@@zenzen2347 Keep your head up Fam...u not alone...neither am 👁️. 👁️ wish you peace Fam. Connecting this way we can make eachother stronger. STAY GREAT.✊🏾💪🏾💯 -🗿
I totally agree. Past experiences can definitely contribute to shaping who you are today. It doesn’t matter if people think you’re ungrateful or anything else-they just don’t understand what you’ve been through. After all, we all come from different backgrounds. The only person in the world who understands you the most is yourself. So, take care of yourself mentally and physically, it's not that we are weak; we just have different ways of expressing ourselves.
You’re so right. Our past shapes us, and people don’t always see the full picture. Taking care of yourself, both mentally and physically, is so important. Everyone has their own way of handling things, and that’s okay.
Hello my friend, I have experienced as an adult female many of the same difficulties. I worked in a corporate legal department and experienced demeaning words from colleagues and there was no collaboration or a sense of helping one another. Everyone was out for their own and willing to climb on you to get their bonuses. The fired me cause they claimed I made too many mistakes. I was blessed and relieved from the torture and disrespect and working with shallow people. Thank you for sharing your story. I too was exhausted and wiped put when I came home at 6:00 pm and at night I would ruminate what I did wrong. It wasn't me it was the cruel and toxic environment. Best GoldenSword. Be Blessed today and I heal from going out in nature, by the water. Hugs
The entire competitive paradigm must be replaced. We are here in this world to take care of one another (and other life forms) and not to compete with one another. Henry Miller, the writer, said that everyday we get up and engage in mutual slaughter. He was correct. And all of our frantic activity and competitiveness is destroying the earth. We must evolve to a sane, compassionate awareness and practices, or we will not survive.
It's not just your company: US culture and society is individualistic rather than collective, low-trust, and competitive. This, unfortunately, manifests in every aspect of life. There are even problems within the same family because some relatives are hyper-individualistic
I just shared a video that precisely touches this point! We all, and, the stats show it, men in particular keep on suffering in silence. We must share it with each other, not hiding it. That only brings more fear, more suffering, more symptoms. Thanks for sharing 🙏🙏
Henry David Thoreau wrote: "Most men lead lives of quiet desperation." As a man taking care of my family and feeling alone, I resonate with what you're saying. What helped for me was finding a cafe in my neighborhood and talking with strangers there. I go, get coffee, and find the seniors/old people who like to chat. And I just chat. Like with your RUclips channel, it gave me an outlet to talk to people who weren't friends or coworkers or family. I only see them in the cafe and I can be more open with them without worrying about impacting my family or work.
That’s such a great way to find connection. Sometimes talking to people outside your usual circle can feel like a breath of fresh air. It’s amazing how simple conversations, even with strangers, can ease that loneliness. Sounds like a beautiful way to recharge.
Thanks for the kind words! That tour boat moment was something special, it’s wild how little things can bring big joy. Glad to have amazing people like you around for the journey! 🛶💛
Not no-one, brother. Some of us speak up loudly and clearly but are shadow banned due to the uncomfortable taboo themes we talk about. Give thanks for your energy today and more fire to you on your path of freedom 🧚🔱🦁 🙏💚
7:05 YES!! You are SO smart!! Sharing experience, not giving a lecture 19:08 I’m blown away by how much I relate to all of your ideas! I love your perspective fuuuuck thank yooooou!!!!
You have been one of my favourite youtuber this last month. you have so much wisdom to share. So thank you. Even if you are not working as much as you did before. I understand the feeling of uncertainty, but i can´t help to feel, that you seem so calm. I believe that you are more in line with yourself now despite the circumstances. Thats what i hope for at least. Thanks for sharing everything. It has helped me to be more clear about myself and to trust my instincts.
I am glad to share my experience with you. You are right, I am a lot more calm and at peace now than ever. It takes time, but that is the result of the day to day self reflection. I still have a lot to do, but progress is what matters. That feeling of uncertainty will never go away. But the best thing we can do now is enjoy the simple moment and let the future sorts it out. Thanks and much ❤️
So thankful for you speaking up! I believe this can help many people. Dealing with my own shadows. You are an amazing person! Thank you for your honesty! ♥♥
I am glad you are working on accepting your shadow. Not easy. But I been taking it 1 day at a time and I am slowly seeing progress. I am glad to share my story with you. Keep at it ❤️
Thank you for sharing. I found happiness in solitude. I have always enjoyed being alone. I feel and have felt that people don't get me. I have been mocked because of being deep and having views that go against the grain. I feel like I don't fit in anywhere but I'm okay with that. I learned many valuable lessons due to my traumas and the obstacles I faced throughout my life. I realized that at the end of the day, it's myself that I have to face. seeking people's approval was pointless, I didn't need others for validation or to feel good about myself. I learned that people will always find ways to judge and demean others no matter what. It took years for me to get to this point, I am grateful that I am finally at peace inside and I'm okay. I came across one of your videos just today. I admire the fact that you were real and open. It takes courage to do so. I
Solitude is the best medicine to reconnect with yourself. People think it's boring to stop moving but that's when true living begins. People all have their own lenses of the world so they all see differently. What's important is how we see ourselves and these peaceful moments will allow us to do just that. Keep going on this journey. I think you are already ahead of the masses.
I grew the most with the worst jobs. It guided me into my calling...it's Never a waste but a learning process...there is No failure, only in our minds.
People can be hurtful no matter where you are at in this life. One way or another, they want to tear you down. Very few qualify. At work we’re forced to be around those we wouldn’t have chosen. Ugh! I’m grateful for this understanding. Always enjoy your nature, the nature in your videos. I loved the bro one! Especially it’s made me to feel better and stronger and more motivated.
I am used to dealing with hurtful people all my life so nothing is new. What I care about are those like yourself who really care for others and have a good heart and attitude. Glad the video could give you a boost! Stay motivated bro life will only get better. If I can make it through everyone else could. Much love man.
