I'm guilty of all these and it caused me so much hurt. I decided to let go and let God and heal. And the healing process started from me realizing and forgiving past traumas. It's not been easy but I'm learning to let go and let God. He will always make everything beautiful in His time.❤
7mistakes ladies make when they like a guy 1.Doing nothing 2.Doing too much 3.Not being ready to walk away 4. Fantasizing too much. Controls your feelings and emotions 5. Don't forget to follow relationship protocol. 6.Falling in love before getting to know him. The real person is inside. 7. Cutting off accountability. Cuts off friends and family.
@@trixieke8462 Sometimes we still end up making a mess of God's guidance because we did not follow the tips that Pastor Kingsley shared. God's leading is super important but it is also necessary to avoid blunders that will frustrate or even abort His plan completely.
Hmmm I ended up liking this guy in my new church oo, hmm it's wasn't like me to go about liking guys, I mean if you like me as a guy, you will suffer to get my attention oo but hmmm with this guy , I didn't know how it happened, I felt the connection right from the first encounter but then I started discussing it with my sister and she sparked a lot of emotions and interest in me and I started taking actions with my heart and not my mind which wasn't supposed to be in the first place, I was going ahead of my self which made him fully aware I like him and even his friends who are in the same church oo. Hmm it's super embarrassing. At times his actions will show he also likes me but at times he is reserved. I just don't like the whole situation I am in and I always have to see him in church and prayer meetings. At times I had to gather courage before going to church knowing fully I will see him there. I really wished I reversed time to undo some of my actions but we move. Ladies even if you like someone, make sure you check yourself well like pastor said and don't go discussing with your friends, it sparks unwanted emotions you never invited. Emotions that should have sparked between you and the guy at the same time when communication starts but it's like you have sparked yours and he is still taking his time to study you. You will feel like the energy isn't making but you rather went ahead of yourself 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Wise counsel there. Instead of discussing with men, it is always better to discuss with your Father God and to keep talking to Him about it so that your emotions to overwhelm you. This is the only way to "Guard your heart with all diligence"
I can relate this so much. Though mine is not so intense but I knew I was being forward with the person whereas the person had not exactly entered “that zone”. So I summoned courage gave myself a break from him. Best is to just talk to God about them once you start catching feelings 🤧
"You can't love at first site, you can be attracted at first site" 👏 The number of people that don't understand this baffles me.😂 Why would a guy I just met starts telling me 'I Love You', and he'll expect me to believe that. 😂
Same here sis Had to tell him he doesn't love me but this guy said he's soo sure he loves me. Like bro, you literally just met me, you know nothing about me, what I'm made off or who I am inside. Lol It's soo funny, they just be looking like clowns when they say that.
This really blessed me ❤😂...I have to level my pace when walking, I walk too fast and the laughter thing too (I laugh a lot) ,also have to check that too. Thank you Sir. A very on time video ✨
Recently I am hurt and seeing this video show that I have made so much mistakes I am happy to come across this video and have learn a lot today Thank you Sir
Thank God I came across this video coz I fall in love easily but with this video I learned a lot More anointing more wisdom knowledge and understanding sir
The Lord's wisdom and ways in power points. Wonderful. And more importantly we have the Holy Spirit, the Lord Himself to prompt us when we're crossing the boundaries His love has set for our enjoyment of life and safety. Thank you Pastor Kingsley & Pastor Mildred for your ministry
I don't know if I will say is natural for me.... Like i don't have smiling face and if you don't come close to me you won't know that I smile a lot.... I have tried fixing it buh.....
Okay, you can try to have an open body language. Its fine you can't smile but you can have a posture that is welcoming for approach or conversation. Adjusting your body towards someone simply works ...
Same here The number of times I've been told I look rude eh hmmm. I just don't know how to do that, it feels like I'm being weird. Just wearing a smiling face on lol.
This is very relatable Laughing too much can be a turn off Smiling and creating opportunities is very important Ladies, men like to help you! Even a guy that's not into you would want to help you. Try to initiate convos with questions, trust me we'll take it from there
Yes, most ladies don't realise that a huge part of approaching them depends on how they carry themselves. In fact, approaching is a 2-way job where each party helps the other ( women subtly)
Thanks for this video. But as for me, I can't love a guy above God. If he ask for sex before marriage I not agree at all. Even though I'm in my early 40.
