Delayed Gratification: Your Superpower to Success | EMILIO JUSTO | TEDxCherryCreekHS

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  • Опубликовано: 26 сен 2024
  • Emilio Justo, MD, unveils the accelerated success code by redefining delayed gratification. Enlightening his audience by sharing the discovery of the untold power of delayed gratification from his perspective as a Cuban refugee’s transformative journey reveals how patience, perseverance, and self-discipline pave the path to extraordinary achievement and unleashed success.
    Since 1989, Dr. Emilio Justo has specialized in general ophthalmology and cosmetic surgery. He is renowned for his state-of-the-art refractive cataract surgery and blepharoplasty, having performed over 40,000 such procedures.
    Dr. Justo was 1 of 10 out-of-state applicants accepted into the University of Michigan’s prestigious six-year pre-medical/medical program, earning M.D. and B.S. degrees by 23. He began ophthalmology practice in the Phoenix metropolitan area at age 27.
    Dr. Justo is a business leader, real estate entrepreneur, public speaker, and avid aficionado of University of Michigan football. He has been married for 20 years with three teenage children. Dr. Justo and his family love traveling the world.
    Dr. Justo emigrated to the United States at 3 with his parents, escaping Communist Cuba and searching for freedom and opportunities. Dr. Justo was Valedictorian of his high school and was awarded the Indiana State Good Citizen Award by the Daughters of the American Revolution. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @jessyclaston
    @jessyclaston 10 месяцев назад +69

    Growing up I was taught to question whether something was a want or a need, and if it wasn't a need I was encouraged to wait a day and see if it was still a want. A little thing but it's stuck with me and I think it works really well!

    • @azjusto
      @azjusto 5 месяцев назад +1

      I had the same upbringing, and I agree fully with you!

    • @DrEmilioJusto
      @DrEmilioJusto 3 месяца назад

      @@Tracker5111 Go for it, Jessy!

  • @miroslavhancinsky6111
    @miroslavhancinsky6111 9 месяцев назад +45

    My take home message [6:22 minute mark] "by delaying instant gratification we become masters of our desires rather than slaves to our impulses".

    • @azjusto
      @azjusto 5 месяцев назад +3

      I believe this to be true deep in my soul!

  • @Cristian-yg4bg
    @Cristian-yg4bg 8 месяцев назад +6

    I’m ready to take on the world after this.

    • @DrEmilioJusto
      @DrEmilioJusto 3 месяца назад +1

      Go for it! You deserve it!

  • @peterdgrubb
    @peterdgrubb 10 месяцев назад +13

    One of my fondest memories was finding my daughter sitting next to the newly planted strawberry bushes. When asked what she was doing she replied "Waiting for the strawberries". Lesson number one in delayed gratification.

    • @DrEmilioJusto
      @DrEmilioJusto 3 месяца назад +2

      Very cute.......kids are wonderful!

    • @raeflores-nr1ge
      @raeflores-nr1ge 2 месяца назад +2

      Haha I love this! One of the memories my parents brings up a lot was when they walked out in the backyard to see me lying on my belly on the lawn. They asked me what I was doing and I said "Watching the grass grow!" I always go back to that to remember to slow down and be

    • @peterdgrubb
      @peterdgrubb 2 месяца назад +1

      @@raeflores-nr1ge haha that is very sweet.. and I imagine as I child you probably thought you could see it growing too!

  • @nitinn7982
    @nitinn7982 2 месяца назад +2

    Thank you Dr Emilio Justo! Your words on delayed gratification were inspiring!

  • @LamarcusSimon
    @LamarcusSimon 6 месяцев назад +4

    Reflection on what truly matters is key

  • @jessiedallen
    @jessiedallen 10 месяцев назад +15

    I agree with the benefits of delayed gratification, but sometimes you need that immediate reward to pull you out of a dark place

  • @-joanna-wang
    @-joanna-wang 10 месяцев назад +3

    Delaying gratification and feeling good about doing it is an attribute worth cultivating.

  • @myadanco
    @myadanco 10 месяцев назад +3

    One area I need to master is my food choices. After listening to you I know I can take steps to master my desires in this area, thanks for sharing.

