**Staying silent can be a powerful tool. It can be used to protect yourself, to avoid conflict, or to simply let your actions speak louder than your words. But it's important to use staying silent wisely. If you stay silent when you should speak up, you could be doing yourself or others a disservice.**
That in itself is an important trait. Before you say anything make sure you yourself understand the situation and have thoroughly considered your answer.
Because thats cowardice, not wisdom. Introvert is another word for shy. and shy is another word for something like "easy frightened" Stand straight with your shoulders back! annopinion from another introvert , peace!
The more people there are in a room the quieter I get haha But also I've been told I'm a great listener, and when the person I'm having a conversation with finishes their train of thought and even asks me what I think I'm usually good at answering because, well, I listened :) But also if you enjoy being somewhere, and being "too quiet", that's just you man. Enjoy yourself. Sometimes people might comment on it but as long as they accept and get you, it's worth to keep working on that relationship in your own ways. If they don't appreciate you, however, and continue using "too quiet" as mockery, you can always find someone more accepting!
@@Kal-El207 Then teach me how to socialise properly with people. Teach me how to not have language barrier issues. Teach me how to not have the fear of being judged. Teach me how to not be afraid of the crowd. I'm not saying that I'm different or I have mental issues or have severe traumas or anything sort, but I'm just saying that I'm not good with people, and I'm fully aware that what I think are "negative thoughts" are just stress. I don't hate my life, and I will never do. I love my life, and I love the one true God the most. I possess emotional, religious and moral restrictions. Y'all keep saying this, and I'm tired of it. It's not that I don't want to. I'm trying to, but all I get from ever talking to people was them judging me even further, saying things that hurt me personally as an introvert who really is trying really hard to change. I know that there are people who actually helped or accepted for who I am, but I am just here to tell the other side of the story.
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As someone who barely speaks in general, i agree that silence can be a powerful tool but the biggest struggle i have is expressing my thoughts and emotions to others as i tend to stay silent (Edit: it's both sad and comforting seeing everyone relate. I hope yall do better in life)
A trick leaders often use is to remain silent in a meeting where there are conflicting points of view. Just listening to everyone and their points and making sure everyone feels heard is important. Once everyone has had their say and made their arguments you can then come in at the end and summarise the different opinions as you understood them and make your decision. This way you are not in conflict with your subordinates and you have let everyone's opinion be heard without forcing through your own opinion. It's a very effective approach but you must refrain from the urge to speak until the end.
Being silent is not passive, its concentrated strength. It is a form of control. Controlling impulses and emotions instead of them controlling you. Its easy to control people who are controlled by emotion. Meditation will reverse this and give you great power over yourself. Thats why you see all these Monks doing superhuman things.
True submission is certainty, and certainty is the affirmation of the truth, and affirmation of the truth is acknowledgement, and acknowledgement is performance of what is obligatory, and performance of what is obligatory is appropriate action. Watch your thoughts for they become words Watch your words for they become actions Watch your actions for they become habits Watch your habits for they become character Watch your character for you become your destiny. Ali ibn abu taleb
The power of Silence why? They must respect while you know nothing... Or They must respect you really you know a lot... The power of Silence... 💯❤️🙆♂️
To anyone who's watching this video and reading the comments, my wish for you is that any troubles or anxieties that have been weighing you down will begin to lift. May your mind be cleared of negative thoughts, incessant overthinking, and any doubts that have been holding you back. May clarity replace your confusion, and may your life be filled with peace and calmness. Take the wisdom from this video and empower yourself to achieve all that you seek. 🙏✨
This cannot be more true. Im a silent person in general and I agree you really do see other povs way better when you're silent aka, thats when youre actually trying to understand other peoples perspectives because all you're doing is listening. When you're talking its always talking over other people aka youre too busy trying to get your own point across rather than actually listening to what others around you are truly saying. I see it all the time. That stage of comprehending and taking time to understand what others are saying gets replaced by your talking.
I too have practiced this ancient technique. I've been silent just about my entire life, so silent that I completely forgot how to speak. I no longer have control of my mouth so I have to write everything down or spell it out through keyboard text. Thank you, wise old man, I am now wise like you.
I have been practicing silent time almost daily for the last fifteen years... It's results are amazing ... It has helped me to overcome big struggles in my life with a relaxed mind
The most relaxed person is the most dangerous. When you are relaxed, your energy flows naturally and undisturbed. You can think clear, focus and execute
Yeahhh I have a problem with being silent I tend to always want to talk & say how I feel … but sometimes it is best to stay quiet & only speak wise words …. Silence helps you listen more & just be at peace forreal . It all makes sense but it is gonna be hard because I love to have my point proven … :/ imma work on it today !!!
