People That Got Called Out On Social Media - Part 2 - REACTION
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- People That Got Called Out On Social Media - Part 2 - REACTION
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Hey guys, today on my channel we are reacting to some people who were called out on social media! I think a lot of people lie on social media...myself included. Whether its photoshop, lying about having a girlfriend, or just pretending your life is far more interesting than it actually is -- if you're going to lie on social media, be prepared to get CALLED OUT.
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Happy Halloween everyone!!
Happy Halloween !!!
To you too!
Happy Halloween
Your curls are on fleek in this video!
Happy Samahan Queen
I’m a man in his 30s & I’m saying don’t play games. If he ghosts you, forget him. Don’t stress it. Remember “worrying is like a rocking chair, it gives you something to do for a while, but it doesn’t get you anywhere”
I concur - playing games simply means you're not mature n ready for a real relationship
👏🏼
I agree 100%. I have to say, I was a bit disappointed in CD’s attitude, when she hinted that she plays games. I wish people would just stop, and open themselves up to criticism and judgment. It’s not the worst thing there is. I don’t mean hurtful insults, I just mean that letting people see your insecurities and who you really are isn’t awful. We are all very similar and very different at the same time; seeing that somebody has insecurities like you can be rewarding. It can. Really... can’t it?... what?? What’d I say?.... are you mad at me?!....😜
Yeah, game players suck, totally unnecessary, if you feel you can not be honest with a person or feel the need to play games, maybe you should not be in that relationship or maybe that person is not for you.
If a woman plays ‘hard to get’ with me, I simply play ‘no longer interested’ and move on.
i freak out when people try to take my phone from me, but i have nothing to hide, i just really hate people touching my phone.
Agree. My simple solution: I never have it out unless I am using it.
I don't like people touching anything that I'm going to hold up to my ears and mouth.
Facts
Your phone is private. It's like someone looking through your bedroom.
I feel this on a spiritual level
I don’t mind wearing a mask at all... I find it comforting.. I can hide behind it... it’s helped my anxiety a ton when I go out
That’s kind of sad. I’m not trying to be mean. That’s just really sad that you like hiding your face.
I feel the same thing, as someone who has social anxiety, I become very aware that my face shows how I feel and it really helps me calm down knowing people can't see it 🙈
100%. Also, the upper half of my face is the better looking half - so I'm far less self-conscious just walking' around.. Super convenient hah.
same here
Yes same. I've been out more with a mask on than I've been my whole life. Masks are like socks for me. I never forget to put them on
It took me 12 years to pay off my student loans. There were times, particularly in the beginning, when it was really tough, and I wasn't sure if I'd be homeless or not the next month. Back in my day they threw money at you and never explained the real ramifications and most of us were 18 and dumb. If we can stop people having to go through that we should. I simply don't understand the mentality "well I had to suffer so you should have to too."
I feel you! It took me almost 10 years to pay off my loans, but I will always think my college education was worth it. Knowledge is it's own reward 😉 🎓🎓
My super jealous ex used to flip out when i would take my phone to the bathroom. I just enjoyed looking up randomn things on Wikipedia while pooping. 🤷♀️
I still do that... I RELAX LIKRTHAT and brainstorm, while pooping 🤔😂
My husband always took his phone into the bathroom too…he’d watch funny RUclips videos, then yell for me to come see something funny!! LOL
I do that too but it's either RUclips or Hulu
Lmaooooo
Yea I agree. I don't like people touching my phone bc of a guy that used to steal my phone in my sleep (yes steal and run out of the house and leave me there with his crazy kids going wtf). I also have a hard time sleeping if people are around bc I think they're gonna take my phone and run away.... Yes I'm in therapy.
Abuse is a valid reason to be protective over your privacy. Not everyone is hiding something some people just have a high trauma response to perceived privacy invasion.
Yeah I had to explain this to my husband when we first started dating, he reached for my phone and my blood drained. My ex held me at gun point once over pictures of my hs sweetheart that had passed before I met him. I explained this to my husband and he was baffled, now we have the same passcode but he’ll only use my phone with my permission if he needs it and hands it back when he’s done he knows he can go through my phone whenever but he doesn’t, he knows my phone is a meme graveyard though.
@@Lowdermoomoo I'm so sorry that happened. That's horrific, I'm glad your husband respects your boundaries and you have developed a trust with each other. My ex was violent and possessive as well, he would see a message from my dad or brother and it would turn into hell, and if I tried to leave he would rip my stuff and choke me until I passed out, etc. He got so possessive he installed a tracker on my phone without me knowing and used it to stalk me and break into my home years after I left. I can't understand people who act this way, it is so painful to those of us who live in the aftermath. I'm sorry it's something you've had to experience, however, I'm happy to see you are in a better and safer place now.
@@Vesperrv I’m sorry you went through that too, it’s a whole different kind of hell. I hope you’re doing okay now! I hate that he left this mess for me and to clean up that affects everyone around me, and he gets to just walk around and live his life like nothing happened. I don’t wish this on anyone. It sucks.
@@Vesperrv I went to college for clinical psychology to figure it out, then I figured out why he was the way that he was and it left me more conflicted, more sad, and frustrated. It’s a shitty place to be.
@@Lowdermoomoo the only people that use my phone is my family, it's no ones business whats on my phone, i view it as my wallet.
7:20 every job deserves respect. Walmart workers worked through the pandemic. Miners gave their lives to save their community during the chernobyl disaster. My mom saved a senior in a medical emergency while delivering mail. When I worked at a pizza place, I saved a home from burning down and another time I walked to work when I was off because a storm took out power for several days in my area and the pizza place was the only place to get hot food in the area. I felt really good helping out even though I was only getting minimum wage. And don't sell yourself short, RUclipsrs have helped me through the isolation of 2020. I love it here.
Just try to imagine the world without people of certain profession, and you will instantly respect them more.
As someone who worked their ass off to get scholarships for college, I have no issues with others getting their loans forgiven. It feels very self centered when people get mad about this, in my opinion. We should all want people to succeed and do well.
Absolutely ! That was my thoughts on it also ! I'd be happy
For others! I'd love to see other people get better and have better lives etc. But I'm happy in my life ,so I think many who are miserable ,don't want happiness and better things to others sadly !
Positive vibes ✌🏻☮️🌻 your a good soul .
I paid off my student loans LITERALLY less than a month before student loan forgiveness passed. I was only pissed that I paid them off too fast. I'm happy that a new generation of students doesn't have to bear a much debt as I did. Don't be meanspirited. It's sour grapes and nothing more.
@Debby Southworth The next generation will inherit their debt as well as everyone before them.
We are entering the most broke generation ever but they don't even see it coming.
Former service technician for a commercial energy management company here... the slits in the door panel are what provide airflow. Heat naturally rises, so a natural draft is created by the warmer air escaping from the top vents while drawing air in through the bottom vents. They help keep all that expensive equipment happy :) You could take the door off the hinges and overlay a zen-ish wall paper or something to match your other wall art (just dont block the vents).
About the phone thing. Freaking out because someone reached for your phone “even as a joke” doesn’t mean hiding something. Honestly plenty of people just find that incredibly disrespectful and a violation of trust, even if they themselves are 100% honest and faithful. Ask, don’t grab. Also, personally it freaks me out because people reaching for my belongings without permission is a big no no, call it trust issues but I’ve had stuff damaged from people “playing”
Abso-friggin-lutely! I don't like people going through my briefcase, handbag, laptop or phone. I have nothing to hide...it's just mine!
I had (past tense) a friend who used to think it was funny to tap my screen when I was already typing something. I still have no idea what she did, but she completely f'd up a setting and I couldn't figure out how to fix it. Years later, my daughter tries it and I hate.
