I woke up and told him am going swimming..something that have never done. He asked lots of questions 😅and wanted to drive me himself but I refused, told him my friends will pick me up. This man is right...exactly what am doing to him
The best way is stop asking, nagging, ignore him,love yourself,look good,work on building up yourself and trust God in the process,it will kill him. By the time you will move out,it will not hurt you but him
Very true I did this my husband buy for me the tickets to join him out side am with him for 4 years now he was fearing am going to marry another man yet I didn't plan for another man😅😅😅😅
Then why do you even get married if u can not take a risk its God that protects and if your really Faithful HIV can never come your way.Nothing can stop ATrue Woman Mother fight for her marriage no matter what
@@ooyeniyi5300hope he's praying for her salvation too. We are called to obey them and be submissive yet they are not our gods.They need to know their mistakes. That's why we need to look for money money money money money you will see the difference
Point number four, exactly kkkkk. Now i understand why doesn't want me to go out. I should stay at home so he can be free out there. Such amazing advice, notes
My Dear Friend you are referring to a professional man. Family Background plays a role. If a man comes from Family of polygamy, unfortunately a woman has no say. Personality also plays a role. I appreciate your advice, very educational, thank you ❤
Hallelujah am in abroad, but my husband has a pregnated agirl But l told him to choose who to marry and ge was busy crying lsaid u cry crocodile tears . Thank you for the knowledge ❤❤
Traditionally to curb cheating, polygamy was practiced. To my thoughts all these points means that you start building up your own emotional independence. Once you are there you are above him.
In my opinion the last point is a big NO crying will ruin all your work, it's better to wait when he eventually comes for a conversation then you tell him it hurts, not cry to him, a man that cheats does not regard your emotions what makes you think that crying about what he did will make any difference.
@@loladeyetunde5536yes exactly. Ex husband told me that. I left him for good. He now realize he lost a real wife but too late. Years gone. I moved on.
Some women dey take things I knew of someone who her husband has been cheating years back even before I married till now the woman is still there and the man refuse to change till tomorrow,and the way thus woman carry him for head,even this man went extra miles to the extent of sleeping with his friend daughter and they dated till the lady got married,there is no how to handle a man who cheats as far as am concerned
Waoooo on point but those men with pride and ego still remains who d choose to be till d enter grave. May God see d loving and caring women's through in Jesus name amen.
@@NwanneClement this is very true. No matter you try to just forgive and forget what has been done as a woman you are still on the verge of being on the wrong. Better care for yourself otherwise you will go faster than you came….
If I hadn’t texted his GF and asked what was the nature of her relationship with my husband, to get silence in return, he’d still be denying it. I will never regret doing that. I had to know the truth, and he was never going to tell that to me. So I bent too low.
if the fear of God is to both the man and the woman one cannot cheat being contented shuld be the key since the holy spirit of God is in you; we shld not justify a mistake which is forbidden even by God ; Remeber the judgement is there and cant be removed from book of judgement ; the commandment says do not practice adultery
This is really helpful as I regained my composure after watching the video. before watching it though I was really depressed am was about doing the wrong things thank you so much for your counselling
Oh,sorry, I've been there I know it hurts. I've ever done such tactics and it works though as Rev. Has put it after some rime u see it again with again somebody seems new.some usually have a wife and another woman periodically. Masculine dominating world gave them an upper hand.
Mine has never apologized though I've caught him a number of times, this time has told me that he's going to call a lawyer so we can sign for an open relationship, I told him it can never happen, by the way I do no longer cook for him & if I go out I spend the whole day @ the mall & find him sitting in the couch waiting for me 😂😂😂
Leave him. Simple as that. Men will say anything to let you think they can't apply discipline. He won't give you a second chance if you were the one cheating
Cheating is not an accident. It is a choice, and he chose not to respect you. If you can, leave him. You'll save yourself endless trips to the hospital
what can you do if after confronting him with facts and he accepts but he stops talking to you and wants to make you feel like you are the one at fought
i just got this video very late. i already left my house wit my child. I am tired of his lies, ignorance,drink, spending money out. do you have any suggestion for money.