When I started my first Job, I was pretty silent and the Ladies were outright confused and scared and angry by it. Realized none of them were judgemental as the Gals from my School Days and were accepting of someone like me, I slowly began to speak up and still am slowly. Of course I am glad I am getting along with 96% of my Coworkers and hopefully I will be on the goodside of 100% of my People I meet as well. I’m glad I was able to use my Mimic Skill to just observe the Best People in action and I hope to be like them one day honestly.😊
There are countless times I wanted to say things to people that hurt me, I wanted to fight back, but I stayed silence and I am glad I did because it could have been worse
It is powerful,I have sat there in silence and ppl will go on with secrets, exposing deep secrets and exposing themselves if they really ur friend, they not!!!
@@karen0110 it's better for it not considered illness because it's really not. These first world countries are so fragile they consider every little thing as illnesses.
Sometimes I like to be silent and just be. For me it's good to be silent for a little while in Meditative states or reading a book. However, your throat chakra will block where you repressed voice which may not get much use will start to manifest into throat infections. Thyroiditis and can in some instances throat cancer. When it's our time to powerfully speak our truth w must do so. During my health issues I had to understand why my throat was always itchy until I had a foot massage and alot that I didn't know I came to know and understand. The body likes cycles where it likes to communicate and sometimes it won't depending on the person. We live in technology age where we have forgotten the power of silence is definitely golden to bring our minds and body back into harmony and bliss back to centre.
@@inertboi : yes, all your pressure points under your foot, tells you problems that are occurring in the rest of your body. There are books on this subject as well.
I was also given advice not to always be quite because it caused medical issues, but I now pray about my things and God helps me to control all the issues. Amen. 🙏 🙌
Not always so...my silence disconnected me with a family member. I felt if I was silent about what happened I was protecting them. But when the time came to tell them, they were furious as why I didn't tell them sooner. In protecting them as a mother, I did the wrong thing in their eyes. So silence doesn't always hold true. Your damed if you do and your damed if you don't.
great story, it's good when you are all alone, silence doesn't;t help always, the best moral is that one should wait till what extent he should be silent and when and where the person should break his silence. In this era, people will kill you physically or mentally if you remain silent always.....
i actually knew this when i was younger. but in my years, i've forgotten the wisdom of my youth and i've listened to the chaos of the world. i will try to get back to the enlightenment i knew before.
Recently, trying to remain silent has helped me in understanding various things mentioned in the video within past 10 months. I have learnt many things as exactly mentioned. Being wisely silent actually helps! Nice video sir! Thanks for it.
ive stayed silent almost my whole life i know and witnessed a lot of things, ive seen the beauty of the world arround me that ive never seen before, i know so much about the people arround me *but* something grew inside me has time moved on ... i found myself feeling alone and detatched from the world arround me, no one knew who i was or that i even existed even tho i was with them for a long time, i wasnt a part of anyone's life. I felt detatched from the world arround me like if i was nothing but a ghost. you must learn to be silent but if you stay too silent then there is no difference between you and a dead man.
As an autistic, I already struggle with verbal communication by default. So I'm usually quiet because I prefer to only speak up if I actually have to say anything important. I see no point in talking just for the sake of talking. When people noticed that I actually listened and dont just let them speak, they opened up to me more and more, some even revealing their deepest secrets to me. They know I won't tell anyone, and they value the advice I give them, because I don't believe in telling people what they should to. I just give suggestions that perhaps they don't see the whole picture. Usually, they come to the conclusions all on their own. But they need to talk to someone about their feelings and problems to reflect themselves. And if they want my honest opinion, I always warn them beforehand that I'm not the kind of person to sugarcoat. Beating around the bush just to spare a person's feelings can do more harm than good
God give us two ears and one mouth. That means we should listen more than we talk. Silent and listen have the same letters. Meditate on this and maybe we can all learn from it. I myself will try to do this more and more each day. God bless you all
I learned to be silent most of the time, because I understood that in a great portion of circumstances, there's no need to speak,, as it is mostly a stupid game of people's ego and unresolved issues. In almost all the events, aknowledging the situation and controlling your emotions is tbe right choice. People already know what they're doing and thinking, there's no need of time wasting discussions. Only speak when it makes a difference. Obviously this requires a great strenght of character l, because you can't project your insecurities on others. You take it all for yourself, deep inside and continue.
I'm silent...bec i have been constantly blamed by saying that i have broken their trust....they eft me abandoned without saying what trust did i break..... listening to people's crap your person starts blaming you... without even listening your side of the story or understanding what trauma you went through
I have taught skills to many people. Hands down, without any doubt, the ones that speak, the ones that ask questions, the ones that push the boundaries, have always been the best (and occasionally the worst). The silent ones, on average, are good, rarely the worst, but never the best. They don't make mistakes, but they don't learn from them either. The moral shouldn't be "know when to be silent" the moral should be "try, and if you fail, learn, try again."
