Is working out in home for 1 hour every day working night shifts bad for person trying to meet other people IRL? Being into archery, chess, Sudoku and playing Violin is it bad things to be into if you want to meet someone to spend your life with?
0:39 Never doing hard things 3:15 Not eating enough protein 5:56 staying indoors/getting no sunlight 8:56 your laundry habits 10:13 the wrong glasses 12:24 being bored or boring 15:15 you have jumpscare hands 16:49 poor posture . Also on point 3, the sun does not exist in the UK where I live at most of the year😭😭😭
Amen, we don't all live in "sunny California"! A good deal of the US is actually dreary and grey. I live in the northeast, and it is probably not much more sunny here than where you are.
I am vegetarian, I'm fit, my skin is very good for my age. I still got all my hair, my job is very physical, I work 6 days a week. No lack of energy. Now what?
Should be: Sacrificing future goals for short term pleasure = long term pain Gaining something for a long term goal by going through short term pain = Long term pleasure
Unfortunately, when I'm living with my parents, I don't do anything proactive. When I lived alone, I felt the need to be proactive. I did my own bills, my own laundry, and went to the gym. The issue is, I can't afford rent anywhere else. Their prices range from $800-$1,200, while I'm paying my parents $175/mo... What do you think is the better choice? I make only $1,800/mo. Half of that is on food.
Courtney: After your 10 - 12 hour shift go to the gym for an hour or so and then go home and fix a nutritious meal. Also Courtney: Don't be boring, have hobbies and that make you interesting. When? That first statement including drive time is all but the 8 hours I get to sleep. I even participate in hobbies (bodybuilding, latin dancing, martial arts, firearms training, hiking, and gaming) in the slim margin of time I have outside of work, the gym and food prep. There is no level of hoop jumping that will peel these harpies away from their Instagram & TikTok. I say let them be and just follow up in 10 years when they, like so many others end up crying in their car about the life they squandered.
I did this for about 3-4 years before my career took off. However I didn’t cook, I ate only 3 things for that time span I drank whole milk and raw eggs, in the morning and again at night, also a lot of peanut butter by the spoon full lol
Add in 10 mins of reading a physical book every other day and you get to claim the "reading" as a hobby. An these brainrot woman will literally think your "book reading" hobby trumps all those other useful and really awesome hobbies you have and require skill.
Doing these things for you is most important. Forgot doing it for women. It will never be enough. I have been in really good shape, 6 figure income, home owner, grooming on point and girls still going to play games. It all helps, but unless you’re a 10, women still aren’t going to be easy to come by. You see all these hippos women on social media that think they deserve the next Brad Pitt.
I've got nail psoriasis. I take care of my nails, I apply meds on them, but they still look gross. I'm not complaining, I just want to make people aware that ugly nails can sometimes result from a genetic illness, not negligence. 🙂
Boredom in the extreme can actually feel like depression. This also circles back to doing the hard thing and challenging yourself. I believe that many guys who believe they may be "depressed" are actually bored by themselves because they never do the hard thing.
Thank you for trying to help those in need of help. I’m someone who takes care of themselves physically, but I lack social skills. I appreciate you and your videos. You’re an angel.
One of the things i’ve received compliments from women about is the whiteness and healthy appearance of my finger nails. I credit taking a good multi-vitamin and collagen powder. I mix the collagen powder in water and drink every morning. I believe this strengthens your nails, preserves the elasticity of your skin as well as improves your digestion and many other benefits.
And change is not always required unless the obvious ( bad behavior )... If you need to change all the time then you are insecure and unconfident in yourself. Thats know one else's fault but your own
I stick to my original comment above. Be as you are is meaningless. It says that "you are as you are today, and that is for ever". Change is the only constant. Learning enables change. So there is no be as you are as we are all constantly learning and chaging in the process. Change, whether driven by self or sometimes by external inoput (comments and even criticism), is always good as long as you analyze the input and do your best to correct things. I am fat, no amount of be as you are is going to change that, but the simple step of eating smaller portions will fix it. Should I get offended if someone calls me fat? I can be, but I usually say, yup I know it and you have keen observation (sort of a backhanded slap for calling me fat). Then I just move on to eating less. People are too senitive, just hear stuff and move on to doing what you need to do for your own betterment.
A lot of Courtney’s videos, including this one, gives very practical, common sense, life advice. It does not have to be strictly for improving your female/dating game. She gives overall, ‘being a better human being’ type of advice.
this one is so odd. I guess I would overall agree but also know of times where glasses can add to hotness...idk like the hot nerd. But yea i guess that only works if like, chris evans puts glasses on lol
Thats tough courtney. Being bored is really tough to talk about. A lot of people think staying in doors in having fun is boring so regardless introverts are unattractive by default.
Have to consider that these are things that can give you negative points on the attractive scale. Just because you have a 0 on one of them does not mean you don't have enough pluses in other areas to make you attractive. Also one persons negative can sometimes be another's plus or who cares.
In my experience, only boring people get bored. You should be able to fins something enjoyable in almost ANYTHING. If you can't, that's a personal flaw. Don't expect others to entertain you.
I think being an introvert and staying indoors all the time are two separate things. I had a partner who was definitely introverted, but he was a person who got out. He didn't often stay in. He kept himself busy with things, even when at home.
I don't agree with the whole bit about being boring. It's just one those things that can't be helped. I can't force myself to care about things I don't care about. Also, who actually goes around asking people about their day? That is one of the most mundane topics to bring up in conversation.
@@ReubenZeiglera woman will put out of you’re hot enough. You really think she cares if Chad asks about her day. If she demands stuff like this it means she doesn’t like you
@ rickysampson8759 good thing this is about relationships and not hookups 💀 it doesn’t matter if you’re hot. If you are boring and don’t have the conversational skills to talk about her day then the relationship won’t last
Im SHOCKED she didnt mention transition lenses. I love my transitions because they make my frames look like shades. Most transitions are on wire frames or frames that are undersized that give off creep vibes. If you want to pull off transitions pick out a pair of frames that would be the same shape and size of shades
No. There's a bright line difference between being tough on yourself and being a masochist. The difference is that being tough on yourself means shaking the monkey off your back. That monkey being lazy and cowardly habits which you do to avoid the things you yourself know you want and/or need to do. Being a masochist is denying yourself what you want and/or need. So, literally, NOT doing the hard things equals being a masochist. You're welcome.
That's how it goes. Life is 90% just a series of masochistic events... and the reward is love/respect. If you skip the masochist things, you don't get the love/respect either
re: the hard things, it's about balance. If your job requires a bunch of physical labor, you need to be mindful about integrating intellectual activity into your free time. If your job requires a bunch of intellectual or emotional labor (ask anyone who works customer service how much emotional labor their job is), then you need to be more mindful about integrating physical activity into your free time. Anything that you don't regularly takes effort.
Per point number 1: I strongly recommend all men read “Effortless” by Greg McKeown. Yes, I said ‘read’ not ‘listen’. The capstone point of the book is that the most important decision in life is the one you make right now. It’s a pretty short read, and the follow up to ‘Essentialism’ which was another fantastic read.
The boring one I liked - its true - not moving, not having interests, not having a purpose leads to atrophy - its probably the keystone for all the other points.