Another great conversation. Again, everything resonates. I just shared your channel on my Instagram…I hope this reaches out to my friends and family who are all suffering silently. I went on a healing journey last year. I did the shadow work and the innerwork. There is a rise of collective consciousness and there’s a wave of those that are called to heal ourselves so that we can heal others. We seem to be on the same wave my brother. Keep on going! You are speaking to me and for me, We are all one ❤✨😉🙌🏼💪🏼
Thanks for sharing, Gigi. It really means a lot to me. We often ball up alone dealing with our own struggles. But once we become conscious, we see that we are not alone out there. It helps knowing what others are going through and learning from their experience. It has been very instrumental in my healing to hear you sharing your own stories. Thank you❤️
Hey Brotha just wanna say youve been the most helpful human being out of countless videos and people ive spoke to. This stuff is money, you are very rich sure and I hope you carry it on to keep doing what you're saying . Much love 🙏🙌 I would say im in a similar boat where i feel like seeing you is a boat in the distance and looks like mine 👌
I am glad my experience helped you. I struggles for a while before I could get to this point of getting out of my own head. It might not look like it but that pain is real to all who is feeling it. Just hang in there bro and start peeling off the layers 1 at a time ❤️
Fight your way out from whatever it is that is bothering you. That is what I had been doing. I agree that we need to be nice to people in order to get the nice back to us. May be many people are not experience enough. Maybe they are struggling too but did not know what to do.
Hey hey what's going on? You’re so right. Fighting through challenges is the only way forward sometimes. And showing kindness, even when it’s hard, can create a ripple effect. Everyone’s dealing with something, even if they don’t show it.
If the people hurts you the most is your once beloved families what I should do ? Still fight back ? If I win , what I get is a broken family relationship … this is meaningless for me …
After long two years I finally managed to send a message to my friends, telling them how I feel and now I'm afraid that this information is going to be used against me at some time, hopefully this doesn't happen, because I feel better after telling them how I'm actually doing. Thank you mate.
It's great to at least get it off your chest right? Being honest could be a scary thing. Imagine me making these videos :) But I did it because I got tired of living with the pain silently. I think you did good and you will be OK.
everyone should be sharing their struggles online so the community can understand best how to evolve and help others moving forward its a highly responsibly thing to do and can be healing if trolls do not bully the person for being heartfelt
Just remember we all are here to survive. Some people are just good in putting a brave face. Keep your heads up and talk to us. I've been alone for about 10 yrs now now GF after my last gf broke my heart, and my hopes to be in a relationship. So... you're not alone. You're lucky to have a wife and a kid
Thanks for sharing, man. I am very lucky I got my family with me. They are the reason I decided to slow down. It’s true everyone’s just trying to make it, even if they look strong on the outside. You’ve been through a lot, but it’s good to know you’re still here, reaching out and connecting. Stay strong!
Trauma from one Trauma after another over the last few decades has made my internal struggle, depression, anxiety, etc difficult for me to keep myself going.
Yeh I dealt with that all my life since I was a kid. We can't let it stop us from living. Just take it 1 day at a time and find new reasons to get up in the morning.
You deserve happiness.. we all do! Thanks for sharing your progress, everyone is unique.. that's how the world is beautiful, humans are just not helping each other to shine and live life to the fullest by judging and being judged.. however we should not try to fit in a place we're not comfortable at...
You’re right, everyone deserves happiness, and it’s better to focus on being true to ourselves than trying to fit where we don’t belong. Been there and it almost killed me. I need to figure out a better place I enjoy working at.
I love you bro. We are face challenges and suffering almost every single one way or another. I have watched some of your videos telling your true stories are similar to my situation for years and I still can't figure out what is tre real purpose of life when so many people go through their hard lives day in and day out.
I hear you, bro. Life’s got its ups and downs, and it’s tough trying to figure it all out. Maybe it’s about growing through the hard stuff and finding meaning in the little good moments we get. We are all just trying to figure it out and no one really got it together. Trust me man. Just keep going until something clicks.
Bless you my brother! Your channel is a blessing. I go through a lot of fkn shit everyday, sometimes I feel like giving up. The worst thing one can do is be your own enemy. We all have to go through suffering in this life, even when I tried to neck myself The Lord Jesus Christ saved me! I love your surroundings, I love your gentle soul, I agree also, to wake up each day is a blessing my bro, in spite of the immense pain we feel, the heavy emotions, THE LORD GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME! To wake up everyday to have a personal relationship with Jesus surpasses everything and anything in this world my bro. This life is vanity compared to the eternal that is at stake. The Word Of God endures forever, this world will perish but his word remains eternal.
Thank you for sharing that, brother. Life can be so heavy, but your faith and strength shine through. It's suck when you in pain and nobody seems to get it. I know because that was me. These days, waking up every day with purpose really is a blessing. Stay strong, and keep holding on to that hope.
We have been fed since our childhood that if we do not compete, we shall be left behind & that people will overtake us. We were never taught that even if we have less of materialstic stuff, we can still live happy life - if we have peace within us 🎉 RIP when you're still alive not when you leave. ❤ from India
Man Asian culture can be very competitive. The lack of resources make us all like that growing up. I get it. The constant push to compete often leaves no room for inner peace. But true happiness isn’t about material things, it’s about finding calm within. Something I am still learning.
The strength you show in speaking of your pains and struggles is the greatest strength of all. Know you are not alone. We are all one. To hide those hard personal truths from each other is to lie to ourselves. As I listen to and respond to your words I listen to and speak to myself and so I heal. We are all one, regardless of subcategory - race, gender, pay scale, religion, etc. The folks who make efforts to make us feel lesser are afraid to improve themselves. See through the smoke and mirrors. We are all one, your pain is mine, as is their pain. To survive we must unite. The monopoly is a disease. This is a critical time to heal, for all of us. ...I should have waited to respond; you already knew my message. But I'll add to the appreciation you share for nature. Again, we're all one, the blood cells of a living planet. And when we bond with nature we heal. When we're isolated in the "9-5" illusion of reality we all collapse. Those who live to serve the monopoly, the capitalist society, the oligarchs, ...are zombies. I'm glad to hear you stepping out of that trance. Stay strong and free.
