5 Common Mistakes Singles Make When Starting A Relationship | mildred kingsley-okonkwo

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @russelllevers9513
    @russelllevers9513 6 месяцев назад +63

    I have found my wife... I didn't know that I would have fallen in love with her. Honestly. Because she's slim. I don't really like slim woman. But I went to that church had a connection with her. Pray about it fast about it she did the same... We both got confirmation from God!!!! We just got married two weeks now God is very very awesome. I love love Jesus

    • @OKABE..
      @OKABE.. 2 месяца назад +1

      God bless your home

    • @comfortgyamfuaa2598
      @comfortgyamfuaa2598 Месяц назад +2

      Congratulations 🎊
      May your home be blessed with love peace and prosperity in Jesus name
      I tapped into your blessings

  • @esthertwumwaaasante8663
    @esthertwumwaaasante8663 Год назад +94

    "If you are good Christian, you'll have a good marriage. why? Because you will be led by the Spirit of God!"
    Thank you Ma❤️

  • @footprints9260
    @footprints9260 2 года назад +176

    1.foundation
    2.counselling
    3.mentorship
    4 commitment over feelings

    • @bukenyakathie6719
      @bukenyakathie6719 10 месяцев назад +4

      5.Accountability

    • @bukenyakathie6719
      @bukenyakathie6719 10 месяцев назад +1

      Enter marriage 1.with jesus 2.with joy... partners are not mandated to bring joy.

  • @charlenetanyaradzwabuta5429
    @charlenetanyaradzwabuta5429 3 года назад +302

    Ever since i started listening to your teachings,my whole perspective about relationships love and marriage has changed. Thank you!!

  • @BirunjiFaithWAYESU
    @BirunjiFaithWAYESU 4 месяца назад +8

    Am really blessed, its my first to watch this as a single person 2024❤thank u so much 🇺🇬

  • @josephineamal9380
    @josephineamal9380 2 года назад +70

    This lady is training me to be a potential wife! Am blessed ma♥️🙏

  • @ronnelhamiel7921
    @ronnelhamiel7921 2 года назад +39

    This woman is EXCEPTIONAL!! I like the way she is so passionate about the Word of God!

  • @eleakoh
    @eleakoh 3 года назад +127

    Marriage is a covenant. You don’t do covenants by feelings but by commitments 🙌🏾🙌🏾. Thank you Pastor M 💗

  • @johnkiggundu2232
    @johnkiggundu2232 3 года назад +80

    "Enter with Jesus in one hand and joy in the other." - what a powerful statement that is!

  • @sandrataaka6624
    @sandrataaka6624 2 года назад +14

    We need women like you in Uganda🇺🇬, may God mightly continue using you, thanks for the msg mom

  • @peaced.ekemini1316
    @peaced.ekemini1316 3 года назад +62

    The way PM says “Are you joking?” Your Brain can just reset 🤣 I love you Mama 💕

  • @damikuteyi
    @damikuteyi 3 года назад +37

    Big Lessons - Marriage will never be about how I feel. My partner was not created to make me happy. Jesus is my primary motivation in marriage. I come in with my own joy/happiness.

    • @damikuteyi
      @damikuteyi 3 года назад +4

      Marriage is commitment, not feelings

  • @Barnabas_Akinrinola
    @Barnabas_Akinrinola 3 года назад +66

    Thank youuuuuuuuuuuuu, Pastor M!
    Marriage isn't about feelings; it's about commitment. The same character you should have is what you should normally have as a Christian. True!

  • @hopeifeyinwa9629
    @hopeifeyinwa9629 3 года назад +111

    If wisdom was a person! Pastor M, you inspire me so much.
    More wisdom to you ma

  • @chibuzoihentuge-eric73
    @chibuzoihentuge-eric73 3 года назад +39

    If Jesus is not done, we are not done. Wow. The family part too was also incredible

  • @Es_Elle
    @Es_Elle 3 года назад +47

    Every woman should hear this message and heed the imparted wisdom.