Silence has its merits, but sometimes can be wrong. If we do not speak up for the oppressed, are we not enabling the oppression to continue. Atrocities have continued when people have failed to speak up. Dennis R.
For me I learned to be silent because every time I said the truth, people would get violently defensive. I was always someone who listen instead of talking & when I talked it was always either truth or wise words. I want something genuine in life but to find someone like me who is real & not fake is extremely hard. So I realized that even when I would tell people the answers they were searching for, they refused to admit it & felt insulted. Nowadays I live alone in my apartment with no more friends or any girlfriend because they either cheat on me or left me for someone else & my friends said they would come see me or call when I was sick & they never did so I called all of them & thank them for the friendship we had but that I preferred to be alone than feeling left out. There is indeed value in silence but to not talk when it's needed is dangerous. Unfortunately, I am no parent or anyone in position of power to make any change with what I say. So when I talk, ...I'm just a nobody to people.
This video came to me a day after a weird altercation I had in a groupchat with friends. We often bust eachothers balls and say "mean" things (in such a way we all know it's a joke). But there is one very sensitive guy in the group and I had made the mistake of making a very crass joke towards him thinking, just like everyone else, he would just make another crass joke in return. That's what my other friends do. One person says something fucked up and the other person says something fucked up in return then we move on. This guy got angry as hell and started throwing genuinely angry and personal insults at me for over an hour, even with others assuring what I'd said was a joke. They got so personal and deep that it was no longer fun and genuinely felt terrible to read. If I'd kept my mouth shut and remembered how soft this friend was, and just stuck to ballbusting with the friends I knew could take it, none of this would have happened. Now, 2 people are bothered. Sidenote: is this where the saying "being zen" comes from?
As a silent person I can say that it has many benefits, but I can also say that it gave me and others problems because I didn't take action and spoke out. It usually ended okay but it could have ended better if I took action and wasn't silent. I'm still a silent person but I've stopped being too silent? (If you know what I mean) and I'm doing much better. So I guess I'm trying to say it's fine to be silent and it has it's benefits but I recomend to be able to take actions once in a while. Thank you for listening to my podcast lol
One time I was with a group of my good friends and I was talking so much asked to be quiet and at first I didn't listen and then we will pay you to be quiet at first I was frustrated for myself quiet I was so r that my silence made everyone around me uncomfortable started to ask me to talk but I still was I know how to be quiet I'm have also when I was younger my dad always told me to speak when spoken to and don't speak unless you have something meaningful to say think before you speak I learned a lot of patience and how to get outside-of-the-box thinker because of that a lot has changed since but now I will be more silence and go back to the way my foster dad had actually told me to do things
Nice story. I’m like Zen a little, I naturally like to always be silent but when I talk I say things I don’t mean really Okay, when do I speak in the day? When I am being asked or have something meaningful or a special situation happened to talk about. So most of the time I speak like this, by writing
Whenever i get into an argument with someone both online and irl, i always remember that there is a saying that says Silence is the best answer for a fool
Then Zen encountered later groups who shouted "If you are not with us you are part of the problem". Zen tried to quietly walk away but was pelted with stones and then hit with clubs. Zen was able to accept the routine beatings until he became a father. All changed when one day the crowd attacked his son and started the beatings. Zen then realized he had an obligation to do more than be silent and turn the cheek - He had a son who need protection and a future that only he could provide.
There were two girls at my school, twins, they would only ever spend time with themselves, being too shy to interact with anybody else. They too were silent the entire time they were at school, nobody ever really heard them say much.. and because of it they were targeted with the most severe bullying I ever witnessed as a child, they never even spoke to a teacher to report any of it. My advice? take these "pearls of wisdom" about life advice with a huge grain of salt, because silence is NOT the one truism you should live by.
I talk alot. I talk to everybody. Because i talk alot i got out of being homeless. Got a great job just by talking. Did 11 months and prison and didnt go to college. Still got the job. Staying silent isnt gonna cut it in this world anymore.
No man is wiser than he that knows he is broken and alone but so are so many others because they try to shout to be heard and end up arguing with someone saying the same thing using different words.
As a boy with ADHD this is extremely hard. I haven’t fully commit to it yet but i’ve tried. I hear people say things that are incorrect like, “Oh yeah that guys name is Brad.” and I always jump in and say, “His name is name is actually Joe.” and they look at me weirdly. I always feel guilty and embarrassed, and I know I should just stay silent. It feels impossible to control, but I believe if I keep trying I can better myself through being silent.
