understanding loneliness with living alone | Naturally Negeen
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- Loneliness is ever present in our lives but it's about how you navigate around it. I hope this video helps you as much as it will help me!
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Thank you, for being vulnerable! You may feel alone, but you’re never alone! You have no idea how strong and bold you are! Keep up the content! ❤️
Wow, totally needed this Adjovi!! Thank you so much!! 😊 ☺️
I am 42 and I live alone.. it’s not always easy. I’m sorry you haven’t been feeling well.. I just came back from a solo trip. I cried the day before I left. It was so weird cuz when you go on trips with friends you get so excited together and you talk about your trip weeks in advance and now I had no one to share it with. It was hard. But oh man what a great experience to travel alone. I had a few small moments where I was a bit sad but most of the day I was so excited I got to do exactly what I wanted to do.
And I was also very sick for a few days and it totally sucks cuz I also had to walk my dog and it was almost impossible..that’s def a downside of living alone.
I’m thinking of you but I’m so proud of you.. and you’re right when I feel alone i also go out alone and have a dinner or drinks…do something nice for me..
yes i watched the entire video girl!
Aww thank you so much for this! I hope to solo travel one day too :) thank you for watching!
I am also alone Diane 🙏
Girl, I’ve been living on my own for 16 years now. At your age I felt the same, but was still able to get a date. Then the older I got, the pickier I became after many failed relationships. I felt sadness when all my friends married and connected less with me. Then at every baby shower, I was asking myself, when will it be my turn to experience this? I’m 39 now and have finally accepted that I may be alone for the rest of my life.. become an old cat lady lol.. and possibly never have the opportunity to have kids. Sorry to sound like a downer, but I really resonate with what you’re saying. I’ve given up on a lot of things in life lately… expectations, my vain-ness, goals etc. due to all the disappointment & challenges I experienced. I hope and believe that you will find your true love soon and not feel loneliness again. Isn’t that what we all want? Thanks for being so vulnerable.
Very thoughtful message and thank you for sharing :) happy my video resonated !!
I am in a similar place right now. Just wanted to give you a virtual hug! You are amazing and will be an awesome cat-mommy and I hope you can enjoy all your motherly feelings in other situations and live events.
I’ve been living alone for 2 years now. After a relationship breakup.
At times I’m scared to be alone in life. I have a great life, at 37 I hope in 10
Years time I’m with a great man that wants to do life together.
It is hard when I’m by myself in my own thoughts, is this what Gods plan is for me, i just have to wait enjoy the peace
It’s tough. You think your life will happen one way, but it’s a blessing in disguise. I’ve always felt a bit lonely, even in relationships. Closest person is my dad but sometimes I feel he ends up siding with my mom. Best advice is to continue working on yourself and your journey.
Its not the end of the world. You can adopt or foster a child.
I'll never forget what my very dearest friend told me, you're not by yourself, you're with yourself. Total words of wisdom for me when I was breaking up with my bf of almost 9 years.
I'm 70 years old. All alone. Thanks for this channel.❤
As a 27 year old female I totally relate to this video. I had moved out alone to establish self development and to just learn how to do more to do more things on my own. So far I’ve learned a lot but then there’s that feeling of loneliness that creeps up on me , we’ll it used to. When it did creep up on me it made me very depressed. Recently I had stopped dating someone . I thought things were gonna be different with this man and I but then all of a sudden he pulled the carpet from under me and said he wanted to focus on other things. Then I had met a girl on bumble to hang out with and we were cool and talked everyday and we had seen each other in real life one day , but then one day I just stopped hearing from her and I discovered she blocked me. When I thought of these situations and how strange they were I thought to myself “maybe I’m just supposed to be alone” . For a moment I had accepted that. I cured my loneliness by setting up a new schedule for myself and going out on my own much more often. I would go out to dinner by myself, go to the casino’s just for the hell of it, go shopping, write in my journal , work out, learn new recipe’s, explore beaches, allat. Once I really started to pour in to my life and not waste my days by moping around or being in bed all day on the weekends , loneliness felt like a thing of the past tbh and I began to feel very comfortable with being in a solitude state because I was the one in control and I didn’t have to worry about bad vibes from anyone. The key to killing loneliness is really to just get active , go outside, explore your city, learn new skills that’s can turn in to money, take more self care days, and start traveling alone and get a nice hotel . Turn that tv upppp. Use the room service!! Claim that main character energy!!!
