If He DEEPLY LOVES You He Will Say THESE Key Phrases

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  • @MagnetizeYourMan
    @MagnetizeYourMan  3 месяца назад +21

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    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 3 месяца назад +5

      What if in the moment you say it but that’s not what you meant…like oh boy not sure how to explain! Yikes. I made a fast correction as I don’t want to say something I don’t mean and not sure why I said it..why did I say it? O tell my friends I love them .. sooo help me understand this!

    • @SharieFoster
      @SharieFoster 2 месяца назад +1

      Refreshing!!!!😂

  • @vickiortega8034
    @vickiortega8034 3 месяца назад +372

    The key is: Does his actions match his words?

  • @staceysyvarth4452
    @staceysyvarth4452 2 месяца назад +93

    I passed out after donating blood. My guy told me "I'd be lost if anything happened to you" he had tears in his eyes.

    • @leahv.2537
      @leahv.2537 2 месяца назад +1

      ❤😊

    • @mentoncouve
      @mentoncouve Месяц назад +2

      I passed out too when I gave blood long time ago.Sadly, I didn't have such a nice partner by my side.

    • @cindy6576
      @cindy6576 Месяц назад +2

      I’m scared to give blood but want to.
      I’m more scared I’ll never have a man with tears in his eyes saying that to me.

    • @staceysyvarth4452
      @staceysyvarth4452 Месяц назад

      @@cindy6576 if you give through the red cross, they are very good at what they do. It doesn't hurt a bit.

    • @mihibernicedelamere7843
      @mihibernicedelamere7843 7 дней назад +1

      That’s beautiful 😢❤

  • @brigittes873
    @brigittes873 Месяц назад +29

    I accidentally said it to my guy after we had been together for 7 months…was on phone with him and I said…okay, see you soon..love you bye and didn’t even realize I had said it until that night he said…I love you too…been together 6 years now and still
    Going strong

  • @deannaedmondson1963
    @deannaedmondson1963 Месяц назад +29

    No man is responsible for any woman's happiness
    And no woman is responsible for any man's happiness
    My husband died suddenly 3 days before our 39th anniversary of course I'm devastated
    I thanked him for sharing his life with me.
    Love is an action word not a feeling 💖

  • @pamelabough2008
    @pamelabough2008 2 месяца назад +67

    My second husband never said it until after we were married. But he didn't have my back. I've not had a man say or even give an impression that they had my back. Taughtvme to stand alone.

    • @leahv.2537
      @leahv.2537 2 месяца назад +2

      Aww, I'm sorry you have not had a reliable man. I've fortunately have had guys SHOW me they had my back. They didn't have to say it though.

    • @janetkendle2073
      @janetkendle2073 Месяц назад +4

      Never could count on my first husband for anything. We were married for 25 years until his death. 2nd husband never said the "I" in front of "love you" and ended up ghosting me after 8 years and have never spoken to me again. Last I saw him was on a computer in a virtual courtroom. I finally have a husband who loves me and shows me and tells me.

  • @chriscampbell6272
    @chriscampbell6272 3 месяца назад +209

    Words don't mean anything to me. They can tell me all day long but I won't believe a word of it. Now if he SHOWS it I know.

    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 3 месяца назад +17

      Yep and when they say they will do something and don’t that’s big!!!

    • @annebowles550
      @annebowles550 3 месяца назад +5

      So true...

    • @nancyclaypool292
      @nancyclaypool292 3 месяца назад +8

      YEAH! IM DONE WITH THAT NONSENSE

    • @jenardus2667
      @jenardus2667 2 месяца назад +9

      I agree. Ppl can say anything. It's the ACTIONS that count.

    • @mjeanhibbs3272
      @mjeanhibbs3272 2 месяца назад +7

      I agree 100%!! Action speaks louder than words!!😊

  • @ginaglasgow8236
    @ginaglasgow8236 2 месяца назад +33

    Every man is different. I've been with one for 2 1/2 years. He was the first to say I love you. To say he would take care of me but his actions never met up to his words

  • @aniabrandt7
    @aniabrandt7 3 месяца назад +60

    When u have a right women she will help u multiplying whatever u have, your finances. Women is a multiplier

  • @RoseSimpson1111
    @RoseSimpson1111 Месяц назад +22

    Wow im at the point in this that you talked about giving up their bachelor lifestyle, combining yours and his lives and finances it really hit home. My late husband and i were 18 and 22 when we got married. He didnt even go out with the guy's for a bachelor night. I trusted him and was fine with it but He said no he wanted to see me. We always had combined finances for bills. Savings for future and our own individual savings and credit. Had two children and still bought our first home 4 yrs later. 44 yrs together. From what i see out there most men would'nt even consider this kind of commitment these days.

