend. He always had a stressful, consumer-friendly and also superficial life until he was diagnosed with lymph gland cancer. A few months later we were taking a long leisurely walk through the woods and he said to me, obviously I had to get cancer to be able to enjoy the stillness and the beauty of the trees. Two or three weeks later I was at his funeral. I like to hike through the forest and sometimes I imagine that he is accompanying me although I know full well that this is nonsense. I like the idea anyway.

    • @katmc73
      @katmc73 2 года назад +2

      It may or may not be nonsense, but how happy would he be to know that you are appreciating the beauty of the world and remembering him. This is how we evolve. This is how we learn what matters. ♥️

  • @cosmicmauve
    @cosmicmauve 2 года назад +6

    From my experience, something that is life threatening puts you in "survival" mode because living is better than the alternative. It forces you to take one step at a time and put things in perspective.

  • @yocool7083
    @yocool7083 2 года назад +1

    One of the best teds i have ever seen