The bit about taking care of yourself really hit home for me. A few weeks ago I was delirious with fever and still had to function enough to make sure I was fed and watered to get through the illness. I'm generally good at being alone by now but loneliness always hits hard when I'm ill, and just in general illness is the thing I find most challenging about living alone.
Illness alone is very challenging.
It definitely builds character and strength during hard times :)
Living alone for the first time in my life in my 30’s. Experiencing this is so good for me but it is very difficult. What a good community on here. Truly made my night❤
53 and was married for 20 years have almost live alone for 5 years and the best advice is FOMO or fear of missing out will derail your positive mindset. I have suffered on and off with being lonely, if the universe has it all worked out then it will happen, I have made peace with that. I will suggest universe has moved you to a new phase, go for a trail walk some where and look at green things. Swim in the sea 🌊 go somewhere else you never have been. I literally go for a bush walk a different place every weekend 5-9 km walking. Listen to Depeche Mode Live and Dance with Dave, high five ✋ your self in the mirror. I eat alone at cafe and restaurants all the time, I just pull out my laptop and Uni work nobody blinks an eyelid. Being completely self sufficient is difficult totally resonates. You are blessed with having friends to actually do stuff with. I work as a mental health support worker and do university at the hospital for 2-3 hours 3 times a week so I generally have to book my friends weeks in advance. Your calling is Life-coach and Counsellor. Keep going you got this. I got my parents a 🐶 mini schnauzer chance of me having kids slim bah ha ha oh I am going to listen to led zeppelin #neveralone
I'm 39, male, and something about this age and living alone is sad, and I never thought I'd experience loneliness. My friends, cousins are all off getting married with kids, and what do I have? No one. It feels depressing when I know I have a lot to be thankful for. It's not that I'm codependent, but its the feeling of having someone there, a roommate, friend, who lives with you has a sense of security, that whatever you may experience, or experiencing, you don't have to go through it alone.
Negeen, I appreciate you being vulnerable. I completely relate to what you are feeling. I am turning 27 in a few months and I always reflect on my life and not being a relationship is that area of my life. I feel so insecure about it. It is so difficult being the one friend out of the group who isn’t in a relationship. I honestly starting tearing up when you got emotional. I truly don’t understand why I am still single . I have so many friends and I am outgoing. I can make anything else happen in just about any other area of my life : school, job, etc .. but dating.. I just haven’t success . I do feel the pressure you’re talking about because I want my parents to be grandparents someday .. and they aren’t pressuring me, it’s me putting the pressure on myself 😕
Totally relate and youre wonderful - in time ❤️
I love my own company so much more than others most of the time. I love having the freedom to do exactly what I want to do.
This is so relatable. It’s so comforting to know there are others that are going through the same thing. Thank you for this❤️
Aw thank you and glad it resonated :)
✨🪺🌿thank you Negeen. We all need to get real about the illusion that a romantic relationship will fill the space. A romantic relationship may be a beautiful distraction for three months or a year until limerance ends and then again we are left with the foundation we did or did not create beforehand. Without a doubt you are one of the most grounded, creative, articulate, resilient, intelligent and funny people I have encountered in this space. Know you are enough. We all are. And people in relationships, and with the kids, have plenty of problems. People should be proud of themselves for being healthy and single until a healthy relationship comes along. It’s not easy to do. Which is why people settle and hide the struggle. You are a role model that is greatly needed.