  • @lovehonesty
    @lovehonesty 2 месяца назад +40

    He never said it. And the first time when I was showing it, he said “you’re not falling in love with me, are you?” Dagger to the heart. Later I heard only after fights “I love you but…” During the discard, after my many services after 35 yrs together (27 yrs married) were no longer needed and he had new much younger married! supply lined up, he said “I do love you, I care about you, I never wanted to hurt you”. Actions speak louder than the words which I never got. At 25 yrs of marriage, he told me that to say those words during sex was trite, and also believed intimacy = sex = love. Trauma bonded me in the bedroom from the start. How stupid that I stayed. Turns out he’s a textbook narcissist and incapable of love.

    • @AmandaEdwards-lf7ne
      @AmandaEdwards-lf7ne Месяц назад

      I feel your pain.

    • @starchildtarot
      @starchildtarot Месяц назад

      Am sorry you went through that you deserved better

    • @RhondaStevens-t4l
      @RhondaStevens-t4l 27 дней назад

      So sorry

    • @cherrylleallan6366
      @cherrylleallan6366 24 дня назад +2

      I put up for 30 years with a narcissist, all my beautiful years have gone, I get mad with myself, as I tried to help an emotional cripple when men use to show me so much interest but kept true, but I think I was brought up in an era that you tried to help 😢

  • @MeloneeRouse
    @MeloneeRouse Месяц назад +8

    Him saying, "Together we can Overcome and Accomplish Anything. "My family and friends are gonna love you"! These show that he truly loves you. ❤

  • @empea4403
    @empea4403 3 месяца назад +38

    It takes a very loving confident man to sincerely say to his upset wife, ‘Tell me More’. Now that I know that it’s possible for men to be this way I will not settle.😊

  • @Musicismylove888
    @Musicismylove888 3 месяца назад +117

    Combine your banking accounts? I believe it's healthier to have mine and his but to have to also have an "us" account.

    • @maggies88
      @maggies88 3 месяца назад +11

      That's what we do. We very rarely fight about money.

    • @scorpification
      @scorpification 3 месяца назад +8

      Yes! This prevents sooo many disagreements and resentment

    • @tatianakooks8202
      @tatianakooks8202 2 месяца назад +3

      So easy and it gives boths side a safe feeling

    • @leslieschott754
      @leslieschott754 Месяц назад +3

      If we’d combined accounts (I had much more then him) we’d be living on the streets! Second husband, owned his own business but it put him in bankruptcy. Separated; he’d been in bad health but refused to take care of himself. Passed away 2 years after separation. I was paying to transfer him to assisted living because he was so ill, passed before he got settled in. Also took care of his cremation & burial.

    • @Cgggg6876
      @Cgggg6876 Месяц назад +4

      Never ever combine - they can sue you later and make up any pretend reason you “stole” from them. Don’t do it.

  • @kazzana9013
    @kazzana9013 2 месяца назад +22

    I wanted my husband to listen until I had resolved my own problems in my head. I am not a child. If I needed my husbands input I would ask directly. Most of the woman I know, want their partners to listen, whilst they work their emotions to balance the empathy we feel with the practicality of life.
    I also made sure I often acknowledged all he did for me, and how he made me feel secure and protected. Men are a blessing in our lives, but we woman are adults, just with a different skill set usually.

  • @58breezing
    @58breezing 2 месяца назад +7

    When I was a kid, I saw every woman in our family get mistreated by their man. Husband or boyfriend. The pain these woman went thru removed any interest in seeking a man. It was heartbreaking. I feel like I got lucky. No drama. Yeah... not living the fullest, but I dodged nonsense. With that being said, I think men are cool. I appreciate their perspective.