  • @eunicemagaji7619
    @eunicemagaji7619 2 года назад +31

    "Until God gets what he wants we're not not done, we're not going anywhere". Amazing... Thank God for the gift of your marriage in my life ❤️

  • @mavischanda6243
    @mavischanda6243 Месяц назад +1

    First watched her on tiktok. And today i feel i had wrong perceptions about relationships i feel blessed today, couse i have knowledge of the word of God about relationships thank you woman of God

  • @germainekakah4905
    @germainekakah4905 3 года назад +65

    I just got to know about pastor mildred and to be honest i love her sincerity in expressing truth. At times when i speak these things some people tell me i am so hard , and others say i am too strict.However these truth have kept me all these years. I pray as many as listens to you put it in practise.

    • @germainekakah4905
      @germainekakah4905 3 года назад +3

      If any one puts this truth into practise, your heart and life will be intact but if not , you will leave or live with a broken heart or life.

    • @charitykawira1367
      @charitykawira1367 2 года назад +1

      Woow I thought I am alone..since I got these teachings pple say am hard to get..but am confident and choose the Godly way into marriage.i believe God will lead and connect me to the purposed man

  • @fullizettembong4221
    @fullizettembong4221 2 года назад +53

    I got here by accident but this teaching was definitely planned for me to get a different view in getting into a relationship. Thank you Jesus. God bless you Ma

    • @garenanighoro3722
      @garenanighoro3722 Год назад +1

      No, you didn’t get here by accident.
      Your steps were ordered here.
      Just as mine was.

    • @KuddizaAmos
      @KuddizaAmos Год назад +1

      The Holy Ghost works no coincidence

  • @melodygamiros9425
    @melodygamiros9425 2 года назад +6

    I would say that if marriage doesn't work for me I would just quit. But after hearing this message I get the clearest picture.
    1. Marriage is not based on emotions.
    2. Covenant is not done based on emotions but commitment.
    3.The good foundation of anything we do or decide to commit to is God!

  • @gizzellemcleish1837
    @gizzellemcleish1837 3 года назад +329

    "If you are single and fornicating you are training yourself for adultery. You are an adultery trainee." Now that's wisdom.

  • @carolinekuria8355
    @carolinekuria8355 2 года назад +35

    Only a woman walking step by step with can give such a wonderful and great message honestly it has really opened my eyes and before getting in a relationship or marriage I should consider all this. Watching all the way from Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @victoriaosunkwo1095
    @victoriaosunkwo1095 2 года назад +8

    It is only RUclips that knows how much of your videos I have downloaded. I'm not even thinking of going into ministry unless God says so, but when you preach I see myself, cos you preach most of the things I would say normally if I were to be talking to anyone . You have been a blessing to me for over 2yrs now, I'm not married yet, I'm in my mid 20's. Thank you so much PM! God bless you♥️

  • @florencekayiti4721
    @florencekayiti4721 2 года назад +4

    My Lord i know that you are the one with my true future husband 💍🙏🙏🙏🙏 👑 let me trust in your timing lord 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @SniderBrilly
    @SniderBrilly 10 месяцев назад +1

    I'm from kenya currently working in Saudia Arabia. I'm telling you since I started listening to you hve learned alot thank you so much pastor Mildred God bless you

  • @d-internetaunty
    @d-internetaunty 2 года назад +4

    Patience, forgiveness and kindness........I've been with this "Christian" who gets angry and goes weeks without talking to me after every minor misunderstanding saying that sins have consequences...until I watched this and changed my perspective I kept walking on egg shells around him.

  • @impactmen
    @impactmen 3 года назад +20

    A time to be alive to listen to this where ever you are. I am single and I am learning so much from her and her husband.

  • @blessedamooti1371
    @blessedamooti1371 Год назад +5

    9th/1/2023.
    God thank you for everything
    I feel blessed to here this when am still single 🌟🍃💕

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 3 года назад +39

    You made it look so easy here to obey and walk in love . You are are wealth of wisdom . The day you said yes to pastor Kingsley , you stayed in the will of God . No doubt God is the foundation of your marriage . Keep fulfilling your divine mandate . More anointing to you madam . I love your ministry and what you stand for . Your authentic and transparency was so catchy . You was speaking under the Holy Spirit and not under flesh . God bless .