I don't usually talk much, unless I'm around my close friends. But when I'm around my family, they always like to point out that I'm too quiet or I should talk more or they get annoyed with my one or few word answers. Then it annoys me cuz I'm like "well what do you want me to say? I have nothing to say"
Being silent is only powerful if you plant a seed for others to talk around. Then you observe them. Then you know who to trust and who not to. You can map out the social networks of who talks to who, and what values they hold. Particularly if the seed is polarizing. Just yesterday, I reminded a coworker of a funny divorce situation, then I just watch two women talk. I now know to stay away from those two at all costs. I only say hello, and adios. A person can become a fool by trusting everyone, and by trusting no one. Stay wise.
When I earlier talk to people I often hurt people's feelings but now I remain silent always even when someone is disrespecting me but I am happy that I no longer hurt people's feelings
This is a compelling commentary. A book I read with a similar bent was soul-stirring. "The Silent Bridge: Echoes of the Unspoken Past" by Emma Wick
**Staying silent can be a powerful tool. It can be used to protect yourself, to avoid conflict, or to simply let your actions speak louder than your words. But it's important to use staying silent wisely. If you stay silent when you should speak up, you could be doing yourself or others a disservice.**
Beautiful explanation ❤
Thanks very much for your comments.
Thanks a lot for your valuable feedback.really appreciated for that.
@@toakasi6425 thanks ❤️
@@StoryPath-sc2pq welcome dear
I have never regretted my silence. As for my speech, I have regretted it over and over again. ~ Umar Ibn Al-Khattab RA
Thanks for your valuable comments really appreciated for that.
Then stop talking. Jk.
@@FlyyKaRizZmA😂😂nice one
Lies. Everyone regrets not speaking up
@@yuh2220not all people are the same
You are silent because you are wise.
I am silent because I don’t know what to say.
*We are not the same*
Thanks for that kind comment.Most of the people knows how to say nothing few of us knows when.thankz for supporting.
Silence is great. I love it. Always felt it was critical...
Same here 👍
That in itself is an important trait. Before you say anything make sure you yourself understand the situation and have thoroughly considered your answer.
As long as you are listening...
As an introvert with a decent social skill, this somewhat hurts me because people would often criticise me for being "too quiet".
Same except social skills are slightly worse + i have a language i NEED to learn
Because thats cowardice, not wisdom.
Introvert is another word for shy. and shy is another word for something like "easy frightened"
Stand straight with your shoulders back!
annopinion from another introvert , peace!
You’re not introverted. Stop with this label. It’s overused.
The more people there are in a room the quieter I get haha
But also I've been told I'm a great listener, and when the person I'm having a conversation with finishes their train of thought and even asks me what I think I'm usually good at answering because, well, I listened :)
But also if you enjoy being somewhere, and being "too quiet", that's just you man. Enjoy yourself.
Sometimes people might comment on it but as long as they accept and get you, it's worth to keep working on that relationship in your own ways. If they don't appreciate you, however, and continue using "too quiet" as mockery, you can always find someone more accepting!
@@Kal-El207 Then teach me how to socialise properly with people. Teach me how to not have language barrier issues. Teach me how to not have the fear of being judged. Teach me how to not be afraid of the crowd.
I'm not saying that I'm different or I have mental issues or have severe traumas or anything sort, but I'm just saying that I'm not good with people, and I'm fully aware that what I think are "negative thoughts" are just stress.
I don't hate my life, and I will never do. I love my life, and I love the one true God the most. I possess emotional, religious and moral restrictions.
Y'all keep saying this, and I'm tired of it. It's not that I don't want to. I'm trying to, but all I get from ever talking to people was them judging me even further, saying things that hurt me personally as an introvert who really is trying really hard to change.
I know that there are people who actually helped or accepted for who I am, but I am just here to tell the other side of the story.
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I love how Zen was able to resolve conflicts just by listening. It shows that silence can be just as effective in communication as words.
Thanks for comments.
Training your body and your mind to be silent as a very strong and powerful tool. To use in this crazy world.
shut up then😂
Read your bible! (KJV, preferably) ♥
As someone who barely speaks in general, i agree that silence can be a powerful tool but the biggest struggle i have is expressing my thoughts and emotions to others as i tend to stay silent
(Edit: it's both sad and comforting seeing everyone relate. I hope yall do better in life)
that's what happened recently nd I realized I fked up
as do I, but usually for a purpose. as in life, as in gaming. when one waits, gains wisdom, more opportunity presents itself.
Journal my guy
Same
@@AC-hf3gm Yh I started to journal at a very young age, maybe 7 or a little less. It has helped me to express my thoughts so to speak on them later.
A trick leaders often use is to remain silent in a meeting where there are conflicting points of view. Just listening to everyone and their points and making sure everyone feels heard is important. Once everyone has had their say and made their arguments you can then come in at the end and summarise the different opinions as you understood them and make your decision. This way you are not in conflict with your subordinates and you have let everyone's opinion be heard without forcing through your own opinion. It's a very effective approach but you must refrain from the urge to speak until the end.