  • @nancyclaypool292
    @nancyclaypool292 3 месяца назад +28

    Im over 60 & am too old for these games men ovee 50 play by saying I love you first but cant back up those words with mature actions. Seems men these days no matter the age think its okay to play games with a woman's mind & heart causing emotional trauma that makes us suspicious & guarded with every man! I for one am sick & tired of men over 50 playing high school games with me! DUDE!? Grow up! You're almost dead!

    • @kathycoker7763
      @kathycoker7763 2 месяца назад +6

      Well said!! I had the same thing happen to me.

    • @christinedewitt3826
      @christinedewitt3826 2 месяца назад +2

      Because theyre still little boys!! They just play you for sex. Too funny, grow up, you're almost dead lol😂😂😂😂
      ​@kathycoker7763

    • @RoseSimpson1111
      @RoseSimpson1111 Месяц назад +3

      Since being widowed 2 yrs ago I've met a man in his 50s that doesn't play games. He was also widowed but at a much younger age. Spent time raising his teenage kids, healing and putting himself back together again. He rolls his eyes when we are out or around friends that are still playing games. Men as well as woman. He's a few yrs younger than me and I know he wants marriage, but I still need time and he's very patient. For now it's just a committed relationship. Not marriage.

    • @old-soul
      @old-soul Месяц назад

      @@RoseSimpson1111❤❤❤

  • @missmiss40258
    @missmiss40258 Месяц назад +5

    I love you doesn't mean more to me than... I love being around you. It's not a romantic feeling. Or a sentence that cures all

  • @angelaroberts1128
    @angelaroberts1128 Месяц назад +3

    My boyfriend has said all of these. But he also backs it up with his actions. He was also the first to say I love you.

  • @misslucky93
    @misslucky93 3 месяца назад +33

    My boyfriend told me when we getting to know each other what he had (assets/possessions)
    Right after, I was confused as to why he told me about future plans with me, he always says "WE"
    Marry me, have children. save money and build a house for us. He even gives me his salary.
    So, this video is facts!

    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 3 месяца назад +2

      I noticed the we talk and that too. Safety also

  • @daisie2267
    @daisie2267 3 месяца назад +8

    Note on trust: it’s earned, not freely given so if men can be patient, we can relax and trust. If a woman can’t be vulnerable after he’s demonstrated trustworthiness, then she has healing work to do

  • @Peggy_Lyons-tu1sj
    @Peggy_Lyons-tu1sj 27 дней назад +2

    I'd say new relationships are all about applying common sense, and taking your time. I've found that nothing is better when rushed, giving things time to breath and develop always produces the best results.

  • @pricesunbury59
    @pricesunbury59 3 месяца назад +21

    My man already does it without any prompting from me. ❤❤

  • @EstherPillay-zp6tn
    @EstherPillay-zp6tn Месяц назад +2

    Im crying here from happiness bec my guy has spoken all these things .n I'm the one keep doubting him...I need to value him....thank u❤

  • @carolejackson8357
    @carolejackson8357 2 месяца назад +6

    So don't settle for less. I've got that part down well.

  • @waterlilynymph
    @waterlilynymph 3 месяца назад +22

    I dated a lot of players in my life before, and they never talked about marriage or kids right away or ever. They were very sure of themselves to not talk about those things to get into my pants. I don’t think men use those words to get women, that’s a hypothetical idea that just doesn’t exist. Cause players don’t really want the drama or to be tied down so they would never say they love you or want to have kids with you.
    That’s just my honest observation of over 40 years dating many player or non-committed types. I don’t think you have to warn women about that.
    I have learned with only a very few men telling me they loved me or wanted kids with me that they meant it, even earlier on.
    This was a lovely video of confirmation of when to open up and trust a man when he does say some of these things.

    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 3 месяца назад

      Not my experience as they tell you asap I love you to get sx from you!

  • @junelledembroski9183
    @junelledembroski9183 2 месяца назад +5

    I hope we're not both so broken that we can't do it. I'm going to give it my all!

  • @christinerodriguez3976
    @christinerodriguez3976 3 месяца назад +4

    "I got you," I'm not sure. I've heard that, and he really didn't. I've heard "I love you" I was married for 17 years. I feel actions speak louder than words.