Honestly, therapists weren't it for me. Not knocking it, but every time I needed help and reached out to a therapist it made it worse - way worse. Don't listen to the haters in the comments, someone who is actually feeling their own pain wont ever dismiss someone elses'. You just said it as im typing, those like that need more love and compassion than any of us.
@IlluminateYourPower Yeh to each their own. The right therapist could help but I found it was better for me to go fishing and share my story with you. Just keep doing whatever is working for you ❤️
Thanks for the encouragement it means a lot to me. I am happy to share my journey and the scenery wherever I go with you. Yes it would be my honor that we could share a pot of hot coffee one day and share our stories ❤️
I was in your situation, but not to that extent of suffering. I changed about a year and a half ago and try to learn from different people and read different Western books about happiness. I am at a point that is in a better place. I ended up learning that Buddhism and meditation is the most effective way. I am Cambodian, so Buddhism in the Cambodian language has much much more resources than English. Thank you for sharing your experience and speaking up. I don't think hustle culture is the way. The Buddha teach to make the right efforts and not to rush or greedy. You make efforts and do good things in action, speech, and though, and just let your karma play out.
I have been learning a lot and studying about the human mind on my journey. Western knowledge leans more on science. Eastern knowledge is based on spiritually. Both are great in their own ways and I have been incorporating both. Meditation is still a challenge for me as I have a hars time sitting still. But I am learning to slow down. Thanks for sharing your knowledge with me.
Speaking up is when you ask yourself , why should I keep this ? Sharing it is when your shit hits the fan and wherever the shit lands , others clean up. There are employees who clean it all up for a living. But we all keep shitting through the same intestinal pipes. We learn the logistics of composition when we take our daily crap. Everybody is a toxic releaser at the end of everyone's day. Change your view, changes your actions. But words are like crap, happy coming out but they become your useless toxic mechanism that everyone uses in getting in circles and cycles.
Ecclesiastes 3 King James Version 3 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: 2 A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted; 3 A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; 4 A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance; 5 A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing; 6 A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away; 7 A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak; 8 A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace. 9 What profit hath he that worketh in that wherein he laboureth? 10 I have seen the travail, which God hath given to the sons of men to be exercised in it. 11 He hath made every thing beautiful in his time: also he hath set the world in their heart, so that no man can find out the work that God maketh from the beginning to the end. 12 I know that there is no good in them, but for a man to rejoice, and to do good in his life. 13 And also that every man should eat and drink, and enjoy the good of all his labour, it is the gift of God. 14 I know that, whatsoever God doeth, it shall be for ever: nothing can be put to it, nor any thing taken from it: and God doeth it, that men should fear before him. 15 That which hath been is now; and that which is to be hath already been; and God requireth that which is past. 16 And moreover I saw under the sun the place of judgment, that wickedness was there; and the place of righteousness, that iniquity was there. 17 I said in mine heart, God shall judge the righteous and the wicked: for there is a time there for every purpose and for every work. 18 I said in mine heart concerning the estate of the sons of men, that God might manifest them, and that they might see that they themselves are beasts. 19 For that which befalleth the sons of men befalleth beasts; even one thing befalleth them: as the one dieth, so dieth the other; yea, they have all one breath; so that a man hath no preeminence above a beast: for all is vanity. 20 All go unto one place; all are of the dust, and all turn to dust again. 21 Who knoweth the spirit of man that goeth upward, and the spirit of the beast that goeth downward to the earth? 22 Wherefore I perceive that there is nothing better, than that a man should rejoice in his own works; for that is his portion: for who shall bring him to see what shall be after him? Ecclesiastes 7 King James Version 7 A good name is better than precious ointment; and the day of death than the day of one's birth. 2 It is better to go to the house of mourning, than to go to the house of feasting: for that is the end of all men; and the living will lay it to his heart. 3 Sorrow is better than laughter: for by the sadness of the countenance the heart is made better. 4 The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning; but the heart of fools is in the house of mirth. 5 It is better to hear the rebuke of the wise, than for a man to hear the song of fools. 6 For as the crackling of thorns under a pot, so is the laughter of the fool: this also is vanity. 7 Surely oppression maketh a wise man mad; and a gift destroyeth the heart. 8 Better is the end of a thing than the beginning thereof: and the patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit. 9 Be not hasty in thy spirit to be angry: for anger resteth in the bosom of fools. 10 Say not thou, What is the cause that the former days were better than these? for thou dost not enquire wisely concerning this. 11 Wisdom is good with an inheritance: and by it there is profit to them that see the sun. 12 For wisdom is a defence, and money is a defence: but the excellency of knowledge is, that wisdom giveth life to them that have it. 13 Consider the work of God: for who can make that straight, which he hath made crooked? 14 In the day of prosperity be joyful, but in the day of adversity consider: God also hath set the one over against the other, to the end that man should find nothing after him. 15 All things have I seen in the days of my vanity: there is a just man that perisheth in his righteousness, and there is a wicked man that prolongeth his life in his wickedness. 16 Be not righteous over much; neither make thyself over wise: why shouldest thou destroy thyself ? 17 Be not over much wicked, neither be thou foolish: why shouldest thou die before thy time? 18 It is good that thou shouldest take hold of this; yea, also from this withdraw not thine hand: for he that feareth God shall come forth of them all. 19 Wisdom strengtheneth the wise more than ten mighty men which are in the city. 20 For there is not a just man upon earth, that doeth good, and sinneth not. 21 Also take no heed unto all words that are spoken; lest thou hear thy servant curse thee: 22 For oftentimes also thine own heart knoweth that thou thyself likewise hast cursed others. 23 All this have I proved by wisdom: I said, I will be wise; but it was far from me. 24 That which is far off, and exceeding deep, who can find it out? 25 I applied mine heart to know, and to search, and to seek out wisdom, and the reason of things, and to know the wickedness of folly, even of foolishness and madness: 26 And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her. 27 Behold, this have I found, saith the preacher, counting one by one, to find out the account: 28 Which yet my soul seeketh, but I find not: one man among a thousand have I found; but a woman among all those have I not found. 29 Lo, this only have I found, that God hath made man upright; but they have sought out many inventions.