I agree wholeheartedly. I tend to be very protective of my stuff. If I let one of my friends in my room, you better believe I laying down some boundaries. Don't touch my stuffed animals or electronics without my permission, no shoes or socks on my bed, no throwing things, ask before you touch ANYTHING! I have had stuff stolen and broken from careless "friends". If I want to show you something on my phone/kindle fire, I'll do it myself. Try to touch my device and I'll break your fingers.
@@isabelyork3265 ok a bit extreme, work on your anger issues if you still want to have friends
100% agree. Everyone has a phone nowadays. Why do you need to to use someone else's? If anything I think that says more about the person who feels to need to monitor someone else's phone use.
Charlotte, your telecommunication closet needs air circulation to keep cool. I would not advise covering the vents. This is coming from a 10 year cable tech.
@@tabaxikhajit4541 that makes no fucking sense. dude was saying her routers and other electrinics that are in that little closet thing need to be vented, its a safety hazzard. has nothing to do with art
@@sherm4421 I could be wrong, but I think he meant she should just leave it as it is, and we should enjoy it as art itself, like those who see the toilet in a museum as art or whatever. Then again, could be wrong. ;oD
LOL at the "millenials are so helpless they take adulting classes". When I asked my great grandma (90yrs old) how she was so good at cooking and knitting she responded "When I married I was bored so I took classes in town". It's nothing new 😅
You need air flow to routers or they overheat so please be careful in covering those vents! That’s why why’re there in the first place :)
Charlotte likes plants. A nice tall plant would look nice, & hide the door.
@@crichtonbruce4329 or she could paint a plant on the wall,maybe glue some fake leaves ,so she can open the door all the way
Charlotte put up a wall vignette - the stick on ones. Some are words - a favorite poem or saying, some are florals and some are various scenes. It would put something in that space, NOT cover the vents and leave it looking better than just the vent door. I have to say, I agree with Ellie Sharps comment about the router(s) needing air flow, so I would discourage you from 'blocking' the vents with anything. Pt a frame around the 'edges' of the door, paint with chalk paint and you could put a different message on every day. OR.....assuming the door is 'metal' - you could make it a magnetic board and put up magnets in the shapes of things you love. There are all sorts of magnets you can buy - large and small - flowers, palm trees, tropical drinks, cars, animals, seasonal, holidays, etc. Just don't cover up the vents and you'll be fine. The vents will 'blend' in and no one will notice them.
@@amatije Yup, some decent wall art is a great idea. Whatever is used, it can't interfere with or distract from the shot, so that limits lots of stuff.
Or remove the door and make a feature of it with some feature making things.
I totally turn my phone over when I am in meetings, or out to Dinner. To me, it is a sign of courtesy.
Amen
I turn off the ringer and leave it in my purse!!
I put it in my pocket or do that, even with my friends who know I am trashy, messy and promiscuous. It is to pay attention to them, not to grindr.
Same here!
Sometimes I don't have a bag and my tiny girl pockets won't hold it at the restaurant so its on the table. Turned over, on its side, propped up to hold the menu, whatever as long as I'm focused on the person I'm with.
"It'd also be a slap in the face to people who got scholarships..." I had full ride scholarships and funding for my education, but I recognize how lucky I am and don't want the vast majority of less-privileged people to spend their lives struggling with crippling debt.... That would only be a slap in the face if I was a narcissist....
I agree. I also worked very hard to get my full ride, but I have no problem with student debt being cancelled for others. It seriously sucks having to already study hard in hs, then applications, then on top of that having to compete for money to go to college. I would seriously be happy for future college students if they didn’t have to do that. Ofc I’d be a bit envious and wish it could have happened for me, but it’s the past now and I’d be glad if it wouldn’t have to happen in the future.
Exactly education should be accessed to everyone. Not just those who can go really hard. It's normal to not be 100% goof at everything and anything. Especially since lots of people have troubles in school because of ableism. Weather I did good in school or did bad, I deserve the right to go to college and expand my education. Theres literally no down side, if someone almost flunked high school, but they want to go to college to become more educated, then they should be able to go. Loans and how well you did in school gate keep education so much. Why must I be a prodigy to go to college for less. I also believe we need to let people go to school longer than the minimum time. Many colleges including community one require students to graduate in the least about of time, if you are not a full time student you will not be funded. Which keeps even more people from going. Hell even going to a class because you want to learn isn't allowed, I couldn't take an art class for fun with out paying 3,000 at my local community College. Lastly the cost for stuff for college is predatory, especially to those who technically don't meet the needs for financial aid. You really expect a 19 year old to pay 500 dollars on a used book or 300 dollars to rent it?
I first went to college in the early 80's, dropped out about 20 credits short of a degree and went back ten years ago. One three credit class ten years ago cost as much as I'd paid for a semester at a public university in the 80s. There's no reason for prices to have inflated so much. Worse yet, it's not like college professors make good salaries -- so where is all that money going??? Outsized college debt is a major reason why millennials are struggling to become established in their own homes. I'm not a millennial but I do feel for them. The economy in the mid-eighties (right after I left college) was bad but it wasn't THIS bad.
Free college isn’t going to happen to matter what politician is in office. You don’t have to go to college. You can get a trade skill or move up in a company. I can see making obtaining marketable skills free, but not feminist body positive gender studies
@@alexiakelley4245 I don’t think it so much needs to be free college per say, but affordable college. And while community colleges are generally more affordable, it’s still a lot for some people, especially those working a low paying job and barely making ends meet. While I agree not getting a college degree and moving up in a company could be an alternative, from what I’ve seen and experienced that’s a rarity. It works for some people but for a lot of others it just turns into a dead end job and a repeating cycle. And employers who actually pay yearly salaries or decent wages tend to want a bachelor’s degree nowadays (or at least prefer them), even for basic company positions. I do think it’s good that they’ve started doing loan forgiveness programs for some degrees, like for a lot of education majors. I think that is something that should become more common acrossed the board. Obviously with adequate provisions and requirements, but I think it would help a lot of people. I’m currently an elementary/special education major, and the pel grant I got is honestly the only reason I could afford to go back to college, so thankfully I don’t have to worry about loans yet. But I just feel like there has to be a better way to create the system. And I’m not by any means trying to be rude or start and argument. This is just 3 a.m. thoughts meant as friendly discussion :)
As a mom who has had her phone broken a few times from innocent touching & curiosity, I automatically freak out & immediately defend my phone whenever anyone reaches for it.
People always call out Millenials for not knowing how to do things, but for some reason never call out their parents for not having taught it to them in the first place.
I'm a parent of millennials..and I always say the SAME thing. 💯
people also usually have no clue that the Gen Z'ers theyre calling millenials, arent millennials.
As a former teacher of millennials, I can honestly say they were virtually all born with all the knowledge they would ever need to know and knew better than their teachers and their parents! Now they realise they know nothing and blame their teachers and parents, hmm 🤔
@@tsrgoinc for the sake of science, how old is a millennial?
@@JmanEspresso born between 1981 and 1996 so age 25 to 40.
“If you freak out if some grabs you’re phone even as a a joke you’re hiding something fO sHo” or you had abusive parents and never had privacy so now you protect any privacy you have.
i don't freak out, but i do get annoyed, and let it be known. i had a pretty private life as a child. but that extends to my adulthood, it's my phone and my privacy. i don't see why people think they would have a right to it.
I have nothing to hide, but I do value my privacy. I don't really get the whole "if you don't want to share with the whole world, you must be hiding something" mentality. I don't really freak out if someone grabs my phone; I just consider it rude, like reading someone's diary without permission.