  • @cherylsimpson5899
    @cherylsimpson5899 3 месяца назад +16

    His eyes 👀 are so dreamy 😻. One of the most beautiful eyes I've ever seen on a guy...

  • @PattiDarlingPage
    @PattiDarlingPage 3 месяца назад +29

    He respects my beliefs not to have sex before we are married We have known eachother 6 months now.

    • @PattiDarlingPage
      @PattiDarlingPage 2 месяца назад +4

      Now, another person (a long time male friend) has lied a out me and caused drama. He hasn't given up on me and I haven't given up on him .He had talked to his pastor and told him he was in love with me . He wanted me to meet with his pastor for counseling. WE were making plans.
      The lie was of serious nature. I don't know what to do. Please help me !

    • @sophieroberts7920
      @sophieroberts7920 2 месяца назад

      @@PattiDarlingPage feel for you. I would tell my new friend the whole story!!!!! otherwise it will always haunt you. Good luck

    • @carolejackson8357
      @carolejackson8357 2 месяца назад +1

      🙏. In the end, slander tends to come back and bite them.
      A person who will slander will show their true colors at some point. I just held my peace. In my situation, I got the pastor involved to warn him, given that he was doing it in our singles group where I was well known and respected.
      When I hear people trash talking others, it lowers my opinion of the one giving bad reports.
      My slanderer was seen close the flame that he was rather quickly.

    • @danaday1782
      @danaday1782 Месяц назад

      I love you. I got you.

  • @sebclay1526
    @sebclay1526 3 месяца назад +21

    This was great. My man has expressed a lot of these qualities. I feel safe and very cared for. He says he loves me ❤ once ot twice throughout the year but his actions speak much louder.
    We're both divorced and we both have kids from 14-40😂😅😢😅😅 10 total 5 him 5 mine ❤❤the kids get along as well as the pets.
    So far so good. Not sure if or how we marry. Pre numps and all that is going to be interesting.
    Will see. ...may wait till the minor grows up. 🎉🎉🎉🎉loving ❤️ the journey. Oh by the way. I have my own house 🏠 and he has his.. We go from home to home. Same city.
    Having a blast. Just came across your site.
    Excellent both of you.🎉🎉

  • @barbara-annperry5941
    @barbara-annperry5941 3 месяца назад +10

    Can you tell by how they cuddle you. Long and strong hugs 🫂

  • @campbell1446
    @campbell1446 Месяц назад +2

    Father Anthony de Mello said, "You are never in love with anyone. You're only in love with your prejudiced and hopeful idea of that person." That doesn't mean love does not exist; it just means we say we love someone when we haven't a clue what it means. Read "Awareness." Or watch his videos on RUclips.

  • @KyleataOrta
    @KyleataOrta 3 месяца назад +33

    If he loves you he’ll marry you …….!

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  3 месяца назад +8

      True

    • @JennyCollen-td4fq
      @JennyCollen-td4fq 3 месяца назад +4

      My sweet Phil tells me loves me all the time. As a matter of fact he told me first on the first day we met. Talks to me multiple times everyday and I love you several times a day and love all over everything. Now we are on our path to marriage 💕

  • @laurieellis2378
    @laurieellis2378 3 месяца назад +6

    Is i've got you and i'm here for you in the same strength ?

  • @margovallen
    @margovallen 2 месяца назад +2

    When a man goes into a relationship with a "what if it doesn't work out" mentality, that's a deal-breaker for me. A man like that is not ready to give his all into the relationship and then I am not able to give my all because he knows more about himself than I do. I would never consider signing a prenup.. as that falls right into the same category of "in case it doesn't work out." In my opinion, such a relationship is doomed from the get-go. Having trust for one another is a thing.

  • @jmarie4875
    @jmarie4875 3 месяца назад +8

    Ok guys but what about older couples?
    Those of us 40+
    We've had kids, we've been married and divorced. Talk to and research all your audience

  • @magnaajube7784
    @magnaajube7784 3 месяца назад +6

    The relationship check in is the anti divorce strategy excellent!