I guess us average lookers have no choice BUT to do the hard things in life. It's only the good lookers of both genders who live life in easy mode. They get higher raises, get promoted faster, get more dates, are generally more popular, and we are just scrambling - often unsuccessfully - to catch up. Don't get me wrong - I am an effort guy. You're not gonna find me lacking. But it sucks when someone half as deserving as me who was born with better genes gets all the credit for simply existing, while I put in the time and get close to nothing in return. And they don't seem to become uglier if they live life in easy mode - would have been nice if they did though :D
That's what makes the point so ironic coming from her. For a whymen to lecture men about "doing the hard things" is laughable. I agree with the point, but sometimes the messenger matters just as much as the message.
@@slylockfox85 You are extremely rude. Do you really suppose what she does is easy? Have at it, perhaps you could make a fortune with your own channel. I mean, it's easy right?
@@nathanburns Thanks for making my point. Look at the top channels run by men and whymen. Generally, the top men's channels have to offer much more inherent value. I guarantee that there are men's channel's that you watch where the guys running it are not the most handsome. Now ask yourself if that is the case for the top whymen's channels. Probably not. If Ryan was 250 lbs, do you still value her opinion, at least when it comes to topics of dating? Probably not. And I doubt this channel has the number of subscribers that it does. Don't take my word for it. Go look up the facts. The numbers speak for themselves.
Also, attractive men don't live life on "easy mode." They live life on "easier mode." The experience is still not comparable to an average whyman. I worked many retail jobs where average looking whymen got promoted to middle-management jobs despite not being as hard working as other men. But the men are ultimately to blame because it's usually a combination of corporate culture (whymen quotas) and "limps" that are responsible for this.
You are very wise! Unfortunately we all have our bad habits and demons! My problem is mindless scrolling! When I am out, I do not check it, but when staying at home, I can run the risk of scrolling and mindless content consumption after a long period of dopamine fast! I hope I will overcome this bad habit
The Protein intake mention is important. I started this a year ago and so far lost 42.5 lbs by walking, and addiing in portion control. It makes a big impact as long as you don't go off the rails. Protein (good) intake can resolve a lot of bodily issues.
Courtney might be very (but not completely) wrong about boredom. Boredom is known to be one of the best triggers for creativity and there are many research papers that have found that.
Recently I’ve completely changed my diet, been working out more, sleeping better and a new job. There’s plenty of good women in my spheres so I’m sure I’ll find one soon. These things take time gentlemen, let’s do it together.
You didn't specify that men who do physical labor all day aren't needing to go to the gym after work, and are expected to collapse onto the couch until bedtime most days.
This is such an excuse you should still eat health and go to the gym as I guarantee your not using every muscle and probably not doing much cardio I used to work on a farm for 13 hours a day and I still went to the gym 3 days a week and ate a healthy diet
@@Jackflip1996 I said most days. It's not an excuse to work covered in sweat for 9 to 10 hours stopping every 10 minutes or so to let your heart slow down. Also never said you should eat crap. Gfys
Hey Courtney, great video! I just wanted to say if you had the desire to do a video on what glasses frames work for differ men and even have some ladies critique, I wouldn’t complain😊
I live in Ireland , i go to spain or France for 2 weeks around May and then 2 weeks in October just for the sunshine for my mental health , the winter can be long and cabin fever sets in , i can do it relatively cheaply and it gives me something to look forward to.
I just don’t wanna feel ugly anymore it’s genuinely hurts me and I’ve been struggling with everything because I’m never given positive feedback on anything In my life
I'm a Journeyman Lineman and my hands especially in the winter are a mess and there is no Lotion nor medication that will work. I've tried it all. I wear Rubber gloves all day and in the winter my hands get so cold they just crack and bleed. Again no Lotion, medicine, medicated Lotion works.
idk how bad they get bro but chicks dig a dude who does work like that. Just gotta find the right one...some like soft hands some like those with calluses.
Important things: 0:34 First Thing ÷ Never Doing Hard Things; 3:10 Second Thing ÷ Not Eating Enough Protein; 5:51 Third Thing ÷ Staying Indoors / Getting No Sunlight; 8:52 Fourth Thing ÷ Your Laundry Habits; 10:09 Fifth Thing ÷ The Wrong Glasses; 12:20 Sixth Thing ÷ Being Bored Or Boring; 15:10 Seventh Thing ÷ You Have Jump Scare Hands; 16:46 Eight Thing ÷ Poor Posture; and 18:27 to summarize all the told here. Additional things would of been these things: Ninth Thing ÷ Keeping Our Place Very Poorly Arranged (not keeping it clean, and tidy); Tenth Thing ÷ Lack Of Self Confidence (but this can be also considered to first thing that you have told there Courtney, since it happens that someone is not working on their self confidence and also on self esteem). What you have told there Courtney, it is all correct. I can add couple of things that you have told. When you told about too much exposure to sunlight, I agree it's not good too much to get exposure there. I've heard somewhere that when exposing too much to sunlight, that can bring us to get skin cancers. Also birthmark are very sensitive to too much sunlight as well (the doctors can correct me if I'm wrong). When you have told not eating enough proteins, it's not just that. It's not enough intake of vegetable fiber, and also fruits that are good for our health. As for glasses, the most important thing is function than form itself. I agree that right frame is suppose to chosen wisely, but I don't think that wearing glasses is ugly. I also wear glasses as needed (when I use PC, or when I drive car). The important thing that they are here for a functional purpose. Maybe you can do additional thing to your glasses. And that is that you ask the optician to make a protection layer for glasses so they can have a purpose of protection of eradiation when you use either PC or laptop or phone (since today's work are done by either computer's or either laptops). The deeds and actions will say many things, either that you work on yourself, care on yourself, or perhaps showing or not showing interests in many things. Conclusion is: For doing many things you have to have faith, believe, desire, will, goal, and wish to fulfill many things. But mainly to fulfill yourself in a healthy way, either men, or women. All of these thing we are doing cause of ourselves and if we are good to ourselves, even the people will want to be with us. And that's the whole thing.
Pale skinned people have an advantage by having reduced risk of vitamin d deficiency. It may actually be worse to tan, as it may increase chance of skin cancer. May look more "vibrant", but not necessarily healthier.
In a recent video this channel men were advised to avoid the sun, use sun block and hats. Then a picture was shown of a guy who drove for a living. The left half of his face looked like melted ice-cream. Look up recent pictures of Robert Redford if you need any motivation to protect your face from the sun. By far a lighter face looks better then a face so droopy you can't recognize yourself. Skin color tone is just a mater of taste anyway. It's no indicator of health.
Great talk today on some fine details that guys might not think of. Personally, I've been doing all this stuff since I was in my very early 20s, & it has rewarded me by still being in great shape & looking WAY younger than my years. I'm sure good genetics plays a role, but I took what I was gifted with & ran with it. It's second-nature for me to do all this stuff. I was carded at a beer booth at a festival last night. The girl was blown away when she saw my Birthdate on my license. In two weeks I'll be 64 yrs. old. Listen to Courtney guys, the details make the difference between average or exceptional.💫
Some of these videos, this one included are more like "How to make your mother proud and happy with your life... as well as make your father happy that you made your mother proud." I mean it's just personal stuff that you have to work on to make you seem more aesthetically pleasing to women and which make your parents happy when you do them on a day to day basis.
@@eddiewillers1Ah yes, the past 2000 years has definitely shown us that. What with women starting all those wars throughout history while the men just strived for peace...
My routine is to workout in the morning, work my tail off during the day, and chill on the evening. Could not care less if that’s viewed as unattractive…it works for my sanity.