  • @DorothyeBerry
    @DorothyeBerry 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for giving me this gift to watch Emilio

  • @JhoniRoblero
    @JhoniRoblero 8 месяцев назад +3

    This talk is a masterpiece of wisdom.

    • @DrEmilioJusto
      @DrEmilioJusto 3 месяца назад

      Thank you for the kind words!

  • @krisjameslin
    @krisjameslin 3 месяца назад +2

    Choosing to pursue medicine in my mid-20s was an extremely tough choice I had to make, especially since I was about to leave behind a career in engineering and financial comfort for a path that required hard work, discipline, and frugal choices. Now that I am finishing up medical school, I'm starting to feel the gratification and validation that I had made the right choice. It's very evident to me now the difference of being your own master of desire, rather than giving into convenient impulses when going through rough patches in life

    • @DrEmilioJusto
      @DrEmilioJusto 3 месяца назад

      Congratulations on your journey Kris, and for making the "right" decisions in your life!

  • @khloetaylor1674
    @khloetaylor1674 10 месяцев назад +3

    I think the 3 steps are straightforward and actionable! Makes sense that defining your goals, making a plan and actively working towards them makes them achievable.

  • @rahataleem6544
    @rahataleem6544 10 месяцев назад +3

    I am all for this talk! It's not hard to know about this way of doing things when the world we live in is obsessed with now, now NOW

  • @JamesGeiger-jo8cw
    @JamesGeiger-jo8cw 6 месяцев назад +4

    A goal without a plan is only a dream!

  • @JahtoyaBryant
    @JahtoyaBryant 4 месяца назад +1

    Delayed gratification - I absolutely love this, thanks for the reminder

  • @sandypogson
    @sandypogson 10 месяцев назад +3

    A invaluable lesson to share with younger generations who often seek quick results in today's fast-paced world.

  • @RaleciaSpencer
    @RaleciaSpencer 4 месяца назад +1

    Delayed gratification - love this so much, well done Emilio Justo

    • @DrEmilioJusto
      @DrEmilioJusto 3 месяца назад

      Thank you very much, Ralecia!

  • @DonnaeCook
    @DonnaeCook 5 месяцев назад +1

    So glad this talk was on my suggested talks to watch !

  • @kilerfer1295
    @kilerfer1295 8 месяцев назад +2

    You’ve given me a new sense of purpose.

  • @elviragabriele
    @elviragabriele 10 месяцев назад +2

    Wow, that chance encounter during your travels is incredible! It's amazing how delayed gratification can shape our lives and even lead to such serendipitous moments.

  • @eduardocontreras5530
    @eduardocontreras5530 8 месяцев назад +2

    Your authenticity is truly admirable.

  • @LuisGarcia-y7s
    @LuisGarcia-y7s 8 месяцев назад +2

    Your words have touched my soul.

  • @MarilyneKing54
    @MarilyneKing54 5 месяцев назад +1

    I hope many more people hear this inspiring message from a great man

  • @DonaldShaw-b2q
    @DonaldShaw-b2q 11 месяцев назад +7

    Dr. Justo is absolutely terrific. I am privileged to be a patient of his. He is an excellent clinician and above all an inspiration to all who know him. His caring, compassionate and humble personality comes through in his words and actions. His story is truly amazing!

    • @suncat9
      @suncat9 11 месяцев назад +3

      I've never met a more personable physician than Dr. Justo.

    • @EmilioJustoMD
      @EmilioJustoMD 11 месяцев назад

      Thank you for your kind words!@@suncat9

    • @EmilioJustoMD
      @EmilioJustoMD 11 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you as I am honored and grateful to be your eye physician.......your trust and confidence means the world to me!

  • @liamnneely
    @liamnneely 9 месяцев назад +2

    I think, like everything else, this just comes down to balance.

  • @celesteroseberry3271
    @celesteroseberry3271 11 месяцев назад +9

    When we were in Ecuador this summer, people kept commenting on my husband's Purdue hat and shirt. What a conversation piece! You are so animated and I love that you move around instead of just standing in one spot. You are a great role model of being an inspiring presenter. Thank you for sharing your moving story about coming from Cuba at 3 and working hard to be the success story that you are today.