  • @yvonnebaker2574
    @yvonnebaker2574 Месяц назад +1

    Actions mean everything to me

  • @merylparks1584
    @merylparks1584 2 месяца назад +5

    After my divorce and left broke, I wish I had a separate bank account away from him cause I would have been able to eat and put gas in my car
    So I’m a big believer in separate accounts

  • @wardhoover1
    @wardhoover1 Месяц назад +2

    21:21 We are in our 70's been divorced for 12 yrs with no other relationships or interest in dating until we met., I am a widow of 4 yrs , married 32+ yrs. Wasnt looking for a man but this somehow took over my life & now This relationship has been evolving for almost 3 yrs. He STILL has not communicated any...indication of combining anything! I believe he's sincere in his love for me, but I am not feeling that its progressing to the point of marriage. Too soon? Gun shy? Signed, Stuck in Kalamazoo!

    • @daShellius
      @daShellius 17 дней назад

      I hope that he's planning to have his children take care of him in his decline rather than you.

  • @Bluewillowskys68
    @Bluewillowskys68 16 дней назад

    It's only been a few weeks and we've said I love you. After a week he started saying I got you. I had no idea what all that phrase meant though it did warm my heart right away. We had a disagreement of sorts yesterday, now hearing this video makes me think more. I don't want to lose this so I will trust him on hiw words until he can make them in action.

  • @ginaliggi3541
    @ginaliggi3541 Месяц назад +2

    You guys rock. Love listening to

  • @sabat8068
    @sabat8068 Месяц назад

    Im seeing a guy and he never told me he loves me, but i feel so loved with him. Before him, i was seeing a guy who told me he loves me 2 days into meeting me and kept declaring his big love, said he'll never leave me. After 5 months he went and ghosted me. Some men are just... I don't understand some men...

  • @Bluewave710
    @Bluewave710 2 месяца назад

    Awesome conversation and topics! When men and women have been burned in the past, they are feeling scared to share finances, but have to overcome that. When they realize not everyone is out to hurt them.

  • @kathrynsrice1626
    @kathrynsrice1626 Месяц назад

    You guys are good at explaining how men's valnerabilities show up to the significant women in their lives. On this episode you mentioned that a man that truly loves and wants to build a life with you wants you to be happy and needs to be able to play an active, if not majority, part in their role to help that be the reality. I agree that men want the women in their lives to be happy. Of course that should be reciprocal in a healthy relationship. But we are not always going to be happy. Nobody is. Navigating those times in life with strength of love, patience, and belief that bad times will pass and things will change - that is the real difference between 10 year marriages and 30 year marriages. But I often read in books and watch male characters who, when they are sad, feel empty, or are just generally not ok, especially if they have no idea why, don't share that with their wives maybe because they don't want them to worry or think that they are the problem some how because "we talk to each other. If it were something other than me he would just say so." I don't think these things begin deceptive but they often seem to become deceptive. So can you talk to us about what men go thru during times like these and what are the best ways to be supportive and yet maintain our boundaries as to what we will forgive and what we will not accept in our marriage. Thanks for the insight you help provide.

  • @sherriepolensky374
    @sherriepolensky374 13 дней назад

    I also understand that I need to contribute financially to our relationship and keep him safe too

  • @Huei-YiPan-vj1jy
    @Huei-YiPan-vj1jy Месяц назад +1

    Absolutely LOVE this!!!!

  • @pricesunbury59
    @pricesunbury59 2 месяца назад +2

    My man already does that.

  • @tawnyaabel9590
    @tawnyaabel9590 15 дней назад +1

    You guys seem very respectful
    Thanks for sharing your thoughts

  • @Belle-e5h
    @Belle-e5h Месяц назад

    "I've got you" sounds nice in calm waters. Yet, if you have an estate plan or are an attorney, you may understand that certain events can prove the truth about verbal promises and commitments. Illness, injury, traumas ... happen. Seek professional therapy "before" making promises, rather than bailing when things get tough. Relationships include imperfect life occurrences where someone has no control or fault for the complex issues, such as infertility and why someone may not want the marriage certificate, but may want you.

  • @vaksehund2
    @vaksehund2 Месяц назад

    Sometimes online fishing will ask as the 1'st question if you're married & say they want to marry you, not asking but say they want to.