I remember reading your comment 3 days ago when you posted it and i started tearing up. Your comment means so much and really appreciate your kind words!! You are completely right ❤️❤️ thank you so much Simone, for your thoughtful message!!
I am 32 and about to live on my own for the first time ever after a divorce to the man I’ve been with for 12 years. These videos are giving me such hope that I’m going to be okay, that I’m going to make it with just me, myself and I. Thank you for being so vulnerable, it makes me feel less alone.
The way you’re so positive about something that’s clearly aching your heart, something that’s very sad and difficult for those living alone… impressive
I’m 74 and now a widow. It’s hard to get a circle of friends since I moved across the country and cannot chance CoVid. Cannot do hobbies due to crippling arthritis. Life is very hard. When I wake up, I want the day to end, too. I eat peanut butter sandwiches for dinner.
peanut butter sandwiches sounds yum!
One of my comfort videos when I’m feeling down/lonely is your video where you start out like “there’s nothing like a relationship that makes you feel truly worthless” and you say it with humor which instantly makes me connect with it, smile and laugh. And the rest of the video just helps me connect and relate and feel not so.. alone in my feels!
Thank you for that. You have no idea what your vulnerability and honesty does to help me stay afloat!
Really happy to hear that :)
Girl… you talking the TRUTH! It’s the reality of being single! I have felt the same exact way! I agree ☝🏾 it’s only a season of life and I admire you for speaking on it on your channel and embracing it! If you desire a partner and family of your own I believe it has to happen for you, believe that it will ❤️ I travel alone, dine alone, and go to the movies alone, workout alone and I’ve become really comfortable with it! I also cry alone when relationships don’t work out or the inconsistency of dating makes me sad! It’s all real and we all feel it, the good and bad❤️ I made a promise to myself that I would stay single as long as it takes to meet and marry the right man. A LOT of people settle because they don’t want to be alone and succumb to the pressure but the most important love in your life is your self love! Everything else stems from that and that’s a love that truly lasts a lifetime 🥰
Thanks for sharing. Just be careful about that promise as it could be dangerous. If I may ask - what is the right man for you?
Thank you and agreed :)
sounds like you really have your own back, wise words that I'm trying to live by in lots of ways!
#neveralone! I'm obsessed with living alone and I love spending lots of time messing about in the house by myself, but I do isolate myself. I know that people need other people, and that reaching out is actually a crucial part of doing it all by yourself, but when my mood and energy start to decline, I just don't have the energy anymore to reach out and be social.. Also on top of that I just don't have friends here 😅 Moving to a new country during a pandemic, being unemployed for months, and now working from home, wasn't easy. I'm slowly making acquaintances and friends though :) it helps a lot.
Girl yes!! I live alone anddd work from home so it’s soooo lonely at times and the PRESSURE to be a good daughter, friend, keep a job etc is sooo real!!! I love the tips you gave, little things to look forward to everyday or tmrw help me for sure. Seeing a movie alone is so amazing I’m proud you did that! I went to a comedy show alone once and next on my list is a concert. Much love and keep doin what you’re doin ❤️
Aww thank you and i love that so much :) a comedy show sounds so fun to do alone!! i may do that too ;)
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Thank you, Negeen. I have been living alone for around a year after ending a five year relationship. As you say, it has been a difficult and lonely season and it is not always easy to believe in myself. This too shall pass, this too shall pass. Thank you for your relatable videos and encouraging words. It makes me feel a little less alone to know I'm not the only one navigating these choppy waters. We have got this!! We'll look back one day and will be so proud for persevering.
I agree with you, every day is grueling. For me bedtime is a relief.
