As you can tell by my channel moniker, I'm a Kiwi and as such I'm pretty familiar with the sentences handed out for serious crimes in New Zealand, I read the court news daily. Also, because NZ only records around 50 homicides a year for the entire country, any murder that is slightly out of the ordinary is usually covered by nationwide media, as are the court cases for those murders. New Zealand is ridiculously lenient on murderers. A life sentence here for an unplanned murder will usually see the murderer walking the streets on parole after 5-8 years if they behave themselves inside, show remorse and a willingness to rehabilitate themselves back into society. A premeditated murder might attract a 17 or 18 year sentence but once again, good behavior etc will usually see this sentence cut in half. The worst murderers such as child abduction murders, murdering police officers or mass murders will attract 25 - life sentences but we have only a small handful of murderers who will never have any chance of freedom such as Brenton Tarrant, the Christchurch Mosque shooter who murdered 51 people in about 30 minutes who was sentenced to 51 life sentences without the chance of parole. In New Zealand a person who is caught manufacturing methamphetamine will get a longer sentence than a murderer.
Well, addiction does ruin a lot of lives in a ripple effect, so this policy isn't irrational-so much cost in every way to society. Still, they could be serious about punishing both homicide and drug trafficking.
You are incorrect. Minimum parole period has to be at least 10 years for all life sentences and can of course be longer. It is impossible for a murderer to get out under 10 years
@TheFlyingKiwi, I am wonder if you have any insights on why the murder rate is so low in NZ at 50 per year. Maybe long sentences and death penalties as in the US aren't much of a deterrent?
During my aunt's funeral, a young man who was thought of as a bad kid stopped for the funeral, took off his hat and put his head down.. it was surprising and heartwarming and brought me to tears. That stuff matters. Bless them
Very rare and wonderful to see! It's also heartwarming how much the judge took into considering this monster's vile act and spared him a real sentence. Luckily, he could be out in a little over 13 years. It's so heartwarming to see a judge so considerate of all those involved! What a guy! (sarcasm folks...this is sarcasm)
You have no idea..This is nothing. The worst cases are about sexual violence. People just get off the hook even when they get sentenced for brutal rapes. The best thing about the USA is it's hard core sentencing. Lenient punishments are the worst part about where I live in Scandinavia.
@@cht2162Because they don't believe the 'victim' , get it. Probably you don't. She got consequences for her toxic behavior, learn from that. He's paying for being a fool and giving to her. He shoulda walked.
@@lawrencefrost9063 Yeah ofcourse, you are right 😴😴😴 That's why America is failing and becoming shit hole of drugs , guns, violence, crime and weak leadership.
@julieme7927 Some more than others though... SA does have some beautiful landscapes, fascinating nature and rich human history. However, the economy is going down the shitter and the rate of violence is wayyy higher than a majority of countries. Corruption is higher too as are infection rates of diseases. I like South Africa as a country but they (the Gov.) really need to sort out some of these key issues.
Also it makes Jesus' job more difficult, having a headache trying to identify the dismembered body when it reaches heaven (if the individual murdered was Christian)
Unbelievable! Must have a good attorney. I can follow most of these murders by cause (with Dr's calm explaination) right up to the dismemberment part. The minute you have the ability to hack someone apart(the mother of your child) like it's nothing, you are waaaay over any empathy for parole.
I bet he enjoys making these videos and editing them. He gets a lot of props from his fan base and he gets to look down on the people he laughs at. After all, he edits his videos to maintain his poker face when he makes his cutting comments, should he burst out with supercilious cruelty. I liked his educational videos better. The recent 'm' alliteration stream was lovely, but the 'f' alliteration stream I found for some reason dissonant and noisome . I hope his wife is happy.
I think that there was prejudice against the victim because of her line of work. He should have used that prejudice to try and gain custody. Instead, He beat her to death and he tried to cover it up. I definitely think that 13 years is too light.
I was a court reporter for 15 years. In my personal experience, MANY judges routinely lighten murder sentences if the victim was a person of "disrepute" (prostitutes, homeless, drug addicts, etc). It enraged me so much and utterly disillusioned me with the justice system. I'm no man-hater.. but male judges did this WAY more often then female judges in my experience (I even kept a notepad after a few years of being on the job, I'd tick everytime a male judge gave a light murder sentence vs female judge and male judges gave lighter murder sentences 40% more often).
I certainly don’t think that women should prostitute themselves. It’s dangerous and demeaning. However, it doesn’t make what he did less egregious. His sentence was too light
I wouldn’t advise any woman to choose to engage in sexual activity for money. It’s dangerous and demeaning. However, it doesn’t make his act any less egregious
@@HathurWomen always are discriminated against. Thanks for posting your research on male entitlement. He should have also been charged with child abuse for the trauma he will endure. I agree that he should have gotten a life sentence. 😮
I'm thinking because she was a sex worker, that would reasonably put any husband on edge. Or at least I'm guessing that could have been the judge's point of view. Plus maybe a supporter with some influence.
