What trauma taught me about happiness | Lindsey Roy | TEDxKC

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  • Опубликовано: 31 окт 2024

Комментарии • 86

  • @BhaktaChand1
    @BhaktaChand1 4 года назад +21

    Those 49 dislikes, I hope you are perfect. Thank you, Lindsey, for sharing such a wonderful and inspirational story.

  • @lynguyen8590
    @lynguyen8590 5 лет назад +21

    Trauma teaches one about strength. If you suffer you do not have to hide your sufferings. Trauma could be your greatest power.

  • @sbakerproductions
    @sbakerproductions 6 лет назад +37

    It took me two years to come to terms with my physical limitations after a violent assault. It wasn't until I bought into the process of healing wholeheartedly, especially the inner self. I can attest to her message and my deepest respect to Lindsey for sharing her story.

  • @maureenurness9197
    @maureenurness9197 Год назад

    Lindsey, as always, lots of "catch your breath moments", tears, and even laughter, in a talk about trauma. Loved it.

  • @susanmazzanti5643
    @susanmazzanti5643 7 лет назад +80

    I was hit by a car and had a broken neck. Thank you for helping me find a new way to move forward.

    • @JaysonT1
      @JaysonT1 6 лет назад +1

      Susan Mazzanti How are you now?

    • @harbhajankaur2907
      @harbhajankaur2907 6 лет назад

      Punjabi

    • @dbsk06
      @dbsk06 5 лет назад

      Stay strong. Nothing is permanent

    • @susanmazzanti5643
      @susanmazzanti5643 4 года назад +6

      This was several years ago and I still improve but I doubt I will ever get over this. I am old enough that the surgeon who did the neck fusion thought I probably would not grow enough bone to actually fuse my neck. I did and I still live alone. Not as well as I did before but I look for ways to manage. Thank you all caring. That helps me do what I need to do on the hard days.

  • @joanm3682
    @joanm3682 6 лет назад +45

    I've had more than my share of personal trauma. This is the best TED talk I've ever heard- which is saying quite a lot. Thank you for your words of wisdom!!

  • @Kristiana-mb9lk
    @Kristiana-mb9lk 3 года назад +3

    I’m moving on from my trauma of the last 2 years, it happened so learn from it and move on, I can’t change that past but embrace the change that is coming, the change not only of my making but those close to me who have allowed me to see that I need to change, to engage with them at what level they wish to engage at, listen to new ideas not just that they are my friends or colleagues but because I trust them to hold in part my new life that I know is coming, to change my Negative hypnosis into a Positive one. ♥️

  • @actionforanimals4862
    @actionforanimals4862 3 года назад +2

    Lindsay's courage is inspiring. She offers a path forward for anyone struggling to live without trauma.

  • @TheJuryIsOut
    @TheJuryIsOut 4 года назад +18

    What an amazing courageous soul. I hope you find healing and peace in your life. One of the few talks that had my undivided attention from start to finish. Some really inspiring pearls of wisdom to live by and deal with whatever life throws at you.

  • @harenrussel
    @harenrussel 5 лет назад +6

    Thank you Lindsey. You're courage, bravery, acceptance of your changes and rising up above it all is motivating and encouraging. Keep strong.

  • @RalphDratman
    @RalphDratman 7 лет назад +20

    Remarkable level of honesty. Many thanks to Lindsey Roy for this excellent talk.

  • @ShereeTrask
    @ShereeTrask Год назад +3

    Profound, inspiring and so courageous. Thank you for sharing your story of resilience and bravery!

  • @AChis-vg3fw
    @AChis-vg3fw Год назад

    Your talk is amazing. I listen to it when I’m struggling. I’m so grateful to you for shearing. Please know that you’re helping me to look for my perspective. Thank you so much 🙏

  • @honestcheetah
    @honestcheetah 7 лет назад +13

    Someone once said something like, "if you look closely at what brings you tears you may see that you weep for the very things that brought you joy." -T.S. Eliot(?)

  • @BhaktaChand1
    @BhaktaChand1 4 года назад +2

    Such an inspirational story. Thank you for sharing. I can not understand why people would down vote such a beautiful story.

  • @ronadiongon7075
    @ronadiongon7075 3 года назад +2

    You are strong and truly an inspiration. This talk is so pure, you can hear the emotion in her voice. One of the best inspirational ted talks.