I once freaked out when my mother started going through my phone after I asked her to skip a song while I was driving. I, like many others, had nothing to hide. It was our agreement that when I got a phone my mom would be allowed to look through it every once in a while just to check up I guess. But the other side of that is that she had to ask me first or tell me she was going through my phone. I freaked out because she took advantage of a moment of trust that I gave her to change my music while I was incapable. If she would have asked if she could look through my phone s well I would have been fine with it. Idk, phones are just a private little world and people taking advantage to snoop around in it hurts.
I’m usually a pretty open person prone to over sharing, but if you take my phone without permission and proceed to go through it I will do whatever I need to to get it back, I don’t care who you are, my phone is mine and no one is allowed to touch my stuff without permission
I get weirdly private about stuff but only because my parents are stupidly nosy and intrusive.
From what I know The Sims isn't about being empathic or constructive but turning the city into a hellscape where everyone is captured in the same pool. Or maybe I'm doing it wrong...
and multiple dlcs.
Or ruthlessly use them as actors to get your Bachelor's degree thesis. I'm not even kidding, I graduated uni thanks to Sims 2.
I have played Sims all my life and have never killed a Sim. Also didn't make them suffer in any way.
I guess Sims is different for everyone.
This is me lol
@Mik mak This is the way.
My ex-husband was cheating on me often and would constantly grab and look through my phone to "prove" I was also doing it. I wasn't, and I still get defensive years later when people grab my phone without my permission
"Millenials are so helpless".... um who raised those millenials not to know super basic skills like how to sew a button? Maybe its not their fault, ever thought of that Patricia?
I'm not a millenial but I learned (and many others of by age group) to sew buttons in Home Ec classes. So...I'm not sure where this Millenial hate is coming from especially since that's how we learned.
@@sandradee6289 Younger kids don’t have the same experience we did. They grew up in a digital world where it’s not “Sticks and stones may break your bones.”
My little brother used to love Legos but now it’s Fortnite and TikTok.. Judging by the college campuses, parents seem to be raising kids to be lazy, entitled and to be offended by everything rather than walking away from idiots who say stupid things.
I knew how to sew at a young age, I do agree though it has to be taught or they obviously won’t know how.
Who never bothered to learn basic skills now that they’re an adult?
@@sethralavode9012 I know grown ass adults who don’t know how to use a washing machine.
Phones are one of the most personal things we own. Banking info, social media, pictures, other sort of apps tracking various functions…I do have private info on my phone and I don’t let people touch it lol
I know right… my phone is literally like my diary to me, It suprises me immensely when others don’t mind sharing their phones as I could never do that… I guess I am just a private person.
"We're disabled Daniel. We're not werewolves." 😁😁🤣🤣 I'm dead. Lol
That was a pretty good comeback. 🤯
The Scotsman was hilarious!
I actually have nothing to hide in my phone since I barely keep (or even use) my phone. But I still hate it when someone just grab my phone for any reasons.
I will give you the phone if you asked. Otherwise, DO NOT TOUCH IT.
Exactly. Those things are expensive, and everyone has their own. If someone needs to use my phone, they can ask. It's rude to just grab anything that doesn't belong to you, especially when that thing is pricey and fragile.
*Precisely.*
same. goes with valet and any other personal pocessions the same. basic manner. or should be.
In a time of covid, I ain't want your nasty ass unwashed hands on something Imma put on my face. Deal with it.
I don't know if I have anything to hide. Once a week I get a ride home from work by a guy I grew up with, who is also technically an ex...the only one I can still stand...because when I work my midnight shift my husband won't pick me up even though he has the next day off. He knows how to unlock my phone even though I don't know how to unlock his. I don't even flirt with my ex but I do talk to him when my husband pisses me off (I don't mention that my husband an I are fighting) My husband an I have a don't ask don't tell situation with how I get home from work "because he trusts me" is either/both of us being stupid?
"We're disabled, we're not werewolves Daniel."..I laughed so hard I almost peed my pants and woke up my husband. Lol 😆 🤣 😆
It always makes me laugh, no matter how many times i've seen it.
Lol I'm using that 😂
It is hilarious but I do question her knowledge of how werewolves work, they can totally be out on Saturday and Sunday afternoons.
I think touching someone’s phone is a little like touching their wallet. Both can contain information that is meant to be private. Don’t touch without permission. Also, phones are germy, people don’t sanitize them often, and we are in a pandemic. 🙅♀️
I can see that, but sensitive information shouldn’t be easy to open if you are afraid of others knowing that stuff like how much money you have or something. Also that’s just extra security if your phone gets stolen. But freaking out will only make the other person suspicious. It gives me so much comfort that my bf leaves for work with his computer unlocked with his fb open on the screen and the chats open at the bottom and he gave me his password. I also know his phone password and he lets me go through and pick music while in the car or to respond to people for him or mute chats that’s are being too active. I also keep reminding him of my phone passwords cause he keeps forgetting and I want him to feel I’m being just as open and not have him afraid I’m hiding anything. He says he doesn’t care but I still want him to know. I also told him my laptop password and I let him go in and change my email password when he was setting me up with a Minecraft account for my birthday. I still have that password to this day cause he changed it to something sweet. But he is so forgetful lol Never remembers any of them. We have been together for 2 years and he still struggles to remember my birthday lol He is so bad with dates and passwords lol
My point is, being open about those things makes your partner trust you even more and hopefully because of that trust never feels the need to snoop in the first place. I know I have never snooped on my bf’s stuff cause I trust him completely with how open and honest he is. I got suspicious once cause he kept hiding his screen while texting someone for a while and I got worried, turns out he set up a group chat to arrange a surprise birthday party for me a week before the quarantine started and I was afraid I wouldn’t get to celebrate. Afterwards he showed me the whole chat lol
Being secretive with your phone makes people scared of what you may be hiding, especially when you are someone they should feel comfortable sharing anything with. But of course respect people’s belongings if they aren’t comfortable with it, just figure out if you are comfortable with them being secretive.
Agreed. Also, freaking out is very subjective. I have nothing to hide but I still get nervous if my spouse has my phone...Not because I have anything to hide, but because I don't want anything to offend them and it's super irrational. I've learned that it's better to just ASK (because heathy communication is better than letting your insecurities get the best of you) if you think something is going on.
@@necroneko6798 my last partner broke my stuff so I get iffy if people touch my things
Agreed, also my case has my drivers licence, two work badges and emergency 20€ tucked in. Also I don't like people pulling this kind of "jokes".
True. And don't forget cybersecurity. People could easily put a hidden tracking app like spywear/stalkerwear on the phone. NO one wants that.
For the fact that Journey was the FIRST response to that challenge of “make a game that teaches empathy”. I’ve played a lot of heartwrenching games, but MY HEART. I cry every time I play that game. One of the best games ever made hands down.
I am almost 30 years old and I am STILL addicted to the Sims, hence my picture is my simself 😬🤣
I'm 54 on the 7th and was playing earlier. hahaha!
32 and the Sims is awesome
haha facts
Sims is the best
Oooh meee to its ok :) sims is an amazing game. ❤❤
You’re not always hiding something when you don’t want someone to touch your phone. This is friggin hilarious.
When you need a moment before you allow anyone to type ANYTHING into the address bar
As an introvert, I love wearing a mask. When I worked in retail, I loved wearing a mask. I STOPPED fake smiling to customers. 🙂🙂🙂
I like the being able to make faces or talk to myself without anyone knowing
@@ceilphantomhive921 people know. After all this time, we are learning to read the eyes.
Whatever makes you happy 🎉
it's also easier to pretend you didn't recognize someone you don't want to talk to hehehe
@@2Btoobee this worked mostly at my retail job at the time. I HATED smiling to people. And still do 😆
The fact that you played the Sims just makes me so happy!! I got HOOKED when it first came out, way back in 2000, and it's an addiction that has never faded!