Well , he did move to New Zealand. He couldn’t really get much further away than that. The landlady and the fiancé seem a bit naive, as does the perpetrator . Strangely low sentence.
13 years for murder?! A girl who committed a $100 million dollar fraud is facing over 100 years in prison. Mostly due to the ripping off rich people part.
Tbh life doesnt have a price bc its priceless so that $100m fraud deserves harsh punishment - I always cringe when I hear the kind of sentences handed out in the UK and the wasp world - when they became the empire they were ruhless and when they lost it they became hippie skippies - sometimes the US is following that path and tbh u nvr know what kind of verdict u might recieve - its a bet you can bet on the highest priced attorney usually - the best justice system money can buy lol
I don't understand these people that come forward after the fact and say they heard somebody scream and moan or a loud thud and they never think to call the police? I hear this all the time in cases
13 years? His fiancée is happy to trust her life and that of her children with him in the future? The judge just ignored all the indications of planning? 🤯🤯🤯 Seriously, this situation just kept shocking me. Maybe it was Carmen’s career as a sex worker that contributed to the pathetic judgement? She wasn’t a highly valued contributor to society, but Mr Engineer was? What an all round disgrace 😐
@@dadgonetroppo3668 He is a murderer, regardless. He should have kept his genitals to himself. Apparently he had murder on his mind for a while, it appears.
I'm sure that his fiancé is turned on that her future husband is a murderer who dismembered his ex-wife. Psycho, co-dependent women are turned on by these sick freaks.
If I ever had a relationship with someone who was toxic and the relationship caused the birth of a child, and later the relationship ended, I would put as much distance between the mother and child as possible and never look back. From my observations in life, this draw of a child to be within the circle of a relationship that involves a toxic person is always ruinous. It can really never be any other way. Sever all contact and move on. Toxic people will always, always use children as a weapon. It’s the nature of their toxicity.
Trader Joe, he should have kept his genitals in his pants. If he did not have the ability to do that, he should have at the very least used a condom. Irresponsible sexuality has real consequences, in this case, baby making. Fornicating is all the rage. I would not be surprized if alcohol was involved initially. Alcohol makes for very poor choices. The more things change, the more they stay the same. People blinded by lust. Hindsight is 20/20. His fiancee is a fool if she doesn't dump him, difficult as that may be for her. Unfortunately, common sense sense is uncommon, and too many people have to learn the hard way, through their own painful experiences. I apologize if I sound cynical, but this Brad Callahan has already demonstrated his sociopathy via murdering the mother of his child.
wish my mom realized this when she was forcing us to visit our father while knowing how toxic he was and then suffering all of the consequences of finding out on our own as children 😭
He was no angel because he disliked Carmen, and (don’t forget!) paying child support. He wanted to have his son nearby but someone else’s paying the bill.
Wow, what kind of judicial system do they have in New Zealand? Giving murder is a get out of jail, free card 13 years are you kidding me ! He bludgeoned a helpless woman he should never see the light of day again
Eligible for Parole in 13 years - doesn't mean he will get parole then, but he will probably make a model prisoner. Many people with similar sentences here serve much longer than the parole period.
Eligible for parole after 13 years & 8 months?! Ridiculous miscarriage of justice. And I don’t care if Carmen was antagonistic and angered him, you don’t blame a victim for being murdered.
Imagine a friend of yours come to you and ask you to help dispose of a body. In the middle of the ocean. What do you do? Not only he just killed a person, proving how dangerous he is, but now you are automatically a loose end. By accepting to help, you are putting yourself in the perfect position to be killed and if you refuse.. well, does the guy even need to say anything? That is a very fucked up situation. I don't blame the guy for playing along and calling the police as soon as he is in a safe position.
Yep, that's the only safe option. Because if you say "no," you're a loose end. And once the body is disposed of, you're a loose end as well. So the only safe option is to agree, and get help asap.
Now for the hindsight. Don’t sleep with someone you would not at least be willing to raise a child with if a child happened. Even though there’s protection nothing is 100% and you can’t count on your partner to use it. Particularly if the relationship has been abusive or controlling the abuse never ends while they are tied to a child. Most of these relationships aren’t this extreme. They’re just toxic for the children involved. I wonder what happened to jack?
1/31/24 What a poor excuse for a Man (pos), jail with parole is ridiculous!! It’s clear from history search 1st degree murder. Hope he doesn’t make it out of jail. Victims behavior is no excuse to take her life💔💜
I’m sceptical of Carmen’s detractors. I wonder if they had rather more in common with her than they wanted to admit, and were projecting the blame for any clashes they’d had onto her. For one thing, leading people astray isn’t a real thing, just like falling in with the wrong crowd. The people presented as victims in such scenarios are just as much participants as anyone else.