My son work It for 20years but he made change and an elementary school teacher and fixing to move closer to school where he teaches try something different could help you like my son
It feels like shit - especially if you have suppressed trauma & emotions, as men brought up to ‘be strong’ not show emotions etc show those aspects get suppressed & turn into shadow. Thanks parents for imparting these aspects onto me instead of teaching me truth 🙏 hahaha ohhh well! This world is fixated on material & knows sweet fuck all about true emotion, spirituality etc…
It’s hard carrying that kind of weight, especially when society expects you to suppress it. I used to be an angry kid. Parents didn't show me how to deal with my emotions. Recognizing those shadows is a big step, though and it’s how healing starts. You’re breaking the cycle, and that’s powerful. Keep exploring your truth.
@ True - I was taught as a male growing up by parents to not have or show any emotions & I was naturally inclined to be sensitive from the get go! Stay strong 💪
Another great message and I completely agree. Still, I'd rather be emotionless and just keep going because you're never going to change society in this aspect no matter what, even in Norway where I live. Even though I'm far from traditional and just prefer to go my own way in life, both men and women are pre-designed their role in society from birth. So everybody just automatically assumes what they're "supposed to do" which is basically survival and reproduction, not much else. You might have some moments of pure joy and happiness but in the long-term, it will always be the hustle and grind that comes first. There's no point in dwelling about this or feel sad about it, it's just the way it is, always have been and always will be. But here's the good part, you still get to choose how you want to live your life. You don't have to become a successfull superstar and hustle and grind your ass off just to buy a big plasma TV. I actually still use a TV I bought from 2008 and it still works just fine and has good HD quality. So I don't HAVE to buy a new TV because I don't even pay and watch TV, only movies and series which I stream from the Internet. This saves me a lot of money. So again, there are no set rules for how you want to live your life but you have to find your own sacrifice, the price you're willing to pay to get where you want to be in life. That's just the way it is.
A grim assessment, but it describes life here in the US. What you're describing is cruel, and it is not sustainable. Humanity must evolve to a better paradigm, or it will not survive. If people are here by the end of the century, they will not be thinking and living as people thinking and living now.
Society’s grind might not change, but stepping back, questioning what truly matters, and living on your terms is a powerful choice. It’s freeing to let go of the unnecessary and focus on what genuinely brings you meaning.
The pain normally comes from human factor. However, one might not realise in order to overcome this pain, it needs own initiative with the assistance of people surrounding that providing proper steps. This is where how healthy or fitness of our mind or thought to stay open minded and to explore more options, or to get what others perspective instead of being in a box to solve problems my own. A step outside from the inner world, and get opinion from the outside world. Well, speak up does work, but rushing does not work. Just like getting fit in physical just need time to heal. Remember, it needs time to heal, and to get around with positive people. Cheers.
You’re absolutely right healing takes time, and opening up to others can make all the difference. Sometimes stepping out of your own thoughts brings clarity and strength. Surrounding yourself with positivity really helps.
I have been watching some videos since the unfortunate fires in LA. You are a deep and powerful speaker of inner strength and recognizing one's pain. Thank you for sharing your journey ❤ ... be safe out there my friend.
anyone who does not respect your sharing of your feelings or sufferings is a genuine narcissist. Dont ever, think anything of those people, youre above them.
living in this world will always be a struggle. but it will be nothing bcs i know this world is just a transit. after we died we gonna go to eternal hereafter which the true life are. you could think im delusional but for me the beautiful quran is just impossible to be created by prophet muhammad. it is indeed from god...there is tons of video on youtube. you can start by typing "what is the meaning of life"...
Are you struggling silently in pain but afraid to tell someone?
Man I appreciate u Fam Much Love, Respect & Support.💯 Im a new subscriber✊🏾💪🏾
Yes everyday
@@zenzen2347 Keep your head up Fam...u not alone...neither am 👁️. 👁️ wish you peace Fam. Connecting this way we can make eachother stronger. STAY GREAT.✊🏾💪🏾💯
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NO DOUBT ABOUT IT!!!!
I totally agree. Past experiences can definitely contribute to shaping who you are today. It doesn’t matter if people think you’re ungrateful or anything else-they just don’t understand what you’ve been through. After all, we all come from different backgrounds. The only person in the world who understands you the most is yourself. So, take care of yourself mentally and physically, it's not that we are weak; we just have different ways of expressing ourselves.
You’re so right. Our past shapes us, and people don’t always see the full picture. Taking care of yourself, both mentally and physically, is so important. Everyone has their own way of handling things, and that’s okay.
Hello my friend, I have experienced as an adult female many of the same difficulties. I worked in a corporate legal department and experienced demeaning words from colleagues and there was no collaboration or a sense of helping one another. Everyone was out for their own and willing to climb on you to get their bonuses. The fired me cause they claimed I made too many mistakes. I was blessed and relieved from the torture and disrespect and working with shallow people. Thank you for sharing your story. I too was exhausted and wiped put when I came home at 6:00 pm and at night I would ruminate what I did wrong. It wasn't me it was the cruel and toxic environment. Best GoldenSword. Be Blessed today and I heal from going out in nature, by the water. Hugs
The entire competitive paradigm must be replaced. We are here in this world to take care of one another (and other life forms) and not to compete with one another. Henry Miller, the writer, said that everyday we get up and engage in mutual slaughter. He was correct. And all of our frantic activity and competitiveness is destroying the earth. We must evolve to a sane, compassionate awareness and practices, or we will not survive.
It's not just your company: US culture and society is individualistic rather than collective, low-trust, and competitive. This, unfortunately, manifests in every aspect of life. There are even problems within the same family because some relatives are hyper-individualistic
Lol you are fired there mut be due process before they fired you
@@IzzyChopChop Well said.