I get so much anxiety if someone else has my phone because my parents abused my privacy in high school. I'm never hiding anything but it just brings up flashbacks. 😬
Sameeeeeeeeee
Yep, I dont get why anyone thinks that reading someone else's private business is ok to start with. Dont invade my privacy, its rude. If I want you to read something on my phone I will invite you to do so, otherwise, keep your grubby nose out of my business.
This, a friend of mine had to keep a phone at mine to text her own relatives, it was heartbreaking to see and I had a chat with her new bf not long after they got together, explained this and he's been absolutely amazing since, if he needs to use hers because is his dead or something, he will ALWAYS sit where she can see the screen so he knows she's comfortable and it just honestly warms my heart, he knows it's not a cheating thing, and he's doing his best to help ❤️
A lot of people also have their banking information on their phones, accounts that are currently signed into, or folders that contain all the passwords to every account or device they own... why in gods name would anyone trust someone to just snatch their phone and do as they please or look at whatever they please??
It doesn’t matter if they’re your bf/gf, husband/wife, friend, or your own flesh and blood... there are many cases of spouses, friends and family doing bad things with that information or that amount of access to your accounts/devices ESPECIALLY if they’re jealous, insecure, or have some sort of anger towards you
Trust *someone else* with my phone that has my social accounts logged into and open so they can post or message whatever the heck they like to whomever the heck they like and *IIIIIIiiii* have to live with the social/financial/job consequences of it for the rest of my life? *I think not*
Trust someone else to have access to my phone where they can make purchases or see private information that they can then give away if they get pissed at me for whatever reason or are vengeful because I broke up with them or refused to “take the next step” with them(marriage and/or sex)? *F*** *that!*
Maybe it’s because i grew up with an unpredictable sister that I think about this stuff
she’s my sister and I love her but her behaviors and mindset can flip like a switch I tell ya
One minute she’s sweet as can be and the next minute she’s in an extreme fit of rage and out to destroy everything in sight(you, her, property, reputations, finances, bodily harm...) and then the next minute she’s crying and apologizing and then the next day she’s back to her sweet self
She refuses to get help so everyone in my family has had to deal with this kinda “switch-flip” thing repeatedly
I grew up with her so I’ve seen this all my life and know that there’s another side of the coin... but other people? I don’t know man 🤦♀️ ... new people come into her life(friends/bf’s, coworkers) and they see her sweet side and have no idea there’s a metaphorical bus coming to hit them in the near future
Because of that, I often think “do you really ever truly know someone that you haven’t been around most your life? This person I’ve become friends/lovers with could totally have another side to them that’s capable of things beyond what I think they’d do/say to me and I just haven’t seen it yet because up til this point, I have made them happy, agreed with them on most everything, haven’t gotten into any big arguments with them, and maybe were still in the phase where they feel they have to be ‘super nice’ and ‘laugh at all my jokes’ or ‘hold in their farts’ so they’re not gonna let me see that side yet”... and for that reason, I wouldn’t just let somebody grab and/or go through my phone
Everyone in my life does things like cover their hand as they’re typing their PIN number in the grocery store or at the atm or has password locks on their phones. I don’t take it personal or assume that they must be up to something. It’s just safety and privacy
I understand how people could feel someone must be hiding something if they don’t want you looking at or grabbing their phone(though you shouldn’t be doing that without permission anyway since it doesn’t belong to you and probably just raises more red flags in the other persons head, making them think you’re the overly jealous/overly insecure type who will constantly create problems where there is none... causing a rift between you two till you eventually break up) but if you have suspicions just ask questions or ask if they can show you(it’ll probably upset the other person that you don’t trust them but it’s better than snatching or going through things without permission or behind someone’s back and making you’re self look crazy or like a giant red flag while you’re at it)
Big same
i had a spinal fusion, my surgeon worked on me for 12 hours straight with not one break, wearing a mask the entire time.
no one can say they can’t wear one while shopping lol
EXACTLY. Doctors, nurses, and health care professionals wear them all day while saving lives. I wore a mask for the entire 19 hours that I was in labor with my son. Something tells me that he can wear it to go get his latte.
There is a small % of people with legit breathing problems who can't wear a mask. For the rest, I think they're just opposed for political reasons or because its impinging on their personal freedoms. I see wearing a mask as being a good neighbor. I'm in a low risk group, but that doesn't mean I should be running around endangering everyone else, especially when wearing a mask is really such an easy and inexpensive thing to do.
Incorrect. Wearing a mask and walking lowers my O2 SATs to the point where I need to use my rescue inhaler after 15 minutes. I have asthma, so I find wearing a thin gator satisfies the rules but I can breathe better and it does exactly the same as thing as any mask available to the general public.
@@xo2quilt Then dont go out, order what you need or have other people get it for you
@@DenDarEmi I work, I don't think anyone wants to work for me and give me the money. If you are worried about the Wuhan flu, then stay home, mask/glove up, get the shot and don't worry about what others have decided is right for them.
As someone currently in debt for college, I don't want other people to go through it. Doesn't seem like a slap in the face, but envy and desire to want other people to hurt like you do.
I literally came here to say this. I only had 6k in student loan debts (went to school online) so I got off easier than most. It took me from 2008 until 2017 to pay that off because of the interest put on the loans. I wouldn't wish that stress on anyone. I have already decided that if my kids want to do traditional college I will do whatever I have to do to make sure they don't have to take out student loans. No one should have to start their lives in debt like that and they shouldn't have to join the service to avoid that. Keep your head up, it'll take a lot of work, but hopefully you can pay yours off too.
@@DeadxRed 💛
To cancel student debt means the tax payers foot the bill. My son is a tradesman, didn’t go to college but works physically hard for his money every day. So yes, if you choose to go into a high amount of debt and want it “canceled” you are slapping the people who made different choices and work very hard in the face.
@@vsand9798few things. People in college also work hard. That's how we get doctors, lawyers, chemists, like the literal researchers who created the COVID vaccine. So yes, even if your tradesmen son works hard. So does everyone else, and so many career paths require a degree, like idk what your saying? And if your son had kids who wanted to go to school, this problem can still effect him personally? Parents also can easily go into debt trying to help their kids with tution.
Also, an extension into financial help for tradesschools is probs a better fight than saying everyone can drown.
Lastly, while I don't give two shits if my taxes have to be raised, there are also other options? Like taxing the wealthiest part of america, when many pay nothing vs raising the average tax payer. literally, instead of raising taxes, funds could be rearranged. Like the estimate for the yearly cost of free 4 year schools in American is 80 billion. Our military budget is 686 billion.
America is the 3rd most expensive country for schooling. Free school can give oppruntunities to people who came poor. Like me. So did I choose college and debt for no reason? No. Being trapped in menial labor is easy to do when you don't have shit growing up, I don't want people to keep not having school as an option. And I don't think the offense of following what you want to do should should make people indebted forever.
@@vsand9798 first of all have you ever looked at any billing from a higher education institution? They charge ridiculous amounts of money for things students don't need or utilize. Like sports medicine. A studeny majoring in basic education isn't going to utilize the sports medicine office, but they are charged for it anyway. Their meal plans are outrageous on top of that. And how do you figure canceling out college debt is going to hurt tax payers? Canceling means voiding, like it never existed. The only ones who will suffer are the colleges and loan companies that put people in these situations in the first place. Example: the college I worked for started out with school colors that were black and white. When they decided to purchase a charter bus, they went with gold and blue, because it was the cheaper bus. The college then had to repaint and redecorate the entire college, along with changing all of the uniforms, signs, pamphlets etc. This was before this specific school became a state college. Obviously most of these traditional colleges aren't hurting for the money they get for tuition etc.