Hmmm I ended up liking this guy in my new church oo, hmm it's wasn't like me to go about liking guys, I mean if you like me as a guy, you will suffer to get my attention oo but hmmm with this guy , I didn't know how it happened, I felt the connection right from the first encounter but then I started discussing it with my sister and she sparked a lot of emotions and interest in me and I started taking actions with my heart and not my mind which wasn't supposed to be in the first place, I was going ahead of my self which made him fully aware I like him and even his friends who are in the same church oo. Hmm it's super embarrassing. At times his actions will show he also likes me but at times he is reserved. I just don't like the whole situation I am in and I always have to see him in church and prayer meetings. At times I had to gather courage before going to church knowing fully I will see him there. I really wished I reversed time to undo some of my actions but we move. Ladies even if you like someone, make sure you check yourself well like pastor said and don't go discussing with your friends, it sparks unwanted emotions you never invited. Emotions that should have sparked between you and the guy at the same time when communication starts but it's like you have sparked yours and he is still taking his time to study you. You will feel like the energy isn't making but you rather went ahead of yourself 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Thank you so much pastor K. I m currently in a relationship with this guy for 2 years now and I feel I call and text too much . How do I get him to value me even having made that mistake of calling him twice then dropping a text message?
@@fehlicitah I just love the fact that I am a man. I call who I like no matter how it looks. Then, I read the feeling once I go some certain milage in showing I like the person, I just cut off and start looking for someone to try. All for marriage though. I know one day, I will find that special someone for me.
@@fehlicitahno but when you tell him youve been calung too much he might not want to tell you to not hurt your feelings But dial down the calling all the best I can recomend a book if youd like
We are church members and we like similar things. I started the friendship I didn't want to look too eager so I paused at a moment. But I missing him badly. What do I do?
No. Men will appreciate the courage. Being loose or easy is based on character and standards. You can go first and you don't vibe. Or you vibe but take things in control at your own pace and boundaries
I have a question. What if you like the guy but whenever you see him he his always with a woman. And you not sure of his relationship with the woman. And ues you know he does too maybe cause of the way he looks at you and all of that. How do you go about it.
I’ve made a mistake and trust me it blows up on my face … yho I cried . I believe now he left just becouse I called too much , nagging Buh it all left in the past. Thanks Ps
I have a friend, a guy.... We are not dating, I don't think he's even thinking about it.... We are just friends, but I use his money, he uses mine, most times he gives Me account on how he spends his money, I do same..... He buys stuff for me , I do too.... not necessarily big things, things like food, soap, just things we use daily...... Please is this bad? Should I stop? Am I giving any presentation of myself? We are not dating please, just friends and the friendship started when he saw I was committed to God and his word, he too is, so he was glad he found someone who can talk about Jesus....
Have a conversation with this person and set your boundaries straight. It doesn't in any way cheapen you by having that conversation necause its necessary. If anything youll be doing yourself a favour. Know exactly what you both are doing before you proceed The fact that you're thinking about it means that theres more to it than meets the eye. Youre not children, sit dowm and have a conversation like reasonable adults, when those boundaries are defined and you know whats up and youre comfortable, then you can prayerfully proceed. (Pray and ask God for wisdom before that conversation as well) If he gives you water water reasons and boundaries still lool hazy, my sister, bounce before you get hurt. Let him know
It depends, how do you see him, as a Christian brother or as a future husband. Small small you will start planing family with him in your mind and on your own and end up getting hurt. It all depends on how you feel about him okay. Because we ladies are very emotional and do things based on our emotions, so it you see him in the brother zone, meaning all the things you are doing is like a sister so you won't get hurt in the future but if you made a mistake and start liking him in a different way, you will end up getting hurt. Just protect your heart and don't catch feelings you are not supposed to catch because it won't end well. Trust me
Sit down with the brother and tell him that your friendship is beginning to make you uncomfortable because it is undefined. Pray before you you have this discussion with him and ask God to reveal the brother's mind. If marriage is on his mind, you need to go on a hiatus and devote your time to pray to your Father in heaven about it.. Pray, pray and pray until you hear from Him. If you don't receive any clarity DO NOT GO BACK.
Ma'am/Ma, This is his program, he has chosen this as the topic to be considered, why not simply request what you want? Or you could rather do yours. This is always saddening..
I'm guilty of all these and it caused me so much hurt.
I decided to let go and let God and heal. And the healing process started from me realizing and forgiving past traumas. It's not been easy but I'm learning to let go and let God.
