Young Man with History of "Backyard Demons" Murders Man Pursuing His Wife | Tyler Borg Case Analysis
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- Опубликовано: 25 июл 2024
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Seems like his parents taught him to blame demons for his own poor behavior instead of teaching him how to behave. 🙄
Sounds like he could be on the spectrum and parents unable to deal with his attention level.
Mental illness is clearly common in that family.
or loving him with validation and spending time with his child....
I've met kids that would be who they are no matter how the parents treated them. ...One was an ex gf 😆
That's what religion does bruh.
With Borg as a last name, resistance to evil may have been futile.
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Unless you win Wimbledon five times in a row - funny how they were named after the great Swedish tennis star!
If only Jean Luc Picard were in the household, this murder never would have occurred!
At least his first name wasn't Cy!
Ironically, Backyard Demons sounds like the name of a Metal band.
Yeah
I love the Backyard Demons' ballads about battling inner backyard demons.
In my small town in California, there was once a teen-age rock band named "Anal Fetus"
---Later, they changed their name.
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I wonder if frontyard demons are more tame and don't wreak evil havoc because they're more exposed and facing the street, leading to witnesses capable of identifying them
exactly
Front yard ones are too easily distracted to concentrate on you.
Lol...there's a Dr. Grande joke for sure
well the father burying porn in the yard and then saying it brought demons leads me to believe he was off in the head himself lol
The nut does not fall far from the tree.
Yes, plus throwing ice water really bad idea. Tyler needed long term help with structured environment with mood meds.
yup.
Parents shouldn’t blame their young children for having problems. A parent’s job is to offer support and guidance to help navigate their child through the difficult years of childhood. Pointing fingers at the child and saying he’s not “normal “ only adds to the problem.
@@georgiegirl8345I do. It was common practice for me growing up.
It’s very effective.
Great for parents too lazy to discipline
Backyard demons are some of the worst demons you could possibly encounter.
Like garden gnomes, or birdbath-nazgul
i disagrre i have sme that live in my plumbing that are so foul no other demon can compare, thye get really realy bad after i eat mexican food
And they carry those iron spatulas...just... Morbid, to be frank.
"Spatula" sounds like a demon's name.
I’m in for a Backyard Demon Pool Party!!! Invite me!
I'm always amazed that guys like that can somehow manage to find girlfriends & wives.
Unfortunately I usually date them!!
This is just a theory, my opinion....but I believe that psychopaths are very good at manipulating people. Borg most likely sought after women who he believed were easily susceptible to manipulation.
They're seen as attractive.
There are plenty of crazy women out there.
I'm not. Some women like bad boys. Lol
“The Borg have an affinity for assimilation”
Damn Doc…great Star Trek reference!!
Needed the chuckle today!!
that borg assimilation joke KILLED!!!!!
I ate at Taco Bell and had some serious backyard demons 😵💫
You knew there had to be a Borg reference in there somewhere. Nice job.
I love the Star Trek reference 😂
Sounds like Tyler's dad created a self fulfilling prophecy by treating his sensitive and odd son like he was evil.
Bit simplistic.
Yeah doesn't sound like the parents were very nice or comprehensive
Him putting salad dressing on toys may be one of the most disturbing things I’ve ever heard
'...disaster is closer than a backyard demon to a pool party.'
Beautifully illustrated Dr Grande!
Tyler’s dad is the scary one! Tyler was just following in his father’s footsteps.
Borg assimilation, knitting club, lazy demons... this is why i keep coming back.
Anyone who has watched Nanny 911 or SuperNanny knows that child behavioral issues are 99% of the time due to the parents who fail to properly engage with and exercise control over their children. It's a sad situation for parents to deal with, but failure to fully deal with a situation early allows it to become worse as the child grows older. Resistance is futile!
also many parents do not spend quality time with their children, they spend time gaming, on the phone, doing busy work, working, running errands. The children need quality time, to be listened to, validated...the behavior is to attract attention they will get it one way or another. At 3, kiddos do not understand that putting milk in the fish bowl will kill the fish, they are curious. anyways...
Are we still talking about a 3-year-old in the beginning of all of this?? I only ask because putting salad dressing on their toys seems like a fairly normal thing for a 3-year old to get into
Even killing the fish. He's three years old. I don't think he was aware he was killing the fish. Either that or he truly was a evil baby genius, or reincarnated demon. -_-
Probably not killing fish intentionally though 😢
First red flags.