I live really close to my family, like literally walking distance or a short 3 minute drive so whenever I’m feeling alone (bc I’m 25 and do live alone also, I just bought a house a few months ago), I go visit them and it helps soooo much! I also have been into watching solo travel vlogs bc they show that you can really have the best time alone! I’m trying to get out more so that I can actually date and meet people but I’m such a homebody. 😭 I think you should go out to bars and sit alone, you’ll meet someone! That’s what I plan to do.
Having family nearby is such a blessing ❤️❤️ ooh i am so nervous to sit at a bar alone so let me know how it goes for you 😂
I find this video to be SO relatable. I am a 31 year old heterosexual female and I’m single and live alone. I feel SO much pressure to find a relationship. Our society makes it seem as if people who have a partner are doing life right and us single people are missing out. I also have shared a similar thought to you where I sometimes think I need to accept being alone forever.
Very true! I feel the same. Sending you a hug 💕
FINALLY A REAL HUMAN SPEAKS AND IS NOT ALL TOXIC POSITIVITY! Thank you
Appreciate it :)
I take a deep breath, when i really wanna reach out but dont have to who, and return to my life back and connect with the spirit and Divine and just do what i have to do, letting go and going with the flow, trusting that God brings to me what is the best for me to receive 🙏
We love you ! And I too can relate to everything you’re saying . You’re not alone !!
Thanks for the video. Im definitely feeing lonely. Literally my birthday is next week and I'm going to have no one around me. #NeverAlone
Happy Birthday :)
Girl, I am going through similar thoughts and feelings. I'm 41 and have luckily never wanted children, so have bypassed that particular pressure. That must be a lot for you! I'm living alone and single etc. It's comforting to watch this video and know that I'm not the only one. As you were saying at the end, things are always changing. This too shall pass.
Yes, thank you :)
Negeen 💖 thank you for posting and sending you good healing energy. We really appreciate you putting yourself out there because it helps us all be seen as well
I can relate. I'm 30 and have been single for almost 4 years. I'm generally okay with it, but the people in my life sometimes make it difficult.
It sucks.
All the love and appreciation to you Negeen❤️❤️!
I am 31 years old and I been living alone in my apartment for 10 years and I been single my whole 20s, I just never had luck finding relationships yet alone keeping them, I dealt with multiple nights of loneliness. I pray a lot but I also find new things to be passionate about, new goals, new hobbies, new interest more I'm alone I discover more about myself that I wish I knew years ago. I just to keep improving every day about myself and my life and keep building the best life I can live. Gotta find positive things to motivate and drive you forward. I find things to truly make me happy sometimes it's the little small things that brings me joy
Thanks for being vulnerable Negeen. Saw the other video on living alone (the recent one). Sending you lots of love.💕
I feel that lol waking up and wanting the day to end and the loneliness
I got you on this I've been living alone for like about 3 yrs now you strong , you got it 💯😎
Thanks for sharing and being vulnerable with us.💗 You are so strong and it’s inspiring. Living alone is not easy. Proud of you for trying to put yourself first🥰 self-care is important💞 wishing you better days ☺️
I am going to start living alone and I'm so happy I found your channel! It's like listening to your best friend. Love you. x
I cried with you in this video thank you for posting this so we could all relate so beautifully
honestly, I look your videos whenever I am feeling alone. I love your work. #neveralone
#neveralone. You inspire me & I just Love you 🤗❤️
U have no idea how much I love ur personality!! Your videos are what I always come to when I feel lonely
I glad I found your channel. I'm single yet happy. I don't care to date or go on a relationship to get to know someone anyone. I know nothing is wrong with me even 3 years or 5 years or ten. I don't care really now to go around people because I get sick of people talking about I'm pretty and I should have a man. No fear, I'm single and I'm at peace with it and I don't want a man. Later when I get to where I'm happy to be living at the most not dreaming but living there I will get the perfect, silly dog and fish. Not a man who has that crap my own. I will never get married or live in a house with a person I will soon be living in a small home enough space for me and my dog. I don't care about a man that might be interested in me. Am I supposed to be fake and be like awe let's do this when I know I don't care to be with a man. Lord save me from the Men who be like, " I got money I can take care of you"? Damn do I look helpless? I can get what I need and have what I got and still be happy. I don't want to be touched by a man. I care about being touched by the life that I'm living that has me living single. I don't have many friends and don't need to many mainly the love bombing friends that be like, " you are going to make a man so happy you need love ans sex girl"! No let me take back from you my life ans yes you what the heck i don't want a relationship. Your beautiful though I think that beautiful woman like you would never have an issue when your ready to date. I wouldn't be hard on yourself because you don't want a relationship.