Well said
I just shared a video that precisely touches this point! We all, and, the stats show it, men in particular keep on suffering in silence. We must share it with each other, not hiding it. That only brings more fear, more suffering, more symptoms.
Thanks for sharing 🙏🙏
For those wondering: ruclips.net/video/Xbl8EwCP1Mc/видео.htmlsi=ucNBkNGWH15x99Q2
Henry David Thoreau wrote: "Most men lead lives of quiet desperation."
As a man taking care of my family and feeling alone, I resonate with what you're saying. What helped for me was finding a cafe in my neighborhood and talking with strangers there. I go, get coffee, and find the seniors/old people who like to chat. And I just chat. Like with your RUclips channel, it gave me an outlet to talk to people who weren't friends or coworkers or family. I only see them in the cafe and I can be more open with them without worrying about impacting my family or work.
That’s such a great way to find connection. Sometimes talking to people outside your usual circle can feel like a breath of fresh air. It’s amazing how simple conversations, even with strangers, can ease that loneliness. Sounds like a beautiful way to recharge.
this is really refreshing to feel like im not alone in my suffering
It is refreshing to know we are not the only ones out there for sure ❤️
Love listening to you man, it was so nice to see you very happy when the tour boat came back. Alot of people love and support you 🥰
Thanks for the kind words! That tour boat moment was something special, it’s wild how little things can bring big joy. Glad to have amazing people like you around for the journey! 🛶💛
Not no-one, brother. Some of us speak up loudly and clearly but are shadow banned due to the uncomfortable taboo themes we talk about. Give thanks for your energy today and more fire to you on your path of freedom 🧚🔱🦁 🙏💚
7:05 YES!! You are SO smart!! Sharing experience, not giving a lecture 19:08 I’m blown away by how much I relate to all of your ideas! I love your perspective fuuuuck thank yooooou!!!!
A lot of us are feeling the same pain. It's good to share my story with you. We are not that different after all 🙏
You have been one of my favourite youtuber this last month. you have so much wisdom to share. So thank you.
Even if you are not working as much as you did before. I understand the feeling of uncertainty, but i can´t help to feel, that you seem so calm. I believe that you are more in line with yourself now despite the circumstances. Thats what i hope for at least.
Thanks for sharing everything. It has helped me to be more clear about myself and to trust my instincts.
I am glad to share my experience with you. You are right, I am a lot more calm and at peace now than ever. It takes time, but that is the result of the day to day self reflection. I still have a lot to do, but progress is what matters. That feeling of uncertainty will never go away. But the best thing we can do now is enjoy the simple moment and let the future sorts it out. Thanks and much ❤️
So thankful for you speaking up! I believe this can help many people. Dealing with my own shadows. You are an amazing person! Thank you for your honesty! ♥♥
Indeed, it can help!
I am glad you are working on accepting your shadow. Not easy. But I been taking it 1 day at a time and I am slowly seeing progress. I am glad to share my story with you. Keep at it ❤️
Nuff respect bro. Real life issues as always. This is what people really need. Healing and nothing else. Keep it up.
Yes thank you. I try to keep my conversations as real to my personal experience as possible.
Thank you for sharing. I found happiness in solitude. I have always enjoyed being alone. I feel and have felt that people don't get me. I have been mocked because of being deep and having views that go against the grain. I feel like I don't fit in anywhere but I'm okay with that. I learned many valuable lessons due to my traumas and the obstacles I faced throughout my life. I realized that at the end of the day, it's myself that I have to face. seeking people's approval was pointless, I didn't need others for validation or to feel good about myself. I learned that people will always find ways to judge and demean others no matter what. It took years for me to get to this point, I am grateful that I am finally at peace inside and I'm okay. I came across one of your videos just today. I admire the fact that you were real and open. It takes courage to do so. I
Solitude is the best medicine to reconnect with yourself. People think it's boring to stop moving but that's when true living begins. People all have their own lenses of the world so they all see differently. What's important is how we see ourselves and these peaceful moments will allow us to do just that. Keep going on this journey. I think you are already ahead of the masses.
I grew the most with the worst jobs. It guided me into my calling...it's Never a waste but a learning process...there is No failure, only in our minds.
There is no failure. Just learning experience even when they could be hard at times. But that's how we grow.
you are not weak. you are strong. especially when you speak up.
Thanks bro. Took me a long time to be able to get to this point. It's easier to be speak up than holding it all in.
Society can be overwhelming,i totally get it and it gets tiredsome.We all need a recharge every once in a while.
Absolutely, it can be a lot to handle. Taking time to recharge is so important. Even small breaks can make a big difference in how we face it all.
People can be hurtful no matter where you are at in this life. One way or another, they want to tear you down. Very few qualify.
At work we’re forced to be around those we wouldn’t have chosen. Ugh!
I’m grateful for this understanding. Always enjoy your nature, the nature in your videos.
I loved the bro one! Especially it’s made me to feel better and stronger and more motivated.
I am used to dealing with hurtful people all my life so nothing is new. What I care about are those like yourself who really care for others and have a good heart and attitude. Glad the video could give you a boost! Stay motivated bro life will only get better. If I can make it through everyone else could. Much love man.
Another great conversation. Again, everything resonates. I just shared your channel on my Instagram…I hope this reaches out to my friends and family who are all suffering silently. I went on a healing journey last year. I did the shadow work and the innerwork. There is a rise of collective consciousness and there’s a wave of those that are called to heal ourselves so that we can heal others. We seem to be on the same wave my brother. Keep on going! You are speaking to me and for me, We are all one ❤✨😉🙌🏼💪🏼
Thanks for sharing, Gigi. It really means a lot to me. We often ball up alone dealing with our own struggles. But once we become conscious, we see that we are not alone out there. It helps knowing what others are going through and learning from their experience. It has been very instrumental in my healing to hear you sharing your own stories. Thank you❤️
Hey Brotha just wanna say youve been the most helpful human being out of countless videos and people ive spoke to. This stuff is money, you are very rich sure and I hope you carry it on to keep doing what you're saying . Much love 🙏🙌
I would say im in a similar boat where i feel like seeing you is a boat in the distance and looks like mine 👌
I am glad my experience helped you. I struggles for a while before I could get to this point of getting out of my own head. It might not look like it but that pain is real to all who is feeling it. Just hang in there bro and start peeling off the layers 1 at a time ❤️
Fight your way out from whatever it is that is bothering you. That is what I had been doing. I agree that we need to be nice to people in order to get the nice back to us. May be many people are not experience enough. Maybe they are struggling too but did not know what to do.