  • @FurnellWhite
    @FurnellWhite 5 месяцев назад +1

    Good morning! Love ya and so happy for all your success

  • @DylanAlvarezRizo
    @DylanAlvarezRizo 8 месяцев назад +2

    This talk deserves all the awards.

  • @ShaleighFerguson
    @ShaleighFerguson 5 месяцев назад +1

    Getting better and better all the time

  • @KeantayRoberson
    @KeantayRoberson 6 месяцев назад +2

    Very well done EMILIO!!!

  • @bondji1
    @bondji1 Год назад +12

    Fascinating talk. The idea that delaying our need for instant gratification will prevent us from being slaves to our impulses is profound. It supports his concept that the achievement of our most important goals depends on our willingness to delay and plan rather than living a life that seeks instant gratification in almost everything we do. This is an important issue that I believe needs to be expressed, especially to our youth. Outstanding talk and topic!

    • @EmilioJustoMD
      @EmilioJustoMD 11 месяцев назад

      I greatly appreciate your words of wisdom and support!

    • @MiltonMorales-m1e
      @MiltonMorales-m1e 11 месяцев назад +1

      1😮❤❤

  • @ElizabethGreen-kv6rx
    @ElizabethGreen-kv6rx 6 месяцев назад +1

    Patience is a virtue that not many people have in my opinion

  • @TiontayCovington
    @TiontayCovington 5 месяцев назад +1

    You are so amazing it was such an honour to meet you

  • @monaelshatawi633
    @monaelshatawi633 11 месяцев назад +5

    سي سي ياسي سي انت وبس رءيسي❤

  • @CoreyRamirez-im3tb
    @CoreyRamirez-im3tb 24 дня назад +1

    Such a passionate delivery

  • @WilliamTerry-jn9du
    @WilliamTerry-jn9du 6 месяцев назад +1

    Investing in yourself is so important

  • @YiannisHeard
    @YiannisHeard 6 месяцев назад +1

    Wonderful delivery from this speaker, well done to all concerned

  • @ArioGraham
    @ArioGraham 6 месяцев назад +2

    Setbacks only pave the way for comebacks

  • @JamettaWillis
    @JamettaWillis 6 месяцев назад +1

    Fantastic,your video just keep getting better & better All my favorites

  • @AntonneNash
    @AntonneNash 6 месяцев назад +2

    Invest your time and focus on long term goals everyone !

  • @DonnaQuinn-ic6fr
    @DonnaQuinn-ic6fr 4 месяца назад +2

    DELAYED GRATIFICATION IS A SUPER POWER

  • @ChaybreeRogers
    @ChaybreeRogers 4 месяца назад +1

    Love the bit you mention 'limited your partying'

    • @DrEmilioJusto
      @DrEmilioJusto 3 месяца назад

      Everything in moderation, Chaybree!

  • @BrandishaBaldwin
    @BrandishaBaldwin 4 месяца назад +2

    Patience is a secret ingredient in this idea

  • @DonnaeCook
    @DonnaeCook 6 месяцев назад +1

    Dedicated focus, I love that

  • @ClaudeBeachum
    @ClaudeBeachum 6 месяцев назад +1

    Self discipline is key, create those habits and routines and stick to them

  • @timmymckinley
    @timmymckinley 11 месяцев назад +3

    Delaying gratification gives you time to think through your decision and asking yourself if you really need it.

  • @MariaeLevine
    @MariaeLevine 5 месяцев назад +1

    Delayed gratification - love it

  • @drmikeVT
    @drmikeVT 9 месяцев назад +3

    Dr. Emilio Justo delivers a captivating TEDx talk, based on his own experiences as a Cuban immigrant. He learned quickly that people who practice delayed gratification are the most successful in life. Through his own journey, the audience learns the tips and strategies to master delayed gratification. An eye-opener and a key to the success you desire.

  • @SabineKvenberg
    @SabineKvenberg 10 месяцев назад +2

    Great message and so important for young minds.

    • @EmilioJustoMD
      @EmilioJustoMD 10 месяцев назад

      Thank you very much, Sabine.......appreciate it!

