Why I Dont Feel Guilty After My Affair / Client Questions
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- Опубликовано: 24 окт 2022
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I feel guilt and shame for both ending the affair and how I did
Understandable and very real, that's a different subject that may need to be discussed.
@@standground7956 actually no. I ended it for my son. It had gone crazy and was affecting him.
The narratives women create in their heads to justify inflicting immense horrors upon their husband are truly shocking. One day mine wants to have my baby. The next day I’m a POS and she’s never loved me and she regrets nothing. Literally it was the next day.
Oh my I’m so sorry & that sounds more like personality disorder or substance abuse🙈
Very truthfull but also must be mourn for the momentarily non guilt over the destruction of the family. During the heat of love is not thought through emotionally economically and spiritually.... but in the end there is redemption and peace even if the parents never reunite, kids love their parents and everything can be a motivation for them to thrive and care for their families
Yes
Stacy I have 4 of these. The first 4
Wow. My thoughts exactly
💯 Facts
When does the unfaithful spouse usually start to feel guilty? My husband didn't start showing remorse after he realized his affair partner was using him. It took my husband husband 2 years after I discovered the affair for him realized the damage he did to our marriage.
It can take a while. It just depends on the person and how quickly they process through recovery.
My attachment style is dismissive avoidant
I was in a marriage for years that was unfulfilling. Why would I feel guilty for falling in love with someone who made me feel good about myself?
Love is love. Marriage is a legal relationship not a prison.
you can walk away and live the life you want
That’s not love.
And you’ll walk away from your affair too. And the next one and the next one.
Guess why? Fulfilment comes from within yourselves, not your spouse.
Your spouse is like a business, you get together to grow a life and improve your situation.
If your life was constantly improving? Then why would you leave your marriage…
@@kiddytube3915 wow. No. We grow through others. We are interdependent beings. You cannot “be happy alone.” That’s the new buzz for depressed lonely people. Marriages end all the time. And it wasn’t love. It was infatuation in my 20s. I’m not in my 20s anymore
@@apriljohnson1067 disagree.
You get it into a relationship to give. When both of you are giving to each other, that’s where true happiness comes from.
If you’re only taking without giving back then you really need to ask yourself what’s wrong with you that you can’t reciprocate the love.
Why is the unfaithful expected to feel guilty?
Isn't the affair what made your life better when you were suffering in a rotten marriage with a POS spouse that has made it impossible for you to divorce?
Why feel guilty for punishing those who are shit spouses???
Morgan Richard Olivier on X: "You can't create chaos in the lives of others and expect peace to come to yours
@horizonofj362 my comment was sarcasm but I love the quote. Thank you 😊