Hey hey what's going on? You’re so right. Fighting through challenges is the only way forward sometimes. And showing kindness, even when it’s hard, can create a ripple effect. Everyone’s dealing with something, even if they don’t show it.
If the people hurts you the most is your once beloved families what I should do ? Still fight back ? If I win , what I get is a broken family relationship … this is meaningless for me …
Videos like this helps a lot brother. Keep up the good work and the honesty
I am happy to share my stories with you. Thanks for dropping in. Cheers!
I'm sending you as much love as I can here from Brazil, my friend. Thank you so much for sharing!
Sending love back my friend from Brazil. I am glad we met. Thanks for letting me share my experience with you ❤️
Hows the weather? :)
After long two years I finally managed to send a message to my friends, telling them how I feel and now I'm afraid that this information is going to be used against me at some time, hopefully this doesn't happen, because I feel better after telling them how I'm actually doing. Thank you mate.
It's great to at least get it off your chest right? Being honest could be a scary thing. Imagine me making these videos :) But I did it because I got tired of living with the pain silently. I think you did good and you will be OK.
@@HealthCores It felt great for the first few days and now I'm back at the same cycle. But we will be ok, I'm sure!
@@lukasschultz8963that’s how I stopped talking to my husband about my pain he would use it to hurt me more
everyone should be sharing their struggles online so the community can understand best how to evolve and help others moving forward its a highly responsibly thing to do and can be healing if trolls do not bully the person for being heartfelt
There are many good people in this community, and only a few that do not align with our message. It’s ok we don’t need to try making everyone happy.
I speak up, been shunned and financially roughed up over it but still do it.
@relicreapers571 It's not easy but I am glad you have the guts to speak up for yourself. Respect!
Just remember we all are here to survive. Some people are just good in putting a brave face. Keep your heads up and talk to us. I've been alone for about 10 yrs now now GF after my last gf broke my heart, and my hopes to be in a relationship. So... you're not alone. You're lucky to have a wife and a kid
Thanks for sharing, man. I am very lucky I got my family with me. They are the reason I decided to slow down. It’s true everyone’s just trying to make it, even if they look strong on the outside. You’ve been through a lot, but it’s good to know you’re still here, reaching out and connecting. Stay strong!
Trauma from one Trauma after another over the last few decades has made my internal struggle, depression, anxiety, etc difficult for me to keep myself going.
Yeh I dealt with that all my life since I was a kid. We can't let it stop us from living. Just take it 1 day at a time and find new reasons to get up in the morning.
You deserve happiness.. we all do! Thanks for sharing your progress, everyone is unique.. that's how the world is beautiful, humans are just not helping each other to shine and live life to the fullest by judging and being judged.. however we should not try to fit in a place we're not comfortable at...
You’re right, everyone deserves happiness, and it’s better to focus on being true to ourselves than trying to fit where we don’t belong. Been there and it almost killed me. I need to figure out a better place I enjoy working at.
I love you bro. We are face challenges and suffering almost every single one way or another. I have watched some of your videos telling your true stories are similar to my situation for years and I still can't figure out what is tre real purpose of life when so many people go through their hard lives day in and day out.
I hear you, bro. Life’s got its ups and downs, and it’s tough trying to figure it all out. Maybe it’s about growing through the hard stuff and finding meaning in the little good moments we get. We are all just trying to figure it out and no one really got it together. Trust me man. Just keep going until something clicks.
Bless you my brother! Your channel is a blessing. I go through a lot of fkn shit everyday, sometimes I feel like giving up. The worst thing one can do is be your own enemy.
We all have to go through suffering in this life, even when I tried to neck myself The Lord Jesus Christ saved me! I love your surroundings, I love your gentle soul, I agree also, to wake up each day is a blessing my bro, in spite of the immense pain we feel, the heavy emotions, THE LORD GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME! To wake up everyday to have a personal relationship with Jesus surpasses everything and anything in this world my bro. This life is vanity compared to the eternal that is at stake. The Word Of God endures forever, this world will perish but his word remains eternal.
Thank you for sharing that, brother. Life can be so heavy, but your faith and strength shine through. It's suck when you in pain and nobody seems to get it.
I know because that was me. These days, waking up every day with purpose really is a blessing. Stay strong, and keep holding on to that hope.
id rather be homeless and happy than being a trillionare burnout and unhappy
Yep definitely understand thst sentiment. When you dying of unhappiness nothing else matters.
We have been fed since our childhood that if we do not compete, we shall be left behind & that people will overtake us.
We were never taught that even if we have less of materialstic stuff, we can still live happy life - if we have peace within us 🎉
RIP when you're still alive not when you leave.
❤ from India
Man Asian culture can be very competitive. The lack of resources make us all like that growing up. I get it. The constant push to compete often leaves no room for inner peace. But true happiness isn’t about material things, it’s about finding calm within. Something I am still learning.
The strength you show in speaking of your pains and struggles is the greatest strength of all. Know you are not alone. We are all one. To hide those hard personal truths from each other is to lie to ourselves. As I listen to and respond to your words I listen to and speak to myself and so I heal. We are all one, regardless of subcategory - race, gender, pay scale, religion, etc. The folks who make efforts to make us feel lesser are afraid to improve themselves. See through the smoke and mirrors. We are all one, your pain is mine, as is their pain. To survive we must unite. The monopoly is a disease. This is a critical time to heal, for all of us. ...I should have waited to respond; you already knew my message. But I'll add to the appreciation you share for nature. Again, we're all one, the blood cells of a living planet. And when we bond with nature we heal. When we're isolated in the "9-5" illusion of reality we all collapse. Those who live to serve the monopoly, the capitalist society, the oligarchs, ...are zombies. I'm glad to hear you stepping out of that trance. Stay strong and free.