  • @RACQUEL830
    @RACQUEL830 Год назад +2

    Feelings have got nothing to do with marriage. Your emotions will not always be there! Well Noted. I love you pastor Mildred for statements on point.

  • @nicolewashe9005
    @nicolewashe9005 2 года назад +7

    When God says no, carry your bag and run

  • @oghalemercy
    @oghalemercy 3 года назад +6

    Pst M, it's not easy oo. Someone you have loved and been with. Kai, the will of God honestly, can be painful at times. But I am sold out to his will, I know he will see me through it.

  • @eneonoda
    @eneonoda 3 года назад +14

    This thing called Marriage. We've been told having the right tools going in works magic. We shall continue to sorts for those tools.
    Thanks Pastor M. For being intentional.

  • @cynthiadiama5072
    @cynthiadiama5072 Год назад +3

    I love the REALNESS OF LIVING LIFE, THAT IS WITHIN YOU....TRUTH ...I LOVE THIS !

  • @haniebrown8876
    @haniebrown8876 2 года назад +2

    Now you've showed me red flags in what I was getting into

  • @lifewithnnedi
    @lifewithnnedi 3 года назад +3

    The God that I serve is not a gossip
    Love you mama

  • @inge-ingenisiakatjiuongua8832
    @inge-ingenisiakatjiuongua8832 2 года назад +7

    Kingdom marriage. Kingdom marriage is never about you or your spouse, it is about Jesus. Amen.

  • @theladyfaith_
    @theladyfaith_ 3 года назад +13

    Thank you pastor M🥰
    if you tell pastor funmi you are going to that boys house to collect textbook,she calls steadily to make sure that’s all you went there for,she is fulfilling her accountability part. Seeing her call will reset your brain

  • @chiomaugwoke114
    @chiomaugwoke114 2 года назад +1

    Wow!! Until God gets what he wants we don't have to walk away!!

  • @augustaisidore530
    @augustaisidore530 3 года назад +13

    Mama you are looking so beautiful and your hair style is fine I love it, more Grace to you ma, your teaching always makes a meaningful in my life and it makes me to understand things in relationship which I don't know before.. Thanks ma

  • @gift3165
    @gift3165 3 года назад +2

    Hold Jesus on your master hand and with the other joy💯

  • @borderlesstv777
    @borderlesstv777 11 месяцев назад +5

    Kingdom Marriage Is About Jesus!

  • @ntokotom147
    @ntokotom147 2 года назад +7

    Believing God for marriage in 2023 September. Your messages are helping me to prepare❤️

  • @temi_ladele2177
    @temi_ladele2177 2 года назад +2

    You enter marriage with your joy and Jesus🔥

  • @alicebanda1076
    @alicebanda1076 3 года назад +3

    🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️Our generation is so BLESSED🥺😭....

  • @okwaramercy5921
    @okwaramercy5921 2 года назад +11

    Listening to you anytime is always a blessing. The fact that you're "raw" and straight with the truth.
    God bless you richly Ma!

  • @johndorcas9657
    @johndorcas9657 2 года назад +3

    I love u mummy, and you are speaking to me ..God bless me and you Amen.

  • @irenemueni4404
    @irenemueni4404 Месяц назад

    Hallelujah...i will enter in to my marriage with God end my joy.. Woow.. My future were are you❤

  • @favourcyril1172
    @favourcyril1172 2 года назад +4

    Wow 😳! I just started listening to pastor Mildred but I must confess, I was indeed blessed by this wisdom. More grace ma

  • @princessohemaa8168
    @princessohemaa8168 3 года назад +11

    You are a blessing to my life and Marriage pastor Mildred.