  • @elizabethfloresnava
    @elizabethfloresnava 7 месяцев назад +1

    Such stage presence, take notes aspiring speakers

  • @patrickodohanthony2663
    @patrickodohanthony2663 10 месяцев назад +2

    Well said

  • @christran9448
    @christran9448 6 месяцев назад +1

    Oh My God! Your video is really Enormous Graceful Frame

  • @YiannisHeard
    @YiannisHeard 6 месяцев назад +1

    Good morning! Love ya and so happy for all your success 😁😁👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @AlexannParks
    @AlexannParks 8 дней назад

    Love your passion Mr Justo

  • @CarolStrickland
    @CarolStrickland 6 месяцев назад +1

    You are more fun than anyone, Such a lovely video

  • @michaelzhang2223
    @michaelzhang2223 Год назад +15

    Awesome talk, Dr. Justo! It was such an honor to learn about your wonderful ideas on delayed gratification. Very enlightening. Thank you!

  • @CraigChambliss
    @CraigChambliss 24 дня назад +1

    What a speaker , watched your other talk too

  • @starbright7415
    @starbright7415 11 месяцев назад +10

    Emilio Justo, MD performed a medical eye procedure on me in 2018. He is such a wonderful person and surgeon. I have recommended him to so many people. He truly is a remarkable man and filled with humility. God Bless him.

    • @EmilioJustoMD
      @EmilioJustoMD 11 месяцев назад

      Thank you so very much for your kind words, as I cherish your gratitude!

  • @EthridgeRandolph
    @EthridgeRandolph 6 месяцев назад +1

    Always learning !

  • @WaneesaHoward
    @WaneesaHoward 6 месяцев назад +1

    Oh wow! That's remarkable👀💕

  • @KathyeChan105
    @KathyeChan105 6 месяцев назад +1

    Amazing inspirational speaker

  • @thecurenotthesymptom
    @thecurenotthesymptom 11 месяцев назад +30

    Resisting the temptation for immediate reward. I get that.

  • @cedrickdroui
    @cedrickdroui 10 месяцев назад +24

    Delayed gratification has been my mantra for years, and it's remarkable how it's propelled me toward my goals. Patience is key!

    • @DrEmilioJusto
      @DrEmilioJusto 3 месяца назад +1

      Absolutely! Great to hear how you have benefitted!

  • @emilybird9761
    @emilybird9761 6 месяцев назад +1

    so delightful✨👼👼✨✨ have a Great day💙🎶☕️ Thanks my friend For sharing this Image

  • @rosaluvsroses3543
    @rosaluvsroses3543 4 дня назад

    Thank you for sharing your story Dr. Justo, it really resonated with me as someone who also grew up with parents who immigrated. The concrete steps you provided and advice on how to avoid temptation and seek long-term fulfillment is really helpful, I look forward to implementing them :)
    -Rosa

  • @AlimaPrice
    @AlimaPrice 5 месяцев назад +1

    You have a amazing personality!

  • @JasonMiller-on6iv
    @JasonMiller-on6iv 6 месяцев назад +1

    Bring your vision to life !!!!!

  • @IsiahHopkins-wr2ph
    @IsiahHopkins-wr2ph 5 месяцев назад +1

    Absolutely stunning

  • @Alshareeeef
    @Alshareeeef Месяц назад +2

    invest your time and focus on long term goals ❤
    masters of our desires rather than slaves to our impulses ❤
    patience is a secret ❤.

  • @IdaTucker-kf7zi
    @IdaTucker-kf7zi 6 месяцев назад +1

    You are in the list of favorites

  • @DentonGibson
    @DentonGibson 6 месяцев назад +1

    Just pleasing m8 ,Thanks have a good day ahead

  • @LyndauOtero
    @LyndauOtero 5 месяцев назад +1

    Such great stage presence

  • @CarolStrickland
    @CarolStrickland 6 месяцев назад +1

    Great speaker - grateful

  • @LucyHodgson-x7k
    @LucyHodgson-x7k 11 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you Dr Justo! Great advice.

    • @EmilioJustoMD
      @EmilioJustoMD 11 месяцев назад

      Thank you so very much for your thoughtfulness!

  • @toddgrubbs6521
    @toddgrubbs6521 6 месяцев назад +1

    for all people of peace and love

  • @CatherinerDoe
    @CatherinerDoe 24 дня назад +2

    Love this !