Thanks a lot.silence is a source of great strength.
Read your bible! (KJV, preferably) ♥
Being silent is not passive, its concentrated strength. It is a form of control. Controlling impulses and emotions instead of them controlling you. Its easy to control people who are controlled by emotion. Meditation will reverse this and give you great power over yourself. Thats why you see all these Monks doing superhuman things.
Thanks for your valuable and meaningful comments .
Being silent is always good😂 you got a mouth for Reason
@@fartzhapy4165always no one said that..
Idk but I read this as Yoda would say it
Excellence point of summary
True submission is certainty, and certainty is the affirmation of the truth, and affirmation of the truth is acknowledgement, and acknowledgement is performance of what is obligatory, and performance of what is obligatory is appropriate action.
Watch your thoughts for they become words
Watch your words for they become actions
Watch your actions for they become habits
Watch your habits for they become character
Watch your character for you become your destiny. Ali ibn abu taleb
Thanks for watching and supporting really appreciated for that.
Most indeed 🧡
Powerful words of wisdom.
..... My. C .. 😂 . G. F. 😂. .v. 😂😂😂😂😂
The power of Silence why?
They must respect while you know nothing...
Or
They must respect you really you know a lot...
The power of Silence... 💯❤️🙆♂️
To anyone who's watching this video and reading the comments, my wish for you is that any troubles or anxieties that have been weighing you down will begin to lift. May your mind be cleared of negative thoughts, incessant overthinking, and any doubts that have been holding you back. May clarity replace your confusion, and may your life be filled with peace and calmness. Take the wisdom from this video and empower yourself to achieve all that you seek. 🙏✨
thanks very much for such a nice comment.
This cannot be more true. Im a silent person in general and I agree you really do see other povs way better when you're silent aka, thats when youre actually trying to understand other peoples perspectives because all you're doing is listening. When you're talking its always talking over other people aka youre too busy trying to get your own point across rather than actually listening to what others around you are truly saying. I see it all the time. That stage of comprehending and taking time to understand what others are saying gets replaced by your talking.
I too have practiced this ancient technique. I've been silent just about my entire life, so silent that I completely forgot how to speak. I no longer have control of my mouth so I have to write everything down or spell it out through keyboard text. Thank you, wise old man, I am now wise like you.
The saddest thing is when you have no choice but to be silent because nobody really cares what you have to say anyway
Facts...
God always cares, I used to feel that way too. But God is always there for us. 🙏🙏🙌🙌
@@wilmaconradie8382 thank you i hope you have a good day i needed it
Thanks a lot for your time and giving comments God bless to all.
I have been practicing silent time almost daily for the last fifteen years... It's results are amazing ... It has helped me to overcome big struggles in my life with a relaxed mind
The most relaxed person is the most dangerous. When you are relaxed, your energy flows naturally and undisturbed. You can think clear, focus and execute
Yeahhh I have a problem with being silent I tend to always want to talk & say how I feel … but sometimes it is best to stay quiet & only speak wise words …. Silence helps you listen more & just be at peace forreal . It all makes sense but it is gonna be hard because I love to have my point proven … :/ imma work on it today !!!
Awesome A highly articulate and meaningful message.thanks
I am just like U with this
Same!!
Silence helps us hear our inner messages. Thanks for your valuable lesson. ☺🙋♂
Thanks a lot.
When I started my first Job, I was pretty silent and the Ladies were outright confused and scared and angry by it. Realized none of them were judgemental as the Gals from my School Days and were accepting of someone like me, I slowly began to speak up and still am slowly. Of course I am glad I am getting along with 96% of my Coworkers and hopefully I will be on the goodside of 100% of my People I meet as well. I’m glad I was able to use my Mimic Skill to just observe the Best People in action and I hope to be like them one day honestly.😊
Been the same for me. Been here five years, I speak with confidence half of the time.
Read your bible! (KJV, preferably) ♥
pretty nice and long way of telling someone to shut up, sending this to them when they annoy me, thank you~
Silent also makes some people think its weaknesses. Also it can be very powerful. So it depends how and when you do it as I learned.
There are countless times I wanted to say things to people that hurt me, I wanted to fight back, but I stayed silence and I am glad I did because it could have been worse
We all need love but in this world filled with arrogance, it's hard to find. Silence help bruh ain't gonna cap.
It is powerful,I have sat there in silence and ppl will go on with secrets, exposing deep secrets and exposing themselves if they really ur friend, they not!!!
Maybe learn 2 see the diffrence between people and creatures😉
Honestly....there is no such thing as winning.
