LADIES. Let's Talk Dating For MARRIAGE: The SECRET Formula! || CONSERVATIVE Guide To Dating
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LADIES. Let's talk dating for marriage. I have figured out the perfect balance of chemistry and compatibility for dating and why so many women date their compatibility guy and their chemistry guy...only to realize that neither one is the RIGHT guy. I am so excited to share this video with you all today and make sure to let me know your thoughts in the comments! To read more, head over to www.classicall....
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I have dated my boyfriend since high school (5+ years), and this video made me feel so sure that he is the one. A substitute teacher ridiculed me senior year in front of my math class for being so exclusive so young. She said that he would leave me in college and I would have wasted my time in love that I should be having fun (partying). The thing is, we have fun with each other and we really aren't interested in the reckless party culture of college. We want to get our educations so we can get married and start a life together... Lots of people think we are crazy, but we know that this is the right thing for us.
I remember seeing some meme on the internet how marrying young is like leaving the party at 9pm.
But as a comment under it so aptly put: you get to wake up on Sunday morning with cuddles and breakfast in bed, whereas the partygoers wake up after midday, lonely and nauseatingly hungover.
There’s nothing fulfilling in party culture, so don’t be ashamed that it’s not for you! Be proud of your contentment, knowing it will take some people decades to find what you’ve made for yourself much earlier in life!
These type of people end up cheating later.
@@beartrona6621 not necessarily, at all.
This is exactly how I am too! It’s refreshing to see other people out there like me ☺️
What an awful message for your substitute teacher to portray. She was likely speaking out of jealousy
It really feels like she is talking directly to me, so glad to know everything I'm going through is common! Great advice Abby, thank you!
another tip is don't waste your time with someone who doesn't treat you right, if he is trying to pressure you into something you aren't comfortable with, and i am talking sexually, then he ins't worth it.
Definitely!
What if he is trying to pressure me into marriage?
@@aasthashah2261 he isn't worthy at all. A partner should respect your wishes
@@min_nad Ok
I needed this advice! I’m going through a dating phase right now and I needed to set my priorities straight. Once again posting at the right time!
This is just my opinion, but if your so-called soulmate doesn't want the same kind of future as you do, they're not your soulmate.
In addition - if your so-called soulmate does want the same future and even wants to be with you, but if you sense something off, have no shame to let them go and be permanently single or wait for God to send someone better.
Very true advice both of you :)
You totally nailed it! This is true! I knew that there were details regarding my failed relationships vs my now husband, that I just couldn't put my finger on!
I agree Abby, I have had two boyfriends and we only have chemistry but they don't share the same values, I hope to find someone compatible with me, you are beautiful and very intelligent, greetings from Mexico💕
Uh... Quién le dice?
@@rockingrollin425 ?
@@rockingrollin425 yo por ?
A lot of people look at their relationships as a temporary adventure that ends as soon as they stop having fun
Very true.
Insert yes chad nordic gamer meme
I think choosing the one to make him a part of our life is the most difficult thing we will ever faces. So we need to choose the person precisely
Me: **a 15 year old who won't be dating anytime soon**
"Hmmm... this looks interesting."
me a13 year old with a boyfriend who also doesn't know why I'm watching this : 👁👄👁
I'm just having a perplexed smile at someone who's been married for 2 years thinking they have dating and marriage figured out.
If they don’t respect your choices (guy or girl) they aren’t for you. Mutual respect is crazyyyy important.
I already know this gonna be good!
❤❤❤
This is SO good!!I love when you talk about relationships/dating advice,because as a single girl,I need all the advice I can get!
Newly engaged woman here. Honestly I don’t really think there’s any kind of formula for dating to marry, just be open with each other about your intentions and make sure your relationship is based on mutual respect, friendship, and love.
The thing is even a relationship based on mutual respect, love, and friendship doesn’t always end in marriage. I speak from experience on that.
Emily Greene the thing is, I really don’t believe there’s a formula. When it happens, it just happens. I knew I would marry my boyfriend- now my fiancé- after just a couple of months of dating. Granted, we met on Bumble during quarantine and got to know each other by video chatting for hours every day for like a month before we officially started dating, but the connection was almost instant. The secret is, you just need to relax and let it happen, and you also need to find someone you can laugh with because life gets messy and you need to be able to let go of the little things. Maybe we’re just incredibly lucky, I don’t know, but I think that’s why we work so well together.
