how i dont get lonely (single, no pet, and living alone)
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- Опубликовано: 27 ноя 2022
- Here are my 5 secrets on how i don't get lonely while being single, without any pets, and living alone. I should be studied at Harvard, tbh.
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I usually ninja watch and never comment but I had to show support. your advice is golden. " you feel lonely when you're used to depending on others for things". Another thing you explained in a different video is that its not our job to disqualify ourselves from friends or in certain situations. almost like we think we are burdens to them. you either have a psychology degree or have been to therapy a lot. thanks for the content either way. Also you editing in the music that fits the mood is flawless as always.
Love this and thank you so much!! I really should have a psych degree ;)
Independence is a very powerful feeling! Better than any drug!
I’ll be honest, I used to depend on friendships to keep me from being alone. I hated being stuck in at home by myself and would be desperate to go out with people or someone. This caused me to create and maintain toxic friendships just to say I had friends and just to have someone to spend time with. I had ZERO boundaries. And then I was forced to be alone, and I haven’t felt lonely since then. I am finally able to sit in complete solitude and deal with myself- which is what we try to avoid as humans. We don’t want to deal with our thoughts, traumas, feelings, we want to find quick and temporary solutions. I found God through this journey. And now, I’m no longer willing to accept half ass relationships in my life. I’m not interested in temporary relationships. I’m not interested in dumbing myself down to fit in anymore. I love the person I see in the mirror. And I know that this healing process will call for healthier relationships in the future. Yes, some days I do still wish that I had someone to go on a road trip with, but I know that it’s coming. And it’ll be the right people at the right time.
Same I’m learning too
I’ve come to the realization I’m ok with no friends but as long as I have social activists places to go I’m fine ❤
Thank you so much, this comment helped me a lot.
Yeah I feel you on the relationship part! I’m 27. But for some reason I feel like I don’t belong in a relationship at all! I enjoy being alone as well. 💯‼️
Ok so I’m probably not your target audience as I’m 50. But I am just about to start my life again after leaving my marriage, my home and my career. And I am really blown away by your wisdom at such a young age. Thank you for reminding me that being alone can be an incredible opportunity for growth and fulfilment. I could relate to a lot of what you said and I could feel little sparks of the 21 year old me saying “Hey you remember me? I’m back!” 😁
Awww i love this so much - thank you for sharing this and sending all my love to you!!!!
@@NaturallyNegeen Thank you! I may posisbly be going to live on a boat... so we'll see! x
I like that sweater
I think it helps if you have friends, this last year i lost all the people I thought were good friends that turned out to be fake. It makes me feel better to see someone in a similar situation.
Having a man, having kids, all things society expect of us. And of course they can be really great and add something beautiful to life. It's not in any way sad or to pity or making life less nice when you don't have them though. Loving your videos and energy Negeen! And I absolutely loved the acting class tip!! I did lots of acting years ago and made some great friends from that! Literally everything about that was great; the practice sessions together, grabbing some food together in between rehearsals.
Partly true. There is a difference between things people say and things people actually do. And there is also a difference in how these things are viewed between different groups within the society or accross country. In my country for example, most woman work very few hours and stay home with the kids. Of course, that's amazing if it is what you choose and love to do. But in my country, when we start working more as a female, questions are being asked such as: "Ohh, how are you going to do this with the kids? Are you not leaving them alone too much?" While rarely anybody asks it if a male does work more. And also there is definitely much more of a focus on having kids.
It's super important to keep in mind things are different accross the globe. We all have different histories, different rates in which things change and different ways in which the society works. Having said that, I definitely believe things are as you mention it in let´s say a country such as US.
Absolutely!! Appreciate it, Anna!!
Hi Negeen, I have depression and anxiety and just moved out on my own in a new city, doing long distance with my boyfriend and I’ve been struggling. Your channel really has given me hope and a feeling of community. I know it’s not easy to be so vulnerable but I hope you know you’re helping people ❤️ thanks for being unapologetically you.
This means so much!! Best of luck in the new city :)
i totally agree with you . if i attend some activities ,i felt lonely . But if i stayed at home , maybe it's better .
NEGEEN NICE!! I DO THE SAME!!
BEEN SINGLE FOR DECADES!!
ENJOY THIS.
WHEN LONELY REALIZE THIS HAPPENS AND THAT ITS GOING TO BE OK!!
ALSO KEEP BUSY.