Do one for women. Because its absolutely shocking the amount of women who have Septum Piercings and Tattoos thinking guys are actually attracted to that, and by guys I mean the ones actually worth a damn.
I just came across Courtney’s videos and have only watched a couple of them so far, so she may have already addressed this, but women also value the opinions of other women when it comes to men. Nothing, not even money, will make you more attractive to a woman than being seen with another woman. Money is a close 2nd place, but this is definitely #1
What I absolutely love about these videos is that although they are packed and presented as advice for making men more attracted and get the attention because they come from a very pretty woman like Courtney, they are, in their base, just awesome advice to make men better for themselves first. This is amazing and we thank you a lot!
@@JACQUEZ23 I'm sure he means the Mr. Nice Guy stuff - you know, bending over backwards to please her all the time. Be a good man (decent values, virtues, behaviors), not a Mr. Nice Guy.
Y'all really be spitting some bullshit no offense. Go find a healthy role model because thinking like that won't get you anything or anywhere in life i guarantee it.
I will confess that I have been very sedentary lately, but it isn't necessarily laziness. I'm a full time work from home software engineer and I frequently work late. Then when I get off of work I'm doing solo game development basically as a second job. And I'm doing EVERYTHING; 3D modeling and animation, programming and scripting, writing, design and documentation, even learning to play the piano in conjunction with vocaloid and DAW software so I can synthesize the game's music tracks. I play games online with friends and family every so often, but indie game development has become somewhat all-consuming. I find myself having food delivered way more often than I should because cooking or going out to get something eats my already extremely limited time. I'm trying to find a balance so I can at least start going to the gym and archery and taichi regularly again. I don't really care how girls view my lifestyle of late because making these stories I've written into games has been my life's ambition and I'm proud of the work that I'm doing. It would be super nice if long-term, my game work could become successful enough that I can start doing software engineering part time and focus on game work full time. But doing both full time (as I have to if I don't want to fall off the horse) is very difficult to balance...
solid list as usual. Lots of people who dont want to put in any effort talking about the list, also per usual 💀 protein and sunlight are a must, if youre boring or bored easy then find a hobby.. its not hard to implement any of the changes on this list
Sacrifice for the future. Stay on your game and don't worry what anyone thinks or does. Get your life under control and work towards a goal by finishing smaller goals getting you closer to your main goal. Stay on your game. The rest will come with success.
I am fine with doing the hard things but after working 60 hour weeks and adding in workouts and eating healthy, this time adds up. It makes you be constantly on the move and it is hard to get balance and the stress plays havoc with your ability to be mentally and emotionally healthy. I would rather be slightly less beautiful to trade for a happier life
0:38 This is the one I needed to hear. This is my biggest problem right now. I’m a splurger and don’t save money. I use money for instant gratification, and often choose fast food over cooking. I walk, but I should run.
Eight Weird Things... 1. Being Ugly 2. Not Being Attractive 3. Being a 'nice guy'. 4. Not being a Chad/Ray-ray/Pookie/Tyrone 5. Being Short 6. Not Being Tall. 7. Being Fat. 8. Not Being Buff.
Hilarious. ....most women have these negative characteristics.....yet they demand perfection..... what they consider perfection...... should be a new designation in DSM.
I use laundry sanitizer too. Even on the washing machine's hottest setting, your hot water heater probably doesn't get hot enough to kill all bacteria. Using laundry sanitizer helps to keep clothes clean and smelling better. This is especially helpful if you must use cold water settings for certain specialty fabrics.
I use the old school method of adding both pine sol and white vinegar to sanitize. Use a double rinse method- clothes feel and smell fresh 👌. Many compliments as well - oh and powder detergent , not liquid
Only have 2 of these and already Working on fixing them. *Counter-Arguement* for hands Part; Did you know that biting own Nails (contrary to popular belief),Can be a sign of - Intelligent? ______ Also unsure why so many are afraid of doing? (The Hard things) *Critical thinking* is healthy, not a curse.
Don't you see her video is made of 10 000 short clips. Every 10 seconds there is a a clip transition. She just making things up like every other "influencer". Now days all a person needs is to have nice looks and a social channel to be on. And we all watching this crap while they make money and then "teach" us how we should be. We all indoors while she out spending money laughing with "perfect" people like her. That's how it is in this day and age. It's nice watching this while playing Rune Scape though. Peace.
12:50 in the boredom area, talking about your hobbies, what you like or what you do in a boring way or like if it wasn't entertaining makes it feel that way, always try to talk enthusiastically about those things, even if it is sitting in your sofa watching a series, talk about it with enthusiasm and people will feel that it is something good and interesting
Honestly, if you shower every day with water that isn't seriously filtered you're just absorbing some of the chemicals in tap water. Another way cancer happens among much of what we ingest.
Great insights. These are all things which I have had to learn, as I progressed further into adult life. (I'm now in my sixties.) Acquiring a good disposition towards the world, in the way you describe, definitely helps. When I was a young man, my brother and I did a course on public speaking and debate. That was one of the best decisions we ever made. People noticed the change in us, in terms of how we interacted with people, and so on. So that's recommended too.
Hello Courtney Ray, in another recent video you mentioned the women cycle. This topics importance is more than clear to me. That is why I am hereby letting you know, that the interest towards this topic exists. And I am pretty sure that that isn't the only case with me particularly. I would appreciate a video highlighting the mentioned topic in order to spread factual knowledge even if a social boundary exists, blocking communication about it. Greetings and Thanks
More PROTEIN as you have portraited here at #2 is exactly what you said at #1, "easy choice" "Better choice" and "nutrient food" as you mention at #1, regarding protein is eating BEANS (all beans, chickpeas, edamame, peas, lentils, miso tempeh...), and not animal products.
14:13 I’m pursuing French, Spanish, lead guitar, comics, cosplay, and slowly adding cooking and art into the mix. I’ve chosen those as my skills. One day I want to delve into Japanese. I want to understand how Asian characters work. I’ll find my woman someday and I’m still working on myself, especially financially and academically. I’m still going to school and I won’t be ready for a girl until I can ace my financial decisions.
Courtney, I completely agree with all your points, I was going to add that going to the gym/exercising often will not only benefit your physical appearance but it will benefit you inside as well. You'll feel a lot more energetic and confident about yourself. Then with the takeaways as well, it's such an important skill to be able to cook - plus I've heard many women find men who can cook more attractive haha. It'll feel more rewarding and fulfilling if you make your own food, of course you can still get takeaways but do it within moderation, ultimately you don't want to become too dependent on them. Though on another note I do find that at times I can spend a bit too much time on my phone, currently I'm working on improving that by finding more hobbies and learning more skills be that DIY, Sports or even anything Tech related. The key is that you should try to avoid being bored. Being bored unfortunatlely leads to bad consequences, where people become more apathetic, lethargic and unhealthy due to bad eating habits and spending more time scolling on your phone compared to normally.
Going to gym is one of the "do the easy thing". Start at a real sport, be a part of a team, get out and feel the nature and put in an effort to get the long term benefits.
I like your videos, they offer good advice and help me understand where maybe I can improve in life! I also started using Tiege Hanley after seeing one of your videos, works great and I have got a lot more compliments than I expected!
16:49 "Bad Posture". My best friend is a really cool dude, great sense of humour, nice job, nice home, always nice clothes and a nice car. BUT he suffers from a milder form of scoliosis since birth which makes his posture somewhat bad. Does this make him ugly from a female perspective...??? Just curious.