  • @sherriepolensky374
    @sherriepolensky374 13 дней назад

    I've gotten those words from my man. I've got you, I love you, I want to marry you, you and I are a good team. I know when he says the words I love you, if he's sincere I feel it in my whole being.

  • @Openhearted2024
    @Openhearted2024 2 месяца назад

    The financial “win” in a broken relationship is relative to what you bring in to the marriage. My mother had the cash and real estate and my step had the debt. It all depends. He left richer than he entered the marriage.

  • @miamildh4521
    @miamildh4521 16 дней назад +1

    I'm a women and i think like this and do like they say and ther talking a bout men, but I agree what they say 😅😂❤

  • @Isaiahch35vs8
    @Isaiahch35vs8 3 месяца назад

    Fab. Probably the most honest insight into the male perspective on commitment I’ve seen.

  • @julietruesdell.371
    @julietruesdell.371 2 месяца назад +1

    I am super emotional especially during the beginning of a relationship and feel the anxious about it all. Im happy to hear that the right man will stay in the fire and help you dim your fire instead of spreading a wildfire. You guys give great advice. Thank you.

  • @Vinenessa33
    @Vinenessa33 Месяц назад +1

    What if the woman is asking the man how many kids he wants, because I asked him because I am at an age where I can't have kids anymore and because of something else that happened in the past?

  • @ZandreBeau
    @ZandreBeau 3 месяца назад +10

    Do not under any circumstance combine finances specifically when it comes to tax matters. What’s yours is yours and what’s his is his. People do change and you’ll be in a serious unfortunate pickle then. Take it from me… 🙄

    • @ambivalent5842
      @ambivalent5842 3 месяца назад +1

      Strongly disagree. When married , it is both of yours , by law! If you go in with that mindset, you are already out the door. This is why vetting is of utmost importance. Interdependence is the goal. Co, de, and inde- pendence is unhealthy.

    • @ZandreBeau
      @ZandreBeau 2 месяца назад

      @@ambivalent5842 I went into the marriage with the mentality of sharing everything and in the end, I lost a lot and I regretted ever doing that. The man changed, cheated and humiliated me in the end. I learned my lessons the hard way. Never again.

  • @gen6895
    @gen6895 Месяц назад

    I love your points of how each partner can do the checking in with each other with an err of love and kindness. Quite frankly i would have to take a second from being caught off guard. Never had that. Would love to have that! Furthermore that dude would earn my respect for doing so!
    Here is where i draw the line. I will never ask for permission to express what i am thinking or feeling with my man. If he cant handle me being straight and to the point with open communication then he is not the one for me. He should know where my heart is at from the beginning. Then respond in the manner in which you suggest of asking follow up questions.
    Point 3...when in a relationship we are equals therefore no one is the leader. We work together as a team to figure out how to navigate life together.

  • @cherylgero8161
    @cherylgero8161 Месяц назад

    I feel a prenup is real love. Trust wil will grow and be real.

  • @judybarnett5887
    @judybarnett5887 3 месяца назад +2

    If he text you day and night and all through when he is text say that he love you.

  • @monicajones4924
    @monicajones4924 3 месяца назад +1

    Totally agree with you . Lepard can't change thier spots

  • @deborahbrenizer5617
    @deborahbrenizer5617 2 месяца назад

    Using the words we and us mire. He said he needs me. He wants to share everything. I think he wants more,just dont say the words yes i know his friends.

  • @LeoMoon_Goddess
    @LeoMoon_Goddess Месяц назад

    Wow! Good point on the marriage certificate advantage, Kevin 👌

  • @HolliePledge-g8j
    @HolliePledge-g8j 2 месяца назад

    Actually, cohabitation is marriage. That’s the problem around the moral concept of living together before marriage. The ancient definition is cohabitation. If that creates a moral requirement to remain faithful to someone you’ve cohabitated with, then you haven’t solved a problem, you’ve created one of you decide you don’t like the other person. Maybe you should simply spend time with the person in his or her home or with the person’s family. Enough time to see how they live and function in a family unit and what responsibilities they have and if and how they make contributions to the home. You don’t have to live together to see that or find out.