A combative mind creates this enemy of true inner peace. Let that idea go. 🙏
As someone living with A.D.H.D. , I find maintaining silence extremely difficult, but this was a really good reminder of the value in it.
Thanks for your valuable comments.
I got adhd too it's so hard to stay silent 🤣🤣but i still somehow learned being silent
Bro can you prescribe me any medication for ADHD.. I'm from a third world country where it is not considered an illness..
Listen to them while fidgeting or something that gets your attention. Speak only when asked. 🙂
@@karen0110 it's better for it not considered illness because it's really not. These first world countries are so fragile they consider every little thing as illnesses.
I feel so much calmer after listening to this. Thank you! 🌿
Yes I will start doing this today thanks I need this
Thanks really appreciated for that
zen slience is on repeat 😄😆😁
Silence is power being quiet is the best way to win
Yup. I've been telling people to "shut up" for years...
Sometimes I like to be silent and just be. For me it's good to be silent for a little while in Meditative states or reading a book. However, your throat chakra will block where you repressed voice which may not get much use will start to manifest into throat infections. Thyroiditis and can in some instances throat cancer. When it's our time to powerfully speak our truth w must do so. During my health issues I had to understand why my throat was always itchy until I had a foot massage and alot that I didn't know I came to know and understand. The body likes cycles where it likes to communicate and sometimes it won't depending on the person. We live in technology age where we have forgotten the power of silence is definitely golden to bring our minds and body back into harmony and bliss back to centre.
From an itchy throat to a foot massage. What. 🎢
You get throat cancer from eating too much ass
@@inertboi : yes, all your pressure points under your foot, tells you problems that are occurring in the rest of your body. There are books on this subject as well.
I was also given advice not to always be quite because it caused medical issues, but I now pray about my things and God helps me to control all the issues. Amen. 🙏 🙌
Amen God bless you.
I'm gonna send this everytime I want someone to shut up
Silent conversation is the most powerful conversation..❣️
Yes it is absolutely right and in my own life I will try it .Silence is a powerful tool for achieving the success.
All the best
And thanks a million for comments buddy.
Quiet, listen , observe but speak up when necessary- don’t be shy and timid - snap out of that
Read your bible! (KJV, preferably) ♥
Not always so...my silence disconnected me with a family member. I felt if I was silent about what happened I was protecting them. But when the time came to tell them, they were furious as why I didn't tell them sooner. In protecting them as a mother, I did the wrong thing in their eyes. So silence doesn't always hold true. Your damed if you do and your damed if you don't.
thank you for not being silent about this matter 🤲
great story, it's good when you are all alone, silence doesn't;t help always, the best moral is that one should wait till what extent he should be silent and when and where the person should break his silence. In this era, people will kill you physically or mentally if you remain silent always.....
Thanks very much for your thoughtful and valuable comment.
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Spot on. You can't be silent if someone tries to torment you
This is what I wanted
i actually knew this when i was younger. but in my years, i've forgotten the wisdom of my youth and i've listened to the chaos of the world. i will try to get back to the enlightenment i knew before.
Valuable for young people to learn. I've had many gripes with reality and much of reality that bothers people isn't even worth mentioning.
Thank you and I am as silent as The old man and I always learned Alot. Kudos to your channel👏
Great. Was there a reason for repeating the story lines? Maybe to stay silent and listen.
I wondered if I actually heard it twice, then realized I did. I experienced Silence within.
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Recently, trying to remain silent has helped me in understanding various things mentioned in the video within past 10 months. I have learnt many things as exactly mentioned. Being wisely silent actually helps!
Nice video sir! Thanks for it.
Read Proverbs 10:19, Proverbs 11:12, Proverbs 17: 28. All wisdom about silence.
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Don't set homework for people. That's just a bit obnoxious. Either tell us what it says, or don't.
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ive stayed silent almost my whole life i know and witnessed a lot of things, ive seen the beauty of the world arround me that ive never seen before, i know so much about the people arround me *but* something grew inside me has time moved on ... i found myself feeling alone and detatched from the world arround me, no one knew who i was or that i even existed even tho i was with them for a long time, i wasnt a part of anyone's life. I felt detatched from the world arround me like if i was nothing but a ghost.
you must learn to be silent but if you stay too silent then there is no difference between you and a dead man.
A wise Man once said,... nothing at all and just listened to his surrounding.
I read that some month ago and it sticked to my mind.
Very nice motivational message.thanks a lot for this message.
As an autistic, I already struggle with verbal communication by default. So I'm usually quiet because I prefer to only speak up if I actually have to say anything important. I see no point in talking just for the sake of talking.