I am surprised on how people can get away with murder by being "triggered", I do not see one picture where Brad look even pleasant, he is really not attractive. He was sick and tired of Carmen , he wanted his new relationship and child, without her in his life. He planned it when his new relationship started. He told 3 people and not one of them contact the police? They should be accountable. That judge should ask if he would have provided the same sentence, if it was his daughter.
Dr. G, I have a question. What is your take on mankind in general when we seem to be more likely to click on when the material that is most horrific or gory in general? It must be difficult to maintain an audience when you are forced to entice by participating in the mainstream need for shock and horror. I will say that ( in my humble opinion) you've managed to walk that razors edge without losing your integrity. I have the utmost respect for you. You are definitely more than just a cool shirt 😉....70 in Hawaii 🌴🌺
I was asked to buy a Lego set suitable for a teenage boy, and though at that age I would have loved a cactus set and almost bought one for myself, I ended up getting one of a car.
Brad could have applied for the sole custody of his son, justifying his claim with the fact that the child's mother was a sex worker. Or maybe these days judges set such claims aside as irrelevant.
This was in New Zealand. Sex work was decriminalized there more than 20 years ago, and in general the population doesn't hold the same outdated opinions about sex workers' ability to be good parents that you find in some other countries, so, no, he couldn't have used that as a justification.
Was Brad even paying his child support? Was maybe she was forced into it because she had to have enough money to raise her child and herself. unless you have education you can’t really get a good enough job to pay for a flat plus yourself and a child. If Brad didn’t want to be responsible for a child then he shouldn’t have had a romance.
New Zealand has low punishments for murder. Technically they are on life parole. Most people here think life should mean life, or at least long enough for the person to no longer be a threat due to age and infirmity. Either way, taxpayers will pay to keep them alive - either in prison or out of prison.
Would love your interpretation of the case of the drake hammer attack. It’s an unsolved mystery but her got convicted simply because he was having an affair. His wife didn’t see who hit her. She was struck from behind at the church and the money was gone. I forgot his first name ill look at it again. He’s still in prison. He’s my best friends grandad.
Earliest I've ever been here! Dr Grande, please consider covering the case of Cristian Fernandez, the youngest person ever convicted of 1st degree murder 🙏🏻
Unfortunately for Carmen I suspect the inadequate sentence may have been affected by her prostitution career. Sadly society views women like this of low value
Prostitution is Illegal in British Territories! She also Attacked him previously in 08 Although Knocked Out people don't Scream and Whimper.......Semi Voiding the Witness statement 🤔🤔
More than 'adequate', she destroyed his life with her low value toxicity, provoked , provoked, provoked. And got consequences. Seems 'victims' often are not just the innocent by stander. Damn!
@@michellebh@michellebh Yeah that's right she's a real upright citizen, a woman ! , a mother, Ohhh ! And just by bad luck a 'victim' . He shoulda walked.
@leighleigh8725 Ohh Now this. One final thing for your small comprehension,. More likely he moved away from a toxic monster to get on with real life. We don't know, DO WE ! And we don't know what his relationship and arrangements with his kid was at that time, Do WE ! Good Bye.
There are numerous comments about the short sentence. Judges are no different from other people. Many people have some form of mental illness. The judge could easily have a significant mental illness, who knows? If you knew the judge was a psychopath and had fantasies of killing, then you probably would not be surprised about the short sentence. In the absence details about the judge, there really shouldn't be a surprise. I think all that can be said is that Brad got lucky.
Their relationship was so volatile that I believe that either party was more than capable and willing to off the other. He was just quicker on the draw in this case. Those little boys (now teens) are who my heart bleeds for the most. What a mess.
@@easternkiwizYes, Many children and adult children have consistently said they want to have a relationship with their parent convicted of that crime.
Brad was sentenced to "Life in Prison" with the possibility of parole in 13 years! That is NOT "Life in Prison!" Why are they allowed to word it that way! Is Carmen allowed to be paroled after 13 years? Of course Not...he kiIIed her! She's gone forever! RIP Carmen
@@eadweard. Thank you : ) I understand that, but it should not be worded as "life in prison" if there is a possibility that he may be released. It's a pet peeve!
You gotta be kidding me. You can kill someone and dismember them and get out of prison in 13 years!! He needs to be in prison for the rest of his life!!
I'm not diagnosing anybody, just speculating that the woman who heard a scream and whimper and then knocked on the door but was ignored had to get creative when people asked why she didn't call the police.
@@enjoystraveling True, but the vast majority of the time we only hear praiseworthy statements about someone who has passed. Obviously no one deserves what happened to her. I am just saying it could take an especially unreasonable person for people to be that candid even in death.