  • @Pro0osh
    @Pro0osh Год назад

    She is the BEST !

  • @cathihanauer6513
    @cathihanauer6513 7 лет назад +37

    I love this talk. Pure inspiration.

  • @nellyb.9340
    @nellyb.9340 3 года назад +1

    Lindsey- thank you for giving me hope and sharing your experience and wisdom, I thank you for your courage and you have a very large extended family and we love you and love each other,; we are united by one thing.

  • @dennisnewton9384
    @dennisnewton9384 6 лет назад +25

    That’s awesome. You could have given up and been miserable and bitter. Great talk!

  • @consc306
    @consc306 2 года назад +1

    “Focus on what’s in the present & what lies ahead”

  • @hollowone777
    @hollowone777 6 лет назад +14

    This is great. Thank you very much, I appreciate your candor and help. I'm in an extremely dark place in my life right now because of my difficult physical issues and this has given me a lot of things to think about and meditate on.

    • @sempressfi
      @sempressfi 5 лет назад +3

      Hope you are doing better 💜

  • @chrisburke2085
    @chrisburke2085 6 лет назад +8

    Thanks for being you. God bless your family!

  • @josephamankwa10
    @josephamankwa10 4 года назад +4

    2020 and am still watching. Inspiring

  • @mykel6406
    @mykel6406 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for your honesty, and authenticity, life changing

  • @НазымКорытникова
    @НазымКорытникова 7 лет назад +15

    You're so great and amazing! So honest and strong! I believe your talk helps a lot ot people...

  • @jude1515
    @jude1515 6 лет назад +12

    Excellent speech and I admire your strength!

  • @Chanesmyname
    @Chanesmyname 2 года назад

    It is really brave and kind to share your experiences and how you have managed and sorted these things to help other people with those lessons.

  • @tammiwood3937
    @tammiwood3937 5 лет назад +4

    Sp honored to hear your talk...you are amazing

  • @alibeaumont-filder3185
    @alibeaumont-filder3185 4 года назад +4

    Amazing courage .. great perspective too .. humbled by your message .

  • @alwanmaria
    @alwanmaria 6 лет назад +12

    I love this talk! It makes me so emotional evertime I see it! Beautiful!

  • @benjoplin8302
    @benjoplin8302 5 лет назад +4

    this is great. what a thoughtful and sensitive talk. thank you for the wisdom and inspiration, ms. roy.

  • @mirandamiranda9579
    @mirandamiranda9579 4 года назад +3

    Amazing talk! you are a hero! You really inspire me to look at life challenges in a different perspective!
    thank you!

  • @artsmart
    @artsmart 5 лет назад +3

    Well done Lindsey! Simply inspiring.

  • @linishabhoyroo2145
    @linishabhoyroo2145 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for this awesome perspective!🙏🏻💕🌸

  • @brendadrew834
    @brendadrew834 6 лет назад +8

    Great TedX talk...beautiful woman, inside and out!! Blessed be~

  • @monstervan
    @monstervan 6 лет назад +5

    Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @olsparkywisenheimer8239
    @olsparkywisenheimer8239 7 лет назад +21

    Great talk. Being a trauma survivor enlightened me to many of these same things. I admit though, after living through trauma myself, I'd like to win the lottery for a scientific comparison.. lol

  • @arlinegeorge6967
    @arlinegeorge6967 3 года назад +1

    Roy you are beautiful amazing impressive n courageous soul. Inspiring great talk. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.

  • @truebluewonderful1139
    @truebluewonderful1139 6 лет назад +5

    New perspectives keep depression away from us too.

  • @monkeyfacelove1283
    @monkeyfacelove1283 7 лет назад +14

    Needed this talk!❤️

  • @SandeepKumar-bt7is
    @SandeepKumar-bt7is 6 лет назад +7

    Vry vry inspiring Ted talk. It's one of my favorite

  • @SamSung-zx9tb
    @SamSung-zx9tb 6 лет назад +14

    ...two left feet...lol! Continued blessings and thank you for the 3rd person perspective.

  • @rockysage7760
    @rockysage7760 2 года назад

    Thanks for this talk. It's insightful.