I remember i passed out at home on my recliner eating a 5 dollars Mcdonalds meal....but that's because I was exhausted after bike riding about 10 files on a sorching 100f heat, it was a good challenge and I sweat a lot without passing out because I drank water midway. Give us some credit!
I do things for me. I do hard things often enough for work and for myself. Do your own things. I wear glasses. If you don't like that, go away. I work LONG hours when I'm in the field. When I'm not, I work LONG hours in the office. I don't have the luxury of working out, fixing a high-protein meal every night. Oh, and I'm not 6'5" with a 6-figure income and I don't have a 6-pack.
Remember that soap is more of a lubricant for water than it is a cleanser which is why the word detergent is used and not soap, but you also have to worry about the chemicals in there that will also affect your skin as well as your physical health because there are a lot of chemicals out there like fabric softener that will get into your skin and can cause cancers. Can't forget about the chemicals in dryer sheets that actually destroy your clothing a lot faster thinning them out and making you replace them more frequently instead just use wool balls in the dryer
Courtney helped me a lot. I feel more confident with the girls around me. I feel unique cause most of my classmates wear dragon ball shirts and crocs. But not me I dress casual and smell good 🔥🔥🔥🫡
I must just be really lucky. All of my life I've NEVER EVER EVER have approached a woman. I'm not rich, not exceedingly attractive yet i get "hit on" by women all the time. I dress well, I'm rather fit. I mind my own business and NEVER try anything to seek attention. I'm constantly studying at any given venue whether a restaurant, bar, club, etc, and it doesn't seem to matter. I even wear dark glasses indoors. Perhaps women just love the "leave me alone" air I express. Dunno. One other thing. I don't ask women out on dates. They ask me. Anyone ever have this happen to them all the time? Some of you may think that perhaps i am attractive and that's the reason, but honestly I'm average at best to most women. Doesn't matter it seems. Btw I've asked women about my looks. MANY. Most say I'm average.
@@jP-nw7nmI am single, by choice. And why? Why would any man choose to be in a relationship when the world is open to me to see? Boredom doesn't exist in my life. And why have one woman when you can have many? Why stay in one place like a "man cave" when the world is out there? Don't be a simp be the SIGMA God made us to be. Travel, learn, build wisdom within. Soon I'll be a multimillionaire and traveling the world even moreso. Why be in a relationship??? Makes no sense to me.
@@PikawarpsI've asked women most say I've average looks but above average body. Maybe it's my body. 🤷 Btw I don't have a "Rock" type body. I'm very slim and more of a Bruce Lee body.
(Men can benefit from a womans perspective) 1. Procrastinating and short time pleasure seaking (I think all of us can relate to that) 2.Working out and other, even small meaningful things. 3. Proteinintake. 4. Proper Skincare. 5. Sunlightexpore (even 30-60 Minutes is enough) Being inside all day long damages the mental health 6. Laundry Issues (Had that problem and developed bad acne because of it) 7. Wrong glasses. 8. Being bored or being boring. 9. You have Jump Scare Hands. 10. Poor Posture.
Desperately need some sleep… and it shows in my face. Ever since getting my heart broken, I’ve gotten a lot uglier. She made me better in every way, and now life is just pretty empty.
I’m going through the same thing brother! Just know you’re not alone. Life has been empty and meaningless with her gone.. but being active and being close with family and friends has helped numb the pain for a while or at least get my mind off her for a little. Fight the good fight man! I hope things get better for you!
@@_Brods_ I wish being with family helped, but I’m kind of a caregiver for a couple of members of my family. I financially support them and maintain the house. I saw her and her children and her whole family as a whole new world I was ready to walk right in to. I’m just ready to move on from this place in my life. I was terribly lonely when she came into my life, and now everything is just that much darker now that she’s gone.
Another excellent video, Courtney. You speak precious wisdom. Question, what if one of your hobbies is making memes and photo edits to social media accounts on your phone? Even though our faces are buried in our phones, we’re still engaging in a hobby (though weird and nerdy) on our mobile devices. It’s kind of a catch-22, as it facilitates being antisocial. What are your thoughts? Is there a middle ground? Thanks. 😊
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Is working out in home for 1 hour every day working night shifts bad for person trying to meet other people IRL? Being into archery, chess, Sudoku and playing Violin is it bad things to be into if you want to meet someone to spend your life with?
Hey Courtney, would like to see you do some reaction vids to Orion Taraban's stuff...
0:39 Never doing hard things
3:15 Not eating enough protein
5:56 staying indoors/getting no sunlight
8:56 your laundry habits
10:13 the wrong glasses
12:24 being bored or boring
15:15 you have jumpscare hands
16:49 poor posture
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Also on point 3, the sun does not exist in the UK where I live at most of the year😭😭😭
Amen, we don't all live in "sunny California"! A good deal of the US is actually dreary and grey. I live in the northeast, and it is probably not much more sunny here than where you are.
😂😂😂 enjoy it while it lasts 😂
I am vegetarian, I'm fit, my skin is very good for my age. I still got all my hair, my job is very physical, I work 6 days a week. No lack of energy. Now what?
Here we go bashing men again …
Bad hands to Courtney sound just like what bad teeth and boob tattoos are for me. Major turn offs!
Short term pleasure = Long term pain
Short term pain = Long term pleasure
Crazy i said the same thing
True enough
Should be:
Sacrificing future goals for short term pleasure = long term pain
Gaining something for a long term goal by going through short term pain = Long term pleasure
Unfortunately, when I'm living with my parents, I don't do anything proactive. When I lived alone, I felt the need to be proactive. I did my own bills, my own laundry, and went to the gym.
The issue is, I can't afford rent anywhere else. Their prices range from $800-$1,200, while I'm paying my parents $175/mo... What do you think is the better choice? I make only $1,800/mo. Half of that is on food.
Courtney: After your 10 - 12 hour shift go to the gym for an hour or so and then go home and fix a nutritious meal.
Also Courtney: Don't be boring, have hobbies and that make you interesting.
When? That first statement including drive time is all but the 8 hours I get to sleep. I even participate in hobbies (bodybuilding, latin dancing, martial arts, firearms training, hiking, and gaming) in the slim margin of time I have outside of work, the gym and food prep. There is no level of hoop jumping that will peel these harpies away from their Instagram & TikTok. I say let them be and just follow up in 10 years when they, like so many others end up crying in their car about the life they squandered.
I did this for about 3-4 years before my career took off. However I didn’t cook, I ate only 3 things for that time span I drank whole milk and raw eggs, in the morning and again at night, also a lot of peanut butter by the spoon full lol
Have you tried being very good in the bedroom and also having confidence? Works for me.
Complain much?
Haha yeah 12 hour shifts are just killer for me, especially with inflation, I’m stuck in increasing wage slavery
Add in 10 mins of reading a physical book every other day and you get to claim the "reading" as a hobby. An these brainrot woman will literally think your "book reading" hobby trumps all those other useful and really awesome hobbies you have and require skill.
I’m tired of the competition. I do things for me now, I’ve totally walked away from the game of dating.
You have a good point there. Can't say I blame you.
Your time will come bro
@@Moriningland Yup I have my peace, my money to do what I want and not have to spend it on someone else.