He will always make everything beautiful in His time.❤
You admitted and that’s the most important thing. Sending you love❤
Pst K is always addressed the both gender he never bypassed about his teaching.
7mistakes ladies make when they like a guy
1.Doing nothing
2.Doing too much
3.Not being ready to walk away
4. Fantasizing too much. Controls your feelings and emotions
5. Don't forget to follow relationship protocol.
6.Falling in love before getting to know him. The real person is inside.
7. Cutting off accountability. Cuts off friends and family.
Thanks a lot 👍 you just savede from 17 minutes long video
How about letting God guide you. Been in the spirit saves a lot of heartache and emotional anguish
😹😹I think I did all these 'mistakes' last month when I liked I certain guy...
@@trixieke8462 Sometimes we still end up making a mess of God's guidance because we did not follow the tips that Pastor Kingsley shared. God's leading is super important but it is also necessary to avoid blunders that will frustrate or even abort His plan completely.
No 6 nimefikiwa😂
Hmmm I ended up liking this guy in my new church oo, hmm it's wasn't like me to go about liking guys, I mean if you like me as a guy, you will suffer to get my attention oo but hmmm with this guy , I didn't know how it happened, I felt the connection right from the first encounter but then I started discussing it with my sister and she sparked a lot of emotions and interest in me and I started taking actions with my heart and not my mind which wasn't supposed to be in the first place, I was going ahead of my self which made him fully aware I like him and even his friends who are in the same church oo. Hmm it's super embarrassing.
At times his actions will show he also likes me but at times he is reserved. I just don't like the whole situation I am in and I always have to see him in church and prayer meetings. At times I had to gather courage before going to church knowing fully I will see him there.
I really wished I reversed time to undo some of my actions but we move.
Ladies even if you like someone, make sure you check yourself well like pastor said and don't go discussing with your friends, it sparks unwanted emotions you never invited. Emotions that should have sparked between you and the guy at the same time when communication starts but it's like you have sparked yours and he is still taking his time to study you. You will feel like the energy isn't making but you rather went ahead of yourself 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Wise counsel there. Instead of discussing with men, it is always better to discuss with your Father God and to keep talking to Him about it so that your emotions to overwhelm you. This is the only way to "Guard your heart with all diligence"
Whay happened?
I can relate this so much. Though mine is not so intense but I knew I was being forward with the person whereas the person had not exactly entered “that zone”. So I summoned courage gave myself a break from him. Best is to just talk to God about them once you start catching feelings 🤧
Thank you for sharing
Honest people like you are rare and are models
It's the prolonged laughter for me😂😂😂
I can't forget that mistake of keeping face some how when a guy is trying to be close.
Thank you and more grace sir.
"You can't love at first site, you can be attracted at first site" 👏
The number of people that don't understand this baffles me.😂 Why would a guy I just met starts telling me 'I Love You', and he'll expect me to believe that. 😂
Same here sis
Had to tell him he doesn't love me but this guy said he's soo sure he loves me.
Like bro, you literally just met me, you know nothing about me, what I'm made off or who I am inside. Lol
It's soo funny, they just be looking like clowns when they say that.
Bad boy with spirituality inside one person 😂😂😂
This is the motto of modern girls😂
This really blessed me ❤😂...I have to level my pace when walking, I walk too fast and the laughter thing too (I laugh a lot) ,also have to check that too. Thank you Sir. A very on time video ✨
❤we are in this together sister
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My sister we are in this together o 😂
This is me 😂
My twinnnnnn😂😂
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God of on time 😅❤ More Grace PK
Thank you pastor k, you are the best 😊
I did something ohm n now, it's like i was the only one making efforts. Backed out
Recently I am hurt and seeing this video show that I have made so much mistakes
I am happy to come across this video and have learn a lot today
Thank you Sir
Thank God I came across this video coz I fall in love easily but with this video I learned a lot
More anointing more wisdom knowledge and understanding sir
Thank you Pastor K for this. We'll do better
The Lord's wisdom and ways in power points. Wonderful. And more importantly we have the Holy Spirit, the Lord Himself to prompt us when we're crossing the boundaries His love has set for our enjoyment of life and safety. Thank you Pastor Kingsley & Pastor Mildred for your ministry
Thank you sir for this message
Hmmm, stop fantasizing too much....God bless you pst Kingsley for this, it really blessed me❤❤
I am guilty 😢
Thank you, Pastor.