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As you can tell by my channel moniker, I'm a Kiwi and as such I'm pretty familiar with the sentences handed out for serious crimes in New Zealand, I read the court news daily. Also, because NZ only records around 50 homicides a year for the entire country, any murder that is slightly out of the ordinary is usually covered by nationwide media, as are the court cases for those murders.
New Zealand is ridiculously lenient on murderers. A life sentence here for an unplanned murder will usually see the murderer walking the streets on parole after 5-8 years if they behave themselves inside, show remorse and a willingness to rehabilitate themselves back into society. A premeditated murder might attract a 17 or 18 year sentence but once again, good behavior etc will usually see this sentence cut in half.
The worst murderers such as child abduction murders, murdering police officers or mass murders will attract 25 - life sentences but we have only a small handful of murderers who will never have any chance of freedom such as Brenton Tarrant, the Christchurch Mosque shooter who murdered 51 people in about 30 minutes who was sentenced to 51 life sentences without the chance of parole.
In New Zealand a person who is caught manufacturing methamphetamine will get a longer sentence than a murderer.
Well, addiction does ruin a lot of lives in a ripple effect, so this policy isn't irrational-so much cost in every way to society. Still, they could be serious about punishing both homicide and drug trafficking.
You are incorrect. Minimum parole period has to be at least 10 years for all life sentences and can of course be longer. It is impossible for a murderer to get out under 10 years
@TheFlyingKiwi, I am wonder if you have any insights on why the murder rate is so low in NZ at 50 per year. Maybe long sentences and death penalties as in the US aren't much of a deterrent?
@@michaelw3897 much lower gun ownership. The US is an outlier. Guns are the reason
New Zealand is a Commie country.
I love how respectful the rescue team was as they were removing her remains at 6:39. We rarely see that kind of heart in people these days.
During my aunt's funeral, a young man who was thought of as a bad kid stopped for the funeral, took off his hat and put his head down.. it was surprising and heartwarming and brought me to tears. That stuff matters. Bless them
Yes, I agree with you.
And I wish some people in comments could be as respectful.
Very rare and wonderful to see! It's also heartwarming how much the judge took into considering this monster's vile act and spared him a real sentence. Luckily, he could be out in a little over 13 years. It's so heartwarming to see a judge so considerate of all those involved! What a guy! (sarcasm folks...this is sarcasm)
Unfortunately in the US, our officers are probably too used to murder
I live in Auckland, this was huge at the time. The 'sentencing' was just bizarre. Poor Carmen and even poorer Jack. It's all just horrible.
Stopped by for the story. Stayed for the sarcasm. 😂
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Did he say a non-parole period of 13 years 7 months? That's all? Sounds more like a drug charge!
You have no idea..This is nothing. The worst cases are about sexual violence. People just get off the hook even when they get sentenced for brutal rapes. The best thing about the USA is it's hard core sentencing. Lenient punishments are the worst part about where I live in Scandinavia.
Guess she was a helluva of drug 😂
@@cht2162Because they don't believe the 'victim' , get it. Probably you don't. She got consequences for her toxic behavior, learn from that. He's paying for being a fool and giving to her. He shoulda walked.
A drug charge in the USA you mean! Not in the rest of the civilised Western world, thank god.
@@lawrencefrost9063 Yeah ofcourse, you are right 😴😴😴 That's why America is failing and becoming shit hole of drugs , guns, violence, crime and weak leadership.
Dismembering a body should be another charge itself. Just as bad as killing.
It actually is a criminal charge
A gruesome sign they are capable of almost anything. Imo
It is
There is a charge for the mutilation of a corpse. I just don’t know what it is.
Abuse of a corpse is a felony in most states
I wonder what happened to Jack? Poor kid. Thanks, Dr. Grande!
Carmens mother took him to South Africa to live with her ❤
Poor Jack. South Africa has turned into a real hell-hole
@frakismaximus3052 no it hasn't. It's a wonderful country. Every country has problems.
@@Fireproofwitchnz Thanks! 🥰
@julieme7927 Some more than others though...
SA does have some beautiful landscapes, fascinating nature and rich human history. However, the economy is going down the shitter and the rate of violence is wayyy higher than a majority of countries. Corruption is higher too as are infection rates of diseases.
I like South Africa as a country but they (the Gov.) really need to sort out some of these key issues.
Murder is bad enough...but when I hear dismemberment has taken place it gives me the heebie jeebies. 😱
Yeah it takes a special kind of sick to be able to do that.
well said, Maureen!