I don't think I know of one 3 y.o. pouring salad dressing on toys. I also would be concerned about a child fooling around with the heat setting of an aquarium.
@@gogreen7794 maybe they just needed to watch their kid better
... A child left to themself.... 😞 poor kid. Needed love and direction and got backyard demons instead..
The wife knew her husband was unstable. Instead of leaving him, she has a relationship behind his back…genius! That man’s murder is squarely on her.
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Sounds like dad was more messed up than Tyler.
exactly. I'm just in a minute 4 and I needed to pause it, because this sounds like a parenting style directly leading to a disaster.
A lot of damage has been done by devout parents who think their religion is the answer to any problems their child has - no matter how serious. My sister’s first husband developed schizophrenia shortly after they were married. His parents refused to believe it and just said he needed to pray harder. Thankfully, when he turned violent, it was towards himself and not my sister.
Salad dressing on toys is where I would draw the line
A desire to harm animals from an early age is never a good sign.
They never said it was intentional...
@@AmandaLovesOldFords He boiled the fish 2 days after having killed another fish with milk.
Presumably the parents had explained how messing with the aquarium could be dangerous after the first incident.
However, some people seem to be so unfit to be parents that anything is possible.
Maybe your protective response is that of a mother which would be understandable.
In his case they seemed to be early signs of problems. ( Just my opinion )
at 3 there is not the understanding that putting milk into the fish bowl will kill the fish, or rising the temperature of the water...he probably was just playing with the dials to watch what would happen. They do not have abstract logical thinking at 3
The real crime here is the stripes on a Kia.
Let's be honest, Kia Soll drivers are not known for making the best decisions
Sounds like he was a neglected toddler with odd minded parents to start out with.....
I was a very bored sperg and would get up and cook while my parents slept
@jhoughjr1 at 3 yo.... children do odd things. I can imagine any of my loving 3 yo children thinking milk is good for fish .... he was a killer and responsible for his crimes but for the dad to go national and talk like that.. wild
Yeah, the stuff the kid did at 3 wasn't really that worrisome, I don't think. And he was clearly raised in a house with high religiosity. His dad at least clearly has mental problems of his own. Children raised in homes with high religiosity are more likely to end up becoming criminals later in life, with the more extreme cases resulting in crimes against children.
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Really, killing fish, who was watching him? Total neglect. Demons? His parents made him crazier than he needed to be.
The devil is in the dandelions.
Burying adult images instead of throwing them away is weirder than making a mess with crayons and baking soda.
HIS PARENTS WERE WACKED. There's too much missing information missing from the day of his birthday up to age 3. We haven't a clue as to both parents and if Tyler was abused in some way daily by his parents.
His parents blamed demons and thought prayer would fix it.
Religiously delusional, neglectful parents, story old as time
Why would any woman choose to be "romantically involved" with Tyler in the first place? I can't believe there weren't red flags about his personality and past behavior.
After hearing how his father destroyed his metal collection, I immediately understand why he became evil
Wait, he sucessfully made it through the military???
if not that, a cop
Military has pretty low standards actually.
@@jhoughjr1You can't get violent with the men yelling in your face. I don't see how he could meet that standard.
@@maelradec6766 Nah but good try at shoehorning your agenda into this
@@JustMe-fo4ev you mad, bootlicker?
Assimilated into The Borg. Resistance is futile.
He put salad dressing on his toys? Whaaaat?
That IS strange,, I couldn't deal with ANYTHING on my toys,, just the fact that he was unsupervised enough to take the salad dressing out of the refrigerator and spread it on the toys says VOLUMES about the parents lack of interest in parenting...
Kids will be kids😊
@@micnorton9487 Okay, but just because -- JUST BECAUSE -- your kid puts Newman's Own on his Lego castle DOES NOT mean he will grow up to be a murderer. I wish Dr. Grande had made that clear!
I put a bowl of oatmeal in my head as a hat.
What about the woman who beat the 3 year old child to death that she was daycaring for because the child put ketchup in the toilet. What's the big deal? They are children.
If “They all effed around and found out” was a Shakespeare play
Backyard Demon will be the name of my Gwar cover band.