When people noticed that I actually listened and dont just let them speak, they opened up to me more and more, some even revealing their deepest secrets to me. They know I won't tell anyone, and they value the advice I give them, because I don't believe in telling people what they should to. I just give suggestions that perhaps they don't see the whole picture. Usually, they come to the conclusions all on their own. But they need to talk to someone about their feelings and problems to reflect themselves. And if they want my honest opinion, I always warn them beforehand that I'm not the kind of person to sugarcoat. Beating around the bush just to spare a person's feelings can do more harm than good
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I think calmness..will be the most appropriate word for this...🙂
I'm a silent observer and people always come and talk to me.... I hate it but not mean to people.
I think silence makes people uncomfortable.
I can relate. listening to people sometimes sucks because people can be self centered
@@lifesahobby. people definitely tell on themselves.
I'm proud to say that I'm a listener more than the speaker... 😊
God give us two ears and one mouth. That means we should listen more than we talk. Silent and listen have the same letters. Meditate on this and maybe we can all learn from it. I myself will try to do this more and more each day. God bless you all
Yes, that's why our mouths can sharp as a razors..
I learned to be silent most of the time, because I understood that in a great portion of circumstances, there's no need to speak,, as it is mostly a stupid game of people's ego and unresolved issues. In almost all the events, aknowledging the situation and controlling your emotions is tbe right choice. People already know what they're doing and thinking, there's no need of time wasting discussions. Only speak when it makes a difference. Obviously this requires a great strenght of character l, because you can't project your insecurities on others. You take it all for yourself, deep inside and continue.
Very interesting, silence is being explained by not being silent…
Thank you sir.i am a talkative girl. But I will try my best to stay silent after this video. thank you
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I am grateful for this lesson of silence
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A great lesson, but not the only lesson. Silence and passivity can be incredibly destructive too, like anything in life it's about moderation.
And some time being silent is more better than proving your point - according to my experience
This story really came in my mind that's why today I have to stay silent for the rest of the day
I'm silent...bec i have been constantly blamed by saying that i have broken their trust....they eft me abandoned without saying what trust did i break..... listening to people's crap your person starts blaming you... without even listening your side of the story or understanding what trauma you went through
I have taught skills to many people. Hands down, without any doubt, the ones that speak, the ones that ask questions, the ones that push the boundaries, have always been the best (and occasionally the worst). The silent ones, on average, are good, rarely the worst, but never the best. They don't make mistakes, but they don't learn from them either. The moral shouldn't be "know when to be silent" the moral should be "try, and if you fail, learn, try again."
@shemnetto4128 what the fuck kind of psychotic bullshit is that?
Silence has its merits, but sometimes can be wrong. If we do not speak up for the oppressed, are we not enabling the oppression to continue. Atrocities have continued when people have failed to speak up.
Dennis R.
Actions speak louder than words.
What are you doing to help those in need, or protect the ones who cannot protect themselves?
I am Zen. The Words of the Wide old man... are true. I absolutly agree.
Just listening is a gift for anyone.
🇨🇦 Indeed, and one needs *silence* to do full justice to *listening.*
Silence is great. I love it. Always felt it was critical...
For me I learned to be silent because every time I said the truth, people would get violently defensive. I was always someone who listen instead of talking & when I talked it was always either truth or wise words. I want something genuine in life but to find someone like me who is real & not fake is extremely hard. So I realized that even when I would tell people the answers they were searching for, they refused to admit it & felt insulted. Nowadays I live alone in my apartment with no more friends or any girlfriend because they either cheat on me or left me for someone else & my friends said they would come see me or call when I was sick & they never did so I called all of them & thank them for the friendship we had but that I preferred to be alone than feeling left out. There is indeed value in silence but to not talk when it's needed is dangerous. Unfortunately, I am no parent or anyone in position of power to make any change with what I say. So when I talk, ...I'm just a nobody to people.
This video came to me a day after a weird altercation I had in a groupchat with friends.
We often bust eachothers balls and say "mean" things (in such a way we all know it's a joke). But there is one very sensitive guy in the group and I had made the mistake of making a very crass joke towards him thinking, just like everyone else, he would just make another crass joke in return. That's what my other friends do. One person says something fucked up and the other person says something fucked up in return then we move on.
This guy got angry as hell and started throwing genuinely angry and personal insults at me for over an hour, even with others assuring what I'd said was a joke. They got so personal and deep that it was no longer fun and genuinely felt terrible to read.
If I'd kept my mouth shut and remembered how soft this friend was, and just stuck to ballbusting with the friends I knew could take it, none of this would have happened. Now, 2 people are bothered.
Sidenote: is this where the saying "being zen" comes from?
As a silent person I can say that it has many benefits, but I can also say that it gave me and others problems because I didn't take action and spoke out. It usually ended okay but it could have ended better if I took action and wasn't silent. I'm still a silent person but I've stopped being too silent? (If you know what I mean) and I'm doing much better. So I guess I'm trying to say it's fine to be silent and it has it's benefits but I recomend to be able to take actions once in a while. Thank you for listening to my podcast lol
I hate when people talk too much. Because it starts feeling like they’re wasting my time after a few long minutes. Unless they’re cool like that.