Spending money on the people you charrish and like is one of the best feelings ever@@kevinmorrissey9709
Doing these things for you is most important. Forgot doing it for women. It will never be enough. I have been in really good shape, 6 figure income, home owner, grooming on point and girls still going to play games. It all helps, but unless you’re a 10, women still aren’t going to be easy to come by. You see all these hippos women on social media that think they deserve the next Brad Pitt.
I've got nail psoriasis. I take care of my nails, I apply meds on them, but they still look gross. I'm not complaining, I just want to make people aware that ugly nails can sometimes result from a genetic illness, not negligence. 🙂
Boredom in the extreme can actually feel like depression. This also circles back to doing the hard thing and challenging yourself. I believe that many guys who believe they may be "depressed" are actually bored by themselves because they never do the hard thing.
Amazing how this channels doesn't run out of content after many vídeos. Keep it up Courtney ✊️
Well thought out list. Thank you! 👍
Thank you for trying to help those in need of help.
I’m someone who takes care of themselves physically, but I lack social skills.
I appreciate you and your videos. You’re an angel.
One of the things i’ve received compliments from women about is the whiteness and healthy appearance of my finger nails. I credit taking a good multi-vitamin and collagen powder. I mix the collagen powder in water and drink every morning. I believe this strengthens your nails, preserves the elasticity of your skin as well as improves your digestion and many other benefits.
Be as you are. Don't worry about how you're perceived by "what passes for women" in these times.
Be as you are is a lazy person's way of denying change.
And change is not always required unless the obvious ( bad behavior )... If you need to change all the time then you are insecure and unconfident in yourself. Thats know one else's fault but your own
U can make money with a good attitude. It's not just women. These steps will make u happy.
I stick to my original comment above. Be as you are is meaningless. It says that "you are as you are today, and that is for ever". Change is the only constant. Learning enables change. So there is no be as you are as we are all constantly learning and chaging in the process. Change, whether driven by self or sometimes by external inoput (comments and even criticism), is always good as long as you analyze the input and do your best to correct things. I am fat, no amount of be as you are is going to change that, but the simple step of eating smaller portions will fix it. Should I get offended if someone calls me fat? I can be, but I usually say, yup I know it and you have keen observation (sort of a backhanded slap for calling me fat). Then I just move on to eating less. People are too senitive, just hear stuff and move on to doing what you need to do for your own betterment.
How do you watch these points and think wow none of this matters 🤷♂️
A lot of Courtney’s videos, including this one, gives very practical, common sense, life advice. It does not have to be strictly for improving your female/dating game. She gives overall, ‘being a better human being’ type of advice.
Many male dating coaches say no glasses, get contacts or lasik. Deep down I agree and this is a correct statement.
this one is so odd. I guess I would overall agree but also know of times where glasses can add to hotness...idk like the hot nerd. But yea i guess that only works if like, chris evans puts glasses on lol
Thats tough courtney. Being bored is really tough to talk about. A lot of people think staying in doors in having fun is boring so regardless introverts are unattractive by default.
I'm an EXTREME introvert and I still get hit on by my women. I've average looks at best to most women. Seriously. Not rich either. Very fit though.
@@paulv2394very fit tho that explains it
Have to consider that these are things that can give you negative points on the attractive scale. Just because you have a 0 on one of them does not mean you don't have enough pluses in other areas to make you attractive. Also one persons negative can sometimes be another's plus or who cares.
In my experience, only boring people get bored. You should be able to fins something enjoyable in almost ANYTHING. If you can't, that's a personal flaw. Don't expect others to entertain you.
I think being an introvert and staying indoors all the time are two separate things. I had a partner who was definitely introverted, but he was a person who got out. He didn't often stay in. He kept himself busy with things, even when at home.
I don't agree with the whole bit about being boring. It's just one those things that can't be helped. I can't force myself to care about things I don't care about. Also, who actually goes around asking people about their day? That is one of the most mundane topics to bring up in conversation.
Facts
Just cause you can’t doesn’t mean doing so isn’t more attractive……..
@@ReubenZeiglera woman will put out of you’re hot enough. You really think she cares if Chad asks about her day. If she demands stuff like this it means she doesn’t like you
@ rickysampson8759 good thing this is about relationships and not hookups 💀 it doesn’t matter if you’re hot. If you are boring and don’t have the conversational skills to talk about her day then the relationship won’t last
@@mylespoun9709his point still stands tho he right
Im SHOCKED she didnt mention transition lenses. I love my transitions because they make my frames look like shades. Most transitions are on wire frames or frames that are undersized that give off creep vibes. If you want to pull off transitions pick out a pair of frames that would be the same shape and size of shades
There is a very thin line between "Doing hard things" and "Being a masochist".
It’s a thick line in my opinion.
No. There's a bright line difference between being tough on yourself and being a masochist. The difference is that being tough on yourself means shaking the monkey off your back. That monkey being lazy and cowardly habits which you do to avoid the things you yourself know you want and/or need to do. Being a masochist is denying yourself what you want and/or need. So, literally, NOT doing the hard things equals being a masochist. You're welcome.
That's how it goes. Life is 90% just a series of masochistic events... and the reward is love/respect. If you skip the masochist things, you don't get the love/respect either
re: the hard things, it's about balance. If your job requires a bunch of physical labor, you need to be mindful about integrating intellectual activity into your free time. If your job requires a bunch of intellectual or emotional labor (ask anyone who works customer service how much emotional labor their job is), then you need to be more mindful about integrating physical activity into your free time. Anything that you don't regularly takes effort.
Per point number 1: I strongly recommend all men read “Effortless” by Greg McKeown. Yes, I said ‘read’ not ‘listen’. The capstone point of the book is that the most important decision in life is the one you make right now. It’s a pretty short read, and the follow up to ‘Essentialism’ which was another fantastic read.
The boring one I liked - its true - not moving, not having interests, not having a purpose leads to atrophy - its probably the keystone for all the other points.
I guess us average lookers have no choice BUT to do the hard things in life. It's only the good lookers of both genders who live life in easy mode.
They get higher raises, get promoted faster, get more dates, are generally more popular, and we are just scrambling - often unsuccessfully - to catch up.
Don't get me wrong - I am an effort guy. You're not gonna find me lacking. But it sucks when someone half as deserving as me who was born with better genes gets all the credit for simply existing, while I put in the time and get close to nothing in return.
And they don't seem to become uglier if they live life in easy mode - would have been nice if they did though :D
It's good that you put in effort, but if you complain about your life like this it kind of offsets that effort and looks small and ugly
That's what makes the point so ironic coming from her. For a whymen to lecture men about "doing the hard things" is laughable. I agree with the point, but sometimes the messenger matters just as much as the message.
@@slylockfox85 You are extremely rude. Do you really suppose what she does is easy? Have at it, perhaps you could make a fortune with your own channel. I mean, it's easy right?
@@nathanburns Thanks for making my point. Look at the top channels run by men and whymen. Generally, the top men's channels have to offer much more inherent value. I guarantee that there are men's channel's that you watch where the guys running it are not the most handsome. Now ask yourself if that is the case for the top whymen's channels. Probably not. If Ryan was 250 lbs, do you still value her opinion, at least when it comes to topics of dating? Probably not. And I doubt this channel has the number of subscribers that it does. Don't take my word for it. Go look up the facts. The numbers speak for themselves.
Also, attractive men don't live life on "easy mode." They live life on "easier mode." The experience is still not comparable to an average whyman. I worked many retail jobs where average looking whymen got promoted to middle-management jobs despite not being as hard working as other men. But the men are ultimately to blame because it's usually a combination of corporate culture (whymen quotas) and "limps" that are responsible for this.