I’m a Millennial, and that post got me thinking - all my high school and college friends who didn’t know how to “adult” (including an ex) were raised by Karens. I feel like there’s a pattern here…..😅
9:50 I asked my bf this once (I was a bit tipsy) and he said "I would still love you but I would no longer be sexually attracted to you, as I am straight" and I think that's the ideal answer
That's the kind of hypothetical that can make the bf think it's a bit more than a hypothetical. Especially if he's aiming for marriage and kids, bringing this sort thing up might not be the best for one's relationship, depending on what stage it is in.
Thats the problem. "I had to pay for my education and everyone else should to" is like saying "i suffered so you should suffer to". Kind of a selfish outlook. We should want better for others even if it means they have it "easier".
Swear notice how people who went through mass genocides like the Holocaust aren’t mad because the future generations won’t have to it makes no sense for someone to be upset about having to pay for school and their kids won’t, narcissistic behavior at it’s finest
Seriously! It’s not a “slap in the face” for anyone if people get their debt forgiven. Yes it would be lovely if we could go back in time and stop debt from ever happening but obviously that is impossible. We can’t keep refusing to make things better just because some people had it worse.
agreed 100%. if a child is very smart, but the family does not have the money, why not help a little bit. it makes the world a better place. instead of people just being in it for themselves.
I don’t have a problem with people getting financial aid so long as they’re responsible with it. My problem with canceling student debt is that many of the people I see complaining about it squandered their funds as students. They’re the ones who took out too many loans because they blew their money on drinking, vacations, etc. It’s a slap in the face for those of us who have worked to pay off our debt and scrimped as students when we hear those who didn’t complain about their debt. I’m not saying every person with student debt is like this, but I’ve known enough people who are and don’t deserve to have it erased.
I also think that a lot of universities and colleges are overpriced and need to find a way to make degrees more affordable. But making it free, or just eliminating debt completely, is not the answer. Someone will always have to pay for it in the long run.
@@emilyzahora3330 I'm sure that's what people thought when they stopped charging for high school educations. Rada rada I'm an old person and those damn kids are just gonna piss away there education rada rada.
The door has vent holes on it to release the heat. Don't block it. Your routers etc will overheat.
As a cashier, I agree 110 percent. My favorite part of this job is helping my customers save money.
It kinda is like a slap in the face? Well, let them be slapped then =.= still not a valid excuse to not fix a broken system..
As someone who paid off all her student loans... I HOPE everyone gets to experience that same freedom
The problem is people choosing majors that aren’t in a field that’s in demand, gender studies isn’t going to give you debt freedom when there’s no jobs in that field. Trade schools and majors that actually have jobs available are being avoided. People will go 4 years knowing that their not going to be making 6 figures or even above poverty, with the degree they paid for so people need to actually look at the job markets and see what is the best option to be successful post college. Not to say NO one will get jobs within there field but today kids don’t make the best choices when it comes to degrees and then stuck with debt wanting others to pay for it bc of THEIR choices. That’s a big along with tuition but you see who’s charging the most and people keep paying for it so it won’t change unless of course the government comes saves you from the school YOU applied to and accepting knowing what they charge.
@@lawless8850 the problem is that it shouldn't be that expensive to begin with.
Last I checked, something that was hard for you becoming easier...WAS A GOOD THING! How are people seeing it as a slap in the face, it doesn't take away from what they did...people confuse me.
@@lawless8850 so what, you're supposed to choose the profession you're gonna stay in for the majority of your life and pay hundreds of thousands of dollars to get a degree for based off what's going to make you money and not what you actually like? regardless of the fact that many jobs that require a degree (sometimes multiple degrees), like social work & teaching, are necessary for a functioning society and don't give six figure wages. if everyone chose their career based on what makes money, we'd have millions of people trained to be ceos & engineers (and would they even have work in this scenario with thousands of other competing ceos & engineers?) and no one doing the other work that gives less pay but is nonetheless required to have a functioning society
I freak out when people try to touch my phone because I have anxiety and strict personal space boundaries that it took me several decades to teach myself 🤷🏼
so you do have something to hide
I just don’t like people picking up my things. Whether it’s my phone, my pen, my notebook, my hairbrush. Just no, it gives me anxiety ....
Phones are worth a small fortune now....im not letting anyone touch my iphone that I got instead of paying rent. :)
I think about how people crowded around each other, coughed, sneezed, didn't wash their hands, went out in public and to work sick, and that was before Covid. Honestly after all this time I'm not sure I'll ever want to be without a mask and sanitizer.
The one about the handicap parking actually made me angry. I have a physical disability. We had a handicap sign put out in front of our home about 3 years ago. It has barely helped me. Everyone constantly illegally parks in front of it. Businesses are the worst for it. Some people have zero respect for people with disabilities. Sad, but true.
Sorry that you have to deal with those jerks. :|
@@Springfairy92, thank you for your words.
Outside my university halls, the disabled parking spaces were always being used by contractors. I had a disabled permit and sometimes had to park halfway across campus because the contractors couldn't be bothered to park 10 feet further from the door
@@grouch314, that's horrible. I tried emailing a company that did the same thing. They could have so easily parked a few metres further back, & they wouldn't have been illegally in the zone. My email was completely ignored. On Facebook, one day, I posted photos of company vans that had disregarded the handicap sign, to let people know which companies were unprofessional & disrespectful. I basically called them out on Facebook. I also left them negative reviews on their business sites. Most of these companies were window installer/repair services.
I am an amputee. I never realized how poor disabled people were treated until I became one
I flip my phone over all the time, I’m not hiding anything or cheating. I simply want to make sure something doesn’t fall on the screen and crack it.
There’s no airflow through it but the vents on the little door for the router space is necessary so everything doesn’t overheat and possibly catch on fire. So I think a thinner tapestry might work, but the door needs to be able to vent.
Agreed. Maybe a painting/artwork on a canvas would be ok as it wouldn't rest directly on those vents but have a little gap. It might be a good idea to get something you can take down easily and leave off most of the time and just put there for filming.
Exactly, vents wouldn't be there if they weren't needed. Well, they would be if it was something else before but, you know what I mean, the vents are necessary. lol
Vents shouldn't be obstructed in any way.
@@diyi75 I think she was paying attention to aesthetics and not meaning for utilities
Putting a painting on blocks so it'll stand an inch or so off the wall will still allow ventilation and you won't see the gap on camera
If my wife asked me that sex change question and followed my uncomfortable defusing laugh with a "I'm not joking", I would be the one packing up my stuff.
Before the pandemic, my brother and his frieds had a rule that all phones go face down in the middle of the table, and the first one to pick theirs up before dinner was done had to pay for everyone.
Don’t put anything solid over it the “cabinet”. It does need airflow to let the heat out that the router/modem causes or it could get hot, damage electronics. Something that is “breathable” over it. Tie die thin scarf or thin flag type thing...
Agreed. I think the tapestry idea was best
THIS. Routers get hot AF. Not only can they get damaged, they could start a fire. Preserve the air flow!
Or put the picture on blocks so that it stands an inch or so off the wall to allow for ventilation. You shouldn't see it on camera
Could build a cabinet with slots on sides and no bottom, then paint it white. The fabric is also a fire hazard.
@@chaunybuck6065 no, that is literally the worst idea. See those vents? Vents are not decorative. They are there for a reason, a tapestry is a large, dense hanging fabric that will cling to those vents, blocking airflow. Best option is to paint the door itself, incorporating the vents into the scenery/background and painting the trim as a frame.
Canceling student debt isn't a slap in the face to those who struggled to get through school or out of debt, it should be an empathic reaction to stop the corrupt system from taking advantage of future generations.
Imagine that logic of "well I suffered so you might as well too so I don't feel insulted," was applied to other things.
So you’d be willing to be a college professor and not get paid?