Really blessed watching this masterpiece Sir …. GOD BLESS YOU FOR SHARING SIR
Mistake No 6 nimefikiwa
Thanks alot for this video🙏 i love the last point...
*Cutting off accountability❤
I don't know if I will say is natural for me.... Like i don't have smiling face and if you don't come close to me you won't know that I smile a lot.... I have tried fixing it buh.....
I actually thought I was all alone in this, all my life trying to have a smiling face.
Okay, you can try to have an open body language. Its fine you can't smile but you can have a posture that is welcoming for approach or conversation. Adjusting your body towards someone simply works ...
Just like me,people say am too serious with life😅
Same here also I try to work on it pple complain they I frown face God help me I really want to smile every time 😂
Same here
The number of times I've been told I look rude eh hmmm.
I just don't know how to do that, it feels like I'm being weird. Just wearing a smiling face on lol.
This has blessed me
Finding it difficult to walk away 🤦
Thanks for the knowledge
Good information..well presented..
I’m blessed with this!👏
This is taughtful
God bless you sir😊
Thank You Sir, I learnt a lot from this
Thank you Pst K😊
Thank you Papa for sharing this valuable wisdom. 🔥🔥💯📃📌
Thank you sir
This is very relatable
Laughing too much can be a turn off
Smiling and creating opportunities is very important
Ladies, men like to help you!
Even a guy that's not into you would want to help you.
Try to initiate convos with questions, trust me we'll take it from there
Yes, most ladies don't realise that a huge part of approaching them depends on how they carry themselves. In fact, approaching is a 2-way job where each party helps the other ( women subtly)
Thank you so much sir🙏 God keep blessing you.
This video is really helpful
Thank you and more anointing
Thank you sir. I really learnt something
I would have shared this video on my medias but no! It will wisen up some gurls
God bless you sir
Thank you Sir
This really bless me😊
God bless you PK
This impactful
Thank you Sir. It's was so insightful
God Bless You Sir 🙏
Number 6 is a mistake for both guys and ladies
Eehe don't walk to fast...I can't stop laughing 😂😂
Thanks for this video. But as for me, I can't love a guy above God. If he ask for sex before marriage I not agree at all. Even though I'm in my early 40.
😂😂
If he asks for sex before marriage, run until his mind is renewed.
Am a woman but can say you are a strong woman.i can't
Be calming down got me😂
Oh my !!!
This is soo trueeee 😢
Words of wisdom ❤
Thank you so much sir 🙏🙏
😂😂😂 Pastor K we love you sir
Guilty of all of the above
God bless you sir for this
I do too much 🙈 thanks now I'll try to balance
Hmmm I ended up liking this guy in my new church oo, hmm it's wasn't like me to go about liking guys, I mean if you like me as a guy, you will suffer to get my attention oo but hmmm with this guy , I didn't know how it happened, I felt the connection right from the first encounter but then I started discussing it with my sister and she sparked a lot of emotions and interest in me and I started taking actions with my heart and not my mind which wasn't supposed to be in the first place, I was going ahead of my self which made him fully aware I like him and even his friends who are in the same church oo. Hmm it's super embarrassing.
At times his actions will show he also likes me but at times he is reserved. I just don't like the whole situation I am in and I always have to see him in church and prayer meetings. At times I had to gather courage before going to church knowing fully I will see him there.
I really wished I reversed time to undo some of my actions but we move.
Ladies even if you like someone, make sure you check yourself well like pastor said and don't go discussing with your friends, it sparks unwanted emotions you never invited. Emotions that should have sparked between you and the guy at the same time when communication starts but it's like you have sparked yours and he is still taking his time to study you. You will feel like the energy isn't making but you rather went ahead of yourself 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Great
This has made me wonder. Are ladies these days approached. And if not, is the problem theirs or the men. Do they make it hard for men unknowingly
That fantasy ehhh
God help me
This is me married man borrowed me 1.4m he refused to pay back my money
Chai 😩
So sorry dear
But what if you are a shy lady too?
Your Father God knows. He will work it out for you. But then you can pray for boldness and not just for issues like relationships.
Walk with your heart, not mind. Be open to the world and it will reciprocate
Thank you so much pastor K.
I m currently in a relationship with this guy for 2 years now and I feel I call and text too much . How do I get him to value me even having made that mistake of calling him twice then dropping a text message?