Sing the song “ the Backyard Demon at a Pool Party “ It’s a lovely tune
Child: I'd like to try psychopharmacology and cognitive behavioral therapy.
Dad: Expel the demons! Jesus loves you. Deny the devil!
"disaster is closer than a backyard demon to a pool party" 😂😂
Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating about resistance being futile like this.
Caroline brought this situation on. If she didn't want to be with Tyler, filing for divorce is the right option. Sneaking around on her husband was bound to end badly.
Tyler probably would have killed her if she tried to leave. Tyler was nothing more than pure evil.
Front yard demons are way worse.
They took my garage sale signs
@@geraldfriend256 They always do.
Backyard Demon Pool Party is a great 80's metal cover band name! 😊🤘🏻🤘🏻
It seems like everyone in his life failed to help him before it was too late. Doesn't excuse his terrible actions. But it's a sad story
A good lesson to men out there, don’t cheat with married women, you don’t know what their husbands are capable of…case and point
Yep
Good point, and to add further, a good lesson to people out there is...don't cheat. You never know what anyone is capable of, but you can be sure that the response won't be positive. If you aren't happy in your relationship, navigate a clean break first. It still might not go well, but it's the the best course of action. Lying, deceiving, sneaking around and triangulating is 100% likely to result in a bad outcome, and possibly a harmful or fatal one. Be safe out there, y'all.
@@pragmatica_onpointsounds like Tyler could've used temporary insanity in court, think it has another name but his lawyers maybe could've got his sentence for 30 years, glad they didn't though the guy has serious issues
My momma always said “I’m not married so I’m not committing adultery.”
@@pragmatica_onpoint AND it's WRONG!! :) I know that word doesn't mean much in America anymore :)
But it is wrong
I mean, he didn't deserve to be murdered, but he should have known that he was putting himself into a terribly dangerous situation.
I’m sorry I have no sympathy for anyone cheating with anyone’s wife that’s the risk you take and you take the consequences I’m not saying it’s right to murder someone but at the same time your taking an unnecessary risk when intense emotions is involved it probably won’t end well just like Dr. Grande mentioned..tragic but not uncommon
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Oh Dr. Grande. You underestimate the dangers of women with pointy things at their disposal. When I worked for a fiber arts store in college, we used the say we could guess the dates when the hospitals let out the patients to bur thir supplies. The nonviolent ones got knitting needles or weeving (lots of sharp equiplent) the violent ones got crochet hooks. Everthing we have can be used as a weapon!
His dad had Backyard Demons starring Ron Jeremy
Why do people blame music for mental health problems?
they don't want to blame themselves for being terrible parents...
Because some of this “music” aimed at children is disgustingly sick
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Boiling a fish to death at 3 years old? After killing one with milk? That seems pretty extreme to me. The milk was probably not that unusual but after learning it killed a fish he then thought up another way, an arguably more torturous one, to kill another fish? Again, at the age of three. To have that level of malice and intelligence working together was definitely a sign of what was to come in the future without proper intervention. Possibly even with it given that the persistent violence was a characteristic he displayed at such a young age, before video games or peer influences or any "outside" influences were involved. I think it's miraculous he made it to the age he did before killing someone. His family should be thankful they were spared.
A 3 year old doesn't know how to feed a fish or how an aquarium works. The behavior of the father seems more debatable though
Amazing how confident some people are in their ability to read the mind of a child they've never met.
That stood out to you and not his father's religious delusions?
Thanks for the Star Trek references ❤
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Haha, "This is not surprising considering g hi is the Borg have an affinity for assimilation."
I guess he had reason to believe she was cheating or lying... I mean I'm sure he had made her want to leave him but why was she remaining with him and going behind his back planning to cheat
here's only one solution: Stop having chidlren you can't raise properly.
The assimilation joke hahaha ☠️
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I am also not surprised that Borg has assimilated well in prison. I bet that there was no futile resistance upon him getting there. Good joke Dr. Grande.
Somewhere in his early childhood a seed was planted that grew into a murderer. The demons got him.
I live in Fontana and have never heard of this case 🤷🏻♀️ I was shocked to hear my city, and yes we always have to say "East of LA" 🤣 thanks for this Dr Grande! ✨💖
Another great analysis Dr. G!
Congrats on your anniversary and thanks for all of the great insights in your videos... unique very interesting and sometimes hilarious
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I had a beer with my backyard demon.