I love when Charlotte shares lil bits of her life😂 I must know Everything! 💜
I am confused, I am French and we pronounce "colonnel" just like we write it there are no "r" sounds in there. To me a "kernel" is corn before it is popped...
DAMN !!! moi non plus , je ne sais pas d'où sort ce "r" !!!
Spot on. French doesn't even acknowledge the "r's" that do appear in words. Chercher, ce soir, aller, bonjour.
Here, honey, let me explain it to you: French and English are different languages.
@@Dan_Chiron Hey sweetheart, I'm responding to something Charlotte is saying about french language so watch the video before you post a condescending and useless comment 😉
@@rebeccabigwest The ''r'' is pronounced in 3 of the 4 words you gave as examples lol French does acknowledge the r's, just not all the time
I actually disagree with the whole 'your hiding something if you freak out if someone takes your phone'. I just don't like people taking my stuff ^^"
Great Vid
Same. If a date ever just reached over and grabbed my phone to show me something I would not appreciate it. Never touch other peoples belongings without asking first. js
The ONLY person who can just grab my phone any time is my wife. Anyone else is a big NOPE!!
I feel the same way . I just don’t like anyone touching my stuff.
Just plain rude to grab another person’s phone
Or some of us grew up with parents who were so controlling that you become really private about EVERYTHING...I used to hide my books as a kid because if I left them out, my dad would toss them in the trash, so...yeah. Whoops! LOL
I love the one about working as a package delivery driver and how the person replied “a job is a job” I work at Pizza Hut as a delivery driver and I have been told my job isn’t something to be proud of... I was like damn.... I was just grateful someone gave me a chance and is giving me money for my hard work.
3:13 As a french native ESL, I had that english word. It's just one of the many french words than made it into english, but somehow for this one they decided the pronunciation should not match at all the spelling. Like wtf 🤣
Sometimes, routers,etc. can get overheated. There should always be a vent where they are.
Find an artist to paint the actual door. Leaving the vents clear. 😎❤️
as a child of immigrants that speaks somewhere between 2 and 2.5 languages, I can say I am pretty sure I wasn't speaking much of anything at 2, much less any actual intelligible language
Well your parents are obviously peasants. So........
No you maybe ...all my nephews and nieces do ..now as a teenager they speak 3 and some 4...
Well that’s your experience :) I could speak 3 languages at that age, far from perfection of course hahaha but I was understood by most of my multilingual family members.
@@solarose7820 I think that's what he means by saying he wasn't speaking much of anything. My daughter is 3 and bilingual but I would have never bragged about her speaking two languages at 2. At 2, she barely could put together a coherent sentence. I don't see her being barely coherent in two different languages as something to brag about. That's just me though.
@@melodramatic7904 so very true
No. It’s called privacy. Yes, a lot of people freak out because they’re up to something but a lot of the time, it’s some deep seeded anxiety people have about privacy. I developed a lot of anxiety because my mother would look over my shoulder when I was doing anything on the computer. I was mostly writing my book. But the fact that she couldn’t leave me alone and trust me was the bigger issue.
So let me get this straight ~ it would be a slap in the face to forgive student debt to everyone who already paid their debt, or who worked to earn the tuition before going to school? Does that mean that universal healthcare so that every can be taken care of is a slap in the face to anyone who died because they couldn't afford to go to a doctor? Maybe we can just accept that our education (and healthcare) system is classist and elitist and that it needs to be fixed to make it more affordable for everyone going forward.
It's exactly what's going on in The Netherlands right now. We used to have free schooling, and then in 2015 we switched to a loan system. Understandably we were all very upset about this, and it's going to be switched back in 2023, but it does mean that 8 years of students (about 1 million) is left with debts. The current government promised the people they ripped off about €3000,- back, but that's nothing compared to the debt. It's a horrible situation to be in
Yeah, it is like saying that inventing cure for cancer is "slap in the face" to those who already died.
5:25 They forget Zelda: Breath of the Wild. You get all kind of rewards for helping others, in fact, it would be very hard if not impossible to complete the game without helping others.
"We're not werewolves." That's hilarious.
I couldn't believe the person thought that those with disabilities shouldn't be allowed out at night. Like WTF?
'If you freak out when someone is grabbing your phone, you are hiding something'
I like to keep hiding my ugly selfies, don't wanna traumatize people
If you think they’re ugly and don’t want someone to see them, why do you keep them?
@@jenyj89 because she wants to look at them?
@@jenyj89 not everyone takes pictures for others to see lol
I have my phone face down when I'm not using it to protect the screen in case something happens. Also I would freak out if someone randomly grabbed my phone just because it is my property and it's expensive, not because I'm hiding something. If someone asks first to use my phone that's a different story. Love your videos btw. Making my way through them all.
It may be true that people freak out if you take their phone because they're hiding something, but they could just be used to family or partners snooping and invading privacy and being yelled at for little things.
When I think fake ID, I think of McLovin.
the scotmans wasn't being too harsh. I think he said he expects that girl to have the same life expectancy of 13th century scotland because she's risking her life not wearing a mask during covid. I don't think he was wishing death on her.
She could also potentially be non-symptomatically infected, and be spreading the disease to others by not wearing the mask. While it does help to protect the wearer, it protects those from the wearer more. She needs to suck it up and be responsible and caring of others around her.
Yeah, I think the last bit was him being sarcastic. Like "have fun dying of a virus you could have prevented getting," knowing there's nothing fun about it.
You're right. I wish people (including our host) would learn to read.
9:58 is such a classy "clap back" 🤣😂🤣😂 *snaps*
The reason i freak out when someone grabs my phone without asking first is because my toxic ex-friend once read my private messages without asking and would NOT give me my phone back (i even tried to yank it back but she got fussy when i tried and i was scared). My messages aren't bad and i would've shown her them if she asked first but.. she didn't ask. It felt very invasive.
Keep in mind those vents are there for allowing heat out from your servers. Overheating could cause problems.
Truth
I just basically said the same thing
A good reason for a tapestry, it would allow for air flow. Would it allow enough air flow though?
@@FilthyBitchGunClub no it wouldn't, most routers have no fan at all so zero native airflow, servers do have fans but in a small space like that she'd need both vents open to air as they are designed to use physics to create artificial airflow due to the laws of equilibrium.
@@Revancsg Ok😉
Lol... love it!
As a vet, I disagree with the “forgiving student debt as a slap in the face” to someone that felt they had to enter the mil in order to avoid it. Why does she feel like the next generation needs to suffer the same fate she did? And not every one is fit for the military. I don’t want that to be the only option for my children and others children. And consider how much extremely more expensive higher education is now.
So your perfectly fine paying for kids to go to school to be indoctrinated to whatever the hell the teacher wants to teach them. Then to pay for their college where they only learn racist sexist and how to hate everyone and everything. They learn how to have opinions and how to throw loud temper tantrum’s to get their way then send them out into the world with absolutely no useful skills whatsoever. You are perfectly fine paying for that crap….perhaps if you want to take useless classes that are just propaganda machines they should pay for them themselves. Now if you want to learn a trade skill or even basic life skills like balancing a damn checkbook I say take the money people are demanding in debt forgiveness and boost financial aid and grants for these skill based classes because that is what is going to get you farther in life than the skill of throwing yourself on the floor throwing a screaming temper tantrum like a 4 year old cracked out on pixie stix not getting their way. Sorry but opinions and bigotry do not pay your rent. Hell let them rely on mommy and daddy forever since they were the ones that created these overly entitled infants. They can reap what they sewed and raise their obnoxious spoils brats and pay for their leftist sjw indoctrination classes forever. If the tax payers have to foot the bill then we should get to choose what classes they are allowed to take hence a train skill class so they won’t be a leach on society for all eternity
As someone who has recently found you and your content, I just want to say congrats on your come up!!! You've done so much, the background glows up!!!