  • @ianvaldez3315
    @ianvaldez3315 8 месяцев назад +1

    You’re a true visionary.

  • @modestamertz3779
    @modestamertz3779 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hats Off To You

  • @jimcarbaugh1452
    @jimcarbaugh1452 Год назад +3

    Great talk

    • @EmilioJustoMD
      @EmilioJustoMD 11 месяцев назад

      Thank you so very much, Jim!

  • @KeandraCopeland
    @KeandraCopeland 6 месяцев назад +1

    simple and beautiful !! ❤️

  • @BernardPlaza-vi3me
    @BernardPlaza-vi3me 6 месяцев назад +1

    Love the timeline and milestones part

  • @aliceross9961
    @aliceross9961 5 месяцев назад

    Such notification,many playfulness,so wonderful

  • @TiontayCovington
    @TiontayCovington 5 месяцев назад +1

    You're like sunshine on a rainy day

  • @YiannisHeard
    @YiannisHeard 6 месяцев назад +1

    Delayed gratification is where most people fail !

  • @rosiedixon6112
    @rosiedixon6112 8 дней назад

    I want to be a ted speaker after listening to you Emilio

  • @MariaeLevine
    @MariaeLevine 6 месяцев назад +1

    DELAYED GRATIFICATION !!!!!!ALL THE WAY

  • @LaraYoung-q4z
    @LaraYoung-q4z 8 дней назад

    Lots of great stories in this !!!

  • @almatoledo1608
    @almatoledo1608 11 месяцев назад +4

    Bravo! Muy buena ayuda, Dr. Justo!!!

  • @KathyeChan105
    @KathyeChan105 5 месяцев назад +1

    Love this presentation

  • @DorothyeBerry
    @DorothyeBerry 24 дня назад +2

    Many congratulations

  • @LamarcusSimon
    @LamarcusSimon 6 месяцев назад +1

    Enjoyed this one TEDx

  • @codyrubbo1552
    @codyrubbo1552 11 месяцев назад +7

    Great speech and quality presentation! Congratulations Dr. Justo!

    • @EmilioJustoMD
      @EmilioJustoMD 11 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you so much for watching and sharing my video, Cody!

    • @RahafMohamed-nc4le
      @RahafMohamed-nc4le 11 месяцев назад

      @@EmilioJustoMDفتنف

    • @RahafMohamed-nc4le
      @RahafMohamed-nc4le 11 месяцев назад

      @@EmilioJustoMD ١ جن خفيف ةجچ١١ككضصي طصي لو

    • @mdrubelahmed-ck5ve
      @mdrubelahmed-ck5ve 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@EmilioJustoMD😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

  • @ZyeashaGaines
    @ZyeashaGaines 4 месяца назад +1

    Well done Emilio Justo

  • @LourdesRivadeneira-v8p
    @LourdesRivadeneira-v8p 11 месяцев назад +5

    Great talk, giving lots of useful information on how to achieve delayed gratification and the benefits of doing so. Your life story gives you the understanding on how you were able to achieve it maybe, not immediately but later in life when you realized how to accomplished it, well done.

    • @EmanNagm
      @EmanNagm 11 месяцев назад +1

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    • @EmilioJustoMD
      @EmilioJustoMD 11 месяцев назад

      I appreciate your words and insight, thanks for taking the time to respond!

    • @abbeyssemugooma216
      @abbeyssemugooma216 11 месяцев назад

      Q

  • @ShacoraMcneil
    @ShacoraMcneil 4 месяца назад +1

    Lovely story telling Emilio

  • @RajaneceChambers
    @RajaneceChambers 6 месяцев назад

    Favolosa😍,Tremendously terrific

  • @DwaneRoberts-bl9oe
    @DwaneRoberts-bl9oe 5 месяцев назад +1

    This is amazing work

  • @Evrastrim
    @Evrastrim 29 дней назад +1

    The thing is you always forget about it in such moments. It's so sneaky.

    • @DrEmilioJusto
      @DrEmilioJusto 24 дня назад

      Agreed.......thanks for your insight!

  • @RajaneceChambers
    @RajaneceChambers 8 дней назад

    Congratulations Emilio