If a man cheat the good weapon is to be very smart dress well eat well and dont Show him that you re up Set yes you can feel but havea boy friend somewhere,and after few yrs move on
A man closes ur business, and you allow it? You women really give the men inur lives the right to really do noonsense. He has no right whatsoever to close ur business.
Sir I cought my own husband with multiple exhibits but he couldn't apologize.He was with more than one woman out there.When I cut off the benefits started accusing me of having Men outside him.Until his sister's sister in law came serving him food on my table to my husband😢😮 absurd right.
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Don't tell him where you are going, dress well and come back late, don't cry and be bold don't feel sad or stressful
When your partner cheats please know that its not about you at all. Its about them and the demon of lust. So don't waste your tears please.
Amen
@@WellsOfWisdom-lc1dn I wish I knew this all along. I have cried and now at cross roads. God have mercy.
I was actually crying...
But have seen this and let me not cry again
Cheating is a choice not a mistake 😢
Exactly. They always planned it
Amazing
Correct
You are Right
Just apply detachment in the marriage, build yourself up and enjoy your children and home to the max. REMEMBER YOU ONCE HAD A LIFE BEGORE MEETING HIM
😂😂😂if a man starts cheating, he doesn’t care about how you feel so crying or not it won’t help you he already doesn’t care
I woke up and told him am going swimming..something that have never done. He asked lots of questions 😅and wanted to drive me himself but I refused, told him my friends will pick me up. This man is right...exactly what am doing to him
Yes good 😅
I do mind my own business I'm not desperate.
The best way is stop asking, nagging, ignore him,love yourself,look good,work on building up yourself and trust God in the process,it will kill him. By the time you will move out,it will not hurt you but him
These tips are so helpful, wise counsel indeed
Very very true
Very true I did this my husband buy for me the tickets to join him out side am with him for 4 years now he was fearing am going to marry another man yet I didn't plan for another man😅😅😅😅
Cheaters don't like their wife attending parties, even if it's a family functions.
@@ceomeiclothings7996 true!
Exactly
All those tips are spot on! They actually work. Ignore him, love yourself and develop yourself. Tried and tested 💯☑️
Thanks for this cos mine never changed.ge even follows married women
Practice self love 💕 ❤
There are those who are not ignorable, the worst thing is when he wants intimacy by force
@@anazialovelyn5429😊😊😊😊 pp
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I love all the points ! But crying for a cheater is a no for me !
You've never been there, you don choose to.... But tears go,.. Eventually
@mperisannmuthoni9086 don't cry in front of him it will make him more fulfilled
Also me I can't. Shiaaa so that he all feels good. Never
If you need to go through all this as a woman to get a man to love you,then you married an enemy in the first place.
😂😂😂😂😂
Narcissists don't care. They feel happy when you cry 😢
You are right
Pathological liars, victim playing, love bombing, gaslighting, they're good at that. Narcissists are real 😈
That's so true
Exactly
@rose.wanjalachoni
Ya, and when they see you happy they get jealous and weird.
Not all, demons(narcissists) will never apologize infact they do it openly to frustrate you.
Exactly dear
Sure
Very true
Very true
Never show a man you are depressed point taken 👌
A stray dog will never hear the hunter's whistle .
Cut off the benefits
No extra care
Extra key on the table
No extra pleasure
Go out often looking your best
I support this 💯
Don't bend too low for the side chick.Ignore the other woman
If you cut off benefits , he will continue going to look for them out there
@@gracerwabaingi7616 It doesn’t matter to you anymore.
@@gracerwabaingi7616who cares
This is it.
The only drug of choice is abandoning a cheater.
You will come to embrace this precious advice and apply it to your life.
Very true ❤❤
Why play mind games to win a cheater's attention, at the risk of HIV and other STIs, instead of leaving?!
Then why do you even get married if u can not take a risk its God that protects and if your really Faithful HIV can never come your way.Nothing can stop ATrue Woman Mother fight for her marriage no matter what
PLEASE NOTE: These tips DO NOT apply when dealing with a narcissistic man.