THANKS
Negeen, it's nice that you're independent, but when you feel lonely, I'll always be there for you to support you and look after you all the way from the Philippines. :)
I'm living alone sis whenever I feel lonely or lost my way i watch ur videos that's so inspiring thank you ❤
I love your videos I've been living alone for 2years now no pet no man even tho I'm beautiful guys are all the same trying to get that one thing I rather stay alone with God lol everyone around me has someone but u just know your free hearted being alone it's sad but true your not the only one out who's alone and beautiful thank you for your videos ❤️🙏
Thank you :)
Thank you for the video Negeen!
thank you for another amazing video
pls dont stop these videos!❤️
I agree with everything you shared. Great tips
I really enjoyed this ❤
You're awesome thanks for the video
Beautiful vlog. tnx
Thank you ❤
Your videos are helping me a lot
Great video, your advice has helped me alot and I'm much older than you 🥰
What an inspiring video. Please make more of these they really help me. Thanks for all your honest advice ❤
Hi Negeen, allowing myself to be alone with myself and go with the flow of my thoughts without too many distractions is actually how I get to know myself better! My parents also had an arranged marriage but they divorced when I was 3, I also refuse to settle just for anyone and give up my time and energy. It's good to see that you're doing well, I'm getting there too. Slowly but surely.
I LOVE BOOKS 📚 😍 THANK YOU SO MUCH!! 🎉❤🎉
Bestie, you just unlocked a new tier. We need booktube content from you now :) pretty please!
Haha that would be fun!
Such a great & helpful video!
Ty💖
You are so welcome!
Thank you! Great motivation! 😄
So glad!
Luckly i have a pet,no man but i want to get 8 babies 6 mine and 2 adopts. It is sometimes fun being single but loneliness is number one leader to depression.
Not only was this video really helpful for me, but I can see this video being so helpful for LOTS of people and that’s something to be proud of for sure, Negeen! While I can’t relate on living alone as I do live with my brother, I have been single for years now and can’t take pieces of these ideas and put them towards not feeling alone when it comes to romantic relationships. I couldn’t agree more on acting classes!! I took some in college and made so many friends and now hearing you did them as well just makes me want to find another one near me to take on again. The vibe of this video was also really great too, felt like having a one on one conversation with you and the awesome sweater is just the icing on the cake! Thanks so much for making this, you’re not alone either! 😊
Aww thank you always for the words of encouragement and support :)
Thank you.
Love you Negeen💌. Just for being who you are
Thank you so much :)
Your video makes me takes notes, and I did thank you for your advice ^^
Aw yay!!
Great video, I agree with you 100 percent about a room that is your haven's best feeling ever.
Yes! Thank you!
Watching your videos give me the motivation & inspiration to get up and do something - some chore or something creative, just anything that's not sitting & sulking !!
I'm so glad!! 😊
Negeen, thank you so much for uploading this video!! I really needed this given my current situation. Definitely going to pick up reading because of your suggestion. Your content, insight, & tips have positively affected my life and words cannot express my gratitude -- I am beyond elated to have found your channel back in 2020 and look forward to your future videos.
If you ever need anything, then please do not hesitate in reaching out to your local pal. Happy holidays, superstar! 🙂
Aww thank you so much, i love this so much! Happy holidays, Abrar!!😊
First, that sweater is amazing. Second, great video with all great points, all of these hit home. I was in such a weird, bad mood today but this reminded me again of all the positive things associated with being alone. I think I’m just in a funk when it comes to making my space my haven right now. With a negative budget, all the rearranging in the world hasn’t been cutting it. It’s missing the comfort feel and I’m trying to figure out how to remedy that. BUT awesome video :)
It will happen for you soon and it will all fall into place :) thank you for the comment!!!
Hi Negeen, thanks so much for this video! Your personality is as colourful as your sweater. My parents won’t let me get a dog either 😂 but my ultimate dream is to be a single lady with a dog once I move out. I also recognize the unique situation I’m in where I don’t have the responsibility of a partner or kids or even a pet and can focus on my creative writing. I’ve been feeling sad about being single but your video raised my spirits ❤️
I like to do outdoor activities when I’m feeling in a funk, mostly go to dog park for 1-2 hours lol having pets is the best emotional support for me. I do want to read more. Happy Holidays Negeen 💓
Love it!
So wise already..I do the exact same things:P This is GOLD girl!!!
woohoo, thank you!!
