The Power of (Secure) Love | Omri Gillath, PhD | TEDxOverlandPark

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @robertbenedek4463
    @robertbenedek4463 2 месяца назад +1

    There are better, deeper, more thoughtful contributions than this

  • @OrchestralOrg
    @OrchestralOrg 3 года назад +19

    *the key to happiness is that what you're after isn't even happiness. it's fulfillment and being content.*

  • @takakocaesar579
    @takakocaesar579 3 года назад +16

    Every parent must be educated about this before having a child.

  • @lenavoyles526
    @lenavoyles526 3 года назад +22

    The problem with DNA sampling is that early childhood experience has an epigenetic effect, turning genes on or off. So the question, “Is it nature or is it nurture” is much more complex than suggested here.

    • @mirafiori1990
      @mirafiori1990 2 года назад +1

      Wow 😲 I didn't realize! It's a bit of a Catch-22 then! Thanks for sharing 🙂👍

    • @Alphacentauri819
      @Alphacentauri819 Год назад +1

      He's not really speaking to that so much... and yes, there are a myriad of other factors, which make it multitudes more complex than an either/or equation.
      Epigenetic changes can also be transferred through generations, intergenerational trauma issues, on top of one's own epigenetic changes. To even fully address the epigenetics would take a full thesis.
      In addition, are they microbiota dynamics (which also can affect epigenetics) which affect neurotransmitters, stress hormones and so on.
      If you are wise, and have enough experience, enough study in especially neuroscience/neuropsychology, you can tease out the dynamics much better. It takes time and wisdom. Too often it's not worth it, or covered by insurance, to do that in-depth of assessments.
      It is best to touch on a persons past, to see patterns, core wounds, cognitive distortions, limiting beliefs, biases, narratives from those and then help the person to develop skills to move forward. Answers from the past are helpful, but to a limited degree. A person needs support, and skills to move forward...emotional regulation skills, communication skills, developing self agency, self efficacy, and empowerment.
      The nature and nurture thing is far too complex to fully figure out, and variables so different, person to person...that to get stuck in that area of focus, is missing much of what really matters.

  • @danielsonkin6997
    @danielsonkin6997 7 лет назад +16

    Excellent talk! Great summary of your neuroscience studies and how to boost attachment security inside and outside the lab.

  • @themetalgardener4960
    @themetalgardener4960 4 года назад +9

    Very interesting method but it really is only one method that only helps part of the problem. Like cross training your muscles. You have to find ways to flex the brain towards positivity and get stronger about those ideas and learn how to be more interdependent. You also have to understand your co-dependency and heal your trauma. Be like getting an infection and the doctor says just get some rest. No you need antibiotics and avoid re-infection and then also build up the immune system. One could actually move into secure attachment without the above method but you need the other things I mentioned and you can do them all on your own after learning how.

    • @K4113B4113
      @K4113B4113 3 года назад +1

      Hi where can I learn how to move to secure attachment?

    • @elliegonzaleza
      @elliegonzaleza 6 месяцев назад

      ⁠@@K4113B4113 book Secure love by Julie Mananno 😉. You got this!

  • @aidniormerod9588
    @aidniormerod9588 Месяц назад

    I loved tis episode!

  • @Larry21924
    @Larry21924 11 месяцев назад +2

    Brilliantly structured content. A book I read with similar structure had a significant impact on me. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

  • @JMF1992
    @JMF1992 5 лет назад +3

    Thank you.

  • @teresawoodhouse6876
    @teresawoodhouse6876 2 года назад

    Excelente

  • @Luckyone390
    @Luckyone390 Год назад

    What is the name of the Book?

  • @StephanieTeli
    @StephanieTeli 5 лет назад +3

    The tarantula absolutely not!!!! Lol

  • @andrecook4268
    @andrecook4268 5 лет назад +1

    Ok but, can I pat the spider?

  • @therubencast
    @therubencast 4 года назад +1

    This guys so dangerous, becuase half trues are way more dangerous than lies, go back to your lab and keep researching so you avoid feeling your own void