The video I didn’t know I needed 😅 thanks Abby
Thank you for your videos, Abby, I love hearing your perspectives and hanging out with ya.
I remember Dennis Prager said to ask the important questions on a first date, things that cannot be compromised: values, faith, politics, how to raise children.
Relationships involve compromise. So settle those important things first.
So you talk about raising kids on every first date? wow
@@aasthashah2261 every first date? How many do you think I have? 👀
Thanks for this Abby! It's good to have the encouragement to do this 🏖️I will consider it for our next holiday/friends' visit, Joanna
This is helpful, and clarifies things a bit for me. Thank you 😊
Dating for love is beautiful. Great video!
Great video and so true! I met the comparability guy a long while back, but there was no attraction so it fell through, but on paper it was good. Then came the chemistry guy, we had chemistry, but politically he was left-leaning, whilst I'm a conservative. I met the right guy 10 months ago, we started talking about politics and quickly understood our values/morals lined up. We started dating pretty early on after meeting, and despite being young, and not having been together for long I know he's the one for me. We're on the same page about everything, and have a spark that is so strong!
I am not allowed to date yet, but your advice is super good for when I do! I never wanted to date for anything more than marriage. I might have crushes on guys, but I want to only date when God's time is right and I'm meant to be with that person. I dont want my heart broken and i dont want to give a piece of my heart to someone. That's why dating if you are too young and dating without thinking of marriage will only go to hurt you. Heart break isnt worth it! Protect your hearts, everyone! We only have one...
Good for you, I feel the same way, though I’m old enough to date now
I love how you put experiences into words. You’re super right. I’ve been lucky enough to find all 3 of those type’s too but I wasn’t necessarily able to explain it so well. Love it. You’re absolutely right.
So...should here be a time limit on when “chemistry” should be felt. I feel like a ton of people will give up on a relationship because the chemistry didn’t happen immediately with “sparks flying”. It’s so frustrating!
I don't know if there should be a limit, but I'll tell you my personal experience, I met my husband in July 13 years ago, I didn't feel a spark, I was going through some stuff in my life and there was nothing but friendship between us, until a night months later , like 7 months later when at a party a slow dance lead to a kiss, that planted a seed in me that maybe we can be more than friends because I felt something I wasn't expecting to feel at all when we kissed, it still took 3 more months after that kiss for us to become more than friends, so maybe the time doesn't matter, sometimes you know a person as a friend and if you give him or her a chance and something else develops then things can work out.
@@solstice1681 love that story, very true!
PLEASE talk more about this stuff! Maybe a relationship series off a conservative perspective?
Serenity You are by far the most intellectually challenged person I’ve ever met
@Serenity yeah I definitely see where you are coming from and agree to you to an extent. I’m a young girl and the world I’m growing up in has so many lies and to hear truth is something I want to listen to. As I do love her advice and it is 100% golden🤩, personally, I enjoy having a variety of content to click on and learn about
@Serenity Well, the sad truth is that everyone needs to get into politics now. Without it, the world WILL play you. Many people assume that conservatives are “racist” simply because they never hear them speak. It is honestly refreshing to see conservative women and how they live. Unfortunately, all I ever see are insane leftists, so people like her give me hope that not all women act in an immoral way.
This!!!! People need to date for marriage or else what is the point
fun
Fun, emotional connection without the expensive cost of marriage, if you’re just dating you can leave them super easily without a divorce lawyer getting involved, not paying for a wedding leaves more money for a house/car/kids
@@satanhimself2105 you can get married and not have an expensive wedding.
@Holland Lutz I don’t have to have a wedding at all
To be gay
Ok, this is so true! I've had the chemistry guy and the compatibility guy, and now I'm with the perfect person! So insightful, love your analysis
Go Girl !! We have faith in you !!
Yes! I loved this video. Loved the topic, loved your take on it, loved it all around!
Here comes the haters. This is a nice video, away from bs politics and yet lots of thumbs down
True, the whole purpose of dating is looking for your "Happily Ever After." People who are just playing casual games are setting themselves up for unhappiness and missing the REAL Mr. or Mrs. Right.
Maybe I’m just looking for short and simple relationships, I am dedicated to my work not a woman
I love your videos, Abby! You’re such an inspiration!