I agree with you
Very true
True so how can you deal with this kind of man please help me
💯 Thanks for sayn this haki😢
Also a demon possesd one 😂 .
The only smart way is to LEAVE HIM🙄🙄🙄 people like that never change, you keep forgiving and you end up with endless STDs and low self respect
I agree
Exactly 😊
EXACTLY....ONLY SOLUTION IS TO MOVE ON...
True
So true
This are very practical lessons. Every married woman needs to see this.
@@salamawanjiru1007 very true and sometimes we see them but thinking it is a phase he will change but to no avail
Rule number one after you find out he's cheating heal at the crime scene then leave from his house to your future husband when he least expected it 😅😅
Looking for one ready
I like it@@jaspatty
Noted
They are cheat. Will u kp on jumping from one man to another?
@@marymusyoka1740 as long as she is happy let it not bother anyone
It really works to women who have something to build themselves with, not goal keepers
It only works for those who are financially stable
U said it all
😅😅
Man of God,a munyankole man will never apologise.
Stay blessed
I am living with one and I did almost of your points, he is still a liar
You're lowering your value
Pray for his salvation
Let him pray for himself
Pray for God to transform his heart but focus mostly on taking care of yourself dear
@@ooyeniyi5300hope he's praying for her salvation too. We are called to obey them and be submissive yet they are not our gods.They need to know their mistakes. That's why we need to look for money money money money money you will see the difference
Point number four, exactly kkkkk. Now i understand why doesn't want me to go out. I should stay at home so he can be free out there. Such amazing advice, notes
My Dear Friend you are referring to a professional man. Family Background plays a role. If a man comes from Family of polygamy, unfortunately a woman has no say. Personality also plays a role. I appreciate your advice, very educational, thank you ❤
A narcissist man will frustrate you the more bc u knw the truth.
😅😅
Hallelujah am in abroad, but my husband has a pregnated agirl
But l told him to choose who to marry and ge was busy crying lsaid u cry crocodile tears . Thank you for the knowledge ❤❤
Traditionally to curb cheating, polygamy was practiced.
To my thoughts all these points means that you start building up your own emotional independence.
Once you are there you are above him.
Polygamy does not prevent cheating
Let him find the home as cold as a freezer😂
The woman too won't enjoy the home
God forbid i cannot cry for a man, he will feel he has won or dealt with u. My sister leave d stupid narcissist and move on with ur wife
I'm in the process of divorce because of cheating. Man don't change we have 3 children 20yrs of marriage 😢😢
If you stayed for 20yrs,why giveup now
Please, don't give up.
I will advise you follow the points listed here and you will smile at the end, May God help you Sis
My friend please don't dissolve that marriage, Jesus never threw us away despite cheatings,we have had done to Him
Pls , no divorce especially if ur d one pushing, ignore , be happy , look good for urself. Pray for ur healing & peace of mind
@@ShiruwaAnn057Its her choice,she has taken it all and she can't take it no more.
In my opinion the last point is a big NO crying will ruin all your work, it's better to wait when he eventually comes for a conversation then you tell him it hurts, not cry to him, a man that cheats does not regard your emotions what makes you think that crying about what he did will make any difference.
true
Exactly, d more u cry d most he enjoys it
Best thing is love urself & kids d more & pray to God to deliver him
Such men will tell you why are u crying? Are u a baby?
@@loladeyetunde5536yes exactly. Ex husband told me that. I left him for good. He now realize he lost a real wife but too late. Years gone. I moved on.
It depends on the man you are with.....some men never cry
Tried confronting mine and it ddnt go well
He confirmed he loved her and asked me to accept her,ive never healed 😢
This is so unfair what if he infects you with hiv😢you are with him all in the name of marriage
Exactly, all the time u still waiting for him to understand, HIV boom 🤯🤯
At this point u can't be intimate with him
Best punishment LEAVE !!.before he brings you all the skunk from outside !!