I can barely handle the poultry and beef already prepared by butchers, I can't fathom dismemberment of a person. 🤢
Also it makes Jesus' job more difficult, having a headache trying to identify the dismembered body when it reaches heaven (if the individual murdered was Christian)
@@Dr.Pancho.Tortillano problem for Jesus, he recognises our souls not our physicality. God Bless 🙌
"The phones had spent a lot of time together." Im jealous. My phone doesn't even like me.
Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating about why some species of cacti catch fire while others do not.
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Unbelievable! Must have a good attorney. I can follow most of these murders by cause (with Dr's calm explaination) right up to the dismemberment part. The minute you have the ability to hack someone apart(the mother of your child) like it's nothing, you are waaaay over any empathy for parole.
*explanation
Move the "i" to the "-tion.
Much like:
Maintaine --> Maintenance
Australia, New Zealand, and the UK routinely hand out slaps on the wrist for murder.
We appreciate your insights, Dr Grande. We will always support you.
The man just won't say "Wheelie bin". Wheeled trash bin...nonsense.
Love Dr Grandes subtle burns ❤😂
I bet he enjoys making these videos and editing them. He gets a lot of props from his fan base and he gets to look down on the people he laughs at.
After all, he edits his videos to maintain his poker face when he makes
his cutting comments, should he burst out with supercilious cruelty.
I liked his educational videos better.
The recent 'm' alliteration stream was lovely, but the 'f' alliteration stream I found for some reason dissonant and noisome .
I hope his wife is happy.
“And thought he was the most attractive man she had ever met. Maybe Carmen didn’t get out too much during that time period.”😂
Al ta'am v're'akh ein l'heetvake'akh.
She was on her back a lot, so many men rode her..
@@KaarinaKimdalyKlingon?
that was brutal
@@lot6129how would that keep her from seeing their face through
Wow NZ has a hell of a revolving door as a front gate. Crazy short sentencing.
I think that there was prejudice against the victim because of her line of work. He should have used that prejudice to try and gain custody. Instead, He beat her to death and he tried to cover it up. I definitely think that 13 years is too light.
I was a court reporter for 15 years. In my personal experience, MANY judges routinely lighten murder sentences if the victim was a person of "disrepute" (prostitutes, homeless, drug addicts, etc). It enraged me so much and utterly disillusioned me with the justice system. I'm no man-hater.. but male judges did this WAY more often then female judges in my experience (I even kept a notepad after a few years of being on the job, I'd tick everytime a male judge gave a light murder sentence vs female judge and male judges gave lighter murder sentences 40% more often).
Her work is truly not work! It's literally being paid to lie down!
I certainly don’t think that women should prostitute themselves. It’s dangerous and demeaning. However, it doesn’t make what he did less egregious. His sentence was too light
I wouldn’t advise any woman to choose to engage in sexual activity for money. It’s dangerous and demeaning. However, it doesn’t make his act any less egregious
@@HathurWomen always are discriminated against. Thanks for posting your research on male entitlement. He should have also been charged with child abuse for the trauma he will endure. I agree that he should have gotten a life sentence. 😮
This is my new favorite show. Dr. Grande bringing the sassiness and sarcasms with a straight face gets me laughing everytime 😂😂
Oooh, I’m here in the first 10 minutes! Love the dry sense of humour Dr. G! I’m a student of forensic science and criminology and I love your videos!
I give it to the police for checking a year previous to see Bead was looking online for ways to murder
That was some serious "pre-crime" sh*t
Three can keep a secret, if two of them are dead --- Benjamin Franklin.
Only 13 years?! For what he did?! I shake my head in disbelief. (Thanks, as always, Dr. Grande).
I'm thinking because she was a sex worker, that would reasonably put any husband on edge. Or at least I'm guessing that could have been the judge's point of view. Plus maybe a supporter with some influence.
Good Evening Dr. Grande. Would you please consider analyzing the case of the Kansas City Chiefs fan's found frozen to death in friends back yard?
Isn't that so crazy? It will be interesting to find out the toxicology report. I don't think they tested the guy that survived.
Dats cold 🥶
Well , he did move to New Zealand. He couldn’t really get much further away than that. The landlady and the fiancé seem a bit naive, as does the perpetrator . Strangely low sentence.
And she stalked him to extort him.
Merch idea for you, Doc; a t-shirt with "... Mostly because of the murder part." on it. And another one where it's a cartoon of you saying it.
And:"Im only speculating..."
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13 years for murder?! A girl who committed a $100 million dollar fraud is facing over 100 years in prison. Mostly due to the ripping off rich people part.
"Won't someone please think of the wealthy?!"
Hmmm almost makes you wonder who's in charge $$$
Tbh life doesnt have a price bc its priceless so that $100m fraud deserves harsh punishment - I always cringe when I hear the kind of sentences handed out in the UK and the wasp world - when they became the empire they were ruhless and when they lost it they became hippie skippies - sometimes the US is following that path and tbh u nvr know what kind of verdict u might recieve - its a bet you can bet on the highest priced attorney usually - the best justice system money can buy lol
If he ever gets parole, he should have to be roommates with the judge who was so lenient on him.