You are very wise! Unfortunately we all have our bad habits and demons! My problem is mindless scrolling! When I am out, I do not check it, but when staying at home, I can run the risk of scrolling and mindless content consumption after a long period of dopamine fast! I hope I will overcome this bad habit
The Protein intake mention is important. I started this a year ago and so far lost 42.5 lbs by walking, and addiing in portion control. It makes a big impact as long as you don't go off the rails. Protein (good) intake can resolve a lot of bodily issues.
Courtney might be very (but not completely) wrong about boredom. Boredom is known to be one of the best triggers for creativity and there are many research papers that have found that.
Recently I’ve completely changed my diet, been working out more, sleeping better and a new job. There’s plenty of good women in my spheres so I’m sure I’ll find one soon. These things take time gentlemen, let’s do it together.
Don't change for women. Do it for yourself. There's plenty of them out there but only one of you.
@@TheSmark666 💯
Awesome! keep it up. Nothing wrong with bettering yourself, even if it is to attract the right person. A goal is a goal.
You didn't specify that men who do physical labor all day aren't needing to go to the gym after work, and are expected to collapse onto the couch until bedtime most days.
Me most days
I run a small business in the labor trades by myself, and still go to the gym 2-3 times a week. It’s a drag, but I have to do it.
This is such an excuse you should still eat health and go to the gym as I guarantee your not using every muscle and probably not doing much cardio I used to work on a farm for 13 hours a day and I still went to the gym 3 days a week and ate a healthy diet
@@Jackflip1996 I said most days. It's not an excuse to work covered in sweat for 9 to 10 hours stopping every 10 minutes or so to let your heart slow down. Also never said you should eat crap. Gfys
Hey Courtney, great video! I just wanted to say if you had the desire to do a video on what glasses frames work for differ men and even have some ladies critique, I wouldn’t complain😊
I live in Ireland , i go to spain or France for 2 weeks around May and then 2 weeks in October just for the sunshine for my mental health , the winter can be long and cabin fever sets in , i can do it relatively cheaply and it gives me something to look forward to.
I just don’t wanna feel ugly anymore it’s genuinely hurts me and I’ve been struggling with everything because I’m never given positive feedback on anything In my life
Find Jesus. He will put you on the right path ❤
I'm a Journeyman Lineman and my hands especially in the winter are a mess and there is no Lotion nor medication that will work. I've tried it all. I wear Rubber gloves all day and in the winter my hands get so cold they just crack and bleed. Again no Lotion, medicine, medicated Lotion works.
idk how bad they get bro but chicks dig a dude who does work like that. Just gotta find the right one...some like soft hands some like those with calluses.
Important things: 0:34 First Thing ÷ Never Doing Hard Things; 3:10 Second Thing ÷ Not Eating Enough Protein; 5:51 Third Thing ÷ Staying Indoors / Getting No Sunlight; 8:52 Fourth Thing ÷ Your Laundry Habits; 10:09 Fifth Thing ÷ The Wrong Glasses; 12:20 Sixth Thing ÷ Being Bored Or Boring; 15:10 Seventh Thing ÷ You Have Jump Scare Hands; 16:46 Eight Thing ÷ Poor Posture; and 18:27 to summarize all the told here.
Additional things would of been these things: Ninth Thing ÷ Keeping Our Place Very Poorly Arranged (not keeping it clean, and tidy); Tenth Thing ÷ Lack Of Self Confidence (but this can be also considered to first thing that you have told there Courtney, since it happens that someone is not working on their self confidence and also on self esteem).
What you have told there Courtney, it is all correct. I can add couple of things that you have told. When you told about too much exposure to sunlight, I agree it's not good too much to get exposure there. I've heard somewhere that when exposing too much to sunlight, that can bring us to get skin cancers. Also birthmark are very sensitive to too much sunlight as well (the doctors can correct me if I'm wrong). When you have told not eating enough proteins, it's not just that. It's not enough intake of vegetable fiber, and also fruits that are good for our health. As for glasses, the most important thing is function than form itself. I agree that right frame is suppose to chosen wisely, but I don't think that wearing glasses is ugly. I also wear glasses as needed (when I use PC, or when I drive car). The important thing that they are here for a functional purpose. Maybe you can do additional thing to your glasses. And that is that you ask the optician to make a protection layer for glasses so they can have a purpose of protection of eradiation when you use either PC or laptop or phone (since today's work are done by either computer's or either laptops).
The deeds and actions will say many things, either that you work on yourself, care on yourself, or perhaps showing or not showing interests in many things. Conclusion is: For doing many things you have to have faith, believe, desire, will, goal, and wish to fulfill many things. But mainly to fulfill yourself in a healthy way, either men, or women. All of these thing we are doing cause of ourselves and if we are good to ourselves, even the people will want to be with us. And that's the whole thing.
Pale skinned people have an advantage by having reduced risk of vitamin d deficiency. It may actually be worse to tan, as it may increase chance of skin cancer. May look more "vibrant", but not necessarily healthier.
In a recent video this channel men were advised to avoid the sun, use sun block and hats. Then a picture was shown of a guy who drove for a living. The left half of his face looked like melted ice-cream. Look up recent pictures of Robert Redford if you need any motivation to protect your face from the sun. By far a lighter face looks better then a face so droopy you can't recognize yourself. Skin color tone is just a mater of taste anyway. It's no indicator of health.
Great talk today on some fine details that guys might not think of. Personally, I've been doing all this stuff since I was in my very early 20s, & it has rewarded me by still being in great shape & looking WAY younger than my years. I'm sure good genetics plays a role, but I took what I was gifted with & ran with it. It's second-nature for me to do all this stuff. I was carded at a beer booth at a festival last night. The girl was blown away when she saw my Birthdate on my license. In two weeks I'll be 64 yrs. old. Listen to Courtney guys, the details make the difference between average or exceptional.💫
Good advice. I actually think glasses on a woman looks better in some cases. It also makes her look more sophisticated
Some of these videos, this one included are more like "How to make your mother proud and happy with your life... as well as make your father happy that you made your mother proud." I mean it's just personal stuff that you have to work on to make you seem more aesthetically pleasing to women and which make your parents happy when you do them on a day to day basis.
I see Aaron’s got you promoting the Tiege Hanley as well. Best Men’s skin care products on the market period!
Men want peace, women want drama.
Exactly wish i was gay so i dont have too put up with there gd petty high school bullshit
The incel energy beaming from the two above comments is insane 😂
@@sleeperino3054 GTFO - it's as true as it's been for the last 2000 years.
@@eddiewillers1Ah yes, the past 2000 years has definitely shown us that. What with women starting all those wars throughout history while the men just strived for peace...
OK Enough with The Drizzle Drizzle BS, Seriously It’s Literally EMBARRASSING
My routine is to workout in the morning, work my tail off during the day, and chill on the evening. Could not care less if that’s viewed as unattractive…it works for my sanity.
The whole glasses thing really only matters when they’re wearing the wrong frames. Most girls these days wear frames far too large for their faces.
Do one for women. Because its absolutely shocking the amount of women who have Septum Piercings and Tattoos thinking guys are actually attracted to that, and by guys I mean the ones actually worth a damn.