May God help us women o
Some women dey take things I knew of someone who her husband has been cheating years back even before I married till now the woman is still there and the man refuse to change till tomorrow,and the way thus woman carry him for head,even this man went extra miles to the extent of sleeping with his friend daughter and they dated till the lady got married,there is no how to handle a man who cheats as far as am concerned
Some men even if u cut off extra pleasure he will never change from cheating. Some men just have cheating in their DNA
Exactly I can wash my clothes as long you still check for children's
Leave!
Waoooo on point but those men with pride and ego still remains who d choose to be till d enter grave. May God see d loving and caring women's through in Jesus name amen.
@@NwanneClement this is very true. No matter you try to just forgive and forget what has been done as a woman you are still on the verge of being on the wrong. Better care for yourself otherwise you will go faster than you came….
If I hadn’t texted his GF and asked what was the nature of her relationship with my husband, to get silence in return, he’d still be denying it. I will never regret doing that. I had to know the truth, and he was never going to tell that to me. So I bent too low.
Good job ❤
Knowing the truth is better. You're safer if you know your enemy
My own does not come home again. He abandoned i and the kids completely.
This is magic and the advise here is very very underrated!!! This needs to get out to the world.!!! Thankful I came across the video! Bless you
How I wish I had known this earlier.
I thank God for delivering me from narcissit's life. 😊
Please summon this man to men conference to explain why he's selling men out.
if the fear of God is to both the man and the woman one cannot cheat being contented shuld be the key since the holy spirit of God is in you; we shld not justify a mistake which is forbidden even by God ; Remeber the judgement is there and cant be removed from book of judgement ; the commandment says do not practice adultery
Very true dear
This man has given the best advise ever
No tears for a narcissistic person
That cry is a no no for me
Just file for divorce… this is not worth it
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Abi ooo😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Yeah if you can afford it.
@@elizabethomoruyi9769even if you can't it's better for you to leave
If a man cheats on you,just give other men a chance. Omo don’t die with misery
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Or AIDS 😅
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 kabisa
😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is the best medicine ever 💯 👏
Once a cheater always a cheater
Absolutely.
@@ifeomasandra6086not true
I believe that too
People differ for some it works and for some it will make things worse but if he fear God he will not do it coz God is everywhere
Very right
This is so educative and it really works. Thank u for this episode
A Narcissist can never beg you
Especially a religious narcissist, they are the worse
💯🎯
@@ayerinsarahoseyemi4376Religious narcissist are the worse set of narcissist, I dont wish any woman
Narcissist are soooooo heart🤞🤞🤞
Less
I have subscribed. I have learnt a lot today. I am in Harare Zimbabwe
Wao this is really very strong medicine to my soul going to put all this into consideration thanks very much sir
😂😂😂😂
The solution does not lie in punishing but in counseling based on facts.
Counseling who? Lol
You are super good my dear, you are a very very very good councilor you man , may the Lord use more and more to teach us ladies 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for your teaching
Caught my husband last year around November BT still today I don't know how to deal with it it's hurt so much
Why are you still with him?? Leave for your peace of mind
Am happy for the best advice for my soul.I stopped talking about that long time
I treated myself through him, , Over a year now, no intimacy with him, because of cheating with many, i just pray i get rich soon to be apart.
Hmm, Amin
Mine too
That why it good to be financially fit
This is really helpful as I regained my composure after watching the video. before watching it though I was really depressed am was about doing the wrong things thank you so much for your counselling
Oh,sorry, I've been there I know it hurts.
I've ever done such tactics and it works though as Rev. Has put it after some rime u see it again with again somebody seems new.some usually have a wife and another woman periodically.
Masculine dominating world gave them an upper hand.
Mine has never apologized though I've caught him a number of times, this time has told me that he's going to call a lawyer so we can sign for an open relationship, I told him it can never happen, by the way I do no longer cook for him & if I go out I spend the whole day @ the mall & find him sitting in the couch waiting for me 😂😂😂
His facing Karma.. enjoy girl
Turn the table 😅❤
Why are you staying? Do you think it’s worth it ?