I honestly don't see the point in dating if not to marry. I've gotten some really useful tips, here they are :)
-Make sure you can see a future with them
-Think of the kind of person you want to date, and then be the boy/girl that they would want
-Be with the man you'd want you're son to grow up to be like, and marry that man (vice versa for men with a daughter)
I just broke up with my "chemistry guy" last week. It still hurts a lot but I'm glad I got out of it. I lied to myself for a while saying it would all turn out ok. Thank you for talking about this. It is helping me feel better. Please pray for me. Side note: does it work to be friends with your chemistry guy? I know it would take a lot of time before we reach that point but I do still want him in my life. Any advice?
I think it would, as long as your values aren't drastically different. It is always possible to be friends with someone, even if it wouldn't work for dating. As long as he isn't going to mentally and emotionally drain you and keep his platonic relationship with you happy, nothing bad should happen. I hope everything turns out okay!
Being "friends" with an ex is not a good idea.
@@chinglongdingdong716 No, it can work out depending on the specific person.
@@vanessat7758 It *can*, I'm speaking about most cases of monogamous LTR's in general.
@@chinglongdingdong716 Not very helpful.
I wish I'd seen a video like this about 6 years ago with a chemistry gal that I dated and proposed to.
I don't want kids and I made that clear in the beginning. It was a clear deal breaker and broke up the relationships early on. We weren't compatible. . .better to find out now than later on down the road. Still a single 35 y/o woman, but I haven't given up hope yet.
THANK YOU!🥰🥰
Awesome workout
Spot on. Excellent video
Dating is not in my plans now BUT in the future I would love to date for marriage. No reason to waist time lol thank you for discussing this topic 😁😊
Awesome advice
This is awesome, and I completely agree. Also, being with the right guy doesn't mean that you will never disagree or get in fights. But because you have that agreement on the big debates, it makes it a lot easier to identify when the little things are foolish and to set them aside.
This happened to me and im a dude hahahaha it goes both ways ladies
I don’t think anyone reasonable would argue that!!
Chill my guy, let the ladies have their discussions.
i love these videos
you dont always have to date for marriage you know? you can use to explore too. not everyone has marriage in mind
Thank you. I want a wedding, but not a marriage :)
@@aasthashah2261 cringe
Then this video clearly isn’t for you. I really don’t get you people. You click on the videos for people with different values than you and yet you preach like your way is right when it clearly isn’t. For the people who do NOT have marriage in mind, I ask you this... why the hell would you click on a video that is for finding the right person to spend your life with? You literally want to “explore” so go and explore... you fake Ymir.
@@mistercontroversial LMAO not you coming for my pfp just because you dont have any valid point? did you really expect ymir to be real- also bc this channel has made some very homophobic comments, to which im not really surprised. and did i say my way is the only 'right way'? no. there is nothing wrong with exploring things. dont try me while having that narrow ass mind.
@@dorahadid5052 lol cope
Do you think it's possible for your "right guy" to turn into your "chemistry guy"? I feel like that's what happened with my first/most recent relationship.
I believe I had my long distance chemistry guy for 8 years. The first two years, we became best friends. Then after we met, we started dating. After the second meeting while dating, I caught him with other girl on his social media and he never truly acknowledged that he was cheating. I had to break up with while it seemed he thought he could two girls at the same time but at the same time treated me instantly like a friend. That girl eventually broke up with him while I was trying to move on. A couple months later, he asked for forgiveness and I accepted it because of my Christian values for second chances but said if you ever do this again, we are done. 5-6 years later, he proposes in person, he leaves while I’m with my family. Throughout these years, our values were the same and we had so much fun together but because I am extroverted in ideas and he is introverted in worldly/logical thoughts. So now he has cheated a 2nd time and even in him proposing he thought our differences were too great and was hoping I would “come around” but I always had hope and never wanted him to change but he has expected so much of me to compromise. So I am saddened how much time I spent with him if he was just going to go off again and cheat the second things got too real and found someone who agreed with him on more things than we did. I feel I have lost my best friend and the person I wanted to marry, and we haven’t been talking as of our official breakup last week, but yet I still have hope that later down the road he’ll admit everything he’s done wrong. I need advice on this from others because now I have no one else to talk to about it.
If you take him back you’ll always be worrying if he’s cheating. And sorry to say, he will be. Save your sanity and move on.. it’s gonna hurt like hell but you’ll be better for it
Sent this link to my daughters! Thank you for being great role model!
great video, im 18 and all ive looked for in a relationship is genuine love and a future together..its hard being young and being in a younger crowd..im saving myself for somebody i will have a long future with, ive been judged for it and told im wasting my youth or being "prude" for not wanting to have a sex life at a young age and with somebody i dont see myself being with for my life, i think the way society views "love" and relationships for the most part is very toxic.."hook up culture" as i like to call it, also i love your style! its very pretty, i much prefer elegant/modest clothing over the more..revealing style? :D
Abby, I don't know if you'll see this comment, but what are your thoughts about college?