I’m literally going through this exact same thing..I’m 37 and I haven’t liked life for quite while
I really find myself in a lot you’re talking about here … a warm feeling to know that somebody can understand what I’m going through…
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Yay! Thank you!
Here I am feeling SO alone and I’m in a relationship of 3years😅, everyone feels some type of loneliness throughout there life. Thanks for sharing❤.
Thank you for being so vulnerable. I just found your channel and I’m happy to be a subscriber because I’ve laughed , learned stuff and just felt heard with your vulnerability
You are so welcome! Thank you for subscribing 😊
Sending love ❤️
Youre such a ray of sunshine, i really think you and i would be such good friends if we were to ever meet ❤ sending you all my love
Thank you and thank you for being you! 😊
You are so sweet, thank you Elizabeth! ❤️
This is a beautiful video. Thank you for being so honest and candid - I’m here for you!
🥹🥹♥️ always appreciate you and your kindness and support!! Always here for YOU!! Thank you sweet friend!!!
I look up to you sooo much Negeen! I also live alone and single. I totally get everything you are saying the ups and downs
Aww thank you!!
#neveralone I love watching your videos they help me so much! Love ya!
thank you!! :)
I cannot even tell you how relatable and helpful this video was. I watched it while making breakfast and eating it. I feel lonely for sure right now. But I know i need to do this alone and be on my own. #neveralone
aww thank you - you got this :)
Hi Nageen, I recently found your channel and watched some of your videos lately, and you're crazy, but in a good way, and I like it 😄 I'm 40 yo, living alone again after a 10-year relationship, lived alone before and enjoying it right now. I'm not scared to live alone, because I'm a pretty tall guy, but nonetheless I can relate to a lot of your content, and I'm very grateful for videos like that, it shows me that I'm not the only one on this rollercoaster of emotions 😅 I hope you're doing well, you're a wonderful person. Greetings from beautiful Bavaria! ✌😊❤
Hi Negeen! I just want you to know that you deserve to be loved, cared and nurtured 🥰
Thank you :)
Thank you so much for making this video!! I really needed this video in my life!! #neveralone
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I feel you on that girl ❤ that’s me the nights are the hardest
i relate to this so so much! Living alone is so challenging. Thank you for being vulnerable enough to post this. Thank you for being open. Love you girl!! God bless you!!
Aw thank you so much!!!
I've just discovered your channel and watching all your videos. You're an amazing person. We all have our teary moments. I feel you girl! I'm sending you lots of love #NeverAlone
Thank you so much!
Negeen, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on this challenging topic. I'm a guy in my early 30s and moved in to my own place about 6 months ago. Being single and living alone, I can relate 100% to this. I'm also in that accepting phase that you mentioned, but then again it's just a season.
Absolutely!
Thank you for being vulnerable and showing the ups and downs of living alone! Love the content!! Keep it going because your #neveralone!💯🙏🏾😀
Thank you!!
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True every season will pass..This is so relatable..thnks for sharing..♡
My pleasure 😊
You are such a pretty girl. Love yourself and know that you are not the only one having such thoughts. Enjoy being single while you can. I guess you are feeling like that because you are still young. When I was your age, I was like that too even though I did not live alone. Think positive. Mix with others and seek help or friendship if you need it. Love may be just around the corner!