  • @pryncessyanni
    @pryncessyanni 4 года назад +1

    POWERFUL!

  • @Sarahthompson2237
    @Sarahthompson2237 2 года назад

    Awesome, thank you… I’m trying-wiring

  • @jimhammond9193
    @jimhammond9193 4 года назад +2

    Massive "Fist Pump"! Wow!!!

  • @zylascope
    @zylascope 4 года назад

    Thank you. Great advice.

  • @irektaflinski5449
    @irektaflinski5449 4 года назад +2

    Wow life changing 👏🙏🏾💙😭

  • @Labendvanbrosif
    @Labendvanbrosif Год назад

    Hey that’s my friends mom!!!

  • @JaysonT1
    @JaysonT1 6 лет назад +3

    I'm a trama survivor and it hasn't improved me. Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not saying I salk in it and it's poor, poor me. However, it hasn't added anything really. It has taken away many things and you learn adapt. Maybe some/few find value in it but most just learn to adjust.

    • @marksoberay2318
      @marksoberay2318 5 лет назад

      Same here, I was in an accident that i lost multiple limbs

  • @ArtandKitchen_
    @ArtandKitchen_ 3 года назад +2

    My trauma taught me how to be happy by myself.

  • @peanutbuttercookies6227
    @peanutbuttercookies6227 6 лет назад +2

    I’m glad everyone is so inspired by this, but I’m having a hard time taking her seriously. She’s still able to work and earn her own money. She’s still able to bathe and dress herself independently. She can still think clearly. She has supportive friends and family. Sorry, but I don’t see her as a “survivor.” She just had an injury that she had to adjust to, but her life really isn’t that different than before her accident.

  • @TheCozyCushion
    @TheCozyCushion 7 лет назад +2

    Great Talk ;) I truly enjoyed it and will use a new perspective.

  • @jeandistefano5486
    @jeandistefano5486 4 года назад

    Thank you. Gina in lights

  • @dasbeharifull-timemystic2075
    @dasbeharifull-timemystic2075 7 лет назад +3

    ok....so perspective training is the answer

  • @selamselam3942
    @selamselam3942 3 года назад

    Well done!!

  • @MrDan11422
    @MrDan11422 6 лет назад

    As much as I want to stay positive with someone that's negative. Confused about what to do

  • @riaspoint7374
    @riaspoint7374 5 лет назад +1

    Good motivation Dear

  • @miraclegirl4634
    @miraclegirl4634 4 года назад

    Beautiful

  • @jodie-annsemenov19
    @jodie-annsemenov19 3 года назад +1

    💜💜💜

  • @ghazikutbi3206
    @ghazikutbi3206 3 года назад

    Lindsey Roy is right. What is the worst thing that could have happened. i. e. we should count our blessings bestowed to us by Almighty Allah, the creator, and none of our blessings should be taken for granted. Par example: an electrician was working with his plier in an electricity wall plug and all of a sudden the two electric poles touched the plier and a shock happened which caused a damage to the tool. Imagine if the plier does not have insulated handles.

  • @Ella0158
    @Ella0158 2 года назад

  • @azylstra4777
    @azylstra4777 7 лет назад +2

  • @robertcorderchiang3947
    @robertcorderchiang3947 5 лет назад

    My God

  • @gildardovalencia6323
    @gildardovalencia6323 4 года назад

    137

  • @harvinkhaneja4688
    @harvinkhaneja4688 Год назад

    Accident Eksident Eiksidant Eksidnt

  • @JyoSco007
    @JyoSco007 3 года назад

    😊💕🙏💞😘

  • @nothanks8594
    @nothanks8594 4 года назад

    Champ

  • @harvinkhaneja4688
    @harvinkhaneja4688 Год назад

    Anchor Hainkar

  • @VladyslavKL
    @VladyslavKL 3 года назад

    🐳

  • @amberscottcmt7400
    @amberscottcmt7400 3 года назад +1

    Does the microphone really have to pick up every sound her tongue makes inside of her mouth while she's talking?
    It's a good message, but dang girl, try hydrating your body before you have to give a speech on a microphone. Like the day before, cuz that dry mouth smacky sound is enough to send those of us with misophonia into the survival brain where we cannot absorb the message.
    Seriously, I wish there was a transcript for this one.