I paid off all my student debt and I don't see cancelling other student's debt as a slap in the face TBH.
Same! As well as my husband who took longer to do it. And not just because we are facing huge costs to send our kid to college in less than 10 years.
Student debt does not get canceled, the cost gets transferred to the tax payers. So people like construction workers, for example, who work hard for their money end up paying for other people’s degrees. Most definitely a slap in the face.
@@vsand9798 short-sighted take for at least two reasons:
1) If education is free for anyone to pursue, those hard-working construction workers could go back to school and get a degree to become even higher-wage earners.
2) Extensive research shows higher-educated populations have lower crime rates, lower poverty rates, higher standards of living, and higher overall health and well-being amongst their populations. So, paying for my fellow citizens to become better educated is as much benefit to me as it is to them. The same way we pay for roads and infrastructure, even though we don’t use every bit of it ourselves.
@@Rolbell actually it’s you that is short sighted. Please tell me who’s going to build your home? Who’s going to install that toilet you sit on while watching RUclips videos? What about people who learn differently than the structure of school requires? What a disgustingly elitist answer in your second point. My sons are not criminals because they went into the trades. Tradesmen actually do very well. My son is 23 years old with two children. He bought a house more than a year ago, he supports his wife and children. She does not have to work. If you want to steal his wages for your college education and your children’s college education. Why don’t you just act responsibly and pay your bills like he does? Why don’t you save money for the things that you want, like college? Why do you have to take from a hard-working young man who just wants to raise his family?
@@vsand9798 I’ve clearly touched a nerve. It’s the way politicians and media want things: everyone reads waaaay too much into simple interactions and gets pushed to anger with basic presentations of information. I never referenced your children, as I wouldn’t know anything about the makeup of your family. I referenced research that clearly links lower education opportunities with lower quality of life. That is a sociological observation, not a personal one. Saying “societies with lower education levels have higher crime rates, higher instances of untreated mental health and lower overall well-being” is NOT the same as saying “anyone without a college education is a miserable criminal with mental health issues.” I said the first thing; I DID NOT say the second. It’s the irony that goes with the ideological polarization that’s so rampant in this country these days: people like me who want EVERYONE’S life to be better are presumed to be disdainful of others for their education or career choices. I’m not.
To clarify another misinterpretation of yours: I am a veteran who worked in the trades, got a college education that I paid for myself, and am now in a position where my family and I would likely pay far more in taxes to support publicly funded college than your children would. And I’d gladly do it. Believe it or not, there are some of us who are willing to pay more to ensure others get the same opportunities we’ve had.
Charlotte - that door IS a vent! You said your routers and stuff all go in there right? Those all produce heat as they are turned on and must have a decent amount of air flow in order to NOT overheat, so do not cover up those vent slits you see in the door. My suggestion? Paint it! Paint a picture of something on that door and if you do it right you won't even be able to tell it's a door!
EDIT - Hey I got to thinking as the video went on, you could put something over the vent to cover it, so long as you only have it on while you are recording and then remove it once you are done recording. I still like my first idea of you painting something over it, that way it will give you an opportunity to be creative and show us what you got.
Charlotte: “I love you ..... mostofyou”
Me: dead 😂
I love finding your old content! Before you think the algorithm abandoned you, it still suggested you to me, and I'm like daily hooked lol.
I LOVED the button-sewing one. My 43 year old son sets up and looks after mine and his father's computers. My husband is not very good, and the poor chap has to 'pop in' on his way home from work three or four times a week (at least). He always leaves with a big smile, waving away our apologies ... then my granddaughter told me that when he gets home he throws arms in the air and bawls "How the hell has he managed to fuck up his bloody computer AGAIN!"
My mom have severe asthma. Our GP told her what kind of mask to wear. She's wearing it now everytime she's going out.
What kind of mask is it?? I really struggle to breathe with the normal ones.
Same my Mom asthma is so bad she on some COPD meds and she can wear those common disposables one you see everywhere and sometimes double them up.
I have seen other people with triple and more masks and they all are breathing fine where then several hours a day because their job requires it. The people that say they can beath are don't realize it all physiological and you can get over common fears, if you tire.
@@infinitusfinitus check Amazon some selling little inserts for the standard masks to help people breath, found it by mistake when looking for some new mask patterns
I believe that you can find them on Amazon under mask bracket.
@@sabersky1134 she's wearing one. Thank you so much for the help. She bought one from the medical aid. 😊
I have a medical exemption from masking from my dr. Some have legitimate reasons for not masking but the hate and shame leveled toward us is disgusting. And, no, it’s not just for “asthma”. Love how people judge without knowing a single thing about a person.
I really don't understand people whose first thought when they hear "cancel student debt" is "no, students should suffer like I did" and not "I'm glad future students won't have to go through what I went through". SMH
It’s not suffering to be responsible. And no one is forced to go to an outrageously expensive university. I didn’t , cuz I couldn’t afford it. Don’t take out a huge loan if you can’t pay it back. Nothing is free. Taxpayers would have to end up paying for it. The colleges still have to have income ya know . Are the professors gonna work for free? Now the cost of college tuition being what it is , that’s another story. No way does it need to cost so much
@@valerieann2751 these massive student loans aren’t just for traditional 4 year colleges or private universities. A lot of it is to pay for graduate programs that paid for the advanced degrees of those professors, the doctors and nurses who are saving lives during a global pandemic, the lawyers who are fighting to ensure every citizen has equal rights and protections under the law, etc. One doesn’t have to go to college at all but most of us understand what a degree can do for the prospects of a person and requirements needed for a person who is called to certain fields of work. A reason why student loans are such a huge issue is because of their predatory nature. Not to mention that we’re one of the wealthiest countries in the world! Many people don’t seem to care so much where our tax money goes when it comes to buying military grade equipment for local law enforcement officers to use against their own citizens or when we bail out huge corporations that are “too big to fail”. But suddenly we’re pinching pennies when it comes to social programs and initiatives that would help so many of our citizens and keep us competitive with other countries across fields. And we’d have a lot more of those tax dollars to cover things like this if EVERYONE was made to pay their fair share and stop providing so many loop holes to those who have the funds to pay and remove the burden from the working class. I would consider THAT the responsible thing to do.
@@valerieann2751 why should it cost anything at all? A lot of european countries do not charge you when you go to Uni (Finland even gives you money when you do). Fun fact: a lot of european Unis offer free tuition even if you are not from Europe.
And yes, taxes pay for that - it's called investing in your countries future.
With the sex change thing, I think that's super unreasonable. I'm pansexual, so obviously if my SO told me they were trans and wanted a sex change, it wouldn't bother me, but not everyone is pansexual, or bisexual. Preference is okayyy!
For me it was the lady encouraging women to pull this on their husbands. Like, seriously? Out of the blue? No! That is not good imo. If I were to pull this on my husband who’s married me(!) it would be a slap in his face or throwing away his love for me.
No prejudice here, only a Brazilian gay guy who finds awkward opportunities to make lame jokes...
Every time I hear someone is pansexual, I keep imagining the role of the pan during the act
Please blame any offense in the difference of our cultures, me being gay, my third-world-countriness, me being a white cisgender male republican (albeit I'm gay, latino and Brazilian)
Talking about fake ID's, when I was 16 I looked like I was 25, I didn't even have to have an ID to get in places! BUT as I got older I started looking younger, AFTER I turned 21 I couldn't get in ANYWHERE without one. I hated it then....but 28 years later I'm loving it!! Lol
This is exactly what happened to me and no one believes me! I never got asked for ID until I was in my twenties 🤣
@@oliviagrahammake-upservice7480 It's a very nice thing, even if people don't believe!! I started really getting leary about going certain places because I had men in their 50's & 60's hitting on me..😬 at the time I was 17/18 and was worried I'd get caught, I wasn't aware then HOW BAD men actually are I thought I had to go along with it, it was just a part of that scene...oh to be young & dumb again....😏
@@joymelton-bollen6383 I was so naive at that age, I'd walk to clubs through parks at night, so many things could have happened, I had no fear at 15, boy things have changed! I also travelled the world by myself when I was younger, still had no fear. I would never, ever do that by myself again! I got very, very lucky.