  • @ify1027
    @ify1027 2 года назад +1

    Yes mama! You’ve broken the table 😂😂😂
    It’s uncensored really 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼. I am blessed

  • @misslydia45
    @misslydia45 3 года назад +8

    God will continue to bless my far away mentor Pastor Mildred ❤️❤️

  • @chisomadiele7804
    @chisomadiele7804 2 года назад +4

    You came just at the right time in my life 😭😭

  • @mulengamwelwa3817
    @mulengamwelwa3817 3 года назад +4

    More wisdom Zambia is listening we are blessed

  • @EbubeEzenwegbu
    @EbubeEzenwegbu 4 месяца назад +1

    You are a good teacher ma

  • @russelllevers9513
    @russelllevers9513 6 месяцев назад +1

    Your advice is very very awesome!!!!!!, to God be the glory... Your marriage is very very blessed and highly favored by God. I wish you all the best

  • @AwotuOkwa
    @AwotuOkwa Год назад

    Wow! So so blessed . Indeed marriage is not about feelings but about Jesus. U go with ur joy ur partner cannot make u happy

  • @lydiahwomenrep9919
    @lydiahwomenrep9919 Год назад +1

    Wisdom 💯
    Representing Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @deraglory6517
    @deraglory6517 2 года назад +5

    Thank you ma for this,
    The best part of this message for me is the foundation on which I am building whatever I am building which should be the word of God and oh that first scripture with message translation, kaiii, Matthew 7 vs 26- 27

  • @ruthmuyiwa9946
    @ruthmuyiwa9946 3 года назад +2

    Hmmmm...Don't just ask for counsel, receive counsel. More wisdom mama ❤

  • @d_kings_princess
    @d_kings_princess 3 года назад +6

    This pastor and wisdom...Chai 🙌🙌🙌

  • @thebibletalesTV
    @thebibletalesTV 2 года назад +13

    I just love Pastor M! God will keep keeping you Ma. The devil will fail in any gimmicks of his to bring you down. May you never lose relevance Ma. Pastor Mildred, you will never ever lose you flavor. In Jesus mighty name🙏

  • @chideragift9076
    @chideragift9076 26 дней назад +1

    Mariage does not change anybody

  • @bataemmanuel2350
    @bataemmanuel2350 3 года назад +2

    This woman is loaded....🥰

  • @SummerUnsolicited
    @SummerUnsolicited 2 месяца назад

    Build on the right foundation; the WORD must be the foundation of your marriage/relationship
    - build your character
    - develop depth

  • @gloryyussuf4335
    @gloryyussuf4335 4 месяца назад

    Marriage does not change anybody 🔥🔥🔥

  • @Si-cb6il
    @Si-cb6il 3 года назад +11

    Thank you pastor Mildred for this powerful message✨ love you ma💐

  • @dyna1486
    @dyna1486 2 года назад +2

    Lord see me through 🙏

  • @jacquelineadadeobour4942
    @jacquelineadadeobour4942 3 года назад +3

    In fact!... Wisdom is indeed a woman, God bless you Pastor M.

  • @Choice353
    @Choice353 2 года назад

    Mama where have you been all my life
    This is what have been looking for a solution and here I found it on how to move out from a woman beater

  • @faithracheal5298
    @faithracheal5298 Год назад

    God bless you ma'am
    My first time here but I already feel at Jesus
    Watching from UAE

  • @justmo6896
    @justmo6896 3 года назад +12

    May God continue giving me wisdom and knowledge💛love your teachings

  • @catherinemaseko2471
    @catherinemaseko2471 2 года назад +1

    This is my message ooooh God change me to be a better person

  • @tanyinana7013
    @tanyinana7013 2 года назад +3

    My journey just started today 🔥🔥🔥thank you pastor M🙏

  • @MaryNwachukwu-yf9zx
    @MaryNwachukwu-yf9zx 6 месяцев назад +2

    Isaiah 30:15❤❤❤❤

  • @doreenmapulanga4224
    @doreenmapulanga4224 Год назад

    Madam, you're an excellent mentor among the women mentors I've watched may God richly bless you my dear.