I think it's time for some "Mostly Because of the Murder Part" merch from Dr Grande.
Oh yeah, I'm in!❤
Oh yeah, I'm in!❤
@leighleigh8725 it is also perfectly practised.
Thanks!
Don't you think if you purchase garbage bag, a saw, bleach, rubber gloves and cable ties, you should be reported to the FBI LOL
This was in NZ.
Especially when buying all at one place. It is a killer kit. Should purchases like this be filed with the store in case?
There is no FBI in New Zealand.
I don't understand these people that come forward after the fact and say they heard somebody scream and moan or a loud thud and they never think to call the police? I hear this all the time in cases
This is New Zealand. They don't punish harshly like the US.
Restorative “justice” 😂😂😂
My new DocG quote is: "...mostly because of the murder part."
13 years? His fiancée is happy to trust her life and that of her children with him in the future? The judge just ignored all the indications of planning? 🤯🤯🤯
Seriously, this situation just kept shocking me. Maybe it was Carmen’s career as a sex worker that contributed to the pathetic judgement? She wasn’t a highly valued contributor to society, but Mr Engineer was? What an all round disgrace 😐
That's right, she wasn't and he was.
@@dadgonetroppo3668 He is a murderer, regardless. He should have kept his genitals to himself. Apparently he had murder on his mind for a while, it appears.
What kind of judge would be too incompetent to hand down an appropriate sentence to a convicted murderer?? Does this judge have dementia ??
I was actually thinking the same thing. Bias contributed
I'm sure that his fiancé is turned on that her future husband is a murderer who dismembered his ex-wife. Psycho, co-dependent women are turned on by these sick freaks.
Another sad & terrible case. Agree having a child when theres incompatiblity & stress in relationship makes it more volatile. Thanks Dr G😊💜💜
If I ever had a relationship with someone who was toxic and the relationship caused the birth of a child, and later the relationship ended, I would put as much distance between the mother and child as possible and never look back. From my observations in life, this draw of a child to be within the circle of a relationship that involves a toxic person is always ruinous. It can really never be any other way. Sever all contact and move on. Toxic people will always, always use children as a weapon. It’s the nature of their toxicity.
Trader Joe, he should have kept his genitals in his pants. If he did not have the ability to do that, he should have at the very least used a condom.
Irresponsible sexuality has real consequences, in this case, baby making.
Fornicating is all the rage.
I would not be surprized if alcohol was involved initially. Alcohol makes for very poor choices.
The more things change, the more they stay the same.
People blinded by lust.
Hindsight is 20/20. His fiancee is a fool if she doesn't dump him, difficult as that may be for her.
Unfortunately, common sense sense is uncommon, and too many people have to learn the hard way, through their own painful experiences.
I apologize if I sound cynical, but this Brad Callahan has already demonstrated his sociopathy via murdering the mother of his child.
wish my mom realized this when she was forcing us to visit our father while knowing how toxic he was and then suffering all of the consequences of finding out on our own as children 😭
But what about the child?You are his or her parent as well.
go ahead as long as you pay child support.
@@anneflynn9614Maintaining that contact will only lead to difficulties. Sever it all, including the child.
“Mostly because of the murder part” 😂 My favourite Dr Grande line.
Another great analysis
He was no angel because he disliked Carmen, and (don’t forget!) paying child support. He wanted to have his son nearby but someone else’s paying the bill.
Awesome job!! Man I missed watching Dr.Grande!! It’s crazy how life gets so busy!!!
How heartless and cruel!! He does not deserve to be released or have a relationship with his children ever again.
Clearly premeditated!
I remember when he did videos on sensitivity and specificity ; hardest working guy on RUclips
Wow, what kind of judicial system do they have in New Zealand? Giving murder is a get out of jail, free card 13 years are you kidding me ! He bludgeoned a helpless woman he should never see the light of day again
Eligible for Parole in 13 years - doesn't mean he will get parole then, but he will probably make a model prisoner. Many people with similar sentences here serve much longer than the parole period.
@@chris-in-oceania I understand that, but in certain cases they need to throw away the key
Eligible for parole after 13 years & 8 months?! Ridiculous miscarriage of justice. And I don’t care if Carmen was antagonistic and angered him, you don’t blame a victim for being murdered.
Thank you as always
He got life. It's not like he automatically gets out in 13 years. My guess he stays in a LONG time.
Excellent work as always. Any plans to analyze the case of Ruby Frankie?