Hi Negeen! truly encouraging. Can you please share the apartment checklist soon? Moving to Austin and would love a handy guide
Thank you!! Here is the checklist: www.naturallynegeen.com/products/the-ultimate-apartment-checklist
Omg Negeen, how do you know just what to say and when?! I literally came back today from a weekend getaway all by myself in NY/NJ and though it was nice, the thought of returning to my apartment and my room felt so nice, just like you said in point #2! Though I currently live with a roommate now, my room is my space space but not for too long because I’m moving in 54 days and I’ll be in my very own apartment all to myself! Thank you for making such relatable videos. They will really come in handy when I live alone next year, though I plan on getting a cat 6 months in lol. Love love your videos and your sweater and hair are beautiful!😍❤️
Aww super proud of you and love hearing that!! Can't wait for you to get your own place and your kitty :)
Great points, Negeen! I especially like the idea of making your home your oasis. I’ve found that cooking and having tasty (but healthy) snacks in the fridge/pantry are also good ways to combat loneliness. P.S. We have a lot in common: I am Persian (half), an only child, and live alone without a pet or boyfriend (lol). I love your channel because every post resonates
Thank you so much :) and totally agree on the snacks! Its so fun.
After my 35 years of relationship ended with my wife, I was alone for the first time. Somehow I started to learn Zumba, Bollywood, and Hip hop dance. Every day I am the only guy in the class dancing with so many ladies and making friends. Dancing changed my life. By the way, I was the shy guy all my life. Now I own the stage. You should try too. 💃 💃
Guys it's easy. Just stay busy!
So proud of you. Mental health ninja. Inspiration to all. Female goddess warrior. Just look at you…laying the foundation for all your dreams to come true. What a treasure you are and I’m so very happy for what lies before you. Rocket ship to the moon 🚀🌕you are a very amazing role model. I hope you see that.
Thank you so much ☺️
I love good food too,and interior design is my passion ,i dont know if practicallly am good with it but i have lots of ideas,i love a colourful house but am also possessed with classy them of black and white colours only and live plants. I like entertainment and a 85 coloured tv is my idea or projector at amazon they are cheaper or alibaba.thats the little information i can give i dont want someone getting to know whats fully on my mind.
thank you! 3 weeks out of an 11 year relationship. thank you x
Thank you :)
I so much agree with books! Although you have to be careful with the kind of book you're picking up. It has to be something that interests you cause if not, you'll gonna get bored out of it. I do it all the time while I'm on my bus ride. So instead of being dramatic and thinking how lonely I am while looking out of the window at the bus, I'd get a book and read.
Hi beautiful awesome work ❤❤💝💜💜💟💞💝💝💗👍👍👍
Unrelated but where is your top from? It’s too cute!
I'm in the same boat with you
Iam like you except iam not an only childl live alone solidy for 7 years you seem like a very introverted person i wish i was as positive as you your a beautiful person unlike i have no interests in life love you negeen i definitely don't want a partner i will live alone abnd die alone
What do you do when you feel lonely? ❤
Video Games and exercise
I read books
I paint.
Sing and dance in my room!!
Listen to music, FaceTime friends, take my dog to the dog park, go to the driving range, sing, or eat, which I need work on 😂
❤
Well you could get a male doggy that would solve your problems😂 you could name his Brock then you could say oh I have a date with Brock, oh I hope he doesn’t chase the mail person after or walking 🤣
I😂 love to join you
Great video. I only wanted to comment that being in a healthy relationship means you don't have to justify spending quality time with random guys with your class because you have to practice a script.
Yes!! Of course :)
Now am working hard,hope to get some money to buy my own apartment which is 30,000usd. I dont like revealing more about my plans because not so many people wish you the best ,being secretive sometimes its good,how i will acquire the money thats my financial secret,i believe much is pending that can cater for that.
I like a girl she lives alone with her cats I just want to know Does She's feels that she needs someone who takes care of her
The wall cometh, better get the cats before winter approaches. Being strong and independent comes with lots of cons.
Good God your beautiful 😍
Good lord this is sad
Only child gang! We built different. lol
Hi
As a man, you are really attractive you don’t want a man because u don’t want one , you are very beautiful woman and trust any man would be with u asap
It's clearly an issue if you need to post videos on female loneliness. You won't handle this isolated lifestyle as you get older, humans are simply not built for it. Everything you have said are coping mechanisms for avoiding the reality of the fact you are lonely. This is well known in psychology. These behaviors work for a while but mid life it starts to wane causing a crisis.
@liz blanco If it isn't an issue why is there a video on how to deal with loneliness lol
A whole lot of cope going on. It’s bad
You don't fear ghost???😂😂
You have sad eyes.
I like your sweater
thank you for this🥹❤️