I just came across Courtney’s videos and have only watched a couple of them so far, so she may have already addressed this, but women also value the opinions of other women when it comes to men. Nothing, not even money, will make you more attractive to a woman than being seen with another woman. Money is a close 2nd place, but this is definitely #1
I got new glasses recently and I was pleasantly surprised to hear multiple women telling me they liked my new glasses
What I absolutely love about these videos is that although they are packed and presented as advice for making men more attracted and get the attention because they come from a very pretty woman like Courtney, they are, in their base, just awesome advice to make men better for themselves first. This is amazing and we thank you a lot!
1. Holding women accountable
2. Being a good guy.
Don't ever be nice. They find it weird and gives them the ick.
@@mr.mayhem7402 i second this, not all but most do and never tell her u love her first, she may gonna ghost you into oblivion.
@@mr.mayhem7402da hell I posed to do be mean lmao
@@JACQUEZ23 I'm sure he means the Mr. Nice Guy stuff - you know, bending over backwards to please her all the time. Be a good man (decent values, virtues, behaviors), not a Mr. Nice Guy.
Y'all really be spitting some bullshit no offense. Go find a healthy role model because thinking like that won't get you anything or anywhere in life i guarantee it.
I will confess that I have been very sedentary lately, but it isn't necessarily laziness. I'm a full time work from home software engineer and I frequently work late. Then when I get off of work I'm doing solo game development basically as a second job. And I'm doing EVERYTHING; 3D modeling and animation, programming and scripting, writing, design and documentation, even learning to play the piano in conjunction with vocaloid and DAW software so I can synthesize the game's music tracks. I play games online with friends and family every so often, but indie game development has become somewhat all-consuming. I find myself having food delivered way more often than I should because cooking or going out to get something eats my already extremely limited time. I'm trying to find a balance so I can at least start going to the gym and archery and taichi regularly again. I don't really care how girls view my lifestyle of late because making these stories I've written into games has been my life's ambition and I'm proud of the work that I'm doing. It would be super nice if long-term, my game work could become successful enough that I can start doing software engineering part time and focus on game work full time. But doing both full time (as I have to if I don't want to fall off the horse) is very difficult to balance...
solid list as usual. Lots of people who dont want to put in any effort talking about the list, also per usual 💀 protein and sunlight are a must, if youre boring or bored easy then find a hobby.. its not hard to implement any of the changes on this list
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Sacrifice for the future. Stay on your game and don't worry what anyone thinks or does. Get your life under control and work towards a goal by finishing smaller goals getting you closer to your main goal. Stay on your game. The rest will come with success.
thanks hanley you really comfort my mind
Men don’t need to be told to eat more meat and doing so is enabling bad behaviour. Better to tell us to eat our veggies.
I am fine with doing the hard things but after working 60 hour weeks and adding in workouts and eating healthy, this time adds up. It makes you be constantly on the move and it is hard to get balance and the stress plays havoc with your ability to be mentally and emotionally healthy. I would rather be slightly less beautiful to trade for a happier life
Very good information Ms Courtney ❤. Great message to humanity ❤..continue the great work ❤.
0:38 This is the one I needed to hear. This is my biggest problem right now. I’m a splurger and don’t save money. I use money for instant gratification, and often choose fast food over cooking. I walk, but I should run.
Eight Weird Things...
1. Being Ugly
2. Not Being Attractive
3. Being a 'nice guy'.
4. Not being a Chad/Ray-ray/Pookie/Tyrone
5. Being Short
6. Not Being Tall.
7. Being Fat.
8. Not Being Buff.
Boy go the fuck outside
Who’s Pookie?
@@gregrobbins3840 Tyrone's cousin.
Hilarious. ....most women have these negative characteristics.....yet they demand perfection..... what they consider perfection...... should be a new designation in DSM.
Man I feel like we get too much sunlight, out here in Texas middle of August.😅
Thanks for the content Courtney. Enjoy the rest of your weekend. I also appreciate the extra effort to have original points to the video.
I use laundry sanitizer too. Even on the washing machine's hottest setting, your hot water heater probably doesn't get hot enough to kill all bacteria. Using laundry sanitizer helps to keep clothes clean and smelling better. This is especially helpful if you must use cold water settings for certain specialty fabrics.
I use the old school method of adding both pine sol and white vinegar to sanitize. Use a double rinse method- clothes feel and smell fresh 👌. Many compliments as well - oh and powder detergent , not liquid
One thing you learn in food service is that hot water doesn’t kill bacteria.
Bro 98% of people dont use sanitizer and they still alive, so you are loosing time and money.
@@alejandropalazonurtubi3520 Correct, but it's my time and money to lose.
Only have 2 of these and already Working on fixing them.
*Counter-Arguement* for hands Part; Did you know that biting own Nails (contrary to popular belief),Can be a sign of - Intelligent?
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Also unsure why so many are afraid of doing? (The Hard things) *Critical thinking* is healthy, not a curse.
Don't you see her video is made of 10 000 short clips. Every 10 seconds there is a a clip transition. She just making things up like every other "influencer". Now days all a person needs is to have nice looks and a social channel to be on. And we all watching this crap while they make money and then "teach" us how we should be. We all indoors while she out spending money laughing with "perfect" people like her. That's how it is in this day and age.
It's nice watching this while playing Rune Scape though. Peace.
12:50 in the boredom area, talking about your hobbies, what you like or what you do in a boring way or like if it wasn't entertaining makes it feel that way, always try to talk enthusiastically about those things, even if it is sitting in your sofa watching a series, talk about it with enthusiasm and people will feel that it is something good and interesting
Great video, good content,
all valid points but I will say I absolutely hate wearing glasses.
Happy Sunday Courtney! Have a wonderful day!
You too my friend! ❤️
Wait, I'm supposed to shower EVERY day?!!
That's a lot of wasted water. Every three
More than once a month is just being a simp
If i ain’t sweating, a shower every day is a waste of time, water, and attention
@@angmori172🤣🤣🤣😭🤣🤣🤣😭🤣🤣🤣
Honestly, if you shower every day with water that isn't seriously filtered you're just absorbing some of the chemicals in tap water. Another way cancer happens among much of what we ingest.
This was interesting. It's Duelly noted this information could be used to improve one's self or to repel women.
Great insights. These are all things which I have had to learn, as I progressed further into adult life. (I'm now in my sixties.) Acquiring a good disposition towards the world, in the way you describe, definitely helps.
When I was a young man, my brother and I did a course on public speaking and debate. That was one of the best decisions we ever made. People noticed the change in us, in terms of how we interacted with people, and so on. So that's recommended too.
If men say that glasses are ugly...that only applies to other men! Women look great in glasses, including you Courtney!
Hello Courtney Ray, in another recent video you mentioned the women cycle. This topics importance is more than clear to me. That is why I am hereby letting you know, that the interest towards this topic exists. And I am pretty sure that that isn't the only case with me particularly. I would appreciate a video highlighting the mentioned topic in order to spread factual knowledge even if a social boundary exists, blocking communication about it. Greetings and Thanks
More PROTEIN as you have portraited here at #2 is exactly what you said at #1, "easy choice"
"Better choice" and "nutrient food" as you mention at #1, regarding protein is eating BEANS (all beans, chickpeas, edamame, peas, lentils, miso tempeh...), and not animal products.
14:13 I’m pursuing French, Spanish, lead guitar, comics, cosplay, and slowly adding cooking and art into the mix. I’ve chosen those as my skills. One day I want to delve into Japanese. I want to understand how Asian characters work. I’ll find my woman someday and I’m still working on myself, especially financially and academically. I’m still going to school and I won’t be ready for a girl until I can ace my financial decisions.