  • @jejeprofit3595
    @jejeprofit3595 3 года назад +6

    Pure unadulterated wisdom 💕 thank you WoG

  • @maryibeji6678
    @maryibeji6678 3 года назад +3

    Fighting over men who are not worth fighting for

  • @ngoziukpa5517
    @ngoziukpa5517 3 года назад +10

    That part where you wonder why you are talking about God dealing with us Spirit-to-spirit, showing us that He is not a figment of our imagination; that was for me.
    Literally minutes before I pressed play on this video I wrote down, and I quote:
    "The biggest stronghold in my mind is that my relationship & interactions with god are just figments of my imagination, they are not actual divine encounters."
    Thank you.

  • @normantinyefuza9704
    @normantinyefuza9704 2 года назад +1

    May God bless u am Listening from Uganda

  • @ndidintekpere3613
    @ndidintekpere3613 2 года назад +8

    Amazing and down to earth message.
    Love every minute of it 💝

  • @nwagwetiruth
    @nwagwetiruth 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you ma ❤

  • @rivanoesajas6154
    @rivanoesajas6154 2 года назад

    Greetings from Suriname 🇸🇷🇸🇷🇸🇷 Blessings ✨️🙏🏾

  • @deboraholaonipekun7344
    @deboraholaonipekun7344 3 года назад +1

    Pastor M, that digression was for me. ANOINT HIM....THE ONE (1sam 16 vs 12) i stood up searching for my old joter..

  • @augustaisidore530
    @augustaisidore530 3 года назад +4

    I'm waiting too long oo, so interesting topics, this one is for me oo I really want to hear o

  • @MondesThreads
    @MondesThreads Год назад

    So so so good. I really wish I had know all of this before I got married. Never too late to learn

  • @Comfort.In.Christ.AloneC.I.C.A
    @Comfort.In.Christ.AloneC.I.C.A 5 месяцев назад

    Am watching from Uganda but greatly inspired 🙏🙏 God bless you

  • @eniolaenioluwabo7784
    @eniolaenioluwabo7784 3 года назад +2

    She comes with pure fire!! Pastor M on the rollllll....

  • @Cee247.M
    @Cee247.M 2 года назад

    Amen be a good christian and you will have a good marriage

  • @davidkondo7248
    @davidkondo7248 2 года назад +1

    im very blessed by this message today, i cannot thank you enough for this tremendous mind openning as im exactly in the midst of getting married may GOD keeps on using and blessing you. THank you Pastor Mildred Okonkwo, all the way from the Democratic Republic of the CONGO. GOD bless

  • @preciousnayame4556
    @preciousnayame4556 2 года назад +1

    Thank you wiyu wiyu🙏🙏❤️❤️

  • @oluwadarasimigrace
    @oluwadarasimigrace 3 года назад +3

    Thank u mummy 💓
    This is so powerful🙏🙏🙏
    God bless u ma🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @VictoriaAnochie-dt3xc
    @VictoriaAnochie-dt3xc 3 месяца назад

    This message has changed my view of relationship, Thank you so much ma, God bless you

  • @sysynodum641
    @sysynodum641 3 года назад +3

    God bless you, Maa.

  • @roslynkelley-world8692
    @roslynkelley-world8692 Год назад +2

    Thank you, Jesus and thank my beautiful sister for this changing word today on marriage and relationships it really helped me to look at relationships with a clear view now. 🙏

  • @njokisilvia9508
    @njokisilvia9508 2 года назад +1

    And God gave Us a pastor to teach Us in knowledge and Understanding

  • @Jesssuuusss_.
    @Jesssuuusss_. Год назад +1

    Thank you, Pastor M❤️💐
    God richly bless you for saving your generation 🙏

  • @dashelledisna6239
    @dashelledisna6239 3 года назад +9

    Love this Ma. Thank you for always preaching the word so bodly🙌🏽

  • @fredchisokochitundusimwanz4559

    Blessed by the word in Jesus Christ name