If you got to marriage counseling and continue to cohabitate would the courts in Georgia see that as condonation? I definitely wouldn't want to hurt my case by going to counseling. I am 99% sure that I want a divorce and we have agreed to do an uncontested divorce so I don't think it will matter anyway, but I want to be prepared just in case things get messy. Can you do an at-fault uncontested divorce in Georgia or would going the at-fault route automatically make it contested?
It’s four years of college for a Bachelors degree plus two more for a Masters. There is no “course” to be qualified to give professional counseling. Thank heaven.
Yes divorce is always the answer staying with a cheater only leads to a lifetime of pain and regret 95% of couples who reconcile divorce within 2 years of reconciliation divorce gives you back your self respect and dignity it's a tough road but worth it a person who stays with a cheater is suffering from stockholm syndrome
It's true,support is out there. But for those who stay and try to make it work soon find without the work or help of the cheater...you know information, details or even some kind of acknowledged of thier mistakes. It constantly makes you wonder if you've make the correct choice in staying
6:07 Statistics aside, without the cheater willing, capable, and able to do the work, you’ll suffer through their misery, lessons, etc. Do yourself a favor, drop them and move on. They didn’t deserve you. They don’t respect you, your vows, your health, the health of the relationship, etc. they were selfish, shameful, and scared. What happened to being a team? There’s plenty of marriages that talk and work things out without cheating. If you want to sleep with others, just breakup, don’t cheat. It’s way less damaging to divorce without cheating, than with. It’s post 2020. They’re so many resources and help out there, 1. who’s crazy enough to cheat? 2. Think they’ll get away with it? 3. Not seek free or even paid help? That’s bonkers. Get a reality check. Wake up!
I am curious about where you got that statistic. What is the source? Ultimately... everyone has different-no matter HOW similar-situations. So... statistics may help you feel better or worse, but they may not apply to you or your situations no matter what. Every option is hard and they all suck
@jessicaduran2498 the statistics are from the institute of family studies who gather information from divorced people who" ve divorced after reconciliation due to infidelity anyone who stays after infidelity is suffering from stockholm syndrome all you"ve done is teach the cheater how to hide it better the next time and there will always be a next time like they say once a cheater always a cheater and a leapard never changes its spots ask anyone man or woman who's stayed for the kids and they'll admit they're miserable and they made the biggest mistake of their lives
If you got to marriage counseling and continue to cohabitate would the courts in Georgia see that as condonation? I definitely wouldn't want to hurt my case by going to counseling. I am 99% sure that I want a divorce and we have agreed to do an uncontested divorce so I don't think it will matter anyway, but I want to be prepared just in case things get messy. Can you do an at-fault uncontested divorce in Georgia or would going the at-fault route automatically make it contested?
I would love to know how I take a course with you to be a counsellor please
It’s four years of college for a Bachelors degree plus two more for a Masters. There is no “course” to be qualified to give professional counseling. Thank heaven.
Yes divorce is always the answer staying with a cheater only leads to a lifetime of pain and regret 95% of couples who reconcile divorce within 2 years of reconciliation divorce gives you back your self respect and dignity it's a tough road but worth it a person who stays with a cheater is suffering from stockholm syndrome
Where did you get that statistic because I heard that 2/3 of couples stay together after cheating and that to me is CRAZY.
It's true,support is out there. But for those who stay and try to make it work soon find without the work or help of the cheater...you know information, details or even some kind of acknowledged of thier mistakes. It constantly makes you wonder if you've make the correct choice in staying
6:07 Statistics aside, without the cheater willing, capable, and able to do the work, you’ll suffer through their misery, lessons, etc. Do yourself a favor, drop them and move on.
They didn’t deserve you. They don’t respect you, your vows, your health, the health of the relationship, etc.
they were selfish, shameful, and scared. What happened to being a team?
There’s plenty of marriages that talk and work things out without cheating.
If you want to sleep with others, just breakup, don’t cheat.
It’s way less damaging to divorce without cheating, than with.
It’s post 2020. They’re so many resources and help out there,
1. who’s crazy enough to cheat?
2. Think they’ll get away with it?
3. Not seek free or even paid help?
That’s bonkers. Get a reality check. Wake up!
I am curious about where you got that statistic. What is the source?
Ultimately... everyone has different-no matter HOW similar-situations. So... statistics may help you feel better or worse, but they may not apply to you or your situations no matter what.
Every option is hard and they all suck
@jessicaduran2498 the statistics are from the institute of family studies who gather information from divorced people who" ve divorced after reconciliation due to infidelity anyone who stays after infidelity is suffering from stockholm syndrome all you"ve done is teach the cheater how to hide it better the next time and there will always be a next time like they say once a cheater always a cheater and a leapard never changes its spots ask anyone man or woman who's stayed for the kids and they'll admit they're miserable and they made the biggest mistake of their lives