I don't feel alone and living in my own head anymore. It’s great to finally be able to speak out 🙏
On point. Feel like an echo of myself when i move in large crowds
Yep I tried to blend in the crowd most of the time but it gets harder as we age. It's like noise to me now. I rather be out here ❤️
We Are Not Alone!
… out from fear in life … to love of live … God is love … is Salvation of soul … .
Your video has inspired me sir. Keep it up!
Thanks I am glad this resonates with you.
nature is the answer .. become a farmer live like nature 🍊🥭😻
I would have never thought about starting my own garden. Recently, that is starting to sound very peaceful and doing my research:)
Honestly, therapists weren't it for me. Not knocking it, but every time I needed help and reached out to a therapist it made it worse - way worse. Don't listen to the haters in the comments, someone who is actually feeling their own pain wont ever dismiss someone elses'. You just said it as im typing, those like that need more love and compassion than any of us.
@IlluminateYourPower Yeh to each their own. The right therapist could help but I found it was better for me to go fishing and share my story with you. Just keep doing whatever is working for you ❤️
You are a great speaker. Pay no attention to the silly comments.
Yes, I am not focusing on those who do not align with us and only people who understand and resonate with our journey. Thank you
SOOOOOO UPLIFTING ☕
life is short and u need to enjoy it
yes absolutely ❤️
You're one of the best commentators on the internet. Thank you for sharing. Wish that I could spend a day with you. That would be an honor.
Thanks for the encouragement it means a lot to me. I am happy to share my journey and the scenery wherever I go with you. Yes it would be my honor that we could share a pot of hot coffee one day and share our stories ❤️
@@HealthCores Perhaps we can make that happen one day, if I go your way or you visit New Mexico,, where I live. Blessings.
Stop grindin, start livin!
Absolutely, about time we live a little and not constantly being on the run.
glad to listening your experience
Thanks for visiting and listening to me. Please take care of yourself ❤️
so it seems they help us both
your videos are good for me
Thank you for replied comments … .
Champion ❤
I was in your situation, but not to that extent of suffering. I changed about a year and a half ago and try to learn from different people and read different Western books about happiness. I am at a point that is in a better place. I ended up learning that Buddhism and meditation is the most effective way. I am Cambodian, so Buddhism in the Cambodian language has much much more resources than English. Thank you for sharing your experience and speaking up. I don't think hustle culture is the way. The Buddha teach to make the right efforts and not to rush or greedy. You make efforts and do good things in action, speech, and though, and just let your karma play out.
I have been learning a lot and studying about the human mind on my journey. Western knowledge leans more on science. Eastern knowledge is based on spiritually. Both are great in their own ways and I have been incorporating both. Meditation is still a challenge for me as I have a hars time sitting still. But I am learning to slow down. Thanks for sharing your knowledge with me.
..there is also the spiritual aspect, a meaning..
Thank you 🙏
Speaking up is when you ask yourself , why should I keep this ? Sharing it is when your shit hits the fan and wherever the shit lands , others clean up. There are employees who clean it all up for a living. But we all keep shitting through the same intestinal pipes. We learn the logistics of composition when we take our daily crap. Everybody is a toxic releaser at the end of everyone's day. Change your view, changes your actions. But words are like crap, happy coming out but they become your useless toxic mechanism that everyone uses in getting in circles and cycles.
Ecclesiastes 3
King James Version
3 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
2 A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
3 A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
4 A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
5 A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
6 A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
7 A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
8 A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.
9 What profit hath he that worketh in that wherein he laboureth?
10 I have seen the travail, which God hath given to the sons of men to be exercised in it.
11 He hath made every thing beautiful in his time: also he hath set the world in their heart, so that no man can find out the work that God maketh from the beginning to the end.
12 I know that there is no good in them, but for a man to rejoice, and to do good in his life.
13 And also that every man should eat and drink, and enjoy the good of all his labour, it is the gift of God.
14 I know that, whatsoever God doeth, it shall be for ever: nothing can be put to it, nor any thing taken from it: and God doeth it, that men should fear before him.
15 That which hath been is now; and that which is to be hath already been; and God requireth that which is past.
16 And moreover I saw under the sun the place of judgment, that wickedness was there; and the place of righteousness, that iniquity was there.
17 I said in mine heart, God shall judge the righteous and the wicked: for there is a time there for every purpose and for every work.
18 I said in mine heart concerning the estate of the sons of men, that God might manifest them, and that they might see that they themselves are beasts.
19 For that which befalleth the sons of men befalleth beasts; even one thing befalleth them: as the one dieth, so dieth the other; yea, they have all one breath; so that a man hath no preeminence above a beast: for all is vanity.
20 All go unto one place; all are of the dust, and all turn to dust again.
21 Who knoweth the spirit of man that goeth upward, and the spirit of the beast that goeth downward to the earth?
22 Wherefore I perceive that there is nothing better, than that a man should rejoice in his own works; for that is his portion: for who shall bring him to see what shall be after him?
Ecclesiastes 7
King James Version
7 A good name is better than precious ointment; and the day of death than the day of one's birth.
2 It is better to go to the house of mourning, than to go to the house of feasting: for that is the end of all men; and the living will lay it to his heart.
3 Sorrow is better than laughter: for by the sadness of the countenance the heart is made better.
4 The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning; but the heart of fools is in the house of mirth.
5 It is better to hear the rebuke of the wise, than for a man to hear the song of fools.
6 For as the crackling of thorns under a pot, so is the laughter of the fool: this also is vanity.
7 Surely oppression maketh a wise man mad; and a gift destroyeth the heart.
8 Better is the end of a thing than the beginning thereof: and the patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit.
9 Be not hasty in thy spirit to be angry: for anger resteth in the bosom of fools.
10 Say not thou, What is the cause that the former days were better than these? for thou dost not enquire wisely concerning this.