  • @jan1451
    @jan1451 3 месяца назад +1

    great video. I certainly didn't think clearly. Thank goodness for his clear thinking and slowed me down

  • @LaibaRafiq-ts5qr
    @LaibaRafiq-ts5qr 2 месяца назад +1

    What if he told her that he wants to marry her for her personality and chatacter but dont have any feelings for her or love her?
    Please answer that question🙏🙏🙏

    • @americanpatriot7247
      @americanpatriot7247 Месяц назад +3

      LaibaR..... If he has no feelings for the woman and does not love her.... then it would be only casual friends with 'privileges'.... NOT a successful marriage. He will cheat and there will be no loyalty or respect. The woman will feel empty. Major red flag here!
      The response to this proposal should be "No, but thankyou. I deserve better than that. Appreciate the compliment but that wouldn't work for me." Best of luck for finding the man you deserve. This selfish man is not him.

  • @anamontiel1544
    @anamontiel1544 24 дня назад

    How soon when a man says it on his own, sincere? Then he wanted me to say it back. I understand what you’re saying but in my case it’s the other way around.

  • @thecatholicunschooler6507
    @thecatholicunschooler6507 28 дней назад

    I am listening and so far I like it except for where he said to live together so you can find out if it’s going to work. When I got engaged to my husband I went around the whole day at work asking do you think I should live with him first? Most everyone said I should except for a couple of people. I finally at the end of the day I asked my father the same question. He was the smartest of them all and said if you love each other you’ll make it work. And so, we did not live together for us and we’ve been married ever since

  • @kathyazzari839
    @kathyazzari839 Месяц назад

    Interesting, besides my current relationship, the guy has always said "I love you" first, and I didn't respond in the moment, although I did maybe a week later. My ex-husband said it first, and I didn't reciprocate, and he told me later that me not responding in kind was a sign of immaturity. My current bf has only said it a couple of times in 25 years. So, I stopped saying it because it hurt that he could never say it to me. So, i guess he doesn't love me, but he does "care" about me. We're old now, so it doesn't matter any,ore.

  • @TheMisssy2
    @TheMisssy2 3 дня назад +1

    These videos are so scary for me as a woman who has always acted mostly in masculine Really hard to watch and see how I operate. How much he put up with...I put up with more, but I know he loves me.

    • @TheMisssy2
      @TheMisssy2 3 дня назад +1

      I was super feminine until he cheated after 10 years, then I questioned everything & walls are up.

  • @ripeundead8239
    @ripeundead8239 Месяц назад

    I'm a woman who's hyper independent with avoidant attachment. Don't fall in love with me cause if you say it ima run. But if you act it I'd stay

  • @amanda-ok1ww
    @amanda-ok1ww 27 дней назад

    Can anyone explain what is going on with a man who is an underachieving (lazy, works part-time)ALPHA type, who doesn't do any of the things suggested that indicate 'love', yet has been faithful to the same woman for 10 years? His woman works 80 hours a week, is professional, faithful, and does everything regarding the home and children; she's his equal is physical attractiveness & age. Is he using her? Would it be likely that this type of man isn't actually faithful, just incredibly sneaky? He also talks to her like trash. She obviously should leave him, but she wants to understand what's going on with him. He's always been this way, it's just worse as the yrs go by. Any thoughts will be appreciated!

  • @DianeRussell-b6g
    @DianeRussell-b6g 27 дней назад

    Some say it just to get what they want.

  • @TerriYoung-m4c
    @TerriYoung-m4c 25 дней назад

    It's good for knowledge purposes.

  • @viancaconnor5522
    @viancaconnor5522 29 дней назад

    Does it matter or is there a difference if they say “I Love you” vs “Love You”. For me that “I” matters LoL

  • @Cheryl9675
    @Cheryl9675 Месяц назад

    If their attachment style is Dismissive Avoidant, this doesn't apply! They move at a much different pace. At least mine does.

  • @ErikaMT4J
    @ErikaMT4J 3 месяца назад +3

    What about the men that don't like saying what they feel? How do they express it without verbalizing it?

    • @sarahwnyc8080
      @sarahwnyc8080 3 месяца назад +1

      Not universal. Depends on the guy and no one really knows, which is why videos like this are so successful at preying on their viewers' desires.