I think more people are lonely out there than we believe. But 8.10 thats sad... you seem lovely and hope you find your soulmate
This video is my life story ! Every single bit.
A friend once said to me - wouldn't it be worse if you were with someone and still feel lonely
And since then i keep reminding myself that life is a single player game no matter what. Makes me help combat loneliness a Lil bit
yes agreed :)
Thank you for your video. I feel that being vulnerable with one another is necessary in order to have deep, meaningful connections with people. I appreciated your video and wanted to make sure you knew that it will be a benefit to other people and I am sure yourself. Loneliness is tough and is extremely important to reach out to others and be your own best friend. I have had challenging times up to the age I am and each day thankful for them as the testing times pushed me to grow in weak areas and love myself more and realize humans are natural social human beings so connection with others is extremely important as well as each day staying true to yourself and not listening to the “shoulds” of other people, and getting involved in things and hobbies that bring you joy! It is the simple things in life
Love this, thank you!!
#neveralone
Thank you for making this wonderful, vulnerable video for all of us to see and relate with. It was absolutely valuable. Doing things on your own is hard and it feels good knowing I'm not the only one struggling with it.
Thank you 🧡
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@Naturally Negeen I know exactly where you're at. What helps is knowing what you're capable of and listening to your inner voice. That voice is always right
i fully agree :)
#neveralone thank you, you are brave and I appreciate your vulnerability. I relate and for whatever reason it is comforting to know you’re not going this alone.
Thank you so much!
Ive been feeling the same lately. Thank you for sharing! Remember there's only one you, be nice to her/him! #selfcare #neveralone
Absolutely!!
I get pressure from my mom too about being in a relationship, and being married with kids etc. It sucks when people doesn’t understand when you’re working on yourself. I LOVE Seinfeld too! Thank you for making this video. ❤️ #neveralone
Thank you!!
i'm a guy that just turned 30... i'm thinking of getting a cat 😆 but i feel you on so many levels. thanks for being honest and helping others relate. i'm also mostly introverted and not really seeking a partner... i definitely feel like the odd man out in a lot of social situations because of this. just some scattered thoughts but i hope it also resonates. my feel-goods are peep show and other british comedies
Your not alone anymore you have me. Full Circle
When I get lonely I video chat with my best friend. Whether I’m washing up, getting ready or chilling on the sofa twiddling my thumbs, I always feel so much better talking about my day and hearing about my friend’s adventures. Focusing on someone else really helps me get some perspective xx
Sending hugs from one independent lady to another 💖
i love doing this too and forget how wonderful it is ❤️ thank you so much!!
Beautiful video and beautiful soul! Going to the movies alone gives me sense of pride. Even while dating, it’s so important to continue dating yourself. I believe it only increases ones confidence. Going out alone can feel unsettling in the moment, but it’s always completely worth it once you get home, kick your feet up, and reflect on the experience you just gave yourself. #NeverAlone ❤
Thank you so much!!
I'm a woman and have lived alone for over 12 years.
You need to get a circle of friends and hobbies.
i have them :)
I am new here and I love you. I am starting my single journey.. I am scared and I searched being happy single and you popped up. Thanks for your vulnerability.. your channel gives me hope. Even this one
You got this! and thank you so much :)
I feel exactly the same way as you every day, I’m just older and picky with my company so does not help :)
Bruh... you're my female version! Thank you for making this video!
1st you are really strong, being vulnerable in front of everyone is not an easy thing.
2nd these things also happen if we are in relationship, its a part of life , trust me.
3rd life is never hopeless until you have a purpose to live.
Negeen you don't know how much you are helping people. I watch your video every time I feel low. You are serving the humanity. You are living purposefully n you are blessed. N we are blessed to have you. Love you so much ❤️
N yes I m 33 .
I’m 27 years old and I know what you feel about being pressured of having a significant other. Also, I live by myself and I also responsible for like, everything (even though my parents will help me without doubt, and I’m so grateful for that)
I relate with all the things you say here.