11 Wisdom is good with an inheritance: and by it there is profit to them that see the sun.
12 For wisdom is a defence, and money is a defence: but the excellency of knowledge is, that wisdom giveth life to them that have it.
13 Consider the work of God: for who can make that straight, which he hath made crooked?
14 In the day of prosperity be joyful, but in the day of adversity consider: God also hath set the one over against the other, to the end that man should find nothing after him.
15 All things have I seen in the days of my vanity: there is a just man that perisheth in his righteousness, and there is a wicked man that prolongeth his life in his wickedness.
16 Be not righteous over much; neither make thyself over wise: why shouldest thou destroy thyself ?
17 Be not over much wicked, neither be thou foolish: why shouldest thou die before thy time?
18 It is good that thou shouldest take hold of this; yea, also from this withdraw not thine hand: for he that feareth God shall come forth of them all.
19 Wisdom strengtheneth the wise more than ten mighty men which are in the city.
20 For there is not a just man upon earth, that doeth good, and sinneth not.
21 Also take no heed unto all words that are spoken; lest thou hear thy servant curse thee:
22 For oftentimes also thine own heart knoweth that thou thyself likewise hast cursed others.
23 All this have I proved by wisdom: I said, I will be wise; but it was far from me.
24 That which is far off, and exceeding deep, who can find it out?
25 I applied mine heart to know, and to search, and to seek out wisdom, and the reason of things, and to know the wickedness of folly, even of foolishness and madness:
26 And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her.
27 Behold, this have I found, saith the preacher, counting one by one, to find out the account:
28 Which yet my soul seeketh, but I find not: one man among a thousand have I found; but a woman among all those have I not found.
29 Lo, this only have I found, that God hath made man upright; but they have sought out many inventions.
My son work It for 20years but he made change and an elementary school teacher and fixing to move closer to school where he teaches try something different could help you like my son
It feels like shit - especially if you have suppressed trauma & emotions, as men brought up to ‘be strong’ not show emotions etc show those aspects get suppressed & turn into shadow. Thanks parents for imparting these aspects onto me instead of teaching me truth 🙏 hahaha ohhh well! This world is fixated on material & knows sweet fuck all about true emotion, spirituality etc…
It’s hard carrying that kind of weight, especially when society expects you to suppress it. I used to be an angry kid. Parents didn't show me how to deal with my emotions. Recognizing those shadows is a big step, though and it’s how healing starts. You’re breaking the cycle, and that’s powerful. Keep exploring your truth.
@ True - I was taught as a male growing up by parents to not have or show any emotions & I was naturally inclined to be sensitive from the get go! Stay strong 💪
Another great message and I completely agree. Still, I'd rather be emotionless and just keep going because you're never going to change society in this aspect no matter what, even in Norway where I live. Even though I'm far from traditional and just prefer to go my own way in life, both men and women are pre-designed their role in society from birth. So everybody just automatically assumes what they're "supposed to do" which is basically survival and reproduction, not much else. You might have some moments of pure joy and happiness but in the long-term, it will always be the hustle and grind that comes first.
There's no point in dwelling about this or feel sad about it, it's just the way it is, always have been and always will be. But here's the good part, you still get to choose how you want to live your life. You don't have to become a successfull superstar and hustle and grind your ass off just to buy a big plasma TV. I actually still use a TV I bought from 2008 and it still works just fine and has good HD quality.
So I don't HAVE to buy a new TV because I don't even pay and watch TV, only movies and series which I stream from the Internet. This saves me a lot of money. So again, there are no set rules for how you want to live your life but you have to find your own sacrifice, the price you're willing to pay to get where you want to be in life. That's just the way it is.
A grim assessment, but it describes life here in the US. What you're describing is cruel, and it is not sustainable. Humanity must evolve to a better paradigm, or it will not survive. If people are here by the end of the century, they will not be thinking and living as people thinking and living now.
Society’s grind might not change, but stepping back, questioning what truly matters, and living on your terms is a powerful choice. It’s freeing to let go of the unnecessary and focus on what genuinely brings you meaning.
I totally agree with you
The pain normally comes from human factor. However, one might not realise in order to overcome this pain, it needs own initiative with the assistance of people surrounding that providing proper steps.
This is where how healthy or fitness of our mind or thought to stay open minded and to explore more options, or to get what others perspective instead of being in a box to solve problems my own.
A step outside from the inner world, and get opinion from the outside world. Well, speak up does work, but rushing does not work. Just like getting fit in physical just need time to heal.
Remember, it needs time to heal, and to get around with positive people.
Cheers.
You’re absolutely right healing takes time, and opening up to others can make all the difference. Sometimes stepping out of your own thoughts brings clarity and strength. Surrounding yourself with positivity really helps.
I have been watching some videos since the unfortunate fires in LA. You are a deep and powerful speaker of inner strength and recognizing one's pain. Thank you for sharing your journey ❤ ... be safe out there my friend.
It's pretty scary out there. Still dangerous situation due to the wind but we are safe ❤️
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..maybe the info about Polyvagal Theory, Trauma theraphy might be interesting..
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Based
development trauma might be very common..
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anyone who does not respect your sharing of your feelings or sufferings is a genuine narcissist. Dont ever, think anything of those people, youre above them.
Thanks for that. Yep I grow up learning not to pay attention to them 🤎
living in this world will always be a struggle. but it will be nothing bcs i know this world is just a transit. after we died we gonna go to eternal hereafter which the true life are. you could think im delusional but for me the beautiful quran is just impossible to be created by prophet muhammad. it is indeed from god...there is tons of video on youtube. you can start by typing "what is the meaning of life"...
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Stop waving that pastry in front of the camera. You are making want one...😁
I wish I could share with you that poundcake 😋
trauma therapy might be much more effective then average therapy
Common knowledge
Have you heard of David tian PhD ?
I have not.
Howdy
44:38 "remember, we have each other "❤🩹❤❤🙏
@SFALCON-nd4fl Yes we do and sending ❤️❤️❤️