Attachment and resilience -- the power of one: Dr. Erica Liu Wollin at TEDxHongKong 2013

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  • Опубликовано: 13 янв 2025

Комментарии • 37

  • @ameliamgh2024
    @ameliamgh2024 4 года назад +18

    "lOoK aT tHis bEaUtiFuL pAiNtiNg" *camera op and editor work together to ensure we don't see the beautiful painting*
    That said, excellent presentation. Shoutout to all the Miss Marsha's out there

  • @000T00b
    @000T00b 5 лет назад +7

    'We were designed to relate, to be connected to one another. To love and to be loved.' Beautiful words I am only now late in life realising.

  • @emilybaylor
    @emilybaylor 9 лет назад +29

    This talk made me cry and gave me chills. What a powerful story of the importance of attachment!

  • @moira-cecilycissybrady-rog9274
    @moira-cecilycissybrady-rog9274 11 лет назад +23

    "Ultimately, we were designed to love and be loved." Amen Erica.

  • @CampusCalm
    @CampusCalm 11 лет назад +16

    Beautiful talk! It inspires me to remember how much influence I have over my nieces just through the power of love and modeling resilience myself. Thank you!

  • @douglasbeyer7167
    @douglasbeyer7167 11 лет назад +8

    I hope to be the "Miss Marsha" to others. You are an excellent communicator. Thank you, Erica

  • @evachildconnection
    @evachildconnection 9 лет назад +14

    Thank you Erica. What academic research explain you told us in human way. Beautiful talk.

  • @MsValle08
    @MsValle08 11 лет назад +3

    Wonderful, Erica! Your story of Miss Marsha had be crying. It was so moving and powerful and true! Hugs.

  • @minaweight3719
    @minaweight3719 11 лет назад +5

    Brilliant Erica. Very moving and memorable.......

  • @sukhmanicambridge
    @sukhmanicambridge 7 лет назад +12

    Yes...and a very painful process for the child to reset this early lack of attachment in later life if they are lucky enough to find a skilled enough practitioner to help them. I was in care for my 1st 9 months then adopted into a chaotic environment where let's just say that things happened which definitely shouldn't have. A whole lot of work is involved to undo this yet it's a humbling and amazing experience to move through. Life beckons. 🌈

    • @mnogosmolepe
      @mnogosmolepe 6 лет назад

      I'm Happy you're in a better place now

    • @petestevens3970
      @petestevens3970 5 лет назад

      sukhmanicambridge: Such a relief to know the early lack of attachment can be ‘undone’: i am not at all certain what this looks like, but desperately need these answers.
      Thank you.

  • @JasonGafar
    @JasonGafar 4 года назад +12

    As the son of a very dysfunctional mother, I can affirm, we as children have to battle with lifelong scars of poor parenting.

    • @haneefahfkg
      @haneefahfkg 4 года назад

      I am product of that as well, unfortunately.

    • @MarieDeBruleport
      @MarieDeBruleport 4 года назад

      Yes we do 😔

    • @colbyd.5044
      @colbyd.5044 3 года назад +3

      However it’s said that once we transcend that from a place of acceptance and understanding, we’re much stronger then those who never endured the emotional and physical battles we have. It really is a blessing in disguise

  • @juneyang1400
    @juneyang1400 9 месяцев назад

    Helping my child see himself. ❤

  • @rhiannonedwards7748
    @rhiannonedwards7748 8 лет назад +7

    Beautiful way to explain attachment

  • @jefferynakama3911
    @jefferynakama3911 7 лет назад +3

    Beautiful. Great job Erica!

  • @patriciajohnson2524
    @patriciajohnson2524 11 лет назад +3

    Great job, Erica! Inspirational!

  • @marylacey-vittachi6307
    @marylacey-vittachi6307 11 лет назад +5

    Thanks for sharing this Erica! This was worth doing. Thanks.

  • @TheGlasslife
    @TheGlasslife 7 лет назад +4

    Wow! Great information.

  • @aishwaryanatesh5563
    @aishwaryanatesh5563 4 года назад +1

    Such a great video. Well explained and detailed.

  • @coreyneil8763
    @coreyneil8763 4 года назад +1

    Beautiful.

  • @rachelwashbourn9075
    @rachelwashbourn9075 3 года назад +1

    Amazing !

  • @vegginny548
    @vegginny548 5 лет назад +1

    I knew she was going to say surprise, wow

  • @annieroxiewebb6741
    @annieroxiewebb6741 8 лет назад +7

    Going thru this with my adopted son who is 26 months old

  • @countrynuggets1296
    @countrynuggets1296 9 лет назад +5

    thank you..

  • @alphom1
    @alphom1 6 лет назад +1

    Beautiful

  • @somyacharanpahadi4685
    @somyacharanpahadi4685 2 года назад +1

    -Disruptions in early attachments

    • @somyacharanpahadi4685
      @somyacharanpahadi4685 2 года назад

      9:43- children can't necessarily tell you what they remember at a young age, but their bodies remember.

  • @funarty01
    @funarty01 10 лет назад +2

    nice one

  • @marlowharris4125
    @marlowharris4125 2 года назад +1

    Just remind me when I was younger and I took the spelling bee but it was a little similar to her I misspelled the word and I was out..

  • @Sacs.thepsychologynexus
    @Sacs.thepsychologynexus Год назад

    Interesting - thank you. We have a channel where we discuss Psychology, attachment, resilience and children in state care etc. Any support is appreciated.

  • @Domdeone1
    @Domdeone1 5 лет назад +1

    Think this at 52.

  • @tatianahawaii13
    @tatianahawaii13 4 года назад

    Amazing