Just stop calling , when he eventually calls have a conversation with him about it , from what he says you know what to do
@@fehlicitah I just love the fact that I am a man. I call who I like no matter how it looks. Then, I read the feeling once I go some certain milage in showing I like the person, I just cut off and start looking for someone to try. All for marriage though. I know one day, I will find that special someone for me.
Just stop calling,hell fund it unusual,but might appreciate the break,when he calls answer as normal
@@fehlicitahno but when you tell him youve been calung too much he might not want to tell you to not hurt your feelings
But dial down the calling all the best
I can recomend a book if youd like
Pastor how do we get the book and what's the TITLE?
Thank u pappa,
Marriage to me is a none issue period
Gladly I hardly laugh at jokes😂
We are church members and we like similar things. I started the friendship I didn't want to look too eager so I paused at a moment. But I missing him badly. What do I do?
What did he do when you paused?
@@benedictabaiden2664 Good question
Go to pastor
He continues talking to me @@benedictabaiden2664
Tell the full story. You paused and now you are missing him badly. What happened?
What about going first and the guy taking you to be lose
No. Men will appreciate the courage. Being loose or easy is based on character and standards. You can go first and you don't vibe. Or you vibe but take things in control at your own pace and boundaries
How can we contact you sir
Because we have issues
Emotions have no self respect 😂
I have a question. What if you like the guy but whenever you see him he his always with a woman. And you not sure of his relationship with the woman. And ues you know he does too maybe cause of the way he looks at you and all of that. How do you go about it.
Talk to the woman. Make her laugh or giggle. The guy will be interested. But first befriend the woman to know more
I’ve made a mistake and trust me it blows up on my face … yho I cried . I believe now he left just becouse I called too much , nagging Buh it all left in the past. Thanks Ps
I have a friend, a guy.... We are not dating, I don't think he's even thinking about it.... We are just friends, but I use his money, he uses mine, most times he gives Me account on how he spends his money, I do same..... He buys stuff for me , I do too.... not necessarily big things, things like food, soap, just things we use daily......
Please is this bad? Should I stop? Am I giving any presentation of myself?
We are not dating please, just friends and the friendship started when he saw I was committed to God and his word, he too is, so he was glad he found someone who can talk about Jesus....
Have a conversation with this person and set your boundaries straight.
It doesn't in any way cheapen you by having that conversation necause its necessary.
If anything youll be doing yourself a favour.
Know exactly what you both are doing before you proceed
The fact that you're thinking about it means that theres more to it than meets the eye.
Youre not children, sit dowm and have a conversation like reasonable adults, when those boundaries are defined and you know whats up and youre comfortable, then you can prayerfully proceed.
(Pray and ask God for wisdom before that conversation as well)
If he gives you water water reasons and boundaries still lool hazy, my sister, bounce before you get hurt.
Let him know
😂😂😂
Nna ehhn
It depends, how do you see him, as a Christian brother or as a future husband. Small small you will start planing family with him in your mind and on your own and end up getting hurt. It all depends on how you feel about him okay. Because we ladies are very emotional and do things based on our emotions, so it you see him in the brother zone, meaning all the things you are doing is like a sister so you won't get hurt in the future but if you made a mistake and start liking him in a different way, you will end up getting hurt.
Just protect your heart and don't catch feelings you are not supposed to catch because it won't end well. Trust me
Sit down with the brother and tell him that your friendship is beginning to make you uncomfortable because it is undefined. Pray before you you have this discussion with him and ask God to reveal the brother's mind. If marriage is on his mind, you need to go on a hiatus and devote your time to pray to your Father in heaven about it.. Pray, pray and pray until you hear from Him. If you don't receive any clarity DO NOT GO BACK.
Mojdd😊
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Whydo u people advise only females,💁💁why is there not something like mistakes guys makes
Ma'am/Ma,
This is his program, he has chosen this as the topic to be considered, why not simply request what you want? Or you could rather do yours.
This is always saddening..
@@michaelehikioya4938 The Adesina Adebayo that made that comment isn't a ma'am. He is a Sir. And he's only asking just for him to learn. Thank you!!
Men advise are allover. In fact, this is the first proper female advice I've seen in a long time
Go home?😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Fake news
Thanks so much sir and God bless you for this
Thank you so much
Thank you Pastor K
Thank you Pst K😊
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Thank you Sir👏👏👏
Thank you Pst K😊
Thank you Pst K😊
Thank you Pst K😊
Thank you Pastor K
Thanks you pastor 🙏
Thank you PK 🤗
Thank you sir
Thank you Pst K😊