Dr. Grande, can you do a video on the chiefs fans freezing? There looks to be a good amount of info out there about it now
Drugz
Imagine a friend of yours come to you and ask you to help dispose of a body. In the middle of the ocean. What do you do? Not only he just killed a person, proving how dangerous he is, but now you are automatically a loose end. By accepting to help, you are putting yourself in the perfect position to be killed and if you refuse.. well, does the guy even need to say anything?
That is a very fucked up situation. I don't blame the guy for playing along and calling the police as soon as he is in a safe position.
Yep, that's the only safe option. Because if you say "no," you're a loose end. And once the body is disposed of, you're a loose end as well. So the only safe option is to agree, and get help asap.
8:58 - dry humor at it's finest!
Dr. G! 😂😂😂best ever analysis man 💯💯💯😎👍
Now for the hindsight. Don’t sleep with someone you would not at least be willing to raise a child with if a child happened. Even though there’s protection nothing is 100% and you can’t count on your partner to use it. Particularly if the relationship has been abusive or controlling the abuse never ends while they are tied to a child. Most of these relationships aren’t this extreme. They’re just toxic for the children involved. I wonder what happened to jack?
1/31/24 What a poor excuse for a Man (pos), jail with parole is ridiculous!! It’s clear from history search 1st degree murder. Hope he doesn’t make it out of jail. Victims behavior is no excuse to take her life💔💜
Jack is the true victim here. Once again the child is left to suffer. What an awful story!
Always interesting
Thank you ❤
I’m sceptical of Carmen’s detractors. I wonder if they had rather more in common with her than they wanted to admit, and were projecting the blame for any clashes they’d had onto her.
For one thing, leading people astray isn’t a real thing, just like falling in with the wrong crowd. The people presented as victims in such scenarios are just as much participants as anyone else.
Thanks for being the voice of reason.
Have you ever thought about doing videos where you update us on cases that were pending? Like a where are they now video.
Look you all, stop killing your ex spouses mmkay?
Dr. Grande can you please analyze the case of Maurice Nasmeh and Jeanine Harms?
I am surprised on how people can get away with murder by being "triggered", I do not see one picture where Brad look even pleasant, he is really not attractive. He was sick and tired of Carmen , he wanted his new relationship and child, without her in his life. He planned it when his new relationship started. He told 3 people and not one of them contact the police? They should be accountable. That judge should ask if he would have provided the same sentence, if it was his daughter.
Dr. G, I have a question. What is your take on mankind in general when we seem to be more likely to click on when the material that is most horrific or gory in general? It must be difficult to maintain an audience when you are forced to entice by participating in the mainstream need for shock and horror. I will say that ( in my humble opinion) you've managed to walk that razors edge without losing your integrity. I have the utmost respect for you. You are definitely more than just a cool shirt 😉....70 in Hawaii 🌴🌺
Have you seen the Lego cactus set?
I was asked to buy a Lego set suitable for a teenage boy, and though at that age I would have loved a cactus set and almost bought one for myself, I ended up getting one of a car.
Brad could have applied for the sole custody of his son, justifying his claim with the fact that the child's mother was a sex worker. Or maybe these days judges set such claims aside as irrelevant.
Judges have to undergo feminist training.
lol yeah re-education. Waiting for the day feminist have to go to 'reality education '.
This was in New Zealand. Sex work was decriminalized there more than 20 years ago, and in general the population doesn't hold the same outdated opinions about sex workers' ability to be good parents that you find in some other countries, so, no, he couldn't have used that as a justification.
Was Brad even paying his child support? Was maybe she was forced into it because she had to have enough money to raise her child and herself. unless you have education you can’t really get a good enough job to pay for a flat plus yourself and a child.
If Brad didn’t want to be responsible for a child then he shouldn’t have had a romance.
New Zealand has low punishments for murder. Technically they are on life parole. Most people here think life should mean life, or at least long enough for the person to no longer be a threat due to age and infirmity. Either way, taxpayers will pay to keep them alive - either in prison or out of prison.
the murder was not structurally sound
No murder could possibly be structurally sound: it is a contradiction in terms.
Her life was only worth 13 years
Wild !
They probably don't value sex workers in NZ
Maybe less.
That's 13 years to many lmao she was worthless anyway
What happened to Jack?
Would love your interpretation of the case of the drake hammer attack. It’s an unsolved mystery but her got convicted simply because he was having an affair. His wife didn’t see who hit her. She was struck from behind at the church and the money was gone. I forgot his first name ill look at it again. He’s still in prison. He’s my best friends grandad.
The murderer eventually pointed the police to concrete evidence. It was also evidence in concrete.
Ridiculously short sentence for such a hideous crime.
So hilarious, thanks Dr Grande.
Good for land lady to check after hearimg screaming tho.. Most do nothing & mention it once a murder investigation begins.