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  3 месяца назад +3

      Through their actions and devotion

    • @lindazeitler9025
      @lindazeitler9025 3 месяца назад

      L​@@sarahwnyc8080

    • @peteransell2000
      @peteransell2000 3 месяца назад

      Yes..my guy is not good at expressing himself..but he tells me what he doesn't want!

  • @spirituallybrattytarot
    @spirituallybrattytarot 17 дней назад

    I think combining finances is the hardest part. Lol.
    I made it clear that I wanted to have my own account, he had his own account, we have a joint family account for bills, vacations, etc. that we both contribute to every month, and then we have a investment account for our future that we both also invest in every month. Seems to work.

  • @miilangambino4938
    @miilangambino4938 17 дней назад

    Love is a four legged word 😅

  • @anbz1066
    @anbz1066 Месяц назад

    How would I communicate in a Feminine way where we stand in the relationship, and say that I would like to move to exclusivity or an actual relationship to see where he is at?

  • @queen_oftheNIGHT
    @queen_oftheNIGHT Месяц назад

    I’m so tired of wondering what men are feeling. Turns out not much cause they’re always not sure 😒 men do love to wait around tho .. just waiting waiting waiting ✌️

  • @ozlemSmythe-tf9xv
    @ozlemSmythe-tf9xv 3 месяца назад +1

    My partner of three years have never said it, he has adhd and maybe autism, but I’m struggling to see how he feels as he can’t give me a simple answer.

  • @BrianHerr-h5r
    @BrianHerr-h5r 23 дня назад

    This video just made my day. Thank you!

  • @sandraoakley7171
    @sandraoakley7171 Месяц назад

    Excellent, Your podcast was very helpful, Thank you!

  • @Carol-sm6zu
    @Carol-sm6zu 3 месяца назад +3

    Please list the key phrases.

  • @pricesunbury59
    @pricesunbury59 Месяц назад

    My man isn't like that. We have been together for awhile. He wants to get a house together and live together but we haven't talked about marriage. He does all of the care, how are you, arr you happy. I am happy where we arr

  • @elsajavinez
    @elsajavinez 3 месяца назад +2

    Thanks for this video

  • @sandrah1779
    @sandrah1779 Месяц назад

    Thanks for this video you don't find very often. What if a man says I love you too soon into the relationship? Should I trust him?

  • @April-dt8pp
    @April-dt8pp 2 месяца назад

    Am I broken? (Probably, lol) "I've got you" has never melted me....not bashing what you guys are saying at all. Just wondering what's wrong with me. Appreciate the sharing ❤

  • @gaylemorgan226
    @gaylemorgan226 Месяц назад

    THIS IS VERY INTERESTING, SOUNDS LIKE GREAT ADVICE, THANK YOU...

  • @kariebrownbrown1600
    @kariebrownbrown1600 2 месяца назад +1

    I am 64 I have chosen a man that loves me regardless of my wealth but he has very little to his name. We have signed up prenup. What can I do to secure his love for me? And know my children are secure.
    And not make him feel less

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  2 месяца назад +2

      To find other ways he can give, provide, protect and be your Hero in the relationship

    • @alomaalber6514
      @alomaalber6514 Месяц назад +1

      You cannot make any one love you. if he does, great!

  • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
    @user-zx5xw4yw2e Месяц назад +2

    I had a guy say alllll that. N he married someone else.
    😂
    Some just love to toy and deceive.

  • @peteransell2000
    @peteransell2000 3 месяца назад

    Thanks for that...lts been very worthwhile God bless ypu both

  • @rebeccanestor4588
    @rebeccanestor4588 27 дней назад

    Thankyousoooomuchh!! Never stop learning ..

  • @healyourvenus555
    @healyourvenus555 25 дней назад

    Thank you 🌟

  • @mistydawn5061
    @mistydawn5061 Месяц назад

    What if its a guy friend? Like yall plan going to places together

  • @nadiachaneli
    @nadiachaneli Месяц назад

    What if he said love you ❤️.... instead of i love you what does it mean ... He may be true or his trying to hide things behind....im kind of confused right now with my level of my long term relationship??

  • @rebeccaloper2808
    @rebeccaloper2808 17 дней назад

    Thanks!