As someone with PTSD, wearing masks makes me freak out and makes me feel like I can't breathe, but I just keep telling myself I can breathe, I can breathe, I can breathe. On my real bad days, I just stayed home. I don't think I'm more special than anyone else and think I don't have to wear one.
Hope you're having a relaxing weekend, Charlotte! 💜
Thank you I am, I hope you are as well!
In the COVID era, don't touch anything of mine ever. I don't need to hide anything just...NO TOUCH!
Era?
You phobic maniacs are the worst.
Get it together. Đumbir
Especially in 2020/21 ppl must have experienced the importance of delivery drivers.... I really wish that disrespectful poster a hell of lost consignments.
Girl I love your sense of humor. A lot like my own lol. I’m definitely petty to the extreme sometimes. Keep up the good work. Love your videos.
There is airflow to your router etc., in order to keep the heat down. They all produce a lot of heat. I’d go with something minimalist and modern to go with the shelving. It needs to be something that breathes.
There are breathable panels for radiators. You could put fabric in a white, modern frame, or over a wooden frame.
With the light string, it is already getting busy back there and detracting from the lovely shelving and plants. I wouldn’t recommend a “tapestry”, as it would be too busy and a contrast to the clean look you have going.
Yeah I’m thinking a minimalist abstract painting!!
@@CharlotteDobre I think that's a great solution! A canvas won't block air flow like a tapestry or metal picture.
When you become fully mature, someone’s physical appearance really is not a competitive factor anymore. Neither is education, financial status or anything else that could be considered a leveling tool.
then there must be almost no mature people
@@SpamEggSausage - I could care less what an ex’s new girlfriend looks like. Any ex is an ex for a reason. Maturity is not only attractive but a baseline for me.
Ehhhh......ima call bullshit on that. I'm 40, married for 20yrs and very mature. The looks thing I can get behind. But, education and financial status/stability is pretty important to a relationship. It's easier to converse with someone who matches your education. And as far as finances-no one should be a gold digger. But having a good living wage & being financially responsible should definitely be a factor when picking a life partner. As anything other is usually a sign of immaturity 🤷🏻♀️
@@jbilotta oh, i agree. I was trying to say that there are too many people who are hung up on looks.
and by the way, it's "an", not "and".
@@SpamEggSausage - thanks for the suggestion with the voice recognition typo. I spoke it twice yet it only picked it up once. On RUclips I use it regularly. If a typo comes up, it doesn’t really bother me, as it’s only YT. I think it’s important to be attracted to a person physically and mentally but I could really care less what someone looks like physically if I decided a relationship is over or if it was decided for me. Not many mature people out there. Too many snarky, annoying people.
Wait what? You're 183 cm tall, for real? That is impressive
@@I.Toverheks for women? Guess I'm not visiting your country then. I'm 170 and considered quite tall for a woman in Italy, I don't want to feel like an elf 😂
@@HypnoRhymes Yes for some reason Dutch people tend to be very tall.
@@HypnoRhymes don't worry I'm a Dutch women and only 173cm. And I do have some friends larger than me. But I also know many same my height or even smaller.
In my opinion in the Netherlands you see people of all sizes
I’m 178 cm and feel tall already. I wish I was 183
This lady energy I love it 😭😭😭😭😭
utility door: paint it as something iconic, like the tardis or something... or like a bird cage, or fish tank etc.
This is actually such a cute idea!
When I go to eat with friends, we place our phones down upside down on the table. The first to look at your phone pays for everybody.
Why not just leave them in your pocket or handbag like I and all my friends do? Why take them out in the first place?
@@blowingfree6928 Because it's like a game of chicken. The first to flinch (check or answer their phone) loses. When you and your friends leave your phones in your handbag, does anyone check their phone during your meal? Do they answer a ringing phone or text? If they do, then what difference does it make? Our way is gambling for the price of our meal, and someone always gets caught.
My phone never leaves my bag when I'm in good company.
I'd pick a time machine, go back and buy some stock in Apple, Nike and Disney.
Asthma and anxiety make it impossible to wear a mask. Within minutes I can’t breathe, shaking and end up crying
Perfect timing. Made a poisoned apple cocktail just in time for the smart, beautiful and hilarious Charlotte Dobre 😊 Happy Halloween 🍸
YUM
It has a kick to it 🍸😂 and i'm in a mermaid tail scooting across the living room to get more 😂🙈🙈 absolutely love you and your videos always leaves me feeling happy xoxo
@ its my own little mix haha rasberry and apple juice with apple sours (cactus jacks) soo it looks all red but tastes like green apples with vodka and rum, im more of a wicked witch than a evil queen soo green apples fitted more really is a nice drink 😊🍸
@@The_Salty_Siren I had black monofin there ready and black skinny jeans and nowhere to go lol I made do with my halloween haha
@@otistdarling7941 Oh thank you so much. My girlfriends and I go to this awesome organic restaurant and the drinks are amazing and very expensive. Your drink sounds like something they'd serve. I want to make it for my friends. I promise to give you credit.
The one about the mask , last time i checked the Drs ,nurses , surgeons ( who sometimes operate for hours) and anyone in the medical field wearing a mask for 10+ hours can breath and don't complain, but wearing one for 20 mins and he can't breath there is a name for people like him melodramatic ,because even my mother who has COPD and stage 3 emphysema can wear one so can the rest of us.
It’s honestly so irritating that ppl make such a fuss about wearing a mask for 20 min in the store, it’s not that hard??? Doctors got it worse and we don’t see them complaining 🤦♀️
@@juliarunn5009 exactly , the best is when they say that they can't breathe with one on but can yell and scream for over 20 mins trying to explain why they can't wear one because of a fake medical condition
Agreed.....during that whole thing I was SO tempted to post this on all those drama-queen posts:
Just a comment on the anti-mask people: Surgeons might have to wear a mask during surgery which, granted, can last for an enlongated period of time. HOWEVER; MOST people who work in the food industry have to wear a mask during the ENTIRE span of their workshift (8-12 hours; because of health and safety regulations applying to the food industry) and they, like surgeons, aren't dropping dead from either oxygen deprivation and/or CO-poisoning....so if they think THEY are struggling to breathe and deserve some compassion then I suggest they tip their local foodserver a tad extra when they bring you your food......that goes for the "fresh-bakeries" who make your luxury croissant (or w/e) at your local supermarket too....
Yours truly; a former worker for a bakery :)
Considdering many people don't go through elongated surgery but DO buy a loaf of bread on a regular basis :P
Yeah- I agree. Except medical personnel are PAID to wear masks for 10 hours. The rest of us are not. Its keeping others safe but Im not paid enough to not complain about it 😆
@@juliarunn5009 doctors get paid a LOT more money to wear masks than we do.
I am still addicted to Sims. I just build house after house. 🤪
Me too
Adventures With Amelia, me too! That's what I love most about The Sims. Building & designing homes, lol!
@@hummingbird11 That's the best part of the sims is the building part. Also all the cheats. I love doing the building challenges.
@@hummingbird11 over and over! 🥰
I miss sims 3 though. I made a glass floor with a pound under. 🤣
Anytime I've gotten stood up I text them the next day " omg I'm so sorry I missed our date, I completely forgot about it."