Earliest I've ever been here! Dr Grande, please consider covering the case of Cristian Fernandez, the youngest person ever convicted of 1st degree murder 🙏🏻
Unfortunately for Carmen I suspect the inadequate sentence may have been affected by her prostitution career. Sadly society views women like this of low value
It's devastating, but true. They are known among law enforcement as "the less dead". It's completely gross.
Prostitution is Illegal in British Territories!
She also Attacked him previously in 08
Although Knocked Out people don't Scream and Whimper.......Semi Voiding the Witness statement 🤔🤔
@@statementleaver8095 thanks for proving my point 🙄
More than 'adequate', she destroyed his life with her low value toxicity, provoked , provoked, provoked. And got consequences. Seems 'victims' often are not just the innocent by stander. Damn!
@@michellebh@michellebh Yeah that's right she's a real upright citizen, a woman ! , a mother, Ohhh ! And just by bad luck a 'victim' . He shoulda walked.
So we have about a year until hell breaks loose again. Great. Good job justice system.
Poor Jack.
My theory, just my opinion, the judge was lenient on Brad because Carmen was a sex worker.
Because she was a violet toxic provocotuer.
Good afternoon, Dr. Grande! 🌵
13 years omg that’s shocking
Any info on what happened to the little boy?
Some one in another thread said he was sent to live with Carmen's mother.
He didn't care about his child. He viewed the child and his ex as property. Narcissist.
I like how Dr. Grande spends a significant amount of time, when called for, lambasting the perpetrator for being a terribly incompetent criminal 😂
I would hope that no one would aspire to competency in criminality.
I'm curious... why on earth would someone move to where their ex lives? And in another country! 😮
To stalk and harass and extort money.
@leighleigh8725 Ohh Now this. One final thing for your small comprehension,. More likely he moved away from a toxic monster to get on with real life. We don't know, DO WE ! And we don't know what his relationship and arrangements with his kid was at that time, Do WE ! Good Bye.
@@dadgonetroppo3668 or maybe she just needed money to raise her child. That was also his that he didn’t want to support.
There are numerous comments about the short sentence. Judges are no different from other people. Many people have some form of mental illness. The judge could easily have a significant mental illness, who knows? If you knew the judge was a psychopath and had fantasies of killing, then you probably would not be surprised about the short sentence. In the absence details about the judge, there really shouldn't be a surprise. I think all that can be said is that Brad got lucky.
Like Judge Paul Mulander
This is so Grande.
The light sentence is disgusting. Heat of the moment or not, he dismembered her body! How on earth is he safe to return to the community?!
It is the oldest profession-
And it will never get old
Don't play Misty for me.
Rest in peace Carmen.
Never ceases to amaze how people think they can get away with murder in todays society .
How do ordinary people end up doing such depraved acts?
I’m always shocked at how lenient Australia and New Zealand are with murderers.
Brad's fiancee is going to have a rule when he gets out, the kids will not be allowed to play baseball!
Lol
Their relationship was so volatile that I believe that either party was more than capable and willing to off the other. He was just quicker on the draw in this case. Those little boys (now teens) are who my heart bleeds for the most. What a mess.
Hopefully Brad will be reformed and have a good relationship with both sons.
Fat chance.
Do you think they will want to be around the person that cut their mother into little pieces and threw her away like garbage?
@@easternkiwizYes, Many children and adult children have consistently said they want to have a relationship with their parent convicted of that crime.
Wow! New Zealand doesn’t do very much jail time for this serious of a crime? Unbelievable!
Brad was sentenced to "Life in Prison" with the possibility of parole in 13 years! That is NOT "Life in Prison!"
Why are they allowed to word it that way! Is Carmen allowed to be paroled after 13 years? Of course Not...he kiIIed her! She's gone forever! RIP Carmen
Well it's because unless he's able to convince a parole board to release him, he will stay in prison for the rest of his life.
@@eadweard. Thank you : ) I understand that, but it should not be worded as "life in prison" if there is a possibility that he may be released. It's a pet peeve!
You gotta be kidding me. You can kill someone and dismember them and get out of prison in 13 years!! He needs to be in prison for the rest of his life!!
I'm not diagnosing anybody, just speculating that the woman who heard a scream and whimper and then knocked on the door but was ignored had to get creative when people asked why she didn't call the police.
I thought this would be the video where he finally diagnoses somebody. 🤷🏻♂️😂😂😂
Now THAT is hilarious.
Thank you.
She must have been insanely annoying if people were still willing to say how annoying she was despite knowing what happened to her.
It might not be true, some people like to gossip and say bad things about people, make up things that are not true. You can always assume things.
@@enjoystraveling True, but the vast majority of the time we only hear praiseworthy statements about someone who has passed.
Obviously no one deserves what happened to her. I am just saying it could take an especially unreasonable person for people to be that candid even in death.