This Video Right Here Ms.Courtney I Completely Agree With You, ABSOLUTELY AGREE 😊
Courtney, I completely agree with all your points, I was going to add that going to the gym/exercising often will not only benefit your physical appearance but it will benefit you inside as well. You'll feel a lot more energetic and confident about yourself. Then with the takeaways as well, it's such an important skill to be able to cook - plus I've heard many women find men who can cook more attractive haha. It'll feel more rewarding and fulfilling if you make your own food, of course you can still get takeaways but do it within moderation, ultimately you don't want to become too dependent on them.
Though on another note I do find that at times I can spend a bit too much time on my phone, currently I'm working on improving that by finding more hobbies and learning more skills be that DIY, Sports or even anything Tech related. The key is that you should try to avoid being bored. Being bored unfortunatlely leads to bad consequences, where people become more apathetic, lethargic and unhealthy due to bad eating habits and spending more time scolling on your phone compared to normally.
Going to gym is one of the "do the easy thing". Start at a real sport, be a part of a team, get out and feel the nature and put in an effort to get the long term benefits.
I like your videos, they offer good advice and help me understand where maybe I can improve in life! I also started using Tiege Hanley after seeing one of your videos, works great and I have got a lot more compliments than I expected!
Many valid points.
16:49 "Bad Posture". My best friend is a really cool dude, great sense of humour, nice job, nice home, always nice clothes and a nice car. BUT he suffers from a milder form of scoliosis since birth which makes his posture somewhat bad. Does this make him ugly from a female perspective...??? Just curious.
Yes - of course it does !
@@andersnielsen6044 I like your total honesty, no filters 😂👍
@@andersnielsen6044what the hell
can tell you: yes.
"My husband is handsome without glasses", I love it Courteney, big ups to Teddy bear
Thanks for your honesty
Thank you Miss Courtney
Great video!
I remember i passed out at home on my recliner eating a 5 dollars Mcdonalds meal....but that's because I was exhausted after bike riding about 10 files on a sorching 100f heat, it was a good challenge and I sweat a lot without passing out because I drank water midway. Give us some credit!
I love the sweaters you put on. So lovely ☺️
Pink today. ☺️💕
Nice to see Courtney has a notification squad.😮
Happy Sunday.😅
Here we go.💜
Edit update
Happy August too.
Hi my friend! 🩷
I do things for me. I do hard things often enough for work and for myself. Do your own things.
I wear glasses. If you don't like that, go away.
I work LONG hours when I'm in the field. When I'm not, I work LONG hours in the office. I don't have the luxury of working out, fixing a high-protein meal every night.
Oh, and I'm not 6'5" with a 6-figure income and I don't have a 6-pack.
Thank you so much for helping us Men, Sister. I started breaking out this summer and what you said about laundry is probably causing it. 🙏💜
Remember that soap is more of a lubricant for water than it is a cleanser which is why the word detergent is used and not soap, but you also have to worry about the chemicals in there that will also affect your skin as well as your physical health because there are a lot of chemicals out there like fabric softener that will get into your skin and can cause cancers. Can't forget about the chemicals in dryer sheets that actually destroy your clothing a lot faster thinning them out and making you replace them more frequently instead just use wool balls in the dryer
When I was interested in lasik they said it was "life changing" and I couldn't agree more! The younger the better to get it done
Good job Courtney 😊
Brilliant video. I hate to admit it, but a lot of these apply to me.
Courtney helped me a lot. I feel more confident with the girls around me. I feel unique cause most of my classmates wear dragon ball shirts and crocs. But not me I dress casual and smell good 🔥🔥🔥🫡
Good advice for your own health, even if not trying to impress other people
@CourtneyRyan It would be interesting to hear you talk about Ugly Duckling Syndrome.
I must just be really lucky. All of my life I've NEVER EVER EVER have approached a woman. I'm not rich, not exceedingly attractive yet i get "hit on" by women all the time. I dress well, I'm rather fit. I mind my own business and NEVER try anything to seek attention. I'm constantly studying at any given venue whether a restaurant, bar, club, etc, and it doesn't seem to matter. I even wear dark glasses indoors.
Perhaps women just love the "leave me alone" air I express. Dunno.
One other thing. I don't ask women out on dates. They ask me. Anyone ever have this happen to them all the time?
Some of you may think that perhaps i am attractive and that's the reason, but honestly I'm average at best to most women. Doesn't matter it seems.
Btw I've asked women about my looks. MANY. Most say I'm average.
If you aren’t lying about this whole comment, then you’re just more attractive than you think. That’s all women care about.
100% sure this guy is single
@@jP-nw7nmI am single, by choice. And why? Why would any man choose to be in a relationship when the world is open to me to see? Boredom doesn't exist in my life. And why have one woman when you can have many? Why stay in one place like a "man cave" when the world is out there? Don't be a simp be the SIGMA God made us to be. Travel, learn, build wisdom within.
Soon I'll be a multimillionaire and traveling the world even moreso. Why be in a relationship??? Makes no sense to me.
@@PikawarpsI've asked women most say I've average looks but above average body. Maybe it's my body. 🤷
Btw I don't have a "Rock" type body. I'm very slim and more of a Bruce Lee body.
@@paulv2394when the average American is obese, being healthy weight/shape is a boon
(Men can benefit from a womans perspective)
1. Procrastinating and short time pleasure seaking (I think all of us can relate to that)
2.Working out and other, even small meaningful things.
3. Proteinintake.
4. Proper Skincare.
5. Sunlightexpore (even 30-60 Minutes is enough) Being inside all day long damages the mental health
6. Laundry Issues (Had that problem and developed bad acne because of it)
7. Wrong glasses.
8. Being bored or being boring.
9. You have Jump Scare Hands.
10. Poor Posture.
Hello Courtney from the Youngstown area! Have an amazing day!! 🙂
Also try letting your laundry dry on a clothesline. The sunlight kills all germs and the smell of sun dried laundry can't be beat!
My clothes would be covered in spiderwebs after about an hour. The spiders here are ruthless and act like they pay rent
@@jason55189 They sublet? 😉
15:52, this part got me rolling on the floor😂
Desperately need some sleep… and it shows in my face. Ever since getting my heart broken, I’ve gotten a lot uglier. She made me better in every way, and now life is just pretty empty.
I’m going through the same thing brother! Just know you’re not alone. Life has been empty and meaningless with her gone.. but being active and being close with family and friends has helped numb the pain for a while or at least get my mind off her for a little. Fight the good fight man! I hope things get better for you!
@@_Brods_ I wish being with family helped, but I’m kind of a caregiver for a couple of members of my family. I financially support them and maintain the house. I saw her and her children and her whole family as a whole new world I was ready to walk right in to. I’m just ready to move on from this place in my life. I was terribly lonely when she came into my life, and now everything is just that much darker now that she’s gone.
Thanks Courtney.
Another excellent video, Courtney. You speak precious wisdom.
Question, what if one of your hobbies is making memes and photo edits to social media accounts on your phone? Even though our faces are buried in our phones, we’re still engaging in a hobby (though weird and nerdy) on our mobile devices. It’s kind of a catch-22, as it facilitates being antisocial. What are your thoughts? Is there a middle ground? Thanks. 😊
Your voice is very soothing.