Things will pass. And we’ll be more stronger that ever 💪🏻
#NeverAlone
appreciate it!!
Yup yup being in a relationship or surrounded by friends who dont understand u can feel super lonely. Being in nature + bringing books + learning something new helps me! #neveralone
exactly :)
Great video. #neveralone
Always!
Namaste 🙏
Girl, you're amazing just as is. Putting great content out there, making people feel better and inspired is so much greater, than societys pettiness about women having to be in a relationship to be 'enough'.
Completely relate to what you’re saying here 🥺 it made me feel less alone watching this! I went to see the last Spider-Man movie by myself and it was a great experience!
That's so wonderful to hear!! Proud of you ❤️
I can relate to this video! I recall when I went by myself to watch a movie the theater was empty when I got there. So I chose a seat smack in the middle of the theater...then people started showing up and they all sat next and around me...I'm like hello this theater is huge there are seats away from me..why is everybody sitting next to me...why do people tend to conjugate close together in public? Anyway, unfortunately this was the same exact theater of the Aurora mass shooting in Colorado which occurred a week after my experience of seeing a movie by myself. That was my last time at a movie theater.
Watching this video rn to avoid the loneliness. O.
Have you ever tried Mindfulness meditation? I swear I’d be a wreck without it. Give a guided meditation a try, it’s seriously life changing. Good luck to ya!
#neveralone 🧡
Negeen, I watched your video right before I went to bed and couldn’t sleep thinking about you.
I am much older than you, but when I was your age I felt that same pressure. So, I got married to someone I thought I loved but looking back I realize my desire to be a couple was stronger than my desire to be complete. As you might guess it was a rocky marriage. It lasted 15 years. One would think I’d learned a lesson from that, but I got married again thinking being a couple was better than being alone. That marriage lasted 15 years as well.
At that point in my life I decided to “accept“ being alone. At some point though I learned how to embrace being alone and life became better for me.
I could go on and on but I just wanted you to know your story resonates with me. I’m reaching out to give your heart a hug.
Thank you for this and wishing you the best!
When you havent had a chance to socialize with others your age, you cant be expected to know how.
I felt lonely at that age. Ive lost my family and Ive grieved at 40 a few weeks ago. Ive come back better. It's taken a while but I stuck at it at church. I hope thats something for you but I understand if it isnt.
I have borderline personality disorder. The sense of loneliness was chronic.. even with people.
Hang in there. Find something social and stick at it. Please take comfort that it's partly your age. I am still single, never married. Did prolific dating.. urgh!, that takes a degree these days. Don't stress, you've got a good grip on where you are. The rest will come. Just get out and try new things.
Felt.😊
#Never Alone
🙏🙏I'm divorced and can relate. It seems all of my so- called friends are married, getting together, play dates etc. I have young adult children and am in grad school. I realized I'm in a different season of my life and everyone is trying to fulfill that traditional lifestyle. That's why I'm on YT!😂 You are doing well and perhaps in a different season. It does feel sad but you got this! Appreciate your vulnerability and sharing.😊 You have to find those individuals that are in similar seasons as yours.
Thank you!!!
I came across your video at such accurate timing. I know exactly what you’re taking about….
Edit…had to run back to my comment when you said binge watching Stranger things lol maybe we love the same lives in different dimensions.
#neveralone
If you’re lonely then why do you feel the need to accept it ? Why not do what you can to make connections or find a life partner ? Maybe even start a family down the road ? Life is way more fulfilling sharing the journey with others . Sadness and loneliness is an invitation to relationship; it’s the beginning of a desire to know others. Be open to the possibility that your whole life could change. You could come out on the other side a new person. Becoming a wife and mom has been the deepest transformation process for me and I’m so glad I’m not who I was before .
I'm open but with less pressure :)
You are so looking beautiful. . I love you..❤