I was wondering because I don't know if I should attend college or not. In the future, I would like to be a house wife in order for the family structure to flow nicely. But at the same time, I would like to get an education so I can make my family proud and provide for them. But one concern I have is that a lot of colleges are becoming liberal, and I'm a Hispanic conservative. I don't know what to do because I'm 15 and I need to start planning my future. If you have any advice, I would really appreciate it ☺
As someone who is also a conservative who attended university, I can tell you that, ultimately, the choice is up to you. College is a leftist indoctrination camp. They do not like or listen to conservative ideas and will even ignorantly disregard it. You will get this from peers and professors alike. They will also tempt you to act immorally. As someone who aspires to one day be married, I really doubt that I will marry a woman who attended college. Why? Many of them have into social pressures and decided to live what they refer to as “the college experience” (which involves promiscuity, drinking, and drug use). There is also the problem of debt. But if you can stay true to yourself no matter what and can learn to ignore the jeering and indoctrination that comes with attending college then I wish you luck. Although I never succumbed to their ideologies or lifestyles, many people who I do know did succumb. The choice is yours. Whatever you choose, I wish you the best.
Btw, college isn’t just “liberal”. It is filled with radical leftists. If you are able to stay true to your morals, then that gives people like me hope.
@@mistercontroversial Thank you so much for the advice. All of that is true, and that's why I don't think I'll go to college.
@@laurenmtz7014 Honestly, a part of me really regrets it as well. But whatever path you take in life, do your best and stick to your morals. The people who are around you that have strong values will really appreciate that.
I feel so much better when I hear about other people deciding they've met the one so early because I always feel a little weird when people ask how long my husband and I were dating before our wedding. It was only about 8 months. We knew pretty immediately that this was it. You really do know when you find someone that works with you and is easy to be around.
I married my husband after 8 months too. It felt like such a long wait too...
my parents knew each other for three months and then got married because their parents and church forced them to. They have been married for 15 but they hated it for 3 years. Marriage is not necessary. If you want to date someone, go for it but marriage being forced is absolutely not ok.
Thank you I needed this
Your explanation of this relationships made me realize a looooot! Thank you i felt i was going crazy but its just normal dating... ugh
I just broke up with my compatibility guy. Well mostly compatible.
I think this is helpful advice! Thank you
you right, i'm atheist and i couldn't be with someone religious and i trully don't want children , i mean in fact those are very important topics, i don't want to waste my time, neither his, first time i'm agree with you.
This was so helpful!
The men picky women want have a lot of options, a lot of competition, so women have to have the qualities those men want. Ladies forget to consider the men have wants too.
Hi Abby! Would you consider doing a follow up video on how to actually go about asking your guy those tough questions in a classic way? (political views, trans issues, raising children, etc.) This has been so difficult for me to find!
I would like this too 🙌🏻💕. Please Abby
Trans issues? Elaborate
Would be a good video, but you should just be honest with the person that you are with. After all, if you seriously are considering this person as a potential life companion, you NEED to know these things.
@@mistercontroversial thanks for the advice, because it is so touchy maybe there’s no right way to go about it. I’ve hinted at my uncomfortably with the bathroom situation but maybe I just need to straight up ask. “How’s your ramen? By the way how would you react hypothetically if your hypothetical 3 year old boy Patrick, came home with his ‘new pronouns’ and declares that he’s a girl named Patricia...hypothetically... so... hormone blockers or nah?” Lmao. I really like him and I need to ask before I get more attached haha he’s super traditional and the perfect gent... I hope.
@@rubylawson6982 I hope everything works out for you! Just be honest. If he gets offended or breaks up with you, then you STILL are getting your answer. You both have to have similar values and you can only hope that you do until you find out through asking. Best case scenario is the one where you win.
i googled something relevant to the context of this comment and it came up with the greatest natural talents ive ever seen in my entire life. i could go on and on about how determined yet merciful i feel to this revelation but it'll just put me in a worsening position
Where can I find a guy like that?
I'm the chemistry guy.