(checks notes...) Scratch that, it was my wife.
Awesome analysis, thanks 😀
I'm not really following a psychopathic trajectory in this story. Salad dressing, milk, murder - doesn't track.
it sounds like the parents had a huge overreaction to the initial behaviour and it went from there, because any attention is better than zero attention (and some people see demons in everything)
another wild video! love the Borg comment :D
"His father was interviewed for the tv show, Evil Lives Here, and provided a long list of Tyler's bizarre or "evil" behaviour." Sounds to me like his parents exaggerated and embellished upon his behaviors, and maybe even encouraged his behavior to gain attention to themselves and their so-called plight. They wanted to get on tv, get attention, maybe write a book.They likely encouraged his behavior. Similar in a way to Munchausen's by proxy....
I'm a huge fan of stories that involve supernatural explanations.😂😂😂 Whenever you're not sure of the cause of something always default to the supernatural it will never let you down 😂😂😂
Better than “Backdoor” demons 🤷♂️
7:16: "Ok." 👍
Right... he basically said he was going to kill Justin and she came back with......ok. baffling
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I have to wonder if this is a case of a self fulfilling prophecy? The father seemed to WANT to associate Tyler's behavior with demonic/ evil influences. A doctor/ therapist suggesting ice water treatment for disobedience seems odd to me. Perhaps Tyler needed some help coping with his aggressive behavior, but never seemed to get appropriate care or intervention. Sad to have two lives lost this way. A waste.😢
"lazier demons around, they will want to lay around the backyard pool all the time."
Either way, his wife, ain't his wife anymore! He made sure of that.
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Evicerate....Sounds like a Cannibal Corpse listener.
I agree with your analysis. The aggressive behavior was more worrisome. Guns make cowards feel strong. Great points again. Thanks Dr G😊🤍💜
Why do people get upset at a third party rather than the person who cheated on them? 🙄
Dumping milk in the fish tank and messing with the thermometer sounds like normal child behavior. A kid isn't going to know that's going to hurt the fish, parents need to explain that to them.
Dr Grande, please do a video about the murder of Russian opposition leader Navalniy, who was murdered in prison this week. This is massive news as it comes during Russian elections and a successful Ukrainian destruction on a large Russian battleship.
Might this have been a revenge-murder?
Certainly an expected tactic used by Putin, as described by Guriev in his book "Spin Dictators".
PS: 1 year ago, you reviewed President Putin. Today, this man caused Navalny's end. It would be poetic justice to discuss life and mission and end of Navalny.
Very timely. I watched an episode of law and order yesterday about a psychopathic boy . His behavior escalated similarly to Tyler.
His parents did not want to face the truth but eventually they agreed to commit him to a facility.
It seems they committed Tyler a couple times and he seemed to get better but many many psychopaths appear charmingly normal like the long island architect that no one suspected of being a serial killer.
I think his wife's behavior released all that pent up malevolence and by then it had been building so long that Tyler no longer cared about consequences.
It's interesting. Never heard of people with the actual name Both. I thought the star trek writers made it up.
Life imitates art or vice versa.
The star trek borg were a race of psychopaths who prided themselves on lack of emotion, empathy-human traits they disdained. They killed or assimilated others with a ruthless efficiency.
As far as Tyler getting religion in prison. I highly doubt it. I'm betting it's a survival tactic in prison-another act.
Tyler is right where he belongs. Locked tightly away from society. He'd kill again in a heartbeat.
Resistance is futile
Always interesting
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I don't think the parents should've asked their medical doctor for behavior advice for their child. They should've asked a child counselor or therapist.
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It is indeed always a gamble when infidelity comes into play.
Just because you see demons doesn't mean they are not real. VIVIVI
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Wow. Good job nobody mentions some of the things I did as a child!! God knows what you'd call me!!
Demonic influence may very have something to do with this.
@00:27 Village Of The Dammed 😬
Next Generation reference...love it! But the real question is, how many fans had the interactive VCR game that came out around 1995? 😁
Another excellent video!!! ❤😂🎉 Thank you Dr. Grande!.... Reguarding this video....
imagine being their neighbor??? 🙄🙏 Now... why did they ever release Tyler from the mental facility??? We definitely need state run mental hospitals reopened in this country... counting on the public providing care for their mentally ill relatives is insane!!!