I still leave him to eat whatever he thinks is enough for him Now when he's, tired he'll come back
Leave him. Simple as that. Men will say anything to let you think they can't apply discipline. He won't give you a second chance if you were the one cheating
Thank you from today am gonna do what you have taught me now, God bless you
Narcissists feed off - all this. They don’t care instead, that will be making them more pompous!
How about blocked and muted phones?
Good advice from the elder, trust your God and love your self
Wonderful message truly, i have ever used these tricks and they worked for me
When are we having part 2 of these lessons please?very educative .Thanks so much Pastor and Rev.Akama
I downloaded and have to come back after watching to say a big thank you for your tip of solution. They truly work.
Ooooh waw...this is so wonderful,,the best advice ever thanks and may God bless you 😊
Cheating is not an accident. It is a choice, and he chose not to respect you. If you can, leave him. You'll save yourself endless trips to the hospital
I can't cry coz of a man who cheat me ooh never
Me too, imagine stooping that low crying over a man waah
Wow.....wow....wow wonderful. I love that sharing. God bless u so so much.
The tips work absolutely 💯. They worked for me
Very very True, words of wisdom 👍👍
what can you do if after confronting him with facts and he accepts but he stops talking to you and wants to make you feel like you are the one at fought
i just got this video very late. i already left my house wit my child. I am tired of his lies, ignorance,drink, spending money out. do you have any suggestion for money.
True no shouting, facts and option.
This lessons are poweful.Thanks for educating us women.Thanks Rev.
Woooow all those tips are spot on
If a man cheat the good weapon is to be very smart dress well eat well and dont Show him that you re up Set yes you can feel but havea boy friend somewhere,and after few yrs move on
The best weapon is divorce papers!!!!
Skylar, what kind of advice is this? Are. you Jezebel ama?
Mind your head youre jezebel not me
And dont write me am not your Husband
@@skylarwaweru4852 May GOD ALMIGHTY deliver you.
I wish I knew this some years ago, very informative 👏🏾
It's true, I wish I knew this years ago😅
Let him come home to cold like a freezer 😆😆😆
😅😅😅😅😅😅
Wow I love this God bless you sir
Thank for this , i started feeding better in my marriage after watching this. God bless your union
It's true,he closed my business and am a housewife.Now i know
Same thing happened to me
A man closes ur business, and you allow it? You women really give the men inur lives the right to really do noonsense. He has no right whatsoever to close ur business.
Sir I cought my own husband with multiple exhibits but he couldn't apologize.He was with more than one woman out there.When I cut off the benefits started accusing me of having Men outside him.Until his sister's sister in law came serving him food on my table to my husband😢😮 absurd right.
They're supporting what he's doing and if it happens to them they won't clap hands and dance
And you are still there, aunty be wise they are using you
I need a part two of this series
Nilianza ku mind my own business,kuchapa luku na kutoka kwenda out akaanza kusema I am seeing someone ati I know you are in love with someone else 😂😂😂
Kindly do one on how to punish a cheating wife.
Divorce is the only answer they have to that 😢
@@janetfoluke9426 😂😂😂 with immediate effect
@@janetfoluke9426That's unfair
No need. Once she is cheating, she has cut u off emotionally. I advise u leave if not u may die of heart attack.
How did she start to cheat?
Thanks for the tips because hey,the situation in my marriage is bad I am humbled
I like the facts, good teachings
Crying is not helping,I have been crying for him almost every time he returns home but he will pretend he is not seeing me
Some men accept yet they are not ready to change
Not at all
I once tried going out as he says, weeeee the beating i got is still fresh 10years+ down the line. And that's how it ended.
It depends on personality
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂sorry but thats funny
Tell your friends not to try this at home
😂😂😂😂. It's funny. But it shows that he really didnt like you. So its better it ended.
@@rombanilondwa4488He will meet the woman that will dismember him. All women are not the same.
Please talk about distance relationships and how to deal with cheating man
Leave him before he infects u with something. Cheaters dont change
Thank you so much for sharing 🙏 God bless you