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 7 year, last year we bought an apartment together and unfortunately he still doesn’t want to marry me. Think I’m destined to be a Ms my whole life 😭
Leave him. And marriage isn’t everything you’re a grown ass woman act like it. Learn to take care of yourself without having a mental breakdown about marriage
Hes either cheating or he just hates you. Remember: if he doesn’t ask to tie himself to you for life, assume the worst of him.
And the first rule of brain dead conservatism is NEVER live with someone before marriage. That gives you a chance to get to know them. You should blindly marry someone you don’t truly know because God wants it that way for some reason.
@@EddieMachetti 😂😂😂😂😂
Shouldve dated others after year 2
Simply date and marry a man who is perfect for you. It's literally that easy.
Oh shit why didn't I think of that before
Aww thanks Abby I’ll use this with my girlfriend ❤️ hope I can be a good wife
What does dating for fun actually mean? My boyfriend and I have been together 12 years we’re “high school sweethearts “ we own a home and plan on being together for the rest of our lives, why does it have to end in marriage to count as a “real” relationship
Lol I already know how this story is going to end.
@@mistercontroversial what does that mean?
@@lalakass9041 You’ll find out.
@@mistercontroversial Find out what? You seem confrontational but I don’t understand why.
Hello abby and have you thought about live streaming on twitch and starting your own podcasts in the future
this is good advice for anyone, not just conservatives! I actually really strongly disagree with you on a lot of things but this video was good. I'm polyamorous but want long term relationships, don't want legal marriage or kids so meeting people who share those values is really important
Can you and Jacob film a video telling your love story?
Personally if you are going to date for marriage you need to have shared values, specifically regarding principles and morals. Raising kids based on two different view points only creates confusion and ultimately unhappiness.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. He’s actually my first boyfriend! We started dating when I was 16 and now I’m 18. We brought up getting married early in the relationship and things went well for a while but we’re having quite a few issues because there’s been issues with our behaviors and communication styles. You described the “chemistry guy” relationship as my current relationship!!! My boyfriend is not as religious as I am, he respects it enough but he doesn’t want to convert. We also have differing political views. He’s also not really the type of person I am in terms of our long term goals. But we’re still very hyped about the idea of getting married one day, though I am starting to have my doubts, though maybe it’s temporary. Is it worth continuing to date him or should we break up?
You should wait till after your saturn return to get married. Date others
It would be nice if we could bring back courting rather than continue on with dating. When you think about it, courting is what allows you to really get to know the other person and vet them as a potential long-term partner. Dating is what you do to keep the lustful embers going.
My cat needs to watch this video
How do you stop girls from playing you? Like you talk for weeks or months almost daily but then you find out she actually doesn’t like you?
Is it me? Do I need to be more direct and to the point?
Yes.
That sounds like the “chemistry” aspect. Unfortunately, women are really good at making it one sided. I think that we really need to take a serious look at a person’s character rather than our own emotions. Of course, you have to enjoy spending time with the person and vice versa as well.
@@mistercontroversial Agreed.
Be like “BITCH are you playing me or naw?” And you should get a direct, honest response.
Hi! Honestly everyone is sleeping with their s/o and it really makes dating challe going because men now expect you to sleep with them and if you don't want to, they leave. :(
I have a rule that I won't sleep with someone I am not in love with and had girls leave.
Its not a gendered behavior.
I know a lot of people who don't sleep around/married as virgins. I think it depends on the crowd you run in and the places you're looking for a man. They are definitely out there.
I just want a relationship where s*x isn't in the equation... Or at least won't be a thought in his head until we get married.
I've never really dated, but I know exactly the kind of guy I want... But I feel like it will be impossible to find him
Miss Girl keeps forgetting that you need communication for a relationship to truly work
Omg I sent my one friend this video and she had dated the compatibility girl before and it made her finally realize that the woman she’s dating now is literally the right woman! A few days later she’s engaged to her dream woman!
I don't want to get married. So I shouldn't date anybody ever right?
