Do Attachment Styles Determine the Dance of Relationships? | Jennifer Noble | TEDxMission College
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- Опубликовано: 14 окт 2024
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Do you find yourself in a never-ending dance of failed relationships? In this TEDx talk explores how attachment styles shape romantic relationships and reveals how identifying and modifying your attachment style can transform your love life. Through captivating analogies and insightful research, discover practical steps to master the 'Smooth Waltz' of secure attachment.
Through captivating analogies and insightful research, discover practical steps to master the 'Smooth Waltz' of secure attachment.
Jenn Noble, ACC is a relationship coach and founder of Speak Honest. Specializing in attachment-focused relationships and communication, Jenn combines her expertise in Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Integrated Attachment Theory, and Compassionate Inquiry to empower individuals to transform their personal and romantic relationships. Through her coaching and podcast, Jenn shares her insights and experiences to help others navigate the dance of attachment and build secure, fulfilling connections. Follow Jenn on Instagram @speak_honest and visit speak-honest.com for more insights. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
Attachment styles IS SCIENCE! Its a qualitative and generalized categorization of our human attempts to form relationships BACKED with longitudinal research and analysis of developmental precursors to such behaviors.
Jenn, you have honored this science in a fun and digestible way without neglecting the theory behind it all. Well done and blessed are those who are able to be an audience to you!
Well said 👍
Thank you. Watching a lot of these with my wife, I'm avoidant, she's disorganized, we're both audhd. It's a wild ride sometimes, but there's no one I'd rather spend my life with so thank you and those in this sphere. It's opened our minds a bit more and already changed the understanding of eachother, even after all these years together. 🖤
Loved this! I had never even heard of attachment styles, much less how they affect our relationships. So much to think through about lives & how the past affects our future. You're such a great speaker Jennifer - thank you for sharing this message!
Yea, you're definitely not alone in not really hearing about it. It's a bit of a buzz word right now on the socials, but at the same time little is known about it which makes me so excited to get to finally share this! Thank you so much for your kind words, they mean so much.
Uff get ready to dive into the rabbit hole of attachment style!
@@natyboox3 🤣 OMG I know right?
You have such a finesse to explaining this! Thank you for being vulnerable, this is so relatable.
Thank-you for this amazing explanation that I can send to someone to help explain attachment theory. ❤
I'm so happy it helped! I hope it helps them as well. - Jenn
Everyone should know about attachment styles life would so much easier 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I completely agree! - Jenn
I remember you from the IAT training with Thais exactly two summers ago now! Glad to see you having so much success, congratulations! 👏🏻👏🏻
Oh how fun! That training totally changed my life!
So amazing!!! I've learned so much from Jenn about relationships and attachment styles. She is such an inspiration!!! Woohoo! Go Jenn!!!
Great Ted talk! This is a beautiful way to introduce and explain attachment styles. Congratulations on all the wonderful work you've done in your healing journey and the fantastic things that are happening in your life! From day one you were meant to be a coach and spread the word that can help people change their lives!
Beautiful story! There is hope for all of us to break the cycle. We can heal ourselves and raise our kids with secure attachment.
Love this, there absolutely is hope to break that cycle. And that hope is so powerful.
Such an informative talk with so much useful stuff to think about and work on! Thanks for sharing your coaching with us Jennifer :)
You're so welcome! So happy you enjoyed it! - Jenn
Dear Jen,
Great talk! So inspiring in many ways.. Cograts! Enjoy every success and beauty in your life 🤗
Aww thank you so much!!
Great job Jennifer! You did an excellent job in describing the attachment styles in an easy and relatable way that is also fun to listen to!!!
Thank you so much! So happy to hear it was fun!
BLESSINGS to you and yours.
Yes!!!
Thais Gibson and The Personal School Of Development ~ The Attachment Style Quiz is available there and I have copied & pasted and sent that to more people than I can count… I agree that this is a key component to understanding the self and others… I generally am Securely Attached but my spouse is Anxious… This relationship had me wobbling in various ways in 12 years
She is the disorganized
Has to be…
She gives me a different answer every time ;-/
Excellent explanation of the attachment styles, with an engaging delivery!!
Loved the expansion into how to modify which dance you engage in - thanks for this video!
Thais is the queen. I would just love her to talk about non monogamy
What are you hoping to learn about non monogamy? Have you read polysecure yet? Wonderful book!
Love it! Amazing Job! Great message ❤
Thank you! 🥰
This is fantastic! Great job! 💃💕🕺
👯
I also learned from Thais❤
Love to hear it! She has been such an amazing mentor over the past few years.
I cried 😭 I have the disorganized attachment style also.
Yea I get it.. I remember crying a lot when I first realized this. Hope this has helped start to shift things for you. You got this! - Jenn
@@Speak_Honest aw thank you so much.✨
Love da message, Great video!! I hope you get more likes soon :3
Thank you so much!
Cool!
I'm glad you liked it :)