One time I was with a group of my good friends and I was talking so much asked to be quiet and at first I didn't listen and then we will pay you to be quiet at first I was frustrated for myself quiet I was so r that my silence made everyone around me uncomfortable started to ask me to talk but I still was I know how to be quiet I'm have also when I was younger my dad always told me to speak when spoken to and don't speak unless you have something meaningful to say think before you speak I learned a lot of patience and how to get outside-of-the-box thinker because of that a lot has changed since but now I will be more silence and go back to the way my foster dad had actually told me to do things
Also to remember Dr Martin Luther King Jr said the day that should become quiet something matters is the date that you. Die
Silence is called violence by those who cannot be silent.
Nice story. I’m like Zen a little, I naturally like to always be silent but when I talk I say things I don’t mean really
Okay, when do I speak in the day? When I am being asked or have something meaningful or a special situation happened to talk about. So most of the time I speak like this, by writing
Quick translation for comment section:
Being silent means reading comments and not writing any 😊
Whenever i get into an argument with someone both online and irl, i always remember that there is a saying that says Silence is the best answer for a fool
You doing good work! Kindly keep it up..... ❤
Thanks a lot I will keep carry on
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I love this a lot of people don’t like that I don’t talk that much but it’s just who I am
Then Zen encountered later groups who shouted "If you are not with us you are part of the problem".
Zen tried to quietly walk away but was pelted with stones and then hit with clubs. Zen was able to accept the routine
beatings until he became a father. All changed when one day the crowd attacked his son and started the beatings.
Zen then realized he had an obligation to do more than be silent and turn the cheek - He had a son who need protection
and a future that only he could provide.
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There were two girls at my school, twins, they would only ever spend time with themselves, being too shy to interact with anybody else. They too were silent the entire time they were at school, nobody ever really heard them say much.. and because of it they were targeted with the most severe bullying I ever witnessed as a child, they never even spoke to a teacher to report any of it. My advice? take these "pearls of wisdom" about life advice with a huge grain of salt, because silence is NOT the one truism you should live by.
The first thing a❤️🙏❤️ true Master will tell you is learn to listen
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Good point
Thanks for sharing this video ❤
My pleasure 😊
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The more silent you are, the more you are able to hear...
I talk alot. I talk to everybody. Because i talk alot i got out of being homeless. Got a great job just by talking. Did 11 months and prison and didnt go to college. Still got the job.
Staying silent isnt gonna cut it in this world anymore.
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Sometimes being silent says everything!
No man is wiser than he that knows he is broken and alone but so are so many others because they try to shout to be heard and end up arguing with someone saying the same thing using different words.
Yes now I am more practicing silence and listening skills
Thanks
As a boy with ADHD this is extremely hard. I haven’t fully commit to it yet but i’ve tried. I hear people say things that are incorrect like, “Oh yeah that guys name is Brad.” and I always jump in and say, “His name is name is actually Joe.” and they look at me weirdly. I always feel guilty and embarrassed, and I know I should just stay silent. It feels impossible to control, but I believe if I keep trying I can better myself through being silent.
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Silence is always better than having a last word
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I don't usually talk much, unless I'm around my close friends. But when I'm around my family, they always like to point out that I'm too quiet or I should talk more or they get annoyed with my one or few word answers. Then it annoys me cuz I'm like "well what do you want me to say? I have nothing to say"
Being silent is only powerful if you plant a seed for others to talk around.
Then you observe them.
Then you know who to trust and who not to. You can map out the social networks of who talks to who, and what values they hold. Particularly if the seed is polarizing.
Just yesterday, I reminded a coworker of a funny divorce situation, then I just watch two women talk.
I now know to stay away from those two at all costs. I only say hello, and adios.
A person can become a fool by trusting everyone, and by trusting no one. Stay wise.
I love this!
thanks buddy.
🇨🇦 We can express our viewpoint in *writing* and still maintain our silence.
Stupid comment and stupid video
great video. 👏👏👏
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☀️☀️☀️☀️A fool and a wise man both appear the same when in silence☀️☀️☀️☀️
Well then silence is only beneficial to fools.
100% True wisdom from the old man. In my life people tell me all the time that I have the right to remain silent👮🏻♂️
Many people don't like my chatty, expressive, passionate personality an that's to darn bad!!!😒
Silent is the best answer for all question
You can hurt someone's feelings with thoughts and emotions alone. Even if you don't speak it, there's still power in that.
When I earlier talk to people I often hurt people's feelings but now I remain silent always even when someone is disrespecting me but I am happy that I no longer hurt people's feelings