I dont particularly look for someone to date/marry but even if i wanted to i literally dont meet new people. Like i have many friends that i hang out with regularly but i just dont meet any new people lol
Sorry Abby but chemistry combined with compatibility and mutual respect, morals, and a purpose does not always work nor is always beneficial for all women. I found such a guy as you described “the right man” and I confess I did want to marry him and I loved all of him, not just his looks, but I couldn’t help but feel that something was off about it and that was himself, despite everything about him, including his good values. So in the end, reluctantly, I put my self respect and got rid of my pickiness for and rejected him. It did cause much pain for both the ex and me, because there was mutual deep love and we wanted to each other but in the end - it was a good decision that I rejected him and I credit God for it, because even if He answered my prayers and drew us together, God also gave me the option to reject him. For those who don’t understand - What destroyed any chances with him was ironically I was so picky - aka partiality. I read the Bible for help and God made it clear that He doesn’t like people being partial - be they rich or poor. However, I recognized I was being way too partial to this guy and I realized my chemistry with him was shallow, preferential, and ultimately racist - these Bible passages were the wake up call I needed - John 7:24, Deut. 10:17, Rom. 2:11, Eph. 6:9, Acts 10:34, James 2:1, 9; Gal. 2:6, 1 Timothy 5:21, Colossians 3:2, etc. So rather than continuing going down that dark path of misery and especially of offending the Lord of being partial, I let the guy go and I decided that for me, I needed a gentleman who I was not partial to, but who shared the same focus on God, has the same awareness of corruption, same values, etc and whom I thought I could eventually love their exterior - I call it the throwing out the pink shades. Now, I have my husband and he fit everything I asked for, including not being partial. In fact, he admitted he wasn’t partial to me at first - which the old shallow me would have been hurt by, but I respected his honesty. He ended up being the right gentleman. Do I still love the ex? Unfortunately yes, but I pray God helps me to move on from him fully and from the pain of loving him and each day, it does become better with my mutually loving and caring and understanding husband. As for the ex, I have learned that he had a child by another woman, though he did leave her to try to get after me, but I continued to reject and especially now as I had my husband Frank in my life. So I told the ex to go back to the true love of his life - the mother of his child. He didn’t think so, but I said - your daughter at least deserves a better Dad than what your behaving like now and even if I were single again or became a widow, I made it clear that despite my feelings, I still never will marry him, and we were better off as we are and that was when the smoke cleared for me and that was it. Now, my focus has been on my Frank but I realized that even if the Lord hadn’t brought me my husband Frank, the Lord is so merciful and He gave me the strength to reject - though admittedly one passage haunted me “What God brings together, let no man tear asunder” however, mercifully, God showed me those other passages giving me the right to reject BEFORE marriage. So ladies, I would say, have no shame to crush those rose colored glasses, even if there is compatibility and mutual respect desire for marriage - it can still lead to trouble.
I have Ben's voice in my head from that time he talked about how stupid it is to marry for "lurve." lol
This sounds like nice guy and chad.
Uh I've been dating this dude and girl for like 4 months we just broke up lmao I still love them but they needed to move on and that's fine
There is this guy I really like but we work together and don't really have time to really get to know each other! Is it ok for me to ask him out? Or should I just make it more obvious that I'm interested and wait for him to ask me out?
Ask him out. If you want something you need to be clear about it.
I wasn’t allowed to date till I was 19. But I had close friends that I liked and there was some difficulties with those ‘relationship’
Atleast it taught me what like I wanted/needed and didn’t
I actually the first time met my guy on two occasions before I actually was goin to the church they were at and I actually became close to him. But we were close almost right off the bat and he never actually liked a girl before me.
But we have the chemistry and compatibility. We love spending time together and have all the same values and want to get married etc.
I’m very thankful the Lord led us to eachother and that I learned what I did beforehand so I could appreciate it more
I mean marriage is an item, a formality. If you love someone and you both know you will stay together forever then why spend all the extra money and effort? Even if you do want to get married, why not just go get a marriage license and then build your life!
Why does this have so many dislikes?
I love you
Is RUclips deleting comments on your channel? I was commenting on a video from my other channel and it would disappear after I edited it. You never know what RUclips is up to. Have a Great Week! :-)
I’ve been having issues with that on other videos
I’m not even a girl. Why am I watching this? Lol
Because you clicked on it?
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I like to add a third c to my recipe for love :) Chemistry, compatibility, and compassion
Those don’t always work and doesn’t guarantee that the guy is worth keeping. I speak from experience on that.
Her face animates like a character in a pixar movie.
Can you do a video on modest teen clothing?
This girl tryna tell people how they should date
I date to get this 🐱 ate
It’s okay just tell us to call the police we will. Where exactly is he holding you. We can save you I promis
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Not everyone wants to get married, not everyone is Religious so we don’t have to date for marriage
I can’t unsee how much you look like a woman Ben Shapiro
They’re siblings lol